Hi /d/, I'd ask this back home on /tg/ but i'm not sure if it's acceptable there.
So I've been doing ERP with this person whos fetishes are stuff i'm like, willing to do as it makes me laugh and shit...but they're totally non-sexual, and whenever I try to push for something more traditional that I can get off to, they start to pull back.
Is it unfair of them to expect me to cater to their fetishes, without having to reciprocate with even vanilla sex shit? Or am I an asshole?
>>7402111
That sort of depends on what the understanding going in was, but in general, an RP of any kind isn't going to be very satisfying if somebody isn't getting much out of it.
Ask if you can try to find some common ground. If your partner isn't even willing to try talking about it, he/she probably isn't the kind of person you wanna be RPing with.
Also, even if you can hash things out, if neither of you are into the things the other is—assuming that the E part of the RP is important to you—, it might be a sign that you should look for other RP partners.
>>7402161
Is that supposed to be RNGesus? The dice-goddess?
And yeah, like i'm cool with doing the shit they're into...but it goes on for like 3-4 hours and every attempt I make to turn it towards the sexual is just ignored.
>>7402111
If you aren't satisfied by ERP, look for a different partner.
How do people find one another for ERP? Are there any...rules or protocols or something?
>>7403030
Play /tg/ games, and learn how to pick out the /d/eviants.
>>7403030
Hey a thread about ERP? I guess I can plug my discord server!
/feVq5CB
>>7404031
OK so here's a dumb question, is this just a fucking orgy or like a way for people to meet and find other people into their shit?