How do I politely ask my 43 year old coworker where she fucked

you mean why* she is a waitress*

i think you already know why OP

>>1629224
these ppl usually tell their story theirself

>>1629224
Post a picture of her and I will tell you what went wrong where

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>>1629224
surprising number of people don't give a shit about career or money until it's too late. look at all the proud NEET posters on this board
>wake up one day
>you didn't fall for the college meme
>you're old as fuck and depressing now
>good job?

>>1629302
>wake up one day
>you fell for the college meme
>you're old as fuck and depressed now

It's called life and it happens to everyone

>>1629337
Wrong.
It happens to people who post on 4chan.org/biz/

>>1629337

sorry to break it to you buddy, but you'd be surprised at how many successful people browse this shit hole.

>>1629357
who are said people

>>1629461
me

>>1629461
not me, but I have a friend who browses this board that has $90k

You can find out anything about a person by talking to them a little.

Looking for a simple "aha" won't get you there for everybody.

I've found myself to be very successful in asking people questions along the lines of "did you need to work harder to gain the love of your mother or father when you were younger? What did you have to do to gain that love? Who did you have to be? What would you teach the world if you could teach only one thing?"

Most people are so dissonant with the truth that they won't believe you even if you directly tell them how that pattern repeats in their life today, so don't tell them. It's just good for personal knowledge.

>>1629500
Having 90k is a great start and required some discipline probably, but I wouldn't call it wildly successful.