I've been a lurker for a while /b/ but I need some advice.

>>737242769
well since she's a bitch, tell her to take her bitch business elsewhere or you'll take yours elsewhere.
Then go if theres another fight in a week.

>>737242769
Hope you got prenup. It's still cheating, but you sound like you deserve to be happy. I don't see anyway around this going towards divorce.

I'm not talking about her finding out I'm talking long term, you're not gonna get happier, and while you're probably gonna start frequenting these places more often eventually you'll need to be ready for divorce.

Start saving money, lawyers are expensive.

>>737242769
Honestly man get out of that relationship. It's only gonna get worse. you have two options 1) leave 2) become the abuser.

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>>737242769
That would be cheating /b/ro. But it sounds like she/you need some relationship consulting or to end it and get a divorce. The kid is not your spawn and if she if just causing stress fuck it and leave

>>737242769
Why stay with her? Why plan on cheating and not just leave her for good?

>>737242769

>marry a bitch with a kid
>get cucked
>get blue balls
>guise idk if i should get a handy from a hooker i feel bad

fucking man up and stop being a little bitch god damn

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Wait until you divorce her OP, will make it that much more gratifying

Yes it is cheating, if you can live with that, go. They are pretty nice. Just don't expect it to fulfill any emotional needs or anything like that. While the HJs feel great, they are also usually very mechanical and to the point.

she might be cheating on you bro, that's usually what people do when they cheat they start thinking their partner is doing the same

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>>737242769
hire a PI desu.

guarantee this is a setup so you will cheat and she can get everything.

she's already cheating on (YOU)

>>737242769
That will be cheating. Chances are, given her behavior she's the one actually cheating. And she's trying to guilt-trip you cause she feels like shit and thinks you could be cheating too since she's able to do it.
Run away. It won't get better in time. It never does.

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>>737243384
There they go again. Using cucked wrong. Google the shit for christsake. Fuck use Bing if you have to just stop being a faggot

>>737243751
shes already cheating, do you have access to her phone? try to put one of those tracking apps on it

>>737243751

what this guy said. she's going to leave you and take half your shit just like she did with the last poor fucker. a single mother is a red flag you stupid motherfucker, start with getting a PI to catch her cheating on you and prepare for a legal battle unless you want half your shit to go to her by default.

>>737243899

shut up cuck

>>737244028
>no u

>>737243899
Why don't you people complain when someone uses faggot wrong? or retard? or asshole?

YOU should google pejorative.

>>737242769
How the fuck would you ever get caught??

Have an alibi with something tangible (buy a movie ticket and then skip the movie).

Pay cash. Turn off your phone before you get in the area. Look up what bail money for soliciting would cost, have that on you. Have attorney /bail bondsman info on you too. Don't let your wallet out of your sight.

>>737243848
OP here. I'm going to sound like a real dumbfuck but thanks for the advice anon seriously, just realized she could be the one cheating, I've had my suspicions about her for a few days now. Quick question though how much do HE parlors usually charge? Is 60 normal for a hour?

Also, jerk off before you go. You don't want to be paying top dollar just to cum in 30 seconds.

>>737244218
What do you mean by YOU people?

>>737244564
$40 for hour in my area...but you have to tip also

>>737242769
Sauce of the pic?

>>737244564
LOL no. You will pay a house fee of 60 or 80 just to get a massage/get in the door. Expect another 40-200 on top for extra services.

>>737243704
yup agree on this one and it explains the change in her behavior acting like a bitch for no reason

>>737242769
>guy gets cucked by bitch wife
>jerked off by an asian masseuse
>wife uses it to destroy him financially in divorce

>>737242769
I have one word for you....divorce

Well since shes refusing you to fuck her daughter anymore I guess it's time to move on? Browse the local malls for new mommys

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>>737242769
I can't believe this.
Nobody told you to fuck her daughter.
Well, there you are.

