Comfy bondage thread #3

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>>7195555
>>7195563
>>7195589
>>7195591
Saved

>>7195547
Can we get comfier than this?

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nice thread

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>>7200297
>>7200299

What is this hetero shit, disgusting

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>>7200673
There's nothing straight about it. He's just showing her his drawings and feeding her. He has to, how is she supposed to eat tied up?

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>>7201070
There's nothing sexual about it really.

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>>7203680
>reposts OP

>>7200673
fuck you

>>7203991
>being forced to eat pizza hut

That'd be fucking awful

>>7205090
ikr this is supposed to be comfy bondage not brutal sadism

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>>7205090
>>7205135
There is absolutely nothing wrong with using forbidden rites to summon a semen demon and tie her up and feed her yummy junk food until she falls in love with humanity.

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I've always liked this type of blindfold.

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>you will never have this

Why even live?

>>7207790
all of us can, including you

what small vibrator to buy for my female?

>>7208063
Here's to hoping

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>>7195547
>tfw no gentle dom to tie me up and cuddle with me while letting me be lulled to sleep by the sound of their heartbeat

God I wish that were me... How do I get that?

>>7208132
Stop it, you're making me question if I have a Femdom fetish.

>>7200297
fucking kimi no na wa happy bondage porn? jesus christ do i ever want more

>>7208132
Live near me, be cute, have similar interests. The chance of you living near me alone is absolutely minimal, so I guess try getting into the community or corrupting someone

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>>7209027
>Live near me
You're not near Halifax are you?

>be cute
Well fuck, never mind. I'm not an awful looking guy but I'm horrifically short (5' 3"). I'm also overweight but I'm losing it (30 pounds lost so far but still need to lose another 25). Not a cute guy

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>>7208132
Have you tried joining any groups at all for that?
Apologies if it sounds really condescending but I learnt from experience that if you don't then you end up lamenting it, and wondering what would be different, and all because I was concerned about hiding my power level from others.
As for the debacle last thread with
>>7195460
>>7195527
I disagree that there are plenty of other ways a vanilla bdsm can be entertaining, honestly the main appeal to the dom(me) parts is bondage, but there's a lot of fun to be had with powerplays, and moulding them, into new scenarios or against previous habits, (like that anon whose gf would order them about in a language they didn't understand).

The only way you can really do what you're suggesting though is just roleplaying it with a safeword/tune..

>>7209039
Not them, but subs can get away with being short fairly easily, as for the weight thing keep at it.

>>7208425
I think that I like 4chan better than imugr

>>7208425
>3dpd

GET THE FUCK OFF MY /D/ REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

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>>7209039
Eurofag here. So nowhere near you, no.

>short
I like short subs a lot desu and I think that's fairly common too.
>overweight by 30 pounds
That sucks but it's not at a level you can't get rid of fairly easily.
>not cute
Lots of people say that and what they really mean is "I don't look like a model".

Anyways personal contact is obviously outta the question but if you want help or have questions I'll gladly help you out.

>>7209046
>Have you tried joining any groups at all for that?
Not really since I kind of live in the boonys and don't have a car. Should be moving to the city in the next few months though. I just haven't bothered thinking that even if someone took interest, I wouldn't be able to act on that interest

>Apologies if it sounds really condescending but I learnt from experience that if you don't then you end up lamenting it, and wondering what would be different, and all because I was concerned about hiding my power level from others.
Yeah, I understand what you mean. That's how I've been ever since I found out I had this fetish. Even though I know it's very common at this point, I still feel weird ever letting out that this is where I get my kicks. I know that the only way I'd have a hope meeting someone with the same interest is to be open about it but I've never been in a situation where it's appropriate

I disagree that there are plenty of other ways a vanilla bdsm can be entertaining, honestly the main appeal to the dom(me) parts is bondage, but there's a lot of fun to be had with powerplays, and moulding them, into new scenarios or against previous habits, (like that anon whose gf would order them about in a language they didn't understand).

