I'm a post op mtf tranny and last night my bf proposed to

>>731496586
...really you have not told him, and you think a relationship will work on lies? if you're gay be gay but don't lie making him think you're a woman...

>>731496764
Is it a lie? I look and axt and sound like a woman, all my paperwork has been changed. Being trans at this point is just past medical history. When you date a girl do you tell her before the first date " yeah i had chickenpox when i was 4" no, because its weird to bring shit like that up on a date

>>731496586

LoL stupid. If real just "man" up and be prepared for the outrage. Next time lead with that instead of being sneaky.

>>731496909

Chopping off your penis and adding a hole while taking tons of hormone replacement meds is not just like chickenpox...

>>731496909
if you have an xy chromosome, that means you're a dude. I'm not going to argue over the internet about facts. Be honest and tell the fucking truth, if he was a faggot. he would have meet you at a gay bar, it goes without saying he thought you were a woman and NOT a man... if he beats you within a inch of your life, you brought this on yourself.

>>731496993
....it wasn't that simple to transition

>>731496909
Don't try and normalise your insanity.

Being "feminine" and chopping off your cock does not remove the fact you were born a male and no ammount of pseudo-scientific psychological bullshit can change that.

>>731496909
No, but telling him you're unable to conceive a child because you lack ovaries might be something he needs to know for his future plans

>>731496586
>w-w-what's this?
>oh, you know, a totally normal dildo
>I don't use it to keep my vagina from sealing or anything
>btw, I totally orgasm every time we fuck

This is such an unbelievable situation. You should feel bad for trying to make the transgender community look bad.

nice bait, except for the fact it's totally unfuckingbelievable

This is bait

>>731496909
Wait, people don't say if they don't have the chickenpox when they date? Fuck it, I am never dating, if a girl can't tell me that on the first date I just can't trust her. I need to know EVERYTHING.

>>731496586
fucking kys mentally ill faggot

>>731497944
checked and this

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>>731497527
>I don't use it to keep my vagina from sealing or anything
Wait.
So even though the penis gets mutilated and turned into a weird sarlacc pit, it wont stay open?
Like if it heals enough its just a mound?

>>731498100
Exactly. It's fucking horrific. People who choose this really don't want a penis.

stopstopstopstopstoppleasegodnowhy

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>>731498288
Brb gonna Google Image Search

>>731496586
post boipucci or leave

>>731496586
He already knows but probably doesn't want to admit it. Even the best surgeon can't turn a dick inside out and make a vagina convincing enough to fool 90% of regular, non-virgin, dudes. So, he knows.

Unless you haven't had his meat inside your meat....

Either way, coming clean now is better than later on when divorce becomes a messy and difficult process.

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Implying we're just supposed to believe you.
TOGTFO, also time stamp you fag.

>>731496586
OP, since you claim to be female, post tits or gtfo.

>>731496586
You could just be honest and tell him now.

>>731498485
This

If he doesn't know, then you have been straight up lying to him.

You do not possess the ability to reproduce. Most men look for a good mother in addition to a good lay and a good friend. You have to tell him you're a man.

He may not mind; perhaps reproduction is not on his mind at this point in his life, or at all. We're overpopulated anyway. It doesn't change the fact though that by not telling him somewhat early on you have been lying through convenience.

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>>731498288
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3509357/Parts-melt-world-pain-Transgender-woman-shares-graphic-account-really-feels-like-undergo-gender-reassignment-surgery.html

Oh god i feel legit nauseated after reading that, thats terrible.

>>731496586
depends. if he wants children, you are FUCKED and should end it.
If not, its up to you since he might es well stay with you if he doesnt want to reproduce.

>>731496586
kys, it'd be an unexpected surprise for your boyfriend.

>>731496909
Today I learned that having chicken pox and not mentioning it on a first date is along the same lines as telling someone that you had a sex change and have been lieing to them throughout the entire relationship. Also have fun being single

>>731496586
let's see that post-op vag. I don't believe this until I see work that would have me fooled.

