What is the best method to determine one's sexuality? All

>Find video of manly guy beating off
>Masturbate to it
>Find video of sexy girl working it
>Masturbate to it

Depending on which one got you off the easiest, you'll fall on either side of Kingsely's scale.

If no difference, you're bi.

>>7186863
i recommend refusing to care and just doing what your dick wants regardless of gender. works real well for me.

>>7186863
>What is the best method to determine one's sexuality?
To not base it off of fictional content, for one.

You like idealized drawings of guys that look like girls? Fine. Would you actually fuck a guy IRL? No? Also fine.

There is a fine line between fantasy and reality, and too often is the latter less preferable to the former, thus making it a good escapist plot.

And before you bring up things like shemales, recognize that gay men have no interest in shemales because they look like women. Men like them because they do. Primarily, your standard straight guy is attracted to them because of their femininity, as well as the added empathy because hey, they have a dick. Dicks are familiar, and now it's attached to someone you find attractive, rather than yourself (familiarity = contempt) or another MAN, who is masculine and unattractive to a straight man. There's also the added bonus of pussies varying GREATLY in appearance, from either fucking what to damn that's good.

In short, gay guys don't like shemales... because they are not reminiscent of guys. Men, being very visual to women's mental (half and half, whoo!) see attraction for what it is, mainly. See, get hard. Think about the specifics, get confused and your emotions and logistics start to turn the wheels.

There's also the fact that oxytocin, which I believe releases when you masturbate or are aroused, really does a fantastic job at forming relationships. You masturbate and get off to something enough, while you enjoy it, eventually it WILL get you hard.

I didn't used to like shemales, but I always liked anal. I saw shemales, saw anal, jerked it, felt guilty, but kept jerking it, and now I like both. It takes time and enjoyment on your part, but it's there.

>>7186912
I disagree with this meme vehemently. Going against what your mind and heart want is asking for a headache. The best, most satisfying faps occur when there is no conflict.

>>7186975
/thread

Also
>lately I had a harder and harder time to find video of shemales that fitted my taste since they're not as feminine (and busty) as I'd like
>futa are the only thing that I still enjoy the most, because they're exactly as I'd like them to be, but when I resort to hentai I always go for more perverse and physically impossible stuff
>tfw my sexuality is a fucking mess

>>7186863
go to a beach on a popular day.

Do you find yourself ogling the women or the men?

and the creator of the image don't knew what a Futanari is^^
Futanaris never have Balls^^ thats a shemale

>>7186975
what if had sex with a guy while very drunk (so was the the other guy) just to experiment and really didn't like it afterwards.

>>7187493

Then your subcouncious hungers for dick and the booze allowed it to seep through.

>>7187497
90% sure i fucked him (haven't talked since) so experimenting if you liked it or not irl makes you gay?

Its probably because I'm not clearly gay or straight but to me >>7186975 sounds like bad analysis. Everyone who puts it forward falls under the "I like dicks on girls but im totally not gay or insecure about my mixed sexuality" flag. No offence.

Then again, I'm putting
>>7186912 on a pedestal mostly because it just fits my experience more. Labelling things as gay or straight is counterproductive when there's such a huge and hard to define library of fetishes everyone has, including being attracted to the collection of parts that is an ordinary guy or girl.

I agree with the oxytocin stuff, and I also wanna say that being fine with whatever you fap to is the most important thing, without conflict. But for me there's never been any conflict in the first place except for the constructed label of being a man, being gay, having to be manly and having expectations about what manliness should be.

Seriously its just so much easier if you follow your dick. Every possible thing you can fap to is fine because you're fapping to it, everything you do or don't want to do in real life is also fine because it would be stupid to say it isn't.

why are y'all so pressed about what you jack it to, f'real. (it's because you're all repressed)

>>7186975
lol how uselessly essentialist

>>7186871
kinsey scale is trash

anyway, sexuality is a myth, sorry to say. There's no essential sexual alignment you're gonna be able to fall back on to assuage your fears here, no pre-discursive boner to stroke. Dehumanize yourself and face to post-freudian analysis.

What I'm saying is that I find it really amusing when boys get deeply confused when they get a hardon for girl-dick

>>7187659

>sexuality is a myth.

Thats a bold claim.

>>7187680
Sexuality cannot exists without the language that supports it, thus putting it into the realm of the hyperreal.

>2017
>Caring about sexuality
Get with the times

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>>7187659
>>7187686
aww look who just finished his first semester at college

>>7187756
as long as I'm dragging people into degeneracy idc about ad hominem. more pegging for me lol

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>>7187756
>his

>>7187757
Heya

>>7187493
Go try it sober. Drunk sex is meh at best, especially when you're trying new things.

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>>7186863

If it has a dick, and you fapped to it you're gay. Case closed OP.

>>7187492
kill yourself nigger

>>7187686
>what you like doesn't exist without words for it

>>7187492
>the creator of the image
>being here and not knowing Dmitris....

Guy I think our dearest Dmitris has a bit more knowledge than you of what a futa is.

And also, futa without balls? come on guy, you're worth more than that, I know.

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>>7186863
>What is the best method to determine one's sexuality?
It's real simple. What primary sex characteristics do you fantasize about/masturbate to? If it's just the female primary sex characteristic (the vagina) then you're straight. If it's just the male primary sex characteristic (le dick) you're gay. If it's a little column A and a little column B, you're bi.

>All these dickgirls
Quite literally cannot exist by basic definition.

>and traps are getting my dick confused.
You're bi. Or at least a little bicurious.

And as t. giant homo, there's nothing wrong with that.

