My wife just left me, and took the kids with her. She layed into

And another thing she is a stay at home mom i work 2 jobs so others dont raise our children.

Don't let her take the kids fag. The odds are against you but try and keep what you can. Post more

>>738741106
>>738741111
She has no income take the kids and leave her with nothing

Bullshit they never give you the house

>>738741160
This anon.

>>738741005
OP I believe there's another man involved. She wouldn't leave a man with a wage if she hadn't some security promises on the other side...

2/3rd's of all divorces are initiated by women...sad truth is that usually this is more emotionally difficult on men.

Divorce lawyer here, just sayin`...try to keep your head up.

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>>738741111
Im not gonna fight over the kids today they just watched their parents break up. I am going to fight for them. Has anyone been through this what should be my first step.

>>738741395

LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER LAWYER

Download tinder and have some fun while you get your head together.

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>>738741351
Oh trust me i know theres another man cause i have never seen the guy in the suv before. I'll admit im at work 70% of the time so it wouldnt habe been hard for her to cheat.

Let me add....spend as much time as possible with the children now, to establish pattern of parental care to be able to show the court...keep a calendar as Exhibit 1

I know this will be difficult but be nice to her, so that you can see the kids as much as possible.

>>738741005
Is your wife's name Amanda ?

>>738741416
no fuck that, waste of money and she'll win, the woman ALWAYS wins, just keep a friendly face on for the kids anon, my mum and dad split when I was 12, fucked me up but they kept friendly and it helped a lot.

>>738741395

Like the other guy said: LAWYER. This is the very first step. He will guide your steps. Way wiser than taking /b/ advices...

>>738741416
Ive never used one before do i just look look up lawyers in my area? Or is there a certain kind i should be looking for

This is why (You) people should go MGTOW or just pay hookers. Women will destroy everything you hold dear. Don't waste your time and $ on objects that are only good for their mouth, anus and cunt, which they usually only give to chad anyways.

Cut back on work schedule to reduce possible child and spousal support numbers...and to have some time to spend with you children.

It will be a new life for you...working 70% of your time, you never did have much time for your children...seize it now

>>738741626

someone who specifies in family law, preferably go for a dude.

Your ex-wife looks like a cheap slut anyways. No big loss.

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>>738741712
I know i didnt make time for them, but it was so they can have their mother around at all times. I spent my whole childhood in daycares then my grandmother started watching me after i was molested. I wanted a caring home for them where they were always safe.

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>>738741832
Not my newly ex wife just a random inernet skank

Youre fucked anon. Here in NY, you would have to pay her alimony, continue paying the mortgage, and 17% of your salary per kid! All while the chad is banging her in your bed.
Buddy of mine makes 150k per year and is living with his parents cause the nigger loving pig took him for everything. She was locking her kids in the basement while getting railed by the chad, then telling them not to tell daddy or they would take the kids away from mommy.
Fuckin good for nothing sluts

>>738741005
>>738741395
>>738741489
>>738741855
I think I know this girl...she looks an awful lot like someone I know at least

Not to hijack a thread or anything My gf of 2 years with 3 kids wanted to break up with me and I said okay didn't really feel the emotional rollercoaster everyone else does I think it's an advantage not a weakness

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>>738742015
Piercing is in the wrong place but damn they are similar

Lawyer here (not divorce). Go online and look for "divorce lawyers in ____(your area). Meet with ALL of them (this will conflict them out of representing her later, if they've already had communication with you about the matter). Pick the best one (often times the best are the most expensive, but not always. (Look at websites that review attorneys like avvo, justia, etc). Remember this is about the rest of your kids lives (as well as yours), so take out another mortgage if you have too.

Document all interactions with skank. Good and bad (keep a journal of every contact with her). If she starts getting bitchy, switch to text to screenshot her piss poor communication. Always assume you are being recorded in convo. Get a recording app to be able to record your phone calls with her (consult with your lawyer first, different states have different rules).

Good luck.

>>738742238
I see, lawyerbro, that you are recommending what we call a "Tony Soprano" divorce strategy.

