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I need advice from femanons. >be me >slowly approaching

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I need advice from femanons.

>be me
>slowly approaching 25 years
>full on virgin
>never had a girlfriend
>never had my first kiss
>became a cynical and bitter asshole
>started to become one of those guys who would fap to anime
>my life is pretty much shit
>still live with parents, because i am studying


I am slowly giving up hope that my life is going to get better. So what should I do?

>kill myself

>give up on real girls and instead focuse on 2d girls only

>keep on trying
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>>740842400
>give up on real girls and instead focuse on 2d girls only

That one.
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My life is shit 19m
But I'm slowly realizing my life will get better
Going college in 1 month
Can't fucking wait
Was at home for a whole year didn't go outside once
Moved house and no friends
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>>740842400
I was in your position once. I had deluded myself into thinking women were the problem. In reality, I was just too self conscious and insecure to try to get a gf.

Honestly just put yourself out there. Start working out and taking care of yourself. Try to dress nice. Look up alpha.m on YouTube. He's pretty popular but his advice is solid.

Once you've taken care of the basics, hop on Tinder or something. Sure, most conversations on there will lead to nothing but it'll help you with talking to girls. Most girls on there are dirty, so don't feel pressured to be white knighty. Just build your confidence up.

Next start talking to girls irl. Don't be creepy and hit on them. Just strike up conversation.

Before you know it, you'll probably be landing yourself dates (through Tinder or through normal life). It's more commonplace than you think.

You don't need to be a model or have perfect game. Just put yourself out there man. Ultimately it's up to you.
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Get off this site and you will be happy
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>>740842400
Have you tried men?
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Dont be afraid of rejection. Seriously. Believe me when I say guys get points for trying.
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>>740842400
Bro go to a church Sundays/Wednesdays, then go to a Pub at least once a week with people you know, you don't have to get smashed but just have one drink, maybe play a round of Pool (8ball) or something maybe darts. Just go back to your roots :)
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>>740842400
>be me
>27
>not a virgin
>havent gotten laid in years
>fap to loli on the regular

honestly OP being a virgin means fucking jack shit. get a companion or find something else to occupy yourself
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>>740842926
>>740843107
>>740843184

Thanks for the advice. I will try.
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be happy that you dont have a gf, i am almost 19yo and spent last wednesday together with a girl and we were cuddeling on the couch and then i said to her
>i am waiting for the right moment to kiss you
and the replied >"maybe you should wait a little bit more with that"
it seemed like the perfect moment but meeeehhh....
and this cringy situation will haunt me forever i want to kill myself
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>>740842400

It is kinda funny. Whenever I see people giving up on finding a girl on of these three things happen.


1. They suddenly turn bi or gay

2. They decide to crossdress and become either trans or traps.

3. They become weeaboos.

Please kill yourself.
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>>740843362
been there before anon... many times.


fuck. I need a drink.
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>>740843309
Just hang out where you think people people you want to meet want to hang out. For example, if you want to meet mad NFL people hang out at a sports bar if you wanna meet a college ditz hang out at the college tav with a couple of mates (just for the first few times until your comfortable) and then go by yourself.
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>>740843440
I never understand the weeaboo facination after being turned down.
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>>740842579
>my life is shit 19m
Lmao you aren't even alive yet, faggot.
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>>740843538
They basically have this emotional void and they replace that with fapping to hentai and watching anime and they start to believe that this waifu can basically fill the void.
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>>740842926
tbqh this is normy bullshit

>women were the problem
the idea everything is always 100% your fault is ludicrous, more like you only have control over yourself so there is no point playing the blame game