>>737243384
>fucking man up and stop being a little bitch god damn
said the fat virgin from his basement

>>737244564
yes dude I think she is, i been with many women and if you already tried to talk to her in a reasonable manner and she does not want to work things out something is up, try again sit her down tell her what is going on straight up, if she gets crazy again then you know she does not want to work it out. My best advice begin to plan an exist strategy. I would try to get evidence of her cheating before you begin the legal battle.

>>737244981
lol!!

LEAVE HER. She is clearly cheating on you. Yes its cheating for you to get some action at a HE parlor, but do it, it'll be a great source of stress relief for you.

go on romantic vaccation and eat her pussy

Look anon don't be a pussy, and go to the parlor, have some fun, it sounds like you deserve it

Can we get picture of the bitch?

>>737242769
I had a psycho like that once. Get out. It's hard, but just walk away and never look back. Then always remember you made the right decision.

>>737242769
She is cheating on ya anon.

>>737245515
agreed handle that asian pussy

>>737242769
When going to a HE parlor just act normal, like your there to get a massage, I know it'll be your first time, but don't do anything stupid, your there for 'stress relief'

>>737245745
but the dude needs to catch the bitch cheating so the legal battle wont be as hard. OP leave some sort of hidden cam or audio all day you will get what you need bro

>>737242769
Get a PI. Chances are she is the one cheating on you.

>>737243899

>2017
>using Bing

kek

ASK.COM MASTER RACE

>>737242769
Drop the bitch lol obviously she's self reflecting when she's accusing you of cheating. You're just gonna get divorced later on down the road might as well do it. Don't pay for pussy either. You can get that shit for free.

Being the only other one on here over 19 and has been in your situation, the best advice is to divorce her, and live your life in peace and harmony knowing that you don't have to put up with that anymore.

A. You dont have to raise her daughter. Fuck that
B. Gtfo while you can, before you become old and no woman will want you(Implying you're not a fat slob or anything)

tl;dr Get out and enjoy life. It's way too goddamn short to put up with something you don't have to put up with

Dude take that money your gonna use on a message parlor and hire a PI.. she's definitely cheating on you. It'll be cheaper for you in the long run and you can fuck all the girls you want and not have to worry about whether you're cheating or not

The longer you stay with her the more money she gets in the divorce.. also go to school get out of that bullshit job

Make sure when you go to be careful, have your money ready, and to be prepared to finally relax for once, it sounds you live in fucking hell

>>737242769
>I live in Pennsylvania, and have such a shitty job as a steelworker, the pay sucks.

There are hardly any steelworkers left in Pennsylvania, and the ones that are left get paid pretty well. I call BS on this story.

>>737242769
>will it be really cheating if I do?
Are you still in love with your wife?

Being married and fucking other women isn't 'cheating' if the love in the marriage itself is dead. You need intimate contact, it's human nature. If the wife isn't providing that, then what's the point of the marriage? (Not rhetorical, I'll answer below)

>What if I get caught?

Well, depends; do you think she's adult enough to handle the truth? or is she a vindictive cunt who will take every dime you make for the rest of your life?

The point of your marriage (as is it now) is to just keep the bills paid for her and her kid. She's angry at life, and takes it out on you. Mainly out of fear that if there is any outside 'influences' that could threaten her position on feed off of you. So she lashes out, and becomes the 'bitch' wife to keep you in check. Little do cunt-girls like this know, it's counter-productive to act as such. Because it's going to lead you to what you're suggesting in the first place: rub-n-tugs, then stepping it up to actual hookers, or perhaps another 'normal' woman altogether.

>Why not leave her?

Well, the kids on /b/ fail to realize that alimony is a staple of divorce culture. It's 'safer' for most men to stay in their marriage, than to pay and pay and pay for the rest of your life. Stay and pay the bills, but go for that extra activity to keep the blood flowing in your viens.

>What are some tips for my first time, I plan on going Friday after work. I need a serious release.

Hygiene, Hygiene, Hygiene; always a must.

