Gf cheated on me, made it my fault and now after the last message

move on

Live your life as a free man.

You don't. She fucking cheated on you and she's now gaslighting you. Sorry to break it up to you, but you've been in a relationship with a person suffering with borderline personality disorder. And trust, me, I know about this. I'm a medifag, and trust me again when I tell you this: You. Fucking. Dodged. A. Bullet.
Walk away and doorslam her. Never speak to her again. It's for your own fucking good. Sure, it'll hurt. But you'll need to heal from the incredible damage she's done to you and you've yet to see.

Good luck, my man.

>>740268579
Post her nudes in this thread. You'll feel better

Give us nudes and her name and we'll take care of the rest

>>740268880
this
/thread

Tell her it's ok and ask her to marry you

>>740268579
lol so she cheated on you and yet you kept begging for her attention?
You are a fucking beta, she just wanted an excuse to make her cheating feel right and have some kind of reason to be mad at you and block you so that she could gauge on dicks without her mind thinking it was wrong and you gave exactly that to her....


The right move would have been to cease contact as soon as she cheated on you to make her feel bad and eventually lead, hopefully, to her suicide....


Yet you were too much of a pussy and still wanted her to cuck you so you went ahead and begged her to stay

live and learn faggot

>>740268579
Literally just move on with your life.

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She texted me this exactly one day ago

>>740268579

Move on with your life, simple as that. More time and money to invest in other things that interest you.

Pics and tits.

>>740269109
She cheated. Fuck her dude.
Post. Her. Nudes.

>>740269109
Was that what she was thinking while taking the dick from someone else?

Move on. Once this shit happens, the relationship is a lost cause.
You will never be able to trust her again, and it will eat at you constantly.

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>>740269120
Cuck OP wants to watch next time.

>>740269109
Medifag here again.
Dude...
RUN LIKE HELL.

>>740269109
>>740268579
/b/ gold great job coming through OP just post nudes here and buy a hooker

>>740269109
This is how she is when she was just yours.

>>740268579
This is how she is when she's just had cock and realises she doesn't need you.

Move on.

>>740269109
Forgive her.

>>740268579
>my time is a gift
LOL

>>740268924
>/thread

lrn2 /thread newfag

what a bitch, you're better off without.

>>740269499
hi op

>>740268860
this


>>740269109
post her nudes now

and move on

>>740269749
What's up?

You need to forgive her and tell her you're sorry for acting like a bitch. Let her know she can fuck other guys and you'll always stand by her side. It's for the best

Wants dick:
>>740269109

Got dick somewhere else:
>>740268579


She's using you for sex. If you're okay with fucking her just for sex, then you can keep doing that, but she's never going to be yours again and you should probably kick her out after fucking her from now on at minimum or just stop talking to her completely and hit up Tinder.

>>740269825
hey cucklord

>>740268579

Hahahaha, i remember going through exactly this like 7 years ago. literal nothing has changed, except the bubbles used to be green.

You will get in shape, you will fuck many more bitches, and when you think of this moment you'll remember it as the glourious moment you shed your adolescent skin and became a man.

like horney fucking butterfly.

>>740269825
Agreed. You could have more fun that way anyway

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>>740269825

>>740269825
Haha! Well said fellow redditor! Gilded!

>>740268579

Hey OP, 40yofag here.

M O V E .
T H E .
F U C K.
O N .

Listen to the medifag. YOU SERIOUSLY DODGED A FUCKING BULLET. Hell, she threw you out of the path of said bullet!

Count yourself lucky you didn't get this cunt pregnant, AND MOVE ON!!

You better start pimping her out boy. She gets the D and you money.

>>740269825

*your sorry

>>740269884
His name is Rodi, bud.

>>740269109
Dude. My ex wife did this shot. She steam rolled me emotionally. I lost like 40lbs from stress and sleep deprivation. She basically cheated, moved out under the pretense of needing "space and time alone", moved in with the other guy the same day we moved out (unbeknownst to me), and kept sending me messages and calls saying she loved me and missive and wanted to work things out. Complete manipulative horse shit but it took about a 4 months to figure it out. Run and never look back!!!!!

OP,my GF walked out on me a month ago.It was up and down for 3 weeks-she said she loved me /missed me and would then say we shouldn't talk as it wasn't helping.Then she went on holiday with her mother and returned a total bitch.She won't speak to me and has blocked me everywhere.

