>tfw your gf can't even put in the effort to attempt

maybe you should attempt something and stop waiting for her to do it.

>>736782705
Don't let it last any longer you buffoon. Mine lasted almost 8 years, 6 nearly sexless. You relationship is dead.

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>>736782796
I've been making the moves for 3 years straight daily. She just always wants me to engage instead of her. When she does it she gets embarrassed, gets sad and quits.
Just fuck my life up desu senpai.

>>736782924
what did she say when you attempted to talk to her about it?

>>736782977
>you know I'm just not good at it
>it's like you can't appreciate the hard work I put in
>you know I never learned any of this stuff
>whatever I'll just stop trying then

Unless you are "in love" if the bitch is not giving you sex, then why even bother.

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>>736783209
I just wanna be loved in the way I learned how. Sexually. To be desired, wanted, yearned after, lusted over.
Is that too much to ask?

>>736783348
i got you man, but if she doesnt understand this dont try to hard, people dont change this much ..

>>736783348
When a woman has lost the libido for you, she will never get it back.
You have to let her go, because she is probably fucking a side man.
I bet she is probably asking you to buy her things constantly right? and you have been doing it in hopes she concedes, you have been memed on then.

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>>736783468
It doesn't seem like any women understand this. They want to fawn over all the guys in magazines and on TV but to show their partner a bit of adoration is just too much.
I want to be treated like a piece of meat to be ogled at and desired. I think that everyone does.
Why is this so hard to understand?
How hard is it to act a little slutty for your partner? Not very.

don't bring up past mistakes or "needing change" just bring up solutions and not get her defense up. let her know certain things that turn you on that "have been on your mind" and let it be "her idea" to do them when she's ready and less pressured

>>736783690
Nah nothing like that. I'm just sick of being the one to initiate every moment then hear her complain and whine that she thinks I don't desire her anymore. It's a real bitch.

>>736783842
Well then there is the remote case that she actually loves you, but she just wants you to do everything.
I would recommend to still drop her, it will hurt a lot but relationships are a thing of two, and you clearly are done with doing everything by yourself.
Good luck with whatever you decide, anon.

>>736782705
Anon I'm literally in the exact same position. 3 year anniversary, think she'll want to celebrate with a good pounding. end up watching Iron man on Netflix and wishing I could go jerk myself off. gf just hates sex. unluckiest guy ever.

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>>736783724
some girls get this, if you have the impression to put too much effort in your relation just dump her /b/ro...
She cannot change something she not trully understand

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>>736784288
My gf just dropped it on me that if we ever get married right after she's taking a vow of celibacy. I told her I'd divorce her then she freaked out like I'm the bad guy.

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>>736784459
What the hell is wrong with you and your women

>>736784288
In the same situation here, Bro.
Gf doesn't care too much for sex, used to just let me use her, but she got tired of it.

>>736782705
OP, go visit r/TheRedPill.

There you will learn what her behaviour means and you will realise that you should let her the fuck go and work on yourself, self-confidence all that shit.

>>736784585
I don't know what her problem is. Every time I have a problem with something she does she makes it out like I'm the bad guy for bringing it up in the first place.

>>736784780
You niggas need to read some women mags.
>but that's gay
No, it is actually perfect, they admit in anonymous mails how they are scumbags and are generally either cheating on you because they already have safety with you and they look for pleasure with someone else, or they are indecisive about cheating.

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>>736784974
I already knew all this. You have to take your chances and sometimes (like how I am now) you make a bad call.
Doesn't stop it from taking its toll though.

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Been together 15 years since we were teenagers and still have mindblowing sex whenever I want.

The secret is that women want to be wanted, and they want to be dominated. Whining that she doesn't initiate is the most beta thing you can do. Just bend her over and fuck her when the mood strikes you. That's all she wants. Why won't she jump you herself? No urgency. She has your commitment and doesn't need to do anything to keep it.

Next time you're out, casually chat up the waitress, hot cashier, whoever. Show her that you're a desirable piece of man-meat who can have and be with anyone he chooses. The moment you apply dread game, she will fuck you senseless to keep you as hers, but this only works if you're a prize to begin with. Don't expect her to want to keep a fat, lazy beta slob with women's issues because she couldn't be bothered.

My girlfriend doesn't like sex. It sucks. She likes head, and I'll do that for her, but she doesn't like fucking because it hurts her. Never date a girl with a small pussy guys.

>>736785696
I really hope you are trolling.

>>736785696
Had that once, spent 30 minutes trying to get inside her from every position and no matter what we did my dick would just NOT go in, she was too tight. Even though she was dripping wet.

Needless to say, I GTFO'd and didn't return.

>>736785623
Yeah nah m8 domination games don't work on girls who are insecure. I chat up any girl and I can look forward to 4 weeks of her moping about it and making my life miserable with guilt.

>>736785623
Only guy who has his shit together

>>736785771
He speaks the truth my gf can't take my pepper and it's kind of annoying. At first it's hot but then the more you try and she just can't do it it ruins sex.

>>736785847
Well he is also the most likely to be accused of rape if his bitch gets angry, but yeah.

>>736784780
my ex was like this, she was also borderline, she liked testing my limits and if anything was ever her fault, she would get mad at me for pointing out she was doing something wrong and make me look like the bad guy. as of after we broke apart cause it became too toxic i've never been happier

>>736785771
No, I wish I was. If I go hard for even maybe 5 minutes or just normal for around 10 when I pull it out my dick is covered in blood because of vaginal tearing. Plus she's crying the whole time going "Oww Oww Oww Oww", so it really takes it out. We have tried anal a few times and I try to prep her and go slow but she always bleeds and get tears on his ass too.

