That moment when your girlfriend >stops texting you as much

>>739626512

iktf.

Relationships aren't suppose to work outside of making children.

>>739626512
Cause they're all fucking whores.

thats why i like boys

complacency

1. That pussy. Wow.
2. Just wait until you hit your mid 20s, all of a sudden the tables turn and women start to bother the shit out of you (the way you presumably do them now).

All in all, just have fun kid and you'll see what happens

Cause you confuse amorousness with love. One is not forever, but the other may be forever, maybe not that intense but love is way more real. Try to get a girl you love, not the one you want to fuck.

>>739626512
You're not attractive to her anymore. You let the relationship slip out of your fingers, you're not longer in charge. And it's your fault, not hers

Because after 6 months your brain no longer gets excited when you see whoever you are dating. You can only get that excitement back from new people.

Relationships are a scam unless you have a specific good reason for being with the girl you are with. For most guys the way to go is to be single and date lots of women.

I mean, I just cant understand was going on in their minds. At first she was behind me all the time, spending the whole weekend with me at home, enjoying films and nice restaurants.
Even sent me audio messages, selfies or kind words every day and night.

But now? I barely see her during the week, she works on weekends too and most of her text messages are just a couple of words like "how are you doing? great!"

There are times where I wish I'd be single again, but hell no. I dont want to fall again in that pit as I'd be constantly looking for another girl and repeating the cycle all over again.

Saw her last connection in whatsapp and she doesnt talk first anymore, Im already tired of this

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Read. Learn.

>>739626512
Fuck this is happening to me right now. OR maybe that's what my paranoid mind is telling me.

Actually she's very happy to spend time with me but the texting and the kind words stopped.

She acts as she loves me as usual but stopped being explicit about it.
I've got the feeling she's kind of ashamed of showing affection. Like if showing affection makes her less of a strong womyn.

>>739627084
dump her before she dumps you

>>739627084
Break up with her. Condition yourself not to react to women or get your happiness because of how women treat you. Date women nonexclusively (don't have your happiness rely on one woman). Maintain your independence. If a woman makes you unhappy, always be willing and ready to drop her.

You fucked up by investing your emotional energy in a woman who has now shown she is emotionally unreliable.

>>739627258
Memes aside, this book is pretty good. Teaches you how to cut through the bullshit our hypocritical culture throws at you and manage thots.

>>739626512
And that is how you know the relationship is over and you werent meant for each other.

I went to grade school with my wife. We went to different high schools and different out of state colleges, fast forward 18 years and we are still as happy as we always were.

>>739627084
She's not your gf bro lol she got whatever she wanted out of you, sex wise or anything else, and has moved on

>>739627264
Its the same way as me, when we are together it seems she is alright and enjoys it, but the next day or couple of days its like Im talking to a stranger, she doesnt give me enough conversation neither

>>739626512

Your relationship is about to end. Just had the same experience with my girlfriend. Started after she got an abortion. Cue the lack of effort and constant fights over shit. She kept saying she loved me but it wasn't evident in her actions. Long story short, she broke up with me last week, citing that she needs to have time to herself as her reason, and then I caught her holding hands with another dude in town today.

Fucking women.

>>739626613
>Relationships aren't suppose to work outside of making children.
You cannot deduce anything from human nature, if there even is such a thing.
We have no mating season, we are horny all the time. We suffer. We adapt. We survive.
There are no unchangeable rules.

>>739627385
For sure. I just pass by /b/ on occasion but from what I've seen there are a lot of people on /b/ who need to read it.

>>739627520
"I need to be alone" or "I need time" always means "I want to fuck other people for a while with no consequences for me, perhaps to see if there's someone better I can leave you for"

>>739627604
Yeah. Most of his advice will be good for the people here because it helps you manage expectations and keep from getting attached to people who probably do not give any fucks about you.

>>739627617

Yeah, I figured. I just didn't anticipate her moving on so quickly, as she claims to still love me and couldn't move on because she's still reeling from the abortion.

Like I said, fucking women.

>>739627264
>Like if showing affection makes her less of a strong womyn.

If that is even a thought in her head, kill it with fucking fire. Women arent meant to be "strong and independent" They are there to support a strong and independent man. If a woman doesnt understand that, she is not worth your time

As much as it sucks to say this OP, it's best to just break up. I had the exact same situation with my ex and it just turned into me texting her all day and barely getting an answer. Save yourself the pain and effort and just break up. If your relationship has come to this point, there's no coming back from it. Guarenteed.

Already told her Im not waiting days for hanging out even if she says she wants to do many other things meanwhile.