>>731499081
Who does write these horrible articles
I'm not even as much pissed about the content as I am about the horrible style
What's up with the descriptions under the pics? It's always the same shit that already was in the text, and not enough
They just have to drive it further and just write part of the text AGAIN BUT IN CAPSLOCK

just tell him

also
>>731500007

Op if you don't want to tell the truth, well the only option you have is that you two make love after the marriage in the night with the lights out/off

>>731499974
>Today I learned
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>>731497527
>I don't use it to keep my vagina from sealing or anything

wtf

>>731496586
and this is exactly why i hate you people, "hurr durr we are not hurting anybody" , oh guess what you will probably give trauma to the poor guy once he realizes that he is in love with lie, good job

>>731499081
Thanks anon, waiting or next bus because I hurled because of the article. Know why makes it fucking worse? I grew up in the mentioned East Bay Area and I'm 80% sure I know them.

>>731500717
This, fucking this.

>>731496586
>>731496909
Being completely honest here OP, if I was in his position I would be deeply disgruntled.
He WILL see you naked.
He WILL realise your genitals are fake
Tell him you're not really a woman and you can't bear children.
Say this before both of you waste money on a wedding

or it all works out well for both of you

Even if we agree that it doesn't matter anymore when it comes to actual gender, you can't deny it matters because he can't reproduce. Did that not crosse your mind?
You need to tell him. This is your last chance to start anew, if there is one
Otherwise you're selfish af and at least bail.

>>731496586
Unironically kill yourself.

You couldn't have made this any less believable

>>731496586
hey, op. You definitely fucked up by not telling him earlier, but the problem isn't just going to go away, and the longer you wait the worse it will become. You should really just be honest with him and tell him the truth now.

>>731496909
I'm not gonna go as ham as all these other dudes and say you deserve a severe ass beating or death... But you did do this to yourself and you are entering a realm where this guy might want children. So tell him the truth and quit trying to deny the fact that you lied to him your entire relationship. If you can't tell him everything you don't deserve him anyways.

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>>731496586

this is what you get for this NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE bullcrap

sucks to be you or your boyfriendo

lmao

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>>731496586
You should have told him a long time ago OP. It'll be hard but you have to tell him. Maybe everything will be fine in the end, maybe not. You can't keep on hiding this though.

This is probably going to sound like shitty advice but if you want to increase your odds of keeping him after this, be sure to be balling your eyes out before you explain it to him. This will put him in sympathy mode before you drop the bombshell. GL.

>>731502062
this

I'll let you try my Wu-Tang style

Knowing most dudes, he'll be more upset that he been banging a post op tranny rather than a preop. If you are going to have sex with a transexual person you want I to at least be pre-operation because otherwise it's just a shity fake vagina and you can go out and fuck real pussy instead. There is really no point to having sex with a post operation transsexual person.

>>731496586
are you hot?
post pic with timestamp

Pics of your freakgina

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wait

has your boyfriend seen your surgical vagina?

how do you not recognize that's not real?

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>>731502407
wouldn't most guys prefer post opt because most guys aren't into dicks?

>>731502976
The top porn searches are like milf, teen, and tranny. So a great number of dudes like chicks with dicks.

>>731496586
Pics?

Tell him.

>>731501817

Such lack of imagination anon.

You can still do the "true love waits" thing. Just ask to talk to her parents. Look through the Family Album; that sort of thing. Ask leading questions like, ". . .tell me about the most important events in your daughter's life." Interview old friends.

>>731502976
Only masculine dicks.

>>731503350
fair point

>>731502976
If the guy has any sense, he should know something is up once he's up close. Post-op trannies never look 100% natural.

>>731503286
This sounds stupid to me. How am I or anyone supposed to know if she can handle any kinky shit if you dont donvanilla shit?

This only works if youre into missionary for reproductive reasons, the sick fucks.

>>731503286

you must be religious

or really into romance novels

You better tell him OP. Foundationing your relationship off a lie isn't going to end well.
Stop being a faggot and tell him otherwise you are going to destroy him faggot.

>>731496993
Kek!

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>>731499081
The transgendered woman in this article is literally a lesbian trapped in a man's body? I'm pretty accepting, but even I get a little confused at the convoluted mindframe that makes somebody spend all that money cutting their bodies to shreds just to sleep with women anyway. Hmmm. Gonna have to think about this one.

>>731503620
Those options were only if you were into no sex B4 marriage. See thread history.