>>736785869
Why the hell would you stick with a woman that can't have sex with you? you people have issues. Is it out of desperation? loneliness? just explain to me, because unless you have a literal tomboy gf that is basically a man with tits and boobs that you can do shit you would do with a bro, I don't know why you would want to keep such a relationship.

>>736786036
Money mostly. She owns her own house and I can live here for free and don't pay for anything. Plus she gives me cash if I need it.

>>736782705
Dump the bitch, get a new one.

Next question, plz.

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>>736785831
Chatting them up needs to be done subtly. Don't ask for her fucking number with your girlfriend there, just get talking with any and every girl you can.

If she mopes, start to stonewall her, become less interested the more petty she becomes. She'll become desperate after that. She only mopes because she knows it works on you and that's a great way to get attention and feel secure again, by reassuring her that you have no intention of fucking anyone else. She NEEDS to feel in the back of her mind that she's with you, not that you are with her, and that you CAN leave at a moments notice should she fuck up.

What happens when she doesn't feel this way is that she cheats knowing full well you'll take her back. She cheats because the other guy is perceived as being higher value than you. And we all know how quickly sluts will throw a handbag away the moment they see a shinier one in a shop window.

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>>736786131
Fucking hell anonymous, get your shit together.
You are a manwhore.

Ok. Why don't you you break up her with instead of being a whiny, suicidal little bitch about it?

People change. You're probably pretty young. Let me guess, this is your first serious relationship? Move the fuck on dude.

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>>736786002
I really hope you're me from another timeline trying to warn me because that is exactly what's happening to me.
>babe I think we need to talk about our sex life
>How so?
>well I'm just not really into it because you don't do anything
>So you're saying I'm bad in bed?
>How could you say that?
>That's so fucked up.
>I was having a great day until you started this fight.
>I can't believe you'd say something like that.
>After how hard I try.
>After everything I do for you.
>Fine whatever.
>I'll just stop ever having sex with you asshole.
>I'll just stop ever [insert verb here] you then.
EVERY. FUCK. TIME!

>>736786269
I learned it from my mom.

>>736786274
15th serious relationship. I've been divorced 4 times already. I'm not a young buck anymore. Getting a little too old for these games t/b/h famalamadingdong and the older I get the crazier these cunts get.
I piss on anyone who says younger women prefer older men.

>>736782705
>all these replies and no one has stated the obvious yet
Just go down on her more often ffs. I'm by no means a sex God but every time we have sex, we're both going to cum.

I'm in a 3 year relationship myself and although we don't fuck as much as we used to, I still get it in enough.

>>736786510
>we're both going to cum.
Men and women are biologically made so the woman has a much harder time cumming, do you last like an hour every time or something? if so, you are awesome.

>>736786608
No but I'll ear her out and make her cum if I'm not feeling up for a marathon.

>>736785696
What's her build like? I'm a beta virgin, but I'm curious as to if there's any correlation between a woman having a small pussy and her height, build, etc whatever you know. Is there any?

>>736783842
Start complimenting her daily about little things. Just once a day. "You're beautiful" "you're cook great" "you're ambitious", etc etc. when a woman says she feels unwanted its an emotionally oriented statement. She wants more positive reinforcement. Once you start doing this (dont go overboard) her confidence will increase and she should start feeling more comfortable initiating stuff. Plus you can tell her what turns you on while doing it. Like "damn you looked sexy when...". If that doesnt work idk what will

>>736786709
lmao
She probably just fakes it so you don't feel bad.
It is ok, most women do it.

>>736786960
I feel sorry for you if you can't make your gf cum every time after a year of dating.

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>>736786915
>If that doesnt work idk what will
This is basic shit anon.
Honestly I'm starting to believe that some women just don't want to be happy and just want to drag someone down with them to feel just as bad as they do.
I gotta go pass out next to her and get shoved off the bed halfway through the night.
Thanks for the advice anons but I think murder suicide will be the way to go.
I hate her face so much now....

>>736787237
You need to read forums of women anon.
It is so sad how many of them just fake it, it really makes me consider that women really have the short end of the stick when it concerns to orgasms.

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>>736787353
>read forums on sex

>>736787641
Why not
Do you hate to learn the truth? They also comment how they like it, so it might be useful to learn new tricks, know what I am saying?

>>736786471
Sorry to hear that. Woman hit their sexual peak at 30-35, and then their libido reduces from there. If you've already been divorced 4 times it seems you know how to get a girl but not keep her. A lot of men mistakenly believe that once they're married/in a serious relationship they can relax. That's a mistake. She'll get bored.

Let me guess. She started started nagging you. She started complaining about you spending time away from her, she tried to change you. And then in an effort to please her, you gave in. You started doing everything she told you in order to please her and keep her happy. And now her pussy is as dry as the Sahara desert.

In her eyes, you are not a man any more. You are her little play thing. PUT HER IN HER PLACE. Be your own man. Who were you when you met here?
Did you change yourself since you met her because she wanted you to? Give up any friend/hobbies/past-times? Start enriching your with things that don't involve her. Be the man you are. Not the man she tells you to be and maybe then she'll respect you (and then open her legs for you).