Do you know whats worse? I end up being alone because of her, so now I have to stay alone at home every weekend. I should dump her and install Tinder or something like that.

Told her about breaking up and she doesnt want to, she says she just wants a little more space. But thats not a proper excuse, space for what? I dont consider seeing your gf 1 time per week a relationship, specially during summertime.

>>739627683
Their actions are very beta male. Which is a complete turn off to women as I'm sure you know. Calling women "Goddesses" and just all around extreme thirst. It makes me cringe.

>>739626804

This just isnt true

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>>739626512
She's probably fucked some nig and doesn't find u interesting anymore.

#cucklife

>>739626971
i bet you watch black dudes fuck your wife

>>739627887
you're in a teeny bit of denial here. it's already over. she's sending you so many signals that it's over. you need to break up with her to maintain some dignity.

>>739626512
How old are you, and how old is your relationship?
>>739627043
Dafuq dude, I'm in a relationship for 3 years now, and my gf and I couldn't be happier

Not all women are like that, you need to find one that's looking for a meaningful connection, and that's hard, I went to high school with my gf but only started dating her a year after we graduated, so I knew what kind of person she was, before dating her, she was already my friend, now she's my gf

>>739627887
Saw her this wednesday, she barely talked only listened to what I was saying. Told her it was better to end this because I wasnt seeing any positive things in our relationship. She told me
"I want to fall in love with you slowly again until we reach the point where no problem can break up this relationship, I still feel a lot of things for you and you know I love you, so dont worry"

And all that typical bullshit they usually say

>>739626512
Read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. Once you have read and understand that, read Bang and Day Bang by Roosh V. Your life will change.

>>739627887
>"space for what?"

Exactly this OP, she's fucking with you. Just leave her man. She has time for everyone and everything, but you, doesn't she?

Yours truly,
>>739627809

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>>739628086
His wife's face when

She's most likely having the sex with another man. End it op or be a cuck. I personally don't care.

>>739627887
Yeah, I'd move on if I were you.

She is online, I dont know if I should write her once again. I just want to clarify everything and make up my mind.
But writing her all the time sounds very beta to me, its like Im desperated for attention and love, I think I should wait and let her see I dont care and I have my own life too

>>739626512
OP, start preparing for it and start looking for a new girl on the sly. Hit the gym, etc and start consolidating your assets and personal property back to a safe location.

Also, that pussy photo looks absolutely perfect

>>739626512
Ever chewed a bubble gum for hours and hours on?

At first it feels awesome as fuck, then it feels like you chew plastic, your jaw starts to hurt and your taste becomes sourish.

>>739628199
You probably have something very special going on, i.e. some important thing that benefits both of you from staying together other than the typical sex and good company that pretty much any guy with a penis can provide. What I said doesn't apply to every relationship, but it does to most of them.

>>739628521
Just stop talking to her all together. That sends the message she needs.

>>739628361
lol

>>739628665
this

>>739626512
If she's not willing to put in the work to keep a relationship going, then don't waste your time.

I came from a failed 6 years relationship. Been with plenty of girls all my life (33years old) and no matter how the girl is, there are always these kind of problems. Always.

Whats the problem? I just cant be single. If I stay single I always end up looking for other girls, new girlfriends, online hookups or things like that. I cant enjoy being single anymore, cant watch films or videogames properly.

But when into a relationship Im always worrying about this crap. Life is hell.

>>739628521
Prepare to break up. Hit the gym, pack up your shit or have a move-out plan ready to go. If you live together, move out while she is out for the day and then tell her after you have moved out. Flirt with your coworkers. Start using tinder. (Your gf has been doing that already). Stop messaging your gf until she messages you that she wants to meet up. When you do meet up, just tell her that it's over. Don't give her the real reason. Just make something up. She doesn't deserve the real reason and at this point probably doesn't care because she has been de facto single for a long time.

>>739627795
Well, in her defense, she didn't came up with that herself.
Her mum was bitter about her first marriage and indoctrinated her about getting strong since little age.
Can't really blame them. They had an hard life.

The both of em keep saying things like
>don't be such a silly woman
or
>women are so stupid
It's quite sad actually.
She's lucky to be born attractive or she would have ended lesbian for sure.

>>739626512
a) Relationships don't work if the time of "falling in love" ends, it's just actual chemistry.
b) You are the one that stops being the way you were before, you have changed, not her, but you don't realise it becaus it.
c) Who cares, move on.

