WHY DON'T YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND YET? >WHY DON'T

I am socially retarded.

>>743693987
I Just got turned down.

She doesn't acknowledge me

>>743693987
>>743692770 this is why

Because I don't really want one. There are times in which I want a girlfriend and I feel lonely, and there are times I feel like going for it.. just to have someone to share love with, but when I get close to actually having a girlfriend I sort of realise I prefer to be by myself. I love the phase when me and the girl are in love and sweet talking, the physical contact ofcourse.. but at my age now it quickly gets to wanting to get married and having kids, which I also don't want.

>>743693987
cause I have APD and it sucks

>>743693987
not worth the effort.

>>743693987
because I spend all day here bitching about trump.

>>743694084
>>743694796
This and I don't trust anyone. Plus who wants to date a 28 year old who has never dated? Nobody, that's who.

>>743693987
>Be socially retarded
>See no value out of anything but LSD, weed and shrooms
>Got heart broken and lead on for 4 years in highschool and never came back from the "Im done with dating" stage
>Feel like everyone is repulsive

>>743695099
if you truly were socially retarded you knew nobody to get the drugs from

>>743695169
Kinda hard considering I work at a dispensary lmao, but yeah I guess

>>743693987
Because I'm committed to a mutual relationship with my sister

Because my French class was cancelled and couldn't see my future gf

>>743693987
am fag

>>743694945
It's about time you start then. Get out there and get your dick wet

>>743695388
Nah I'm good. I have nothing to offer. I'd rather keep my time and money to myself.

>>743693987
Because the internet has new, fresh porn everyday.

>>743693987
>yet

Well I had two; one was a bitch who wanted to go and fuck other guys, the second one wanted to be treated like a fucking princess 24/7. Until I find a woman that I care about and that thinks we're both worth each other's time, I'm probably better off masturbating anyway.

>>743693987
Truthfully I'm a 34 year old virgin. I am waiting to find that 10/10 girl before having sex for the first time. I want it to be better than I already think it is. The only problem is 10/10 girls are hard to find. So far only certain celebrities measure up.

>>743693987
Because it might upset my wife.

Because we broke up yesterday.
>feelsbadman

>>743693987
because i'm done dating. tired of cheating hoes claiming they want real guys and then being fake as fuck. tired of chick who claim their interested and then only want to talk when you message or call them. i'm tired of dealing with stupidity so i'm out of the game. i make my money, i spend it on myself, i enjoy my life and fuck all these hoes.

>>743695488
Classic virgin rationale.

Hate to break it to ya but any chick worth being with isn't gonna cost you shit, and time spent feels like chilling with your buds, but with tits.

I cant believe people still fall for the all women are golddiggers meme

>>743693987
But I do. . .

MODS
O
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SDOM

>>743695742
Enjoy dying a virgin as well. Youre not going to find a 10/10 unless you pay for it.

>>743695965
I don't have any buds. Everyone is a gold digger as far as I'm concerned.

>>743696072
Then maybe you should just kill yourself already you golddigging faggot

Cuz I have realized it is not worth it. I have dated and fucked enough girls to come to the conclusion that pussy is too over-rated and being by myself is way more enjoyable. It's not worth the effort, energy, and money. Plus I get free fresh porn everyday

>>743696149
Nah I'm good. Enjoy being a needy idiot. I'll be over here enjoying my time and money.

>>743693987
My wife would be upset.

>>743696149
See? People are trash.

>>743693987
BYCOSE IM SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO AUTISTICK TO GET ONE

>>743696485
I could tell.

>>743695965
The searching and finding out people are bitches isn't really worth the effort for some though. Who finds a respectable partner at a party or in a club? Hardly anyone I suppose.

I think whenever I find someone new worth spending time with, I'll just do that.

I havnt had a girlfriend since I was 12 or so. I dont want one now, because I think I will be too clingy

>>743695742
Masturbation is better than fucking.

>>743693987

Because I prolly try to hard getting one... (got rejected 28 times since September 2016)

>>743696717
plus, I think I dont have the balls to ask a girl anymore. My balls was bigger when I was 12-15 than the last 3 years. There is this cute girl on my school.. Should I just ask her? Worst thing that can happen is she got a boyfriend

>>743696745
Most morons here probably don't even realize that.

I mean fucking someone you're in love with is the greatest thing ever, but fucking just for the sake of it and because you're horny is way less pleasing than most virgins here expect it to be.

too big of a wuss to talk to her

Every girl in town finds me grotesque

Because women are fucking insufferable morons who can't live one day without the constant attention of their boyfriend. I'd rather play video games and masturbate.

>>743696929
Virgin detected.

>>743697055
thats just sad

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>>743693987
I have autism. Hookers and call girls do just fine for me. For the rest:

Because I like boys.

>>743697128
That's just your opinion.

