Anybody out here who also likes masturbating more than fucking

Had the same problem. I'm guessing we weren't compatible, plus she wasn't that great.
Problem is, I also don't feel like teaching them, yet choosing one, based among other things, their ability to fuck, seems vapid.
Personally I think, it's because most girls assume the man is gonna cum one way or another, why apply yourself. Building up an orgasm is also something I don't see women do to men often.

>>737011896
yes, all the time, now not so much anymore, sex with my gf got to be a chore, it felt like it lost all feeling, the passion, the connectivity was all gone, in other words it got really boring, so boring i was going limp when i was inside her, maybe it was banging the same pussy over and over and over, not really tried any other but i have a strong desire to do so

>>737011896
>>737011896
Yes. with my wife for 9 years, married for 4. I enjoy masturbating, or getting a handjob. The orgasm from sex is not as good, and I also feel like it's a hassle. I try to avoid sex when she says she wants to.

inb4 beta faggots say that beating off dims your senses, or whatever bullshit theories they have.

Different feelings. I wank off twice a week and bone my gf every night. It's very fulfilling and satisfying to nut in my girl, but I get a slightly higher-intensity orgasm from masturbating. It's not better, just more intense. Most of the time I want to silence the animal within so I can think clearly and only sex can soothe my soul, but occasionally I want to indulge the beast, and I'm marginally better at it than sex.

>>737011896

Why does this young girl have granny tits?

>>737011896
Damn
Them some pancake nipples right there

>>737012857
they're not granny tits. if they aren't a teen or have a cups, tits will hang when they're bent over.

it's called gravity you virgin 10 year old faggot

>>737011896
More?

>>737013151

Are you that fucking stupid? Why do I ask, I know you are. Holy fuck...

>>737011896
I know what that dog is thinking

>>737013280
Not that anon but he aint the dumb one in your conversation

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bahahaha i spent a good 10 secs there thinking she was balancing a water bottle on her back. Im the same op , i jack off 7-10 times a week/ im lucky to fuck my gf once every 2 weeks. its boring , i dont cum as hard and tbh fucking her pussy is like fucking a wet shopping bag.

>>737011896
That is because you suffer from the death grip syndrome. You are perpetruating it by fapping.

>>737013280
Did you think this was a clever thing to post? Like it was a sick ice burn? You must literally be 15

those nipples are horrible. Boobs are nice
>>737012857
must have moaned about the areola

>>737011896
I have to make up incest fantasies in my head to stay hard fucking my GF

>>737013641
>wet shopping bag

Oh my kek

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>>737013641
The feels

>>737015152
Then you need a psychiatrist. Pretty simple.

>>737011896
Yes!!

Also, I usually masturbate to really wierd porn. My gf is really hot (fortunatelly for me has some dependancy issues so she stays with me) and petite so I love fucking her but sometimes I don't want to get all sweaty and tired and I'd rather just service myself.

That said, I've had to master new masturbation tecniques to avoid the death grip, like just lightly pressing just below the tip. It takes longer to finish than by grabbing but the orgasms are incredibly strong.

....im seeing a consensus....i have to agree sometimes ya just wanna cum n not deal w the woman

>>737015571
why?

I dont actually want to bang my relatives, I just pretend in my head that my GF is like my slutty mom or sister.

Keeps me going, and keeps her happy.

I'll just say what everyone else is thinking but not motivated enough to type out.
itt: underage kissless virgins dabbling in an online circle jerk

>>737011896
try finding out what she likes and gets off to. As long as it doesn't hurt you or make you feel shitty it should serve as a booster to make your goals more interesting = more intense orgasms. Try cumming together or like get her to try positions she reacts to more. You watch porn to see women feeling great so focus on making your woman feel great

I had this problem until I stopped fapping.
Watch this and think about it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

>>737016291
>You watch porn to see women feeling great
I'm a bit thrown by this. WTF?

>>737016253
truth

>>737016253
Why? If you're above 20 and you're not a complete fucking loser you'll probably have had a somewhat long term girlfriend at some point.

Not more but sometimes I just like to bust a nut in a few minutes without spending all night on foreplay then 20-30 minutes fucking until she comes. She has the most perfect body so I'll never get bored

>>737016460
why do you think you're watching it ? its the imitation of a sexual experience, you role play the male or admire him and you see the girl in which you believe you're fucking her as the simulated idea. The more she reacts and seems to have pleasure the better you feel. This isn't always true, sometimes men want to see women degraded but even then there's a truth to the yearning to be degraded that women face. So, still pleasure just more mental than physical

>>737013871
Had the same problem,

>>737016365
the science behind a generating of jerk off millenials

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Sometimes I use my girlfriend not for sex but as a masturbatory aid. What I mean by that is I will completely not care about her pleasure. Mainly if I wake up horny in the morning I'll pull down her panties, spit on my cock and start fucking her until I nut. I have found that doing this beside the normal passionate "I love you honey" sex is the best way to not masturbate. Luckily my girlfriends Chinese so she's willing to accept basically being raped in her sleep.

