Any virgins out there? And if you are 20 or older, how much

forever virgin
living is often frustrating but for the most part lack of sex is not what bothers me, its more about going to bed completely alone at night

>>735624393
why not just get laid tho?

I'm 28 and a virgin.

Parents died in my teens and I started working soon after to help provide for myself and sisters while we lived with grandparents. To make things even better, since we were so young my parents established a will that had my uncle as one of the executors who proceeded to blow all of the money on random shit which left us with basically nothing.

I've lived with a chip on my shoulder and worked my way through school and eventually achieved a graduate degree.

Life and love has passed me by so I can ensure that I have helped provide for my sisters.

Being a virgin hasn't really bothered me much, but I do think about it.

Fappening17 add group video swap

i dont mind it at all, i dont like someone near my.
the only time it bothers me is when someone wana tell me how stupid i am or when they ask questions about it. i dont know why they do it, i dont ask them about their sex life..

>>735625352
Dude that's awesome, you're like Batman!

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After losing virginity and now having been with a few girls. I can safely say that losing my virginity did nothing but make me appreciate being alone way more.

I use to think I needed a woman, and that I was a loser if I didn't get one. Now that I find talking to girls easy and am no longer extremely beta, I find much more pleasure just being on my own. Saves so many headaches, plus no one will ever love you like you love yourself so it is a huge plus.

48 here, stopped caring about virginity in late 30's, probably going to stop caring about finding love soon too.

Weird thing is I'm very wealthy and have no problem getting first dates, but I inevitably say something that insults them and I never hear from them again.

>>735625752
dududududu
dududududu
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dudu
HE-MAN

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>>735625752
Congratulations your as fagott

>>735624531
this

>>735625352

well if worse comes to worse.. you have 2 sisters with perfectly good pussy waiting

>>735624393
>30
you get used to it. I want to kill myself tho' for unrelated reasons

Is no going to comment on the girl's vagina being upside down? Or have you all never seen one before?

>>735625752
what you just said made me happier about myself and that's a rarity for some random /b/tard

I'm 20 and a virgin. I don't give a fuck. I've got porn anyway

>>735626239
seems like wanting to kill yourself = low self esteem = bad vibes to women = virginity

>>735625901
Can you give some examples? Is it racist stuff for example and you don't even know? Are you so isolated from society that you don't know what's appropriate?

>>735626322

I'm actually starting to think that's a post op tranny, because there's no clitoris top or bottom.

>>735624393
Alot. I am 25 now. I am a decent looking lad, good shape but wanted to wait for the right girl.

Went on a road trip last year to las vegas because my wealthy parents wanted to congratulate me for graduating uni. Long story short, my car crashed and my mate died and I am in a wheel chair.

I find enjoyment in music and movies and building computers I'm on tinder, and really good talking to people. Not one girl is interested, used to be. Is it because I am a burden? I sort of just want a girlfriend, someone to love me I suppose since sex won't even be fun.

>>735624531
This. Sex don't matter to me. The feeling of being loved does

>>735624393
32. Dont give a flying fuck anymore

>>735626595
find a wheelchair gf bro

>30
Lost my virginity at 15. Have had multiple partners. No sex since 25 You fucks talking about being loved is depressing the shit out of me.

>>735625752
>plus no one will ever love you like you love yourself
joke's on you I don't love myself

>>735626595
also sorry for your situation thats brutal bro

>>735625566

Nothing dramatic like a back alley death or anything. Just black ice on a dark night.

I get a bit jealous when I see my friends all getting married and having kids.

I don't think I'm a socially awkward guy, I just don't know how to take that first step.

27
Doesnt really bother me, but i get a bit awkward when talking about sex.
If it did bother me i would have done something about it, but i dont plan on being a virgin forever.

>>735626156

4, but 3 are married.

I guess that only leaves 1, anon.

>>735624393
21. My long distance girlfriend is coming to visit me in December. I hope she doesn't lose her love and attraction for me once she sees me in real life. I'm really really worried that i'm not what she thought I was and leaves me.

I hope I do lose my virginity when she's here, but that hope really pares in comparison to the hopes of her still loving me when she sees me. I just don't know what to do.

30. It sucks.

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>>735624393
Yes there are plenty of virgins left in the world, a lot of them are on this very site, and sites like this one.
Because the one thing most people on these sites share in common is an inability to maintain normal friendships and relationships, which is why we're drawn here to talk anonymously with people we will never meet to share our feelings with others we typically wouldn't get a chance to.

I am twenty-eight almost twenty-nine. It used to bother me when I was a younger adult, around 19-22 because I felt really left out, but now that I'm older it doesn't phase me at all, in fact, I couldn't careless if I get laid at this point. I will tell you that being able to not give a shit about pussy negates a lot of women's mind games because they have no leverage with you they'd have with someone desperate for it.

28 it only bothers me when I think about it.

im 17 and still one and feel like a loser, can't imagine being the feeling of 25-27+ and still one lmao

>>735626595
OP here. That's sad as fuck. Why not try to get a girl who also sits in a wheel chair? They understand your situation, and probably are in the same one as you. They can be hot, but seen as a burden. I guess there is a lot of fine ass ladies in wheel chairs out there for you.

>>735626900
Most people who have grown up lonely and without love from either family or friends tend to be the ones who care about love the most. I noticed that physically attractive people who have been coddled, and admired and love by everyone their whole lives tend to be the ones who care less about love and more about attention and sexual gratification more than love. Just my observation there though.

>>735624393
The worst part is hearing my younger colleagues discussing their intimate adventures, and wondering where I went wrong.

>>735627565
17 is young as hell. You'll get some pussy don't worry. Just remember that girls like to be noticed.

>>735625752

I didnt fuck until I was like 22, and after that girl there was only one other. I thought having a gf and getting laid would magically make me happy, but all it did was add a shitload of stress to my life. Ive been alone 2 years now and its the happiest Ive ever been.

I think society places too much value on relationships/sex, so much so that it makes people who naturally feel disinclined to them feel like something is wrong with them.