>>738741005
Oh, you'll feel something when she hits you with that child support order. I fuckin promise you that, homie. My cunt of an ex-wife pulled that same bullshit. I work too much. Where the fuck did she think all the money we had came from? Did she think it grew on trees? How did she think all the fucking bills got paid? By osmosis? What did she think I spent so much time in school to be able to have a job that paid 90K/year at the time for? To sit around the house and pander to her because she's fucking bored with her life? WTF? Women are fucking stupid. I've got 3 more years left of my child support payments. A thousand bucks of my hard earned money pay the rent for my cunting ex-wife and her loser boyfriend who works as a goddamn line cook who never went to college. It's flavor of the week with these hoes, and they know if they change their mind all they have to do is pack up and bounce. So just you wait, my dude. You'll feel it. Soon.

>>738741699
Mgtow is just a clever acronym for socially inept betas too cucked to get married.

All you do is work.
To support this family.
Be gone whores.

>>738742504
It is a valid strategy IRL

post pics of the ex wife?

>>738742238
This plus pi prove she's committed adultery so she can't get alimony you will only have to pay child support if you don't want split custody

>>738741626
Go with a family law or divorce lawyer (even if you're not getting divorced they have heard everything and can give you the best course of action)

>>738741395
Stay in your home.
Don't let her back in
Keep 1 job
Prove that you are the more stable parter/ household.
In Illinois this guarentees you custody.
Don't do drugs. Accuse her of drug use.

>>738743494
my wife started this shit with me too. I work too much, I dont give her enough attention.

So I called a realtor and had him come to the house. I told the wife we were selling the house and moving into a trailer in the trailer park so I could spend more time with her and the kids. We needed to change our lifestyle I told her. I would take a job where I could spend a lot more time at home and we wouldnt need near as much money.

She changed her fucking tune in a hurry when she figured out I was wiling to do it.

>>738742238
Also, don't badmouth her to anyone and for the love of fuck, don't post any information about her, even photos. You may feel good getting petty revenge, but ut will bite you later. You have to be clean as Norwegian snow for a while. And if you want to see the kids again don't hit or threaten to hit her or Uncle Chad.

Lock down you bank accounts--checking, savings, credit cards, everything. Make sure that your important documents are NOT in the house when she and chad come to get her shit. Let her take her jewelry but hide or otherwise make unavailable other valuables.

It's a start point.

One question--did you tell her your child-rearing plans and why you were working so much, or were you the type that when she asked you anything, you would grunt and say, "Shut yer yapper"?

>>738741593
Wrong, the woman doesn't always win.....

>>738741005
My wife left me 3 weeks ago. I started out neutral. Then got sad. Then angry. Then neutral again. It's a rollercoaster. The good thing for me is my son wants to be with me and is with me 75% of the time.

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I'm going to pass on some Spanish machismo wisdom lol....Just make new kids OP. They're born of half bad stock anyways. Make new ones with a superior woman, one who has her life in order and she has brains, and good genes. No ses tonto

Re enforcing the "isolate out all assets" so she cant do petty things like max out credit

Id suggest getting a private detective to shadow her a bit to find out what her sudden change was about

Also, contact your inlaws and make sure to have a decent standing, and ask if they know what this is about; kids deserve randparents as well, and it paints you in a better light.

1. make sure you get DNA tests on all the kids.
2. You will be ordered to pay:
Child Support
Alimony
Her education
The Rent or mortgage after the judge orders you out

Get a lawyer
Get a PI to look into how long the affair has been ongoing.

If you dont sue for custody, the court will just take them away.

>>738741005
>My wife just left me, and took the kids with her. She layed into me about how all i do is work for at least 2 hours then a suv pulls up she grabs the kids and gets in. She said she will be back later today with a uhaul to grab her shit. The thing thats bugging me the most is i dont feel anything not sad not angry im completly neutral is that normal

Nigger, get ready for child support and alimony payments (slavery) for that bitch forever.

UNLESS, you move to a country like the Philipines and let that bitch starve to death!

