Have you ever told your girlfriend/boyfriend about your fetishes?

Told my ex about my bdsm kinks and that was fine. Nothing really happened which was dissapointing.(she was 100% inexperienced)But I never told her that I had the constant fantasy of wanting to cheat on her.

How do you think I met my girlfriend, anon

She was 100, now she's 230

>>7020990
now that's a long relationship

>>7021032
Just goes to show you that you're never too old to find true love.

Went into BDSM stuff. Started pretty light but slowly working up. It's been pretty kinky lately. Glad I did it because if not I'm sure it never would have happened on its own though.

My hand seems fine with it, yes.

>>7020990
Nice

Please tell more

Nobody I was in a relationship with, but one girl who was a FWB for a few months knew about the futa and bi stuff

She was into mpreg though so we were even there

I keep the impossible stuff to myself, and for one good reason -- I'm not interested in pretend. I don't want my wife to pretend to have her breasts expand, or to grow a dick, even with use of prosthetics. It is impossible for me to appear convincingly female, nor is there any way to make my cock as big as my forearm, or to ejaculate liters at a time, so that kind of transformation is also out.

If it was real -- it would be 100% different -- but roleplaying it or otherwise faking it is a major turn off. I'd rather keep the fantasies fantastic. It's not like we don't engage in lots of other stuff, so I just keep some of the stranger things private.

I've been pretty open with previous partners but never as much as I've been with my current partner.

We've been together for about three years now. One of the first things I felt I had to "admit" was my bestiality/monster rape fantasies, very soon after we got involved. He's not super into any of it, but he doesnt mind it.

We've also been open about bdsm stuff like choking, spanking, whipping, restraints etc since the beginning. Forced impregnation/public use makes its way into our dirty talk often. Other stuff, which may seem minor in comparison, has been harder to open up about. I developed a powerful fetish for smelling his armpits (freshly showered or not, I love it all) and it started as a sort of sheepish "you smell good" after he showered, and over time graduated to unapologetically sticking my nose into his smelly dirty pits. There was a period of time where he was weirded out by it, but couldnt help myself. Now it's normal for us.

The biggest downer in my life right now is that I have an overwhelming tickle torture fetish (receiving and giving the torture) and my partner hates being tickled. He whines and looks so miserable when I barely tickle him, and that turns me on even more. He knows I'd give anything to tie him down, tickle him until he's begging me to stop and then fuck his brains out. Too bad he doesn't enjoy being on the receiving end of it.

>>7021214
Forgot some things.

Came clean about having a fetish for insects (regular insects on genitals as well as the big monster ones) and oviposition, which is one of the only things he's balked at. He's still accepting though. I don't have a strong interest in putting bugs on myself IRL, as much as I like seeing other people do it.

I also dream of fucking him with a strap on, but that's a no-go. Most other femdom things he's down with - gentle ass play, etc. He doesnt like sissification, but damn do I wish he did.

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>>7021232
mfw I'm a sub make and I have all my fetishes
are there more like your out there?
or should I just end my self now

>>7021273
male*

>>7021273
You'd be surprised how many of us are out there. I don't have a lot of female friends, but the ones I've gotten close to are all freaks in some way. Best example - One of my best friends from university was a legit 9/10 who confided in me that she had a feeder fetish and loved fat dudes. Now she's engaged to a huge guy from Sweden she met on the internet.
Don't give up hope anon

>>7021163
Trust me when I say that is in no way a mistake.

Told mine, a little bit, and god i hate her long memory.

I tell my fiancee about (almost) all my fetishes. He's very supportive.

>>7020951
It's a scary road to travel down OP. What if they're not into it? What if they think I'm a freak? What if we break up, will they tell their friends? It all boils down to trust. I've opened up on some stuff and others will remain fantasy. The BDSM stuff isn't that hard desu. Discounting arguments about who's really in charge, when you tell your SO what you want I've found they appreciate the honesty and will try to make you happy. That said don't go from "I like it when you sit on my face to I want to be duct taped from head to toe and have you pee in my breathing tube' in one night. That would freak anyone out except somebody who felt the same way. Odds are slim. Start on the edge and work you way to extreme, if that's what you want. Sometimes you'll discover it was only fun to fap about it. That's how I discovered spanking wasn't as fun as I thought it would be. But I did get to wearing women's underwear with one gf. Probably would have gone further but we broke up for reasons outside the bedroom. I trusted her not to run her mouth off before I ever told her though and I didn't start with 'I want to dress up and prance around like a sissy'. More like 'I like to jack off using women's underwear' and it went from there. Sorry if this is getting long, I've been drinking.
TL;dr. Life's too short not to try

>>7021352

>Life's too short not to try

Yup.

The way I see it, communication and testing the waters usually ends up with more creative and fun sex for everyone involved, even if you don't end up peeing into the proverbial breathing tube like you'd hoped at the end of it all..

The best sex of my life happened after I admitted and talked openly about most of my fetishes. And even when they don't come into play during sex (for quite a few it's just not possible), I find it easier to relax and sincerely enjoy myself when my partner knows I'm a gross degenerate and they still want to fuck me despite that fact

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>>7021037
Nicely done.

>have weird fetishes
>gf is pretty close to most friends and shes a bit of a gossiper
>afraid of rejection

>>7020951

Quite well, prior to getting married last year (together for eight years) the gf and I would always talk about kinks and fetishes. When she found out I was into futa her response was asking me if I wanted to her strap up. I declined as its only a 2D thing for me, traps/trans/shemales do nothing for me in the real world.

I lucked out and got a woman who's not only completely okay with my fetishes, but has also tried to indulge me in them. She's tried to put on weight, but she's so active that she can't put on any pounds. I still appreciate the effort and DAMN do I love that woman.

>>7020990
>tfw was trying to figure out the joke then realised you were talking about weight

kek you americucks and your backwards measuring system

I honestly take it one step further. I normally tell a girl that i'm interested in that i'm a trap while we're still good friends.

As of yet so far, it's scared some girls away and really interested/attracted others. Thinking about it more, i guess i actually have a touch of exhibitionist in me.

What really gets my juices flowing has been by slowly introducing my current SO to more and more trap shit. She's become /d/ as.

I think honesty is really healthy in a relationship. I do however also understand that there are some things not worth the hassle of telling your SO. Yet, if you don't tell them anything, you'll struggle to get any sexual satisfaction. And if not them, somebody out there has your fetish.

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Told her I like footjobs and thighjobs
Got footjobs and thighjobs
it ain't rocket science

>>7021496

I'm this poster >>7021617

Those are valid concerns anon. I think it's a about a judgement of character. First from you as you judge if she will be trust worthy with something so private, 2nd, wether she judges you after hearing about them.

Even if you don't tell her, as long as you don't feel ashamed about what turns you on anon.

>>7021560
I don't really get why you can look at 2d /d/ick girls and think "fuck yea" and then in real life not even be the slightest bit keen. Not trying to be a rude boi though anon.

Maybe it's because mine came from 3d first that it's different.

My boyfriend and I both browse here, sometimes together. It's great. We're both more than happy to indulge in pretty much anything the other requests.

>>7021320
thanks man
I don't even want a freak
just human connection with some one dominant sounds nice

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>>7020951

We met because of it, in a way. It's been the best, because we're pretty perfectly matched with our kinks. I'm almost purely a sub, and she loves being a domme. The details of all that work out really well, too.

>>7021273

We're definitely out there, and it's completely possible to find somebody for you. I had just assumed that it was impossible and gave up the search, but in just casually searching out new people to talk to it worked out pretty well for me.

>>7020951
I'm a tits man and I let every girl I'm with know that. The transformation, incest, gender bender, futa, impregnation and other stuff i keep to my self because all that shit is too out for it to be realistic, like one anon said that the fantasies being fantasies is better than a mediocre roleplay. I have let my best friend know about the futa and the text based erotica.

My bf knows about some of the really vanilla stuff like BDSM, traps/futa, tentacles, and exhibitionism, and that went well, but he's not interested in partaking in any of them. He's either very vanilla or he's hiding some really bizarre kink... I know he's into transgirls (me), but that's it.

He doesn't know about the kinda weirder stuff like gaping/huge insertions, blood/cutting, promiscuity, and gender bender/forced fem. I feel like those would make him uncomfortable.

>>7020951
My ex actually asked me. I told her about my lactation fetish and she seemed pretty into the idea of trying it out. she was on constant bc though and I couldn't exactly take advantage because of that. The vanilla sex was so good and so constant though that we never really did any real fetish stuff, and me only seeing her once or twice a month after she graduated didn't give us much opportunity to try out her stuff.

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she doesn't liek futa art, but (we play D&D and other RPGs) she had a number of her chars become futa and likes to roleplay as them etc.

she also gave me her loli fetish

>mfw so many cool SO apparently
>mfw my last gf felt uncomfortable with even vanilla oral
She was a legit 9/10 qt3.14, but boring as fck in the sack.
Here i am a bi-curious switch with long list of fetishes.

>>7020951
with my bf both our fetish is crossdressing s we often wear each others' clotches, mostly underwear

>>7020951
I am working my way there

They sort of developed during our relationship. Wanted to try some of them out with my wife, she was never into them. Some time ago she said that she doesn't want anything else except vanilla sex once every few weeks and she said I shouldn't talk about my kinks. According to her if I want something else, I just have to deal with it and watch porn. It just saddens me that this is how my married life is going to play out.

My fetishes weren't really too hardcore and I think I was never too pushy with them. The most weirdo kink was probably that I wanted to try pegging but I suggested it maybe twice during 10 years (her reaction was "fucking gross" both times). The others: watching her masturbate, me wearing a sleeve kind of thing to fuck her, tying her up in a bondage sort of fashion, some slight SPH, and having her use my tongue instead of my dick. So mainly femdom I guess.

I have been feeling quite blue after what she said. I'd like to have normal vanilla sex a little bit more often since I really dig my SO and actually want her, but the feeling does not come as mutual since she shows so little interest to me. I don't even bother intitiating foreplay anymore because it really hurts me that 9 times out of 10 I will be denied. After many years of being denied, one starts to wonder what the fuck is wrong with oneself. I'm probably not even bad looking, I go to the gym three times a week, take care of my personal hygiene, and have a normal social life. I'm also usually getting positive attention (the 'wanna come to my place?' kind) from women when I'm out but I suppose it's because I'm not looking to hook up with them.

Have you guys / girls been in a similar situation? I really love her but sometimes it feels I'm only an accessory who's there to play the good husband part in the dollhouse play.