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21 kissless virgin here

Lack of sex doen't really bother me, but some company would be nice. I want someone to cuddle with

I genuinely believe that it is damaging to ones maturity into adulthood if they haven't gotten laid at latest by 19. Any time after that and the guy starts becoming increasingly cynical about sex, starts rationalizing, and for the most part has an unhealthy understanding of sex. Part of being a teenager 16/17 is being able to awkwardly learn how to have sex and then getting over that awkwardness. Not having that, imo, really fucks with your confidence, and psychological self-image. obv pure conjecture and anecdotal observation but I've consistently had GFs since I was 15, 23 now. But I always hung with the MTG, WoW, RS, weirdo table crowd and have noticed how my friends who are still virgins act much more like "man children" type because they never had the opportunity to find their confidence and sexually mature. That goes for the ones who aren't genuinely autistic af

>>735627808
what are you, fucking gay? god damn.

>>735627266
Have she never seen how you look irl? Or do you just mean that she might not find you as attractive as in pictures?

>>735627885
The latter. We've never met in real life before. She's only seen me in pictures. And I send her pictures of me every day.

The only reason that I wish I would have had sex before now, at 22 years old, is because it would make it a lot easier to find someone to be with if I didn't think they were disgusting for fucking some guy they hadn't stayed with.

>>735624393
MODS!!

>>735628114
Also, I would still think they're disgusting, I just wouldn't want to be a hypocrite, so I would deal with it.

>>735627708
About to be 18 in a week though, it's not that I'm socially awkward with chicks, I actually have a lot of friends that are girls for the most part, I've even tried like 6 times to move romantically on girls and one time it only worked, and then after 2 weeks of "dating" she said she wasn't ready. feelsbad

>>735628092

you know they got video chats now right?

>>735628240
Yeah.

>>735628114

I know how you feel, I didnt start getting laid until around your age too and its impossible to find someone your age to mutually progress sexually with

>>735624393
24 now. I'm fapping to zoo and furry since age 11 so I've never quite developed the concept of romantic attraction, so it doesn't bother me.

>>735625752
This.

I have a girlfirend. I'm living with her and some friends but I always want to just be alone. Do my own thing. Relax. I can't stand talking about nothing all the time. I'd rather just be alone with my thoughts and this gay as fuck board.

>>735627715
If by society you mean billions of years of biological succession....

>>735624393
i'm 15 and virgin, is that normal? There's a 13 year old girl who tried to grab my dingus at summer camp, should I continue to deny her advances, or should I go for it and just fuck already? My mind says no, my body says yes. I may just do it because she has adderall.

>>735628092
Sounds like you aren't very confident in yourself anon. Few tips

1.) Don't hope that she will fill any holes in yourself confidence. She wont.

2.) Even if you aren't confident in who you are, pretend you are. She could get turned away if you go all "lost puppy" mode on her. Pretend you are an actor or Singer or something.

All in all, if you didn't lie to her or try and make yourself seem better than you are, then she probably will love you for you. If you said a bunch of lies than she might be a little disappointed. You got this tho man, don't expect sex from her, but definitely make a move if you see an opening. Also make sure she knows you are a virgin, if she is sentimental she will probably love that, if she isn't she will most likely help guide you and appreciate the honesty.

>>735628191
And by moved romantically I meant dating/etc other shit not sex

Yeah I haven't had sex since I lost my virginity just either live too far away or turn them down as I can't feel love doesn't bother me though

>>735628636
I have been honest with her on everything, she is aware that I am a virgin and she is a virgin as well. So I am going to take your advice and hope it works. Thanks, man.

>>735628630
Grave mistake.

>>735628630
If you're actually not trolling, go for it.

>>735627835
So what's the solution? Mandatory sex for all teens?

>>735628536

oh well, Im probably just crazy then

>>735628630
Get it. Young sex is where you can make all the mistakes. Let her tickle your pickle

>>735624393
19. Virgin. Not sure if I'm gay or there's something else wrong with me, but I've just never been interested enough in women to make the effort.

>>735628972
Excuses my man

Literal Wizard here. Just turned 31 last year and have never even kissed a girl. For me its just frustrating most of the time. Whenever I see a picture like the one posted in the OP I don't even feel arousal anymore. It's not "Oh hey damn thats a nice vagina I'd fuck it xD" like it used to be.

It's just frustration. Frustration, anger, and bitterness. In the words of Elliot Rodger, its like being a starving person and having delicious food paraded in front of you. I'm not as far gone as him and I dont think I ever will get to the point that I want to harm other people. (I realize my situation is my own fault) but still its a shitty situation and its worsened by the fact that I spend way too much time online.

Fapping doesnt do much for me anymore. Its just a chore and 5 minutes later I'm horny again.

>>735628972
well, are you interested in men then?

>>735625352
Very similar situation for me growing up. When I look back, I say that I was forced to learn how to be an adult, yet I haven't had the opportunity to experience what most adults have.
I just never had the time or stable living space to consider myself worthy enough to love, so I stayed away from relationships until it was too late.

>>735624393
30, married.
>Get more ass than pussy
>Just act like its already yours
>get sex

>>735627835
21 here and I've always been cynical and rational about everything in general, plus I have little idea on how to maintain relationships. Fuck me, right?

>22

I honestly don't care, I haven't cared since I was like 14 or so. I never wanted a relationship with anyone. Sure it sounds interesting and exciting at first but I know I would fucking hate it in the end. I appreciate peace and quiet too much. The sex part is meh. Could be interesting to experience it but is it really worth the trouble? I have almost zero interest in other people so everything in the process of getting laid would be pure boredom, except the act of sex itself of course.

If I ever get the chance to get laid, I'll of course take the chance just to experience it but I will not lift one finger to achieve that. That probably means I will stay virgin till I die and that's okay. I have better things to do.

>>735628972
Get some boipucci then, dudes are probaly easier anyways because you can be bros and bangbros, unless it's a trap/trans because they tend to be a lot more clingy, depressed, psychotic, and needy than normal woman

21 male, It's really by choice. I just haven't found some I've liked all that much. It surprises people when I tell them I'm a virgin. And I've had plenty of offers. Just haven't found the right person . But yeah it's really not so bad.