The only way you can really do what you're suggesting though is just roleplaying it with a safeword/tune..
I'm very open. I love the idea of bondage and even though I've never had experience with it beyond self bondage, it's my favorite aspect of BDSM

>subs can get away with being short fairly easily

I guess, it's just dominant women are kinda rare so it's easy to forget there are people who wouldn't mind my height

>>7209121
Try looking for groups like that in the city then, if it is a group based around then others will already expect as much anyway,

As for the height thing, I meant more that a lot of people enjoy dominating somebody much smaller than them, or much taller than them.

Like the other eurofag >>7209118 said.

>>7209118
I find a decent proportion of people into subbing have some level of self esteem issues in the first place, and tend to put themselves down too much anyway.

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>>7209151
You're right. From my experience a lot of subs like the idea of giving up responsibility to someone completely because they feel like life is difficult to handle or they're not confident in themselves, and that's where their fetish develops from. Not all of them, but a good amount. The problem is that a Dom will not fix all your problems for you.
At the same time, many want to submit so badly they ignore warning signs and the fact that they can't actually trust the Dom at all yet, and then wonder why they got burned.

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>>7209164
>The problem is that a Dom will not fix all your problems for you.
Yeah, it's fine for brief doses of escapism, but it's important not to get too carried away with it.

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>>7209164
God I feel that. I have pretty severe self esteem issues. My submissive nature bleeds out of my sexual identity and into my regular life in a lot of different ways. I know a dom wouldn't fix all my problems but god damn, it''d be nice to have a break

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To add some perspective, I'm a dom and I have all the generic issues of struggling with anxiety and being overwhelmed by life issues. What's the verdict here, that I seek control in the bedroom because I lack control in my life? I think it's silly to play armchair psychologist and draw imaginary connections between a personality and a sexual preferences. Everybody wishes that life was easier regardless of who they fuck or how they want to fuck.

>>7209634
I wish I could help you m8

>>7209769
I know it doesn't apply in general, and I'm not saying "subs are subs because they want someone to give up control to". But a lot of subs also think that a Dom will fix all their issues and stuff

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>>7209814
It's fine. I'll be fine. I've made peace with who I am and even though I wish some things were different, I'll survive

>>7209772

Thats definitely Ginny Weasley. Hermione is next to her in the uncropped version of that pic.

so I've recently acquired a very young sub and established a daddy/daughter relationship with her. thing is, I'm not used to being a dom so it would be very helpful if I could get some advice on training and molding her into the perfect obedient little girl for me. basically I want her to be completely dependent on me, as much as possible over the internet at least. she's already well on her way, she's obsessed with me and addicted. I want to make it so I'm her entire world.

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>>7210730
Thank you, the source incorrectly identified Hermione. Do you perhaps know where I can find the uncropped version?

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>>7210721
I, uh, meant helping you with the "getting a break" part more than the rest. As a person, you can grow, but changing your basic nature is next to impossible and will only lead to issues from my experience

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>>7210731
Is this bait? Sir are you bait

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>>7210869

Here m8.

>>7211130
Looks like it is intended to be Hermione after all. The one to the left is Anabeth from Percy Jackson.
http://mistereye.deviantart.com/art/Capturing-the-Magic-355374492

>>7195547
I've wanted this for so long!

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>>7211098
Oh, I'm sorry, thanks anyways. I wish you could help to. Just out of curiosity, are you a guy or a girl?

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>>7211486
I'm a guy. Sorry to disappoint, I'm just having my fun here.

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>>7211500
Who said I was dissapointed?

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>>7211515
...huh. I see how it is. I guess I shouldn't assume too many things from your images.

>>7211486
>>7211500
>>7211515
>>7211528

Jesus Christ, trade contacts already.

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>>7212020
Hey, you're the one who didn't post an image m8

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>>7212020
No real point since he's across the pond and most likely not gay

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>>7212337
Well, shit, maybe he is looking back at the images he posted

>>7208546
Funny OPM smut, that's a new one.

