>GF dies of heart condition >haven't slept in a week

get a therapist

>>12664783

Donate , sell them, give them to her parents so they can hand them down to other relatives. I think the latter is the one I'd attempt first. My dad died and his girl friend got rid of all his shit without asking anyone in his family if they wanted some mementos, I always thought that was a shitty thing to do.

>>12664783
Sort her clothes, store them somewhere else where you don't have to look at them until you're ready to deal with them.

Then >>12664793

>>12664783
My best friend of 10 years died two months ago. I can relate my dude. We used to share instruments in a band we both played in. I have kept his guitars as mementos and a few other belongings. Help's cope with this struggle a bit.

Keep something and give away the rest or let the relatives decide. It get's better anon.

>>12664783

Ask her family if they want them

If not, just donate them

Selling them will be a hassle which you definitely don't want to deal with.

Sorry for your loss anon :(

post nudes of gf

If she's got any big t-shirts you can try sleeping in them, it works for people sometimes. Don't care if you look stupid in them or whatever, it doesn't matter at this point

Wear them. Honour her memory by becoming her.

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>>12664783
Smell her scent on the clothes every so often so you burst into treats. Keep doing that till you get over it

I'm sorry anon

All These Fucking Clothes

What do i do with these clothes?
Her closet is full of clothes.
Should i keep them,
throw them away?
Its like a ghost that is constantly haunting me.

The things she wore are empty now,
like the shell of a broken man that i am.


I turned your words into a poem, hope you like it. I could really feel your pain just from these words and im sorry for your loss, i hope somehow you can find some happiness

>>12666268
Thats kinda beautiful dude

>>12664783
Sell them bro. Wtf?

>>12664783
Throw them into a volcano

>>12664807
So sorry OP. This though. Went through a similar thing with my cousin, the memories attached to clothes can be a nice sentiment down the road.

Even if you/others can't wear them it might be nice to find something to do with the fabrics. My cuz was a big dead head and wore a lot of their tie dyes and similar stuff, family got together and had a big barbecue and tie dyed shirts which we then all wore to the wake. Still my fave shirt to this day.

Also my kid sister died when I was younger and I have a pillow stuffed with an old blanket of hers, similar sentiment to >>12666145

Getting rid of it may seem like the best short sided solution, but you'll most likely regret it in the long run, box it up if you're not ready. Go through it with her senpai, donate whatever you all don't want/feel attached to

Oh, and >>12664793

Best of luck with the grieving process my man, sending love

>>12664783
>closet full on womens clothes
transition

God damn

>>12666074
Fucking kill yourself, seriously


cunt

>>12666074
This.

>>12666889
two dead cunts in one thread seems redundant

>my perfect life is no longer perfect
4chan is for virgins, facebook is the place you want to go. You'll get a lot of likes with your story.
Send me her dirty panties.

Sell the clothes bud. Maybe keep a few of her favorites as a memento for a while. I'm guessing you're young so the pain will fade away eventually, and you'll get better Anon. Don't lose hope, dog.

>>12664783
I'd donate them. If you're gf was a nice lady that's what she woulda wanted

>>12664783
Sending you lots of love from the Midwest, Anon.

I know its tough right now friend, but for the love of god don't harm yourself, she wouldn't want that.

Don't do anything rash, if anything put her things away in storage, ask a friend for help if you need.

>>12664793
Therapy is a meme.

>150 bucks for an hour so some shifty retard tells you shit you already know

>>12664783
OP, you should watch this film.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gxdQbc9L8KU

still not seeing the nudes

>>12664783
=/ send them to therealreal or some online consignment, sorry for your loss my man

>>12664783
https://youtu.be/akOC--OXYB0

>>12668336
when i was like 12 i went to therapy on a weekly basis and it had a very positive impact on my mental state. idk if that was due to me being so young and not able to grasp my feelings entirely well but if you find the right therapist i think it can be incredibly helpful

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>>12666927
Also this.

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Is this from krautchan?