>>7021763
My current situation

>>7021817
I've been with my current girlfriend for 3.5 years. She's only into vanilla shit too and it sucks. I'd be fine if she would just sit on my goddamn face. It's a shame because we get along so well otherwise.

>Talking to my gf late at night
>(Been together for about 7 months)
>She asks about mye fetishes and kinks
>Hesitates
>Decides to tell her even though I don't want her to know about it.
>Tells her every single kink and fetish I have (Futa, breast expansion, vore, gore, absorption, and also kinks like submission, petplay, bondage)
>Long silence
>She replies telling me she has almost all of the same interests
>Thank you God, thank you so so much.

>>7021620

Not sure. It might be the exaggeration of 2D art. I have a similar situation with drawn chubby women, drawn chubby I can tap too, real chubby/fat women are huge turnoff.

>>7021880
I was in that situation to, just get out man, the frustration isnt worth it

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>>7022069
>she is lying to you

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>>7020951
>Sending farts pics from /d/ to gf for fun
>She gets convinced I'm actually into it
>End up admitting that even though drawings don't do anything for me, I always had some kind of weird interest for farts
>Farts ends up being a running private joke in our relationship

She was surprisingly okay with it. It helped her overcome her huge unhealthy shame of farting and she even said she wants to try farting on me one day (I have no idea if I will like or dislike it though).

>>7020951
Yes. I'm now married to her.

>>7021817
It kinda sounds like you'd be happier with someone else anon.

I told my gf I wanted to dominate her. she got really into it and asked me to choke her. it was great until she started crying. she broke up with me a few days later.

>>7021214
>>7021232
This sounds amazing....

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>>7020951
Yes about two weeks into the relationship, and we're into a lot of the same stuff, it obviously went well.

>>7021763
>>7021880
>>7021817
>>7021964

I promise you, and not in a rude chan attitude kind of way, that a healthy sexual relationship is an extremely for-filling part of real companionship.

In my experience, when something feels like it's missing, it expresses itself with different characteristics. Cheating is a common one, but even substance use, self destruction and frivolous spending can be simple symptoms of unfulfilled desires.

>>7021817
You remind me of how trapped i felt in a relationship i was in when i was younger. I was really scared that by ending the relationship that i was a bad person and that i was sacrificing somebodies feelings and the time we spend together. But by the end, i kinda hated her, hated how neglected my feelings and needs had become, and i also hated myself, for apparently needing something like that in the first place.

Anon, never fall of the old "well if you want that, then you don't love me" thing. It's pure bullshit. Because the simple reverse would be true as well, and we all know that it's more complicated than that.

Frankly i think that it's a lack of respect to your character to not want to explore, and while i guess i'm really heated because sexuality close to my character, i think it equivalates, at it's worst, to emotional manipulation/blackmail.

In my experience, anyone can be "trained" into a kink.

For exemple, me and my fiance. I love him, but he was raised by catholics. I was the first person to ever kiss him actually. In the begining just oral was "weird" for him. So I went slowly. Pushed his limit little by little. Made him discover a lots of stuff.

Fast forward 4 years later. We are engaged, and he's now almost as kinky as me. Exibisionist, choking, emophilia, BDSM, roleplay, impregnation... on some stuff he's even worst than me! I think it can only be healty to help peoples discover themself.

That being said, he doesn't know everything... like the pet play, or the amputation fetish. One day maybe...

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>>7022877
>emophilia

>>7022877
Glad you got a happy end haha.
I was...
>>7021763
Just one position, all the time, no variation.
Got angry if i even wanted to do anything else.
Never told her this, ofc, but i had better sex from a 3/10 amputee fuckbuddy i had before her.
She never seemed to get that it was a two person activity.
:(
Ah well plenty more fish in the sea.
Anyone got tips for pushing boundaries with the next?

>>7021063
Amen to that. Sometimes I forget how normal this place is apart from the images.

>>7022964

Start by finding out the boundaries. You might find a girl/guy (or trap) who you don't need to push to put things in your ass. Or whatever your flavour is.

As for pushing that boundary with someone new, it starts with trust and intimacy. Not something that you probably want to hear. But that's the case anon, thats where the best sex is.

>>7023330
Yeah i know that.
The ex im talking about?
Physically the sex was dull.
But emotionally?
Fucking someone you love is hands down better than some pro hooker.
But hey it did all go down in flames so maybe there was less trust and intimacy than i thought.

Met my ex on a fetish website. It helps.
We broke up after two years, but we still see each other from time to time for some kinky fun from time to time.
The girlfriend I had before didn't knew about my fetishes until after we broke up. Said she would have been fine with most of them, though.

(Yes, I keep in touch with all my ex lovers. My breakups have always been drama-free, it helps.)

Spilling the beans on my fetish 101
>get girl drunk
>get her to to name off her weird fetishes first
>say mine after
I am a coward also I'll never tell my significant other about my futa on futa dick fucking/denial into ball expansion fetish.

>>7022524
not to be a grammar nazi, but it's fulfilling, not for-filling.

Honestly just join fetlife and find a munch or other event near you. Like the 3rd thing someone who is interested in you will ask is what are your kinks.

>>7020951
I'd like to think if I ever had a significant other, she might either tease me about my fetishes or exploit them to her advantage.

Not gonna lie, I'd probably adore her for being that sneaky.

My girlfriend is actually the one who gave me a majority of my kinks, she's huge into hyper preg, lactation, breeding, bad ends. It's great.

>>7023424
Can confirm, found gf on fetlife. Just don't expect finding one by sending dick pics to random women, try to socialize in groups that are focused on the kink you have, go to some Munch if you're not too shy, etc.

>>7020951
Where do you all find these Dom girlfriends

I've just been banging hot blonde straight edged cheerleader types who are 100% vanilla and it is so unsatisfying

>I don't even have the guts to tell my girl that I'm bi

How could I ever tell her that I'm into hermaphrodites, cum inflation, horsecocks, urethra play and lactation?

Sorry /d/, that is not happening anytime on the near future

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>girlfriend is an artist who draws her own comics, wants to make a webcomic one day
>finds out I have a thing for bimbos and bimbofication
>starts drawing me bimbofication sequences of her characters

pic not related

>>7021763
>>mfw my last gf felt uncomfortable with even vanilla oral
wot

How the fuck does that even happen?

Well, my boyfriend is my boyfriend due to a situation that would be considered nightmare fuel for most /d/eviants- we were friends IRL and I stumbled across his Fetlife profile which exposed all of his secret fetishes and interest in femdom. However, I was into all that and had previously found him attractive but lost interest because I didn't think he'd be kinky. So everything came up milhouse.

Seriously though, what kind of idiot shows their face on their fetlife profile.

>>7020951
Told my gf about cum and futa fetishes, showed her some while we were having sex. She accepted it pretty well, not looking for it herself, but we exchange pictures of what we like from time to time (her thing is bondage and hentai, so there it goes).

>>7020990

Way to ruin a cute girl, just hope she gets away from that kind of abuse one day, nothing good about slowly killing someone

>>7023776
that's pretty lucky

>>7023780
She felt it was "porn-ish" and felt that anything "not normal" was disgusting and freakish.
Yeah she had issues.
Most annoyingly was the fact the few time i did something like that with her she had a screaming, moaning good time.
Then after she insisted she hated it and never wanted to do it again
:(
Ah well, good thing it ended then eh?

Not bad but not great.

I told my girlfriend I typically preferred fat girls, and she was very thin. Then again that wasn't too much of a fetish as a preference, but she still wasn't very appreciative.

It only came up because she asked whether she was my type, but she was happy that it wouldn't be the end of the world if she went out of shape.

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Honestly a lot of my fetishes were already covered in our normal sex so coming out and telling my gf them wasn't too big of a deal. She already knew I'm a huge weeaboo and am into all sorts of freaky shit hentai. She actually got really turned on by bible black and futa because we're a pair of dykes and switch off using a strap on. She was a little scared of tying me up for bondage at first though.

>>7023335

Some times when it all goes fucking badly it's because there was a lot of trust and intimacy tied in with it.

>>7023798
You've posted before. And i remember that story. (not that you should stop posting more though)

>>7023424
Thanks anon, english is my only language, but i'm still shit at it.

>>7021783

That's real cute. Congrats!

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>finds a girl online with similar fetishes as me, like non consent, futa, crossdressing, femdom, beast, and public play.
>and she's even into wincest, shota and loli.
>we become fwb because I was emotionally unavailable, but physically starved
>Time passes, and I feel we're becoming closer
>then she gets a bf because she wanted something more permanent.
>mfw she breaks up and gets back together with him constantly. We haven't spoken in a while because her bf hated that we were still friends.

We kinda started dating because of them. He told me he gets off to people listening to him jerk off so I told him I wanted to listen because I'm into that (and watching too). I got a bit horny and started fingering myself while he was jerking off and we came together. After that we started sharing our fetishes with each other (futa, bdsm, feet, muscle, hairyness to name a few) and I asked him out while I was drunk. Now I'm his little slut and he's my master. I've never been happier.

>>7020951
My fetishes are futanari, muscle chicks, lolis with overly developed bodies growth(muscle, tits, dicks) and sometimes femdom. She knows this and doesnt care because I only fap to it. I have that stuff separated in my head. And I don't want it to be real, which is fine since most of it isn't really possible.

>>7023854
what are you, some kind of faggot?

>>7024707
Become the trap an fuck both

>>7024707
Maybe she also had a cucking fetish?

I told my girlfriend about my futanari fetish. She actually thought it was pretty cool and said she was kinda jealous she doesn't have a cock. It's weird that all of our fetishes pretty much align with each other.

>>7025180
Get her a strapon. I hear Feeldoes are pretty good too

>>7023624
I'm japanese, but good luck friend with those measurements friend.

>>7021761
she plays futa in D&D games with other people? Wow you sound like an awful couple to roleplay with, shoehorning your own fetishes in there.

My gf reads these boards. I'm doing quite alright.

>>7023624
For those not understanding the joke in this post:
Metric is exclusively used in pretty much every field of technology and science.
NASA used it also to bring man to the Moon.

told my girlfriend I like feet and now she asks me to rub her feet every day. it's a win-win i guess.

>>7025180
>She actually thought it was pretty cool

How do(es) you/she define "cool"?

>>7021163
>I keep the impossible stuff to myself, and for one good reason -- I'm not interested in pretend.
This This This

My partner kind of prodded and poked about my kinks; She once asked would I rather fuck a girl with a dick or a man with a pussy, so that led to me admitting I like dickgirls, and then progressed to me admitting I also like transformation/furry porn.