Always be polite and respectful.

Buy an extra wallet, with enough money in it to pay for you services (and more for a tip, if she's that good). Leave no ID or CC in it. In case, she lifts your wallet off the floor when your naked and oblivious. Or drama ensues and you get shakedowned.

"Don't shit where you eat" In other words, don't go to a parlour on the same area where you live. A local could see you, and rat you out to your wife.

>>737242769
Move out of that shithole of a state for starters.

>>737248617
The average pay for a steelworker in the US according to a quick google search is 48,700 yea totally sounds like this guy is paid really well

>>737248826
kek Pennsylvania is pretty shitty lol, on a serious note though go to the HE parlor OP! It'll be worth it!

Leave the bitch get evidence of the "abuse" get a lawyer and make a case also go but be clean about the shit

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mmm I love massage parlors

>>737248667
This. This is great advice

>>737248979
>The average pay for a steelworker in the US

That would include steelworkers in right to work states like Alabama, etc. Also, I am betting that you actually googled the wrong category.

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>>737242769
>marriage
>ever

>>737242769
Man, I've been married for 11 years, when things get this fucked up bail out. The bitch probably has issues that caused her first divorce, or she developed issues after divorcing like feeling guilty about leaving her first husband or simply comparing your income with his and if you're making less then no matter how hard you work she's gonna treat you like crap. Kids are a good mirror of parents' personality as they copy what the adults do, so if the daughter is a spoiled brat then there's a good chance the mother is one too.
Don't feel guilty for wanting sex, you work you ass off to support your family, you're entitled to a reward for you trouble. If you want to have a drink with your buddies, go have a drink with your buddies, if you want to fuck and the wife makes herself unavailable then she can't blame you for getting it elsewhere. You also have the right to watch porn and jerk off, if she comments on it you have the upper hand to confront her and tell her if she's not happy about it she can try not being a bitch and spreading her legs a bit more often.
But ultimately, women at home get bitchy because they have nothing to do. Housework isn't hard and doesn't take much time to do, even if you vacuum and do the laundry every day.
So why don't you suggest she gets a job and see her reaction. She won't want to do it, but then you'll have some leverage: if she wants something make her work for it. She'll either calm down and get back to normal or she'll freak out and go berserk and you'll know that this isn't the kind of relationship you want and should probably end it.
Don't let her undermine you.

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>>737248667
Thirding this

Key pointers: Don't fucking get married anyway, it's almost always a trap these days. And once you're fucked, you're fucked.

Can confirm, my father has been trying to get divorced from my mother for the last four years, and they've been going tooth and nail with lawyers to fight over alimony prices while he's struggling to make a living for just himself.

She wants, and believes she's entitled to, 75% of his income, refuses to get a job, and blames him for making her unemployable by marrying her.

>>737248667

Not op but I have a question: how does alimony work in the case of someone already previously married ? Is the wife getting alimony from her first husband while being married to the second ? Can she compound alimonies from various marriages ?

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Ive done it, make sure you can find one that offers full service, fuck that how felt great cumming in Emily, and fuvking my gf a few hours later she didn't know a thing :3

>>737242769
Dude, I'm 90% sure she is cheating - it's classic cheater behavior.

Dude, be a man and leave while you're still young(ish). Seriously, do you want to spend the rest of your life like this?

>>737242769
Dude, it seems you can keep calm, I'm from nl, so not us, but keep a diary of all the shit that happens, keep a log of where the money goes, who spends what, how much you both contribute to the household. The daughter may be a pain but it sounds like she's being put up to it by her mom, stay calm with her she knows what's up, kids always do. You can always help her along when shit cools down,sounds like she'll need it. It also sounds like you can skip massage parlours for now, if that's going to be such a big deal in divorce. Idea, can you talk to your boss about developing yourself, get training in a specialisation, suggest you both pay half, find a course out of town. You can explain that there's less money at home and you get massage Shit at course location, any judge will be impressed you are working on yourself.