Ive seen found out after speaking to 2 of her exes,its a similar pattern of behaviour. She's got major dad issues (her dads a gay man in the closet who is still married and lives with my ex's Mum) and her longest relationship other than me caused a mental breakdown

>>740270088
Dude.... you need to learn grammar rules.

>>740268579
Ayy. I've been in a very similar situation but actually saw it through after the fact. Tried to make it work afterward.

Do not do it. Let it go. Get the fuck out. That relationship destroyed me as a person. It sucks at first, but you're so much fucking better off without her.

>>740268579
bitch is not worth it. it may be tough at first but it's best not to waste your time on this psycho shit. you'll be better in no time. MOVE ON. You don't want the mother of your future children to be a psychopath.

>>740270307
You're a better person for it. It builds character

>>740270174
This. She's manipulating you. Women don't care about men the way men care about women. If you don't block her number and leave her now, she will only hurt you more.

The blocking her number part is important because she WILL try to tell you she wants to come back together in a couple hours or days. She'll act sorry and say she loves you and will never do it again, but it's all a lie.

>>740270459
As much as I'd like to think that, I don't think it's the case.

>>740268579

OP, it's clear that your toxic masculinity has inculcated an especially virulent and vitriolic strain of misogyny within your psyche. This notion that she "cheated" on you exposes your rape culture addled mind and indicates that you were likely raping her on a daily basis, possible without even knowing it.
You should give her everything she's asks for and should even support her and her new partner financially to atone for your just kidding, walk the fuck away and find a less crazy female.

>>740270459
Slice your wrists

>>740270174
Same shit but I gained 40 pounds. You lucky bastard. Now I feel like a fat ass and still in my feels

>>740269303
This

>>740270573
Call it experience. The important thing is that you got out.

>Rodi
Weird name for a guy she wasn't riding.

>>740270288

Irregardless, you need to learn how not to take bate, for all intensive purposes.

>>740270573
Sorry to hear it

>>740268579
OP don't let that bitch show you up, kill yourself, thats the only way to one up this whore now. That way she'll realize how bad she hurt you and the amount of love she missed out on, eventually killing herself too from the pain of causing you pain. Getting the ultimate revenge because you just made that cunt kill herself, plus the only way for your action to get out is if you post it here. So hope you follow through anon, you its your only hope to destroy this slut.

>>740269109
Tell her to go kill herself.

>>740268579
Post her FB name and her number ruin her life

>>740268579
Move on

>>740270727
Lol. All intents and purposes

>>740270504

The prophet has fucking spoken.
Act accordingly or suffer intense emotional heartburn.

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>>740268579
Leave that miserable whore

>>740270902
Found the potato

>>740270894
Nice.

post her nudes

>>740270573
Yeah bro. Old fag her who wrote this grammar bomb. >>740270174
You will me much better and stronger but you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. It takes time. Focus on yourself, cut her off, and don't look back. My bitch ex put me into therapy. The only thing I remember from those couple of sessions was "don't try to find reason in an irrational person". She might actually think she still needs you from time to time and then block you like you don't exist the rest of the time. Unless you're ready for that endless emotional roller coaster ride, get off the coaster and walk away.

>>740271000
You right.

Tell her she's going to need her own Valtrex prescription from now on.

>>740270627
Lol. I can't eat when I'm stressed. The weight loss was good in the end. I hit the gym and found some additional self confidence too. women can be brutal.

>>740268579
>my time is a gift
lmao

>>740268579
Bro... I married a woman who cheated on me. Can't wait till our kids are adults, so I can be on my way

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1 week ago. Her mood would change from pic related to lovey dovey. Sometimes she would ignore me for hours while we were together, not even looking at me. Sometimes she would pay $100 for an Uber just to come and see me for a day

>>740269109
Fuck her and then block her.

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>>740269825

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>>740268579
>>740268579
>remember you are a man
>man the fuck up
>post her nudes on /b
>get another pussy
sometimes the captcha gives you a highway so just move on you faggot

>>740271361
Don't fuck sjw hams you retard

>>740271361
This woman would literally kill(read murder) you if you'd stay with her. She seems beyond psychopathic.

delete everything, for the love of god. cry about it for a bit, angry fap, whatever the fuck you need to do to release some tension and emotion. but the best thing to do is just to never message her again, go out and get fucking drunk and fuck some other girl.
my ex cheated on me, pulled this shit with me, told me that HE went to fucking therapy even though he was the one that cheated multiple times. nah, fuck her off. shes a cunt.