>play every sport in high school
>pass out in heat occasionally
>think nothing of it
>get very light headed climbing stairs or raising up
>oh well just eat more
>scholarship to play football and run track at one of my dream schools
>go for physical
>have heart condition that's fatal in many cases
>open heart surgery this Monday
>no scholarships

H-haha

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>>12666662

>>12666652
underrated

>>12664783
Throw it out. Or at least get rid of it. I know it hurts but its THE way to move on. No joke

>>12669207
good luck anon, ur in my thoughts & prayers

>>12669207
similar story my guy, good luck on monday and for the rest of your life

>>12664783
For some reason used designer women's clothes aren't worth anything

You can be full Rick chick for like under $1000

So any kate spade tier shit is worth essentially $0

Call hookers and dress them with clothes of deceased gf and fuck them, I think you will find some relief somehow.

>>12669396
Don't even need hookers these days. Tinder for an hour and you'd have 3-4 below average feminists coming over for sex

>>12666268
You seem like a nice dude cheers

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>>12664783
>>12668336
>>12669123

i'm not that guy but i can agree, after 4 years of therapy, that it *can* indeed be a total crock. once you are sufficiently aware of health and mood boosters, e.g.––

varied diet with lots of fruits and vegetables
exercise
stable routine
enough sleep
short and long-term goal setting
hygiene
hobbies
drug-free living
going outside regularly
socialising
(all fucking obvious, right?)

––and are familiar with the way psychs deal with negative thoughts (adding positive thoughts to the end of them, de-escalating, viewing the bigger picture, etc) then therapy is only valuable for the opportunity to vent and (hopefully) have someone listen

this may seem obvious, but therapists can't fix your reality, only your perception of it. i talked to a phone counsellor once and he said "if you don't want to FEEL better, but instead BE better, then why are you talking to me?" and i stopped seeing my psychologist after that. being upset is a valid response to my shit life, i don't need to feel better about it, i need to improve it. and it's getting better, at least slowly, now.

i'd say OP has got a very real problem, and the way he's feeling is completely justified. a therapist might help but he just needs time, however long that is, to process it, and know how to move forward.

i used to just sit in my bed most days and think about my life and what to do, making zero progress on my depression. but when i began to consume more art, films, books and music, i started to gain perspective on life in general. it takes a refined, mature mind to be able to process great problems, OP, but i know you can do it. good luck friendo

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>>12664783
G-geez

>>12664783
Your story is /fa/ as fuck, keep up the good shit.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2R2Ck8qKWM
You could do what Elverum did and give them away.

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>>12672123
Oh, and if you're still here maybe this album will help with you.
The guy's wife of 13 years was diagnosed with Stage 4 Pancreatic cancer two years ago, and died a little over a year ago. He recorded this album a few months after her death, and it's easily one of the realest albums about depression.

>>12664783
I'm very sorry for your loss OP. I wish life would make you happy.

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>>12666172
My ex-gf isn't even dead but I keep doing this and it doesn't help

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>>12669097
>>12672123

oh you guys have such weird taste in sad music

first you start with this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4L56DPmFl8w

then you go here
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f59LWed4IXA

and get yourself one of these
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ugItUYMaOQ8

and you hook it up with one of these guys
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejJuTwuTNq8

then you cool it off with this one
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GUXz6gbuRZg

then you finish with this guy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p3NZn0mA_XI

>>12664783

I agree with
>>12664810

Put everything neatly into a special box and shove it under your bed, out of sight. Start talking to a therapist or counsellor and ask her closest friends, siblings and family if they want anything then you are good and ready.

DO NOT THROW AWAY OR DONATE ANYTHING until you have begun to process your grief


YOU WILL REGRET THROWING IT AWAY


You can get through this, give yourself time. I'm sorry for your loss :(

>>12664783
Donate them to charity and stop being a giant pussy.

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>>12672781
tough guy. sad!

>>12672108
mental instability and drug addiction is not /fa/. To be /fa/ doesn't mean buying expensive shit, it means being in control of your lifestyle and making positive impact on yourself and those around you. Fashion is merely an aspect of living a /fa/ lifestyle.

>>12669207
Are going to a japanese school for disabled students too?

>>12672895
Lel faggot

>>12669207
report back if you make it

>>12672895

>delusional poorfag

must suck to be you, you probably have a lot of things you're compensating for

Unless you like the smell of my cum I'd throw out her jeans

>>12668336
Nice anecdote retard. Got any more subjective experiences for us?

>>12664783
I'm sorry anon. But you should get rid of those clothes. It's not good trying to hold someone closer when you have to let them go

>>12664783 just cloneher bro