Femanon here Why is sex so much better when I cheat on my boyfriend?

>>735165616

Acute Whoredom

>>735165616
not buying the boyfriend part. the rest is just not interesting

When women are given rights

This is a symptom of childhood molestation

>psychological condition

u a whore, that's all

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>>735165960
This.

Your behavior is exactly why having sex with a girl under 16 is illegal. When girls have sex too young the become very promiscuous adults for this very reason.

>>735165616
that's because you're a whore

>>735165616
tits or gtfo

because sex with your boyfriend is safe and plain and the excitement of cheating is what turns you on. you need to find a way to make sex with your boyfriend more thrilling. sex in public, make a sextape, take control with bondage, something like that. this is most likely going to be a lifetime issue for you when it comes to sex with a committed partner.

there are multiple psychological possibilities for why you are predisposed to this sexual proclivity

some reasons this could be a result of

>fear of commitment
>reliving childhood trauma centered around neglect
>early sexual experiences that involved being in danger of negative consequences if you are caught
>partner is subjectively mechanically unsatisfactory for you when considering sex
>low self esteem resulting in self destruction

the above are a few possibilities, you could seek psychological council and try to condition yourself against this proclivity if that is appealing to you

>>735166126
>for this very reason


For having been abused? What about abuse causes this?

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>>735165892

Stop, this is the only appropriate reply thus far: >>735167228

>>735167488
>>735167228

Not summerfags

>>735167409
your mind could hav adapted to thinking that something you know is wrong, is actually right. not meaning that if you were mollested that you think it is right specifically, but that things typically looked at as wrong are what your mind likes sexually. that doesnt mean you dont love your boyfriend or that you arent attracted to him, it just means as i said before, that hes safe and normal.

You know the rules

>>735165616
Femanon here, it disgusts me to read this. You disgust me. I would not even think of cheating on my boyfriend, we have an inctedible relationship. you need to break up with your bf before you cheat or dont even get into the relationship in the first place you sick cunt

>>735167650
Go back to tumblr Dr.Phil

This is the correct answer newfag: >>735167228

>>735165616
It's instincts, you fuck a guy and commit with him yet he does not make you pregnant and thus your instincts start to influence how you perceive this failure and long for the allure of a new mate whom your body hopes will not disappoint like the rest.

>>735167488
Dubs speaks the truth

You're a woman. Nobody cares if you cum.

>>735167938
not even herself.
They like being left horny and they like being used sexually.

>>735165616
Just kys.

>>735167761
and yet you are wrong. in your mind she digusts you because what she does is outside of your ideals and you consider it nasty whorish behavior. but you arent the only one with ideals. you are on b which means you are looking at nude pics of random people at some point while you are on here, to some people, looking at other people nude constitutes cheating and would make you a whore. and yet our simple mindedness can not handle the truth of this information and so you will rant, rave and cuss about your beliefs some more below my post

>>735165616
Pretty sure it's called being a worthless bitch.
Might as well stop dating and start bar hopping like the slimy bitch you are. Let your outer match your inner.

>>735168243
>Implying this isn't a philosophical thread and the OP isn't simply just a hook to get attention
KYS

>>735168322
It's about the principle.

>>735165616
Hi femanon,

I'm currently finishing my doctoral thesis on human behaviour and psychological root therapy. Although my specialism focusses on a somewhat different area, I can perhaps address the problem from the perspective of an anecdote of sorts. Perhaps it may shed some light on things for you.

>There was a young woman, confident in herself and attractive
>In spring she would be happiest.
>Then one day she realised she had power over men.
>Soon she began to use this power
>Openly flirting with men, often considerably older.
>Running or jogging through the park, the men would focus on her.
>Groups of men sometimes whistling appreciatively
>Each time, her ego would grow a little
>There was one man she really liked though
>Taking a chance, she approached him
>He welcomed her, flirted a little
>Every other man was jealous
>Fortunately, this man wasn't dissuaded.
>Under the pretext of a date, he took her home
>Cautiously, he moved in for the kiss
>Kissing and hugging quickly became fondling
>Opening her legs, he moved downwards
>Until this point she had been a virgin
>Truly now, she was a woman.

I hope that helped, and remember - read the first letter of every line for further clarification.
Good luck!

>>735165616
Because there is nothing exciting about being in a monogamous relationship. Fucking the same person goes against the natural order. Keep fucking until you find that magic dick or decide to settle for comfort instead of excitement.

>>735168471
qft

>>735165616
Your evolutionary program wants you to find a partner that provides you with food, ptrotection etc. and who you can control. This in turn makes you less likely to orgasm and in turn, less likely to get impregnated by him.

Your evolutionary program wants you to cheat on your partner with a high status male that you cannot control which makes it more likely for you to orgasm and in turn, get impregnated by him.

Then the cuck, believing it is his, raises and provides for you child.

That's female sexuality in a nutshell.

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>>735168271
It sounds like those are your morals, and yes youre right, i am on /b/ looking at naked sexy women, and i dont consider cheating and neither does my boyfriend. He has told me many times for me to look at nudes. It turns him on. And yes, that is considered cheating for lots of couples, but like i said before we have a great relationship and communicate well. And sex well.

>>735165616
My daughter has the same tattoo. What does it mean? I thought it was political.