That's kind of the worst I let out, the tamer stuff is that I like feet which she sometimes plays along with, and if I want to make things raunchy I'll make a point of smelling and licking her armpits.

Back to the point though I've got shit loads of fetishes just like your average /d/enizen, but none of them are realistic and just too embarrassing to share. I also hate role play, once she tried to get me to do some kind of master / slave play and I just could not get into it at all. I just like having hot animalistic sex, the fetish stuff I keep in my head for fapping because I just use my imagination for that.

went great, and some of my fetishes are pretty out there. go open kink or go home imo.

we shared all our kinks like a week after we started dating and she was then or is now into almost all of them. a couple even helped her out emotionally but I'd rather not go into detail

honestly I think if you can't share your kinks then you're probably not open enough with each other to make the relationship any good or last long enough. that's the biggest difference between this relationship which is working great 2+ years later compared to all my past ones which tended to last a few months at best

I've told her most of the things I like (which are pretty tame in /d/ standards), degrading, abuse, restraints, general stuff like that (on the giving side), and I learned that she has a really big rape fetish which I'm more than happy to go along with, and she even got me into dd/lg some but I just can't bring myself to tell her that I have a foot fetish.

I don't like smelling socks/sweat, I don't like footjobs, I just want to rub her feet and maybe kiss them a bit.

I don't know why I'm so hesitant about telling her, she probably wouldn't even have a problem with it.

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Not a single real problem aside from some slight differences in ability.

Me: Bi switch with pretty much every fetish under the sun. Trapped before late puberty hit me too hard.
Them: Mostly just likes dicks, regardless of body. Catfished people for fun in chatrooms at the age of 9.

Ended up meeting someone online who claimed to be a girl, three years my elder. Her 19, and I 16, just about to share close birthdays.
We talked every day. About everything and anything. The third day we were naming kids.
We shared pictures and videos; she loved my hair, long and flowing fit for a fairy tale princess, with the quality of a show horse's well maintained mane/tail, a trait I got from my mother.
There were times we would engage in sexual discussion with no hesitation of subject, eventually leading to that good old fashioned cyber sex RPing.


To cut a long story short, I had actually assumed that they were just some guy catfishing. I was infatuated with their personality, and I liked pussy AND dick. I'm not going to lie, physical attraction is awesome, but not 100% required in my book.
Turns out, she was actually telling the truth and we eventually met up, moved in together, and have been with each other over a decade now.
The only issues we have is that she's almost purely a sub, has many less fetishes, and an aversion to taking it up the ass, but enjoys my biggest kinks. Especially strapons and giving blowjobs.
The only one I won't touch, the only taboo, is that we're monogamous. So no more guys, no one night stands with girls. Everything I do is perfectly fine as long as sexual contact doesn't come into play; for the rest of the world I have become the quintessential cocktease.
But it's a small price to pay for the woman I love. Pic related, pretty much how we started out living together.

>>7021817
Get a divorce and some fucking self-respect.

>>7025550
I had the exact same problem, anon. Just offer to massage her feet, preferably just before you have sex if convenient, and she'll get that you like massaging her feet. It doesn't have to be framed as a fetish, it's kinda cute by itself.

>>7025382
Well not exactly cool but more interesting guess she just kinda likes the idea of herself being in the position of the guy ones in a while. As a result, sometimes we like to have play fights and fuck almost immediately afterwards (sometimes both). I honestly didn't know she was so sexually active when we first started dating... Actually I don't even think she knew either.

>>7020951
I only go about dating people on FetLife, as to avoid any disappointment or heartbreak if I were to find out they weren't into what I was into.

My crush and I were pretty open with our fetishes so it was cool and I was totally digging the idea of being with her.

Then she told me she was into NTR IRL and I dropped that harder than SAO.

>>7020951

My boyfriend does not want to suck on my chest after inducing lactation, however still expects me to indulge him with foot jobs.

It has gone better.

>>7026010

What a fukin' pussy.

I'm not even a lactation kinda person, but that's weak. What on earth is wrong with suckin' dem titties??

>>7020951
Told my Grill about my chastity fetish, she likes it and we ordered a cage

>>7021214
I hope he knows he needs to marry you

son, drop anchor in these waters

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My main kinks are BDSM type stuff, as a dom male, and every girl I've brought it up with has gone for it. Only had one that couldn't really handle it once we got down to the rough stuff, but she ended up really into gentler bondage and teasing.

I did, however, gain a kink from another girl. She was into beast stuff and her greatest fetish was to be a bitch for a big alpha male dog. As in, be naked and ready to drop to all fours 24/7 at home, get knotted every day, etc.

It applied to our play in that she gave me the role of alpha so I was supposed to treat her like a bitch. This developed into a Primal kink, or Predator/Prey, whatever you wanna call it. It was great. No words. Just knock her over or tackle her and shove it in whenever the mood hit.

If she wasn't in the mood she'd fight and I'd conquer her and that would immediately put her into the mood. It was always pretty violent. Biting, scratching, growling, etc. Blood was common. After I could just wipe myself clean on her face and go back to what I was doing before she caught my attention.

But as my parents were both passionate animal lovers that devoted significant time volunteering at shelters and had raised me up to respect animals, I couldn't get on board with actual bestiality, which was her end goal. We split up.

Weeks later she was walking a great dane around the block every day. She told me it had awakened even greater masochism in her than she'd had previously because the dane demanded a lot more than just sex, sometimes chasing her off her own bed at night to take it for its own, sometimes demanding her food when she tried to eat. She claimed not to mind.

What she did mind was it was too big to fit inside of her, so instead of the knotting she wanted so bad, she just got the end of her vagina hammered with the tip of its dick as it tried and fail to push, she claimed, 9 inches in, and then another 2-3 of knot. I ended up moving. Heard later she had the dog fixed then gave it to a friend.

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>>7026010
[spoiler]b-but that's my fetish ;_;[/spoiler]

Yeah I told my boyfriend about all of my fetishes even the really unsavory stuff. He was into some of them, but he's too soft/tender to strangle me and he is hesitant to pee on/in me.

He likes feminizing me cuz I used to trap p well by my own account and he is down for petplay and maidplay. Also likes my oral fixation (go figure). He doesn't like my little thing alot either but I sorta grew out of that shit anyway so np.

He's pretty vanilla tho

I wish my boyfriend would tell me more of his. He knows I'm trustworthy and we're into SO MUCH of the same weird shit, or at least accommodating and accepting, and hooked up due to a mutual odd fetish...

But even after over a year and retardedly overwhelming compatibility in every aspect of our relationship, he's still shy. I want to help him feel less shy so I can help him indulge and understand him personally even better. Mostly, I just want him to feel as comfortable and secure as he's made me feel.

Not to mention, on a more selfish note, I have this nice adaptability to fetishes when they're from someone I love. The thrill of trying new things or doing stuff you could NEVER mention to anyone else, seeing him get turned on and frantically jerking off to the things that make his dick diamonds... fucking Christ on a stick that is so much my UNF Bow Chika Wow Wow

But it's alright. Sometimes, on rare occasions, he'll reward me with something private to him. It doesn't just make my entire fucking week shine, it becomes a part of many a treasured memory.

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>Slowly reveal my fetishes to my GF over time, showing her stuff on sadpanda and slowly ramping up the intensity instead of giving her my most abnormal fetishes at once
>She's been a chan user longer than I have (which is impressive since I've been here for 9 years) so it was effortless to get her to check /d/
>Before I reveal some stuff, she reveals stuff too
>It happens to be the stuff I haven't told her yet
>Dumbfounded at my luck

>Then she reveals fetishes I never knew I had till she started doing it to me
>Is big on gentle femdom but says she's sad that gentle femdom general is full of people arguing so she hasn't visited /d/ in a while as a result, I can't confirm this since I don't visit those threads
>We can now openly discuss even our most secretive fetishes with each other
>Feels like a huge weight is lifted from me; This means I have to hide literally nothing about myself from her
>Going to get married when we can arrange it

Your GF doesn't have to share your fetishes, but I guarantee you if she doesn't at least accept that you have them, you won't be happy with her anyway, so getting dumped or rejected would be a blessing in disguise. If you don't trust your partner with these personal details about you, then there's no point in even having a GF.

>>7021214
I know that feeling, my girlfriend hated being tickled despite my tickle fetish.

>>7026160
100% agree. Your sexuality is a part of you. If they're not at least chill with that part of you, they got some growing to do. Move on.

>>7023506
Pls respond

I told my ex-girlfriend; it went pretty well, she didn't share my futa cockvore turnon but she was happy to talk about it.

>>7026141
I'm sure he's not telling you stuff just yet because it's more comfortable that way. Some people are showers, some are hoarders. Give it time anon, I'm 6 years into a relationship with someone who's still opening up.

Im hearing a lot of fetlife stuff but all i hear are horror stories about them

>>7020951
My gf is super vanilla and she would be disgusted by hentai. Her reaction to /d/ stuff would be worse.
Do you just go with "yea I jerk it to shemales, im bi-curious" or do you openly admit that its drawn art?

btw very nice thread

>>7027031
Like what?

>>7020951
Just recently told my GF of 3.5 years about my giantess/shrinking fetish. She said it was weird and she didnt understand it but she still loved me. She offered to do whatever I wanted with it in the bedroom but I declined for now. Told her it would be awkward hypothetical roleplay and I just like the thought of it while jerking.

>>7024899
chances are everyone on this board is including you.

>>7027151
Like that fetlife has a policy that prevents one user from accusing another from commiting a crime such as rape or that its almost impossible to get your info off the site just in case, even if you delete your account fetlife stores your info indefinitly

or that you can get endlessly harrased by creeps or get sent dick pics none stop. Heck i was looking up reviews online keeping in mind review bias and i didnt see many legit positive reviews

>>7021163
bump, because im just reading this thread, and i think that is extremely wise advice.

>>7021232
You sound awesome

My wife was raised hyper conservative, but moved away from all that. After a year or so together (she knows I am Bi and have had male partners in the past), I started hinting at her being a little more dom in the bedroom. Another 6 months, and I get her to admit that she thinks guys in skirts are hot. I introduce her to pegging. We already loved to cosplay, so we ordered a Sailor Venus costume for me, full make up and wig, and she had at me. It was amazing.

We do that about once a month now.

told my ex about my bdsm/femdom/chastity fetish. she was completely inexperienced, but was rather willing to learn, and actually not bad at it. She ended up being a lying wore who can burn in hell, but the sex was pretty fun for the few months we were together.