>>738741005
>The thing thats bugging me the most is i dont feel anything not sad not angry im completly neutral is that normal

Maybe is that why she left you? Maybe it was better this way?

>>738741395
Definitely go to a lawyer.

It's not a 'hello lawyer, how can I fuck this bitch up' thing.

It's more like, 'hello lawyer, I'm in a situation here my wife is asking for a divorce and she's taken the kids. I would like some advice about how to handle this situation so as to minimise any harm to myself over the long term.'

I have a child from a separated partner. One thing i didn't realise is that when separation occurs the assets can be split. The split assets can be at that time put into a trust for child support purposes. This is in Australia. But there could be lots of little things you might not think of.

In fact, it is highly unlikely you would be thinking clearly given the situation, so I would strongly suggest getting professional advice.

Going to your friends for advice is unlikely to give you the information you need.

>>738744846
Kek thats great

>>738748333
>I'm going to pass on some Spanish machismo wisdom lol....Just make new kids OP. They're born of half bad stock anyways. Make new ones with a superior woman, one who has her life in order and she has brains, and good genes. No ses tonto


I did that!!

>be me
>Hot latin lover
>can get any bitch!
>Met hot Puerto Rican girl
>had 2 kids
>opened business to make sure family has money and is stable
>working in vietnam like conditions
>wrestled gators and fucking water moccasins
>making bank because nasty work for rich white people
>bitch starts with PAPI I'M BORED, YOU'RE ALWAYS WORKING!!!
>bitch calls cops, claims i hit her while I'm at work
>no proof, just her word, gets restraining order
>bestthingthateverhappened.exe
>leaves to PR
>2 year later I meet current wife, German, Smart and fucking red pilled to the hilt (thanks dad in law!)
>have 2 kids
>Previous kids are now drunks and always in trouble because they were raised by puerto rican cunt
>the kids I raised, straight A students, baseball players and red pilled to the hilt

don't even consider previous kids as mine and haven't seen them since

>whogivesafuck.png

>>738742238
Lol that's brutal, but my ex's dad did that to her mom, fucked her up royally.

Get your shit together anon and get ready for the ride of your life.
Lawyer up and bunkerize your assets. Treat all your communications and interactions as if they are bring recorded.

>>738742238
This this this this this this

This guy knows his shit.

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>>738741005
If pic related, then that's what you get for breeding with gutter trash skanks. I hope you have to pay the cunt alimony.

>>738741005
Leak her name and nudes

What happens if OP doesn''t allow her back in to get her shit?

>>738744130
Can confirm, seen it done. Does work.

>>738748333
>>738751272

I often think of doing this.

On one hand, your kids become failures. On the other hand you can choose not to care.

While waiting for your consultation appointment with a lawyer, which is critically important, also do the following:

Empty all joint bank accounts
Close joint credit cards
Re-key the locks
Change your direct deposit
Remove her authorization from your health records, financial institutions, utilities, etc anything that she can cancel or fuck with to hurt you

Your number one mission right now should be limiting your liability and minimizing what she can steal from you.

I went through this too. Try to use mediation if you can, as it's much less expensive than doing it 100 percent through lawyers and/or litigation.

>>738741005
Be prepared to get fucked by the court system. No matter how good your lawyer is, or how shitty of a human being your wife is, she WILL get the kids, you WILL have to pay her child support, and if you've been married for a significant amount of time, you WILL be paying her a ridiculous amount of alimony.

Your best chance of not paying alimony is that she does move in with this dude, any decent lawyer is going to include a co-habitation clause in the alimony.

The best thing you can do for yourself is hide as much money as you possibly can, and fast. If you don't hide it somewhere, she'll either drain you now, or drain you in the divorce. And when I say hide, I don't just mean open a bank account that she doesn't have access to, they'll find that shit in court. Keep cash or bitcoin, something untraceable

>>738741395
first thing you should do is quit one job.
I've been through it, had two jobs, stay home mom as well. She got a part time job after 14yrs of me supporting her, and literally left me for the first guy who hit on her.
Child support kicked in the second week of separation. she realized what she can afford on her own and hit me with both my incomes.
So both your incomes will affect the child support payment you end up with. QUIT one job or go down to freelance basis.
The judge will give her the kids, the house, the car and your income, please prepare yourself phycologically for this. There is nothing you can do about it. Visit MRA mensrightsassociation.org

>>738751272
You sound like a fucking pro anon.
You give me faith.

