So I had plans to hang out with this girl tonight, she's

>>740197599
Nice dubs

Haha maybe it's a guy for her friend ... but yea fuck all that noise

>>740197759
No her friend has a boyfriend already so it's not that.

>>740197599
I'd bail

>>740197599
is the guy friend her ex or something? If it's not don't sweat it dude

>>740197599
Bump for Artie

>>740197599
He's aged 20 years since he left the show. Looks like grandma Caprio.

>>740197599
bail for sure

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Yeah, this is sounding more like a hang than a date. Fuck that bitch. She's probably just jonesing for an ego boost.

>>740197599
Maybe go, gonna be awkward, then never see her again?

>>740197837
Yeah I feel like that's a real slap in the face, right? She made it seem that she was into me like that. I just think it's a red flag for something like that to happen

>>740197599
OP, who's the guy? Just some random or her ex

>>740197599
Bail dude, that's going nowhere.

Not what I think, but maybe she needs a couples third wheels so it's not a date.

>>740197993
Not an ex but probably another guy she's interested in? Either way it's kinda fucked up

>>740198238
Not an ex but just some said that she may be interested in as well

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What up Artie? Yeah man maybe that guy is for her gf to fuck so she can get alone with you.
go have one beer and if shits wack leave. at least try to get laid..

>>740198387
Some dude*

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Bail if you been talking her up, and she hits with with that tag along swerve. Fuck that bish, find another hoe.

>>740198333
Don't be an insecure beta fag dude. It's just some random dude. I wouldn't bail like all of these faggots are saying, i'd still go

>>740198333
Trips of truth. You know the deal, OP. She turned a date into something that is clearly not one. Bait and switch.

Are they using you for a ride ?? Fuck that shit anyways just bail

>>740197599
Play it out see what happens. Worse case bail in the middle of the "date" and cut all ties

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What was the plan btw? im sure arrangements were made and all that. Im still on the bail side tho...

OK here

Definetly not going out with her tonight. Im just gonna smoke some weed and jerk off. Do I even bother texting her back?

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>>740197599
she's either bringing the guy for her girlfriend or bringing the girlfriend for you. either way, looks good.

>>740198542
Yeah I was gonna pick her up, she lives pretty far too.

>>740198714
Yeah just tell her you can't make it cause she's a bitch haha . Ok not the bitch part

>>740198828
She was probably just using you for the ride homie .. but text her back so you still maybe have a chance later on ..

>>740198714
text back as if you have other shit to do...What would Dr Dre do?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBrIbT-HUHw

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>>740198818
Yeah, she gets with some Chad while OP gets stuck with her fattest friend. Looks real good.

Everyone in this thread is a huge faggot, fuck you OP

>>740198828
She just playin you dog, just casually text back that you had something come up and smoke a bowl.

Bail.

Bailing let's her know exactly what you're interested in and let's her know you're not dealing with bullshit

>>740198713
Chill by the beach and smoke/drink, that was the plan.

>>740199016
what a defeatist attitude anon...

she may have been hoping you'd say you'd rather it was just you two, the other guy is a litmus paper for how interested you are in her.

>>740199211
Yeah that would be so much better just the 2 of u

>>740197599
bail

>>740199156
>>740199159
Yeah I told her that some shit came up... just gonna leave it at that.

>Girl brings up guy, op immediately bails.
>Girl, "...ok, that was weird, he must be really insecure or somthing. Oh well"

>>740199211
>>740199211
I hope they was gonna drop for the weed and drink, but you probably gotta drive em bacl and shit. fuck doing all that.

>>740199378
and she's not wrong. Go and prove to her your better for her than that guy. Make her laugh more. Be more interesting. o wait 4chan is betas who dont even try...

>>740199378
>she then meets guy
>wasnt anon supposed to come?
>he bailed as soon as I said you were coming chad
>haha what a loser, shit im sorry I accidently knocked over the firewood with my log sized cock.
>dont worry chad put it in my log burner.

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>>740199378
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>>740199557
>log burner

OP it's a stupid priss test. My sister used to do it back when she was a cunt, she'd get a girlfriend who has a bf, then invite 2 or 3 dudes, and waited for one of them to cancel on the plans when she informed of the other dude. Obviously the beta will cancel and she'd fuck the dude who showed up. If both dudes showed up she'd pick the one who was better at whatever she judged them on. Seriously, it's a mindfuck. Show up with no expectation to get laid and you'll win.

>Seriously.