>>731496586
If he really loves you, he will forgive you.

>>731503701
I very nearly fucked a few traps in my time. They're far more numerous (and far less ideal) than you're led to believe.

>you must be religious

Thank GOD for my gay friends who warned me off before it got too close.

lol OP is gonna get murdered today
watch cnn at 6 oclock

>>731496909
No, but you should tell him you're a faggot with a dickgina. You are still a man you fucking faggot.

>>731503954
I'm a pre-op MTF transsexual lesbian who self-identifies as a straight cis male.

>>731496586
you have 2 choices, do the manly thing and confess, express your full feelings and hope for the best
or do the womanly thing, never tell him, lie and if he wants children just claim to be infertile so you will have to adopt.

Those are your choices,

>>731504355
his manliness is down to how many man qualities he still has, the fact he actually thinks to tell him means he's still got atleast Some male empathy left, cos born females lie and cheat to their benefit instinctively, so actually telling him is manly, never doing so and just claiming infertility is children/periods comes up is the womanly thing.

>>731496586
repeat after me "due to a birth defect i was born without a womb and thus can neither have children nor do i have periods"

Because technically true in that you believe your birth gender was a defect.

>>731504495
You act like it's never going to come up. If op days nothing, eventually op will get sick, or cancer, or in an accident and medical issues will eventually come up.

>you know dear, we've been married 30 years and I've never seen you in your period and you having started menopause yet?

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>>731504479
Well that clears it right up.

>>731504725
>>731504778
see that already got countered.

Uhh I proposed to my GF last night. If this is you im coming to axe you bitch.

>>731504816
translation, i am a man that is attracted to women that wants the body of a woman and tell everyone i'm a straight born male that is happy in his body.

>>731504778
>>731504725
Well I guess that would work. I still feel it's a matter of time before something comes up.

>>731504888
Trips of truth, axe her dude

>>731496586
At the end of the day OP, as far as I know you can't biologically have kids, a lot of people who get married want kids. You should let him know

>>731496586
really, it's up to you, OP. It's probably best to tell him just to get it all out there, but if you think he may hurt you, maybe do it in a more social setting or with some close friends or family. I agree it is just medical history, but god forbid some asshole end up outing you to him rather than him finding out from you. Good luck, OP

>>731496586
just tell him maki... if he doesn't accept it then he deserves being destroyed emotionally...

>>731504246
This

>>731505013
>really it's up to you
Welp I'm triggered. I'm sure you would be just as cool with a dude lying about aids, or telling a chick you love her and will marry her to have sex.

>really it's up to you to admit you're a liar
You're not wrong, faggot.

>>731496586
You are a complete piece of shit.

I'm fine with people being trans if they want, whatever, but you also need to accept that just because you consider yourself a woman doesn't mean everyone else would necessarily agree with you.

People have the right to know what they're getting into in advance. If a guy's straight and isn't comfortable with the idea of being with a guy, you essentially tricking him into it is a shitty fucking thing to do. Should've told him right from the start and let him make up his own mind, but instead, you've now put him in a position where someone he loves is not who or what he thinks.

You didn't want to do something difficult and tell someone who might reject you the truth, so now you've shifted that difficult decision onto him. You force him to become the villain by having to possibly reject you because you were too much of a little bitch to take responsibility and do it yourself.

I have nothing but contempt for you.

>>731504948
Ultimate irony is that due to the Not so small number of Genetic Hermaphrodites, even if something medical came up, you can deny ever knowing you were genetically male. "but i was always a woman, i was just born with a birth defect" results in a flawless defense that means at most you go down as one of the many women who are genetically mixed, just like the many men that are genetically mixed. cos XXY is a fairly common result it turns out.

>>731505225
Everyone's cool with lying until they're lied to themselves.

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>>731496586
He's an idiot if he didn't notice the difference between a post op pussy and a real pussy.

>>731505283
>Not so small number

Suppressing actual numbers

>>731496586
In all honesty, at this point, you have to tell him. I know it may not seem like that big of a deal, but if (or, most likely when) he finds out, he will feel even more betrayed and hurt.

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>>731499081
>Jessica paid for her breast augmentation herself but the vaginoplasty was covered by her insurance as required by California law after a doctor said it was medically needed.

