oldfags i really need your help, i'm a 21 yo virgin, i don't

They're into you? Just fuck them lol

>>734001814
How do i initiate that?

Bumping again

>>734001541
'I'm really fucking depressed'. Work on that first, then the women will come.

>>734002067
I'm depressed because i don't fucking do anything with those women

>>734002097
You won't get depressed from that.. Anyway, go see a psychologist. There's no magic trick to make you a chick magnet. You obviously have other problems that are withholding you.

>>734002365
They already like me, problem is i can't seem to get sexual or anywhere else other than waiting too long and ending up in the friendzone, how do i show them i want them too?

>>734002474
Fuck her

>>734002474
Exterminate that delicious asshole soldier

Any physical touch when you're talking to a girl you like will work wonders. A hand on the back of shoulder, show her some stupid funny video on your phone, but make physical contact with her. Stay close when you both watch it. Shit like that will break the personal barrier between you. And stop being so nervous and make a move, make time to be alone then go for it. Anything to let her know you want to eventually stick your dick in her.

>>734002681
I high five them if that counts?

>>734002752
Not OP
>>734002681
Thanks man, i barely get physical with girls, might be my main problem..

>>734002460
Just do the same things she's doing. Say nice things, compliment her and tell her what you like about her. Flirting is a social skill that has to be trained just like any other skill.

Just be honest. Girls love guys who are honest with their feelings. Tell her that you like her, but that you find it hard to express your feelings.

>>734002782
3 date rule. Reach date you make some physical touch where date 3 your balls deep.

>>734002752
This is OP

>>734002954
Lost hard

>>734002904
Almost act like a mirror in that way. It will show her that your both in tune

>>734003031
>>734002954
samefag

get touchy at an early stage, so it wont be awkward when you're going for the kiss. sit close to her, hand on her knees, on her shoulder, massage her etc... that kind of stuff.

when there is a good moment, lock her deep in the eyes, then at her lips and in her eyes again. then go in for the kiss. not to fast obviously, you are not trying to surprise her. has worked for me.

after that, just go with the flow.

If you're interested in the girl, just tell here. Tell her you like here, tell her you're interested... Just be clear about it. If she's really into you, she'll be glad you told her and you both move on from there. If not, you misread her, no harm done

>>734003214
How do i touch her in a non awkward way when we're face to face, or in a group for example?

>>734003275
I swear there was a thread about this a while ago

>>734003237
This, just bee urself :^)
Keep in mind this doesn't work if you're in high-school, you'll just get made fun of.

>>734003275
Something becomes awkward once it comes across as a result of insecurity. In other words: when you start over thinking your behavior, it'll be noticeable to others.

Insecurity in new situations is normal. You'll be constantly judging your actions, because you aren't used to the setting. If you feel like this all the time, see a psychologist. You might be socially anxious.

its tricky in a group setting, thats for moments, where you two are talking alone. try to sit down next to her instead of facing her.

forgot about eye contact, girls love that. make her look away first every now and then.

>>734003724
>forgot about eye contact, girls love that. make her look away first every now and then.

I don't get this, just look her dead in the eye confidently?

The best thing you could ever do for yourself is get off of 4chan. You'd be surprised how much your life can change.

>>734003878
Then why are you here?

>>734003878
>he said, sitting in front of 4chan on b

>>734003935
lol finely sprinkled on toast

>>734002000
> Take them out
> Drink little (really little, so even she wants more)
> Offer her to drink the last at home
> She accepts = She wants to bang (try to have some fancy liquor at home)
> She declines = Try to kiss her
> You kiss her = Probably next time you can bang her
> She pulls a kobra on you = Stop losing time with the bitch

I always apply this algorithm, saves lots of time.

Read models by Mark Manson

It's easy to find and download online

>>734001541
When I was a teenager, I slept around a bit. What worked for me was being funny and being generous for hugs.
*note when I say generous with hugs I don't mean all the fucking time or not letting go. that shits creepy as fuck*

Tell her you think she's cute or some shit.
As for the virgin thing, some girls actually like that. You just have to have confidence.

>>734003856
did not say that. just look her in the eyes when you talk instead of looking around too much. every now and then you can hold eye contact until she looks away. trust me, girls get wet over shit like this. probably because its a sign of confidence and dominance.

do it naturally obviously, if you cant keep decent eye contact with people at all, then practice.

If youre alone with her and you know she's into but you're too gay to make a move come up with something like a bet. For instance say "let's try to guess how much the bill will be" "ok anon " "ok cool but what does the winner get?" "um idk anon teehee" "I know! If I'm closer I get to kiss you tonight" she blushed and gets instant wet.

Or if your hanging with friends and you know shes into you ask her to do something like go for a walk or duck out to a different bar or whatever. When she asks why say so you can get her alone. Why anon teehee? "So I can kiss you ya silly Goose" she blushes and gets insta wet

>>734004499
You just hug girls for no reason?
When would you hug a girl? when you find out she like the same things you do? or what?

>>734004557
so i should hold eye contact until she feels uncomfortable, got it thanks.

>>734004431
Looks like bullshit to me, care to tell us about your experiences with the book?
Really helped you?

>>734004774
Petty much. sometimes offered them randomly, sometimes had a reason. Bitches apparently love hugs.
Asked a fuck buddy why she was down to fuck and her answer was, "You give great hugs"

Seemed odd to me but pussy.. so I didn't complain

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>>734003878
Words to live by

>>734005031
I'm skinny so hugging might hurt them lol

>>734004853
but dont over do it, you dont want to seem like a creepy weirdo

>>734004365
also this. drinks are always a good idea.

