>Tfw you've been in a 8 year long distance "relationship"

Also feels thread

>>733459441
You are probably her emotional outlet, and she has another guy who is nothing but a dick for her to ride. The real problem isn't with her - its with you.

>>733459609
This, quit being a pussy and wasting your life OP. Man up

>>733459609
Honestly, that's what I've been thinking. When ever we talk, it's for a short amount of time unlike how it used to be. And we normally talk about how she's feeling, so yeah..

>>733459688
Well..it's kinda hard to do that when you've grown up not really knowing how it feels to be wanted or cared about. But I do see what you mean. If you want, I can go into my past for why I'm this way.

>>733459821
Don't let your past shape who you are now, every single thing that has ever happened in the past no longer matters. Take control of your life now, if you really want to find happiness you will find it. Just don't wait, make a change.

>>733459441
post nudes

>>733459441

kys or man up faggot. both are fine, but if you end it leave me ur money

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>>733459441
8 fucking years, bro? After the first 3 months she already started sucking other dick on the side.

>>733459999
Nice quads

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>>733459999
I always deleted the nudes she sent me because I don't trust people around my phone, lel. But even if I had them still, I probably wouldn't give them to random on this site

>>733459441
If you assume that there is no hope, you guarantee that there will be no hope. If you assume that there is an instinct for freedom, that there are opportunities to change things, then there is a possibility that you can contribute to making a better world.

>>733460072
I'm not sure if a 13 year old would have been doing that. We were 13/12 when we first started this L-D relationship thing.

>>733460220
What this guy said except a little less gay.

>>733460153
>denying quads

abandon thread, op is faggot

creepily ironic , because also been in a 8 year online "relationship" . but cause i felt to bad to just end it . I've dated two guys and might get engaged . still ghosting the guy to this day he still thinks were together .

>>733460348
Lel, OK. I literally don't have the noods my doods.

>>733460354
Lel, post your initials and I'll know if its "you"

>>733460411
I'm starting to think you aren't here for advice, but for attention that you're craving.

>>733460220
Hmm...I'll keep these words close..or try to.

>>733460503
JH

>>733460262
Bro, 11 year olds are already fucking each other these days. What makes you think she hasn't had any side niggas to ride while you thinking about her before you go to bed? Hell she's probably getting railed as we speak.

>>733460514
No no, don't get me wrong. I do want the advice. It's just that I'm taking note of everything everyone's saying. I am paying attention to the advice, my dood

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>>733460577
You aren't them. Had me kinda wanting the relief..

hahahahaha faggot

stop being a pussy beta male and tell that bitch to fuck off, you could end this shit with a phone call, thats it. get yourself pissed drunk and tell her to catch this dick rn or im gonna skrrt out this bitch.

>>733460671
>Lel
>Dood
>Nood
how old are you? are you autistic? maybe that's why shes keeping u in the backburner.

>>733460584
Hmm. You're most likely right.

>>733460795
I'm 19.
Maybe.
And again, maybe.

Hey she was your emo crutch but check this. Your old enough now to forget about her. Go bust a but it helps. It won't cure you so much as show you how silly you been. Plenty of women out there who won't do this shit to you. Besides ltr should not exceed a year. E-v-e-R I never let my ol lady outta my sight more then a month.

>>733460791
Wish I could do that, I really do. Maybe I should do it though. Maybe it's give me more confidence as a young man.

>>733459441
Yeah you're fucked up and you've got problems, BUT-

Once you're free and start to actually grow up and move on, don't forget that it takes a very special kind of fucked up girl to act the way this bitch has, as well, stringing you along for all this time.

You are both at least as fucked up as the other.

>>733460816
So here's what you do. Cut off all contact, move on, stop being a faggot, start fucking random bitches, and stop being a faggot.
Thank me later.

>>733461023
I see....I really am grateful for all of.this advice. It is making me think about things that I should have been thinking about instead of being depressed about this dumb shit.

>>733460898
you've been LDR since 11?? what the fuck man?

alright here is what you do. man. the. fuck. up.
ask her if she's being honest with you. she may lie. but at least ask so you know and she knows that you are starting to take control.
ask her if she's been seeing any other guys in the past 8 years.
ask her if she's still a virgin.
ask her if she loves you.
take control, stop letting it go where she takes it.
YOU take control, be fucking alpha.
if you don't like her answers, or even if you do, i think it's time to let go.

>>733461027
Hmm...you're right..

have you met irl?
where do each of you live?