>>740271361
She's almost certainly afflicted with some sort of personality disorder. She needs to see a professional and you need to RUN LIKE HELL.

>>740268579
Sounds like you need to be way less clingy and needy. No one likes that shit

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>>740271361
>
run

run far away

>>740271503
this
show her tits

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I wish my wife would follow suite you lucky fucker.

>>740271361
That's textbook gaslighting.

Just tell her that she doesn't deserve you and block her. She will explode and everyones happy.

>>740268579
Sounds like she isn't your GF anymore

>>740268860
CAN COFIRM. Get help to find out why you are codependent

>>740271673
What that means?

>>740271361
Dont date femnazi SJWs and you wont have to deal with the psycho babble

>>740271361
I'd say ten milligrams of Haldol would make her a brand new woman.

Say some shit like, you're annoying anyway or boring some shit offensive and block her next time she texts u. Change da tides

>>740269109
Well alrighty, you sure dated a crazy bitch.

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>>740268579
Look up mgtow on youtube and start watching. Makes you feel better than just diving into another puss head first. Use em and leave em

Cut off all contact and hope you heal with time.

>>740269109
Coming from a person who experienced exactly this, leave that bitch and NEVER go back if you value yourself. Get a new girl.

>>740271361
Classic mistake.

You should've treated her like the common whore she was, and left her. That's it. No emotional crybaby, no "why did this happen" (she doesn't know why it happened, they never do), in general, she will try her best to convince you she's truly a good person who did you a favor, and then leaves when she feels contempt with herself. You're just a little pawn in her game.

If you want more, ask.

>>740271590
So it's OP's fault he was cheated on and gaslighted?

>>740272140
More

>>740271749
I absolutely agree with anon and medifag. Medifag absolutely seems to know his shit.

>>740268579
Let her go. She is not a good person and is acting like a child, You have a right to be upset, but she doesn't want to hear it because she caused the upset. She showed you who she really is. Get as far away from her as possible. It will hurt, but it is necessary. When you blow your load inside another woman's mouth, you will feel much better. Then you can begin healing.

>>740268860
Not a medifag, but was going to say the exact same thing to OP.


This message SCREAMS BPD. Obviously is impossible to tell from just one message, but the lying, the manipulation, if everything you said is true this bitch is definitely borderline.


Had a girl that I never dated officially, but she had a crush on me in high school though until now (I'm fucking 30 FYI). We'd sleep together and watch porn all the time, eventually things got sour. Long story short, I can't even be friends with this girl - she's absolutely insane. She'll take things completely out of context and get into an insane rage that she herself invents entirely in her mind. She vassilates on a bimonthly basis on being in love with me and wanting to murder me. No joke, she has told me murder fantasies she's had. She tries to make it seem like I'm the bad guy and the source of all her Ills in her life when I haven't even *seen* her in like 6 years. There's a lot more tldr but I don't wanna go into it.


Seriously, you dodged a bullet anon. A fucking huge one.


She will more than likely come back and try to get into your life again. DO NOT LET HER. Don't even read any messages from her, just block her right back.


BPD girls are monsters. I presume many of them are actually psychopaths. They can never be happy in life, they exist only to bring the men around them down and leech off of their successes and lives.

>>740268579
You should have just beaten her face in.... Jesus anon, I thought you had balls.

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fucking millennials having important conversations through text message.

OP, stop being a pussy and just quit it. Forget about her, move on, think of her as this sad little person who doesn't deserve any of you attention.

And then stop giving her attention. Stop thinking about her, don't hold grudges, be angry yes but only with the intention of getting the anger out of your system, so you're not angry anymore.

Don't carry on with petty fights, little messages, passive-aggressivenes, no, just shut the whole thing down and move on.

Play the long game, there's no revenge as sweet as being happy and letting people fall into oblivion. You don't have to do anything to prove anything, just hit the shut down button and move on.

Life is long, and it moves on.

>>740272338
I absolutely agree with anon agreeing with other anon and medifag. Can confirm from personal experience, just be glad you dodged a bullet mane

>>740269499
Are you Canadian? Asking for a friend...

post nudes

>>740268880
Don't. It's petty and if she finds out, she will feel justified for doing what she did. Just tell yourself that she has a busted-out asshole, that you are the reason, and that it's better if her next sucker finds out the hard way.

