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How do you come to terms with how you look in the mirror? I am above average and probably have the potential to look pretty good if i took better care of myself, however i keep growing increasingly more unwilling to show myself outside because i feel uglier and uglier. The better i dress the more i feel like i dress like shit because it feels like i do not know shit.

Self perception thread fa, do you think you are ugly or real nice looking? does your self perception change throughout the day? For me my latest mirror glance always dictates how the next hours will feel mentally, until i get a good version of myself through a reflection
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>>12703394
i like to think im good looking but i feel ugly sometimes, i look like alexander skarsgard but female and idk if that works
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Therapy
Knowledge of various self help methods
Good habits
Discipline
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I have narcissistic personality disorder so I think I look great all the time :-)
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>>12703746
Is it genuinely diagnosed? If so do you understand that its a delusion?
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>>12704311
Yes it is indeed professionally diagnosed. I do understand that it's a "delusion" but I don't really care. I know I look good and I know other people know I look good. I never have self confidence issues because I know that other people love talking to me and being around me.
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>>12703394
It all depends on my hair, most of the time, and skin. But most of the time I feel like I look shit no matter how many times people tell me that I am cute. It's all about confidence
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Dress like a basic bitch. 99% of the shit you see on /fa/ is ugly as hell to the majority of people you meet. If all you care about is how you are percieved then stay as far away from /fa/ as possible.
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>>12703394
At least you're honest about your looks, humility is a sign of intelligence and suggests that you're probably not as bad as you think you are. People who believe they're good looking are often deluded, and some of the most beautiful people I know have extremely low self-esteem.
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>>12703394
Don't rely on the mirror too much, it'll distort your perception of yourself. Always remember that your mirror image does not look exactly like you in real life. Get a second opinion from someone else in real life, assuming they won't lie to you.
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>>12703394
Stop browsing /fa/.
For real.
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We are similar, OP. I also think I could look pretty good with some work, but I would give myself a 6/10 on most days.
I even doubt the "with some work" bit to be honest. I always had low self steem and whatever I did to better myself just marginally improved my confidence, losing weight and using braces, for example.
Those last few months have been specially difficut for me, I had a surgery to fix my jaw (turns out the braces were not enough) and now my face is pretty different from what I was used to, also a bit swollen and crooked in some places (paresthesia).
The daily fear of regreting it feels amazing.
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I would be a 10/10 godlike man if it wasn't for years of adderall and early onset baldness making me look beat and old. I would kill ten babies to fix the adderall and a hundred to be able to talk younger me out of doing adderall.

Good part is I still look 10/10 in the dark or if I wear a hat.
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>>12704336
But you know that someone actually diagnosed that what you "know" is wrong, right? The diagnose is based in you thinking you know things that are actually untrue.

That said even though you're probably a grade a cunt that nobody likes, confidence goes a very very long way.
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I guess I'm probably somewhere between below average/kinda ugly looks.

You just kinda get used to it after being exposed to it every time you walk in front of a mirror.

Used to bother the fuck outta me desu but over time I stopped giving a damn about things that are (mostly) outta my control.
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>>12705590
That's their opinion, that I have a disorder that makes me self-obsessed, but I just think I'm worth obsessing over. I know I look good. I know people love talking to me. I know I'm great company. I'm definitely not a cunt, I'm amazing.
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I have some imperfections that deviate from the "ideal" like underdeveloped maxilla and not having Chad like jaws but I'm very happy with how my face turned out. When I look in the mirror I can't help but say, damn I'm good looking
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If you wear a beard, never ever shave if you've forgotten what you look like underneath it all

feeling legit like visiting Gandy now Tbh
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>>12705626
U are me
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-Lose weight
-Fix your posture
-Fix hygiene