>self conscious and insecure
What does this mean exactly? It seems you are saying that if nearly everyone is hostile and socially ostracizes and discriminates against you, you are a bad person for being upset by this and considering this to be a problem and should just accept it.
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>>740842400
>give up on real girls and instead focuse on myself
Do this
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>>740843538
it's because you can flee in another world where everything is perfect and you can also imagine having a waifu
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>>740843609
What about 21? Am I fucked?
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>>740843648
The fuck is a waifu?
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>>740842400
People like this are the reason as to why the white race is dying out.
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>>740843663
That is adorable.
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>>740843686
A waifu is an anime girl that you love and have as a gf or a wife.
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>>740843686
It's what forever alone faggots call often fictitious females they worship from afar.
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>>740842400
Why, suicide of course. The only solution to any problem
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>>740843813
Thank god qt. I have been stressing a fair bit I haven't even started uni yet (was a fucking NEET for 3~ish years) and was beginning to wonder if I was going to be too old
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>>740843820
>>740843864
Oh wow. Humanity is weird.
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unfortunately OP the idea of a natural woman doesn't exist anymore(unless ur in some 3rd world country). Girls want guys that take advantage of them and play a game of cat and mouse with their emotions, it gives off an alpha male vibe. Most girls nowadays want to be forced into a kiss instead of having one dropped all romantically so you're better off just fucking going for it otherwise they'll think you're a giant pussy because they've a;ready had a dozen guys do just that. I'm pretty sure most girls turn into woman and want an actual male that not only takes care of them financially BUT also gives into their emotional side when they're like 27, anything before that is fuckign rare with the slutfest nowadays. Especially on Tinder, if a girl has something like "NOT DTF" then she's probably into the whole "rapey" where she wants a guy to just go for it, it's extremely fucked up because whose gonna fucking risk that? Stupid guys that knock girls up that's who, that's what they're looking for, someone to put a baby in them and support them financially until they find something better. It seems like working out your problems together and compromising is a thing of the past and the vast majority of women will always be "on the market" at least in their heads even if they're married with children.
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>>740843616
>Normy bullshit

That's what I'm talking about. By blaming the system that you perceive as unfair, you're creating the problem for yourself. You can either adapt and play along or you can refuse to play.

There are consequences for both - you have to decide what you can live with. OP clearly can't stand being lonely so it looks like his decision is made
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>>740844257
>>740844295
Exactly OP, either play by the rules or fucking drown in loneliness like all the men who bitch at the system.
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>what if life never gets better because i didn't get to kiss a girl
Yeah, suicide probably is the better choice.
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>>740843184
>just go out and throw money away
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whats worng with all of u anons?
where is the all of ur demotivators and commets like "haha u dicking dumbass ull die alnoe and get out from here with ur social problem u bitch?
Fucking pussyies
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>>740844618
>pussyies
This is how I'm spelling this from now on.
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>>740842400
>Reply
Move out of your parents' house and you will instantly be happier and more confident.
Fuck saving money or studying if it's not making you happy. Those are just excuses. Get a fucking job nigger.
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>>740843686
fictional character u want to fuck
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>>740844618
We were waiting on you to get here. Start us off oh edgelord.
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>>740844596
>just stay home and be a loner w/ no connections
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>>740842400
You kinda sound like my boyfriend.
Fap to the fake girls while also pursuing the real ones. You'll find a good weird one for yourself. Best of luck!
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>>740843184
>Just go back to your roots
What the fuck are you telling him to do here?
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>>740844746
>just go out and waste money
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How do i not be socially awkward as fuck when i talk to grills
also especially in texting
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>>740844746
Yeah I'd rather do this than piss my time and money away on other people.
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Femanon here.

Honestly. As cliche as it sounds, shit will eventually pan out if you're really putting in the effort.

If you add me on kik I'll send you pics of my tits/ass with your name on Em?

Kik is YiffMoon
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>>740844847
>grills
You speak in memes, start by not doing that.
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>>740844897
yep what this anon said, just pretend you're a normal dude with nothing too out there going on. Once in a relationship it's time to drop the weird shit
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>>740844847
Strike a conversation about something they are interested in. move away from small talk as fast as possible. hey how r u. good u? good is probably the most boring conversation ever lol
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>>740844876
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Tits, timestamp, fuck off.
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>>740842400
Heres a protip.

Dont be You.
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just fuck a hooker already you beta shit, and stop fapping to anime jesus christ take a good hard look at yourself. start working out or something, unless you're a manlet then just make heaps of money.
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>>740844833
>just stay in and waste your life
>>740844869
Its called making friends anon.
>>740844810
Go back to old friends that know women. I'm making an assumption he's a beta who has no connections to women, so he should go back and re-forge old friendships with people who do have connections to women
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OP is back. Sorry that I haven't replied. I would like to thank everybody that was kind enough to give me helpful advice.
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>>740845351
>Go back to old friends that know women
How was anyone supposed to figure that out?
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>>740845127
Pretty much this. Proper socialization is ingrained at an early age and how you carry that forward is determined by genetics and you proven success levels with other people. If your proven success levels turn out to be low or unfulfilling, you are fucked and there's no coming back. That "fake it or make it" line that people feed you is bullshit that they parrot to make themselves feel better about their success.
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>>740845351
>false dichotomy
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>>740845351
>Its called making friends anon
Eh. Fuck that. It's called wasting your time and money.
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>>740843184
>>740844810
He is basically saying get into the social atmosphere, and a busy bar is the closest thing to that highschool or college party feel, sans kids.

