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I am dating a 33 year old and she just asked me to move in, do

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I am dating a 33 year old and she just asked me to move in, do you think it would be a shit idea?

>be 23 year old me 1 year+ ago
>get on hi5 after ages just to see whats up
>see profile of a 32 year old and liked one of her pics
>she liked one of mines back
>start talking
>she is married
>has 2 kids
>fast forward 6 months ago
>she gets a divorce
>start talking more and now she finally adds me on fb and skype and other social media
before she said she didnt want trouble with her husband and that kind of stuff

>literally text daily, and skype everyday before going to bed
>5 months ago
>she wants me to go to her place, but says first I need to meet her kids because they are part of her life and that shit (they are 8 and 4)
>meet them through skype first, just like hello, nice to meet you I will hang with you soon and so on
>1 week later we have a family date
>lol
>we just went to a restaurant and then to a park near her house and just talked while her kids played
>went back to her place and watched Netflix for a while before she put them to bed
>went back to living room and made out, after 5 minutes I was fucking diamonds, was ready to fuck her, and figured she would be super horny since she didn't have sex in like 4 months because of the divorce
>said she wanted to fuck but that she still didn't want to sleep with another man under the same roof her kids were sleeping yet
>fuckMyLife.jpeg
>Told her that I understand and that I would give her time
>she hugged me and then we went back to the living room and she gave me a quick bj while I was waiting for my uber, I tried to convience her to fuck but she didn't want
cont
>pic related, its her
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>>730907191
More pics
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>>730907191
Didn't Rod Stewart do a song about just this?
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>>730907191
she's looking for a way out of her marriage don't do it also there has to be a reason they are getting a divorce find out why

also post nudes
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Did she swallow?
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>>730907247
>>730907191
>sees picture
>doesn't read anything
>"More pics"

This is what your thread will continue to be like.
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>>730907191
Show Tits or gtfo
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>so I left back home and we talked on the phone a bit and she said we could meet on the weekend when her kids go with their dad
>spent the weekend with her, we fucked a lot, best sex I have had (not that I had many but it felt great) but we also just hanged and watched Netflix or went out to eat or to the movies and stuff, regular dates
>at first I honestly just wanted a free pussy but after a few weekends like this I started to really like her, and just liked being with her
>this went on for 2 months then she allowed me to stay over even during the week with her kids around, even got to "meet" their dad (just saw him picking up the kids up)
>he got a new girl so he wasnt really jealous of me, i think

>>730907378
he cheated on her, when we just used to chat ocasionally she told me she was having troubles with her marriage and then confessed to me he cheated on her once we started to talk daily


>>730907247
here is other pic
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Stop thinking with your dick
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>>730907191
Just move in with her and fuck her kids. Jesus fucking Christ, do we really have to state the obvious?
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>>730907612
this also post pics of kids
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>>730907191
Cuck
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>>730907612
/thread
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>>730907191
when I was 23 I was dating this 17yo highschool cutie. that didn't last long, but at least it was a blast.

I think you should always look for a younger girl, because women age like shit (physically and mentally) and gets crazy over time.
this girl already has kids and doesn't seem to age particularly well. no way you should plan anything serious with her...
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>>730907191
33? She looks 53 anon
ask for her REAL birth certificate
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>>730907191
>into older girl

i kinda like my professor for physical chemistry.
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>>730907412
she does everytime I ask her, and before sleeping she usually does it without me asking it

>>730907497
won't shot tits srry

>>>730907585
>after meeting the dad I figured I was clear and wouldn't get beat up by a jealous fag, so I was happy
>1 month later
>her birthday
>figured she would spend it with her family only but she made a party at her place and invited me, obviously I had to go
>she introduced me to her whole family

obviously most of her relatieves didn't really like me, just a few dudes around my age gave me a high five
>she kissed me the whole time even infront of her parents
>once the party was over I stayed to help her clean up, so it was just us and the kids
>I leave my ps3 at her place so I played with them for a little before they went to sleep
>we then had sex in the living room under a blanket and after we were done she asked me if I was not ashamed that day of meeting her family and being presented as her bf
>told her no obviously, and that I was happy she did it
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>>730908029
>>730907497
forgot pic, you can see this tho
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>>730907191
She's aged like dogshit. There is no way she's 33. My sister is 33 and looks way younger than that.
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>>730907191
OP this girl is just gonna use you for your resourses and fuck you around. and if you want kids haha JK she doesnt want anymore. so you'll endup raising some other fuckhead's kids like a cuck while that cunt takes all of your money too. don't be an idiot. its common knowledge that single mothers aged 27+ in the dating scene have some kind of mental deficiency.