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>>7020951

I've never had one and the types of girls that are attracted to me are not what I'm looking for in a relationship because, problem is: my fetish/attraction is inherently towards confident dominant females who would regard me as their cute little submissive to feminize. I don't know how to meet anyone like that in a candid way, with out explicitly stating that, but then I also want to find a relationship that is a genuine and lifelong relationship, not merely the fetish.

>>7027457
Yeah, those don't exist in real life. And if you're a true sub, you know that the sub is the one who holds the real power. So what you've got to do is find someone you can slowly open up too and corrupt.

My fetish is /d/-sized dudes/size queens and NTR. Fucked around a while but didn't settle down for a while...
Until now. I've been with this girl for seven years, and although she likes BDSM in fiction, her real life fetish is VANILLA. Not that she's not into other things, she actively gets off on vanilla, specifically.

I can't even get my cock worshipped for more than a minute even if I ask nicely.

I'm definitely sexually dominant, but my only really big 'fetish' is spanking women. Told my GF at the time, she was super into it, was amazing. I think 40% of women like a good spanking at least once in a while, guess I get off easy. We're not together anymore, but she still messages me once in a while because she misses my spankings. Awesome, I guess.

>>7020951
It went well.

>>7020951
Yeah. I told my gf I was into femdom and mind control and told her this story was one of my favorites:

http://www.mcstories.com/PantiesOnHisMind/PantiesOnHisMind.html

She read the story and said it was "weird and unsanitary". So it didn't go well. The relationship ultimately didn't last long.

>>7020983
Man, if I could find a girl who wanted to be a cuckquean. That would be great.

>>7021817
Get outta there man. Life's too short.

>>7027323
You can just block people you're getting an endless stream of dick pics from them.
I've had a bunch of creeps that I never responded to, but I mostly met cool people and a bunch of now RL friends there, as well as my actual master and a few play partners.

That being said, I'm not a girl, so that probably helps. A friend of mine got messaged by two creeps just a few minutes after she made an account there, as a result she decided to set her age to 90 and remove all infos about her gender on her profile.

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To be honest i'd be more than happy with a dull vanilla gf or bf. I'd have to be retardedly lucky to find a partner both attracted to me and into kinky shit in this sparsely-populated northland.

I'm 19, in college, a virgin, joyless, miserable sex-starved. I have faith that one day I'll find someone but have no idea how it'll play out then or when it'll happen because I'm a coward. The last time I was in a relationship was a couple years ago, before I had any clue of my identity. I have very close female friends but none that I want to fuck. Sex is the norm here, and those who don't engage in it are emotionally penalized. I go to school where everybody, more or less, is career-focused and busy most of the time, so the vast majority of people don't pursue long-term relationships at all. I feel like I'm wasting the most potentially sex-filled years of my life, but at this point I can't visualize myself ever having sex outside of a relationship, and I don't know anybody that I could be in a fulfilling relationship with.

So, yeah, in short, the answer is no.

>>7020951
How do you meet people who accept your fetish? Like seriously, how do you do it?

Wife knows some of them. Bi, futa, sph, some cuck shit but that's something I realized doesn't translate to irl for me. Sissy hypno I think she knows about. My sph is rather extreme but doesn't come out of the bedroom, she knows about the age and race compentent part of it and is fine.

Shit she doesn't know about: my hardcore rape fantasies and monster girls

>>7029065
>Step 1: Bring up your fetish in conversation.
>Step 2: Ask people what they think about your fetish.
>Step 3: If response is positive, tell people that it's actually a fetish you have.

> Into some pretty rough BDSM stuff, I'd qualify myself as a switch but I've never tried it so I wouldn't know
> No BDSM community under an hour away
Help

>>7029180
>Step 1: Get gf
>Step 2: Tell her about your fetish
>Step 3: If she doesn't like it, dump her
>Step 4: Repeat until success

>>7029185
That's a terrible solution.

>>7029191
I had a fwb (kinda) that first got me into a lot of my current fetishes. never had a bf or gf though, cause im a fat loser

>>7029191
Yep, just call me Terrible Solutions Guy. Terrible, but they're still solutions. I'm like one of those trickster wish granters, I'll give you what you want, but at a terrible price.

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>>7026128
>He likes feminizing me cuz I used to trap p well by my own account and he is down for petplay and maidplay.

Where do I find a guy like you? I'd be straight as an arrow if I didn't love cock so much.

>tfw too masculine in shape to ever be a convincing trap

I just want a cute feminine guy to feminize me and bring me into the trap horde.

>>7021817
It's completely disrepectful of her not to consider your feelings at all. Like she doesn't have to engage in your fetishes but she does have to respect you. You're lying your feelings bare and she's laughing at your face - that's not okay.

As for the feelings of not being attractive enough, I understand what you mean. My friend was telling me how she has a wildly higher sex drive than her SO does and when he doesn't want to or keeps saying "later, later, later" she feels ugly. And trust me, this girl is a 10. It's not you, anon. I think you should try to talk to your SO about it, I think it's more of a major roadblock in your love life than you realize. If it can't be resolved, that might just be a deal breaker. It goes beyond the bedroom. Being rejected when you put yourself in a vunerable position is so hurtful and it takes a toll on your self-esteem/worth and relationship.

I hope you find happiness.

>>7023780
You'd be surprised. Some people just are comfortable with some sex acts. It's normal.

>>7023997
>hey girlfriend, I actually am more attracted to girls have a polar opposite body type but you're okay too I guess
Did you honestly expect her to react positively to that?

>>7024734
I could have lived without hearing that second to last sentence but good for you.

>>7027363
The thought of a guy spinning around and doing a senshi pose in costume for his gf is super cute to me. Good luck.

>>7023776
She got a tumblr or something? Some place where she posts her stuff?

>>7024734
This is legitimately one of the sweetest romance stories I've ever heard

>>7029065
>establish intimacy with person
>start off by sharing relatively vanilla kinks
>start conversations about what you're both into
>graduate into kinky territory
>respect that they might not like your kinks as it would be with the reverse.

Told my gf i like futa.

She bought a strapon and talks dirty like she has a cock. 11/10

yes i have used my tablet full of hentai to j/o while my gf watched at least 100 times and she likes prengancy hentai now.

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Told two girls I was with about my desire to get pegged.
The first, my fuckbuddy at the time, acted disgusted and asked me if I was gay.
The second, who is my ex-gf, thought it was hot as fuck, but we never got around to doing anything about it.

Is it too much to ask for to find a girl who will fuck my ass with a horse dildo?

>>7029386
Try finding a girl that owns one first.

>>7028451
Dont sweat it man.
Everyone has their own pacing.
Hell i didnt lose the v till 23ish, was originally waiting till marriage, and now im slutting it up hardcore.
Hell got a 3some coming up and an orgy in the planning stage.
Just take life as it comes man, have sex when you feel like it and never do anything based on what everyone else is.

That said, i hope you do find that special someone.
Sex with an emotional connection is...
Well its apples and oranges anon.

>>7029467
That doesn't tell me which one is tastier.

>>7029265
This gave me the shits with my last girl.
Told her id never lie to her, so dont ask me shit she dont wanna know.
>she blew her top that she wasnt my normal type
I always saw it as a compliment.
>normally you wouldnt be what im attracted to, but theres something special about you that takes my breath away
Eh win some lose some right?

>>7029470
Depends if you feel like apples or oranges anon-kun
Had my heart fucked over recently so no romance for me for a while.
Got 3 potential fbs im scoping out pluss the 3some and orgy, but just couldnt deal with anything..... complicated you know?
Feel like i got nothing left to give atm :(
Eh i know ill move on but right now all i want to do is relax and have some fun.

Pro tip though, erryone i know agrees the first time is a let down.
Maybe some people did get a magical experiance, but really its nothing like you prolly think

Recently
>"So tell me one of your fetishes. It doesn't have to be something I can do, just something fun."
>"I like futanari, it's like...When a girl has both."

I'm going to marry this woman /d/

>>7029508
Wait, so she imagines herself being the futa or is she attracted to futa?

>>7029514
As far as I understand it, she means she's attracted to futa.
However, we had talked about my sexual history [spoiler]With a lot of experimenting[/spoiler] and she said if I ever wanted to be a bottom for a while she'd buy a strap-on.
Not entirely sure if that was for my pleasure or for hers.
I assured her that was always EXIT only and I was all about oral

>>7029517
God, where do you people get women like these?

>>7029521
Suicide Ward.
I'm not joking.
Incredible sexual liberation and openness is an amazing perk, but we have a lot of other challenges.
I know they say "don't fuck Crazy" but sometimes you can't help Loving Crazy.

>>7029522
Somehow, I'm not surprised. Well, do what you do, hold onto that futa lover like you would your own balls.

Nigga I'm on /d/ with my girlfriend right now.

>Have vanilla gf.
>It's fine, whatever, but I'm sexually bored.
>Major fetishes are feet, giantesses/size difference, and futa.
>Fap to these, and keep them on my computer as momentos.
>Vanilla gf finds them.
>I come home one day, and she starts asking me about the porn I keep on my computer.
>I was hesitant because it's a policy of mine to never reveal fetishes unless someone asks. Conversely, part of that policy is I'll still discuss a fetish I know things about, but I won't say whether I have that fetish.
>I just tell her flat out what I'm into, and how I think I got those fetishes.
>She relays this information to my dad, a devout Mormon.
>My dad has always been supportive, but was weirded out too. He wasn't surprised I was looking at porn, since I'd been non-religious for years, but he sounded weirded out by it.
>I assured him this has never distracted me from work, school, or even brushing my teeth. I started to explain some of the reasons for the fetishes, but he cut me off and said I'm an adult and can make my own decisions.
>Gf became increasingly inquisitive, acting strange. I got the impression that she was talking to friends about it, and they all agreed I was too weird.
>Breaks up with me, making up shit unrelated to fetishes.
>I could've argued, but I'd already had a contingency plan: if she decided to break up with me over fetishes, she isn't the one.
>I let her leave, and more than feeling bad about her leaving, I just felt disappointed that anyone could be that shallow.

In retrospect, I think it was the Bailey Jay pictures that freaked her out. Hue hue.

Around the third time we had sex she was on top of me and stored for a second. She asked how open minded I was, and she said she likes to be dominated. After we agreed to tell each other any links that come to mind and I've told her most of what I'm into. Now she fucks me half as often as I fuck her and sometimes she calls me daddy. It's been a pretty mind blowing year.

>>7029670
I would have screamed her out of the relationship at the telling dad part

>>7029670
Haha oh man, she broke up with you over giants and futa? I can only imagine what she would say if you turned out to be into diapers and mind control and egg laying...