Thhough this is true, any girl i have fallen in love with, would rarely be at the parties i went to (so not the bar) or didn't party at all and instead were gamers, naturists, or fit

I basically look for someone pure of heart, not those jaded bar sluts. As i said, *rarely* seen at bar; anyone can be anywhere at any given moment
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>>740845497
>naturists
What, like nudists?
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>>740843362
You never say out loud that you want to kiss them you beta cuck. You just fucking do it.
Worst case scenario, she says no and it slightly awkward but whatever. If she tries to make it worse than that and make you feel bad,
YOU MURDER HER!
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>>740845497
I bet you are fun at parties. This guy we be lucky to get with a fat alcoholic slut. In fact he should go bang a fatty so he can stop fetisizing sex and realize there are plenty of other reasons he's a loser before adding meat sockets in the list.
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>>740845497
This.

The best relationships of my life were girls I met through world of warcraft, as dumb as that sounds. We go to know each other through something we both enjoyed, got close, got together irl, and there ya go.
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>>740845391
I do apologize, I should have made it a bit clearer.
>>740845428
No its not
>>740845442
No its not, you'll get most jobs through nepotism
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>>740845783
yes, it is
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>>740845783
>you'll get most jobs through nepotism
What does that have to do with anything that I was talking about?
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>>740846079
Networking is important
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>>740843616
Yikes, thats a nice projector you have there, anon
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>>740846182
I've never found any value in it. People either get in my way or they try to take advantage of me. Nobody has anything to offer me that I want. We need a plague.
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>>740842400
Some girls are into that.
I mean. Got kik?
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>>740846357
Sounds like you've only met cunts
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>>740842400
Why do you want advice from a girl? Why are you basing your happiness on them, whether it's fucking one or acquiring their input?
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>>740846512
Everyone's a cunt.
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>>740845497
The reason may not even to meet girls there, but to just do something. Sitting at home wont help him.

Unless OP doesnt like being social. If so, working out is the better choice.
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>>740845442
Lmao no friend loser. Why don't you kill yourself? No one would care
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>>740846496
I don't have kik.
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>>740843663
You're basically to an adult what a fetus is to a baby.
Technically the same thing, but very early in the progression.
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>>740846912
And you're think anyone would care if you disappeared? Hubris is an ugly thing.
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>>740846357
You sound very autistic
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>>740847038
Neat. So what?
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>>740842400
Don't desperate. This type of shit happens bro..
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>>740847038
Why, because I can admit that every last person is a worthless piece of shit whose existence is a burden? Okay I'm autistic then. Fucking parasite. Go consume, kill or fuck something.
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>>740847205
Haters gonna hate
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ITT normies ruin everything.
Anyone who is optimistic about relationships doesn't belong on this board.
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>>740847273
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>>740847254
Any other empty pop culture platitudes you'd like to share with the class, parasite? Please make it brief there's not much time.
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>>740846939
Okay. Legitimate advice time.
If you feel like this you probably aren't emotionally ready for a gf regardless. I would focus on finding a friend first. Having someone who can sympathize to what you're trying to do can be very helpful. Once you find someone you can chill and laugh with you'll start to gain some confidence back. It's important to remember that you are still young. You don't need to be in a relationship, don't feel like your life is pointless because you're not in one.
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>>740846970
I have read this 3 times and don't think I 100% understand.

But thanks :)
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>>740847297
Leave the board, parasite. Go kill another parasite, do yourself a favor.
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>>740842926
How to strike up conversation?
I have always had this damned fucking problem
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>>740847392
>do yourself a favour
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>>740847436
Look up "Conversation hooks" anon. Those are how to keep a conversation going.
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>>740847436
Get a hobby. I suggest human hunting.
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>>740842400
Dude fuck you OP u whiny bitch. Fuck women and pussy. Woman and pussy have driven me closer to madness and suicide and made me so low.... noooo person on earth has made me more miserable than the women i have dated who treated me like shit and manipulated me out of 1000s of dollars cuz im a dumb ass retard with a boner. Consider yourself super lucky u whiny bitch. What YOUR MAD U DONT HAVE TO 400 IN CHILD SUPPORT FOR A SON WHO HATES YOU AND YOU DONT GET TO SEE AND 400 IN ALIMONY FOR THE NEXT 10 YEARS. Fuck outta here op
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I got laid for the first time at 24 OP, it's definitely not too late.
Basically some girl strung me along for all of high school only to reject me after she went off to college.
I blamed her all the years for being a manipulative bitch and for blinding me to the other girls I wanted but at the end of the day I really feel like YOU alone are the source of all your happiness and sadness. You can't control what the world does to you but you can definitely control what you do in reaction to it.