>>735628918
>>735628832
>>735628816
idk I just get this feeling like i'd be taking advantage of her, she's way younger and she's EXACTLY like my ex. also race may be a problem idk if my parents would be okay with her(she's black). Is the age difference too big to give her the peepee?

Apparently prostitution isn't a thing in this universe

>>735626510
Well, like a recent first date she was telling me how her last date (we met on match.com) never showed up, then I said jokingly "oh, so you got stood up?" and she got angry and said "NO!" and a few moments later said this isn't going to work and she left. As she left she flipped me off.

>>735629318
Dont quote Ellio Rodger. It wont get you anywhere good. Get off the internet and start working out. It will be good for your memtal health.

>>735629318
hit a gym, shower daily, get a haircut. does wonders

>>735629868
Space Hookers from the planet MT

>>735629639
Seems pretty accurate. My friend fits that description. He's always taking his girlfriend, who is a good friend of mine, for granted. I can talk with her for hours and not grow tired of it, and it's not even because I'm attracted to her so much as I value the company of someone like that.
I would be happy to spend every day of my life conversing with someone who I click with.

>>735630009
>>735630022
>Just work out bro

Lost count of how many times I've heard this meme. Not a fan of it tbh. But I fell for it once, for 3 years. I was a rat for a while and all it did was make me want it more with no means of getting it. Not fun.

>>735624393
>Any virgins out there?
Sorry anon, only alphas on this board

>>735624393
20, could not give less of a shit right now.

19 year old here. Kissed 3 girls, 2 blowjobs, a handjob, but no sex. My favorite is cuddling but fuck, I wish some bitch would let me stick my dick in them.

>>735630002
Ok that's just not normal.

>>735624393
I was a virgin until 26, didn't bother me since I knew who I was gonna marry from 16.

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>>735627525
it's ok anon

>>735624531
Anon kinda nailed it here. Still want sex though lol

>>735628436
that's actually a good plan

>>735630199
If you can get far enough to cuddle, don't be afraid to ask for some fuck.
Put it clearly. Make her feel like she's THE ONE that you have your eyes on, and you want to 'make love'.

>>735628636
Could you define "lost puppy" mode for me? I have no idea what that means.

>>735630040
Seriously. It's like this is some wierd Rick and Morty universe where no one has discovered sex for money.

>>735630002
show pic of self man...that doesnt seem right

you dont want those women in your life anyway

>>735624393
> 22
Not at all, I was never really interested in relationships. Although some times I do wish I had a personal bed warmer

Not a virgin but I was up until I was 28.

I gave up on dating and it was the best decision I ever made. We live in a day and age where females have everything they want/need. Thanks to Women's rights they can work and provide for themselves. And if they can't do that then the state will provide for them. So where does that leave males as far as desirability goes? It used to be that a girl would need to settle down with a husband because they couldnt work or do all the things they can do now. Just about everything they could ever want or need is readily available to them without the need for a male. Well, everything EXCEPT for a good dicking. And if you think they're getting that from the average Joe than you are sadly mistaken. They are just waiting for Chad Thundercock to run through them. For all the other genetically un-gifted males like me, we're stuck having fight tooth and nail just to get them to acknowledge our existence.

No thank you.

I spend a grand twice a month to have my way with a very nice girl. And the rest of the time I focus on myself. You would do well to follow suit.

>>735630199
If you can get 2 blowjobs, you can sure as hell get laid. Keep trying, brother

>>735630470
Sure thing. Imagine what a lost puppy is like.

Needy, unsure of everything, scared of the situation, looking for someone to help them. You don't want to be like that, even if you are, its most important that SHE doesn't think you are like that.

You want the girl to think you have the situation handled. Like you have control of the reins and aren't afraid to say or do anything. Be a Lion. A beast that knows he can do whatever he wants. Even if that takes a bit of acting. Girls like confidence with a bit of arrogance. Girls can sense fear and when a guy is unsure of himself. Do your best to not be.

I think that is where a lot of guys fail honestly. They are afraid to take control. Don't be. You ever wonder why 90% of girls are into being dominated, tied down or calling you daddy? Because they like not having control. 100% of women I have been with have all told me they like being choked and dominated. Definitely not a coincidence. Look at why 50 Shades of Grey is so popular.

>>735631226
Trevor?

>>735631490
That actually makes a lot of sense.

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25 kissed virgin, got teased and dumped. But Ive been depressed and suicidal way before that. Also tried to hang myself but hey, even the rope didn't want to hold me. badumptish
>>735629318
It's not your fault anon.
>>735631226
Mad respect, anon

>>735628536
There haven't been billions of years of biology. At least not on this planet.

>>735631608
Nope. But Trevor sounds like a smart guy.

>>735631295
trying broo. thanks for the motivation :D

>>735630461
ill try it tomorrow.

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>>735627281
nope your just a sad pathetic loser.I get ass when ever i want it but i prefer to troll for the lulz.

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>>735624393
34 yo virgin here. Decided to go monk a couple of years ago. Would liked to have had sex in the confines of a healthy relationship, but that seems impossible these days (no matter what the cucks say). /b/ helped a bit too, seeing all those every day women spreading their ass cheeks, covered in cum made me respect women less and less. I might've gone the PUA route, but they're just not worth my effort. Fuck it.

>>735631226
You spend 24k/yr for sex??

The worst part of this thread is all of the 6'5" hunks with 9 inch cocks giving pro tips.

>>735631910
>Also tried to hang myself but hey, even the rope didn't want to hold me.

Jesus dude.

>>735624393
>21, not kissless but a virgin.
It doesn't bother me at all unless someone starts talking to me about sex, at which point I'll lie and say I had sex when I was too young and it was a pretty shitty experience (I did experiment with a male friend when we were 9-10). So I'm pretty embarrassed about it but I don't care enough to make any effort towards getting laid.

I'm average looking at best and failing at life and I don't wanna lower my standards to get a girl on my level, because I wouldn't like her.