>>740199378
>>740199557

yall are spergs. OP is managing time and resources accordingly, fuck some bitch setting up a pissing contest. if shes on the rebound, OP will get that puss another day with minimal effort.

>>740199523
>competing for a woman
You are a dumb cuck if you play that game. This isn't the Bachelor. You shouldn't have to compete to get a quality woman and she shouldn't put you in that situation.

Men sell themselves short. We're the prize. More loyal, more loving, make more money, sacrifice more. There's no need to prove anything to some bitch. If she's into you, great. If not, that's o.k. too. You do you, OP.

>>740199557
/thread

>>740199787
Exactly mofuckers this ain't the bachelor

>>740199740
such a beta view of dating.
THE LADY DOTH PROTEST TOO MUCH

fuck off. If he wants to get laid without effort he should be more attractive/go for grosser girls.

>>740199787
>Men sell themselves short. We're the prize. More loyal, more loving, make more money, sacrifice more. There's no need to prove anything to some bitch. If she's into you, great. If not, that's o.k. too. You do you, OP.
*tips fedora*

buddy, life is a competition whether you like it or not, and not only in this regard. Guess what's the only possible way to ensure defeat? by not playing.
Im not saying go and put on a show. Im saying go, be yourself, have fun, dont even think about it sexually, and if it happens, it happens. But by not even going, that's extremely defeatist and really indicative of his personality (lazy)

>>740199740
>OP is managing time and resources accordingly
Or he's a beta fuck who bails the second someone of the same sex shows up. It called immaturity, insecurity and jealousy

>>740199714
I don't have time for stupid games like that... kinda lost interest in her after that

>>740199787
whats it like in the 1920s?

>>740199714
damn your sister is a manipulative bitch. Most girls dont operate like that, and the one's who do are pretty shallow about it to the point of making it obvious, avoid these people so much. avoid vapid chicks in general actually

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>>740199557

"a change in plan was not a part of the plan"

>>740199972
You're the fedora beta if you think some chick who invites you out and only after you've agreed decides to bring along another dude is worth pursuing.

And no, you don't need to compete. Do your own shit and women will find ways to insert themselves into your life. You're a little boy playing a woman's game.

And it's not defeatist to see this obvious bait and switch for what it really is and bail. There are better things to do with your time than fawn over some girl who's toying with you.

>>740200039
Nah, just show up with no intention to get laid and let the night happen bro. I'm so serious. You're gonna get to see some incredible drama, bonus points if you're really nice to her friend. Like be really nice and joke around. You'll get a funny story out of it later, anon. Trust me.

>>740200187
>WAS
was a manipulative bitch.

She's cool now, has a couple kids and a husband, faithful, good mom and all that. It's not bad.

>>740200085
Tits or GTFO.

Or be like. "sorry the original plan was just us and i had to change it last minute to add your girl friend. It's too late to change it again. Maybe next time you could bring your friend?"

Then if she desperately wants this dude along. Gtfo

>>740200414
I bet you own a copy of 'The game' and practice pua.

>>740198106
Nailed it. The "I still got it if I wanted it "

>>740200546
No, because that bullshit requires effort. I'm not that desperate for female attention.

>>740200714
Sounds like beta virgin talk to me. Sure you're not the one with a fedora?

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>>740200807
Nigger, I'm divorced. Talk to me about women after you graduate high school.

>>740200861
Tits or GTFO

>>740199714
im this guy
>>740200039
actually, she's using you for a ride so she can leave with the other dude who's showing up. I didn't read you were picking her up.

respond with

>Just have the other dude pick you up, I can't really be bothered with getting strung along and have you lead me on right now.

>>740200414
Actually anon has a point here.

>>740201015
Holy fuck dude, how defeatist and insecure you must be

fuck that bull shit bail out

i bailed on a grill at the movies during the fucking movie for doing this same shit, she ask if another girl friend of hers can come, im like yeah than during the movie a guy shows up also. I am like yeah this is fucking lame.

Bailed and chilled with friends and met another girl same night.

>>740199972
This is the fag who gets stuck waiting at the restaurant all night leaving 27 voicemails while Kristy is getting buttfucked by the qb.

>>740201184
and makes excuses

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>>740201157
They must love your gullible ass at casinos. Don't leave yet anon, you're being defeatist!

Pic related: it's you.