My latin girlfriend did the same shit to me. All I do is fucking study man, I have a 4.0 and I spend about 10 hours a day studying even on weekends and that doesn't include classes.
My girl kept hounding me that I wasn'y doing enough because I didn't have a job. I met her when I had a job as a supplemental instructor for the chemistry department at my university. I was working so hard that I had a mental breakdown and couldn't sleep or even really just normally function for half a year and I'm still a little fucked from it. So if anybody would understand that anything more on my plate would be to much I expected it to be her because she saw what i went through. On top of that she was asking me to stay up later at night. She left on vacation for a week to see family and then just came back and dumped me out of nowhere. She was also very liberal. 80% of her friends were gay or lesbian. Pretty much of of them led self destructive lifestyles and went to school for shit tier majors and half of them were still failing. My girlfriend was failing one of her classes and taking another for the third time when she dumped me because "i don't work hard enough" she had a job cleaning rat shit at the uni and half the time she just showed up and they didn't have enough work for her so they paid her 12 and hour to chill. Like anybody can just get a fucking job like that.
She believed socialism was the best economic choice till i had to sit her down and explain in detail each economic system and the pros and cons of it. She broke down and cried when she found out capitalism was better but she only half heartedly accepted it and seemed to spite me just because I beat her on every economic arguement she made for socialism.
Now I'm a forever alone faggot that is stuck up in my apartment all day studying for my summer courses.
I found fat bitch who is down to fuck but she is ugly as sin and annoying as fuck.

>>738752063
Silver Dollars are easily convertible from cash and back to cash later.

There is always a market for silver dollars.

Dont buy the rare ones that are expensive. Just buy the circulated $23 variety

>>738741395
Get a lawyer and hire a private detective to prove infidelity. If you can prove this then you won't have to pay her alimony and you elevate the chances of the future court proceedings going in your favor.

>>738741593
Not anymore they don't. They have come up with recent studies proving that children raised by single men fare better in life than being raised by single women. Less chances of young pregnancies, and dropping out of school.

>>738752551
What.
A.
Fucking.
Surprise.

>>738752551
Studies don't translate to court rulings though. I had a friend that just went through a divorce that got totally fucked by the courts.

>>738741395
>duck lips
>lip piercing
>blue eye shadow
>how to into red-flags 101

>>738741395
Get a lawyer. Prove she does drugs. Get a hair test for the drugs later. Keep meticulous records of every. single. contact that you have with her and the kids.

source: dad who won the kids 100%

>>738741005
>She layed into me about how all i do is work for at least 2 hours...

If I were a woman and all you worked was 2 hours, whether it was 2 hours a day, 2 hours a week, 2 hours a month, or 2 hours a year, I would leave your lazy ass, too.

Married? And you're wasting time on 4chan/b/???

I pity the wife and the kids.

>>738753317
She laid into him for 2 hours about the fact that he works all the time.
Today is your first lesson in learning how to deal with autism anon :)

>>738752885
Thats not his wife

L.p. please respond to me if you are still here...

Fist step lawyer. Not to do anything but for a consult. It's like 200 bucks but they will get you familiar with all your options and the process. And tell you this...

Try to establish an informal agreement on paper YOUand your ex wrote about kids visits amand d such. It will show you tried to initiate an out of court agreement. If she shuts you down, get that in text or paper or voice somehow.

DO NOT ARGUE ABOUT ANYTHING OR TALK ABOUT ANYTHING UNLESS YOU RECORD THE CONVO

Like anon already said. See kids as much as you can. This kills 2 birds with one stone. Cut your work hours in HALF or more and spend all that time with your kids. If she won't let you see the kids. Document it.
This does 2 things.