>>7210731
>implying you're smart enough to know if it's a guy fucking with you.
>posies

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>>7212356
If I minded a dick I wouldn't have said anything in the first place, silly. Pretty flexible in that regard. But ye, there's a bunch of water between us. That doesn't mean we couldn't talk about stuff though I guess, that's always nice

So did that Discord ever get made? I remember someone throwing that idea around.

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>>7212489
Yeah sure. I'm not sure how often we'll get to talk and I'll warn you, I'm a little awkward 1 on 1 but if you drop a skype or a discord, we can get talking

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>>7212793
Yeah, that was me. I completely forgot about it in all honesty. I'm setting one up right now. My only issue is, I might need mods but I'm not sure. This is my first time admining a channel so I'm not exactly sure about everything

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Alright, so here's the link to the Discord server. Let's see how this goes

https://discord.gg/5TV6BSt

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bumperino

>>7209783
What is that execution device!
How is murder comfy to look at?..

>>7222015
It's for roleplay.

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I'm not sure if this is comfy but it's interesting.

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>>7222216

>>7222216
>>7222218
>I think to myself, "Well, I'm going to be here for a while, so I might as well stare at the fish. They are oddly hypnotic."

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I particularly enjoy when a girl is "presenting" another one.

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can sex machines be comfy?

>>7209118
Are you a girl? I'd like a dom like that and I'm in Europe.

>>7223882
Well if you had read the rest of my posts you would know I have a dick instead of a strap-on. I'm okay with giving advice and stuff though. I'm in the bdsm Discord that got made a couple days ago, join and say something when you request a role.

>>7223882
Don't be afraid to join by the way, it's just very casual conversation that usually goes back to bdsm sooner or later and there are no old geezers yet.

>>7208622
>>7208623
>>7208624
>>7208625
I wish I had a partner that'd be willing to pamper me like this if I had a bad day.

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>>7226856
You'll find one eventually if you look hard enough

>>7226856
You should aspire to a partner who'd give you this kind of aftercare after every session, pet.

>>7227060
Here's hoping! Finally setting up a fetlife page with that hope.

>>7227152
That'd be nice..

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>>7227173
God's speed anon. You can do it

>>7227152
Bdsm or not that should be something that happens in any serious relationship in a form.

>>7227173
fair bit of warning anon. Fetlife isn't designed around dating and to be frank the site is experiencing some major difficulties right now. Credit card companies and anti-porn government officials popping up in multiple countries are making things really hard. It doesn't help that they guy who runs the site is not that bright.

Lurk in some groups before you join them. That's going to be the primary method for you finding a partner and you don't want to get banned from the big ones. There's a group named Profile advice. You should join that group first and get your profile in order. If you want anymore help just send me a message. I'll point you in some directions.

My username there is SortaSapioSexual. We haven't talked before.

Don't get discouraged though. You can find someone on fet. People will help you look.

>>7230854
Why the hell did nobody invent kinky tinder yet

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>>7205824
but PIZZA HUT?
not even a demon deserves that treatment

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fin

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I think bdsm and VR have some interesting potential together.

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Hey, anons! I'm hope I've come to the right place to ask this.

Because of reasons, the wife and I are on a sex hiatus, and will be for some months still. However before we started it I finally gave in and decided to dom her a little (it's her ultimate fetish). A little bit tying up, orgasm denial, vibrator play etc. She is very soft core when it comes to being a sub. She likes getting spanked but no torture or anything disgusting. So basically I've decided I want to continue this habit after the hiatus is over and get into this stuff.

So I want to get ready when the time comes and my question is: how can I be a good dom? Any guides tips etc.?

My current plan is to get her one of those maiden outfits. I would make her wait for me in that every day when I come home from work (maybe like pic related). Then I would play with her if I'm in the mood, but orgasms (from her side) would be postponed to the weekends. She likes the idea so far, but I would like to collect some other ideas to surprise her. She asked me to get a small whip and I'm fine with that, and my idea was to get one of those vibrating eggs, and just leave it on the table when I leave, and send her instructions during the day on how to use it.