>>739628665
I guess thats what Im going to do. Already tried the talking other days and she just promised me empty words. And everytime we talk about this problem she says she doesnt like to talk about it because it makes her to feel bad and be the "bad one" in the relationship. So yes, fuck it.

I wait until her talking first or showing some "kind words" or something like that. Meanwhile Im going to think for me instead

>>739627809
This.
Also, same.
/thread

>>739628045
It mostly is. As time goes on women stop playing stupid games or they end up single. As a guy just have your lfe together and having a girlfriend isn't a big ask as time goes on

>>739629174
As the man said, you changed. You also need to understand something crucial. A woman does not love the same way a man does. A man loves for the sake of love and a woman loves you for what you do. In other words, you have to dominate, protect, and provide. Their loyalty is based on their options. There are 2 sides to a woman's sexual strategy (hypergamy) : Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks.

>>739626971
stupid cuck mindset

>>739629174
waiting on her is passive and a mistake. nothing is going to change. she's probably fucking around on you already (or at least looking for other options).

>>739629236
yep, at some point the girls' mothers' jokes about them not finding a guy start to get less and less funny and if you have a decent job and are not a complete autist, it's easy going for you.

>>739626512
generally the opposite happens to me, try dating girls who you want to hang out with like a bro all day (and i really mean just want to hang out not a means to an end of fucking)... friendship is 100% the best foundation for any relationship

>>739629759
Right. Most likely she is riding the cock carousel behind his back. He should not wait for anything. Just move on and forget.

>>739628917
This nigger sounds experienced. Definitely do all that stuff in advance and when you do drop the bomb, not giving her the reason will cause her to go nuts wondering. Also, report back and greentext how it went down it so we can all partake in the keks

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you have to be best friends with your girlfriend. she has to be a girl who goes on 4chan and who gets ironic humor.

if not you will not be able to satisfy her friendship wise and you won't be the perfect couple. if so (and she is actually cool) you guys will die together happy.

>>739630095
he sounds like a bitch dude, fucking just talk to her and see whats up. jesus whats up with dudes being afraid to talk to their girlfriends/wives/whatever. also "hit the gym" is the funniest mentality to me

Im not going to just break up. I invested too much in this girl so Im going to focus things other way.

Obvioulsy Im not going to sit down and wait for something to happen, but at least start doing my own things and making sure she knows Im not there in the same way as before, or at least until she changes or says whats really happening.

But just breaking up, no.

>>739630213
this motherfucker knows

>>739626512
It's called being iced. She's just not that into you anymore. People need to realize that they solely cannot control how a relationship either fizzles or grows. Takes all parties involved to keep it going, and it isn't about effort- sometimes it's just chemistry or people changing / growing up.

>>739630406
how long have you been together? and have you asked her how she's doing?

>>739630437
lol you can't control it but you can open a dialog

/b/eta males giving relationship advice.
>you have to be best friends
>Open communication is what works!
Wrong. You have to be her best option. Be dominant. Be fit and like the man said, go to the gym. But this relationship is done. You failed too many shit tests and she doesn't have as much respect for you. Get your life together financially, stay in shape, and learn game. Raise your self esteem. And never rely on a woman for validation.

They anticipate you to be a perfect prince charming. As soon as they see your flaws they're disinterested.

>>739631007
That is true

>>739626512
Stop being a pussy.

You care too much. THat's the problem. My girlfriend and I don't text as much because I'm too busy focusing on my career. She then obsesses over me and is always up in my shit. Case and point, find important shit to do.

You lurk around worrying about your girl,she will get bored and fuck someone on the side.

Fuck this shit I wish I was gay, things are always easier for males and friends. No need to break your head with stupid mind games and out of the blue changes on girls behaviour.
One day you are feeling perfect with her and the next day she is dumping you.

>>739631345
Signs your genes are trying to self-destruct their way out of the gene pool.

>>739631345
It's not that complicated once you understand women. Read those books I mentioned earlier in the thread. Once you "get it", you realize just how simple women really are.

>>739626512
OP stop seeking advice on /b/, most of the time it will end up convincing you to be a cuck and enjoy it. Beware of it

>>739631619
Right. And cuck porn is beta as fuck. It's sad that people are into that. Low T betas.

you ask 4chan for advice?
what you should do is tell her your relationship is over youre tired of her bullshit. treat her like shes a pile of dogshit. then focus on yourself and you only and women will come to you. its that simple!

.Let her be a flake. Get other girlfriends and make it a open relationship. 3 somes guaranteed, plus what's she gonna do breakup with you???

Try this: don't text her if she doesn't text you first. Continue with your life, go out with friends or whatever.