>>740200474
this, plus if its drinking and smoking on a beach at night, you know something fun is going to happen. dont be a bored beta alone when you can go out for fun even if it doesnt work out

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>>740200861
I made a graph that pretty much shows the majorty of the threads view

>>740200414
im the anon you're responding to and you make one really good point that i kind of ignored, that she accepted and you were supposed to hang out but after you accepted she invited others. Especially since OP said he's being used for a ride, that changes everything as well. If it was just a general get together id defend my point but you're right, it was supposed to be just them.
> Do your own shit and women will find ways to insert themselves into your life.
extremely good advice, we're on the same page anon

>>740201328
>>740201422

None of what you said made sense btw. Oh shit, im arguing on 4chan XD

>>740200861
Lol

>>740200920
lol so you're super bitter towards all women now cause you were too stupid to realise your ex was a whore?

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>>740201184
>Im saying go, be yourself, have fun, dont even think about it sexually, and if it happens, it happens.
how did you get that im really desperate from that? If Kristy wants to get buttfucked by the qb good for Kristy, my interest in her has now vaporized because she's unavailable. on to the next one.

>>740201662
Fuck of you beta divorcee. By far the biggest loser in the thread.

sounds like she is either afraid to go alone or she is retarded and doesn't understand this defeats the whole purpose of a date, that or she just wanted to be friends (which would be retarded since she says i miss you)


so there is a big chance she is dumb af

>>740201552
She wasn't a whore. We were married for 14 years and just grew apart. Not bitter about it at all. I just know far more about women than some teenager who gets all of his ideas from romantic comedies.

>>740201774
Mr. Burns?

>>740201682
>you're too scared of chad to go.

>>740201774
Lol, that wasn't even me. Just others noting what a cuck you are.

>>740201828
If you genuinely believe everyone here is a teenager why do you come here? I'm 25 btw and I bet ive been with many more women than you have. Divorced loser that hates all women for no reason.

>>740201902
hahaha, the guy who 'grew apart' is calling me a cuck.

>>740202107
your a faggot dude lol

>>740202017
Lol, 25. Yeah, you sure know a lot. And I've already said that the divorce wasn't bitter. I just know how women think better than some poser PUA like you.

>>740201682
"By not going you're a defeatist" ....why because he weighed his options and realized it wasn't the plan they had made. Why not reschedule? Why should he jeopardize friendzoning his ass or just being let down by going into it already clearly annoyed. Ok, fuck as much pussy as you can and never settle down. Slay bitches by the ocean to your dick no longer works. Women aren't worth it..

>>740201827
Or she's just some cunt that's toying with me. This morning She sent me this snapchat of her self lifting her shirt up and the bottom of her tits were easily visible...i don't have time for these games. If she was interested she would make sure that it was just her and i and not make me compete with some dude.

>>740202214
I was the one who called you a pua you fucking idiot. You coming from a generation that generally still had leftovers of the traditional housewife mentality, definitely doesn't know how women think in any superior capacity. Getting married doesnt make you any smarter, just makes you a cuck.

>>740202107
Yeah, you're a cuck, because you advocate falling for stupid women tricks. You don't need to do that to get women, fool.

Also, you try staying with the same woman for 17 years without growing apart. People change.

>>740202107
if anything anon, you're just showing your immaturity by not having experience with a chick to know what "growing apart" means. He's lucky it took 14 years. Humans were not meant to be monogamous indefinitely, we are opportunists who grow bored with what we have, it's fairly inherent human nature.

>>740202252
if there is a next time just ask her if you can go with the 2 of you

you could also ask that other dude wtf is up if you know him well enough

but indeed, don't play any bs games

>>740202499
"getting married makes you a cuck"

That's some serious virgin talk. And my ex-wife and I both worked and split housework. We were not old fashioned by any means.

You've clearly never had any meaningful relationship, so you've just proven that no one should listen to you about women.

>>740202546
This is my point, if you genuinely think she was trying to trick him, and that its not just OP being a beta fool and misreading signals. You obviously don't understand women at all. This whole thread is just a shit narrative made up by beta fags who think all women scheme to waste guys because its always chad that gets the girl.

>>740200861
t. Beta cuck getting used for money/car/ego stroking

>>740202818
hope you dont have kids.

>>740197599
Abort
They want a place to chill. Is this girl homeless/living with parent?

Fuck that noise.

>>740202818
the fact you are explaining yourself just shows how out of touch with this site you are. Why are you here?

>>740202866
You're the inexperienced fool if you think this chick isn't playing games with OP.

"I miss you, let's get together", and then after he accepts adding a dude to the equation. Nope. This is not what OP needs. Your optimism is merely inexperience with women.