So if anyone more experienced could share his thoughts with me, that would be great.

>>7235340
You must and i say must, keep even just a slight bit of assertion a bit before and after. Helps in transitions to sexy time.

>>7235340
I think one of the most important advice you need to remember is that it's not because you're the dom that you need to be the one to come up with your roleplay scenario. Even if she's the sub when you are both outside the bedroom she SHOULD be able to have a clean and professional discussion about the kind of roleplay scenario she would like to try. She should be able to point at porn she watched that happen to hit the right spot and which you can emulate. She would be able to write a list of things she feels willing to explore and things she definitely never wants to try. You can't read her mind and you can't afford to try things randomly. She's the sub but she also needs to be responsible. If she wants to be surprised then it should be a surprise that is picked from a list that you previously discussed. And of course, always repeat the safeword before every session.

>>7227152
Now that you guys mention this caring for my wife when she gets the man flu and after a session does have similarities. A lot of them. YMMV of course.

>>7235340
I think you're on the way, Anon - just make sure to keep some things straight to the best of your ability. Safeword and in-scene communication is huge of course, and note that in-scene communication can mean you don't _need_ the safeword. Example: one time my wife was topping me and I realized she was getting ready to fuck me but I didn't trust I was clean. So I got her attention, she got the gag out, I told her, she ws disappoited but we're grownups and shit happens.
And then we both had a great time with her punishing me for being a dirty, dirty slave.
Anyway, communnicating things like needing a bathroom break, getting the tingles in a limb, cramps or whatever so you don't have to abort and clean or worst case head to the ER is good. Nonverbal hints or a formal signal system like green/yellow/red.
Also, out of scene communication. Making your relationship unequal can be hot but it is playing with fire and you may need to back off on it. But you can act like it's full on 24/7 domination by adding some formalism to the way you communicate. You can probably google on something like "bdsm protocol" and find decent definitions full of near autistic pedantry.
Take what is useful.
In practice I've done it for a week or so as top; no sitting on furniture, speech restriction, none of this Master thing but go ahead if you like it, lots of ordering about.
Fun thing is, I got to help my wife to eat healthy and exercise more and she still takes orders about those things. When she's on top I don't phrase it as orders of course.
Heck, the most sever 24/7 thing I've seen is an old friend who gave up a _lot_ of autonomy to her boyfriend, later husband. She's anorexic and after 10 years he still orders her to eat by text when they're apart because the way she's wired she'll always need that or start killing herself.
Also, apparently lots and lots of anal and she's never liked that before.

>>7238493
Anyways, the set of things you can try is huge. The set of things you both like a lot smaller, and then there are the thigs one of you like and the other is OK with.
Research, discuss, test, give feedback. It may be the boring part but it won't be that much of your week.

I'm a virgin and I'm planning to go to some sort of femdom meetup. Is my vcard something that I should rather hide or might it actually be a good thing for... dunno a pityfuck?

>not fat or particularely ugly, just a shut-in

>>7241542
don't hide it, it's gonna be awkward

How do I get my girlfriend more into...the dom part?

She has the gentle part down for sure. She will stroke my head or gently rub my stomach as I lick her feet, but how do I get her more...dominating with it?

Guys, I need your help. I'm trying to remember the name of a bondage doujin I read years ago that I really liked, but I can't find anymore on my hard drive.

It was about this loser guy who was into bondage but had no one to practice it, one day he buys a self locking girl's bondage outfit, and it gets mistakenly delivered to his female friends, shenanigans ensue, she gets stuck in it and she has to ask him to get her out. I remember it was a really long ongoing series too, there were like 20 chapters or something.

>>7243099
Nana to Kaoru, enjoy.

>>7243118
Oh my god, thank you so much.

>>7241659
Maybe try playful acts of disobedience, or something to give her a need to assert her authority.

Might be chatting shit though, as I have no idea what your relationship is like, so it might not work

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