Just this much is enough to turn an ugly son of a bitch into an ugly son of a bitch who tricked everyone into thinking that they are an otherworldly beauty
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>do you think you are ugly or real nice looking?
I know I'm not god-tier, but I also know I'm way far from the worse.
>does your self perception change throughout the day?
Usually after hectic work hours, I do not look fresh, but I can fix that.
>mirror thing
You and I are the same, but I've felt that countless times for years now, I'm so tired of being sad just because my look on tge mirror isnt fresh. So now I just sorta dont give a shit now. My mindset is just "fix it and get over ASAP" avoid unneccesary hassle and stress
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>>12703708
>Discipline
What discipline are you talking about ? Is it discipline of not looking into the mirror ?
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>>12704387
What if I look worse than what's shown in the mirror?
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>>12703394
I think I'm good looking and If I go out in something I end up not liking or puts me off I get really frustrated and embrassed because I like to coordinate my look exactly the way I plan. Really, it's all about finding your personal style. Unless you can afford it and it makes you happy, don't dress to be "fashionable". I don't dress in high fashion or follow/conform to the latest trends but I'm still knowledgeable. Presentation is more important and yourself as an individual is more important than what some Taiwanese World War Two Memorabilia Collector imageboard thinks.
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>>12704336
>>12706314
... this has to be bait
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>>12708526
No anon, it's probably not. This is actually how people with NPD think. It's like they live in another world where they're God's gift to everyone.
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>>12708601
I feel like having NPD would have an amazing benefit in which...

you think everyone likes you
and you're not afraid of being an asshole because you think everyone likes you

no self-consciousness or problems w your appearance
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become narcissistic about your self appearance.
confidence makes even the basic of clothing look good
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I must be full-blown dysmorphic at this point. I can't even tell what I look like because every time I look, it is like a whole new, different person.

I can analyze my features individually and say "this isn't so bad, that isn't so bad, this is an uncommon and desirable trait." I can look at other people and say to myself "yes, I look somewhat like them." I can stop and think: I'm skinny, I have good grooming, I wear clothes that fit, my skin is clear and has never had acne. But whenever I see myself as a whole it absolutely disgusts me and leaves me in a state of deep depression and self-loathing.

Going to any store with mirrors feels like navigating a minefield. Especially irritating of late is that many places with self-checkouts have now added cameras and screens, presumably to remind idiots that someone is watching. But accidentally catching a glimpse of my face on a fish-eye lens under fluorescent lights is enough to ruin my mood for a week.
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I oscillate between thinking I'm ok and the ugliest being to ever walk on Earth.
When I think I'm ok I'm almost confident, when I think I'm ugly I detest my face so much I don't recognise myself in a mirror.
I used to have even lower self esteem, and that would happen constantly, to the point I thought I was being followed because I wouldn't recognise myself in the reflection of windows or cars.
I've started taking care of myself now, which also means clothes and fashion, and that is helping too. I still generally dislike how I look, but now I know that it's not actually that bad and more a problem of self esteem than actual looks.
I still can't take compliments, because it feels like they're mocking me rather than being genuine, or just being kind, if it comes from a friend.
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good thread

i've struggled with this so i'll put down some thoughts

a bad self perception is most likely the root of a lot of your problems. like dating, socializing, making friends, social anxiety... once you change your self perception you'll be surprised how many other things in you life change

you'll be happier more motivated more creative and a bunch of other things

self perception is not a fixed thing. you can change it, you can make it better of worse. its up to you.

to make it better you have to do things that you would be proud of if you told someone else. simple things can actually raise your self perception pretty easily.

things like.

>waking up early
>keeping your house / room clean
>exercising
>not wasting a lot time on dumb shit (facebook, video games, tv, etc)

a big key to self perception is discipline

discipline breeds a good self perception

thats why so many people that do /nofap/ report having increased confidence and motivation

it's not because of the chemicals in your brain like those retards say

it's because they are doing something that requires extreme self discipline, and the discipline they are building from that is also raising their self perception which makes their confidence levels go up

another thing is goals

setting goals and working toward them will also raise your self perception (another reason why nofap people get the benefits they do)

last thing i got is thoughts

you also have to think better about yourself, don't lie in your bed at night and think about all the reasons you're a piece of shit. lie there and think about all the good things you've done, all the things you're good at etc... it might feel weird at first but just make it a habit to think positively of yourself and to shut down negative thoughts bc they are invalid
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>>12708694
Not the person you replied to but I've met two people with NPD that were actually diagnosed.

