How old were you when you gave up on love/finding love,

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going into my twenties. because little girls just don't want to fuck. the ones that do get it from their daddies already.

>>742978289
26. Because I figured out that love is there to make men feel good about being with bad women. Which is all women.

>>742978494
Dude im also in my early twenties and I dont think sex was easier in history (maybe the 60 or 70ties). Im asking about love.

21
Realized that modern women are a waste of money and time, mostly money though

>>742978629
little girls get their love from daddy and don't want mine. i hope this modification to what i posted satisfies your strict posting guidelines.

>>742978736
Also it's always about what you can offer them, never actually any deep connection

>>742978549
Also.

When I realised that all women are train wrecks just waiting to happen, and that all men in their lives are just along for the ride.

The way I see it dont get involved untill you are 28-30 years old. Then get a fresh 20 year old girl,swipe her off her feet and have kids. Because girls begin to age after 25. Guys are in their prime in the 30s.

>>742978747
just become a dad

>>742978289
What are you, twelve?
You don't have to "give up on love" to have some more realistic expectations for relationships. It's not that love doesn't exist, it's just that unconditional love only exists from a parent to their child, if at all.
I think the melodramatic idiots who gave up on love are just under the wrong impression that love has to last long or be unconditional for it to be "true love".
Just don't expect too much from your partner and don't think that relationships aren't hard work. People are assholes after all, so what did you expect from love? It's temporary and unfair, still no need to give up on it.

>>742979288
> It's temporary and unfair
> still no need to give up on it
so you like wasting time with bullshit?

>>742979271
i don't think single dads go over well with the adoption fags. plus i don't think its right to put myself in that position if i want something more than platonic familial affection.

>>742979288
it's not really unconditional love from a parent to a child, because the condition is "as long as you're my child I'll love you" kek

>>742979482
this lmao

16. Had two boyfriends cheat on me in a row and now I can't seem to catch feelings for anyone, so I guess my body gave up on its own

>>742979482
Any better options? Try becoming old without being married or having children, I heard that suicide rates are pretty low for people like that. Dying alone also sounds like fun.

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18
I had fucked 4 chicks in highschool.
Broke up with a hot filipina for a hot white blonde.
This blonde was the worst experience of me life.
We had great sex almost everyday but after 6 months she literally attacked me and than called the cops on me.
Told everyone in school I hit her for no reason.
Realized most women are fucking idiots and only treat women like they are annoying fucks. as they are, occiasionally you'll find one that wants to fuck.
Didn't even bother to make a relationship out of any of them (only fucked two other chicks since).

>>742979893
Yeah stay in shape, fuck girls and work a job you love. Maybe buy stuff you like.

15 or 16?
Most girls aren't interesting. Something happened recently, though. I am 30 and for the first time, I have developed strong romantic feelings for a girl, in a way I did not think possible for me.

She does not feel the same way about me, though. So it will end in sadness.

>>742978289
Never gave up. Found love at 26

>>742979893
Also why would you want to grow old? So you can piss on yourself and live in memories all day long?

Is it fruitless to pursue a man in his late 30s for love? Like, do your souls just die and I'd be better off trying luck elsewhere?

>>742980249
I'm sorry.
Have you actually shared your feelings with her? What made you pick her out of plenty?

>>742980249

You better work for it if you want a family.
Don't have a fucking kid if you're gonna raise a dipshit though.

I'm guessing since you're still on 4chan at 30. You should wait.

>>742978736
This
>>742978813
This
>>742980230
And this

I'm 21, have had sex a handful of times, and had 2 "can't even call them relationships" in the past. Used to be pretty fit, not the most attractive, not autismo but still not great with women/socializing, 2 really good friends and a few acquaintances. I used to get depressed thinking about how much of a loser I was but now I've graduated college and got a meh job that pays well I've suppressed that through retail therapy and am kinda okay with not having an SO.

I read some article about betas who have successful lives start getting bitches around their thirties because the chads took all the stacys in their 20s and the women who couldn't get a chad have now lowered their standards to satisfy their primal reproductive instinct. That's really the only think that keeps alive the occasinal yearn for an SO but all in all I think I'm better off passively hating women and relationships.

>>742980230
Sounds great until you're 30 or 40, maybe.
Staying in shape is a good idea regardless of being married or not though.
Whatever works for you, m8. I just have seen too many people who become increasingly depressed with age because of not being in a relationship and depression/suicide statistics back my claims up. If it works for you, fine. For the huge majority it doesn't.

>>742980836
My friends don't understand at all. They obviously don't see what I see when I look at her. I like her because she is kind and considerate. She makes crude, sometimes even perverted jokes, but deep inside she really wants to be treated like a princess. We have interesting conversations and she has opened up to me. I have told her many things that no one else knows. Things that put me in a bad light or that is shameful. For some reason I feel safe telling her these things and she feels that she can do the same.