>>740203109
yeah her evil mind games are way less foolish an idea than OP just misunderstood the situation.

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>>740203086
That is some nigger-level arguing you've got there. So, if I show my bona fides for giving advice, I don't "get" /b/, and if I don't then you say I've admitted your bullshit accusation about me being bitter towards women.

Doesn't work that way, son. And you're clearly trying to change the discussion because you sense that you're losing the room.

>>740199557
100% this

>>740203424
not me you fucking retard. Im the comment above your shit comment where you actually used bona fides.

>>740199232
(you) have literally no experience.

>>740203424
you do seem really bitter towards women though anon.

>>740203745
no he doesn't you god damn semen demon

>>740201828

How did it go financially? Did she take lots of your money/stuff/the kids?

>>740203745
And you seem naive and inexperienced.

>>740203926
It went fine. We split the house and our stuff evenly. No alimony. We didn't have kids (didn't want them) so no child support. Quick and easy.

>>740203745

I suppose knowledge of female nature can sound that way to a virgin chump who hasn't played the game long enough.

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>>740199557

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>>740203908
divorced samefag.

Go fuck her friend

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>>740204175
Whhaaaa! I can't accept that more than one person disagrees with me!

>>740204107
So you think you understand all women, and you think its normal for people to confuse your vast knowledge of women as bitterness? You're a fucking moron.

>>740199939

>not letting a woman waste your time and disrespect you
>hurr that's such a BETA view of dating

Brain damage? It's literally the opposite of that.

>>740204239
/thread

I give up. I have never been divorced so I obviously I only THINK I know what women are like. Someone who has lived longer, obviously automatically learns the truth.

>>740204370

There's a basic set of behaviors and traits that all women share. You just don't understand that or know anything about them. That's my only point. No need to lash out over it. We already know you're a stupid and insecure child.

>>740204603
From the sounds of it, you've never had any lasting relationships with women. That's why you don't have any insight into how they really think.

When the fuck did /b/ turn into loveline?
What do I think? I don't give a shit!

>>740204719
Thats just fundamentally not true. Jesus Christ, do you have any evidence of this? Or this just your 'ive been on this earth longer than you' closet mind bullshit. IM OLDER THAN YOU PETULANT CHILD I KNOW MORE THAN YOU.

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>>740204719
samefag.

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>>740204978
Wrong again.

>>740205053
OP why not show us the text messages?

>>740205341
this isnt OP its some shitty divorced guy that thinks he knows the secret to every womans thought process. He just calls anyone who disagrees a child.

If a chick likes you, it's 1 on 1. Simple as that. If she wants to invite other girls, she MAY want to show you off to her friends. If she invites more guys, you're just clowns and entertainment and a posse to make her look not-losery in front of the one dude she actually wants to bang.

>>740205432
Now you're just trying to hurt my feelings. And hyperbole is a childish way of arguing, btw.

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>>740205684
>There's a basic set of behaviors and traits that all women share.
>We already know you're a stupid and insecure child.

What hyperbole?

>>740205807
That's not me, you dumb fuck. But keep wrongly accusing me of samefagging.

>>740205950
Anyone can open a incognito tab old man.

>>740205684
>>740205807
You're both faggots, just jack off and go to bed

>>740206055
Holy shit you're a moron.

>>740206062
I am technically a faggot for defending women on 4chan I agree, but id rather be that than a deluded older man that thinks hes cracked the female mind.

>>740206209
This, from Mr. "I'm 25 and I've bagged so many women"? You're a know-it-all child, but you'll learn better down the road.

>>740206527
cant wait till my first divorce when being older than someone suddenly gives me a better understanding of women. Everyone knows it takes 17 years with someone till you drift apart from them to truly understand women. Oh wait no it doesnt, that's just your shit reasoning for your shit theory about women.

>>740197599
You failed her shit test when you said yes to the friend tagging along. You were cucked before you even wanted to bail.

>>740206765
Lol, you'll never have a relationship with a woman that lasts 17 years, so don't worry.

And yes, you never having had a real relationship with a woman means you don't understand them nearly as well as I do.

>>740207086
Which you are just assuming, besides your perception of women, and how they think (unless you've experienced ALL women) is entirely based on your specific experiences. You are a fucking idiotic adult if you cant see my reasoning for why what you've been saying is fundamentally wrong.

OP, don't waste your time. If you want to be friends with her, hang out. If you want something else, don't bother. Life is too short to become a hanger-on hoping she'll eventually show interest. There's loads of women out there, and you'll eventually meet one who IS interested.