>>735625752
Get dat puss then go home and get some quality me time, player for life

>>735632671
Not just any sex. Its a full night with a girl I wouldn't even consider to be a prostitute. As far as I know what she does with me is exclusive.

I'm more like a sugar daddy I suppose.

>>735626595
Plenty of twisted chicks out there that would go for a roller, first thing they ask is what your name is and the second this is if your junk is still working. They'd jump you just for bragging rights.

I'm a virgin at 33. It bothers me some, in the last year or so more than it ever has, for some reason.

>>735633075
Its because your time is running out. I'm in a similar boat. 32.

21 here. Gotten a bj and messed around a little, but refraining from actual sex for religious reasons.
I'm not even that religious, it's more like I don't want to risk a tainted soul n such and tbh it's just sex. I also agree the society places too much emphasis on a need for sex. I wonder if that's so the people who get layed constantly feel that they've acccomplished some great thing, so as to fill the void.
Love is more important anyways

Just turned 23. Used to not bother me at all, but it's been weighting on me recently. Though, it's more the feeling of being unloved than being a virgin. I'd probably still feel like shit if I wasn't a virgin, but in the same situation.
I don't really get to meet women in a general context, my work is really male-centric and I don't go out because my friends all left town, so I'm on my own. I tried Tinder, but I'm not particularly attractive, so I don't get matches, or I get matches, but it's more like the girl that's on tinder to get an "ego-job".

>>735625901
Very odd! You should practice with hookers.

>>735626595
That really sucks bro. I would say dont even bother with tinder, even ugly girls have so many options that they just wont even give you the time of day. Like the other anons said maybe look for a girl who is also in a chair, or just try to meet more people in person so that you can actually show who you are more. Try to get some sjw girls mang.

23, mental illness, abuse in childhood, moving around a lot has made it hard for me to meet girls and then when we get to talking i usually feel bad the more we talk. this is certainly unhealthy, but when i've noticed girls flirting with me, it makes me feel worse about myself rather than better, as if my dignity is undermined or something. and then that thought makes me feel awful but i don't know how to fix it

>>735625352
Sounds like a Series of Unfortunate Events.

>>735633190
>tainted soul
>4chinz

>be me
>be 15 yo
>fuck 7 yo girl cousin
>easy

Fucking losers

>>735625752
I think the point for a lot of people is getting it over with. A lot of these guys just need the experience under their belts.

>>735627266
Just dont sperg out bro. Remember that youve been talking to her for however long and she obviously likes your personality enough to come see you. Just be the same way you are through message. Plus remember shell be nervous af too most likely.

>>735632417
He's actually a massive fucking douche, to be honest.

>>735633138

What're you reasons? I'm interested since we're so close in age.

>>735634111
you're*

>>735627808

I feel you anon, i would just fuck whores if it was only about dumping my load into a woman.

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I'm 32 virgin

not as a result of bad looks or intelligence, I developed avoidant personality disorder in my early teens

I gradually stopped caring about the whole virgin deal during my twenties, nowadays I'm completely indifferent. I can't even imagine a scenario where I end up having sex with a girl, let alone talk to one.It was never in the cards for me, and I'm not bitter or remorseful that things have turned out this way

Having kids and relationships seems like either a good deal or a fucking nightmare, I'm just glad to stay out of it

>>735628630
Do it man. Youll be fapping to those memories in 20 years gotta build up that spank bank

21; being an ugly af gay guy sure feels great

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>>735630022
I lift, shower every day, even have a chadcut. Still a virgin.
If you've got an ugly face, you're a virgin past 16 or 17, and you aren't charismatic, you're fucked regardless of what you do.

>be 20
>this is how i feel

Worry worry worry, love is passing me by
Worry worry worry, I'm so painfully shy
Other guys get all the kisses (why am I the one who misses?)
Worry worry worry, woe is me

Baby baby baby, I'm a fool about love
Maybe maybe I should go to school about love
When it comes to getting chummy (I'll admit I'm quite a dummy)
Worry worry worry, woe is me

I found out that I'm the worrying kind
I'll go worrying right along
Life is fine, but with a worrying mind
(So many things can go wrong)

Worry worry worry, should I hold her so tight?
Worry worry worry, am I kissing her right?
She said, "Joe, it's you I'll marry"
I'm not Joe, my name is Harry
Worry, worry, worry, woe is me

>>735628630
mods

>>735634370
Do you have opportunities to do it though? I am like you, but 26, I too avoid people except for my small circle of friends....I think I have opportunities because I work out and take care of myself, girls often check me out and smile at me etc, some in work and university try chatting me up, but I don't even bother trying out of fear and shyness.

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>>735634678
Was getting ready to call you a faggot, but that's actually quite good

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>Be me 21
>went from overweight slob to almost ripped mode
>mifewasgreat.exe
>met girl online
>fell in love with girl
>fell for the oldest trick in the book
>grill convinced me she was becoming an hero
>girl later admitted underage
>brain couldn't handle being in love with this mess
>betacatfishfailure.exe
>parents ask what's wrong as cant sit still, anxiety/ megadepression sets in
>mention nudes, girl on internet
>freak out, lose 2 years of my life to crushing depression and regret for my actions


>tfw when being bored and horny on omegle leads to meeting a horny girl who ruins your life

>Be me, 23
>overweight af, working on it
>wondering why I lost 2 years of my life over being catfished
>have irrational hatred for everything

>ironically don't care about being a virgin, I'll lose it sometime.

If you are over 20 and a virgin there is something seriously wrong with you. Sex is easy to have.

>>735635089
Also Gynecomastia.

>>735635229

For some people, sure. For others they might as well be invisible.

>>735633490
This. Doing it with prostitutes kinda sucks though.

turned 22 a few days ago
i honestly don't think much about it, nor about having a relationship or anything similar either
though sometimes i feel strong sadness over everything ive missed out on

>>735635229
that doesn't mean everyone wants it enough to have it

30yo virgin. I've never had a relationship much less sex. Never tried.

