Need emotional advice >recently broke up from relationship

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stay strong nigga
was this like a long distance relationship or what?

>>744968808
Yeah it was Long distance but the pain was still real, I had an emotional break down on Sunday night...

>>744968956
Omg are u serious kiddo?

>>744968956
aight my dude look forward to closer relationships with other people.

you will forget.

>>744969275
Yeah I'm serious...

>>744969278
I wish it was easy to forget but the feeling doesn't go away...

So you going to give her Kik?

>>744969497
And why the fuck am I going to do that?

>>744969559
Because she needs some dick pics.

>>744969694
She already has enough from me.

>>744969766
Don't you see it? You're useless now so she needs better one.

>>744968541
Man, you came to the wrong place to talk about that.

>>744969836
Don't you understand she needs an UPGRADE not a DOWNGRADE anon.

>>744969959
That's exactly what i was saying, idiot. You are just not good enough... sorry

>>744970046
That last reply must of went over your head anon bc I was clearly stating you're the downgrade

useless cunt hahaaa

>>744970145
You sound like 12.. little idiot please just kys and everyone is happy

>>744970151
That's funny how it's coming out from your mouth

>>744970236
weeell i see you found your emotional advice! Good to see hahaha

>>744970211
No don't kys

>>744970211
So tell me, what was your thought process when it came to replying to this?

>>744968541
What was her name?

>>744968541
At least you spelled ciao right.

>>744970498
Haley. That's all I'm giving.

I'm sorry for your loss OP. I hope you'll find someone soon who will help you to forget her.

>>744968541
so whats the problem , i dont get it
you broke it off and now feel shit

>>744970533
All good, sounds oddly similar to a relationship I just got out of

>>744970653
I want to get over it and be able to put t behind it but with her birthday so close to mine, it's just so hard to not think of it

>>744970690
Breaking it off or being dumped?

>>744970512
Went through an AC2 phase

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listen boy, actual advice here

stop falling into depression and get your ass up. maybe she was "the one" but there are literally millions of possible partners for you. get out, dress and smell nice and be polite.

the reality is you won't get a new gf immediately but you have to fucking work for it

>>744970574
Thanks... it means a lot to me

>>744968541
Birthday twin
also I feel you, same concept happened here. No real way to feel better but to distract yourself and look for a new girl. Play some games and shit, date someone even if you don't like them as much, don't look at her social media and stuff

>>744970702
Been there, its hard.
I can help you but its gonna take awhile
Do you want discord link ?

>>744970791
Yeah I know about that considering I worked hard enough that she broke it off with her gf in order to date me but thinking about it just hurts so much. I was playing Siege and ranking up a lot that I forgot about her but then that night I had a dream about her. I woke up breathing heavily and felt like o was going to cry

>>744970743
Broke it off, guess we just drifted apart as people, but tbh, just didn't feel like it was worth the hassle anymore

>>744969836
lmao ignore horny chad

>>744971018
Heh, thanks man, it's good to know that there are great people in this world

>>744971013
Yeah... I was tired of being so sad and being ignored by her even though she was depressed and tried helping her even though she pushed me away

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>>744970989
>I woke up breathing heavily and felt like o was going to cry

i'll give you another advice
do cry. do shout. rip a t-shirt in half. destroy some plates and yell at them. punch a pillow. just don't let it out on random people

work off this energy of depression and sadness constantly. once the emotions a bearable get out and meet new ladies. i wish you the very best /b/rother

>>744971252
sorry for my bad english

>>744971252
Thanks for the tip, it means a lot, I appreciate it, thank you

>>744970211
I 2nd

She probably just doesn't know who she is yet, it's hard to be with someone like that because it makes you want to try harder for them, but the more you try, the more they push you away, give it time, check up on her in the near future, maybe she'll come around, and if not, at least you'll probably have found something for yourself by then

>>744971475
>"I 2nd"
That's really means nothing when the entire thread is most likely against you.

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>>744971529
Maybe...
I tried messaging her bc image (pic related)
And well she read it a few hours later...
Next day (yesterday) she responds (I was waiting for the metro to take me to college) and she responds exactly with this:
>"I'm sorry for being depressed?"
I lost it
When she and I were together I tried being cutesy with her and talked about future life plans when she replied with
>"Anon, I don't think our relationship will last that long"
I had to act as if that didn't hurt me but I was fucking destroyed inside and devastated

>>744968541
Girls dont love like we do, its just a sad fact. Thats why this happens again and again in long term relationships. Without that 'new relationship feel' sooner or later they get bored. Fuck them.