Kids will bond more to you and develop a pattern of seeing them.
Reduce your inevitable child support amount.

When it is time don't fight for full custody. They will laugh at you. Hey half and be satisfied. 1 you don't pay child support that your ex will undoubtedly steal for herself and 2 shows you want them to have a relationship with mom.

If you live in Canada it might be easier... here the courts hate parents who come to court so they side with the one who tried to mediate out of court first.

>>738741005
dont lose your wife op talk it with her tell her you will spend more time with her, i feels for the kids who will grow up in a fucked up situation were mom and dad cant agree on things should have just had abortions if you were only goofing around with that slut.

>>738749888
>1. make sure you get DNA tests on all the kids.
Ding ding ding. We have a winner

>>738741005
To be honest, if you're working and providing for her and the kids, then she has no valid reason to leave you. Most women would love a guy who takes care of them financially and provides for her and the children.

It sounds to me like she is fucking around with someone else and is looking for an excuse to leave you.

Are you wrong to not feel sad that an ungrateful wife has left you? Not at all. You're doing your part. There is definitely something else going on, and she's just using the "working too much" excuse to justify her leaving you--which, as I said, isn't a valid reason--especially in the state that the economy is in at the present time. She had best be counting her blessings and be grateful that you have a job where you can work a lot of hours. If ever the old adage, "Make hay while the sun shines", applies, it is now.

If I'm right, and she is cheating on you, then that's two reasons why you should not feel bad about her leaving you.

The only thing to feel sad about is only being able to see your kids during court-appointed visitations and alternate weekend custody. It isn't the same as being there in the same house with them. It changes the whole dynamics of being a father.

>>738753317
Learn to read you retarded cunt

>>738741111
Fucking checked

Hire a hitman

Wait wait wait.
If you are married.none of this shit matters unless she asks for a divorce right?

This is all divorce talk. So at best separated and if that is the case, call the police and declare your kids missing.

>>738742238
Excellent advice.

>>738742238
If you do not follow this guy's advice, you WILL get fucked. And you will lose everything you hold dear. Everything!!

>>738754204
i agree and if you have proof of cheating the balls in your court try to get her to admit it or record it, just tell her to come clean but have proof dude fucking women i swear not all of them i seen this shit over and over again

>>738741005
Is her name Michelle? and is she from youngstown area?

That totally is, she's a stripper/low level cam whore and former prostitute who used to go to raves. Why in the fuck would you try to make Michelle IMAHOE a fucking wife? She's trash anon, probably taking up with a pimp or dealer.
No wonder your working 2 jobs, she's a fucking gold digging slut whore that fucked half of the Pittsburgh rave scene. Jesus do you have no standards faggot? She's like the village bicycle, everyone has had a ride.

>>738741416

oy vey shlomo, we'll make lots of money!!

we literally LOVE goyim's divorces

she goes by Ellie Ihlenfeld
and yes she is cheating on you, she has been you cuck.

>>738741699
>one bad example of a failed marraige
>surely all women must be shit

If I had a nickle for every one of my formerly married friends who's marraiges ended after the husband cheated on the wife, I could maybe pay OPs legal fees

Ellie Ihlenfeld look her up on facebook, She's from youngstown ohio. Totally found her
She did a porn where she got fucked in the ass too lol. Shes sucked more Dj and promoter dick then one could count.

>>738741005
thanks for the pr0n Op
I will be sure to taunt this whore with these pics now that I know who she is

>>738741005

anon the best thing you can do is grab your wife when she returns, duct tape her up, strip her naked, take lots of pics, and post them ITT

that will help her realize she loves you and doesn't want to leave you

>>738756363
OP said that it was some random skank's pics that puts them out willingly 4 hours ago. Tryhard

jesus OP didn't you 2 just get married?
you may be able to get it annulled completely

>>738744846

dammit jack why are you posting our shit here on /b/? get the fuck back to work so i can buy that new spice rack i wanted you asshole

btw what do you want for dinner tonight?