But seriously that sucks.

I had a very vanilla girlfriend a couple years ago when I was back in college. I was staying at her place when a group of people I knew came over and they were in the living room talking about fetishes. The whole time they were ragging on some guy that liked receiving anal play from girls. They were also talking about how pretty much anything besides light BDSM was weird and gross. I worry that this is what a large amount of people actually think.

>>7029808
It is what most people think. /d/eviants are rare.

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I told her about my tulpa fetish, but she just called me an insane weirdo and disappeared.

One of the most DUMBASS moves I ever made. She pillow-talked me into telling mine, and wouldn't tell me if she had one when I did. We broke up over some other bullshit, and now there's some out there who knows my crap.

Un-LESS you significant other tells you their kink first, take yours to the grave.

Or post it here.

I fantasize about sucking cock, being reamed up the ass, and generally being treated like a lowly bitch slut by the way.

>>7029823
Arguably more dangerous to share than most of the crazy shit that gets posted on this board. Women are often disgusted by bi guys (or guys who might be bi) and they give them little respect.

If your fetish has dicks in it, keep it to yourself unless you have an extreme level of trust in your SO.

(Yes, you know a bi girl who loves bi guys. No, she's not the norm.)

Told my girl about mine about a year back. Not sure why i came so completely clean. But I usually like to share my porn with my partner.

So she knows I'm Bi, and really like dicks, cross dressing, bdsm, and filthy sex.

She's also not your typical girl, pretty sure she has some penis envy but we only joke about it, and most of the time she really acts like on of the guys. Part of the reason we love each other so much.

She's told me hers, very into getting dominated, few rape fantasies, few animalistic ones.

But we always discuss our fetishes
and don't judge. And we love to try and make every fantasy come true for each other. (She loves pegging my ass and having role reversal fun)

We're now about a week away from our first threesome, already got the guy approved and everything.

TL;DR Told my girl and it was the best descision of my life.

>>7029868
>few animalistic ones

Would you be willing to elaborate? I really like the idea of literally acting like an animal during sex, not being able to speak, being completely single-mindlessly focused on mating, etc. But I've hardly ever seen material relating to this.

Assuming you meant the word "animalistic" literally.

>>7029871

Yes. Literally.

We dip into topics some people would consider furry at times. We (I) even own a few different bad dragon dildos.

She's really into wolves so if course that's what I procured.

We've gone from things ranging from me losing control during our sex and going into what I affectionately refer to as "feral". Which usually has myself breathily deeply and harshly enough to sound like a angry snarl while I'm fucking her.

Then over to tying her down ass up so I can use all the dildos on her in a roleplay, setting up the situation to be as if she is getting fucked by a pack of wild wolves as thier personal breeding bitch.

>>7029880
Very nice. Would love to find a girl who's into that.

>>7029488
the person you just replied to isn't me, but yeah, i know a lot of people of both genders who didn't have a great Loss-Of-Virginity Experience, and not expecting mine to be great either, which is why i'm sort of waiting for someone i feel like i can really trust (which i already had the opportunity to do and i'm kicking myself still for not going with it). one of my best friends lost her virginity to someone who subsequently dropped her on all social media, and i'm not looking for a similar experience

it's gratifying to know that there are still possibilities outside of this hellhole, though. God, college hookup culture is the fucking W O R S T

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Well, my history is kinda nastier. After some time in /d/, my fetish for torture grew into heavier stuff like eroguro and now I'm pretty much balls deep into depressing stuff. But I only enjoy fantasizing about it, I would never shot that rucked up irl, much less with the woman I love. So I ended up telling her everything, while explaining that I'm really into vanilla or bdsm normal sex, just wanted to clarify stuff.
She got really disgusted (everyone should) but somehow we moved forward. I've proven myself over the years to be trustworthy, but I still feel she's somewhat scared of me sometimes.
But mostly we are OK. She's balls deep into yaoi so sometimes we switch (I'm bi, so switching is really good for me) and everything is fine, she's also pretty into some bdsm.
But yeah, never tell anyone you are into ryona/guro. It's too fucked up to be tolerable.

>>7029670
>>7029818
>>7029823
>>7029942
Well this is depressing

>>7029065
This one is easy. If you're good enough friends with someone, they'll accept your fetish.

>>7021163
This is how I think about it now. I had told my ex about my TG fetish and according to her, it made her "feel dirty" and she told me that she had taken a shower several times over.

Made me feel like shit, and made me realize that some things aren't worth telling and that some people aren't worth telling anything like this.

I've only mentioned that I'm into gentle femdom, she knows that I'm into weirder stuff but to my knowledge she doesn't know what. I don't know what it'll take for me to be okay with telling her everything, she's very vanilla. I'm into mostly expansion related stuff, but I dabble in about half the stuff on this board

>>7029942
There are entire fetish circles into that stuff. I've met dozens of women into guro. (Mostly at scenes/dungeons) CSI shows about women being cut up and stored in freezers are #1 among women.

A lot of women have prey fetishes. Most just don't want to admit that they want to be hunted and captured by a big strong brute and completely owned.

>>7022069
>".........M-Me too..."
>OH THANK GOD

Anon are you really this dumb?

Most people who know me know my tamer fetishes, (bdsm, biting, candle wax, spanking, hair pulling, blood play) and my boyfriend knows I like it rough and that I enjoy being dressed like a girl and feeling pretty. He doesn't go too rough because he doesn't want to hurt me but I enjoy how rough he goes.
Everyone knows about my thing for tentacles, and my boyfriend told me being raped by tentacles counts as cheating because he knows I'd love it.

>>7029880
My gf is actually kinda the same way but it fluctuates a lot one moment we're cuddling and play wrestling the next shes biting and scratching and growling at me like an animal.

>>7029922
(Shrugs)
Im the other guy and ended up losing mine to a thai girl looking for a sugar daddy.
Best sex of my life was with a hooker, not the one woman I've loved deeply.
Just dont place all these expectations on it and you'll be fine.
That said....
>eat dat Pussay
Cut a wedge out of an orange and practice till your tongue falls off.
Try to write the alphabet with your tongue untill you have the experiance to know what to do.
>about to cum, change positions
Helps set it back
Also theirs a pinching trick, three fingers equidistamt around just under the lip of the head, two on top, pinch firm and that'll buy time.
And most important....
If you have notice, rub one out 10 min before then shower.
Last longer and stink less.
Stinky partners the worst

>>7020951
I pretty much only tell my girlfriends about my fetishes. if they give a shit then you are dating the wrong girl. If you are doing it right you'll only date girls that are into the same shit you are. I like Futa and horsecocks and zoophilia and toons and all kinds of nightmare fuel sort of shit and i've dated like 3 girls that have most of my fetishes in common including the one i'm dating now. Of course I live in a major city where people aren't backwards as fuck. If i lived in like arkansas or like russia or somewhere backwards i'd just keep it to myself

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>>7020951
>weight gain
>cow play
>bimbo
>fertility

I'm still trying to figure out how to break it to my girlfriend. She knows about weight gain and fertility but not the other two. By cow play I mean I just want her to be dumb lazy and plump for milking and breeding. Bimbo wouldn't be too hard as for me it's mostly about the nice blonde hair (she's blonde), bubbly slutty nature, and fake lips. Although, I know she wouldn't get fake lips so I'd have to work around that.

I told my girlfriend I was interested in butt stuff and she bought me two plugs and some lube. She's a wonderful lady.

She's into futa and the rougher kinks too which is good, but man if I don't still hide my porn folder because of the more excessive /d/ type material.

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>>7020951
I've told my wife about my lactation and pregnancy fetishes, and while she didn't really "get" either one, she didn't make a big deal out of the conversation, either.

I also have a pumping fetish, but the first pussy pump that I bought to use on her was a cheap piece of shit (because I was like 19 at the time) and it hurt her more than it felt good, which unfortunately killed her interest in buying a better one and trying again.

However, she does still occasionally use a dick pump on me, because the turn-on vastly outweighs the discomfort for me and she likes the way I feel inside of her afterwards.

I haven't told her about my breast/butt/clit expansion fetishes, although I might bring it up some day if it feels relevant. I also haven't told her about my futanari fetish, because if she thought being turned on by breasts full of milk was incomprehensible I have a feeling she won't understand the appeal of a girl with a big ol' penis in front of her vagina, either.

Pic related; it's most of my fetishes in one image.

Online frends with guy for three yeara, totalk crush on him first year we were friends but diddnt persue because low self esteem
Eventually get into relationship that was super emotionally abusive and put me in a really depressed state
Break up with abuser and visit online friend (they live north i live south, long drive.)
REALLY hit it off, know he's unto anal stuff because he once briefly mentioned this to me so I end up re growing that crush I had knowing this info)
We kinda flail and hint at eachother for a few days about liking eachother but eventually just kiss and all.
I soon tell him about all my kinks (basically the usual /d/ shit like femdom, pegging, crossdress in, asphyxiation, vore, futa, cutting, bondage, ect) and he's ok with it!! Just feels SUPER GOOD to be able to do anal stuff to a guy. (He's not too into the hardcore bdsm stuff but I think with time we could maybe try a few things? Hopes atleast!!)
He over the years self described as a HORRID FETISHIST but he's actually relatively vanilla, atleast by comprison like his porn is very basic hentai, haha.
I haven't told him im into dick cages as I'm shy about it but I might someday.
I think knowing we both had super weird taste in most things made it easy.

How do i meet people like these? M here. and straight.

I tried to get her to tell me her fetish, but she won't let it out. Said it's Asian specific (as in Asian cultures tend to do it moreso than others), weird, and you can do it yourself or with others. Asked a bunch of /d/ related questions, but she only responded to being shit on...

I told her I like to be slapped and hair pulled and spanked, hoping she picked on on the fact I like to be dommed. She did it a a little bit, but not much. I really just want to be feminized, is that too much to ask?

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I'm a girl and I'm kinkier than any partner I've ever had. Luckily, I've never had a bad experience of telling them, either because I pick partners well or because I talk about sex enough before we get together that they know I'm into some weird shit.

In seriousness, I can't exactly imagine being in a successful relationship with someone who doesn't know I'm a fucked up kinkster. It's an important enough part of my life that I wouldn't go without exposing it. I'm happy to indulge them in return. I don't have many hard limits and seeing someone else get hot for something is a turn on of it's own.