>>742980466
You want to grow old because that's when you can start doing really good drugs without worrying about dying too much.

>>742980836
Also.. I have told her how I feel about her. I have tried staying away from her in order to get over her. That made me miserable.

I want her to be happy even if it is with someone who isn't me. It's just so tough to pretend like I am fine when she is talking with someone she is obviously interested in. I feel like an asshole. I have no right to feel this way. She owes me nothing.

>>742978289
twenty four, the girl who id been dating/ in love with since the fucking seventh grade died in a car accident when we where twenty two four months after we got engaged, after two years of trying, i vividly remember giving up hope December 3rd 2014 in a hotel bathtub in LA, it's not so bad, i kinda just focus on my career and self betterment although she's in my head everyday

>>742981552
sorry for my piss poor grammar btw, just woke up

>>742980963
I am usually not at 4chan but I think your point might still be valid. I am emotionally immature because I haven't had any meaningful romantic relationships. I would like a child one day, when I can provide stability. I am an indie game developer (small studio of 17 people) and the pay isn't great.

>>742978289
26
now I'm 28 and still fat and greasy and have a small cock with fimosis an also acne all over my fat body

>>742981841
kill yourself

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>>742978289
about 25

the thing is, I found true love, but then we broke up for no apparent reason

she's said she still loves me more than anything and I love her more than anything but she's married to her new boyfriend and has two kids with him, and doesnt want to leave him

I founf true love and discovered its a horrible thing

she wanst my first gf, and she wasn't my last, ive dated 4 women after her, but she's the only one I ever loved so much that I if I would have to give my life for her i would not hesitate even a microsecond

you could seriously write the most surypy and most tragic of all love tragedy movies about my life ever, Im not even kidding.

I've found true love and Ive been waiting for death ever since,

heroin has fucking hardcore withdrawal, but with heroin you can eventually get rid of, but with true love the withdrawal does not end, it just keeps on crushing your sould into smaller and smaller shards, its like a disease that slowly kills you - on the inside, untill you are so numb that you eventually dont give a fuck wether you live or die

fuck love, its fucking horrible disease to have

>>742978813
This. My last gf left me because I couldn't buy her expensive shit. I got a speeding ticket and a no seat belt ticket so I couldon't afford some diamond necklace she's been practically begging for. Just out of nowhere she said "I'm tired of this" and just left

>>742981928
Why? I love my fastfood and tv shows and vydia and boards
fuck real world

>>742981507
>I have tried staying away from her in order to get over her. That made me miserable.

>I want her to be happy even if it is with someone who isn't me

Yeah dude don't do that its unhealthy. Don't feel like an asshole you're not. You have the right to feel however but its best not to let your happiness rely so much on other people. She does owe you something if your putting time and effort into her.

I'd say you have two choices.

Be a persistent mofo and try to win her. If you really believe she has something to offer you and you her then do it but don't place her above you.

If she explicitly says she's not interested forget her, move on and never dwell/think of her again. There will be other opportunities.

>>742981946
Was the experience worth it though? If you could, would you take it all back?

26. True love is made up. Romance is a lie.

>>742981361
okay you got me on this one i addmit

>>742981786
Emotional maturity is the ability to see life clearly and accurately, and to deal with it. If you expect life to be easy or comfortable all the time is to be naïve. It means you must live your life in the present, not in the past or the future, and definitely not in make believe.
which is what most of you millennial's you all have this weird fantasy that everyone wants to get along with you but just aren't given the chance , you're all SJW's for people who don't give a shit about you and would kill you if it would further their personal agenda....

>>742980643
if you are a little girl my heart will open up again. But the over 30s I know who are currently single have had enough bad experiences with terrible women to make ghandi give in to alcoholism

>>742981946
of fuck my grammar is horrible, sorry Im a bit tired

>>742982101
fuck no

>>742978289
20. I developped bipolar disorder and on top of that my meds give me low libido. I just dont care anymore.

>>742978289
>5th grade
>first sex education class lesson
>talk about sexuality and puberty
>thought in my head says that I will never have sex or even get a girlfriend

31 year old wizard now, literally needs a miracle to change the destiny.

>>742982560
To the former or latter question?

>>742982082
>its best not to let your happiness rely so much on other people
I agree. It's just a very difficult thing, to control what makes me happy and what makes me sad.
>If she explicitly says she's not interested forget her, move on and never dwell/think of her again
I can think about this rationally and see that I am headed for disaster but I do not have the strength to change it. I can not make her leave my head. I can't control what I feel when she smiles at me.
I realize that I sound like an idiot who doesn't understand what is best for him. At this point I have pretty much given up trying to fix this. I'll accept whatever a friendship can offer me and I will get horribly hurt at some point when I reach the limit of that.