>>739626512
Dude trust me don't waste time worrying about that stuff at your age. I have made that mistake before and you do not get the time back. Act like a boss and shrug it off and tell her to go fuck off and you have better things to do

>>739628662
great sex, but I mostly try to provide her with comfort, listen and advise her with her problems, and also the fact we also have solid plans for the future. Also being open with her from the very beginning, we know everything about one another, no secrets, thet helps building the relationship stronger.
That thing about the future can be an issue for a lot of people, some people want to have kids, some don't, or some people never want to get married, but have a stable parter, while others the ultimate goal is getting married.
If those interests don't align, sooner or later the relationship will fall apart, as the future gets closer, the faster it will fall.

>>739632573
I see. You don't "get it" if that's the case. You comfort her, someone else gives her the vagina tingles and bangs her out. That pretty much confirms it for me. When there is no mystery, she gets bored. The whole "open communication" meme is bullshit.

>>739630406
>Im not going to just break up. I invested too much in this girl
Then you're throwing good money after bad. It doesn't matter how much you've invested - if it's over, it's over. Don't try to play any emotional games of brinkmanship, don't try to be the good guy or make her out to be the bad guy. There are no emotional points to be won.

Simply break up, and move on to a better future.

>>739632962
dafuq dude, I give her the pounding, lots of it. What makes you think otherwise?

you have to act like you're constantly holding back information, almost like you're living a double life. if you learn how to make it work, it's really the only way.

>>739627084
Kinda what happened to me but I knew what went wrong. Don't worry, find a new one. It'll get better trust me.

>>739635094
What went wrong in your case?

Honestly Im tired of finding a new one. Its always the same. And if I end up with a girl I dont really care about it doesnt help at all

>>739635423
What's more likely, the problem is with every girl in the world or you? Analyze why it keeps happening and improve

>>739635746
I'll tell you. Women are fucking cunts who think by they have the pussy that they can get away with the most awful shit in the world

>>739635423
I think it was a combination of post partem, jealous coworkers, my trust issue due to my ex wife, and other stuff. I was good to her, never cheated or anything. The only guy that was good to her from what everyone says. She's a cunt now for no reason but I'm not dwelling on it. I've moved on. She'll realize one day that she had a great guy but I'm done.

>>739626512
>I dated a girl who was really excited to see me again
>we text like we did at the start
>all of a sudden, over night she loses the attitude
>I don't know what happened, like the day before nothing was changed and she was happy
>she loses interest despite my efforts
>flakes out before 2nd date
>we end it before it happens
why are women like that

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>>739626512
its because you're a pussy, i can tell from the picture you provided. dont be a throbbing autistic vagina and you'll be fine

>>739636524
They call it emotions.
Read a book sometimes.

you're just together now

>>739627604
>implying /b/ can read

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>>739636768
no shit.

I asked why is it women specific and why are they doing that. I did all I could think of to find the root of the problem but I came out blank.
I tried fixing things and making her feel good but she refused to accept it and preferred to feel bad. There is no helping that attitude its a lost cause from the start, but why? what do they want by doing that?

>>739636524
mine was happy all the time, even gave me some present she crafted "keep it with you everyday and it will remind you of me"

but then the next day she starts saying she wasnt feeling good with me, she doesnt know what happened, and we can stay together but she will be like this most of the time because she doesnt know what happened.
>dont worry, what I feel for you is still there

crazy bitches

>>739626512
Do your feelings stay the same when theirs change?

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>>739637208
Says
>no shit
but still does not understand.

Again.
>They call it emotions.
>Read a book sometimes.

>>739626665
Anon should I just buy into the trap meme

>>739637208
I also tried to fix everything. If she was worried about a problem I was there all the time, talking about her issues at work, family or whatever.

It didnt help, she was feeling bad and sad and many other excuses. "I just dont have time for you dont you see? We cant see as much as you want because I need time for myself too, Im also making everything to be fine together"

And because these issues I just cant focus on my own things like study, work or enjoy my hobbies. Fucking girls dude

>>739637346
unfortunately for me... they do...

>>739637648
Mine was even more complicated, I'm not sure if she needed more space but it was HER that kept messaging me and I felt like I had to respond so I did and tried to keep her happy and when I didn't text she got all weird and ghosted me. Then she was happy to talk to me again despite me doing nothing differently.
Some cunts here say emotions but they won't explain it, I know she must've been driven by emotions but how could you like and dislike someone at the same time, then blow the guy off and when I asked her why she got upset over it like it was ME who fucked up. Even when I go out of my way to make her happy she is upset that I do and somehow finds a way to hold it against me

>>739638208
What I mean is, didn't you feel it coming in the slightest? and this happened significantly more than once?