Tucking yourself away on an imageboard is sure way to lose all ambition and desire to better yourself.

Basically after I gave up lurking (why I'm back is a different story) I then stopped giving a shit about girls and oddly enough they came after me.
Girls have a special intuition for desperation. You really just have to not give a shit and then you'll get laid. This especially means to stop being overly picky with who you want to be with and how your "first time" should be.

TL;DR man the fuck up and stop giving virginity so much power. Just DGAF and you'll be alright
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>>740847388
I try to be more clear then.
Yes you're technically an adult, but you're still so new to it that if you were a bicycle, you'd have training wheels.
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>>740847719
Now I understand.
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>>740842400

Keep on trying Anon.

Listen, to get on the path of manhood and winning you need to kick ass.

But the first one you need to kick is yours.

Here is a program step by step :

>Step one : to escape from being the omega you are you need to put you in danger; mommy and daddy give you money : don't spend it and put it on a special account; go find a job that needs you to stay up like working in a kitchen doing the dishes. It will be hard but it will socialize you and make you realize what value is money earned by real work.
>Step two : stop going on porn sites. Like litteraly. If you want to play with you little sticko-stick then try to think about some random girls you saw. Yes that one with the big boobs is just fine. But stop the anime. It is not real life.
>Step three : sport. Anon you sound lazy as fuck and I'm pretty sure you are also on a omega physical level. Fitness and diet are the solution. With the money you earned hire a coach that will kick your ass every two days to make your push up and abs. And don't go for the beach body type. Don't be that faggot.
>Step four : girls. Go on tinder, go out in bars and start talking. Try to be fun. Don't be autistic and don't make joke about anime. You will never find your qt 3.45 japanese girl who loves anime and video games. No no no. It is gonna be a normal girl who likes you for what you are (or becoming).
>Step five : repeat. It is pain in the ass but you need to focus. Don't take pride in being a fucking virgin omega neckbeard.

What are your studies?
How are you on a physical level?
Do you have friends?

I'm a total stranger to you but I want to believe you can make it.
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>>740847205
Yes, exactly. Realise its that your brain not working properly that's causing you to have a warped perception of reality and try working on it. There are treatments for aspergers that you might find helps you be happy
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>>740842400
Femanon here. First thing is to work on the bitterness and cynical shit because that won't attract a girl. Its very ok to like 2d girls but that will narrow down your chances of a real girl being accepting of that but there are girls who do! Dont give up hope OP because theres millions of girls out there! ^_^
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>>740847696

Best response ever. Virgins keep putting pussy on a pedestal. At the end of the day its fun sure but I promise you the time you are stressing it is not worth it
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>>740848117
Thank you.
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>>740848010
Eat shit and die faggot. Take your trash friends and family with you.
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all you need to get a gf is good looks

after that you gotta put yourself out there somewhere where people (grills) can approach you

a good way of getting a gf is throug friends you already have if you dont have any then make some
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>>740847920
Also I wanna make clear that I don't mean any of this in a bad way, the only way you learn to be something is being new at it at some point.
So don't worry, you have plenty of time to make something out of yourself.
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>>740848117
Fatty detected
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>>740848117
I want Tumblr to leave
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>>740848233
Its not your fault, anon. It's the spergio talking. Part of your brain is literally malformed making it harder for you to have a happy life. I don't blame you i just want you to be happy anon
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>>740847983
>What are your studies?
Well the have something to with media.
You know working with photoshop and indesign. Game Design and learning how to work with audio equipment.

>How are you on a physical level?
I am a couch potato. I am a little bit chubby and I have a relatively long hair.


>Do you have friends?