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>>7032615
Out of curiosity, what kinks do you have?
I don't want to turn this into a list your kinks thread, but I wonder what you consider kinky if you've had it so easy and if you consider yourself kinkier than the people you've been with

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>>7020951
My wife actually knew of my fetishes because she asked; and prior to that she had told me hers which were, in their own way, "not typical fetishes." So, when I told her of mine, she really didn't care. She had her things, I have mine. It balances out quite well actually.

My gf knew I was a switch and I knew she was one before we started dating. Since then she's been okay with everything I've told her about, although I'm still pretty vanilla compared to many so maybe that's why.

Married. 2 kids. Wife is super vanilla about sexy things. I keep fetishes on defcon 2 lockdown. Will never EVER reveal. I like my fantasy life seperate. Pretty happy overall.

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>>7020951
>be lillyfag
> blind girl fetish?

she went along with it a couple of times over a few years, we haven't even talked about it in years tho.

>still fap to that sort of thing tho

>>7029670
Bailey is pretty convincing though.

Me and an ex shared a fetish for swapping our genders. It lead to long sexting conversations about me sucking her dick, and then getting fucked in the pussy by her throbbing cock. Fun times.

The latest FWB seems to be open to BDSM, so here's hoping that goes well.

>>7027237
Like exactly the same except of 2 years and she finds it kinda hot so she is ok with dirty talking and such. She loves me worshipping her feet but also likes to be sub. It's great.

>into futa
>she's into religious shit (she's not religious at all)
>we're both too awkward to ever want to make it reality for either of us

I have a belly kink. Preg, inflation, stuffing. My GF knows and, since she has a little bit of a belly (so fucking cute) teases me by guiding my hands to her belly when we spoon. Also, we go to this place and she gorges herself on occasion.

>>7029670
Trust me, if her first reaction to finding out something that she doesn't like is to tattle to your fucking father, you're right that she wasn't "The one."

>>7036593
My gf has a bit of a belly too, but she's self conscious about it and doesn't like me touching it even though I really like it

>>7021763
I've been there, anon. Glad I got out.

>>7020951
What girlfriend, anon? I will live and die alone with my kinks, forever bound to this board and called a fag by my fellow /d/eviants. I should finally accept this.

>>7020951
my gf knew about my fetishes before falling in love with me

>female anon here
>Bf knew I was a huge pervert
>went into my computer and found my naughty no no folders
>had tons of furry/herm/futa stuffs on the inners
>calls me out on it and says its gross
>he's not into anything kinky but we're still together
>I keep my fetishes to me self and masturbate like crazy when I'm home alone
>used to masturbate while driving home or on breaks at work

>>7020951
I'm a bisexual switch so I've never been in a relationship where I didn't have any of their kinks.

That said, I usually wait a couple months before I tell them I'd like to take it in the ass from a girl.

>>7036913
>masturbating while driving
I did this once while going 80 down a backcountry highway
Would not recommend, realized after it was done how incredibly unsafe it was

I absolutely agree with >>7026160>>7026652
Fetishes, just like your opinions and beliefs are something you and your special other should at least tolerate. Lack of mutual understanding has no future.

>Had a gf who started out giving a very supportive attitude
>later became more demanding and less supporting
>first time easity tricked me into discussing our fetishes, but on a rather one-sided terms
>She's totally vanilla doesn't even like yaoi or traps, or so she tells.
>I'm a rather vanilla person but like some /d/ stuff like futa on female
>Suddenly gently and lewdly asks me if I like it when two girls are sucking a dick
>Say honestly that I do.
>Instantly changes mood and goes 'So you love it like that huh? One girl is not enough for you? I see, I see.'
>Spend 15 minutes trying to explain that fantasy fetishes and what I want to do in real life are usually not the same thing(which is mostly the truth)
>She is stubborn as fuck, but eventually accepts my words and calms down.
>Have a few random incidents like that even outside of discussing fetishes
>Later find out she actually likes yaoi and traps and shrugs it off 'Eh what girl doesn't?'
>Actually afraid of sharing anything else with her(especially futas) outside of confirmed vanilla, because literally half of my fetishes triggered her before
I'm glad we're not in a relationship anymore. It got gradually worse with time, I couldn't even handle staying in the same room with her for a long period of time, she would always find something 'wrong' about the way I do something and start a quarrel.

Never did it while driving that fast
Usually in traffic, thought of someone posdibly realizing/seeing what i was doing was a turn on

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I was once in a very abusive relationship because I told a girl about my fetishes. She was a nice, assertive girl, spent a long time making friends and flirting with her then we started going out. I admitted to her that I liked being dominated and wanted to feel like I was looked after and desired and she seemed really open to it. I guess she must have been if she started going out with me at all because I think I'm quite obviously a shy guy who just goes with what other people say.

At first she started being really nice and touchy. Then that elevated to being really controlling. She made me stop seeing all my female friends, then a whole bunch of my friends who she didn't approve of. She started making me stay home even if she was going out. Eventually she became very abusive, emotionally and physically. I stayed with her for ages because I was terrified of her and because she kept telling me she loved me. It got to the point where I was so isolated from my friends and the outside world that the internet was pretty much all I had in terms of socialisation and I actually ended up asking for help on /adv/.

I managed to break up with her eventually and spent a lot of my time hanging around with friends who she'd been trying to seperate me from. My friends all know I'm a bit of a pussy so they were very understanding and helpful and threatened to call the police on my ex when she kept trying to get them to let her see me.

The worst part is I still really want a girlfriend who can look after me, or will at least care for me just as much as I care for her. But a lot of girls just don't understand how I can be an abuse victim as a boy, and sometimes when I do find and get close to a really nice girl I get these really stupid worries and get scared that something awful will happen again.

>>7036971
Dont give up anon, your ex was a cunt. There are nice girls out there that can give you want you need

>>7036971
>I get these really stupid worries and get scared that something awful will happen again.
I know that feel anon.
I always tell myself that it's better to have no girl beside you at all, than a relationship full of stress.

>>7036971
ive never been with a guy like you before >_> now im getting curious... im usually submissive myself <3

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>>7036971
Anon are you me? I had a relationship that was almost two years long that was very similar. She would berate and call my incessantly if I spent time with anyone outside of my family except for her, and guilt trip/slap me saying I was treating her like shit and she should be the only one I need. Managed to dump her with the help of one of my best friends, and over the next week she called me literally hundreds of times, and sat in front of my house for hours at a time. It was fucked up.

The most fucked up part is that the Stockholm syndrome got to me so bad that femdom is my #1 fetish.

Oh my god this is the bane of my EXISTENCE. TF, expansion, multicock futa, bimbos, thats just scratching the surface. Ive got giiiiiiiiIIIIiiiiigs of content and I've spent money building perverted characters in Second Life.

She has no idea, for the reasons others gave: these are physically impossible and I find the idea of her even pretending to do any of the above uncomfortable. And worse:

>Talking to mutual friend
>Casually reveals she's an erotic fiction author and makes money that way
>I'm like "haha wow what do you write"
>"Transgender TF, Bimbo transformation mainly, sometimes hucows, its actually good money if you watch trends"
>I'm laughing and legit impressed, GF is like "Bimbos? What, just like acting slutty? Hu...cows?"
>Start to explain
>Get partway through bimbos before i realize she's giving me a hell of a look
>cut my losses and pretend I dont know anything about hucows
>friend explains
>gf laughing uproariously at the concept of cows or milk being found sexy by someone
>sitting there thinking about how I've made a lactating quadboob char

Kill me.

My wife just a few hours ago admitted she had a new fetish. I was rather surprised since its sorta rare for her to find new things she gets off on her own. She asked me how I would feel about drinking her pee. I was unsure if she had been joking or not since the subject of urine has come up in the past for us. Back then she had many times said it was yucky and she'd never do something like that so I never admitted my desires for such. So when this question came up I was more then happy to jump onto the moment and admit such. This quickly resulted in her asking if she could piss on my cock, me piss in her cunt, among other things. All in all it was a great time to learn my wife is as much a freak as I am.

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>>7038211
Good for you anon! That's something I would be willing to give a try, but it isn't a fetish of mine.

>>7029521
My girlfriend is attracted to the idea of a girl with a dick.
She doesn't know I am too though.
It kind of sucks to be honest because she makes jokes about wishing I had a girl's body sometimes but still had my dick. And that's kind of a huge fantasy of mine (being futa and fucking a girl), and I know that could never be possible, so she'll never be attracted to me in that way.
I guess it just kind of makes me jealous. That she might be attracted to something like a shemale, but I can't be like that.

>>7023506
Bump

Told my last girlfriend I was super into facesitting and really liked giving head in general. She dumped me like a month later without really explaining anything. She was super religious so I think I freaked her out by bringing up that I liked something other than missionary position for the sole purpose of procreation, but she said she wanted to wait until marriage and I wanted some kind of physical intimacy.

>>7038495
>wait until marriage
How do people even manage to withstand this?

I mean I understand that not all of us here are starving for daily/weekly sex but if you can't have it with a person you love way until marriage - this is just a huge prejudice which benefits nobody.

>Gf starts out with a normal look at sex, as in everyone has fetishes but none of them are for her.
>Openly admits to the fact that she thinks im weird for wanting certain things
>Asks me one night what fetishes or kinks I have
>I tell her that if she is too grossed out or uncomfortable with them then thats fine, but it shouldnt be a relationship ender
>Her previous boyfriend was a vanilla guy with no kinks
>I tell her about my femdom fetish, she is weirded out by it
>We have sex and I go down on her, she turns out to be a screamer, worried that I hurt her I stop. She insists that I keep going. Tells me she would love to sit on my face and ride my tongue for hours.
>Oblige, because im going to drop the bomb on her afterwards that she is kinky.
>Forces my face into her pussy and hold me there
>she pushes me onto the bed and forces her ass in my face for me to rim
>goes nuts from my tongue in her butt
>asks if it would be ok for her to shove a finger in my ass while she goes down on me
>cant talk from her ass being in my face
>takes it as a yes and starts fingering my butt
>she cums
>acts weird and gets off of me, walks to the bathroom and starts to cry
>I panic and run to the bathroom
>"Dont leave me because im a freak Anon!"

And thats how I discovered my perfect femdom girlfriend. Hopefully tonight she pees on me...I've been talking to her about it for quite some time now

>>7038525
wew lad you got a keeper there

>>7037066
Still mad she never took the D.

>>7038517
>How do people even manage to withstand this?

Is it really so difficult?

>this is just a huge prejudice which benefits nobody.

That assertion just shows how shallow-minded you are.

I told my now-ex about my belly stuffing/gurgling fetish, and she was cool with it, but we didn't do anything. That's pretty much the only thing I miss about her.