the only acceptable reason to raise some other fuckheads kids is if you're sterile and can't have your own.
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>>730907191
>>730907585
>>730908062
That's a rough 33. She looks at least 45. In ten years she'll like she's 65.
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>>730908089
well I mean I have not asked for ther birth certificate, but her older son is 8, so it fits that she would have had him at 25, also her husband looked 40 tops
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>>730908000

fuck i just realized that she is 41
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>>730907191
I say enjoy it until she starts acting different. Like you know acting like a bitch and refusing sex. Leave after that. Maybe rob her and leave to another state.
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>>730908167
There is no way that is 33. That girl looks way older mate.
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This is bleak, get out OP while you can
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>>730907191
>>730907585
>>730907908
>>730908062
why did she leave her husband?
does she have a nice body?
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>>730908210
Best advice here
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>>730908121
she actually talked about this afterwards...

>>730908029
>once I told her that she asked me if I wanted to move in
>I didn't know what to say
>she said that she was really happy with how things went and that after her divorce she doesn't want to waste anymore time
>she told me that she knew I was young and that I would probably want kids of my own later on
>told me that after her second kid she didn't want more and was thinking of getting the surgery... But that she would delay it if I wanted to have kids with her in the next years

I assume girls can go through pregnacy normally until around 35~? So basically she said she would be down to having another kid in the next 2-3 years
Also she never asks me for money, she has a good job and acually on the divorce she won half her husband shit, even the house, so we would be set for until her kids turn 18?
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>>730908000
Checked
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>>730907191
Run like fuck. If you really need to fuck it - double bag it. Don't get trapped. Don't move in. It can be considered a common low marriage . run RUN
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>>730908507
don't do it, you fucking idiot
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>>730908507
She looks old, she's ugly as fuck, what the hell are you doing mate?
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>>730908507
She looks terrible for 33.
I see alcoholism and heavy smoking.
Do not move in
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>>730908507
Jesus christ dude
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>>730908464
her husband cheated on her (2 times) after the second she was done and asked for divorce and shared custody

And I like her body, she isn't thin and not fat either, I love her tits they are kind of small but her nipples are perfectly pink, also the sex is amazing... Probably her husband didn't want to fuck her (hence the cheating) so she had a lot of sex drive stored
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Sorry man, but that ain't 33, she looks 43.
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>>730908507
well OP, my next question is, what do you rate yourself on the sexual market scale?

if you see this as the best you can do.
stay with it.

also answer the first-question cuz i'm curious plz
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>>730908694
Well then she had her 4 year old daughter at 39? That would be even less belivable
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>>730908691
>her husband didn't want to fuck her
Geee I wonder why
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I fucked my uncle's girlfriend when they were living with my family and I for a bit. was like 16 at the time, she was 32. shit was fucking cash.
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>>730908578
Common low marriage
>kek
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>>730908691
Hey man, I'm dating and plan on marrying a 27 y/o, and I'm 23. She has a kid that is 7 y/o. I love him to death, and I love her the same. Fuck the trolls. If you think its something you wanna do, go for it. But keep money separate for a couple months, or until marriage. Don't get fucked around man.
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>>730908860
common lAw marriage, ya fuckin grammer Nazi
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>>730908789
My wife had her last baby at 40
Not usual, but not very unusual
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>>730908822
what the fuck happened and where did all those people come from
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>>730907191
she's probably absolutely crazy anon. i would tread carefully, very, very carefully.

used goods are walking IEDs; even if everything seems like roses now it could be a ugly situation in 2 years time no matter what you do.
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>>730908507
some girls in their early 30 have the face they had when they were 16yo + some wrinkles.
some girls age like shit and get fat / ugly (majority of girls).

your girl is in the second category. totally aging like shit, imagine what she will look like in 10 years... no way you should plan anything with an older girl who is not aging gracefully ...
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>>730908732
I would say I am a 7/10... I have had really cute girls, even my sister's friends flirt with me at her parties, so I am not a fat neckbeard

probably not the best I can do, I just liked older women and after staying for 1 month sleeping with her, and basically living in her home every weekend I started to seriously like her, not just for the sex

