/b/ I need your help. I'm a 20 yr med student who accidentally met a 15 yr old girl on omegle a year ago. first thing she said was "I'm going to kill myself tonight". at first I thought it was another troll but I went with it anyways, I found out later that it is actually legit and she is about to kill herself. so I, strangely, started talking to her and getting to know her, maybe because I have always wanted to be a psychiatrist and that's why I decided going to med school despite my hate for it. so I started talking to her that night and eventually talked her out of it, turned out she was a depressed lonely girl with no one to talk to. she was shy and very introvert, she didn't have much friends and she hated men. and we started talking almost everyday, little did I know she had begun to get attached to me and she would cry if we didn't talk for a day. I won't lie, I kinda liked it. but then she told me that she loves me now and I started to feel guilty because I didn't have any mutual feeling for her, except that deep inside, for some odd reason I cared about her and I wanted to stay with her until she finds someone. but that did't go well, after a couple of months I started having feelings for her also, but I couldn't ask her for a relationship because you know we are 3000 miles away from each other. so eventually I asked her to be my girlfriend and she happily said yes and that she will wait for me. now the problem is that we would have to wait for 4 years. and my concerns are, I really love her no doubt and she really loves me, she tried killing herself several times when I tried to leave. I want to know your opinion, do you thinks this will work? do you think she is too young for this and her thoughts and feelings may change later on? what should I do, now that leaving is almost impossible because we are too bonded to each other, and staying is a torture because I live in a constant fear of getting betrayed and cheated because I have serious trust issue.
>>734207456 well as i said leaving is almost impossible, not only because i will have to live with the guilt of killing herself for the rest of my life but also because i love her and i don't see myself in any serious relationships with anyone if this didn't work, i don't trust women and i have almost lost every belief in love, this is all i have left with now,
>>734207317 well, she's 16 now so at least she's legal everywhere civilized, so no issues there now for the rest, either you'll have to wait two years for her to finish high school and move to a school near you or you finishing med school and moving in near her (but that'd take longer, right?) anyway, summer holidays are near, go visit her and see how that works in person
>>734208861 Being an English teacher. And if this didn't work out i think it'll have a great impact on her life, just as she stated she wouldn't be able to get into another relationship, i mean I've diagnosed her and i think she may have dependant personality disorder and she will always need someone by her side to fill my empty space if i left. But i don't think she would fall in love again, and I'm sure about that for me also.
>>734207317 Tell her that she'll need professional help and that you'll leave her if she doesn't agree to get any. Maybe the psychiatrist might help her, however small that chance might be. Or mabye he'll just drug her. Anyways, either she gets better or she'll become numb and who knows what happens. Couldn't get any worse than it is now though, right?
>>734210419 bullshit. shrinks will just drug her, she'll be sad and lonely, but maybe too sedated to understand it
on the other side, OP can just go on and make her happy (even if the first few years are a bit rough because of the distance) and they'll live a fine life (unless he cheats on her, but with his issues that seems unlikely)
bail out of it OP, its either she breaks up with you because she found some guy at her school to give her a dicking and you feel like shit about it and always think about it or you drop her and live happier without a burden
>>734214673 >>734214673 yeah that had been my concern since the beginning because of my issues and I had tested her, she hates boys honestly. sure she likes attention just like any other teenage girls but before we met she thought she was asexual, the thing is this one is different and thats why i'm willing to be with her.
I am pretty sure she's not worth it. Too far, almost 5000 km away for what? You never met her in person, this is the biggest problem. Giving up your time and money to meet someone you don't even know properly is stupid idea.
Think with your brain, not with your /d/, if you want to make a decision, wank off and think about it again.
>>734207317 How the fuck are you in med school and you can't grammar for shit? I mean, I don't claim to be the best communicator, in fact I'm told I fuckin cuss too much and I have a penchant for rambling, which is neither here nor there but the fuckin shit that pisses me off is how a dumb nigger like you with shitty grammar who can't figure out the morality of wanting to stick his nigger dick in an underage slag gets to go to med school. Fuck your stupid ugly face faggot, and kill yourself.
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