The first was the perfect outgoing person, said whatever they liked whenever they felt like it and assumed that since everyone loved them, they'd love what he said. Most of the time they did, he was literally the life of the party and everyone did actually love him.

The second was the most arrogant fuckwit I've ever met. He didn't listen to anyone ever because he assumed that he always knew best about everything. Even if someone was like "Hey dude I think that maybe we should look at this instead" he'd instantly come back with this incredulous "Are you fucking joking?" like he was genuinely shocked that someone has questioned his judgment.

So it's a bit of a double edged sword, but definitely some massive benefits with confidence.
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>>12708496
Try and find whats wrong and fix it if possible. The problem with mirrors is that whatever you see in them is flipped and slightly warped depending on the mirror. You could look better in some mirrors and worse in others. But for the most part, if you have the slightest bit of asymmetry, you'll find yourself preferring what you've seen in the mirror rather than real life because you're used to seeing yourself in the mirror.
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>>12710251
I should add that this is the reason why people flip their profile pictures in social media, especially on snapchat.
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good post
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>>12703394
When I look at myself in the morning first thing I think I look like a bridge troll, but when I do it right before bed I think I look hot as fuck. It's also pretty dependent on how my hair looks that day.
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>>12703394
Lmao

Everyone always thinks they are "above average"
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>>12703394
If you're attractive, girls eyes will light up when you talk to them for the first time.

If that doesn't happen, you're not attractive lad.
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>>12710553
This.
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>>12710537
>>12710537
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>>12703394
If my hair looks right I look like a greek/roman god. If my hair is greasy, Unkempt, or off I look like trailer trash or a foreign/eastern european restaurateur
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>>12703394
I'm just insecure about by acne and oily/red face skin problem.

Other then that I'm pretty confident in my looks and never had any problems going out until I got into puberty and this acne and oil shit started breaking out.
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>>12710553
Every girl finds something else attractive
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>>12712072
What did he mean by this?

Seriously, I don't get it.
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>>12712077
I'm a girl. I don't consider a lot men attractive that another girl does, and the 3rd girl doesn't like what I find attractive nor what the first girl does. The same as a lot of boys compliment me for my looks/style, and a lot of boys say that I look bad. The same with boys who like small breasts and boys who like bigger ones
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>>12703394
>do you think you are ugly or real nice looking?
i know with certainty that i am significantly below average in terms of appearance

>does your self perception change throughout the day? For me my latest mirror glance always dictates how the next hours will feel mentally, until i get a good version of myself through a reflection
yeah. i avoid mirrors as much as possible, if i can go all day without seeing myself i feel a lot better.
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>>12712164
Nice try but I never listen to what a woman has to say. Biggest mistake a man can do. Especially ones that browse 4chan

All I'm going to say is, I know you are trying to be nice, i grew up with sisters. but don't pretend like a single girl on earth is gonna turn down a 6'3" tall dark and handsome dude. Some things are universal.
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>>12712178
It goes both ways mate


>Dark
I would in a second, the same as most of my female friends
>6'3"
I don't care about height as long as he is taller than me by at least 1cm
>Handsome
Everyone sees handsome as something else
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>>12712077
What the autist was trying to say is that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. While I may find that a certain person is good looking someone else might have a different opinions because of his/ or her tastes in the opposite sex

Tdlr good looks are subjective
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>>12703394
I look like however the fuck I do, surgery is silly, it's part of growing as a human being to accept these kinda things as part of who you are
I just don't give a damn really, I look however the fuck I do, I probably don't see myself 'objectively' or the way other people see me and I can never get that perception so why worry about what I look like?
Life's too short anyway and people posting here are probably young and at their absolute prime, don't fucking worry about this shit, you have youth and that's the most valuable thing ever.