We would just hang in her sofa, watch netflix, go to the movies, she would cook, even got her to browse memes and play cod a few times (doesn't git it too much obviously)
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>>730908881
don't marry - that means she takes her ex's money. If you marry then split she'll take yours.
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OP, a lot of people (some with possibly more life experience than you) are raising red flags here.
I would heed the advice and proceed with caution. don't make any long-term plans, have an exit plan (especially know all the exits to the house), and at the first sign of trouble, bail out.

while I don't have that kind of experience, and don't know enough about the circumstances, I do know people tend to repeat the same mistakes. unless you can verify from someone else that she's drastically changed since the husband left (unlikely in the span of months), I doubt she's a changed person. Don't let novelty (and sex drive) impair your assessment of the situation.
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>>730908949
lightning struck the car. people ran to help once the people in the car came out.
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>>730908691
remember if you have a relationship with this woman you WILL wind up interacting with her ex, assuming he wants to be around the kids.
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>>730909069
awesome
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>>730908934
No worried about grammar.
There was a kek in the word low, that's all
>now calm down princess
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>>730909030
Her ex-husband is dead homie. Scored on that one. Was a police officer and died on duty.
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>>730909025
i think she looks much older then 33. my aunt is close to 60 and look younger then her.
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>>730909038
this,

the sex in the first 6 months is novelty sex.
that shit diminishes and diminishes hard.

you should get her pregnant asap. its the only way you can be happy with this woman
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>>730907191
>get on hi5
Now this I just don't believe.
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Whatever, this dude is totally convinced, nothing we say is going to make a difference. Enjoy your old looking girlfriend. When you could get an older girl who doesn't look like a man.

>>730909198
This
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Hey OP,

Age difference is too great. I'm sorry, but it is true.

When I was 28 I started dating a 38 year old - there are some serious emotional gaps, and experience gaps that you have.

I'm not saying you won't enjoy it , or that it won't be fun or even fulfilling - but I wouldn't move in. You haven't really spent that much time together as a couple, doing couple things.

keep some distance, enjoy yourself. if you are smart you would just walk away, but I couldn't do that myself.

ps: ended up in an 8 year relationship, and I completely regret it. I spent like my prime dating / fucking time locked in a relationship with an older woman.
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>>730908881
cool, yeah I like her kids... I mean I like them as much as any of my little cousins, most of the time I am there they are with his dad so... So far it has been like just hanging with my cousins, I know it won't be like that later on

>>730909084
I saw him a couple of times when he picked up the kids, he didn't seem angry or rude towards me, just walked them to the door and he picked them up
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>>730909025
brother man I am a different guy than the rest of these posters.
Im 23 and I often go after women in their 30's all the time. They are less wild as fuck and much more interesting on a serious level.plus they are usually more stable and trying to not rock the boat. these women are not he cheaters and the bad folks of the world. they might not have the porn star bodies that gilrs in their young twenties will, but hell they know how to fuck! theyve had a decade more to find out what they like

follow your heart, you giant faggot
just dont get married, because that is for motherfuckers
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>>730909269
To add to this - it is sort of like if you were dating a 16 year old girl.

>>730909302
she wants him to move in and they only fucked like once. I'm pretty sure that isn't how you roll.
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>>730909276
>I saw him a couple of times when he picked up the kids, he didn't seem angry or rude towards me, just walked them to the door and he picked them up
that's fine, do your homework though. was he just a cheating sleazebag or does he have a violent side? you should probably ask her if he has ever been violent or threatened violence.

some men, especially cowards with no self-esteem like mr. cheaty, will get drunk and murder-suicide
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>>730909251
lol... I mean she said she is down to having another kid, if thats what I want, I don't really want a newborn baby right now
>>730909256
its still bastly used, tagged/hi5 got combined from these two sites and it is kind of really active

>>730909269
why was it bad? what do you regret not doing that you would have been able to do with someone your age?
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>>730909382
yeah, but he might be some kinda slow-moving faggot who doesnt need to fuck but is into the romance or whatever. and fuck it, even if he moves in, he can move right the fuck back out
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>>730909382
>she wants him to move in and they only fucked like once. I'm pretty sure that isn't how you roll.

