Just got stood up by a woman I'm smitten with. Post uplifting

>>91968369
Why'd ya do it?

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>>91968369
>Uplifting
Not tonight, bathe in your negativity with a bit of humor.

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>>91968369
Can't be that bad.

>>91968369
Well y'got your foot in the door. More than most of us do.

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>>91968406
This. It's the only way.

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>>91968369
That sucks OP, but think of it this way: you avoided wasting time on the type of rotten girl who stands people up.

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>>91968493
Tell me about it, at least OP isn't me
>Like girl, don;t know how to bring it up
>Friends and co-workers telling me to go for it
>Talk a bit but nothing really clicks
>Everything seem too 'safe" whenever we hang out
>Notice traits I dislike such as impulsiveness, sore-loserness in fun events and trying extra hard to fit in
>Seems uninterested in me everyday
>Still hang with her knowing it will go nowhere

This awkwardness is killing me.

>>91968369
I would never like this pairing, they made Hawkman to always reincarnate and to get cucked by John, painful stuff, Would have been okay if they never introduced him but they did and they also showed Katmu Tui. TAS universe is a universe of pain.

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>>91968369
Take a sip.

>>91968661
>TAS universe is a universe of pain.

Oh God, the psychological torment.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4TM6kX9dW0

>>91968637
Man, if you're already seeing what you DON'T like and you're not even in any kind of romantic relationship yet, it's just bad news all around. Move on quickly

>>91968637
Just be a bullshitter like her, then hit it and quit it, homes.

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>>91968369
>>91968661
Forgot the uplifting part. Its gonna get better Anon, just wait.

>>91968369
>Just got stood up by a woman.
>OP image.
Fitting?

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>>91968369
Greentext the fucking story already.

>>91968369
It's not going to get any better.
The next time you like someone, the same shit will happen. What you are doing is escapism, but you need to face the truth.

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>>91968827

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>>91968886
>face the truth.
That 2D is superior and build a waifu shrine?

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>>91968932
Hal did nothing wrong.

>>91968661
>to get cucked by John

If it makes you feel better, John got cucked by that archaeologist guy when he fucked Hawkgirl.

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>>91968369
Give into the escapism

>>91969027
CARTER FOR THE WIN

>>91968940
that reality is an illusion and the universe is a hologram,

>>91969016
I actually hope we get to see demented Hal as a huge villain in a DCEU movie.

>>91969103
Would be hard to put in current DCEU, Parahal is probably one my favorite villains hope we see Convergence Hal soon .

>>91968637
Atleast you're not me
>Don't even have friends

>>91969103
Played by Ryan Reynolds.

>>91969773
Whoever plays him, I want to see him with some grey temples, so we know things are gonna get real.

>>91969557
That's Solomon, numbskull

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>>91970203
Too late now.

>>91970100
>I want to see him with some grey temples
Why was this a thing with Comic characters? You've got Reed Richards, Ras al Ghul, Dr. Strange, Nick Fury and Hal Jordan all rocking the grey temples. What's up with that?

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>>91970452

I guess it indicates a man has reached an age where he has the wisdom of worldly experience but he still maintains a lot of his vigor.

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>>91968369

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>>91971460

>>91971476
if only there was some kind of philosopical debating hero that saved the world by discussing morals and the nature of a man with villians

>>91971803
>Doc Samson
>Harly Quinn
>Lex Luthor
>Captain America
>Tyr Anasazi
>Reed Richards
Give or take that most of the "able to debate" writing in comics is from the 1940s-80s comics and now it's all about the punching and guns.

>>91969512

oh my god, m too.

let's start hermit club!

>>91968369
same

>>91968369
right in the self esteem I imagine.
take solace in the fact that nobody is truly unique and as such there are many that would suit you as much or better.
Just don't hype up how great said person is in your head, if possible.
Loneliness, lust and desperation tends to make us do dumb things and choose poorly.
Sounds like she was a waste of your time, how much is up to you.
Lastly, don't beat yourself up for trying as it's the only means of impovement, you're not the first(or last) to strike out(or perhaps dodge a bullet)

>>91968584
> the fourth dimensional Ziltoid the omniscient !

>>91972418
Not OP, but I also really needed to hear this tonight, from an external source. Thanks guy.

>>91968369
>Just got stood up by a woman

Theirs your problem /OP/
Download Grindr and go for the gay twinks.

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>>91972581
No problem.
I find I asses my own problems better by seeing them in others and a bit of projecting.
I too had heartbreak today.
>chamber of reflection by mac demarco starts playing

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>>91968369
This is what happens when you have expectations.