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>>740269303
fuck i remember when rancid cunt opened my spaghetti pack. I punched her hair and spit on her
Her boyfriend was too intimidate by my katana
>mfw

>>740268579
What a filthy whore, why I hate almost all women. They're all wired like retards

>doesnt show tits
>wants actual help
get the fuck in reddit

>>740269109
She will text you again, and you will not respond. Ever. Got it? Actions have consequences. She doesn't understand that. But she will, eventually.

>>740270830
>ruin HIS life

>>740272501
I live close to Windsor. Lol

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UOEi9LYvkG0

>>740272447
This is me again.

>>740272398
This is spot on. I recently came out of 10+ years with a girl with BPD. Just move on. The only part that this guy got wrong is the monster/psychopaths.

They aren't, they can't even understand wtf is happening, which makes it even harder. A monster/psycho is easy to dump, a BPD has very very good moments with very very bad moments, and a very thin line between them.

And one side of the personality has no awareness of the other side, so it looks like they're manipulating, when there are actually two different people inside their heads sharing the same thoughts and memories, but in different ways.

Get out, as fast as possible.

>>740270002
43 yo oldfag. Listen to this guy. He knows what is what.

>>740272778
How you know this if in relations with person?

>>740272927

You mean how do I know that OP's girl has BPD? This:

>Her mood would change from pic related to lovey dovey. Sometimes she would ignore me for hours while we were together, not even looking at me. Sometimes she would pay $100 for an Uber just to come and see me for a day

>>740272778
Guy you quoted, why do you say not a psycho path? Do you genuinely believe that girls with BPD are mostly unaware of what they're doing?


Granted, my own experience is skewing my perception. But what makes you think they're unaware of what they're doing?

>>740270056
>only after you clean his load off her
>and him
>but he doesn't like the feel of your towels
>tongue only
>but it's my choice, really
>it's my house, after all
>i like to be a good host is all

>>740273053
Is every woman having BPD?

>>740273398
Haha. Jeez, such advice. Good thoughts

Oh this is a simple one. Don't try to contact her, and instead of referring to her as "gf" refer to her as "ex-gf"

>>740273416
No. But like cluster B personality disorders, they're far more common in women than men.


Out of all the women I've personally known, I'm 95% sure one of them had BPD (they crazy bitch I never even dated that's still not over me periodically after highschool 12 years ago) and I suspect my main high school girlfriend may have been. She might have just been a manipulative cunt.

>>740269330
ye this desu, or you won't care enough making the relationship not worth your or her while

>>740272748
Inwood Custoooooooms

>>740268579
Personally I'd love to bitch her out one last time but good riddance, cheaters are fucking disgusting trash and don't deserve to be happy with anyone. Im so sorry OP.

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>>740273557
It's not gay though, anon.
It's not.

>>740272435

>fucking renaissancefags
>having important conversations through handwritten correspondence
>fucking gay ass quill pens!

>>740273333

Hey bro...
I just had to check those sweet ass quads!

>>740274176
Damn been here off and on since 2006, not sure I've ever got quads, at least not that any one has noticed. Awesome.

>>740273906
Lol, not far at all. What's worse is how close Detroit is

>>740271361
>>740271361
She's been cheating for some time, sir. This text is a conflict in her head and it's her shame that is making her think of excuses

>>740272398
Can also confirm. My biological mother has BPD. Luckily my grandma is raising me.

>>740274806
samefag here. forgot to mention. BPD is a terrible thing.

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>>740273333

> Do you genuinely believe that girls with BPD are mostly unaware of what they're doing?

Not just girls, guys too. They usually have little recollection of what they did in one stage while in the other, so when faced with it, they go through severe dissociation and cognitive dissonance as they try to conciliate two opposite sides, usually resulting in retraction (closing into themselves), or putting the blame on something else, since they can't come to terms (when in mode A) with something they did (when in mode B), it's the natural defense of the mind.

A good way to think is:
1) Situation depression: short-term sadness (weeks-months) after external input (death in the family, breakup, etc.), recovers normally

2) Clinical depression: continuous sadness over years, caused by genetics, situations depression, chemical problems, etc. 95% chance of recovery with treatment and medication

3) Bipolar (also called manic depression): slowly oscillates (weeks to months) between manic episodes (high energy, excitement, happiness) and depression episodes (constant sadness, no energy)

4) Borderline (BPD): like bipolar, but the periods last from minutes to days, and the oscillation between the two states is instantaneous, which also breaks down memmory, since the new "state" has to reject the feelings, thoughts and memories of the "state" which was active seconds before

Here, I made a drawing to help out.