Yes I have a few friends.
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>>740848216
You're welcome
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>>740848431
>assuming you have to be ill to hate people
Enjoy your cushy deluded existence. Dumb animal.
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>>740848437
Femanon here.
Chub can be cute, but not in excess.
Lose the long hair. It's just. Please don't have long greasy hair.
Love of anime is fine. If you're trying to attract a normal girl keep weeb speak to a minimum. Don't cut it out completely, it can be kinda endearing.
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>>740848117
>>740848595
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>>740848595
>Lose the long hair

The problem is that I look shitty with short hair. I have tried it and it just didn't feel right.
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>>740848551
Yeah that pretty much fits in to the definition of a mental disorder m8
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>>740848631
Jesus Christ you're not helping you're god damn case by talking to anyone like that. God damn. If you want them to prove this bullshit post a kik or ask them to. Not that it matters.
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>>740848722
Wrong. Cut it. It will be better I swear.
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>>740847983
>qt 3.45
What is this??
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>>740848750
What are you a doctor? Stop breathing, cuntface. Die in a fire.
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>>740848722
It just takes some getting used to, most people don't feel right after a big change to their appearance like that. Especially one theyre essentially doing for other people. Also make sure you get it done by a pro and arnt just shaving it all off. It'll look better
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>>740842400
Femanon here, 25 y/o is not as old as you think. Its not too late to keep trying. Focus on studying now but keep trying.
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>>740848864
Don't you think he should at least keep some part of himself. I am sure if your bf would come and say something like "change that I don't like that" you would be instantly triggered.

While I agree that he needs to change himself somewhat, I think he also needs to let some things as they are.

femanon here
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>>740848991
It's someone being a brainless faggot. Welcome to /b/ btw.
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>>740842400

OP do NOT trust anything a femanon is going to tell you. That's like being a Grizzly and asking a Salmon how they like to be caught for dinner.

Look up "the black phillip show". Tons of great advice.
Watch this clip and you'll be on your way
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCpHHJAk_zE
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I'm 58 years old and still a virgin.
Elliot Rodger got nothing on me.
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>>740847436
Start with asking about her day or something, see how she reacts. ask about how she feels, and genuinely try to put yourself in her position, and see what you can feel. People are flawed, and comfort her about those flaws, that's in my opinion the best way to make people keep talking to you. Slowly develop the conversation like that, steer it to the point where she talks about herself (as to impress you) and then you know you have it
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>>740842979
This.
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>>740849079
I can't tell if serious or if this guy just autistically ripping off 3.14
>>740849128
doubt.
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>>740849087
this

They try to manipulate and change you. DO not listen to them.
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>>740842979
>>740849233
The ride never ends
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>>740848631
Accurate except my computer isnt that good.
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>>740849035
Lmao spend 2 seconds googling it yourself if you don't believe me. Im not a doctor, but you should definetly go see one because you're unable to function socially. And therefore have a disorder. It might not be aspergers. You will probably have an incling for whats wrong with you better than I can guess over 4chan
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>>740842400
I will give you the best advice for this situation.
Don't listen to other people that are trying to change you entirely. Sure some of them have a good point which you should consider, but honestly they don't know the full truth.

My man just be yourself and everything will work out someday. Don't base your hapiness on getting a gf and instead focus on yourself.
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>>740842400
with that attitude you'll get nowhere. Find it in you to get better and more approachable, by that I mean stop being miserable.

>22 here
>virgin but who cares to be honest, once you fuck its not like you become a pro or anything and some people only fuck once and then years of nothing
>kissless, but its not really that hard I imagine to kiss someone, the right moment will come and it'll make things smooth
>at home, no friends (all moved out) I'm waiting for my chance to move out but lack of opportunities/funds made me a hermit, moving out soon tho, for college hopefully, saved up the cash so all I need is to get accepted
>don't go out because social life in my town is dead, went to a pub on friday night and there was no people in it, I mean 0, then went a few days later, again empty
>play guitar at home and record music instead

I'm fairly optimistic about my life, I know I'm likable so I'm just being myself and don't let anything bring me down. I stopped giving a shit about social standards and expectations, who cares to be honest, not everyone is equal so don't compare yourself to anyone and if you feel miserable, find a hobby and commit, it will distract you and make you more likable because you'll be more approachable (aka not as miserable). Trust me on this, I could tell you about experiences of my life that will put your worries to shame and I still didn't give up, you probably have no excuse so just live man
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>>740849473
So what?
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>>740849602
So you can get treatment to help you not live in misery and hate
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OP quit pretending you don't already know the solution. You already know the solution.