Tom Waits looked like a goofball as a kid, then he got old and started to look like charismatic fucker alive and like he has seen some serious shit.
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>>12712193
>>12712178

What do people even mean by "dark"?
Dark hair? Dark skin?
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>>12712193
I'm curious, why do so many girls nowadays dislike blond hair? It seems every time a dude has the meme black hair/blue eyes combo girls are all over him.
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>>12712228
Considering his use of dark it meant skin, in which case it would be also hair and eyes
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test
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>>12712234
I'm not sure, maybe because of contrast? I personally dislike blue eyes on people, they rarely look good. As to blonde hair, well, every boy I met that had them blonde looked bad/was really creepy, I met many guys of different hair colour like that too, of course, but somehow I never met (irl) a good looking blonde guy
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>>12712237
>>12712228
Google "tall dark and handsome". It means dark hair with darker skin tone (I.e. Mediterranean level tan skin usually)
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>>12712260
Every hair colour might look good, depending on who has it I suppose

I don't mind tan but I like porcelain skin a lot more, also as I have it that light, white person with a darker skin would make a weird contrast standing next to me
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>>12712234
jews have demonized aryan men and idolized africans. thats why, its also why your race is going extinct
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>>12712193
>>Dark
>I would in a second, the same as most of my female friends
Probably asked already but dark hair or dark skin?
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>>12712228
tall dark and handsome always refers to aryan europeans not african niggers obviously
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>>12712274
I'm eastern European so I don't have blonde hair. I think blonde hair is really aesthetic but a lot of girls I've talked to about it say its not as attractive.
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>>12712275
Dark skin, as, black/brown, I dont mind tan that much. When it comes to hair I like brown the best but I wouldn't find someone unattractive because of hair colour
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>>12709976
nice reddit spacing you fucking illiterate piece of shit redditor cunt fucking clown mongrel get the FUCK off MY BOARD R333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333
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>>12712278
blame jew media brainwashing white countires. blonde haired chads used to be the epitome of sexyness, but nowadays i guess a somali refugee with aids is the epitome of sexyness according to jewberg media
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>>12712278
"Pure" blonde goes well with feminine face I suppose, most men can't pull it off. Men are somehow more attracted to blonde girls though
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>>12712280

I read this and just chuckle at all the insecure kids in this thread who visit 4chan often and will feel anxious about this. I hope you guys realise the very reaction you are having is the very reason your sister wants to keep my dick drained
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>>12712285
This but unironically
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>>12712290


sisters^
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>>12703394
"When I look in the mirror my face don't match."
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>>12712290
Check out this anonymous internet tough guy. I'm white and have dated plenty of light skin girls, the only attractive lightskin black girls always go for white guys, why is this?
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>>12712290
I don't have a sister. I don't visit 4chan often. You sound the most insecure of all of us
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>>12712297
Because if they got pregnant dad would stick around
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>>12712302
>implying
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Great another thread derailed Into a /pol/ shitstorm.

>inb4 dudes pretend to be girls just to add fuel to the flame
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>>12712306
Of course, because only guys go on 4chan and girls don't exist and never comment on anything
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>>12712285
It has never been blonde haired guys that were viewed as attractive by women, it's always been dark hair. People have tried pushing blonde hair on men since the Nazis but that shit just hasn't worked out.
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>>12712302
I grew up in Mississippi around black people and would always hear Tyrone's complaining about how the "fine lightskin bitches" are traitors or whatever by only being with white guys. You guys are mad as fuck about this no matter how much you try to play it off.
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>>12712306

I never minded newfaggotry, the different waves of so called "cancer" but holy fuck if /pol/ isnt the worst wave that ever happened. Any discussion had on any board is legit doomed to end up to shit because of these kids
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>>12712316
Why do you quote me? I am not
>>12712290
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>>12712310
What little girls that browse 4chan are damaged goods never worth taking seriously on anything. /soc/, /mu/ are proof. Only summerfags take their opinion on anything seriously.