>>733461197
I'm honestly just afraid of the truth most likely. I'm not a guy who enjoys being lied to, but I kinda fear being told "yeah, it was all a game to me. I stopped 'caring' about you after a year". But.I do need to man up.

In kindergarten I met this one girl, I then moved. 2 years later facebook is just got better then myspace, decide to make one to play farmville and other shit tier video games while my brothers played WOW on the desktop. Add any class mates that have it and fam. Add this girl I had met before I moved. She becomes my first crush, we keep talking and when 5th grade comes around we became "bf and gf", the puberty came around and I ended it because I wanted a girlfriend that could suck dick not live 350 miles away. Instant regret, forgot she was my only friend after moving so much. We get back together and I non stop ask for nudes. She breaks up with me, gets real fucking angsty and emo. Starts dating some other emo kid, pisses me off but whatever, get her to send more lewd pics. Emo kid threatens to kill himself if she doesnt stop. She breaks up with him. Highschool is almost over we start talking again, end up going to same college. Start actually dating, gonna marry this chick pretty soon bois. Known this girl for 15+ years, only last few years ive been seeing her in person and its working out for me.

>>733461164
Dude I'm taking a shot for you she KILLED your teen years. The shit I did in middle school stays there. But your still young. Take your magnum dong and slip it into a few girls. Where's your fucking father! Mine kicked my ass every time I turned down a bitches NSA offer. Helped me get out there now I'm married with one in the oven. Autism can be cured with violence and indulgence.

>>733461369
We've obviously never met. She lives in the UK and I live in the US. I've honestly been at the point where I've just given up. We've made plans to meet in the past, but something always came up. Whether it was us not being able to save up money or something like finishing school was on the line.

>>733461642
do we know she's not a catfish

>>733461557
Yes...I do realize that she had basically taken my teen years away from me. My father had died when I was 8. So a father figure wasn't exactly around.other was a very...special kind of mother..abusive & mental.

>>733461642
No offense to the teabaggers but UK sluts are dull as fuck your better off dude.

>>733461824
She isn't. I settled that shit long before I actually told her I loved her.

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>>733459441
no trolling. just end it. it's scary but it'll be really good for you. it's harder to get over being a pathetic individual, but it's not too hard. simple stuff.
>work out/run
>focus on your job, advance
>join a group activity
>start online dating to fuck that pathetic smell off of you


pic related, it could be you

>>733459441
Was in a long distance relationship throughout high school and eventually moved in with her. No longer together. AMA OP

>>733459441
Mail her your poo.

>>733459999
Respect the quads OP

>>733461985
Not trying to change topic but that pic is very... Distracting?

>>733461860
That's my mum to a T :) I turnt out ok sort of. Dude hang out with guys IRL. It helps your group of bros will steer you in the directions that coincide with who you are.

>>733462141
Nignog, I literally don't have any nudes. I respect the quads, so I'll give you something else. I'm most likely gonna get in deep shit if my friend ever see's it.

>>733462160
she took the work out suggestion too far.

>>733462238
Kill yourself then. Time to abandon thread

>>733462238
what are you going to give in exchange for nudes? there is literally nothing you can give apart from ((((((THE STUFF)))))) but thats not legal here.

>>733462163
I have friends IRL. They are really good friends too...my first time making actual friends was when I was 15(btw). But I can ask them to help I guess

>>733462333
I have a friend who sent me a certain kind of video, lel. It isn't too explicit, but I polished me wood to it once or twice

>>733462238
Where are you at specifically? Let's see if we can get a surrogate father for you. Or even just a wing man.

>>733462469
I would tell you, but I'm kinda afraid of some weird shit happening if I give exact location out on the Chan. I live in Ohio though.

>>733459441
Stop depending on other people for your own happiness. If you're going "oh boohoo, i can only be happy if i think you like me" then you'll be annoying as fuck. Have a life of your own, don't leech onto someone expecting them to do all the work to make you happy

>>733462582
Nigger if they wanted to shove stuff up your but they would be smashing in your window already.

>>733462333
I'm uploading the file to Dropbox. I'll post a link when it's done uploading

>>733461452
stop.
how can you live like this?
truth is scary but anon it's better than living like this.
you need to ask her the important deep questions. you HAVE to. no excuses man. really... just do it.
btw which city is she in?

>>733462830
Eh...I'll give you more info. Why the hell not? I don't exactly live in Norwood Ohio. But I live close enough to it to walk there everyday. I'm always in norwood unless I need to sleep.

