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Off-topic but how do I tell if a girl is checking me out/hitting

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Off-topic but how do I tell if a girl is checking me out/hitting on me?

I've just started dressing effay and I know for a fact I look ten times better, some would even say attractive but I have no idea about girls.
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tell her that she needs a shot of b12.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYtMYspzKBg
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>>12135595
The same way you did in middle school just more subtle, a certain look they have when you catch their eyes from across the hall.
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>>12135595
>I know for a fact I look ten times better, some would even say attractive
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>>12135595
from experience, if you glance at a girl and they look back then you in. go get em tiger
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>>12135609
>>12135617
Quick question, how do you tell if the store clerk is into you? Sorry guys I'm pretty sure I'm retarded
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>>12135646
>if the store clerk is into you
They probably aren't. Female store clerks are very friendly with me in a way that with other people I'd perceive as flirting, but their job is literally to be friendly and approachable and give good impressions that you then also associate to the brand even when you've left the store. I'd act the same as they do if it was my job, because that's how you're good at that kind of job
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>>12135646
Ahh man this is cute, Just ask her out dude. I would be careful looking for 'signals' from people in positions where they are being paid to be nice to you. But that doesn't mean that they're not actually into you, go for it
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>>12135613
Thanks for the smug pic anon will steal
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>>12135653
>>12135661
Thanks for the advice guys, getting out and going to the mall by myself was enough of a step for me today. I don't think I'll ever get to a point where im comfortable asking people out tho
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>>12135683
that's a photograph of you?
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>>12135646
you don't

theirs a girl at my college whos a store clerk and shit literally shits on all the guys who ask her out on twitter
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any of us that actually dress "fashionably" by FA standards have no fucking clue about girls or social interaction
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>>12135696
yup. as god meant it to be.

girls are for normies
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>>12135698
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>>12135646
asking out a store employee is a horrible idea 99.9% of the time. just forget it.
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>>12135688
Naw of a girl I talked to on okc and actually got her number but I'm pretty bad at socializing so she stopped talking to me
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>>12135717
holy shit. get back in there big guy. Just stop thinking b4 u text, works for me :^). Even if you haven't spoken to her in a while, just text her
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>>12135717
link? let me have a shot at it!?
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>>12135741
HEY BACK OFF. THIS IS THE MANS ONLY CHANCE AT A PERFECT QT
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>>12135736
Wouldn't that be weird? I mean what do I even say after like months?

>>12135741
Her okc link? She hasn't logged in since like dec 19.
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>>12135717
i know this feel much too well
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>>12135595
Body language and facial expressions can help but there's really no definitive answer. Although we're all wired to function the same on paper everyone has their set of quirks, interests, etc. that help form their personality. Ultimately you just have to put yourself out there and take risks. Don't be afraid or ashamed of rejection.
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>>12135756
if she hasn't been on okc in a while thats a good thing. she might be an introvert and then you guys have something in common. just say hey. I mean like you don't know this girl that well so you can't really go wrong.
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>>12135756
dec19? i guess the site either worked for her or she gave up.

good time to try anon
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>>12135770
>>12135756
exactly. GO FOR ITT
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>>12135768
>>12135770
She has severe depression and anxiety and when I was texting her she was like having a panic attack or something? Anyway I think I might've came off too caring? Or too invested? It sounded serious but if I looked at the texts I sent I probably just sperged too quickly
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>>12135798
lol she sounds gay
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>>12135798
i'm starting to feel more and more like this thread is all a lie. I want to see the texts
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>>12135653
I mean on paper it seemed like a simple interaction.

>Be in van store checking out shoes
>Grill comes up to says "need any help looking for something specific?"
>I get nervous so I instinctly "just browsing, thank you."
>Then she goes "I'm Meagan" and walks away

Am I reading too much into that? It seems to weird to just say your name like that right?
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>>12135809
I deleted the texts on my phone and okc (didn't want a constant reminder of how much of a loser I am) but I can link her profile if u guys want? She probably won't be logging back on okc anyway
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>>12135814
AAAAAH SHE LOOKS LIKE SHE WOULD LIKE ANN D OR RICK OR SOMETHING QT/10
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>>12135814
You had a chance. Coulda just said like
>could you help me find ..... then you ask for #
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>>12135683
Step by step you will get there bud as long as you keep moving
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>>12135814
You are. That's how employees talk, and they say their name so that when you ask for more help you won't just call her "ma'am" or something
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>>12135798
tell her to chill out
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>>12135798
Fuck that. No amount of qt is worth all of that baggage. Don't try to 'save her'.
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>>12135920
I'm pretty sure I'm ten times worse desu, I'm like r9k tier. I mean I wasn't trying to save her really, she just seemed like my type I guess
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>>12135933
Did not mean to say desu
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>>12135933
If that's the case you should want someone who'll uplift you from your funk, not keep you there. Plus, depressed anxious types don't take tons of pouty-faced selfies. There's a good chance she is full of shit and is just attention starved.
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>>12135989
Why would anyone want to lift me up from funk? Idk if just felt like we were on the same level
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>>12135814
yes, you're reading too much into it
that's how female clerks interact with customers
they have to be really obvious, like twirling hair, to be flirtatious
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>>12135942
baka newfag
& i meant to say baka
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>>12135814
She likes you bro, get in there

Clap them cheeks
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