And yes, half the time it is dudes pretending to be girls for trolling sake.
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Am I ugly? Pic related are my ID cards. Starting from 2012, then 2015, and finally current
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>>12712324
Its true either way. He sees the post
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>>12712328
>posting your face on 4chan

Ishygddt
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>>12712326
I got here only because I saw my boyfriend looking at posts here so I was curious. You act like it's some sort of le deep web secret page that only certain people can visit
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>>12712333
Doxxed on fa? Nuuu
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>>12712335

shh dont tell him 2007 was ten years ago
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>>12712335
No, its just if I found out my gf browsed 4chan I would legit consider dumping her. Its a massive red flag. Not a case of much secret club
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>>12712342

You are browsing 4chan, do you hate yourself that much?
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>>12712342
If my boyfriend considered leaving me because I see people post on something that is not Facebook or Instagram, it would mean that he never was serious about relationship
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>>12712347
Its different for girls, unironically.

Girl that browses 4chan has a 95% chance of being a slut/druggie/direction less thot. Every time. Again, look at /soc/ or boards like /mu/.
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>>12712354
t. Virgin
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>>12712351
>Facebook

Hello grandma! Get with the times. Ive been on 4chan long enough to see how almost every girl on here is undesirable in one way or another that is damaging in the long term. Get defensive all you like and throw out your buzzwords. >>12712357
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>>12712354
I guess it's all about which boards they do and what they post? It's not like once you go on 4chan, you are everywhere, some people stick to 1-2 boards
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>>12712360
Author of "t. Virgin" here
I didn't get defensive. I just saw your post while lurking. What you wrote sounds like it was written by some sexually frustrated. Anyone who says "95% of girls from 'x' are always 'y'"
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>>12712354


boards are anonymous by default.

are you mongoloid? there are posts in every thread you read that are written by girls who have never posted their face on soc.

But lets work more on your statement,

what does visiting 4chan say about a man then? let me hear your sweet prophecy of light dear
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>>12712360
You know, Facebook is a thing, it doesn't matter if you like it or not. What buzzwords did I use? Are you surprised that people who leave their SO because of them visiting a website which is just normal are considered not serious in relationship? I know what I'm talking about, but you seem to be angered by my existence alone. Also, how many of these girls did you meet irl? And how did you know who is a girl and who's not?
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>>12712354
This 4chan attracts classless women.

It attracts sjw tumblr tier women but for some reason it attracts conservative men
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>>12712360

"undesirable in one way or another that is damaging in the long term"

- Fat virgin living at home
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>>12712369
>What buzzwords did I use?
Nevermind this, I didn't notice it wasn't towards me
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>>12712372
You know that a big part of this "conservative men" you saw here is women that you didn't know are women because they don't talk about their gender?
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>>12712360
I've seen the same in men. From the guys and girls I know browse 4chan, it doesn't seem to me theres much of a difference in how undesirable they are. Some ok dudes and girls, some terrible dudes and girls.
Being off topic is an undesirable trait by the way.

>>12709976
Especially goals and discipline are important at first. Good thoughts are a bit harder to achieve in my opinion, but having reached some goals helps.
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>>12712366
>white Knight defense force

>>12712369
>>12712367
>>12712374

There is pretty much always something off about a girl that sees any appeal in anonymous online posting. Especially on sites with massive public stigmas around them. I suggest you just take your losses and make sure your potential bf is a social retard that doesn't understand things like this.