>>743693987
I dated a girl for a little while and we broke up. Reason I don't have a gf is because I tried too hard for someone who liked having me around but didn't need me. I burned out doing things for her, pushed her away with it but kept on with it because I thought if I stopped I'd never see her again. I held on so long it destroyed what little remaining friendship we had after the break up, I never let her forget how it affected me because I got depressed and lost a crazy amount of weight. I know seeing me everyday got to her and she felt guilt and she'd push me away so as not to have to feel it. She got with other men after me, really worthless druggie type guys and it sent me further into depression. The most recent being one who's into domestic violence and I couldn't take it anymore. She'd been fighting a custody battle for her son, a disillusioned one and I knew this would be the final nail in her coffin if allowed to continue. I told her son's father what she was getting herself and her son into, what had happened over the last 6 years. I'm sure it'll hurt her chances of getting to see her kid and she may lose visitation but I did it for her kid. I loved the kid, loved her and watching this downward spiral for so long killed me inside. I didn't want to hurt her but she was already hurting herself, I wish it didn't get to me so hard in the past.

>>743697152
How can people listen to that shit?

>>743693987
Nigga I've been engaged for 3 years

>>743695965
I had one gf and it was because she was super chill and we didn't really cost each other anymoney.

Its made me feel more positive about woman for sure. Kinda sucks I had to end it, feels bad breaking a girls heart.

>>743697314
>3 years
Piss or get off the pot.

>>743697244
...and yours is gay

>>743697298
idk, but i thought it was hilarious for some reason.

>>743693987
cause i did that for 4 years im ight

>>743697152
how can you do this without completely destroying your sense of self-worth

>>743696703
Who said anything about parties and clubs? There are a million other places to meet people

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>>743697377

>>743697432
By not having any

>>743697100
lol grow up, kid

>>743697298
i do. it helps with edging.

>>743697432
You don't need self worth if you don't have anyone.

i honestly dont know why... im not ugly... im not poor... i just dont ... try

>>743697491
Can't expect a child to understand

>>743697549
I edge plenty. ASMR is just so cringy to me.

Cuz my personality's been skinned alive and publicly crucified for being a dick to my last girlfriend, now I can barely look myself in the face without it flaking off, let alone another woman without my eyes reflexively searing.

>>743697100
nothing wrong with being a virgin. I myself is a virgin. I'm waiting for the right girl
>not a muslim

>>743697373
Nigga bein poor aint gonna make no marriage work, let me get my shit together.

>>743697621
that looks she gives him, its KAWAII NIGGA!

>>743697288
Man, it may sound harsh, but you really need to get over this girl.
If there isn't even any friendship left after the breakup, that woman doesn't hold you to any standard at all and you shouldn't waste your energy on someone like that. Being alone is still better than being with a careless bitch.

>>743696882
Yup, just ask her. Two things can happen:
1) She rejects you, but at the least you had the courage to ask her, an so you did what society expects of a man to do.
2) She accepts = win for you.

>>743693987
I have a European gf (living here with her family).
We want to get married and move to Europe.

Sometimes it can be really tedious... If you don't have a gf yet, don't feel obliged to search for one.
If you meet a nice girl like mine that sucks your dick, fucks you, makes you food, etc... It kinda gets routinized eventually too.
If we're ever to break up, I probably won't date again. It just doesn't get any better.

>>743697554
but you're still part of this society and doesn't it suck to see couples happy together, holding hands, smiling at each other, kissing etc knowing you will never be that happy?

dont really have time for a girlfriend at the moment. If i was looking i dont know if anyone would be interested though. Usually girls show the most interest in me when im in a place in my life where i dont feel i have time for a girlfriend. Its kinda ironic

>>743697621
has to be from a movie, this doesn't happen in real life

>>743693987
Mods

>>743693987
Don't think too highly of myself, low confidence, mental issues, overly romantacized view of relationships until a while back, no hobbies (or anything that genuinely interests me), damaged from my only relationship, can't love myself, and lastly I just can't stand people in general anymore.

Only thing I have going for me is I can cook, but that doesn't cover baggage as much as my food might tangle the booty.

So I've decided to live life as a bachelor, kinda alright when you accept it until you find someone you're genuinely attracted to.

>>743697969
The thing is i feel happy for them. But i know i won't ever get that. And i can go without it i believe.

>>743698041
Haven't you seen girls that shave/laser?
It's just a very tight pussy. It exists, but pretty rare. Ask any cosmetic worker, every once in a while a girl with this kind of pussy arrives.

>>743697969
Not really. I've just accepted the fact that that stuff is for other people and not me. I barely view myself as human anymore. It makes a lot of things easier that way.

>>743697903
oh ok. Best way to ask? when she is alone, on the way home from school. Oooor what?

>>743697866
I'm aware and mostly over it, the aftermath is just still bitter. We used to be real close, even after the break up when she came running back to me after the first guy hurt her, we'd still shower together from time to time before or after work, it came to a halt soon after though. When she started seeing how much weight I was losing, it got to her too much.

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>>743698140
> shave lazer
>cosmetic worker
>rare tight pussy

Fuck outta here with all that future talk, space nigger.