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>>737015152
Same problem bro.
Fucked up preggo incest makes me go.

>>737013280
You are WAY too young to be posting on this site little guy,

>>737011896
I was so focused on her massive areola that it took me a while to notice the dog.

>>737016879
>that grammar

>>737016906
My ex gf loved waking up to me fingering her pussy. I just did it one time because I was horny and she found it super hot and asked me to do it regularly.

Maybe yours actually loves it as well.

I used to make sure that she cums too, tho.

>>737016906
I was seeing a girl for a while who would let me do this, and I loved it. My current gf would not be so impressed but this so unfortunately it's an impossibility for me now.

>>737016906
If this is her, she look 10 and retarded. Your parents must be proud when you sleep-rape her because you don't want to jerk it.

You probably have a small penis. A small penis leaves both members unsatisfied with low expectations.

Your girl doesn't care for it so she doesn't really try when you two have sex. Masturbating feels better, because your hand can grip hard enough to satisfy it.

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>>737017766
Ebin bait

>>737017714
Why the flying fuck would I care what my parents think about how I fuck my girlfriend?

>>737017303
Yeah it's really great right? I like it because it's very dominant. I use her like I would use a sextoy. And she just lets it happen because she wants to be with me. Total power trip.

>>737017965
>I like it because it's very dominant

>>737017284 again
Imho most girls really dig getting dominated a bit. Same girl also always wanted to get spanked hard while I fucked her from behind.
That's also probably why the extremely nice whiteknight tier faggots end up in the friend zone all the fucking time.

>>737017284
Yeah I think she likes it. However, as you can probably see from her demeanour, she's the very shy type who doesn't want to say it. Just like with getting tied up. Absolutely gushing, though she'd never admit it.

Try new things. Be open about your kinks. Whatever you get off to online, get off to with her. Hit up a sex shop and drop a couple hundred. It's a great investment. Nothing will change if you don't communicate. Don't let something like sexual chemistry stagnate

>>737018801
We have this saying in German that pretty much translates to "still waters run deep".
The shy ones are often the most perverted.

>>737019295
So true...

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>>737019295
Yeah definitely. I think it's pent up sexual frustration in these nerdy girls that makes them so freaky.

>>737015152
same here, it's pretty normal

>>737011896
I love fucking my girlfriend. It beats fucking my wife.

>>737012471
As someone who's banged the same pussy for 10 years (sex gets better each year) it's not because you were sticking it in the same hole

The hole just didn't do it for you

>>737011896
I do. I masturbate everyday and i love it. I have sex with my gf twice a week but i prefer masturbating

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>>737011896
what a troll post, if this was real life and you had a gf, you'd just get her to jerk you off or blow you if sex is too exhausting for your fatass

IRL though you are the OP of a thread, so clearly you are a FAGGOT and don't have a gf and everything you post here is just an artistic work of fiction

>>737011896
That dog seems to have the time of its life...

>>737020955
You have no idea.........

>>737020445
How do you even ask a girl to give you a blowjob? Asking for a friend...

>>737022011
If I lick, suck and gently nibble your pussy until you cum as many times as you want, in return will you suck my dick until I cum?

>>737020445
>dat projecting

>>737022011

>>737018329 again
I always just said something like "hey help me out over here" kek. "helping" was codeword for oral.

>>737020955
Being photoshopped into another image is tons of fun, I hear

>>737022486
Interesting, I do almost the same thing. However we call it "helping out with my personal problem". Basically I've convinced her that men have to cum regularly. So if she's on the rag and I can't fuck her she has to help me with this "personal problem".

>>737022747
Kek. For us it started just being about getting our genitals wet enough to fuck and kinda got its own meaning from there on.

>>737022920
Tell me something about your girl. What is she like?

>>737023042
Well she's not my girl anymore, which is kinda sad because she was a great gf. We broke up because we both had unrelated problems at that time and vented the frustration at each other. Still awesome 6 years.