>>742982013
understandable, hev nice day sory for inconvenience

>>742981507
dont try to run away now, fight.

>>742981552
hmm ,, my suggestion to is to stop fantasizing about what might have been, she would have been like everyone female , she would had periods . and had to crap and wipe her ass , gotten the Flu and been puking her guts out ..
and had ALL SORTS of emotional problems that are inherent to females because of hormones....that being said .... SHE would also have smiled at you , loved the flowers you might have brought her , washed your dirty clothes and maybe learn to cook good food .. but you are doing is living is a past where these never got to happen , so rather then allowing someone knew to enter your life and NOT expecting them to be a clone of the dead girl ..you just let yourself suffer and say that it for the best , because the work required to let someone new in is in your mind to much and you are to lazy to try.....

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>>742978289
when i got married

>>742982013
with that kind of attitude just work a bit on yourself and you'll find a girl

>>742982884
thanks man, you're a fucking bro, but nah, she sucked at cooking, i minored in culinary so if cook for us and she would play guitar in the next room for me to hear

the feels are strong with this thread.

Mid 20s.

No matter where I met the girl, all of them seemed so insufferable, vapid and shallow. It's in their mid 20s that they finally realize that years of partying hasn't progressed their lives what so ever, so they desperately try to hook their claws into anyone before their biological clock runs out of time.

I have a very well paying career so if I want them to lose interest quick I just tell them I was laid off and I'm looking for employment. That always works.

>>742978289
15
Probably I just habe an edgy teenage phase.
I think that true love doesn't exist. A women will leave for another better if she can do it. Doesn't matter how much she seems to love you.
If you realised that you know more than the most people. You need to take care oft yourself and you shouldn't need other people to be happy.

>>742982463
He's divorced. I'm in early 20s. Don't know if it's salvageable because he looks as though the light behind his eyes has died lol. Part of me is worried because he's still single after being divorced for like 5 years or more. I wonder if his true personality is so jaded that it isn't worth it I guess? I don't want to waste my time on a broken clock.

(I love the broken clock though, don't get me wrong. I do.)

>>742983087
>15
You realize at that age, everyone just wants to make out right?

When the honeymoon phase of our relationship ended and we became content with each other. We pretty much keep going because we don't want to go back into the dating scene.

>>742983161
why don't you just try it anyway? most men are stupid enough to open themselves up for one more emotional beating.

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Year 2013
I was 31 and fat, ugly shit.

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>>742982734
both,

I think my life was better before "true love"

the 4 years we were together were the happiest years of my life but still, the hell it has left me in is not worth those years

Ive been repeating ricks words to myself lately,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VGelJhg4B9Q
trying to wrestle my feelings in control with reasoning seems to ease the pain

like mind over matter, when I know its all because of just chemical reactions in my brain its easier to focus on my work

>>742982734
>>742983348
oh and if anyone is wondering, its been 13 years since the relationship

and 4 long standing relationships have crashed and burned since....

>After falling in love with a woman in college, getting married, starting a business together, having 2 wonderful sons, buying a home, buying a cabin for vacation, buying 2 condos near university's inch y state in case sons want to go to college, after taking my family around the world for vacations, after catching my wife sleeping with a member of our janitorial staff, after taking her to court, after she accused me of drug use and rape (falsely), after we had to liquidate all assets and divide into 2/3 her and 1/3 for me, after she won custody of my children, after she poisoned my sons against me, after she had that janitor move in with my family, after he beat her and she tried coming crawling back only to run back to the janitor.

So I guess about 42, I realized that while I am capable of actually loving something, women are not. Their only interest is in self appreciation, if they think they can use your emotions to satisfy that, they will.

>>742978289
>cries about not finding love
>posts 18 yo pussy pic

you have no idea what love is and you are part of yor own problem

>>742982719
>the prophecy is complete
Fuck man... But also good on you for making it

>>742982784
>It's just a very difficult thing, to control what makes me happy and what makes me sad
Absolutely. This affects me all the time but its mostly trivial

>I do not have the strength to change it
>I'll accept whatever a friendship can offer me
You don't need strength man just discipline and time. It took me a year and a half to get over my last gf even though we were together less than a year. Its totally up to you to make decisions and weigh the cost/benefit but settling for a friendship when you deep down want more is the worst and I wouldn't want anyone to suffer that friends or anons. Make yourself see only a binary choice... Fight or forget.

>>742983293
He's incredibly hard to read, which says a lot because my intuition is very finely tuned. He's pretty moody and prone to brooding, but it's sort of an...internal storm I guess? He won't admit his weaknesses but I swear I see 9-11 happening behind those eyes lol and I feel for him but I'm not sure how to approach without hurting his pride. I wish I could ask someone who knows him better for advice but you know, it looks kind of weird for a 20 something year old girl to be doing detective work on a nearly 40 year old man who is already quiet and seemingly dead inside.