>>7038517

There are a lot of reasons why some people voluntarily abstain from premarital sex. Some of the reasons include cultural and moral beliefs, low sex drive, or sometimes just being too busy to date/have casual sex.

>>7030119
>>7029670
What a cunt.

It went really good I told her I was into feminization and pegging, and she happened to be really into that too. Though now I'm starting to realize my obsession with feminization might not be a fetish thing.

>>7023454
>>7023798
>what kind of idiot shows their face on their fetlife profile

https://www.notjustbitchy.com/how-to-make-friends-on-fetlife-for-the-hard-of-thinking/

should guys show their face or not? Cause being noticed IRL based on something like that really is my nightmare
I'm a noob to fetlife but I want to try it to meet girls that I wouldn't have to be so scared of creeping out if I told them about what I'm into

I'm glad to see this thread cause it makes me feel a lot less fucked up and weird and gives me some hope

>>7020990
you are fucking disgusting
so is your girlfriend

>>7023206
right here with you

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>>7020951
>Recently moved our friendship to a little more than friendship

>Started talking about sex

>Told her I was into some weird shit

>Pressure ensues to disclose what I like

>Told her I like futa and others like it

>she didn't take too lightly because she viewed it as sub

>Reassured her that it's only a fantasy and is on the extreme ends of my kinks

>Haven't talked about it since

>Maybe something will happen when we have sex? Idk

>>7020951
gf was 13 i was 15, eight years later and she is still kicking my balls in every day <3 worked out great

>>7037066
Sauce on pic please?

>>7020951
deliberately showed my boyfriend a tentacle hentai I had been flicking it to the night before and we ended up having fantastic sex over the arm of the couch. I believe I'm aware of most of his fetishes, and he's aware of mine. the only on he won't indulge me with is pee play but I'm fine with that because I prefer watching. He'll still whip me and call me a little whore, and I'll still peg him when he feels like being fucked. sexually considerate partners are great.
>feelsgoodman.jpg

>>7020951
She knows everything.

And even though she's 100% plain, she still accepts me and even tries to do a little dirty stuff every now and then (she's real shy about farting in front of others).

When we're not going at it like rabbits, she makes little ribs at the stuff that I like.

She's the greatest. My only regret is accidentally ruining anal for her. Both cause I love anal and she would have too if not for the accident.

>>7039461
>My only regret is accidentally ruining anal for her. Both cause I love anal and she would have too if not for the accident.
You can't say something like that and not tell the story, no matter how awful it is.

>>7039465
Not much to tell. We had had anal a couple times before, and she dug it too. Fucking her pussy for a while and I was getting real close and I wanted to finish in her ass. I pushed it in, but lack of foreplay and minimal spit-lube made it hurt real bad for her. Now she tenses up hard whenever I try sticking anything remotely close to the size of my dick near her anus. That's what I get for not thinking.

I've managed to talk her into using smaller plugs/toys in there, but she usually forces them out after we start doing it (which is hot, but it won't help her stretch and be comfortable for bigger things later).

Ironically, our first legitimate time was anal too. But she's usually too shy to admit that.

>>7024707
>and she's even into wincest, shota and loli


You found the unicorn and fucking blew it.

>>7022300
anon by next time u rly need to learn what proper aftercare is

>>7030467
>being raped by tentacles counts as cheating because he knows I'd love it
your bf is gold!

>>7032541
>why won't my gf tell me her fetish??? :(
>oh btw i also didnt directly tell her mine
dude come on...

>have boyfriend
>he's into vore among many other things
>accommodates to it
>lets him kiss, grope and rub his dick on my pudgy tummy
>ocassionally opens my mouth wide over his face while kissing him to pretend I'm eating him
>makes wet mouth sounds like slurping and gulping to pretend that I'm swallowing him
>I'll drink lots of water just to slosh it around in my tummy for him

I'm pretty sure he loves me

>>7038271
Wear breast extensions and use a pens pump

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>>7020951
>Been browsing /d/ for a couple of years
>My favorite fetishes are futa, feminization, a little bit of femdom
>Crossdress on my own every now and then, and keep a stash of sex toys
>Get a girlfriend at some point
>Too nervous to talk to her about kinks
>One night we're going at it in her apartment when she starts licking my asshole
>Starts fingering me and looks at me funny
>Forgot I fucked myself with my dildos the night before and still had a slight gape
>Asks me if I'm gay or stuff
>ohfuck.jpeg
>Try to deny it but I'm a really bad liar, especially when someone is sticking a finger up my ass
>I hug her and just lay it all on her, futas, crossdressing, etc.
>Pretty much tearing up because, in my head, I imagine that I must look like some freaky weirdo to her and I'm starting to love this woman
>She just listens and asks a few questions ("are you bi?")
>Then she hugs me and tells me it's ok, she gets it
>Then she licks one of my fingers and rubs it against her own asshole
>I can feel a slight gape, like how my ass feels after 3 or 4 days of intense ass fucking
>Now it's her turn to look shy
>She tells me about her fetishes: she likes a bit of dom, but also likes public stuff (sex in public, and using sex toys underneath her clothes) and tentacles
>She admits to gangbanging herself with dildos in the past, and we talked more about how we got into our kinks
>My dick is as hard as durasteel at this point
>We end up fucking like rabbits on crack
>Night ends with her sitting on my face with my ass proped up against the wall with her licking my ass and jerking me off
>This was about a year ago
>Explored our fetishes even further now
>Sometimes we fuck it our asses stuffed
>Or go out for dinner with buttplugs inserted
>Sometimes I dress up and she rails me with a strap on
>Or I fuck her while she works on 2 other dildos
>Shit's been great so far

Pic somewhat related

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Went great, we had been talking a while before we started dating, mostly chill small talk and all, until we both stayed up late one night. The chat turned to fetishes not too soon after midnight, if I remember right, I'm pretty sure he asked mine first and I didn't mind sharing, I don't remember what all I mentioned, but I included an interest in BDSM, orgasm denial, as well as petplay (with me being the sub), he made a small remark on wanting to own me almost jokingly as well as a small bit of his fetishes, hair pulling is what I remember, and also how he had to go to bed soonish, I was enthralled with the comment though (and teasing is just in my nature) and ended up telling him how I'd love to pull his hair and rut against his dick, also how I found out I'm a switch, and as far as I know, how he found out he enjoyed being dominated as well time to time. We've been happily dating for a bit now, that night went along with some great sexting and him jerking off way too long, which made his wrist too sore to finish himself off, as I had forgotten to tell him he could cum. Oops. He sent me some beautiful collars, nipple clamps, and a harness not too much later after that.
I've been learning the ropes of domming and subbing, he also knows about my blood kink, and teases me endlessly about how he gets nose bleeds in the winter. Gore, femdom, size differences, bondage, noncon, lactation and spanking are two more we share, futa, crossdressing, monster girls/boys, there's more I'm forgetting. Overall, it went very nicely, he'll probably see this later too.

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>>7039819
dream fuel :O
thank you for giving me hope anon
grateful to everyone in this thread

>>7020951
Told her I'm into master/pet stuff and whatnot and from that point on she started adressing me as master every now and then

went pretty good I'd say

>>7021817

Sounds like your wife is full of horseshit and has no respect for your needs. Despite how good she may be outside of the bed, ANYONE will tell you if your partner or theirs aren't fulfilling your needs in the sack, 9/10 it ends up in cheating, or someone calling for divorce.

Face it anon, you're not completely happy and she seems like a stuck up bitch who yes, very clearly seems like she just wants you around to play basic providing husband on a leash role; in other words "Do what I want or fuck off".

tl;dr Divorce her and find someone else anon. Clearly through marriage she's decided her agenda and priorities with you have changed.

>>7024707

Sounds like her bf is a insecure beta that you and her even talk, as if he's got something to fear out of that.

Inspired by all the story there, I finally deceided to tell my fiance about a few of my more extreme stuff. He make me choke on his cock until I puke, nothing can be worst, right?

As expected he hated everything related to furry/pet stuff. Hen again he has an actual phobia of mascot so I wasn't really hopefull.

The revelation was the amputations kink. His eyes got all dreamy an later that night, my leg got attached in a way that I could simulate having nothing from the knee down.

Best sex in my life. God I love that man.

>>7027142

Girls who can't stand porn or hentai at all are the same girls who thump bibles and expect missionary only. In other words "boring as fuck" unless you can settle for just vanilla too. But anyone who says they don't like hentai or porn can fuck right off; they are lying through their ass and they know it.

>>7020951
My gf knows about my feet and smothering fetishes and actively uses them against me whenever she can. She knows about the hypno too, but that's a lot less practical. We've talked about trying it, but haven't yet.

>>7040214
>uses them against me whenever she can
...Tell me more.

>>7040217
As coercion, mainly. If I'm watching TV or reading, sometimes she'll sit on the same couch and put her feet in my lap as a surefire way of getting my attention. She likes to leave her socks laying around. If she's playing the Xbone, she'll put her feet up on the table to tease me. When I'm laying down, she'll often sit perilously close to my head, close enough that I can feel the heat of her body. Occasionally when we hug, especially if she's sitting in my lap, she'll force my face into her cleavage.

She knows that it's really easy to get her way like that. It doesn't help that while her tits aren't huge, they're pretty perky and firm, and her ass is incredible.

>Tell my gf about lactation
>Tell my gf about her being dom
>Tell my gf about giantess
>Tell my gf about vore
>Tell my gf about belly stuffing
>Tell my gf about pegging
>Tell my gf about bdsm and petplay
>Tell my gf about furry things
>Tell my gf about farts

She supports all of the them and we practice them all the time except for furry, she freaked out a little.

>>7020951
>tfw into feet
>tfw this gets mentioned on the first date
>tfw she takes me home lets me cum on her toes
Good shit man

>>7040299
How do you practice giantess?

>>7040408
Probably has him lay on the floor.

>>7039496
I did, and it feels like crap knowing I'll never get that lucky again.

>>7039506
That sounds adorable.

>>7022069
>>7022153
>>7030442
Let the man have his dream.

>>7036998
Get out.

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>>7038525
That's a heartwarmer. Keep her close, Anon.

>Have such a long and taboo list of fetishes the only thing a partner could confide in me that would make me balk is pedohpilia and maybe shit like trypophilia and botfly shit
>No one will ever know
I intend to keep it that way too.

>>7026120
>Heard later she had the dog fixed then gave it to a friend.
Jesus that is horiffic. Like imagine being in that dog's shoes.
>Push the bitch down and fuck literally whenever yo uwant
>Eat her food
>Sleep in her bed
>Be the huge dominant alpha you always wanted to be
>The only issue is that your dick is too big
>Like first world problems amirite? hahaha
>Then she cuts your nuts off, kicks you out of home and pushes you on some other slut.
That has to be animal cruelty.