You can improve yourself or you can keep coming here to complain.
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Try this. Go sonewhere you Know nobody, preferably holiday in a Different country where communication is difficult but possible (thats important if your a real pussy) and just go up some people and hang out with them if it fails go ahead with others. Train this and Do it over and over.. learn to give a fuck about people when your face to face with them and you will Start to get along with your life and people much better. dont even think about the stupid fucks and ignore them and stay with the nice people and After some time you will get a good social life but heads up.
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>>740842400
Stop putting the pussy on a pedestal
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>>740849594
This guys right
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>>740842400
>>740842400
Keep trying. Trust me you do not want to get stuck with the beta fags in here.
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>>740849712
Nah I'm good. I'm already seeing people but nobody listens. Everyone else gets help and live and meds, but not me. It's like a personal hell. Oh well. We're all just meat anyway until we're not.
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>>740842400
Hire a hooker you pathetic fuck
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>>740849914
Sure, half the battle is acknowledging that one can only see things through the lense of ones brain. You can change it if you want, it just takes a lot of hard work. Lots of people are cunts, not everyone is though and you can have fulfilling friendships and relationships with amazing people if you work on it
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>>740842400
>>>740842400
>I was in your position once. I had deluded myself into thinking women were the problem. In reality, I was just too self conscious and insecure to try to get a gf.
>
>Honestly just put yourself out there. Start working out and taking care of yourself. Try to dress nice. Look up alpha.m on YouTube. He's pretty popular but his advice is solid.
>
>Once you've taken care of the basics, hop on Tinder or something. Sure, most conversations on there will lead to nothing but it'll help you with talking to girls. Most girls on there are dirty, so don't feel pressured to be white knighty. Just build your confidence up.
>
>Next start talking to girls irl. Don't be creepy and hit on them. Just strike up conversation.
>
>Before you know it, you'll probably be landing yourself dates (through Tinder or through normal life). It's more commonplace than you think.
>
>You don't need to be a model or have perfect game. Just put yourself out there man. Ultimately it's up to you.

this
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>>740842400
Sam here except anime part
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>>740850794
Hi Sam, got any social hobbies?
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>>740850670
This
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>>740843616
Not him but
>the idea everything is always 100% your fault is ludicrous, more like you only have control over yourself so there is no point playing the blame game
How is deflecting and being an unpleasant malcontent working out for you?

> It seems you are saying that if nearly everyone is hostile and socially ostracizes and discriminates against you, you are a bad person for being upset by this and considering this to be a problem and should just accept it.
If that's the case there's probably a reason. And I feel like that reason here is you being a an argumentative asshat with a persecution complex
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>>740850011
This.
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>>740843362
You just do it underage anon, you look at here and give her a gaze. Her fem penis will melt.
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>>740843609
Hahaha this
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>>740842400
Next time you have a long break from studying, as in like a few months, try drinking heavily and talking to strangers, just idle chit chat in a bar or a restaurant with your waitress or whatever. I used to be a complete introvert, but I went on a binge drinking thing for a bit, and really, being social is a practiced skill, and you keep it after you've got it, sober or not.
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>>740843616
You sound like a supreme gentleman
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Femanon here. Don't give up. I'm a average looking girl, with some big tits, but I'm actrated to chubby men. So even if you're ugly, don't give up because there are girls out there that are looking for guys like you. We may be rare, but we exist. But if you just want to have sex, and not a serious relationship, just go to a club, far from your home, make sure you don't know anyone in that area and just flirt with a slutty girl.
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>>740852807
Thank you for the advice.
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>>740852807
tits or gtfo
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>>740842400
Keep on trying but try to change that beta cuck attitude and think more like an alpha. One tip to achieve that, work on your self confidence. And if that doesnt work, try looking for women in south america or asia
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>>740842400
>am lazy, what do

Make goals.
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>>740842400
save up for a prossy
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>>740842400
>He spent the best years of his life studying and not experiencing.

I've never known anyone who went straight through education to PhD to be happy with their life. What's even more sad is after completing the PhD, they lack the work experience necessary to get a job at the pay grade they through they would get. I feel for you, but you also fell for a meme so I can only pity not empathise.
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>>740842400
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>>740842400
>I need advice from the gender that gives support and never actual advice
>studying
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The male virginity is a disease and must be gotten rid of as early as possible.
It's liberating to know that both, sex is not good, and also that you will not die a virgin.
Go to a red light district and lose it.
After losing mine i'm much more content to follow my passions now.
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>>740853735
That's odd, when I lost mine I enjoyed it sure, but it was also kind of a "what's the big deal?" moment for me.
Losing your virginity at all cost seems rather empty to me, in my experience having sex with someone who actually liked me, was so much better than when I lost my virginity through casual sex.
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>>740854450
Same I kinda had existential crisis sex in the end is meaningless it's empty pleasure
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