>>734005031
what ever works for you, but the only guys i know that are constantly trying to hug girls are gays lol

>>734005321
same

>>734005321
>>734005350
true but girls love gays

>>734005077
I'm skinny too. trick is to be firm. You want them to know they're being hugged, but you don't wanna crush them.

If you're not tying to be a whore and just get a gf, hang out with her a couple times and then offer hugs when you meet up.

Again, you don't wanna do it too much, just enough to suggest you like being close to her.

>>734005409
But girls don't sleep with gays

>>734005321
Maybe that's why it worked? I wasn't afraid to be seen hugging in public and I DID want to fuck them. I dunno man, bitches are crazy.

>>734005460
in my experience they do (or try to) because it's a challenge and also they can feel safer

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>>734001541
Go for the fat ugly ones anon, they'll be thankful, you level up your bf skills then upgrade

>>734005872
But 8/10 girls are into me :(

>>734005564
im all for hugging when first seeing her and when im about to leave (and havent kissed her yet)

Oldfag here. Ima give u the best advice u ever had. U are 21 man. Stop bein a little bitch and go get fuck the shit out of these bitches. That is your mission. Get it done

>>734005872
What a strange picture. 2/10 would bang?

>>734006115
Yes, help me tho.

>>734006161
It's weird because the contour and the shape of the girl are good, but everything else is a no.
It's like the engine of a Ford Fiesta in the chassis of a Lamborgini.

>>734005913
But clearly you're not ready for them.

Believe me if a girl is ugly or at least has some fault and you feel you are doing a favour, it will mean you act with cool and confidence.

Then you just need to do the same with girls who actually attract you. The problem is it's a lot harder to keep one's cool in that situation

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>>734001541
It's true watches at $ 0?

>>734006414
kek

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>>734006544
She's a prostitute tho

>>734006544
When I think a girl is going to say no to me, I look at this pic and gather infinite courage.

>>734006331
I think its that she is so terrible looking, and yet so clearly sure that she's sexually enticing. Its not like she has confidence or anything, more like an innocence to everything that men would like. It's odd.

>>734001541
Hang out and dont be nervous.

Honest to God, if there is mutual interest and you dont sperg out shit just kind of happens on its own. Theres an instinct involved. You literally dont have to do shit except not freak out..

>you dont have to do anything

Kind of helps if you find little reasons to casually touch her. Rub her arm.when you say hello, touch the small of her back as you open a door for her, tension building stuff.

But seriously, nature got you covered.

>>734001541
you're depressed because you haven't put your penis in a vagina... lol

there are better things to get worked up about

it's not a novel thing; a virgin over the age of 18
especially on 4chan

no one cares with yo first world ass
get over urself

>>734001541
dont be passive
let her know youre interested

>>734006544
>>734006750

do you know where i can find the rest of that series? i saw it many years ago, but it has since been lost.

>>734006828
So like when i see her after some time i should hug her, ask shit load of questions about her, show general interest and shit will happen on it's own basically?

>>734007205
There's more?

>>734006995
This

>>734001541
Confidence is the biggest factor, don't be a dick but definitely don't be a pushover. Alcohol is almost mandatory too for a new girl. I get where you're coming from though op and I think you're just working yourself up because you're a virgin and you're insecure about it. I was the same way but I dated this chick that I didn't like and lost my v card to her and the sex was awful, it gets better though just don't cling on to your first

>>734007263
in my opinion thats not often the case. you should actively work towards it. especially that you have to ask for advice here, is an indicator that you should.

I'm a 29 year old virgin, so my only advice is to not be me.

>>734007263
Pretty much. Had a long slow back rub to the hug. And recognize sexual tension. But if youre in each other's personal space, and its cool, and youre both diggin it, all it takes is eye contact and its off.

>>734008298
Damn i only talked to her twice or three times, a long hug with a rub might be a bit too awkward or really good, gotta take the chance.

>>734007263
You're risking that she tells you her fucking uninteresting life in prose.

>>734008530
How else do i get laid?
Gotta show some interest.

>>734008530
Lost

>>734008530
>in prose.

>>734008650
Showing some interest =/= trying to be her bff.
Seriously, if she's into you, you should be able to bang her in the 3 first dates.
If she isn't, most likely she'll never be.

>>734008802
I'm in my last year of high-school, met her a while ago, does going for a walk with her count as a date?

>>734001541
>Thinks 'oldfag' refers to age
>21 year old virgin
>Doesn't have the balls to get a girl who's clearly interested
I'd say killing yourself is the only remaining solution.

>>734008990
Thanks for helping me.

>>734004365
>Pickup algorithm for autists
I needed this in my life

>>734008802
Don't listen to this retard

>>734009150
>pickup for dummies

>>734008914
I don't think so. Still, she's already made up her mind about any possible relationships she might have or not with you, so my advice is just go for it. Three things can happen:
> 1. She was waiting for it: good
> 2. She tells you the classical 'just be friends': the same you have now, NOTHING
> 3. She actually never thought of you as a sexual partner: now she knows you are interested and you may obtain a response in the near future.

Game theory bro: doing shit is beneficial or at least not bad in the three cases.

Pro tip for shyness: practise the key convo in front of a mirror, that includes non-verbal communication.

>>734009222
>Trips confirm
Check'd

>>734001541
lol stop being a beta loser

>>734004606
>So I can kiss you ya silly goose
>Sides in orbit

>>734010478
lost hard

>>734010478
This works