It bothers me a lot but I also don't think I'm deserving of a relationship nor can I imagine a long-term senerio where I don't end up poisoning a relationship.

So... yeah. I'm living in an endless cycle while years are crawling by.

>>735635229
Maybe. Maybe there is something wrong. what is wrong ?

>>735624393
I'm not a virgin and, yes, it does bother me a lot.

>>735634846

No I don't. I've pushed away people to the point where I don't have any friends except my older brother who I never see anymore

I had several opportunities to get laid in the past, but I was always second guessing myself or feeling self conscious about some fucking minor odd thing or another. If I could rewind, I'd jump at every opportunity I missed out on for sure.

19,had a girlfriend when i was 15,she was a little older than me, had a pretty good time with her,until we broke up(parents and shit).We have done some things ya know,but no penetration.I didn't have a relationship since.Sometimes i feel like i could explode, i just want a girl that likes me the way i am, but maybe i'm asking too much...
But i think that if you keep asking for things,they will never come to you. I guess i'll just have to wait,and in the meantime,i'll try to upgrade myself,i'll try to be the person i want to be.

>>735624393

>20
>280lbs
>80 to go before marine corps
>soon be swimming in lost virginity

>>735635631
better get running lard ass

But how to find girl to lose virginity

>>735624393
Everyone on /b/--and probably on 4chan altogether--is a virgin (except me), unless you count the palms of their hands. Those get fucked regularly. If you're speaking metaphorically, then no one on /b/ is a virgin. Life fucks them regularly. Why? Because they're the dregs of the world, and it's the dregs of any society that always gets fucked.

>>735635395
Fuck, this feeling of missing out is depressing af but I try not to think about it. 21 here

>>735635631
>He thinks chicks still dig military men

top kek. Youre not a hero anymore. Youre a pawn.

>>735624531
The never ending feeling that you are not good enough for anyone and nobody loves you, that you are all alone and doesn't matter how hard you try to fit in you never will and thinking about that just make it worst

>>735635741
probs youre right. but what fucked me ?

>>735635089
>underage

Tell us her age, anon.

>>735635802
Better than being in a loveless relationship like my parents

>>735624393
25 year old virgin here. i blame extreme social anxiety as well as being introverted and valuing my privacy and alone time. surprisingly it actually bothers me less the older i get. at this point i don't really give a shit, i've got a well-paying job where i can mostly work from home, i work out every day, eat healthy, have a small but dedicated group of friends who actually understand me, etc. that's more than enough for me

If a man doesn't lose his virginity by 18 he's a failure.

>>735635876
15

>>735635631
And women will be swimming in your money while they cuck you in your house during deployment.

>>735635919
>implying Bill Gates is a failure

>>735635919
no. fuck you. i bet youre a failure.

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>>735627708
Dude. Sex picks up after 18. Actually for me late 18 almost 19. I have always been content in my friend group through highschool. But once I got college. Things got easier. But don't praise the pussy. It'll get you nowhere. I chased a girl for a while before seeing sandman and Tom leykis. I just got a tinder and lost mine to a 9/10 in the first 2 weeks Since then it's been 2 months 2 other girls. One was FWB who loved me but I didn't love her. More of a companion of sorts. Ended up leaving her after she lied and lied and I caught the lies. And a false pregnancy I didn't know if it was true or not.

But after having it I actually want it more. Problem is. It really isn't that good. I've never came from it. A good BJ is better. It just feels like I have too. But I go from stages of mania to depression all the time. Maybe I'm just lonely again. That'll change in 2 weeks or so

a fucking lot. i am 30 on the 25th and i have never been remotely liked by a female. it does get to me but i have also begun to except that i am just a failure of a human. life wont last forever so thats comforting

23. Virginity doesn't bother me, I'm just very lonely.

>>735635969
how should they do that ?if its his money

Horribly. Wanna kill myself every night because of it.

>>735635987
You don't know that you've never been liked by a female.

24 here, It bothers me less as time goes on and I've come to the realization that I'm not all that interested in having a girl friend as much I'd just like to have sex but i'm not about to pay someone to have sex with me since that seems like an admission of defeat.

At least I know I'm not ugly since I've had women flirt with me so my looks can get me in the door, it's everything after that I have trouble with.

I'd like to think of it as a good thing, maybe I can find that one woman that really grows to love me and I her so when the time comes it will be even more special.

Honestly it bothers me a lot more when I think about what I actually want to do with me life since I have no answer at this point in time.

I was a virgin until I was 32. My older brothers are both also virgins. I realize I had to take action, and got therapy, then I also asked to be put on SSRI's (antidepressants). I had social anxiety. I would blush constantly. I only wanted to stay by myself, because socializing was painful.

I immediately got the courage to go on dating sites (not FUCKING sites, but ones for people looking for partners), and I am now happily married, and I feel much better.

So it can change, but you must take action.

>>735624393
I was a virgin until 22. Then afterwards I fucked like 8 women. Its simple nervousness. People can sense it on you and it turns them off.

Just go with an escort. Make sure you haven't got deathgrip syndrome from all the fapping you've been doing though.

>>735636071
I wonder why you just ignored the cucking while you serve part

So I got a friend who's a virgin at 28. Kinda awkward considering he's the guy that hooked me up with the girl that I lost my virginity to..

Thinking of carrying him to go fuck a prostitute since he's automatically enters the friend zone everytime with every girl he meets. Any ideas to bring this idea across without sounding weird?

>>735636116

nearly 30 years of crippling lonelyness tells me so. our species would not work if we were all successful in life. nature has decided its not ment to be.

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I think there's something wrong with me. I'm 20, not a bad looking dude, decently fit, can talk to girls and make them laugh without sperging, etc. I pursue a girl, and as soon as I recognize the signs of her liking me I completely lose interest.