>>744971972
Honestly I feel like something is missing in life, I have friends and family, I got video games and people to hangout but with love, I have nothing and it makes me feel lonely and useless you know?

>>744970498
Hayley Ward?!

>>744972198
No, her last name starts with F and her middle name starts with a V; her first name is the only way to write it: Haley

>>744968541
I dont understand what you need help with?

You broken up with someone because they were fuckin boring and now what do you want from us???To entertain your dumb ass?

>>744972291
My ex was named that and I swear OP, she acted just like that.

>>744968541
OP, you did the right thing.

I am certain you helped this bitch through a lot of shit, only for her to treat you like shit when you needed her.

You should force that bitch to talk to you.

>>744972623
If you read the thing you'd see that I asked for help on getting over her

>>744972714
I don't want to force anyone to do anything but I know the feeling though

>>744972131
Ye, I can totally empathize. Surely there must be a piece out there to complete us. But I have all but given up on ever finding it.

>>744973025
Blackmail her into talking to you.

>>744973025
When I was with my ex, I should have done that.

>>744973082
Okay that's the one think I really don't want to do, it would make me back as the last guy she dated a few years back

>>744968541
Clean break, stop talking, let her go. Any further conversation is just extra damage. Let. Her. Go.

>>744969470
Not immediately it won't. Best you can do is keep yourself occupied and use that time and energy to better yourself. Excercise, build on a skill/hobby etc.

Chin up anon, it gets better

>>744973239
Thanks for the tip anon, greatly appreciated

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>iFunny
you fucking fag

>>744973175
Don't listen to them! Once they are in that phase where the best response they can come up with is "eh" or "meh" or silence they are gone. Talking or especially forcing them to talk, sending some love type pics or poems or long explanatory emails only makes things worse. They will change from indifferent to being sick of you. Not something you want.

>>744973344
Wait what

>>744973355
Thanks a lot anon
Stupidly I'm thinking of talking to her on her birthday as my final good bye

>>744973497
>>744973224
Dont.

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>>744968541
>iFunny
how old are you?

>>744973582
Yeah
I know I shouldn't but considering her birthday is literally the day before my birthday, it's just something my brain came up with

>>744973596
I'm genuinely confused what's going on

>>744972198
From NUIG?

>>744968541
Are we ignoring the fact that OP is a spic?

>>744973497

Dude you are a sorry piece of shit, do you really think you can get a girl acting like that? Do you really think this girl will feel sorry for you? Stop acting like a weak bitch so people like you, be a man and you won't have these problems

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>bisexual
>long distance relationship
>blackmail nudes
>you were the one

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH I haven't laughed this hard in a long time thanks OP

>>744968541
fag

>>744973720
Why does race matter again?

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>>744973684
Left top corner of your stupid pic
I seriously can't stop laughing

>>744973882
Why does that matter?

>>744973497
No, don't. I've had this experience. This a very faint spark of hope manifesting itself. This spark is subtle and deceptive, it tells you that maybe she'll be touched by the gesture, maybe she'll become less cold. She won't. Crush this spark of hope with every ounce of your willpower. If you follow it, it will lead only to more pain.
You've said goodbye. Now mean it.

Really really ask yourself if this applies. I'm not asking you to tell me - it'll make no difference. Just ask yourself.

>>744973852
Did you forget where you are right now? Nobody's safe.

>>744973939
Thanks for the wake up call, I really needed that

>>744973689
Florida

>>744973981
Doesn't that mean you're not safe either? What's the point? It's all petty

>>744973930
1 it indicates you're underage
2 it's funny

OP you are a sissy faggot.

Extort that whore or take her back and then cheat on her.

>>744974084
I'm turning 19 this 28th
Doesn't anyone have at least one stupid app that they use when they're THAT bored?

>>744974019
No problems anon. It'll suck, sometimes really badly, but it passes. To put it in the words of my favourite cheesy quote, time heals what reason cannot.
One day you'll look back and it won't hurt.

>>744968541
>She basically broke up with her gf to be my gf when we began to date

Found the problem. She is gay and nothing can change that... She is missing a juicy pussy in her life and i can go even further and say that she found said pussy while she was with you.

You need some time to heal and thats it.