No, we have fucked plenty of times, I have been sleeping at her place for the past 5 months, and the last 3 almost half week
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RUN. I was you. This exact fucking story. I was young and stupid and I thought I knew what I wanted. Now I'm stuck, and have already wasted my best years. FUCKING RUN.
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>>730909302
those younger "wild" girls you refer to, turn into these lonely desperate cumrag women after they waste their body gettin chainfucked by dozens of men through their 20's . they've walked the walk and all they can offer is pussy.
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>>730909398
she never mentioned anything violently, just the usualy arriving late at night drunk and sleeping on sofa, will ask her anyway, but I think he just cheated and thats it
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>>730909585
just bail faggot, stuck is something a retarded pussy would say
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>>730909585
>now i'm stuck

are you a woman living before the 21st century?

because otherwise no man is "stuck" with a woman, just divorce her
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>>730909605
THIS.

These are also the same wimen who worry about fucking in the same house as the kids but then offer a blow hob and kater fuck in the middle of the damn house under a blanket
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>>730907191
Right dude Imma level with you.
It's fucking rad for the first year.
then it quiets down for a year.
Then she decides she isn't into dating someone 10 years her younger and dumps your ass.
so you take the good with the bad.
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only if you don't have to take care of her financially. otherwise you got a shit deal
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>>730908346
What he says.
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>>730910067
idk, she introduced me to her family and kids? Also she says we can start having sex without condom when I am ready to have a kid (she says she knows someone my age will eventually want a kid)
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>>730909025

>after staying for 1 month sleeping with her, and basically living in her home every weekend I started to seriously like her, not just for the sex

Oh damn, I used to do this a lot. I'd get with a girl below my scale because she fit a niche or I just really wanted pussy and was willing to settle. I'd end up really liking her for a while, but inevitably one day I'd have a "WTF am I doing moment and gtfo of the relationship."

FWIW, I think she's cute.
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>>730910160
this 6 months she hasn't asked me for money, she works and her ex husband gives her child support, and she won half his stuff on the divorce
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>>730910272
You have to think about how fast she's gonna start aging soon
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>>730910209
Don't give her a kid and I guarantee you that it only lasts two years.

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>>730910228
lol yeah I know its fucked up when it happens... But I never thought of her below my scale or something, I actually love staying with her after sex
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>>730910067
This guy knows what's up. Also the kids will always come first so you'll be 3rd or 4th on her list while she wants to be number 1 on yours.
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>>730910329
I know in 7-10 years she will probably look like crap, very few girls stay "okay/hot" through her 40's

Thats why I said everything else she has/does for me... She has money (not rich, but pleny for both of us and never asked me for a penny)

she wasn't ashamed of showing me to her family

likes sucking dick

willing to get pregnant again
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>>730910209
>Also she says we can start having sex without condom when I am ready to have a kid (she says she knows someone my age will eventually want a kid)
this is literally the point i would abandon ship. even if you WANT a kid that's a fucking weird way to go about considering having one.

it sounds like a trap honestly, you might want to do some recon on the ex-husband. get some beers into him, figure out how the separation went. do it on the d/l.

or, tell her you got a vasectomy and see how she responds.
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23yo m here

dump her, really dump her.
fucking old cunt man, I know that feeling, but its not worth it. dump her before those frkkn kids build up an emotional bond with you and you fucktard cum in her and make an even worse mistake man.

listen to me, Im from the future, but Im not you because I obviously dont fuck grandmas.
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>>730910520
>33 years of age.
>Grandmas
ayy britbong detected.
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>>730910504
I can try but honestly don't know how I would approch it, have not gotten past a hello with the guy when opening the door
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>>730910617
by 33 women are well on their way down the ladder of sexual attractiveness. they peak at 25.
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>>730910654
Dude seriously just fucking bail.
Save yourself the heartache.
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>>730907191
>32
Wew lad. She's one of those types that honestly ages like cheese. It's going way downhill from here.
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Fuckin retard, escape her web of misery, just because she let you raw dog and bust in side of her does not make her "a keeper". Leave now before your life is ruined.
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>>730911331
It wasn't just the sex, we have been basically living together for half the time of the past 5 months so I kind of catches feelings for her, not just sexual
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post her ass
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>>730910877
Honestly this, you deserve a hot wife OP. Don't waste your youth in someone who has already wasted theirs. It's not fair to you.

Enjoy it, get out as soon as things get real.
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>>730908820
topkek
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>>730910209
>Also she says we can start having sex without condom when I am ready to have a kid (she says she knows someone my age will eventually want a kid)

She's a professional at mind games. SHE WANTS ANOTHER KID not you. Fuck me anon, run.

> Locks you into child support
> Gets double payments
>????
>PROFIT
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She is a clinger. She is afraid of being alone. She seeks to control you since she failed to control her husband. You will get fucked into marrying into a package deal.
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