>Freshman year of college
>7/10 Asian girl in my dorm, 9/10 body though
>Getting pretty close with her, she starts to get touchy feely
>I lose all interest

>Few weeks ago (am junior now)
>8/10 white girl, very fit
>I've had her in a few of my classes, passing acquaintances at best
>Partner up with her on projects for a class, put some moves on her
>After classes end, she texts 'hey, what are you doing this summer? Are you going to be around (our college town) at all?'
>Lose interest again, don't follow up with a response that would get me over to her apartment

Have done this several times in high school too. Psychologists of /b/ wtf is my problem. I'm not scared, I'm definitely not gay, it's just once I know I got to the point where I could have gotten laid, I just completely lose any interest I had in her

>>735636264
why should he be cucked ? i didnt understand that either.... he cucked in his house ? wtf
you mean when he is working for the government the woman will fuck with other guys ?

but he didnt even mention marriage or sth. he only wanted girls.

>>735636184

I'd get therapy if it didn't ruin me financially

same with the pills

I guess I should just move to fucking europe or something

>>735636455
you are too alpha

>>735624393
25 yr old virgin here

I made out with a girl and I thought it was pretty gross.

I' was blowed by another girl and couldn't even get hard so I couldn't fuck her.

Ever since then I stopped trying and tbh I don't care.
The only regret I have is being able to say that I did her but if anybody asked I'd just lie and say I did so it makes no difference to me.

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>>735636455
>Recursion

>>735625352
While this does suck, and sorry for your loss, this does not explain why you haven't gotten laid? It literally takes 10 minutes to fuck and get a nut

>>735635793
it doesn't happen often to me but when it does its triggered (kek) by like seeing something on social media, or contemplating about my situation or something similar
happened a few days ago when i saw a video of some frat party
when it happens it hurts pretty bad. thankfully my mind is preoccupied with other stuff 99% of the time

>>735636455

I don't know what the fuck is wrong with you, but I hope you get dick cancer and your scrotum rots away before you get to use it

fucking lunatic

>>735628449
maybe tell her how you feel

>>735636653

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rDqjSaHjHEs

>>735635919
I didn't, I had to leave the house first because
I was a horribly sheltered child. All good now.

>>735635946
What are you bitching about? perfect age. Perfectly leegal here as well. Give me.

>>735636944
You want snapchat? haha where are you from Bangladesh?

>>735635089
Where you obviously went wrong is going all in too soon.

Girls love bad boy bullshit. Treat them like garbage, fuck a bunch of them, then you'll be ready.

Sex on its own is not important, there are guys that've fucked dozens and dozens of chicks and they're miserable as all hell. Then there are guys that've never had sex and they might be just as miserable. Whatever your problem is, sex probably isn't the solution.

im very introvert and am fine with being alone so sex doesnt really matter to me.

>>735636863
Nah just really drunk

I can't perform when I'm drunk and I'm too autistic to do anything with a girl when I'm sober.

As an older virgin my main issue seems to be ephebophilia. Almost every female I find attractive would land me in prison.

>>735624393
What really bothers me is the nearly infinite opportunities I had to get with some hot women. but instead chose to focus on my education and failed business.

23 here, get as much pussy as you can in highschool and college because it gets really difficult afterwards.

Especially if you have no social life.

Lost my virginity at 22 (3 months ago), girl told me I was more experienced than her and that I was great in bed (later said its the best sex she's ever had). Still bootycalls me several nights a week. There's hope for those of you who aren't autistic.

>>735637192
I went wrong by valuing myself incredibly low, and my mind tricked me into wanting to feel love and experience it, to the point that in the end it completely fucked me over. I have gynecomastia and was planning an op before this happened. Can't have sex with gyne

>>735624393
I'm 18 and it makes me wanna die...

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Don't you ever feel like going full Elliot on a bunch of people to get back at life for throwing you such shit cards? Why not? Pussy.

>>735637502
Broke, can't afford a BMW or a gun.

>>735637305
>I'm too autistic to do anything with a girl when I'm sober.
that's bullshit. all you need is a little success, and then you will find it suits you. Bitches dig confidence, and if you don't have any, learn to fake it until it occurs naturally.

>>735637502
No, best revenge is living well.

>>735637502
>
Elliot died from neurosis overload, if he'd have tried meditating or something and got over it he'd be fine now.

>>735632580

Dont list to this guy. You dont announce sex.... i ruines the moment. You just start kissing her. Then kiss her neck then wild kissing then strip down and fuck dat biatch

>>735637502

Elliot was a joke. He had no excuses except for being such a closeted faggot that he failed to realise it himself

I'm not mad at people who get laid and I'll never stoop that low

>>735637502
back to your containment board

>>735637367
>23

>>735635894
Don't know bro, I would like to have someone to hold at night, I would fight for her with all I have so I guess she will be happy with me, in fact I have had three different girls interested in me and they was my kinda girlfriends and the funny thing is that they always asked me how I never had a girlfriend but in the end they get bored of me and leave. Now I'm all alone again

I wanna see.some virgin dicks. Snapchat: disneythrills

>>735637502
Said the fbi

>>735637502
>Goes and knocks on the door of a co-ed early in the morning
>Cute girls inside dont answer because theyre too tired and cozy with a belly full of Chad's cum
>He gives up and goes and kills a few harmless lonely people walking their dogs

Elliot is a disgrace.

>>735637626
nice platitudes

not a virgin, but i was 23 the first and only times i had sex and that was 10 years ago.

doesn't bother me. jacking off is sufficient.

>>735637626
My standards are just stupidly high and I'll instantly reject any girl who shows too much interest in me, not enough interest in me, tells other people they like me or pisses me off in any way.

I've laughed at girls who basically begged to smash because desperate whores are a massive turnoff.

>>735636863

I'm a virgin but I have made out with a girl in my early teens. It was awesome

She also straddled me and rode me (we had clothes on) and I had a magnificent boner


How fucking autistic do you have to be not to enjoy kissing and getting blown? Was she really fat or ugly? Sorry I don't get it

>>735636697
HOLY SHIT MY HIGH SCHOOL

24 years old kissless virgin here. Im a fun guy, very smart, nice and not that ugly. But i weight over 400 lbs and I am to fucking lazy to work out, sometime i think that killing myself would be easier than work out.