>>740272571
Faggot.

>>740268579
Hook up with her father. Make him your bitch.

>>740272447
Fuck that. Get revenge. Break her and everyone she loves. Only then will you become purified.

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>>740275404
>how it would really go

>>740268579
send her nudes to her dad from a private number or a fake profile on facebook

>>740268579
GIVE US HER NUMBER.

>>740275761
sauce? Moar?

>>740269109
RUN DUDE!

>>740274983
my ex had Complex PTSD and when you WebMD it, the closest thing that compares to it is BPD. Best decision of my life to move on, BUT huge sacrifice because it was the absolute best and most incredible sex I've ever had.

>>740269120
This. Ignore and move on.

>>740268579
Go to her anon. I love a good love story.

ok my ex did the similar thing cheating on me and trying to get out of the situation by manipulating me. thank god i had friends that were hers friends and they told me everything. im actually good friends with that ex gf now. should i continue to hang out with her or fuck off?

>>740276061

> my ex had Complex PTSD and when you WebMD it, the closest thing that compares to it is BPD

Yeah, but PTSD only has the trigger down, not the trigger up. A person with BPD could be in complete rage in one second, and then be the nicest, happiest, cutest person ever in the next second.

> BUT huge sacrifice because it was the absolute best and most incredible sex I've ever had.

Same here. People with BPD on their "good moments" are just amazing fountains of happiness and love. But when the switch flips, hell breaks loose...

>>740272435
get with the times grandpa, do you also go to block buster to rent porn in VHS just to not feel like a milennial streaming HD porn?

>>740274983
Thank you for this, this illustrates your point nicely! I will keep this in mind.

>>740268579
Drink bleach to ease the pain

>>740275914
lol I just googled old man and twink amateur and added a fake snapchat

>>740276516
>calling is outdated
>talking to someone's face is outdated

welp, it's the endtimes /b/

>>740268579
Bitch is flirting with the void.

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>>740272778
Could you say these girls...
Literally can't even?

>>740276783
So is taking a coach or walking, silent films, dial up phones and phone distributor.
You point? Is everything invented after your time neo modern shit?

>>740277864
>people don't walk anymore
>amerifat detected

None of those things you listed are reasons not to do serious conversations in person. Try respecting another human, not hiding from conflict behind a screen.

>>740269484

Spot fucking on.

>>740268579
giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming you really did nothing wrong, welcome to women. 90% of them do this shit, in their minds they are perfect no matter what. then go bitch to their friends and even if their friends know theyre wrong they still take their side. women are cancer. focus on yourself

>>740270783

Kekd

>>740277796
Fuck off carlos

>>740270002
50yo fag here. Listen to this dude... run fuckr. Run.

>>740278265
Projecting much?

You are having a conversation with me without having the exerting task of flying several hours. It is a simple cost-benefit analysis, why spend a lot of money and time for a 2 minute truism talk, where the physical attendance is not even necessary.

By the way, sooner than later verbal communication will cease to exist with BCI, then everything will be done through internet.

>>740268579
Get a gym membership and join the land of the broken hearted. Then after you make good gains you'll still be alone and ugly but you'll have some sick ass biceps.

>>740268579
Accept it.

lesson learned OP, move on, improve for next time.

>>740268579
OP, i've been here many times. all women are crazy. they will cheat and make you the bad guy despite you never having done anything. it is an expression of their guilt. they know they are to blame, but if they bullshit themselves and make excuses (i.e. you're not doing enough X for me) they convince themselves that their cheating is justified. filthy whores, all of them. there is no grass that is greener on the other side, every single woman does this shit.

with that said, if you truly love her, there is always a way to get her back - if you really want it. but right now, don't flip out. a bitch like that will have you arrested and put you in jail with a restraining order for some shit that never happened. when they can't win on their own, they abuse the law and the court system to further hurt the guys they are with. be fucking careful. if i could sit and talk with you, i'd tell you everything there is to know about this kind of psycho bitch.

and believe me, as many other anons have said: she is a fucking psycho. you probably already knew this, so what is keeping you with her? is the pussy that good? there has to be a reason. either way, this is only the beginning. next she will turn her friends against you, and then attemmpt to turn your own friends against you. there are few things outside of a physical confrontation that will stop these bitches from doing their sneaky bullshit.

so what do you want op, revenge? to get her back? just tell me and i can help.

>>740270174
Chris?

>>740269109
Never trust these hoes man