Gf is upset bout something, shes been sick for the last 2 weeks

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2017-05-12 06:12:06 Post No. 732313992
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Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:12:06 Post No. 732313992 [Report]

Gf is upset bout something, shes been sick for the last 2 weeks and ive been over constantly as usual to keep her company
Last 3 days shes been distant and telling me not to come over cause she just wants to be alone,
Im worried cause she has a history of self harm and depression and her mother recently just passed,

what should i do anons? Do i just disregard what she said since shes an introvert afraid of asking for help? Or do i listen and just give her space?

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:15:13 Post No.732314255
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>>732313992
Bumb

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:18:29 Post No.732314549
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Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:18:29 Post No.732314549 [Report]

>>732313992
Selp bump, please help

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:18:39 Post No.732314563
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>>732313992
I don't have any advice for ya, anon, but I can help bump a bit

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:19:31 Post No.732314644
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Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:20:21 Post No.732314715
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Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:21:05 Post No.732314794
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Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:22:11 Post No.732314885
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Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:22:38 Post No.732314931
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>>732314563
Thanks bro

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:23:08 Post No.732314966
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Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:23:29 Post No.732315005
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>>732313992
There's not much in it for you.
If you are a millennial, then just cut and run.
It's in your collective psyche.

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:23:34 Post No.732315014
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Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:23:34 Post No.732315014 [Report]

>>732313992
Shes upset because she feels like shit. Give her some space and shell snap oit of it. When someone treats you like that youre supposed to be like well fuck you too and go do whatever you feel like doing... Thank me later

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:23:44 Post No.732315027
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Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:23:44 Post No.732315027 [Report]

>>732313992
ho to her guy. tell her you're worried and confused

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:24:37 Post No.732315105
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>>732314931
sounds like a touch situation and I got nothing else going on, so it's no problem, dude

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:25:00 Post No.732315146
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>>732314966
Check em

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:26:06 Post No.732315258
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>>732315014
This isn't universally true. Some people will hate this and break it off as soon as they find out.

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:26:38 Post No.732315308
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>>732313992
Realise that whatever you do is wrong.

If you take her request at face value and stay away she will get angry/be disappointed, ditto if you try to be insightful and read between the lines.

The day you stop caring about doing the 'right' thing is the day you will start to become much happier - because that's the point, nobody else in the world can make you happy but you.

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:27:00 Post No.732315336
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>>732315027
Idk it just feels invasive and i dont wanna risk making it worse

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:29:53 Post No.732315591
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Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:31:06 Post No.732315690
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>>732315308
This

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:35:26 Post No.732316042
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Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:35:26 Post No.732316042 [Report]

Go get 99 in woodcutting then go visit her. That's just about enough time for ur girl to stop being gay

Anonymous 2017-05-12 06:36:17 Post No.732316111
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>>732315308
Better advice. But it's also worth mentioning that there are some things you can only get from maintaining deep relationships. That and we define ourselves by how strictly we follow our moral compasses. For some people it's okay to not do what they think is right but for others they can lose their self-respect by not helping when they can.

I think maybe you should get a hold of her and just listen to what she has to say, if she'll share. Just be there for her and make sure she knows you are. If she gets mad at this, apologize and explain your reasoning (thought she might be setting off down a negative path and wanted to help) and then give her the space she asked for.

Keep patient with her, m8. If you do her good, she'll (hopefully) do you the same.