I mostly fear him shutting down on me entirely. Part of me also fears finding out that his problems are from him actually having a terrible personality that he hides well.

Sorry 4rant. I unfortunately don't get to survey men in his age group on the subject or topic. I am cautious. And confused.

>>742978289
I think I gave up about 3 years ago. My past relationships had always made me very cautious of getting into a new relationship.

But I started falling for my friend recently, and she feels the same way too. But she's in another city, and neither of us do long distance. Right now we're in this relationship limbo. The rational thing to do would be to leave it as is and move on. But love makes you do irrational things. I don't want to let it go, but I know if this continues one of us is going to get hurt.

>>742983698
That makes 0 sense, also young pussy is the best pussy. Why you dont like looking at young pussy?

>>742983172
Yeah, I know. If I want to, it would take me 15 minutes to organize a date but i don't want to. I just realized that I'm not made to be in a relationship. Most oft the girls i know in my age are just beging for attention. I don't like fucking around with relationship problems. I just don't need them.

If you're not settled when you're 30, you're in for a shitty time. Women in their 30s are batshit crazy and used up. Then, if you date someone in their early 20s, everyone judges you for it.

>>742984007
But why do you care if they judge? You have a hot young wife/gf thats full of life. They are just jealous.

>>742983048
≥I have a very well paying career so if I want them to lose interest quick I just tell them I was laid off and I'm looking for employment. That always works.

You're my hero and I hope to be you someday.

>>742978289
about 24-25, real life dating not happening, online gf doesn't want to meet when she's in my city, realize i only attract the crazies and the weirdos, ever damn time
gave up because im not in to that shit, i will let love find me, not the other way around, fuck it

>>742984123
>≥
what did he mean by this

>>742978289
you really must be like 14 or 15 because it seems you are equating what you think love is , with what lust is .
the picture you posted is some idealized fantasy kids likes you try to control their world around them making it what they idealize rather than accept it for what it is. and work with it instead of fighting it all the time and being unhappy because it isn't what you thought it would be or how you think it should work.

At the age of 19 I gave up. I realized there is no happiness and love out for everyone. Some people just can't find their SO. I had some relationships but all I got was bad experiences from them. I m just not the one people want. Too fat, too ugly, too different. So I just gave up on finding the one. It's been 3 years.

I gave up when I found a hot, kind, funny and faithful girl who wanted to be with me.
To good to give that up for some love bullshit. I only fall in love with impossible psychos anyway so it's for the better.

>>742984123
lol no you don't. I'm a software engineer and I think I have a grey patch of hair from dealing with god damn designers all day. Developers/engineers think logically in terms of how software should work. Designers think "omg this would be so pretty" and send us the dumbest fucking design plans that make no sense from a user perspective.

Most devs/engineers that I know are major alcoholics even though we make good money.

>>742984390
Psychos are fun for the stories. I met a girl who wanted to be drowned because it was her fetish.

>>742984229
Accidentally long pressed >

Disregard females, aquire currency.

>>742984247
The picture i posted is to get attetntion to the thread. I stated a few times im in my twenties, I had a 4 years relationship and few other gfs. So you are just a moron that shitposts because he is insecure and tries to justify his shitposting.

>>742978289

this may be one of the best pictures on the internet.

>>742984247
Also too bad you never fucked a girl that looks good/has a good body.

>>742978289
Im 29 and I haven't even gotten started looking for love so i really shouldn't be in this thread

BUT

I met a short skinny bald guy who had so many bad experiences with women that he wishes he was gay but he isnt attracted to men unfortunately Lmao

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>>742978289
22, because i know i wont find love lel,
how can you find love when you sit inside all day?
25 now, still the same

I'm 26 now. I'd say I gave up around 21-23 years old. Fucked a few girls after I got out of the army, but I can't feel anything anymore.

>>742984400
lol my brother was grey starting at 23 , now he mostly salt with a little pepper left
but ya he says the same things. infact titanfall for the IOS and some other is the latest game the just dropped.

>>742984400
>lol no you don't
Too late. IT systems engineer here. Fortunately I don't have to deal with too many poofs that think they know better than me. I think I'm on my way to alcoholism though... Or at least a beer gut.

>>742984694
According to one of my gay friends men are just as bad if not worse

>>742984484
ya I just don't believe you are in your twenties is all,

>>742984868
Gay men are worse, yes. Much worse.

>>742984484
wow , a little edgy there
be careful you don't cut yourself

>>742984756
Sometimes when i masturbate with my underwear on i push my dick to the side for 20 min straight and my dick and balls get numb and i dont feel anything either soldier boy

>>742984996
>>742984879
stop samefaging because no one gives you attention.

>>742984562
oh ouch there buddy call the hospital I just got burned

oh and neither have you that is why you posted her.