If you're so confident about what I'm saying being false then just stop responding. But you know its true so you keep going. I had 3 sisters growing up so I'm used to this kind of shit
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>>12712381
You can tell it's a woman writing because they usually argue to emotion or utilize emotion in the post some how

Men are more technical and rely on facts
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>>12712381

LE CONSERVATIVE MEN

hahaha

just leave him alone, probably 13 year old shitter
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>>12712388
AHAHAHAHAHAHA
Get defensive all you want to throw your buzzwords
AHAHAHAHAHAHA
(First person you responded to)
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>>12712389
I agree, women tend to be more emotional, I see it with myself. But I also met a lot of emotional guys who argued with me by "hahaha you are stupid and ugly XDDD" instead of making a point

>>12712388
>Massive public stigma
Do you mean /Pol/, /s4s/ and /a/? I never heard anyone talk anything about /fa/ outside it, except of people who I know browse it. And 4chan was seen as "deep web" 10 years ago, now people don't care half as much. Also as I said before, I didn't use it before my bf showed me it, i don't really care about it much so if he told me that I shouldn't do that, I would stop, but not everyone is so sensitive about that
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>>12712388

"If you're so confident about what I'm saying being false then just stop responding"

Im not the person you responded to but this is the most pathetic girly little "tumblr" attitude you can ever throw at another person in a argument, just want you to know you are a complete bitch
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>>12712414
He has a point though if you state a fact.

>Woman are inferior to men therefore sports are segregated by gender


They will get emotional and will just go nuts because emotions don't care about facts they feel offended.

It's a fact that the girls that post their spread vagina on 4chan don't make great long term partners and whatever relationships they're in now are just temporary for the easy sex.

But they don't want to to accept it. Women are taught that lying to themselves is better than accepting the truth.
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>>12712414
>just want you to know you are a complete bitch
Wew lad. Is this coming from a dude or a girl?
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>>12712441
Do you know that not every girl that posted here has her nudes shared around internet? Yes, we get emotional, nature made us that way, but we still care about facts, not every girl is a basic tumblr chick, you know?
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>>12712441

Women are physically inferior to men.

What the fuck do you mean they get emotional about this? every and any woman i have talked to in my life about this knows and understands men are stronger. You are bringing up some shit analogy to try to make yourself seem logical but go forward to any girl and explain this and they will pretty much all agree except for some who will be acting sus towards you for even bringing it up.


Nobody is even discussing the girls who spread their vags on soc, i am trying to say the majority of girls here dont even say or post pics of themselves.
What do you mean by lying to themselves? i need some examples please
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>>12712451

I mean, lets seperate some facts here.

Telling someone to stop answering your posts if they believe themselves to be right is just a huge ironic logical fallacy that only a SJW safe space individual would use. pathetic
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>>12712297
>>12712316
Lightskinned girls only fuck with other lightskinned dudes, or white people/people of other races. If you're darker than them even by a small bit, you can forget about it.
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>>12712470
And they're usually the only good looking black girls. Makes you think. Sorry Jamal, stick to your baboon looking women.
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>>12712469
Answer my question?

Whatever you spin it into, i know women are super insecure and base their entire self worth off what guys think about them. Thats why you keep trying to shoot me down to make what im saying less valid. Lol. Asked out by an ugly dude, cry for a day, asked out by a chad, happy for a week. That's why you keep responding.
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>>12712519
>i know women are super insecure and base their entire self worth off what guys think about them

If you seriously think that boys don't do that you are an idiot. This board is full of "h-how do I dress to make girls l-like me?" posts. Most of the guys determine their worth by how interested girls are in them and how much sex they have. If you don't notice it you must be really separated from reality
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>>12712532
/fa/ faggots maybe. Weak little fuckboys maybe. Most dudes don't place their entire self worth on the opinions of other people.
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>>12712519

Im a man. There is no discussion to be had here. You are sitting here stating "redpill" truths while simultaneously sentences before acting like a whore who can shut down others by creating a deadpath in discussion in which you are right no matter the outcome like a safespace shitter. I was just calling you out on being a little bitch. I am not here to discuss le redpill terminology
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>>12712535
I can say the same thing with a girls. That only hoes determine their worth by guys. I bet you are the kind of person who thinks that girls only use makeup and dress nicely to look better for men?
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>>12712519