She was the really nerdy type before being a geek became hip. I actually met her first on an internet relay chat channel about video games. Small frame, curly red hair (which i fucking loved), big tits. A bit like Bernadette from the Big Bang Theory, but with red hair. Bit into BDSM (wax, spanking and stuff like that. nothing too hard).
Oh also a big squirter (which i also fucking love).

Still kinda miss her.

>>737023563
Sis squirting is like pissing. How do people enjoy this?

>>737023749
>why do people with fetish x enjoy fetish x

It's hot. Also not going to start a debate here, but it really doesn't taste like piss, so it can't be the same.

>>737023563
Shame it didn't work out. It's nice when you share some interests with your girl. Mine right now is good for sex. But we don't share many hobbies. Which is fine, means more downtime for me to play games undisturbed while she's watching those dorky Chinese fantasy shows.

You said you have a new girl now, but she doesn't let you have sex with her when she's sleeping? What's that about?

>>737023922
>But we don't share many hobbies.

That's a shame. We actually led a guild in Guild Wars together. I was the leader and she was my first officer.
We also had lots of comfy time playing the Final Fantasy series together. It was kinda our thing. I bought a Playstation 2 just to play the then new games with her.
It's fun to have a gf that grinds XP and loot half naked for you and half an hour later you get to stick your dick in her.

>You said you have a new girl now, but she doesn't let you have sex with her when she's sleeping? What's that about?

That was another guy. I'm single right now.

>>737023749
I'll never forget the first time my ex squirted in my face. Six huge fucking waves in my face and I went from flaccid to rock hard. Loved squirters ever since.

>>737023888
Your fucking disgusting

>>737024490
I'd gut a bitch if she did that to me

>>737024443
Mine doesn't get much further then watching me play sometimes. The most fun she seems to have is watching me fail at making an airplane in Kerbal

>I'm single right now
Ah okay, good luck with your endeavours anon

>>737024490
Pissers. Ain't no such thing as squirting.

>>737012557
For real though if you can try not masturbating or looking at porn for a month. I know you seem like you think it's bullshit, but worst case scenario you prove you're right.

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>>737011896
LOL the dog

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>>737024742
Thank you. I bid you adieu

>>737016253

>I still put the pussy on a pedestal because I don't know any better

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>>737024651
>Ah okay, good luck with your endeavours anon

Same to you, mate. I've had fun chatting with you since we seem to be kinda similar guys.
I gotta go now, though. It's getting late over here..

Cheers.

>>737011896
Maybe get a dog for a more intense orgasm. Your GF is literally shit tier when you literally prefer masturbating over fucking her.

>>737012557
>I try to avoid sex when she says she wants to.
Having sex when she wants to is the best time to have it!

>>737012557
>>737012471
>>737012368
>>737011896


jesus i thought i was the only one lol. I feel the EXACT same way about my girlfriend of 5 years. sex feels like a lot of work now with little payoff so we have sex like once every 6 weeks and its always me pushing it that long lol.

>>737015890
You might just need exercise. When you're fit sex feels good.

Stop shoveling burgers by the truckload like the amerifat you are and maybe take a jog once a month faggot.

if you're having a problem with sex you have to communicate with your partner. nobody here can help you with that

if you cant talk about something as simple as sex you have bigger problems. stop making excuses

>>737024597
Yeah, you prefer the more comforting splashes of cumshots in your face instead, right?

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>>737013280

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>>737011896
Yes, specially penetrating her, I totally love a blowjob and even sucking her pussy myself, but the "traditional" sex part is fucking boring and requires lots of effort

I've been married a long time. Wife isn't interested in sex but when we do have sex it's a 30 minute massage for her, 2 minutes of oral for me, PIV until I cum and she used the vibe on herself. I have come to the realization it's just not worth the hassle of expecting a fulfilling sex life with her so I just masturbate instead. I can do it pretty much any time I want, and use any fantasy in my mind I want.

Trust me, I'd much rather had frequent fulfilling sex with her but at this point she isn't interested.

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>>737017965
>2017
>not caring how your parents rate your fucking
>ishiggdiggit

>>737026111
Have you tried letting her ride you?

>>737016365
Just watched that video and I think I now realize that the cancer on /b has been here since the beginning... It's the porn. Bye forever /b.

If i want really good sex, i get my gf a little tipsy and bring up her "best friend". Not the male type of best friend, the female "best friend", the one they hang out with constantly while simultaneously talking shit about each other behind each others backs. I dont know why but it makes her angry as fuck and crazy in bed.

>>737026235
That sounds so sad man.. :/

>>737025616
Oh hey, it's this guy. The one that tries to turn every thread into a my country is better than your country thing.
Fuck off you faggot.