>>742984443
I guess I have a fetish for girls with fetishes. I don't see the point in someone drowning. But a girl who would like stuff like that would be insanely hot. Something with going the distance with some weird, hurting or risky stuff just to get a better orgasm is something that makes a girl seem insanely horny, and easy to satisfy as well.

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Didn't ever feel the need to date and such. Around 20 I figured out that I'd like to try out the relationship thing but it seemed like way to much work. After hearing people talk about love and seeing that most relationships fail anyway I don't see the point to it anyway. Also I don't like relaying on others for my happiness.

>>742985087
u wot

>>742985145
what I can't have two comments ?
no wonder no one wants you around , you are really god damned stupid

>>742985308
Is this a bot

>>742985308
there is always this guy that comes and fucks the thread where people are actually nice and help eachother.

>>742985388
sadly no, I would be much funnier

>>742985263
theres that and also im used to doing what i like whenever i like.. I cant imagine not being able to watch a movie I want/go out with friends/play sports etc. because of her

>>742978289
Im 24 and im starting to giving up.
Im low level beta, not super beta, but can get the cringe out of me.
I had a gf like 4 or 5 years ago, she was kinda of a slut, and I have a lot of mental issues, so that didnt go well, I get super anxious and jelaous, making drama of everything, bit much of a faggot.
But she wasnt helping either, hanging out with friend and "friends" who were their ex´s, getting drunk with them, dont answering my calls.

Everything sucks, I suck, I never knew how to hit on girls, get really beta when I try, that just drives me more into my lonelyless.

Im a "dream love" faggot kinda guy, but I also want to experience and shit before that come to me, but I think that does not going to happen, and Im really trying to get used to that.

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>>742985388
Its the domestic troll of the thread

>>742985574
ya ..it isn't just one ..it seems to be a fucking platoon of them because they think that shit is funny because they are invisible little assholes in real life , so they come here to shit on people and do stupid shit in these threads , because there are no consequences for this it gives them the allusion of power , but sooner or later they will do it in real life and someone will pound them into a puddle

>>742985864
You sound like a decent guy. Work out your betaness and stop thinking so much.

>>742978289
> How old were you when you gave up on love/finding love,
14.
> and why did you gave up?
She died.

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>>742986060
Kek

My main problem is that I get too attached to people who show me any affection.

So it's really fucking hard to tell if my feelings for them are sincere or just because it feels nice/am more lonely than usual.

I've been in a relationship for about 10 months now, and I believe I love this girl, but the idea of spending the rest of my life with anyone is a really fucking strange thought, because I don't really trust my feelings.

I'm not sure what 'real' love is.

Any girl who is willing to be with me is not the kind of girl I'd be interested in.

She needs to have better standards

Oh and >was interested in another girl who was interested in me.
>had a boyfriend, we were on that slippery slope of feelings
>was spending time with now gf as well as friends
>she's single so it's okay
>bailed on first girl
>start dating current gf

I'm retarded.

>>742987158
for
>>742986947

>>742978289
20, realized I liked the little girls. Still have relationships with same aged girls mostly for company and to keep up appearances, but have little to no sexual desire for them.

>>742987360
are you like me where you don't even want to fake a relationship with one with the end goal of making baby that youd actually have affection for?

Gave up on finding love when I got married, as I'd already found it. Feels good man.

>>742987585
I'm not having kids, don't trust myself and obviously I don't have a good enough relationship. Girl I'm with now doesn't want any either so I'm safe for now. Brother has a two year old girl that I adore but I also feel bad because she'll only become more attractive in my eyes and I could never hurt her.

>>742978289
27, got scammed by 2 cunts and every other woman just wants $$
>>742979288
love is nothing more than a chemical reaction that causes us the urge to breed

>>742988200
all rite. you don't have to hurt anyone though bro. just B yourself, and B good to her. You can be her cool uncle.

>>742978289
27, when my first and only girlfriend cheated on me and consequently left me to hop back on the cock carousel.

30
Haven't given up. Im going to Thailand.

>>742978959
So much fucking this, with a very few exceptions.

>>742988480
I don't intend to, I just wish I didn't feel that way, but I guess we all have our crosses to bear.

>>742978289
I was 27 when my self hatred destroyed my last relationship. I've been alone ever since and I'm not trying to change it whatsoever. I'm 30 now btw

not even sure where to look m8s

>>742986060
>>742986546
samefagging

>>742978289
>waa faggots giving up on an emotion
hang yourselves

>>742989306
your biggest personal flaw is that you like certain people too much so you could do a lot worse. that's how i view it anyway. its frustrating but everything will be daijobu.

By finding the love of my life at 22 (she was 18).
I sort of realize now that all women are virtually the same.
Although we've been together for years, I understand now that all women have issues.
If we're ever to break up, I'll probably stay single for good. I've had my share of wild and kinky sex.