>>739638405
You see it coming but you believe that everything will go back to the way it was before. But it doesn't...

>>739631345
i hate when people say this, like... i'll suck a dick from time to time but fuck dating a guy, they're so god damned whiney all the fucking time.

>>739631569
if you want to understand women just remember that they're actually people... and then it makes sense, stop treating them like a different species

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>tfw single for 10 years
>tfw I love it

>>739638774
I'm sorry things went that way for you /b/ro. I hope you'll find someone who is excited to see you after years and years m8.

>>739639276
thanks fam <3

>>739628529
you have a very consumerist view of the relationship

>>739626512
She's slipping away, this happened to me a while back, dump her before she dumps you.

>>739639073
"get a load of this guy" - no girl ever

>>739626627
/thread

My brother is currently in love with a "poly-amorous" woman. Which to me just means shes in love with dick and thats about it.

>>739626512
Maybe, and i'm just saying it as a possibility...
You're a shitty person.

>>739636923
I really wish I could understand what this post says.

My girlfriend didnt answer me back since 18:00, last time online was 23:00 and she has to work tomorrow.

Fuck this shit, I cant watch a film because Im thinking all the time about her and where is she. Why are girls such selfish beings?

>>739626804
This is the damn truth!
When I was a teen, every relationship was great, and then enough time apart it would just sort of fizzle out. When I got into my twenties I got real serious with a girl, but she had to go. Now that I am in my early 30's, younger girls don't leave me alone and older women are constantly calling. Something about a working white male who owns his own house really turns single women who are struggling in college/life.

due to /b/ now everytime my gf says she is meeting a girl friend I think she is cheating on me.

well, /b/ and my horrible exgf who made me what I am now, unable to trust a girl anymore.

>>739638905
I already understand them. I'm trying to help these pitiful blue pillers.

>>739640212
she's out riding that cock carousel while you sit at home crying. she does not give two shits.

>>739641725
LOL dude that sentence just read as "i don't understand them at all but i like to pretend i know things thats why i joined this internet club"

NERVE GAME THREAD GO
>>739641130

>>739641980
I couldn't care less about what a /b/eta male thinks. You keep preaching that egalitarian bullshit though. Get more of these clowns cucked.

>>739627297
This
As fucked up as it sounds it's true
Is better for you to hold the kill switch than a woman because you really don't know what she's planning

>>739626512
dont be a needy bitch. I used to bs likd this when I was 16. You don't have to see/speak to your girl every goddamn day. Dont be a wimp

>>739642311
dude you're literally just claiming more and more than you're clueless and lonely. i've only been called not manly/beta/whatever the fuck on /b/ and /r9k/. i'm happy with my life friend, i've had many people in my life who love me and whom i love. i hope you find happiness

>>739626512
I know that feeling. My current girlfriend is complaining that we don't spend enough time together despite us seeing each other every few days.

Then accuses me of not caring and not wanting to plan stuff despite planning 90% of everything we have done for the last year. Didn't consult me, just decided I didn't give a fuck silently. And whenever she plans stuff its "come round to mine so I can basically ignore you all night as I do my own shit" or she's been in a shitty fucking mood to the point where I can't have a conversation without her snapping at me or generally being a bitch (who the fuck would want to hang around with that?)

And recently I've been busy as I've moved into a new place and had to settle in and I got shit for wanting to actually unpack instead of spending every day I have free with her. Her Grandmother has come from abroad for 6 weeks, I don't really get on with her, she's been doing stuff with her, its her time with her grandma as she wont see her again before she dies. And I get shit because I don't travel for an hour to see her every day I have off and when I ask her to meet half way she's not going to because her grandma is here oh and its my fault.

Dear god I fucking hate this relationship bullshit sometimes. Sorry for blogging.

>>739642778
I'm perfectly happy. I'm trying to help these people. I generally don't even post on this board. But, I see these kids on here worshiping women and clearly demonstrating feelings of low self worth and seeking validation through relationships. I'm giving them the information to change that. You have yet to prove me wrong in anything. Just saying "you're clueless" or accusing me of being lonely doesn't prove anything.

>>739626512
whether it is you, or her, now is the time to improve upon yourself and your life.

relationships come and go. life is impermanent.

>>739643968
i'm judging you by the thoughts you're presenting to the world friend, and i'm drawing conclusions from what you're giving me

>>739644411
prove. me. wrong.