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I just had sex with a girl after spilling so much spaghetti
ask me anything

>>91972905
How much spaghetti did you move in and around her vagina

Did she sound you with some brittle, uncooked spaghetti

Did you put on an "It's-a me, Mario" voice when you sprayed your spaghetti sauce

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>>91972934
I didn't come, too much pressure

>>91972418
getting ghosted is the worst thing in the world
I hate all ghosts besides Casper, because he's just a dead kid and didn't deserve it

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>>91968505
>TKINS

>>91972979
u dont no dat.

wat if he wote liek dis nd ws white nd rich so he had no excuse for being dumb?

>>91973005
CASPER DINDUUU NUFFIN

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>>91968369
Cheer up dude. It's all a numbers game anyway. It's like being a door to door salesmen when it comes to dating. You knock on 10 doors and maybe 2 or 3 are buying what you are selling.

>>91973205
>hit on 100 girls
>get rejected by 100 girls
numbers

>>91973338
kek just keep trying m8

>>91968444
I did something like this but I dont really regret it anymore. the girl went through that whole edgy queer phase after high school and I haven't seen her since. So I think I got off easy

>>91968984
Kek

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Spider-man makes everything better

Hey, man. At least you didn't marry your cousin, causing all the family to hate you, all so in the end she could cheat on you one night and get pregnant from some random she can't remember.

>>91969016
The point was that the archeologist guy was a (possible) reincarnation of Hawkman, but fate had it that Hawkgirl would always eventually love John instead of him.

>>91974011

But didn't John decided to defy fate and gave up on Hawkgirl?

>>91974029

John married Vixen. She was murdered by Shadow Thief (Hawkman's negative emotions that were given life somehow). He then had sex with Hawkgirl right after Vixen's funeral and got married soon after. Hawkman was executed in shame.

>>91973998
please say this is your life story

>>91974065

Yeah, no. Fuck those stupid Beyond comics that got tons of things from the DCAU wrong.

There was a point where the editors and writers weren't even sure in which continuity those awful comics took place. There were references to things like Batman Inc.

>>91974094

It fucking is. Never marry the girl you fell as a teen. Specially if she's family.

>>91974107
please tell me more about your life

>>91974129

There's not much to tell. We were the best of friends. She was a rebel like me. We fought our family at every turn and decided to do our thing. The marriage was both exhilarating and depressing. We were happy. Then shit just fucking changed after a few years. I learned about the cheating, we fought and broke up. I learned about the pregnancy and thinking it was mine we got back together. Then her friend told me i wasn't the father, that she tried to convince her to abort, that she didn't even knew who the guy was and so on. This on her sixth month. We fought again and broke up once more, but i gave her all the help and support she needed. Family learned about the whole thing and hated me even more. Now shit is fucking complicated as hell. We're still married, but there's too much bad blood and even then i'm pretty much the little boy's dad.

My whole life is a constant guilt-trip.

>>91972971
What spaghetti did you spill?

>>91972120
harley quinn? seems more like a mass-debatable than a debater to be honest

>>91969103
Like Barry Allen, Hal Jordan is here to stay. WB wants him, DC wants him, I doubt we'll get Emerald Twilight.

>>91974196
Wait you seriously married your cousin? Wtf is the matter with people in Alabama

>>91971460
>>91971476

I would read the hell out of this.

>>91974011
I thought it was a direct reincarnation, he has all the memories granted they were kinda hazy.
>>91974065
>>91974095
Shit like this makes me hate the beyondverse, also hate how they made Dick into a one eyed bitter old Man.

>>91974668

Or how they made Lord Superman into a generic evil villain obsessed about Wonder Woman when the whole point of the Lords universe was that they were like the main universe only with the added PTSD of Wally dying by President Luthor.

>>91974697
I hate how when Terry goes to the Lords universe, there's still crime and gangs, it should have been close to injustice universe.

>>91974730

That whole arc was dumb as hell.

Lords Batman died before completing a Deus Ex Machina batsuit made of kryptonite and because of that a universe displaced WW spent years fighting Lords Superman without any win becoming the generic battle-hardened WW typical of Elseworlds when... she could have just finished the batsuit. Are you really going to tell me she couldn't get some scientist to help her?

No, political marriage was the only solution for the war to end, but somehow decades later Terry managed to finish the batsuit with ease when he got to the Lords universe and with it win stop Lords Superman.

Shit was contrived as fuck.

>>91974814
True, did they not even search the batcave when they demolished it, Terry found it pretty fast and finished it with Dicks help and why is Dick, Lord Supes' bitch. Beyond Verse is a mistake, I also hate how Ra mind swapped with Talia and wanted to fuck Bruce, that was pretty weird.