You are not engaging in any sort of discussion, the first sentence of anything you have written in this thread is trying to make people realise they are spinning the truth (the truth= what you are talking about ofc) into anything worse (what they are talking about ofc)

You are a child acting out like a child. Stop trying to make it seem like you are "le truth". You sound like a blue balled pathetic 13 year old who found out your ex gf was a total slut
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Jesus you guys...
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>>12712519

its so fucking easy to spot a bitch like you


"thats why you keep trying to shoot me down to make what im saying less valid"


Poor victim
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>>12712540
>>12712547

>le epic redpill truths
Seriously why are you defending muh helpless women on anonymous boards? They can handle their own

>>12712541
If you are a girl then you know as much as I do that most girls tend to base their self worth on what others think, especially guys. They want to look good and get attention, especially if there's a hot guy around. Plus I'm sure you also know women are petty and vain as fuck and judge other women worlds more harshly than guys do. I still could never understand why girls do shit like having "fake friends" to begin with. I hope I get guys instead of girls because holy shit it must be so difficult to teach self respect to girls than it is to guys.

>>12712560
Another white knight. I mean that is in, if a dude is ugly or whatever, a girl cares less about what he thinks of her. Since this is 4chan and there's no pics/ways to show status everyone is "even", so that's why she's trying to bring me down to make herself feel better about what I'm saying of her.
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>>12712576
I agree, most of the girls are like that, not only when it comes to humans. But I also want to say, that not every is the same, I don't think that it's unique or anything, but a lot of girls also see their worth based on how they take care of themselves and how intelligent they are etc, it's not always about guys. People also tend to want to look nice generally, doesn't matter if to the same or opposite gender, it's just nice when your friend tells you that your hair looks good or whatever. Yes, women are petty and vain as fuck, but I noticed that recently not only, just a week ago one guy got so mad at me for not listening to him ("women have to listen to literally any men and I'm authority for them" meme) that he readded me to some kind of /Pol/ Facebook and made a petty, long post about me. It's one situation but similar stuff happened to me in the past too, when men didn't agree with me
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>>12712576

why are you obsessing about girls. My only objective in this "discussion" (you being a self centered kid) is calling you out on saying "stop answering me if you know im right"

You know what i followed that up with?

i told you that you are acting like a safe space individual. Come the fuck on, if i see someone being a complete fucking retard i always call them out. Stop trying to spin a narrative in which i give a fuck about the person you originally were talking with. Is this what the fuck we have come to? you talking about female nature here female nature there but not being able to adress what is being thrown at you, do you even realise how fucking ironic you are. The same fucking "female" weakness you are fighting is what your own logic is drenched in. The same "female" egoistic values are the ones you are fucking exhibiting in every single sentence.

Oh nevermind, how about

omg dude, how about you stop answering me if you know you are right?


like that wasnt the most entitled white bitch 2017 sentence to ever grace this earth
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>>12712576

Another white knight. I mean that is in, if a dude is ugly or whatever, a girl cares less about what he thinks of her. Since this is 4chan and there's no pics/ways to show status everyone is "even", so that's why she's trying to bring me down to make herself feel better about what I'm saying of her."


Everybody knows that attraction is a thing and that it works this way. Stop pushing basic things as some kind of newfound knowledge of yours, surprise surprise this it is not news for anyone that isnt a bedwetter trying to spread "the lords message of female to male dynamics". Shut the fuck up already

why is it so hard for you to accept that you are 10 years old
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You've seen your own face a billion times, if anything you ought to think it looks plain and boring, you notice the changeable things like hair and of course if you are disgusted at yourself that's a very ugly facial expression.
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I dont give a shit if i am ugly or nice looking. Do basic hygiene. Being good looking and /fa/ is nice but if you are an asshole no one will like you anyway. Personality over Looks
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>>12713972
This is pretty true
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