>>733462908
i asked where she is cuz i have a LDR in the UK too. wouldn't it be hilarious if they were the same person

>>733462908
She lives in Germany. I'm not gonna tell which city in Germany because I believe in some form of privacy, but yeah. Germany.

>>733459441
There are a lot of certified hymen checkers on /b/, just post her deets and we'll clear this right up

>>733463088
understandable.
i think you'll regret not taking charge later on.
otherwise gd luck with your 8 year ldr man. maybe you can make it to 10 years

>>733463000
Great what's your banking info?

Anon, get the fuck out of there.
You're wasting time i've been in a long distance relationship for a year and a half and the aftermath was hell when you figure out how deep this rabbit hole of men of hers goes... it's filled with nothing but complete lies and false hopes of anything to do with the future.

GET THE FUCK OUT I AM BEGGING YOU /B/RO

>>733463227
I see.. I'll honestly probably end it soon. I can't do 10 years of this.

>>733463358
Get your dick succed it brings clarity.

>>733463347
Most likely I will. Thank you for your concern..it honestly is really great to get a lot of input on this matter.

>>733463347
how'd you figure out the lies? did she tell you? or did you find out some other way

>>733463445
I've had that happen. Me and her stopped the long distance relationship thing for like a month before thinking it's better to just keep going. It was...eh? Nice?

>>733463601
If it was just 'ok' she didn't do it right find a bitch who will succ u so good a diamond ring falls out your dick. I recommend Texas or Vegas.

>>733463769
The girl was very experienced. It's just that I was thinking of things I didn't wanna think of at the time. So it just didn't really turn me on too much.

Btw, link for the quads respect isn't coming through. It keeps saying that the site thinks it's spam.

HAHAHAHAHAH YOU HAVE A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND CANT BREAK UP HAHAHAHAH

>>733463976
STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR WOMEN. THATS YOUR MAIN ISSUE.

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>>733464145
I did it once when I was younger. The only reason why I "got back" with her was because I felt bad about it. But now this shit has a hold on me. Literally like when Yoshikage Kira got grabbed by those crazy ass ghost hands in part 4 of jojo

>>733464282
Lel, I don't make excuses for anyone. I don't believe in doing that.

>>733463488
Through a friend of mine she tried reeling in, little did she know he was my friend in the first place

>>733464344
YOU CUNT WAS THIS ALL BAIT FOR YOUR GOD DAMN JOJO SHIT?

Been there, either end it or make it not long distance.

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>>733464523
Lucky you

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>>733464562
No. But here's more.

>>733459441
Hey I know it's contrary to what everyone's saying but look, reconsider both good and bad sides of the relationship. Have legit reason to believe she's cheated on you. Don't be just paranoid fuck.. Ask her directly. I've been in a LDR for 4 years and I've been in the same shit like you. Everything changed, I mean she was numb, didn't love me the way she did before, didn't give me equal attention. And i suspected that she got another man beside me just like you do. But actually she was just dealing with her own mental issues and wasn't so open anymore. If you're not going to sink it then fucking try to meet her in person. It's obvious it gets repetitive and boring after 8 years but in person you could feel again the same like in the beginning of the relationship. If she still won't love you at least slit your dick in her to see if she's a virgin or no.

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>>733465170
Fucking this. I have talked to her about her issues and whatnot, and I've been wondering if I'm just being clingy. But this gives me a glimmer of hope. Maybe she is fucking other guys. But maybe, just fucking maybe she's trying to deal with life on her end.

>>733465413
I dare you ask her directly. Has she been lying to you before? Can you trust her?

>>733465556
To my knowledge, she's never lied to me. I've asked her sis things and her other friends things (not recently though, bit still relevant) and they say she isn't seeing anyone.

>>733465691
I did exactly the same thing.. Asked her relatives who see her everyday and they denied it just like her and she's never lied to me. after a while realized it was all my paranoia.

>>733465839
That's most likely just my problem. I grew up not really trusting anyone, so it's a huge problem for me to trust someone I've yet to met...but I guess I could learn to trust.

>>733465691
I believe she's not just a slut if you guys been together for so long.. I don't want you to keep on being pathetic fuck but rather have different view on it and not throw away 8 years of relationship. Figure it out and meet in person

>>733466023
Well, I have just recently finished highschool. So maybe I could finally work on getting another job to save up money and whatnot to visit or at least stay with her...though immigrating to Germany might be hard, I feel as though it'd be worth it.