Op can say what ever the fuck he wants, I know that girl personally.
Seriously, got Ellie Ihlenfeld from youngstown OH profile on facebook and tell me Im wrong..

>>738741005
Use that bitch from tosh.o he had her on his show and she is a mean bitch. Great to have on your side

>>738756505

i think that has merit

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>>738741005
Get this bitch
http://www.cc.com/video-clips/285p0b/tosh-0-web-redemption---men-s-rights-lawyer

>>738756505
THIS

i'm surprised only ass and titty pics, she has way more out there. Fucking mother of the year right there. What a fucking slut.

>>738741005
Let's see...married...kids...middle of day...middle of week...at home...on /b/...obviously no frirndd to talk to...devoid of feelings...if you are here, this is what happens, so yes, "normal."

>>738741468
Don't listen to this kid. Don't fuck around until after the divorce is final. She will use it against you if you're found out.

if you actually go to her profile on facebook, it should be no surprise. Typical rave whore.
You cant put lipstick on a pig and call it a wife dude. Seriously...
You didn't do those kids any favors by sticking with her, for the kids. Thats just dumb and I hope you learn something about making rave sluts a wife...

I hope OP has changed ALL his passwords and pin numbers, blocked all credit cards, emptied all bank accounts and buried all the cash.

There is no time to fag around crying in fetal position OP, you've got a ton of shit to take care of.

>>738756719
Why are you so salty about it?

>>738757535
Anon, stop doxxing instasluts. The pics OP was posting were not his wife and he said as such

>>738741005
Evacuate the country before she can nail you and wagecuck you with alimony and child support, OP. Fuck what you're feeling, keep those precious dollerydoos safe.

I'm in Texas, similar situation. I got the house and the kids

>>738757697
He should be able to win custody of the kids since the wife has no job and he can prove she was dependent on him

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>>738754157
Sadly, this is the most effective advice. Family courts cannot be counted on for doing the morally right thing. The judges and the lawyers are all in it for their own benefit, not the children's and certainly not yours.

>>738756719
because she is a whore and gave me DRD

>>738741395
>I'm not gonna fight over the kids TODAY
>They watched their parents break up!

Will you stfu, I watched my mom stab my dad and me and him left to a bus stop 30 minutes later.
Stop being a white pussy, my parents are Chicano. Be STRONG, go get ur kids. I would have been pissed if my dad left me with my crazy ass mom

>>738752176
This happened to my brother too, bitch left and came back 3 months later.

Broke ass ugly fat Mexican bitch, hope that bitch dies slow. My big brother was so happy talking more coming around, going out flirting with hoes.

That's the first woman he's been with and she cheated on him. Smh

Ohhh, and only! First and ONLY punocha!!

Call a locksmith, now. Then you can have her arrested when she's beligerant and trying t break the door down. You keep your stuff, your kids, she goes to jail ...
Or atleast you get your stuff.

>>738757667
piss off, maybe you should spend more time with your business instead of fucking around on /b/ you fucking cuck
BTW
I know who OP is too so suck a dick

>>738759926
Anon that was hardly english.

>>738760270
>hardly english
>4chan
Sounds about right.

>>738752213
damn, looks like my situation is not as uncommon as i thought

>have girlfriend for four years (all of college)
> both bio majors, lived across the hall
> real romantic movie type shit
> getting great fucking grades
>executive positions + job + 18 credit hour semesters
>she changes majors to spanish
>in a country where half the people already speak it
>what the fuck
>3 hours of sleep a night for me
>11 for her
>pay my way through college
>parents pay for her
>she goes to central america for summer after i graduate to speak spanish?
>could have gone to texas.
>she rails some dude
>falls for some greasy guy
>mah feels for about a month
>going to law school next month
>dodged a fucking bullet

Turns out she never had feelings for me and was just waiting for the next guy but held on to me for 4 years and I didn't know anything. Works out for the best, at least I didn't propose or have kids or something

>>738760908
be successful and marry yourself is what I'm going for

>>738741111
Why against him. He can support them clearly. She's obviously got no income. Also you probably feel nothing because she isn't worth feeling anything for. Someone who can't appreciate a man who spends all his time working hard to provide for his wife and kids doesn't deserve a second of attention or feelings. Get those kids op. Make sure they know their mother is scum. Because she will 100% say some Bullshit about you.