>>744974083
These people are race obsessed fags.

>>744974273
Boson X
Whisper
Tinder
Skype
Clover
Exodus

>Take your ex gf back.

Ignore her as well. Go on Tinder and get you some head, my nigger.

>>744974211
Unlike you, I don't do shit that can get me in trouble in the law
considering I'm part of a Police Program

>>744974083
Did I say I was safe? Holy shit.
My race is undistinguished so I'm pretty good

>>744974387
Oooohhhhh

>>744974273
No, that's what 4chan's for

>>744974387
Sorry that you got cucked by a halfdyke.

>>744974381
Thanks for the advice, will try it out soon

>>744974403
Race doesn't matter if you're get arrested for a crime you know

Blowjobs feel ticklish.

>>744974297
I really don't care about race, it's like that small annoying bug bite on your arm you know?

>>744974274
Thanks, kinda reminds me of my first ex, just thinking of her is like "oh boy it's a girl you liked back then, hey give me something better to think about tho"

>>744971475
is there ever really a need to samefag on /b/

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>>744971959
>ifunny image

Remember OP. Nothing pisses a girl off more than seeing her ex happy.

Don't listen to most of the faggots. Most of them are cucks anyway. Maybe newfags who thing 4chan is nothing but shitposting.

Just be as happy as you can. It may be hard now, but everyone needs an upgrade. Now it's your turn to upgrade.

>>744974843
To them apparently they have to I dunnooo

>>744975075
Thanks anon, never thought of that before, but considering what she said in the image, I kinda doubt it

>>744973497
Ye its me again. Trust me I was in the same situation more than once. It cant be saved with gestures and talk. VERY rarely it can be fixed with total ignore. (Or by triggering jelousy).

>>744974917
Get over yourself normie

>>744975222
Yeah that is true.. she's just the special type, like not autistic or retarded, just emotionally they're that wildcard where you just can't get into their head with normal means or know what they think bc they say one thing but how they're really responding to it is a mystery

>>744971959
You're 18. Of course you two would never end up together. It sounds to me like you smothered her.

>>744976149
It was great for the first 4 months but since the first month we dated I had to deal with her monthly episodes over the course of a year

>>744971959
>hundred of packs that would not live to open

yeah no shit, bags aren't sentient

>>744973224
Ed Sheeran is right, OP

and you let er go

maybe when she doesn't find the right Chad she'll come back to you then leave you again when she misses that Chad dick

>>744976613
Thanks anon

>>744975434
Ha my the-one, was the same. Super special, not crazy, could think logically, super empathic, accomodating, enjoyed my hobbies and what not, just the right amount of submissive.... meh I miss her.

>>744976788
no problem buddy

>>744976833
That defines what she was, except
>monthly suicidal/depression episodes
>so much depression and negativity

>>744977202
usually smart people are easily depressed because everyone else is fucking retarded as fuck.

try to get her back i guess, if she didn't cheat

>>744969470
Keep your head held high and find a hobby Jose. Forget her, no matter how hard it is and how lpng it takes.

>>744977275
>usually smart people are easily depressed because everyone else is fucking retarded as fuck.
I'm gonna need a source for that claim.

>Jose
>helping a spic
Why do I keep coming back

>>744977489
>source: everyone else is retarded as fuck

you're gonna need a source for common sense? or do you need some of that too

>>744977392
Thanks anon, it means so fucking much to me

>>744977527
Yeah I wonder why you even came here if you hate latinos that much like go the other way lmao

>>744977541
Pro tip: if everyone around you seem like idiots you're probably the idiot.

>>744977644
Like how people think Rick and Morty are understood by the smartest people?

>>744977644
wheres your source

>>744977627
Didn't know he was a spic till I opened the image silly but that's even the worst part this guy is getting her over a ldr like a child

>>744968541
Did you try buying her some a pinata and some burritos Jose? Were you even trying?

>>744977753
Yeah, because the majority of people think that, not just a loud minority. That was sarcasm btw, in case you're too smart to detect it.
>>744977788
I said probably for a reason bby

>>744977982
You do realize that you're talking to OP right?

>>744978122
why are you here again?

>>744978145
Nope if so he's still a faggot

>>744978122
I wasnt saying to understand Rick and morty you had to be intelligent, it's just basically annoying thing. It's an okay show but like the geeks of the show in my college were so fucking loud about it and just trash

>>744978297
What do you have against me?