>>733466221
It would be definitely. Approach the issue more rationally. Not just "she must be riding another dick" Is she busy with something recently? How long has it been you feel less cared for and loved? She went to college or something? That might be the origin of not spending so much time together and you not trusting her anymore and being paranoid.

>>733466487
Well, she is in college and is trying to majors... It's been at least a month since I've been feeling this way.

>>733466617
Have you tried having an open talk with her about it? If yes what'd she say?

>>733466760
I have. She has expressed that she's been super stressed and whatnot, and has been trying to deal with her own mental problems(this also isn't recently, but is still relevant).

>>733466897
Well you see then.. It's identical to what I went through. Now we're fine like before. You haven't had a crisis in your relationship before or was it different?

>>733459441
>>733465170
You ask a woman directly if she cheated on you, she will lie lie, deny deny. I suggest sending her some mobile malware and trying to access her texts through a shell...

>>733467038
Well, it's a bit of both. We've had problems, like not wanting to continue because of distance, but we always end up wanting to keep going. But I wouldn't call those moments a crisis.

>>733467067
I honestly have thought of that. But it'd as dishonest as her if she is lying. I have a thing about wanting to stay honest no matter what.

>>733467183
I've been there dude, trust me, once you get boring she will look for someone else. I just had a 5 year relationship end, we had a house together, well only my name is on the mortgage...now shes fuckin homeless because she fucked a guy downstairs while i was sleeping.

>>733467311
Holy shit, that's pretty fucked...how'd you find out? Did them fucking wake you?

>>733467183
It's not at all about whether it's a woman or a man. Its all about personality.. If someone's honest then he's honest. If someone's cheating and lying fuck then you can't expect anything else. If she's been honest with you for all those years I don't think there's a reason to believe she'd lie to you about it. Depends how you ask her. Just go ahead and tell her that you're feeling paranoid and see how will she react.

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>>733467311
here is a photo of her cheating on me, her diary she kept...aparently on my couch downstairs....

>>733467373
She knows about my paranoia. She's said that she understands how and why I'm being paranoid, but she swears she isn't doing anything like that. Maybe I'm just a faggot who needs to learn how to trust?

>>733467499
Damn...I'm sorry about that bro

>>733467555
nice trips, btw I trusted her 100% before this, I thought she was all mine she cried in my face telling me she would always be with me...after she cheated.

>>733467555
It's very possible. Do not let it consume you. I'm speaking because my father abuses my mother out of his paranoia she's meeting other guys. However it all comes from his own insecurity. And I fell into the same shit with my LDR. It's a thing you must realize. These anons telling you she rides other dicks only bump the distrust between you and her and your paranoia. But if I were you I'd rather believe her than them bro. Youre the one who knows her the best and you know what she's like. Do not let your distrust fool you

>>733467643
I see..man, relationships are just a big gamble, aren't they?

>>733467774
Your words of wisdom are the words I've needed to hear/see. I've always been told that she's most likely cheating and that k can't trust her. So I feel like that might also be a big factor in the trust issues. I'm being very bipolar right now also, and I'm super sorry about it...but...thank you very much. I choose to continue this relationship. Whether it ends sour or not.

>>733467925
Again it was the same for me. People judge her to be the way they are lying and cheating. But you're the only one to know her true image so don't fall for their words. I wish you luck with your relationship and really hope you guys meet. P.S. sister of my lost distance gf is dating a guy from the US. they met last autumn and their relationship works out well.

>>733468113
and sorry if it was pain to read my messages. london not my mother languag

>>733468172
It's OK, lel. But thank you again. Your kind words and insight should help guide me through these times of paranoia, and for that, I thank you deeply. Thank you my friend!

>>733467791
Yeah dude, it sucks but I 100% thought she was different, she wasnt like anyone else on earth, she was an alien, so when she acted so cliche my mind melted.

>>733460262
So you're 21 now and have been with her steadily for 8 years and you couldn't just close the distance? Does she live in another country or are you just a little bitch? I moved from Nevada to Indiana a month after my 18th birthday, with literally a carry on bag of clothes, to be with someone. That lasted about three years so I wouldn't call it a complete waste of time.

>>733470527
, 19.

>>733460354
leave him be plz

>>733467183
Just dump her. You deserve better.

Depending on how easily she takes it, you'll know how much she fools around. You'll also know if she puts on an act because if she's truly guilty, she's gonna try and deny hard.

>>733459441
become a tranny