>>7186975
>You like idealized drawings of guys that look like girls? Fine. Would you actually fuck a guy IRL? No? Also fine.
Fine? yes. Gay? Also yes. Closeted gay is still gay.

>There is a fine line between fantasy and reality, and too often is the latter less preferable to the former, thus making it a good escapist plot.
You just used 10 words to express what you could have said in 4, but pseudointellectualism aside, people's sexual fantasies have been well-known to reveal repressed or concealed character traits in Humans.

>And before you bring up things like shemales, recognize that gay men have no interest in shemales
Depends on the gay man, I've known fags who liked futa. But mostly it is a bisexual or closet gay thing, yes.

>Men like them because they do.
Are you implying that gay men are men are two different things? Or are you just an idiot?

>your standard straight guy is attracted to them
Idiot it is then. If you masturbate to something with a dick on it's own, I'm sorry sweetheart, but you're not straight. You're at least bicurious and (in my experience) probably closeted.

>as well as the added empathy because hey, they have a dick
What you're doing now is conflating the phenomenon where straight guys self-insert as the guy in porn, with beating it to futas. One of these things is not like the others...

Cont.

>>7188934
>Dicks are familiar[...] (familiarity = contempt)
This has nothing to do with anything, and makes me wonder if you had a stroke mid-typing.

>In short, gay guys don't like shemales
Openly gay men *usually* don't, but closetbois and bisexuals do.

>because they are not reminiscent of guys.
Other than, you know, actually being guys. And having the male primary sex characteristic and literally the most masculine attribute possible. I mean I would fuck a tranny before I fucked a woman, they're just not my preferred body type of man.

>Men, being very visual to women's mental (half and half, whoo!) see attraction for what it is, mainly. See, get hard.
Yeah, and if dicks make you hard, then unfortunately (or fortunately if you're not from the South) you're one of us, cupcake.

>[rambling about oxytocin and bumping head against closet door]
The problem, Billy, is that you wouldn't start beating it to dick unless you already had an underlying predeliction for them. Like, oh, being closet gay/bi for example.

>>7187659
>What I'm saying is that I find it really amusing when boys get deeply confused when they get a hardon for girl-dick
It is pretty hilarious. The cognitive dissonance constantly threatens to tear the futafag's fragile mind apart.

>>7187686
This, however, is postmodernist, social constructionist horseshit. Fuck off back to the den of closet Marxism and legbeards you crawled out of.

Don't. These are fantasies.

Finding your sexuality from them would be like determining your moral/ethical fiber from the video game DOOM.

>>7187686

This just doesn't add up. Humans have instincts just like every other species, and human ancestors had no formal language for the vast majority of their evolutionary history. Early humans had sex before there were any writing or education systems. You think every human was able to just "create" some kind of new sexuality with grunts and gestures?

You might even think you're being "progressive" but fundamentalists are absolutely comfortable with claims like these. They embrace them and then use them to argue how if you electroshock someone for 10 hours every day they'll stop liking what they like. It's a "choice", they say, or a result of immoral cultural practices! But their pseudoscience never works.

>>7186863
I love futa stuff (especially tf / virus tf) and request my wife to use a strap on occasionally. No interest in men

>>7186863
If your a man and you fap to women you are het. If you fap to men you are homo. If you fap to futa you at least a little bi.

Idk man, some things get you hard some things make you soft, trying to fit yourself into a label is pretty limiting. Remember the labels were invented to explain people, not the other way around. So if no label exists that correctly captures how you feel and act, then you're probably in a group so small nobody bothered to label it, or you haven't encountered the label for it yet. Just chill, get off to what gets you off and try not to worry about it.

>>7188959
It's a little different, you don't need to fantasize about murdering demons to enjoy doom, you do need to fantasize about some aspect of the porn to enjoy it, and the things you enjoy fantasizing about are products of who you are fundamentally as a person.

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>>7186863

1.) Do you like a feminine form?
2.) Do you like a masculine form?
3.) Do you like it when women have male appendages or features?
4.) Do you like it when men have female appendages or features?

If you answered yes to 1 only you're hetero.

If you answered yes to 2 only you're homo.

If you answer yes to 1 and 3 you're hetero flexible aka bisexual with hetero tendencies.

If you answered yes to 2 and 4 you're homo flexible aka bisexual with homo tendencies.

If you answered yes to all you're bisexual.

It's not that difficult unless you're in denial.

You Americans are so adorable :3 Everyone else in the civilised Western world is already over this three category bullshit. One day you'll too be able to understand that none of that matters. Kudos until then ;)

>>7189507
Assumes everyone is American. Dumbass.

>>7188798
>2017
>still thinks liking dick is gay
i'm literally crying of laughter right now

>>7189500
/thread

>>7189507
> :3
> ;)
Literally end your pathetic life.

>>7187686
>Only one kind of snow exists and one kind only, laponians have all these words to denominate every kind of snow because they are delusional
opinion discarded

I like the idea of posessing a humongous set of cock and balls (specially balls) and filling females up. The problem is, hyper male on female content, 90% of the time is 3DPG and/or furry. So I have to resort to futas which have thousands of times more content available. Over time I stopped mentally patching out the female parts on the futa and came to like them. In any case having intercourse with another male (or another's male parts) is very very low on my IRL priorities, so I guess that makes me straight. I never really think about it anyways, posting because the thread made me reflect upon it.

>>7186863
look up the Kinsey scale.

>>7187501
Write to Dan Savage and ask him instead, he's got a hugely popular column on stuff like this

>>7186863
>What is the best method to determine one's sexuality?

step 1: fuck everything
step 2: get fucked by everything
step 3: pick whichever you liked most
step 4: give up on determining your sexuality in simple terms