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>keks
>checks
>chess
>checkens

>>737011896
Yes. GF wants sex much more than I do so I try to avoid it as much as possible. Sometimes I have to because she will start to be in a bad mood because of the lack of sexy-time.

It's not that I don't like it, but I feel it takes too much time and effort and that it is not worth it.

>>737026470
fatass

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Op is in here!

I enjoy it but sometimes it's a chore - mostly cause I get bitter cause I never get blowjobs which contributes to me getting tired of just sex. Really grinding my gears lately. Ex would do that shit 5 times a week :| Fucking a

4 reason fapping is better than a woman
1. Gets loose you can tighten it
2. Gets dry you can spit on it
3. Get lonely you can whistel
4. Wanna be a stud and hit bottom, put thumb over the end

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I lnew it

>>737011896
Sorry you picked the wrong woman. With the right woman, sex>masturbating

>>737026657
>>737026800
>>737026938

What in the hell are you on about? Never mind, we don't care.

>>737027067
You need more exercise to enjoy sex.

>>737027199
Fun thing is when I had my first gf, we were both a bit chubby and sex BECAME the exercise.
It's a good motivation to lose weight when it makes you cum at the same time.

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>>737012368
I feel you.

Lazy bitches

>>737027628
Yeah thats how Ive been losing weight despite eating like a pig at the trough. But I fuck my dogs which is even funner. They are always up for it. No bullshit no bitching no mindgames no cheating no divorce and NO KIDS.

feelsgoodman

>>737027645
she's cute

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>>737011896
this is deceased porn star natasha vega at nudes-a-poppin RIP my aerola queen

>>737028333
trashy, develop some taste

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>>737028411

>>737028411
>trashy
>porn star
pick one

>>737028011
>fucking a literal bitch
>no bitching
i dont believe you

>>737011896
Relate very much so,
Sex with gf is amazing, but sometimes I'd just much rather bang out a quick 5 minute fap, sitting down and relaxing rather than fucking my gf for a solid hour until my hair is dripping with sweat and my lungs feel cold, it's just not worth it sometimes.

>>737028771

lol nobody has any sympathy for you mate

>>737028729
Try 4 of them in drug fueled orgies.

No bitching. Just mouth and pussy

stay pleb normies enjoy ur alimony im LMAOing at ur lifes

>>737011896
I thought I liked wanking better than fucking for a long time, until I met my current gf. She likes it close, rough, and doesn't prefer to be on top. This made all the difference for me. Wanking can't give me that full body rush of feeling her body under mine, her breath brush my ear as she moans, or her ass warming my boys when I grind into her. Yeah, ejaculation is more intense when I wank, but I never actually knew the difference between ejaculation and orgasm until I found her.

>>737028771
boo fucking hoo you fat lazy slob.

>>737028771

Who are these freak women who need an hour of fucking to cum? All the girls I was with came in like 8 minutes or less of full penetration, usually. And would complain about sore pussies if it went on too long or hard. Don't even have a big dick.

>>737029679
>tfw have to use a vibe or use hand on clit vigorously to get her to, what I imagine, is cum
Feels bad, man

>>737029679
Like my wife. I seriously could go for only 60 seconds and she would have orgasmed 2 or 3 times. no foreplay, she is horny almost all the time too.

>>737028561
How did she died?

>>737011896
Enjoy both. Wouldn't want it any other way. I seriously enjoy fucking my gf (since 8 years) . Our sex keeps getting better, but still I wanna be able to rub one out ever so often.

>>737030021
Overdosed on bbc

>>737029834
Don't. While the guy you responded to may have the magic cock, most women don't orgasm from PiV. I heard 25% do, 50% need manual/oral/toy stimulation to orgasm and 25% don't orgasm during sex at all.

>>737011896
Similar for me too. My wife of 5 years (also dated for 3) isn't nearly as attractive anymore, it is a lot of work and we aren't that compatible to begin with. We are perfect in all other ways but sex is boring. I go about 3 to 4 weeks without fucking her. Every time I have to initiate it also. When she wants to fuck it's always at the worst time. Like when I come in the house for a quick drink of water when I'm half way done mowing our big ass yard and I'm sweating my ass off. I'm just trying to get the shit done, I'm annoyed but and she wants to fuck all of a sudden. Makes no sense to me. Anyways so I beat it every night before bed. She never puts in that much effort when we fuck so Its a little demotivating.

>>737011896
i would suck a fart out of her ass then the dogs just to stick the hwad of my penis in her mouth

I can't stand having sex with my significant other, but really I just think my drive is gone. It just doesn'y rustle me like it used to.