>>742989826
said from a guy that just came from a cuck/trap thread.

im 26 now and hope just keeps dying little by little. I dont have any expectations though.

>>742990356
I am so happy for you honestly anon. Im 21 and I would love to have the same luck as you.

probably when i was like 21. i was getting really really hot girls, but they all would just want to hook up and never go any further with it. i decided to just keep smashing hoes and give up on finding a real relationship.

>>742988480

2 year old? WTF. I get they're cute, but they aren't that kind of cute. 2 year olds are the kind of cute you want to protect from damage, not put your cock in.

>>742990662
Hello darkness my old friend

>>742990607
I used to be an extremely thirsty autist before that.
Tried to learn pickup and shit - didn't work very well.
Then, I met a friend in the military that decided to work with me personally to sort my autism out.
Worked on it for 2-3 years.

In between I had my first gf (sexless relationship) but she was a total psycho BPD.
Broke up after 5 months, was devastated for a year.

Then, I just stopped giving a fuck. Like, some part of me died or something. The night I decided to stop actively searching for a girl and shut down my dating site accounts I met her in an econ forum.

I was already past my autism and we've just moved swiftly into a relationship to losing our virginities to each other.

Sometimes, good things happen to good people. Just do your stuff and let the bitch find you. In the meantime, work on your autism so you won't scare her off when she comes.

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50. Wife left me. No point in even trying now. I don't find women my age (or even 10 years younger) attractive at all. Don't need love anymore. I have tv, vodka, drugs and my dogs to keep me company.

>>742978289
22. Started getting the impression from older ppl that it was all a shitty cultural meme perpetuated by miserable sadfucks trying to make themselves feel justified in their shitty decisions by getting others to do it too, and claiming it's an "institution".

>Sure, my life is thoroughly and irreparably fucked, but as long as everyone else's life is too, I can say that's just part of life.

It isn't. Got divorced immediately once it stopped being useful, dedicated myself to constructive work, and never looked back. That shit is for primitive apes with no greater purpose in their lives.

More passionate, short term relationships > one long dead one.

I gave up when I was 27, but I had already not much hope for it well before then.

It's all just biological imperative, and people get excited for new things, and bored of things that cannot progress and are too available, which is exactly what love makes you do: progress things between you until there's nothing left to discover, and be there at all times. It kills itself, and that is the natural way love goes.

Its self destructive and I see no reason to involve myself in it.

>>742991573
Same @ 40.

A good dog is 100x greater company than a woman, long term.

previous women took me for test drives and left my young heart in the dust afterwards. the curse of being a cute guy.

now i'm mid-30 and my heart is cold. the few interesting girls that warm it still are taken. thank god for weed and masturbation.

give up on the world, it's beyond help. try having a good time.

Guys from what I found ot from myself, getting a woman and keeping her with you is all about going back to primal instincts and stuff. Girls leave because they are bored. Let them be afraid that no one is gonna be like you. That you are the alpha that will protect her but will not cuck and bow to her. The attitude you should have is. I have my life I fucking love it you can be it or not, its still gonna be a fucking amazing life.

>>742993248
seems exhausting.

>>742981953
holy shit dude, that's harsh

>>742978289
>How old were you when you gave up on love/finding love, and why did you gave up?

I was 29. My wife divorced me after fucking some guy, took the kids, my house and all my fucking dignity with her.
Only women I get now is the ones you pay for.

>>742993315
Its actually fun man, try it. Have fun, have friends, work out. Girls like confidence and protection. But you MUST show her that you were fine before her, and you are gonna be fine after her. Love her, protect her, but always have her doubting that if she does some lame shit its the end. And there is gonna be anotherone that will be with you and get even better part of you. Females dont like sharing.

>>742981218
Also although divorce rate high, those married ppl are happier and have more money while together because of cost sharing. There are downsides tho. Like having to work at it, and possibility it all goes down the shitter.

>>742982784
>>742982784
How are you sure that she is not into you? People also go through phases. She might come to love you.

I came to love my wife of eleven years (been together 20) and this year she almost walked out on me after breaking out of a depression I didn't know existed. Led to soul searching and we are like two new people. But scary as hell because of how sudden. So, you never really know ...

Life is what you put in to it. Fight for her. If she is adamant she won't have anything to do with her, you may have to look elsewhere for your own sake ... but you can leave on good terms and try to minimize contact for your own strength ...

>>742983802
Why don't you just ask him? Any 40 yr old man would be flattered even to have a 20 yr old talk to them, never mind be looking into their personalities ...

>>742983348
it's all just brain chemistry man. therapy will help you. you need to move on. if you had the connection, you can have it again. put the energy into art.

As a 12-year-old I said to myself, 'Well at least I should have had a girlfriend or two by 10 years from now.'
I'm 28 now.