>>743697713
Stfu youre white

>>743693987
i do c:

>>743698032
oh shit! sherlock holmes!

>>743698132
>>743698169
Interesting how you're so unconcerned about this. I have pretty much accepted my situation as well but whenever I get reminded by seeing other people interacting I get extremely jealous and angry at pretty much everyone because I don't want to be alone in my life.

>>743698169
Just try you autist, you'll find a girl if you try. sitting at home moaning isn't going to get you laid

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Depression, awkwardness, no drive to meet new people, trust issues.

I wish i could find a socially retarded weeb qt gf

>>743693987
i do

>>743698731
Then you haven't accepted it yet. And you're not alone. At least im not. I have friends, family, good supporting co-workers.

>>743697621
Sauce?

>>743698755
it's not that easy you stupid fucking normalfag.

you take things like having a stable social environment and having social skills for granted but for some people learning these is a lifelong struggle

>>743693987
God is my companion.

>>743698755
Moaning? What gives you the impression that I'm complaining? You only think I am because that's what you'd expect to me to do. Your expectations are irrelevant.
>>743698731
>I don't want to be alone in my life
Then change it or accept it. Anything else is a waste of time. I've accepted it. I don't want to deal with anyone else's bullshit any more than anyone else wants to deal with mine. It's that simple.

>>743699186
I only have 2 family members I'm in contact with, apart from that I'm completely isolated, no friends, not even facebook cause I don't see the point. and no coworkers cause I could never find a job in this condition and I'm approaching 30.

Shift towards enjoying people's company moment to moment, and you will (eventually but not too eventually) be surprised how many women want to smooch you

>>743699270
Have you even tried or do you just assume you can't because you feel nervous. you literally won't get anywhere if you don't put effort into anything. or you could just lame the "normies" for you being shit at basic tasks

>>743693987
I do, anon. I've been with her for 5 and a half years and the sex life is dying a slow, agonizing death. Considering either hitting up this girl ik at work that's into me as a side piece (she's in the same situation with her man, so safest bet of her not fucking up and telling my girl) or outright leaving her and finding fresh pussy.

>>743700023
I tried to approach other people many times before and always got rejected in some way. This collection of bad experiences has diminished my feeling of self-worth so much that I gradually got more shy and eventually gave up and stopped as a way of self-protection.

>>743693987
Someday OP, when i feel like i want one instead of just having sex, if you want have partners to share love, that's okay but if you want partners because you feel lonely, you're a beta faggot.

she doesn't hit me up anymore

cute girls don't seem to be interested in me and i refuse to have sex with chubby/ugly girls

>>743693987
Because I don't deserve one.

>>743700930
lower your standards or get fit

>>743700930
Same as the other guy, if you are not Hot shit then you don't have the right to ask for good pussy, or you get a downgrade for the pussy you're looking for, or you change you looks around.

>>743693987
Because I'm not a pussy like you who thinks about girlfriends. I have a wife.

>>743700977
he asked why i don't have a girlfriend. I am not crying for not having one

anyway, i'm already fit. Probably I'm just ugly or too shy. Honestly, i never make the first move. The few girls I had they proposed themself

>>743701164
And until one year go, i had a cute gf. But i'm too shy/lazy/retard to propose myself

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>>743700930
I'm not even fat or ugly but even the chubby girls ignore me, but I'm not approaching them either. Are girls always expecting guys to make the first move? How do you even know a girl would be interested in you cause no girl around me ever gave a shit about me.

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>>743701372
Ye, I'm not that guy which girls try to talk to on facebook. And probably I transpire too much self-confidence.

>>743693987
>implying I don't

>>743701567
o rly?

>>743695293
Wtf

>>743701619
Yeah

>>743696175
This

>>743693987
I had some. Do not want this again.

I will when I want one. Too busy now

https://www.dothethingneedsdoing.com/start-doing

>>743693987
I have a 2d girlfriend. All the good parts, and none of the inconveniences.

Too lazy/dont need one. At least dont feel like i need one. I enjoy time spent alone or with friends, a girlfriend just seems like too much work.

>>743701896
Hey MGTOW

>>743693987
Because women have a vagina.

>>743695099
You are literally me!

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>>743698349
PUBES PUBES WHAT ARE PUBES

>>743693987
Because that thread said I'd get a gf by tomorrow and it's not tomorrow yet.

I want a boyfriend

>>743702848
>>/lgbt/

>>743693987
Because I'm too passive during dates and they always end up getting bored. Hell, I'm too passive in general. The only way I can get dates is through online dating where I can chat them up using text, I'm way too shy to chat a girl up IRL.

Im sitting in my sofa right now, all alone, in nothing but my underwear, drinking beer and watching some stupid film. And im actually super happy. I have had a couple of long relationships and they where good, but i could never just sit down in peace and quiet with a beer. Always something going on, something to talk about, some feelings, some shit to wash or clean. If not they where mad at me for something, or crying, or had a bunch of friends over. Now its just me, my dick and my right hand.