>>91972738
The death that is life

>>91972418
>>91968856

Yeah, I should greentext my story already. Not as interesting as you might think it'd be:

>Start pushing myself to hit on girls at uni and grab their numbers
>One of the girls I go on a date with, I'm instantly smitten with. Our date goes really well, we really click and talk for hours
>She texts me a lot after that, indicating she's interested
>Try to set up second date
>Ghosts me for a little bit
>Figure may as well give it another shot
>"Hey, wanna do X on Tuesday?"
>Is there another day you're free? I reserve Tuesdays for my bf. It's date night, lol"
>mnightshyaamalan.jpg. Never mentioned having BF on date.
>shyamalan her right back. "I have to check my schedule, this is my week for custody of the kids!" I don't have kids.
>Decide to forget about her and continue seeing other girls, but I don't like any of them as much as I like her
>Cave and text her again after a couple weeks
>We go out again. She never mentions bf again, still not sure if he's real or not.

>>91976723
>Second date goes pretty well, too
>She seems enthusiastic about going out again, tells me about how she's free a lot of days next week
>I invite her, she says that day works for her.
>Go to the cocktail bar, she never shows up. Doesn't respond to text.
>Feel extra shitty because I had testicular torsion earlier that day, was operated on, and had just gotten out of the hospital, excited that I at least get to see this girl
>Sit drinking cocktails and drawing in my sketchbook for an hour or two (brought my sketchbook because she is an amazing artist, so I thought, it would be cool if we both drew stuff in the book on our date)
>Decide to hit on these girls at this table by drawing one of them and then going up to them to talk to them
>They ask for my drawing, I tear it out of my book with my signature and number
>After a bit of chat and making them laugh, one of them goes, "well, I'm going to get back to catching up with my sister."
>I'm like, "cool." Go back to my stool, finish my drink, go to another pub
>Sit there alone, but then spark up convo with guy after he buys me a beer for solving a Rubick's cube.
>Really interesting guy, cool chat, we exchange numbers. Doesn't have a lot of friends in calgary (just doing a year of his post-grad here, then moving), so I figure I'll introduce him to a couple other grad students I know (I'm an undergrad myself, but talking to grad students, they seem like a lonely bunch)

So yeah, that's it.

I know that I shouldn't be stuck on this chick, that there are probably many like her who are more considerate, but even though I intellectually know that, I just can't bring myself to believe it on a visceral level. I llike her art. I like her carefree worldview. I like her easygoingness, her humour, her values. I should have bailed as soon as the "bf" comment as made and casually dropped in without explanation. Whether it was a lie or the truth, it was a red flag either way. I figured I'd ignore it and take her out anyway.

>>91968369
My therapist told me some stuff that really helped me after my last breakup. The thing about ending long term relationships is that it can be a lot like losing someone close to you, even if they aren't actually dead. It's still very similar to the grieving process because you've suddenly lost this relationship and it won't be the same again. It takes time to grieve and everyone does it differently, so don't feel bad about taking some time for yourself to heal.

The other thing he told me was that though it may feel as if you couldn't ever feel the same about someone else again, and that may in fact be true, you can feel strongly about someone else in a different way. There's more than one way to love someone, and you can find that different brand of love some day. So take some time and grieve. Cry, listen to sad songs, get wasted, take a sick day and lay in bed. But don't tarry in sadness too long, or you'll miss your life going by.

>>91976723
>my bf
>then lie about kids
>gets a guys number
>artist

I see you're confused with trying to be the cucker, and being a raging homo. I think happiness lies in picking just one of these things.

>>91976782
At least you can befriend that interesting guy.
Comrades over courtesans and all that.

>>91973839
Man you fucked up hard lol

>>91976723
>>91976782

You do know that her having a boyfriend isn't obstacle for sex, right? Just saying.

>>91973839
It's probably your fault

>>91976782
It's ok to just be friends, just look for someone else and be upfront about it with her to see her reaction

If she doesnt care move on

If she makes a stink maybe there is something there

I'm not expert but that would be my move

>>91968444
Didn't this comic go differently?

>>91972418
thank anon,i am not OP, this helped me alot. I had a crush on a girl and the more I talked to her to less I liked her. Yesterday I was going to ask her out, yet she was rude saying " I am too tired to talk"(we were on the same day trip and we got back late).I am yetting her go, she just seems immature to me. This helped me get over her.

I think if any of us can get something out of Bojack, it's that one quote by the Owl girl.

"When you're wearing Rose-tinted glasses, red flags just look like flags."

I got burned by a girl I was smitten with too, but after the pain and hurt went away and I could look back at it objectively, it would have never worked out. I would've been miserable with her in the long run and I dodged a bullet. If it was meant to be, you guys would've worked it out.