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>>735638195

>>735624393
That's a nice coot

>>735638486
Get yourself on Couch to 5K my dude, even if you still eat everything you can get the ball rolling with C25K

>>735625752
extremely relatable

>>735638599
what is that? also nice dubs

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>>735638486
This is nice bait

>>735638486

>not that ugly
>weigh over 400lbs

wat

Anyway I'd give it a fucking serious shot if I were you. If you're smart and fun you're pretty much set. All you need is to lose a little weight each week. Don't go full salad retard diet right away, just make sure you lose a little bit at a time. I'm naturally skinny, can't gain a fucking ounce but I wish I was smart and funny

>>735638486
Take up nicotine. You're an extreme case so it's ok.

>>735638730
Check em. It's a running program that starts slow as fuck i.e. run for 60 seconds, walk for 2 mins. There's a few apps; download, listen to music, get shred.

>>735638486
A clean diet is more important than working out to lose weight. Exercise is important for overall health, but won't have as much of an impact on your weight. What you need to do is pay attention to how many calories you're eating. Figure out your "maintenance" amount. That's simply how much you would need to eat to remain at your current weight, then subtract 500 calories from that amount. That's how much you should be eating. Re-calculate that number as you lose weight.

Also ignore >>735638599
At your weight, running is not a good idea. Too much strain on your knees and ankles. You'd be better off on an elliptical machine or stationary bike. Swimming would be even better.

>>735638780
well im not that ugly meaning that my face is pretty, i dont have a fat ugly face. but my body is disgusting. my real problem is my laziness, i know that i could loose my weight easily because i am still kinda in shape even if i weight 400 lbs. but im too fucking lazy to move my fat ass

>>735638815
already a smoker

>>735639073
ok ill check it out. if it starts very slow i could do it

>lost virginity at age 20
>she was virgin, 19
>sex was boring
>am 22 now
>Don't know why virginity is big deal
>been with one other girls since
>she a freak
>shit is cash

>>735631490
Was lurking on the thread, read this post, really made sense to me. Thanks for the advice, mate!

>>735639167
thanks for the advice anon. i already started eating less, and i see some result but its very slow.

Eh.

21. Not a virgin but haven't had sex in a couple years. May as well be a virgin.

>>735633738
actually end ur life. if this isnt bait u fucked with how someone will grow as a person.

>>735639547
It will be slow. Losing 2lb per week is widely regarded as a safe amount, but if you're over 400, you could probably go up to 3-4lb per week safely, at least for the first 100-200lb

One of the saddest (not pathetic) threads ive seen in a long ass time.

>>735639983
>saddest (not pathetic)
why not both

>>735639983
>>735639983
/b/

>>735638486
23. Right under 500 pounds. Virgin done some stuff just not sex. Started my diet today. Stay strong my chubby brother

>>735624393
>21

Reality: anyone here, i hope for the most part, can hire a prostitute and just wear a condom while fucking, so if thats all it takes to lose your virginity then i dont really see why its so important.


I think the hardest thing for guys today is just neccessitating girls in their life. Its like an entirely different ball game when youre trying to turn up the heat. I try to treat girls like my friends instead of just getting straight to it, but the only girls that want to get physical are the ones that want you to be super flirty and edgy.

Maybe one day ill give it up to someone i have a deeper connection with, im just not the type to blatantly flirt.

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>>735640783
>chubby

You must be related to the fucking Michelin man

>>735624393
22;0%

>>735640783
right under 500 pounds...

chubby

lmao

25
Starting to think I'm autistic. Might see a therapist

M 20 kind of a lot

>>735624393
26 here

doesn't bother me much at all. The lack of companionship bothers me, but women are shit at companionship anyway

>>735624531
GOD DAMNIT. Right in the feels. I thought I was browsing /b/ and not /r9k/. Too real for me right now.

>>735624393
17, virgin

>>735641847
>Underage
>B&

>>735624393
Yeah 24 and counting.

I've had multiple opportunities in life to get in a relationship and/or lose my virginity but never took it because I never felt good enough to be with any girl so I put it off and said maybe in the future when I get my shit together but never worked towards that either.

It doesn't bother me necessarily but on the other hand I would never admit it to anyone else so I suppose I am embarrassed by it to some extent.

I am very much aware that my current position is entirely my fault and harbor no resentment or awkwardness towards women. I can talk to anyone pretty easily despite isolating myself more and more over the past few years.

But if it happens it happens. And if it doesn't I don't really care either. But that may be part of the problem too as I'm not really making steps towards any sort of normalcy any time soon.

>>735640783
i feel you bro. we can do it>>735640783

>>735628191
I was a virgin till 21, 17-21ish is generally where like 85% of guys lose it imo because guys generally fuck girls younger them then.

For example when I was 18 I only really went after girls 16-18 but now I'm 23 I'll go for girls 17-23.

It was also only really the turbo sluts at my school that were fucking guys before the age of 16

>>735641956
pathetic cuck

>>735642266
I know :) it makes me very horny

>>735625352
your entire life has revolved around serving women

they better be fucking gratefull

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>>735642328

Just gonna drop by and tell all of you to get to Thailand. If you're white with a western passport, you can get a job there teaching English, and trust me, you WILL find a girlfriend and get laid. There's also plenty of hookers too.

>>735642439
>Thailand
>"girlfriend"

>>735642328
>I know :) it makes me very horny

lol you do you, bro.

>>735625352
If this is true, then you have my respect man.

>>735642439
not a girlfriend that will love you tho

>>735624393
Am virgin and personally don't care too much about the status. Only time I care is when I conversate with my buds and all they want to do is talk about sex and girls. I would like to save it until marriage tbh.

I lost my virginity at 18 and im now 20, only have had sex with 3 girls, the first 2 were just fuck buddies i didn't have feels for, just busted and dipped out. I enjoyed it but now i have a gf that I care about and love. I can honestly say that this is the happiest ive been, I do miss the kum and go thing but sleeping and waking up to your best friend in the morning after destroying her pussy is awesome.

>>735642543

Like I said, there's plenty of hookers out there, but there's also normal girls who WILL be interested in you.