Mfw California melts off into the ocean

>>731496586

If you're sterile and in a long serious relationship you're supposed to tell your partner about that.

No different from your situation.

>>731505283
Probably right. Assuming that op had no friends or family that could eventually tell someone on purpose or accident. Also medical records and payments for surgery and medication. If I was a tranny there is no way in hell I would risk it. Not to mention the constant stress and weight of the lie over a lifetime. It's a real possibility no matter how tight you think a secret is.

>>731505225
>implying a communicable disease and life threatening is anything like being transgender
kek
you're an idiot

>>731505740
*comminicable and life threatening disease

>>731496586

FAGGOTTHREAD

NUKE THE FAGGOTS FROM ORBIT

IT'S THE ONLY WAY TO BE SURE

KYS FAGGOT

>>731505484
the actual number is Totally Unknown, because we only very recently realized it's even a thing outside the actual hermaphrodites. turns out there could be literally Billions of hermaphrodites and we can't know, YOU could be a hermaphrodite, turns out we can't tell without testing.

>>731505740
Fair enough. Guys listen up, femanons are cool with you lieing to them for sex as long as it's not a disease or life threatening. You heard it from this chick first.

It's really up to you to admit any lies.

>>731505645
Man-think there. that's pre-planning and caring about a future other than your own and a person other than yourself.

Telling people this is like so many things a choice, but one that can be covered/defended either way.

Also by failing to specify what the birthdefect is, the outing just results in "but i told you about the defect"

>>731506082
Sup, baby, I'm a CEO at a rocket ship company and have a 14 inch cock. Wanna fuck?

>>731506082
If you tell them later that you weren't serious about the wedding proposal and they flip out, then they are non understanding bitches that dont know this is 2017.

>>731506082
>implying I'm a chick
ok

>>731506513
Implng your dick and balls aren't in some chicks(who is secretly a dude and your fine with it, it's her choice to tell you) purse.

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>>731497527
>I don't use it to keep my vagina from sealing or anything

... nigga tell me that isn't a thing that happens...

Tell him about it and explain the situation. Pick a public place if you believe he may become physical. I agree a lot with what >>731505227
says, though i do not have contempt for a random person on the internet.
It is quite a dick move not to tell your partner about your transexuality, but you still have time.

>>731507094
yes it is, post op they need to keep a dildo inside to keep it from closing up (like any other wound in the human body) atleast until it has fully healed and even then, think ear piercings.

>>731506005
Admits numbers are "totally unknown" after BTFO'd

>>731507265
I would say there's still time if they weren't in love and engaged. Now it's at best a trust issue.

>>731507311
no full numbers, all we know is that it's far more common than it was previously believed.

Unless everyone goes and volunteers to get checked, then we will never actually know for sure. best we can do is guess, which i'm not going to use as it's a guess, all we know is that it happens, and it happens Outside of the obviously hermaphroditic.

>>731507443
>no full numbers, all we know is that we make wild biased guesses that it's far more common than it was previously believed.

Fixed.

>>731507443
>Unless everyone goes and volunteers to get checked


You mean by a doctor? But you don't trust doctors when they're born. If you did, then you wouldn't be pushing your bullshit imaginary numbers.

>>731502879
>how do you not recognize that's not real?
Actually, some of the reconstruction pictures I've seen could easily fool someone, at least visually. There was one even I could not believe was genuine until I looked "her" name up to confirm "she" was MTF.

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>>731505457
Like this?

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>>731508027
Or this

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>>731508077
Or this

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>>731507300
Jesus fucking Christ.

There really needs to be concentration camps for these goddamn mutants.

>>731508228
It's actually just that they need to stretch it out 1-2 times a day. It's not quite as elastic as a real vagina

>>731508134
I'd call bullshit on you if not for those giant fucking hands, Jesus.

>>731507300
after 2 years you must dilate twice a week every week for the rest of your life. dilation lasts 50min-100min

>>731496586
Well, at least you like getting fucked up the arse, right?

>>731507300
>>731509214

That's seriously fucked. The fuck is wrong with these people man.

>>731510596
I don't see what the big deal is or why everyone thinks this is so weird or gross.