>>91977644
It usually is for those of moral integrity, though that whole polygamous relationship thing is becoming more popular. Generally it's best for yourself and everyone else involved to not associate with cheaters.

>>91977331
Lol, I got the dude's number in a platonic way

But yeah, my attempt at a clever comeback with the kids thing probably did more harm to me than good.

This other girl I was seeing also seems to have lost interest, but at least I wasn't as into her as I'm into this chick.

>>91977519
Yeah, he seems pretty cool

>>91977718
I'm pretty sure she would just be like "fine by me!"

It takes me a while to get comfortable with people, so I feel like if I could just take her out again and be my normal, more irreverent self, instead of trying to be on my "best behavior," I might win her over. We have enough in common. But I'm probably deluding myself if I think I can do just the right steps to get her. It's probably out of my hands. She's just lost interest.

OMG OP IS A TOTAL FAG 2 DATES!
2 DATES!
2 DATES!!!!!!!
AND YOU STILL HADNT HIT AND YOUR IN FUCKING COLLEGE HOLLLLLLLLLYYYYYYYYYUUUUYYY FUCUCUCUCUCUING KEKED FAG OMG AND YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES I CAN TELL DUDE BUT YOU DIDNT HIT AFTER EVEN THE FIRST DATE AND YOUR IN FUCKING COLLEGE!!!!!!!!! WAKE UP FREIND ITS SHOULDNT EVEN TAKE 2 DATES TO SMASH A BITCH IN COLLEGE ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME!!!!!!!
SHE OBVIOUSLY WANTED DICK AND YOU WERE GONNA DRAW WTF LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I HAVE A HORRIBLE HANGOVER FROM LAST NIGHT BUT THAT ONE REALLY MADE ME LAUGH.

Srs as your freind cuz I can tell you have some skills you gotta be more aggressive with it partner stop sitting on the sideline waiting for the right time and begin getting to the punchline faggot it's time. you've trained long enough it's time Bruce it's time.

>>91974206
I wrote a poem
>>91974196
this makes me happy

>>91969101
buy gold, bye!

>>91977954
>whole polygamous relationship thing is becoming more popular.
The people who truly believe that do it until they are in the position of the jealous one. It's always easy to say "I'm cool with it" until you find yourself loving someone so much and in such ways that you can't stand the thought of them fucking someone else.
Sure, some people accept that, but I have yet to see a couple where the one who goes along with the idea doesn't have any qualms with it at all. From what i've seen, there's always one who just wants to fuck around because it's boring in his/her relationship, and the other one says yes, and might fuck around too, but is never truly okay with it.

All that to say that we're jealous animals, with the paradox of wanting to fuck as many fols as possible, while wanting to keep our significant other exclusively to ourselves.

>>91978692
Yeah, I'm way too timid and slow. Don't even kiss my dates. Across I'll come off as a creep or sleaze bag.

Tried making more innuendos on my last date with her, but I still never went for the kiss. I'm a shy boy.

>>91979002
Not him, but I think that's okay.

You don't want to end up with someone who doesn't match who you are , at least I suppose you don't.
I don't know what your goals were though. You just wanted to fuck her or were looking for something else? Either way, I'd stay away from already "engaged" girls.

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>>91968369
Meh women suck become a faggot

>>91978737

Why my misery make you happy?

>>91979002
You have to get over that man srs your in like flin take advantage these woman they want you too I promise. you might be surprised, you cute basterd

>>91979085
Dude you can fuck a bitch after the first date and still have a bf/gf relationship don't be lame. a girl has needs too you know.

>>91979308
>Dude you can fuck a bitch after the first date and still have a bf/gf relationship don't be lame. a girl has needs too you know.
That's not what I'm saying.

>>91979272
life is all relative, and in this case, related

>>91969103
I hope you step on a lego

>>91973839
It's okay, anon. A girl tried to kiss me in 8th grade so I punched her in the tits. She became a coal burner.

>>91977663
I've thought about that myself but i can't say for certain. She was already going down that path and that's probably the main reason we haven't spoken.

>>91972144
What do you think 4chan is?

>>91976782
You really should have called her out when she mentioned her bf, or at least asked about him.

>>91979002
The thing is sometimes girls, just like dudes, are just trying to get laid, especially in college, and so if you don't make a move fast they'll lose interest.

That might be why that girl seemed interested and eager at first and then started being aloof. She figured you're not gonna bang her so she moved onto more promising targets.

>>91976782
>>Feel extra shitty because I had testicular torsion earlier that day, was operated on, and had just gotten out of the hospital, excited that I at least get to see this girl

If this is real, I hope you get better quick!