Yes, part of that is going to be because you're earning a decent salary for the country, but let's not act like that isn't a huge deal for western women too. Bottom line is, you'll be living in your own apartment, in control of your own life, and you'll be getting laid. Doesn't that beat jacking off in your parents house?

>>735642694

Depends. If you spend all your time in Nana Plaza then likely not. If you search out normal chicks then it's possible to find love, same as anywhere.

>>735642730
why the fuck are you on 4chan if you want to save yourself for marriage lmao

>>735642439
>have a friend that went into the military after school
>gets stationed somewhere in the Pacific and they end up going to Thailand for shore leave
>He's telling us all these crazy stories about underage prostitutes and blurry nights in town
>we're all laughing along, friends are all normies and pushing for the gritty details about how many he fucked
>He's 'reluctantly' telling us about all the tight Thai pussy he got
>I ask how many of them had a dick
>Normie friends just laugh
>Marine friend goes dead silent and clenches his jaw

And that's how I found out he was a faggot

>>735643000
Why can't I be on 4chan? I just like to lurk before I go to bed.

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The thing is, even if I weren't a walking talking skeleton with bones made of spaghetti and a heart made of ravioli, I'm still too damn lazy to go outside and talk to people. I have no hobbies, and no friends. I'm content to sit in my room in the dark all day and shitpost on discord and browser r9k.

I'm 19 and still virgin, but it doesn't bother me. I tell myself I like to be alone. Most of the time I believe me.

>>735624393
https://discord.
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gg/7rU9JYm

>>735643173
shit ton of porn and bad stuff for religious ppl hahah none of my business my bad lmao

>>735643196
Are you in hawaii?

>>735624393
>made me respect women less and less.

Funny, for me it did the same but in the sense that it removed the pussy from the pedestal, so to speak. We're all just bags of meat that looks good in certain lights. We all poop man.

Took off the edge and helped me speak and socialize with women.

>>735632815
I like the way you live

>>735643107

You only find girls with dicks if you actively go out looking for them.

I'm just putting it out there for any virgins here who don't wanna be virgins (which is pretty much everyone, in spite of their protests to the contrary). Unless your career is shit hot back in the west (it aint, otherwise you'd be getting laid) then consider going to Thailand for a year or two. Or Vietnam. Or China. The women are a LOT easier, it's honestly like night and day. You're the prize over there and the women will chase you, over in the west it's the other way round.

>>735643173
Because if you're fapping then you're not celibate. I mean what're you gonna do when your wife goes to check your penile hymen?

>>735642851
Have a nice time fucking ladyboys lmao

>>735624393
https://strawpoll.com/9a7baas

>>735624393
Much older, it bothers me quite a lot.

>>735635987
Hey soon to be wizard. I became one last month.

Welcome

>>735643367
Never said I was too religious. I just believe if I want a virgin wife I should abstain as well. Plus lust is men's weakest point. I would not like to be a victim of the devil's black magic.
>buddy brought over a friend for me to lose my virginity on
>white chick, early 20's alright body
>they bought me a cheap gas station condom
>rented a motel temporarily
>they stayed in the bathroom drinking while Iw as supposed to have fun
>talked to her instead while cuddling...

>>735636184
How did you address this to get therapy/what type of therapy did you do? I'm nearly 28 and on the same track due to bad anxiety in social settings, poor self esteem and general introversion.

Sometimes I wish I had a harder time finding sex. I would have better grades and more money... Plus virgins are usually sad but you dont have to worry about losing something that know was all you hadl

One of my close friends, she's a total qt and she would be down to fuck. She always shows signs thats she interested. Like asking me out to dinner, in a group setting she always stands/sits real close to me almost too close, laughs at my shit jokes. She does little things like play with her hair, touching me, touching herself when we talk. she cuddled up with me a few weeks ago.

Her and I have done shit before, months ago. We recently started hanging/talking again after she begged me to take her back. I'm so fucked up in the head that I can't see myself being intimate with someone, I can't see myself having actual full blown sex.

One time we were talking about sex and my virginity. Basically I was told her how badly I wanted to fuck her, not in those exact words. Her response was good things come to those who wait then she gave me a kiss. I have been "in there" for months but here I am, still a virgin.

>if I didnt have shit self esteem I'd be banging her right now

>>735643452
Vietnam and Thailand sure but good fucking luck in China unless you're going for a whore. All worthwhile Chinese girls either move to the States for education or won't go near your ass because of the rampant xenophobia. It's the same reason why weebs think they can go to Japan and drown in pussy then live an even more isolated life with everyone making fun of them in a foreign language.

If a Chinese girl is chasing you she's after your money not your dick.

>>735642439

No, you will either get
A. mugged by thai pimps
B. trapped
C. hooked up with a golddigging thai whore who will pretend to love you for a while then try to split with half, or just split with whatever she can find in your house

If does bother you, go buy yourself a 10/10 bitch. No joke. First time experience with a (gorgeous) pro will 'open' your judgement to sex and you will not be defaulted to lesser, waste-of-time bitches. First sex is fucking boring. 3rd year of fucking and then I really knew what I liked, how to get the women, seduce, what to wear, etc. Then, if you're no too old. Try to pop the cherry of a 18 o + virgin. Buying bitches is better (more quality of the bitch), cheaper and saves time. Although, you have to save and invest.

34, 9 years celibate. Got tired of one nighters with roasties. A couple of good ones early on that I tossed away not wanting to settle down, stupid me.

I'm a virgin, and now suddenly got a date on both Wednesday and Saturday with two different girls I met through Tinder. Already have phone sex with both, and exchanged nudes and stuff over Snapchat.

Shitting myself. Feel a bit weird too. I'm pretty overweight, they've seen upper body pictures and apparently don't really care but perhaps I look worse in real life. Got a shit dick too, only about 4.5 inches hard and pretty thin. Hoping they'll go easy on me, neither know I'm a virgin either.

It bothers me and doesn't. Sex is accessible but I'm not with the headaches that come after. I grew up watching everyone get cheated on and even have friends paying child support. Plus the men are demons atmosphere turns me off to the idea of a relationship.