>>738761167
pretty much, don't think I'll be able to trust women again really. I can't imagine any of them are different because I genuinely thought she was perfect (and she was for a while, but i guess that wasn't real). I'll put the work in, become successful but I won't make the same mistake twice.

>>738752688
O. So your one friend had this happen so no men win? Sure women in the past fucked dudes over in divorce cases but lately with all the shit women have pulling they've been giving fair fights for fathers as well. Tbh as long as she's not taking shit and he can see the kids who cares. But if she tries that shit hit her hard.

>>738743585
Marriage is a piece of paper. Proves fucking nothing. Wanna have a long relationship and kids fine but don't go around saying marriage is some alpha tier act because it's not. It literally means nothing.

>>738742238
This nigga is right

>>738741974
That cunt would be in a shallow gave somewhere

She looks like a blowed out junkie just move on

>>738744846
But that just proves she wants your valuables and shit. Otherwise why not, it's more time for your family. Maybe not a trailer but she could offer better suggestions

>>738761434
end of the day people are opting to experience their sexuality and companionship without the necessity of reverting to the same or opposite sexual relations. Personally I still indulge but at my own discretion not my desires.

>>738741005
Perfectly normal, that's your nature showing. She's dead weight and contributes nothing but easy pussy. And that's probably stale to you too. She wants leaving to crush you. The fact that it doesn't will drive her crazy

>>738761952
not just my valuables, but it showed she didnt want to give up her middle class lifestyle so I could have more time at home.

she doesnt bring it up anymore.

>>738744846
hell yea dude i would have done the same f that cant let the women get crazy like that

>>738760908
good for you man dodge a bullet there down the line imagine she would have been f ing the neighbor or some dude at work, thats I have a gf right now but always think if she cheats shes only doing me a favor as a man you have to have this mentality ready to walk away at any moment fuck those feelings women are like sharks once they taste blood its over

>>738753984
The "cunt" read it correctly.

>>738741005
shut the fuck up smarti, we all know its you

all you fags with women problems should go on Efukt dot com and look up "How to Make an Asian Porn star Cry"
You will so much better

>>738741593

if you get some shit attorney that runs an office in a strip mall, maybe. if you pay for an actual fucking attorney and the wife doesn't have any money, you're going to steamroll her

>>738741468
lol omg this almost choke

>>738741005
My advice: Don't fight it. Unless your wife is a lunatic they will be better off with her mum anyway. Be ready to help when needed, but dont force yourself on them. Try to concentrate on the job and raise the necessary money as you've been doing all along anyway. Keep stable and be kind, that's the only way your kids aren't going to be damaged for life by this.
You might not enjoy it, but probably neither will they.
Furthermore try to reflect on why this extreme reaction happened. What could it have been that you did wrong? Greentext possibly.

Hope you Havnt been getting much OT at work. They will figure that into child support.

>>738742238
>divorce lawyers in ____(your area). Meet with ALL of them (this will conflict them out of representing her later, if they've already had communication with you about the matter)

this is petty and poor advice. Dont be a nigger op

>>738752213
>I was working so hard that I had a mental breakdown and couldn't sleep or even really just normally function for half a year and I'm still a little fucked

you're doing it wrong. this is not what life needs to be like

Well, guess what she now has income. You're looking at a minimum of $2,000 a month you're going to hafta pay the bitch for the next 16 years...

Have you considered the Scott Pederson option??

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>>738765233
Has Been years since i've seen this kind of advice on /b/. Fuck off.

We're not savages anymore.

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>>738760908
>could have gone to texas
To perfect her Spanish? Not likely. That would be like going to India to work on your English.

>>738766174
>>>Have you considered the Scott Peterson option??
Yea, and look how well that worked out for him?
Don't be fucking stupid >>738741005 (OP)
You'll be the first person the cops look at.