>>7040408
Roleplay, same with vore, she is taller than me so it goes well, also this:>>7040410

>>7040956
That sounds fun. You're pretty lucky.

Can I ask how you roleplay it? My partner and I are both interested but we're not really sure how to act on it.

>>7040956
>she is taller than me
Ah man, I remember my gf finding out that I was aroused by her being taller.

>>7026120
I really hope I don't think of this every time I see someone walking a dog now. Shit is fucked up.

>>7023506
Dude someone fucking respond to me, please, where do I get girls who aren't country club blondes

I only really run in circles with highly educated, high earning folks and most girls are either vanilla or total sluts

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Keeping each other in chastity is a fetish I like, but I don't think I could ever bring up. I would have to find a switch gf that was very open-minded.

>>7020951
yes, did it partially and she accepted the fact that I like Futanari, to be dominated and to dominate and bondage, which she likes more. Told her not about other kinks or things I did. To come out to her with futanari wasn't easy. She can access my collection if she wants, but I don't know if she made use of this possibility.

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>Tell my boyfriend my fantasies
>He dumps me days later

I understand why he left, and I really don't blame him, but it still hurts.

I don't understand the need to share fantasies with a sex partner.

>>7041481
what were/are your fantasies anon?

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>>7041506
Some people like to live them out, I can't get turned on all too much in a physical situation without some powerplay in the mix, it really depends I think just on how much a person relies on their fantasies to get off, if you can get by without them, I guess there isn't much of a reason to besides just some curiosity on your partner's end.

>>7029830
Wish I met you first... LOL!

>>7020951
Mentioned to two girls that I'm into beast. They were both alright with it... One of them let her dog lick her and the other get off to the thought of me being a dog who's fucking her ass. Told her I'm a huge anal freak so I also got her to masturbate with her ass a lot.

>>7040416
talk to her tell her that her vf is shit and you two are gucci together. in your own words.
WORST case is that she doesn't talk to you.

>>7021817

I'd suggest couples therapy. Something has to be done, there's obviously something bigger happening here than just not having kinky sex with each other. Protip: If you go down the couples therapy route, you might dig up things you don't want to find, but you'll be happier later that you found them, one way or the other. But it's for the best though.

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>>7029942
I told by bf about guro, he's never had problems with topics related to gore/murder/violence etc(actually he's a bit of a psychopath too), but not if it's in a sexual way so at first he told me he didn't mind as long as i didn't show him any ero-guro pics because it made him feel yucky(we show each other pics of what we find attractive constantly), now he still doesn't care for it but has no problem seeing almost anything, and that's perfectly fine with me because I never wanted to indulge in anything that could be painful for him( but sometimes I'd still wish he was into light bloodplay).

But we have a real cool relationship so I guess that's definitely not what normally would happen, but there's still people out there that accept or like even hardcore guro.

>How did it go?

Bad. Brought this topic up with my wife actually.

>I ask her about her fetishes first
>She brings up pegging, getting raped, cross-dressing, and BDSM stuff where she gets to be the sub
>None of that is even remotely something I'd be interested in
>"Oh well then fine, what are you into?"
>"Just really giant fucking tits really."
>"Oh really? Like mine?"
>"Nah, nothing small like that. Giant ones like you'd see on bimb-
>Realize too late what words had come out of my mouth

We've had a dead bedroom for..a little over 8 months now. I'm not even sure how to begin fixing this, but to be honest masturbation was 9 times out of 10 better anyway.

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>>7042658
It might be worth it to bring up again, a lot of couples find compromise where even if the other isn't into a kink, they'll indulge their partner for some return- of course you don't have to go full-blown dom for her, but even just small things would probably make her happy. It just requires being a bit rough (leading, undressing her yourself, telling her what you'll do in her ear, handcuffs are nice because they usually help a person feel more helpless pretty easily, and it's nothing hardcore), maybe buy her some cute lingerie to strut around in, you probably want to start with apologizing though.

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I met my girlfriend at an event and then she messaged me later (gave her my phone number) asking about what I like. I thought I'd never see her again so I truthfully told her my fetishes in exchange for hers. She found some peculiar (feet, hypnosis, and bimbos) but was very open. We met up later and fucked like dogs at a cheap motel. Her's were fairly standard for any girl into BDSM but we tried to make each other happy every time we had sex.

We had to sleep in my car once, with each of us taking a row of seats (me in front seats, her in the back) and I got a nice surprise when I woke up to a footjob.

The gf before that laughed me out of the room, so be careful anons.

Here's my advice to all the guys that are afraid of a chick with no tolerance for standards (or are already with one):

Stop worrying about how many dicks she's taken.

That's it. If you can work past that, you'll get the girl you want.

Don't get me wrong, I understand all of the hangups and I have them too. But that's why the girls you select for have limited sexual horizons. If you pick a virgin, you're all of her sexual experience. Most girls don't ever watch porn, and many never masturbate of their own initiation.

So if you want a slut... You're going to have to date a slut. And that comes with having to trust that your slut isn't a cheating slut, and all of the other factors that factor in.

But that's the only way to "get" a slut instead of "make" a slut.

To be clear, my current girlfriend is a "made" slut, and it's taken a year and a half since she decided she wanted to change to get there. It's a long road, and good luck trying it without even a bit of buy-in from her side.

But for future women, and even if I were "speaking to myself 3 years ago", so to speak, my priorities are different now. A girl who has already played the field and is looking for something more stable is a girl who will already know that every dick is different and the different tricks she can use to get them off. Chasing a virgin is good for knights in stories, but what has it really ever gotten any of us men in the real world?

***But here's the key takeaway that I'm trying to get at: A virgin is not going to be a slut, because sluts don't stay virgins.***

I know that some girls with these problems may have had previous partners, but not very many and obviously ones that didn't push the matter. The first two sexual partners are when you figure out how other people's bodies work. 3-7 are when you learn how to get them off. More than that is when you start learning "fun" stuff, and those are the best girls to chase (for sex).

I dont think I could have sex with someone if she didnt piss herself during or before

She bought a strap on, lots of lube and made things come out of my voicebox I've never heard

I also discovered shes a sadist, had my suspicions.

Still together, 5 years later.

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my current boyfriend was the first i was ever sexual with and he really helped me not only discover my sexuality but also most of my fetishes. He's lucky not been put off by any of my submissive kinks. He's actually a switch so he's into all sorts of kink shit himself. Anything i wasn't sure about he eased me into with light smut role plays and if i didn't like it he'd drop it. Like tentacles. A short but smutty introduction and since i was into it we've been incorporating it into our smuts here and there ever since.

I tell my gf all my fetishes; in turn, she tells me hers. We have a surprising amount of overlap, and both being switches, we have a lot of versatility in the bedroom. And in RPing.

It's hot as fuck and I'm glad we're gonna get married soon because holy hell that's just another thing to check off my list of fetishes

Some of them.

Futa, pregnancy/breeding risk. She likes pregnancy risk, so we do play around it.

Didn't tell her about rape play/non con in general cause she isn't into it, surprisingly.

Monster/bestiality/tentacle/sissification are just fantasy, no intention of ever making it real.

I'm a bit into bimbofication, but she doesn't know. She's smart, but she just tinted her hair and plans on getting a boob job, so i'm pretty hyped. Never told her.

She likes mild bdsm. Soft restraints, light whipping and spanking.

I did tell her I have interests in pegging, and she's pretty excited to give it a try with me.

She really likes dirty talk/degradation in bed which is pretty great too. She's also likes the risk of public sex, but only to an extent.

Can't think of many more kinks.

Thankfully my gf is super open and liberal sex wise. Also has nice libido

Told my wife I like bondage type stuff. She's not really into it but lets me buy restraints/try it out.

It's fun, but she says she doesn't like the feeling of being tied up and isn't really that into it. She makes a face whenever I suggest doing it again.

It's still my fetish but we hardly ever do it. And even when we do it's just her doing it as a favor to me because I asked.

98% of the time we have sex it's in the missionary position and that's it.

>>7021817

your wife sounds like a cunt.

>>7021619

>>7044621
Is there something you're trying to say?

>>7025719

>>7020951
I'm scared he'll either tease me forever or slooowly back off. I don't think my fetishes are meant for sane people.

>>7022248
My BF abhors farts. Sometimes one will sneak out when I sneeze and he just gives me a look of disgust. He also gets uncomfortable when my sister (who's a bit of a pig) farts and laughs.

In regards to the thread, my fetishes are still very vanilla so I don't think I have much to share yet. He hasn't explicitly told me his fetishes but will tell me after sex if I happen to do them; he likes when I moan in pain and when I spit in his mouth.

I do have a vibrator that I'd like to get him to use on me but idk if he'd get offended by it. He knows I have one (he's seen it out when i accidently leave it in the shower) but we've never discussed it. Idk if I should bring it up before sex or while he's eating me out...

>>7021817
Fug. I'm in a similar situation, except I'm the neglectful gf. I didn't even notice it until I read your post and all the replies.

We've been together for many years but I never really fapped before dating him and we both lost our virginity to each other. I just never get horny. That's why I'm here though: to find fetishes and get excited for sex more.

Lately it's been hard because he's been unemployed for a few months while I've been at school. He just sits at home all day when I stay on campus all day going to class and studying. It's not sexy to come home to someone who hasn't done anything. It's gotten better now that he has a job but he's still adjusting and has been too tired for sex everyday. Reading that makes it seem vapid on my end, but it was very irritating when the "typical" role of me being sexy was being fulfilled while his role of breadwinner wasn't.

Thinking back, he seems to beg for sex instead of it being like, "hey let's go bang real quick." I feel really bad now but it's hard to just flip the switch and get horny.

I didn't mean to turn this into an /adv/ post and I hope this doesn't derail the thread. I just wanted to say that you should talk to your gf about this. Maybe she doesn't even realize what she's doing and how it's affecting you.

>>7020951
it turned out going great.

turns out i like to domme and she likes to be a sub, we both like rope bondage and using toys on the person tied up. even have similar /d/ fetishes like monster girls and strange porn. best thing i ever did, im marrying this girl

>>7041228
Please respond for the love of fucking god this is like the fifth time I've tried to get someone anyone to acknowledge me in this thread

I feel like I'm taking crazy pills here

>>7045914
Widen your social circles. If you stick around one type of person, guess what? That's the only kind of people you'll meet.