>>742985864
yeah you got a hope.

listen to this guy
>>742985993

you'll be fine, and find someone. let it happen. just remember to get out there so you can find the person.

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>>742978289
20 years old (now 34) , after I got raped by a female friend and was treated poorly by the other girls in my group of friends because of it , I decided fuck it.

I don't care what anyone says , female on male rape is real.
I still don't want to take it to the authorities out of fear that she would turn it on me and say I raped her , because of the way the law works , I would be the one in trouble , not her.

>>742978959
*Men are there to PAY for her ride.

>>742994397
>>742985993

Thanks for the cheers fellas.
But I dont think that will happen, im in my way to becoming a wizard, fat, neckbeard, getting bald, brown, all the pack, so is not just my autism and my betaness, its everyting.

Im start to trying to get decent looks againg, i wasnt the way i am now, but the hardest will be my mental health, I really want to stop being a beta and a autism fuck, but I try before and it is very hard.

Anyway. thanks for your best wishes bros, I really appreciate it, hope you are having good times fellas, if not, I wish it to you for the future.

Married a woman who can't love me romantically.

Had 2 kids. Now my life is misery 90% of the time.

Don't get married kids. The bait and switch is real.

I'm crossing that bridge as we speak. I was a fool to believe that love is all you need. The relationship needs work from both parties. Hope, commitment, flexibility, accountability and trust. It can't be one sided. She got selfish and lazy, I believed she would come to her senses. We were both not as attentive as we should. It hurts have all the trust you invested go up in flames.

Venting: I have nothing against women in general. I don't treat 'you' like my ex, don't treat 'me' like 'your' ex. We are both two people. Let us build trust from the ground up. Not an episode of Maury or Jerry Springer . . .

Also I can't be a pussy slayer because I respect women and care about their personality. I'm fucked until I die

Around 26 y, i noticed that love only make me feel horrible depressed and make me feel i lose every hope in life. I try to avoid everything that can trigger my feeling of love.

>>742989021
>>742994661
forgot I commented on this thread kek.

women are there to be treated how they treat themselves. which is with little to no respect. fuck them. use them. put a baby in them, but don't fall in love with them. just do your thing and live up to your responsibilities and do your own thing.

>>742994597
How the fuck does a female rape a male???

<be me
<be drunk
<fuck up greentext
<too much of a lazy faggot to edit, copy pasta.
< be me, porn addict, below average social skills, social anxiety, so much of a pussy i never even tried hitting on women, had few close calls, too autistic to realize in time.
<I can make people laugh though which helps tremendously when meeting new people.
<decide to stop being pussy and actually try hitting on women
<meet friend of a friends new roommate, 6,5/10, tattoos everywhere, my slutometer explodes
<decide to try out my 1337 pick up skillz on her since i don't give a fuck (sluts disgust me)
<do much better than expected, she laughs, all this PUA shit works
<meet her again, learn she's actually pretty cool, lots of shared interests, etc
<also lots of red flags, tattoos all over, only seems to have male friends, drinks/does drugs a lot, works in bar, used to work in some club, doesn't put much effort into her appearance(only jeans and t-shirts)
<2nd time i met her she offers to give me a "lift home", refuse out of fear for STDs
<shortly after that she brings home two different nig nogs in a matter of 3 days, no joke.
<bullet dodged
...
<not long after i start hitting on another roommate of my friend
<cute, shy, big tits, 7/10, very feminine
<i've known her for years but never tried anything since i was a pussy, she never did since she was shy
<after seeing me hitting on the slutty chick/me being more confident she seems very receptive to my advances
<i start to think itshappening.gif
<i overhear my friend mention she has nice tits, then i remember she fucked another guy that used to live at friends house, i also learn she actually has a BF while all of this happens
<cool off my interest
<not a week goes by her friend casually mentions via text "hey anon shy girl broke up with her BF"
<feel disgusted, guess i was naive but cute shy girl was no better than the slut, the only difference is she tried to hide it.
<decide to do nothing, heard later she got back with her BF.

>>742986947
I am like you bro, Im always give everything, even if the person doesnt give a fuck about my existence, its hard to be like this, it really is.

>>742995525
raised by a single mother by any chance?

>>742994597

who cares? still had sex! move on

kek this thread is a good one

>>742995879
Not, but kinda backwards.
My mom was ending her carreer when I have 4-5 y/o, in that age i was abused for the son of the lady that take care of us while my mom was in the school, in kindergarden she start working, so didnt have time for us, my dad went to my first day of kinder, the lady that take care of us I think went to mothers day festival (instead of my mom), and my dad went to my "graduation" ceremony from kinder.
All meaningless things, I know, but for a child that shit fuck your mind, that is what did to me.
Later find out that in that age is when a men child make emotionals bonds with the female parent, and that will be the kinda relationship this person will have with women in his adulthood.