>>735165616
Probably a fictitious post but the reality of the matter is the sex with anyone dries up after a while. It's the reason married couples or even people dating for several years tend not to fuck much.

Usually, orgasms are best and strongest when the sex is a bit wrong and extra dirty. It sort of shocks you into orgasm.

You gradually have to increase the kink level within any relationship for sex to remain interesting. And sex is always at its best when the relationship is new.

Though if you're going to do what you do, I'd make sure you bring your bf on board. Lots of cucks around these days.... but it's pretty shitty and unfair to be cheating on someone who'd be devastated by it.

You're best off in genuine cuck relationships with guys who're cool with that or just having friends with benefits scenarios.

>>735169006
nope they are not my morals. the post was supposed to make you realize that you are not the only one that has beliefs, morals, ideals or whatever other synonymous descriptor you would like to use. The point was also to make you consider that perhaps pondering over someone elses dilemma before berating with your ideals might be more helpful, which is what this person is on here for in the first place, Help.

>>735168454
Nice advice doc, never thought of it that way before.

>>735169444
Idk, having your own problems or havig a shit childhood shouldnt justify you cheating though.

>>735165616
Fuck you you're a cunt, stop screwing over men you dumb whore.

>>735168454
11/10 top kek

>>735169795
you ate so much bait you might need to go to a hospital

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>>735169700
it isnt about justification, it is about understanding that not everyone is you or me. everyones perception is different. it is driven by many different factors. family life is the biggest factor and traumatic events plays a very close second. the mind is fragile and a bad childhood, particularly one that invokes abuse and molestation can cause the mind to function differently than ours who grew up with none of those problems. when those boundaries are crossed, the confused childs mind to cope in some way. whatever method of coping the mind uses becomes normal for the kid instead of wrong. if the issue is not caught soon enough then the damage done to the mind is nearly impossible to fix.

>>735165616
I'm the same way with my gf and my side girls. The orgasms I have with my gf are just ok, but the ones I have when I'm cheating are fucking mind blowing.

you's a hoe (HOE!)
you's a hoe (HOE!)

>>735167761
I applaud that girls like you still exist. Fucking hate "modern" society. Wish you a great life (not ironic).

>>735170145
and this girl wants to fix her problem which brought her here to ask for help. assuming this isnt just a bait thread. and so we get to choose to help or hinder her. shaming the girl is not helpful, that is the kind of thing that makes people commit suicide. making people feel alone in the world is a horrible thing to do, and yes that is one of my ideals.

>>735167761
Post your tits.

>>735169444
Yeah, great platform to search for help. seek mental help

>>735170303
>slut shaming
Fuck off back to tumblr, stupid cunt.

>>735165616
Maybe you don't love him and your relationship is built off of lust? After all sex is for a married man and woman and you become one with them.

>>735167761
Tits or gtfo.

>>735165616
Its called being a whore.

>>735170145
Laissez-faire is the doom of our generation. It has been proven time and time again. Just look at the supreme gentleman or for example Hendrik Möbus, liberal upbringing, all the freedoms he had. Killed a human being. Strange that it's almost the ones you wouldn't expect it from.

>>735170355
yes i agree this is a horrible platform for people to use for help. this sight is 95% horrible people who just want to make people feel worse than they do.

>>735165616
Hope one of your boyfriends grows some balls and murders you. You deserve it.

>>735165616
Yeah it's a brain deficiency called "you're a whore"

>>735165616
I think just the expectations of excitement and uncertainty got ya.
Boyfriends show stability and certainty. That aint exciting.
Fuck a rando or sneak around bf, now we are talking.
Kinda sad, not everytime should be thrill seeking. Maybe need to talk it out on not a shitposting forum

>>735170485
I also agree the the laissez-faire attitude of this generation as detrimental, I believe that their callousness is actually their doom.

>>735165892
Sounds more like a chronic issue

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>>735170581
Goddamn get the fuck off this site normie. Do you think this is a safespace? How did you even come to this place? GTFO

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>>735170977
I got 3 doubles in a row you nigger. Kek proves me right.

>>735170977
of course i dont think this is a safe space. I think the quote you used pretty much summed that up. But just because you act like the other 95% doesnt mean I have to have that same trait to be here.

>>735166126
Hate to break it to you, but 99% of girls grow up to become very promiscuous adults, anon. Yes, even that goody goody girl-next-door innocent angel. Promiscuity is a mindset, not just a physical action. The difference is that girls who didn't have sex at a young age are much more afraid, shy, or guilt-ridden to act on it openly. So they do it secretly. Or they masturbate furiously to the thought of being able to do it more openly. They still possess the same urge and mentality that a whore possesses. They've just been conditioned to keep it a secret. The more irresistibly attractive the guy is, though, the more likely she'll indulge her urges regardless of morals.

I'd rather date and be cucked by open, admitted slut than to ever date an innocent good girl who'll leave me in shock when I find out she's secretly into bareback BBC gangbangs with gang-affiliated thugs.

>>735165616
Fatness everyone, Fatness..who u trying to fool human waste?

>>735165616
If someone hasn't pointed this out to you already you crave excitement and discovery. Treading over old territory leaves you feeling hollow.

I would hate to fall in love with a woman like you.