>>737030560
The reason for this is that a lot of men don't know how to have sex. Just look at amateur porn, there are some really laudable guys out there. Also a lot of guys can't last more then 5 minutes PIV. Given these things combined with guys with softcocks and other problems of course you are going to get only a 25% orgasm rate on woman.

I've never not had a woman orgasm from PIV because I know what kind of pelvic movements to make to stimulate the G-Spot, combined with dominating behaviour such as pinning her hands and quality forplay you really can't fail unless you have a softcock or cum in 2 seconds flat

>>737030560

haha, definitely not a magic cock. I actually have problems cumming too soon sometimes, especially with new girls, though often just at random. But I do kinda have a slow fast, mostly short but occasionally long (rarely full) thrust technique which seems to work pretty good. And i like being lovey dovey and kissing and rubbing all over which I suppose does help.

>>737031377

I'm actually jelly of guys that can thrust like a piston for huge chunks of time.

>>737011896
i like your dog

I had the same issue for a long time, it got so bad that I ended up on craigslist one day. I decided a gloryhole wouldn't really be cheating and just needed something so I responded to an ad and went on down.
It was the best sexual experience of my life and I came like it was my first time.
I went back a couple times and found out that it was a dude.
It got me thinking and after awhile I decided that nothing really mattered anyways and I just want something to make me happy.
I eventually went to a gay bar and hooked up with a guy. It was amazing, it was what I had always been looking for. All the ways that my girlfriend was mediocre or sucked at he excelled at. And you know what, dicks don't taste any different than pussies. It's just skin.

So I continued this for a little bit and as my girlfriend started dropping hints at marriage, a house, kids, all that shit it just sank my heart. I realized that I don't want to marry her, I don't want to have kids, loud expensive little faggots, I just didn't want anything. One of the biggest turn offs for me has been that I could never really bring myself to cum in a girls pussy unless I was drunk. Just the thought of possibly having a kid was enough to overcome my boner.
I planned it all out, I waited a couple months until our apartment lease was ready to be renewed, I saved money so I wouldn't get fucked over and suggested she save money to for a potential downpayment of a house (this way she would have a good $10k in the bank and be able to handle the finances of the break up) and I waited, waited kept putting off the "talk about the lease" talk, took a day off from work (a day she works late as well) packed my shit, and fuckin dropped the ball.

I'm not saying I wouldn't even fuck a girl again, but the love you get from another man just doesn't compare.

So think about it, most of us grow up knowing to hate fags, that we need to find a girl, get a house, and have kids. But..... No.....

>>737019990
That bitch looks disgusting, all around, Shit body and even worse face, I don't say this to spite you

>>737026410
Not sure if you're kidding or not... i'm getting the fuck outta here and not coming back!

>>737032875

neat story, anon. I went down a similar gloryhole path for a while but realized deep down in my heart that I was more or less straight and could never feel genuine romantic love, or even real sexual attraction towards a man. Feels bad, women are not always fun. Especially if you're poor.

>>737033354
Honestly, if I could find a girl who didn't want kids and had that...... I don't know..... drive to please the way a man has a drive to please...... I'd go for it.
There's just something about how girls are so receptive to sex and relationships, they don't initiate (some pretend to but they just aren't genuine, my ex was like that for the first 2 years but it was just a ruse to get me in).

I don't know how to explain it, I think women, at lest western women, are just ruined. Their perception of relationships and sex is just wrong and what they think men want versus what we actually want is just wrong.

I like a good wank sesh but my wife blows me on the regular so that's pretty great. Pussy fucking has gotten pretty boring now.

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>>737016291
OP said
>i just feel like fucking is so much of a hassle and exhausting
and your advice is to make it more of a hassle? Show us your tits, femanon.

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I have a problem. My gf is crazy and a bitch, my friend's dont like her coz of how she is. The problem is that i want to leave her but i cant stand the tought of het getting fucked by another guy.
What do?

>>737034705
Bro just move on. That's all you can do. Or put a chastity belt on her, throw the key away and then leave her.

>>737034705
Man you love her, but she's crazy don't know what she did, but you do.

Not gonna tell you to man up, but.. don't get hurt mate, I've been there and maybe it's not same situation but you already know she's crazy you care about her and that's sweet but again 'SHE'S FREANKIN CRAZY, have some self respect

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Does having kids change anything on the situation?

>>737022166
don't do this. This strikes me as very supplicant and weak.

>>737011896
why don't you just masterbate with your GF, they typically like to watch

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>>737036265
it's true?
Watches at $ 0?