So all that fucked up my being, and I am very emotional with women, get attached easily, and have a big urge to being loved by one, or at least appreciated just to feel ok in this world.
Life suck bro.

>>742996645
I can relate to that. there's hope for you yet, you can be redpilled like I was. it'll just take time.

I also had to overcome being groomed by my mother to be an appeaser.

mothers seem to love to teach their sons to provide for women. fuck that shit.

This is OP I have been following this thread all the way, its good to see /b supporting itself and giving advice. Dont loose hope, maybe someday we can be happy in our own way, single or not. Bye.

>>742978289
20
Found out the bitch was fucking someone else when she "wasn't ready to take that step"

I am now approaching wizardry, there is no hope for me.
I live in a retirement town in the middle of nowhere, and all of the available jobs are minimum wage here so I can't afford to move elsewhere.

>>742992372
right on bro. thats why they call dogs a mans best friend.

>>742997363
I dont know about that, but in my sense, i can logical undestand that she made that because she wanted a better future for us, not having the lack of things in our home, but unfortunelly a lot of shit happen in my tiny mind back then and that made the social mess I am now.
I love her, she is my mother, but my unconscious cant deal with that, and reflex the lack of time she not give me back there when i need it in other women now, and towards her with distance and hate sometimes.

What happened to you and you can make it bro? How?
I want to start putting my life together, I have to drop out from my dream carrer in college because all the mess I am, but i want to things to work out in my life for once. Any advice in how to start?

Probably 18. I have an incredibly tiny dick and even if a girl said its fine I know deep down theyre not satisfied with it I would never put myself in the situation to get laughed at by my cock. Im also ginger. So I got a tiny dick and Im ginger I have thought about killing myself a lot and probably will eventually

>>742998632
Fuck that. You can't base your entire life around your ability to satisfy a woman or a lack thereof. What kinda self pity bullshit is that? Your life is worth far more than a woman's pleasure so don't throw it away just because you might not be able to pleasure a woman as much as someone else. Women are overhyped, they're not as special or godly as society makes out. Be a great man, make something of yourself and help others do the same.

>>742998620
Basically I was raised by a single mother who essentially raised me to be good to women. Which led me to spiral into a perpetual state of self destruction. I thought that I was only a real man if I was good to a woman and showed a woman love. Especially nowadays when so many men are heartless. That is simply not the case. It's the complete opposite.

So I basically put myself into a state of self-isolation. So I could get to know myself more, get in tune with my natural instincts. Have barely spoken to anyone in 2-3-4 years. No friends, a couple of relationships, but they were more experiments than anything else. And I've continuously learned new things, especially about psychology. A good starting point in relation to women and relationships is looking into MGTOW.

Search Sandman MGTOW on youtube and listen to some of his videos. He drops a lot of truth bombs. Just bear in mind that some MGTOW men legitimately hate women, which is wrong. You wouldn't hate a dog for being a dog, so why hate a woman for being a woman. Just don't relax around women and allow them to predate on you. That's all you need to do.

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>>742978289
18.

I'm 27 now, never really cared about love again, until now...

Fell in love with a fucking 2D character..

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>>742999529
2d>3d

>>742999133
I think it will be hard to me to isolate myself, its something i really want to do since a few years back, but its hard when you need money to barely survive.

I am kinda like you, like I said, not because of my mother said that to me, but because I am so needed for women afection that I do all I can so she can be happy with me, so when they find out im a puppet they used as their likes and when they get bored they dump me.
I kinda undestand the deal, but its hard to change something that is inside in you roots.

I dont hate women, at least not intentional, a mom of a friend of mine told me once when she hear us having a regular conversation between my friend and I that I was a misogynist, something I think im not, but thinking in how i feel for women when they dont love me back or how i feel "betrayed" for simple shit, I kinda undestand why the mother of my friend said that, its kinda true, it clear to me now why, at least I know is not something natural, is just how things went when I was a kid.
Im going to check that, hoping it helps.

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>>742999529
Anon <3

>>742978289
~22, because it's hopeless

>>742979944
normie, check your priviledge

>>743000457
Wish she was real.
Id do anything and everything to have her.

>>742978289
29. My marriage failed and I had no interest in trying again. Between my shitty work hours and my inability to socialize, I don't really have any opportunities either.

27 my long term girl told me that my child might not be biologically mine. I didn't loose the idea of love just the idea of trust. Keep in mind child was 6 when I was told this info

>>743001324
That bitch deserves to being rolled over by a truck.

Right now bcs love sucks

>>742979036
>have kids

That is the worst advice ever, you beta fag.
You dont tie down a bitch with a kid, wtf is in it for you?
Youll just have a lot more problems and shit to pay for. And in the end chances are high that she devorces you, because she feels like "missing out" in life.
And who could blame her, kids with 25 must be a huge pain in the ass. Only have em when you are ready to settle and have steady income.