Have any of you ever actually been cucked? Tomorrow me and

Do it anon.
I did it with my girl after 4 years and it was a fresh air in our relationship. We even now have a kid together.

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im banging this chick and she has a beta redditor bf, does that count?

>>730267012
youre gonna regret it you idiot. it makes people homicidal years down the line. just do drugs or something, do ecstasy and get another girl. drink a bunch of cough syrup and get colored lights and sit in the semi dark with them and her. what the fuck man. sit in a closet while she masturbates. youre either gonna kill yourself or kill someone else

>>730267012
If you're worried you might regret it why risk it?
I just keep it as a fetish for porn, etc. I don't think I could ever go through with it in real life.

>>730267196
Do you ever fear that it's not yours?

If you're at the point where y'all have talked about that, it's over OP. Quit being a bitch and get you a new one. Leave now, before it's too late.

>>730267012
Every time you suck on your wife's tits or lick her pussy you'll be thinking of how he did it too. Take it from me it's a strange feeling.

>>730267688
It was my idea, took fucking ages to talk her in to even agreeing to do it

>>730267455
did a test, it's mine.
Recently we did it again, but with another couple.
>Fuck other girl, while gf sucks other cock
>Ass to ass with dildo
>fuck em both, while they kiss each other.
>One girl on top of the other one, while we are fucking both.
>Double bj
>Cum into other girl, while mine swallows his load.
>shower afterwards with my girl and she wants anal.

I love her.

>>730267793

so you practically have been begging her to fuck another guy while you watch? well GG to that relationship down the road..

>>730267012
Don't worry, just make sure you've both got full trust in one another. If that, then no matter what happens, all should be forgiven. So long as you both love one another and know that neither of you would intentionally hurt the other, then it shouldn't matter.
Me and the Mrs had a 4some with another couple where we swapped partners, we just made sure we took things slow, everyone was comfortable and we just did what felt natural. If in doubt we just stopped and asked. It was great and neither of us have any regrets and we're looking to do it again including 3somes, mmf and mff.
Maybe if you're really worried, sort a code word between you that you could use?

>>730267823
We pretty much did the same! Sounds like we've got keepers!

>>730267793
Don't listen to other anons, anon.
They don't know how it is in a relationship.
You gotta experiment. It's the natural way of things.

>>730267823
Swinging isn't cuckold and is perfectly acceptable.

Cuckold is degenerate and humiliating.
Swinging is finding boredome with monogamy and wanting to explore outside the relationship with your partner and is in no way humiliating.

>>730267455
No its probably not. I don't think his dick gets hard for pussy, just like you. Go ahead, ask for his number.

As long as you both are secure in your relationship, no big deal. My girl and I fucked another girl, swapped with another couple, and I let a dude fuck her in front of me. All good, no regrets. It's a sexy experience.

>>730268590
OP explained in his post that he wasn't being humiliated or degraded, sounds more like a MMF threesome where he takes on more of a spectator role.

>>730268590
Yea true but he's already said there no humiliation so is this really cuckolding?

>>730267012
No, because my life has value.

>>730267012
>>730267793
>>730267823
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>>730267196


One thing i don't understand, from a guys point of view, why go straight to another male, why not get another girl for the threesome?

What do you get from seeing your girl fucked by another dude, possibly risking pregnancy (No birthcontrol is 100%).


I knew once knew a guy who would go down and eat a burger and read the newspaper while his wife had male visits once a week, started as a FMM arangment, ended as a different guy almost every week.

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>>730267012

Isn't seeing your wife banging another degrading/humiliating per definition?

>>730267429
This really
There is a difference with fantasizing with it and letting someone else fuck your gf

>>730268847
Kinda is until he goes out to do a ffm.
He's literally just going to be right there watching his partner get fucked. Not swingers so far.

I personally don't care since I've been invited to fuck other people's wives. Luckily most of them weren't in the room.
Being /fit/ was a great decision for me all those years ago.

>>730269116
If it wasn't mutually agreed on, yeah, that would fuck my head up. But if it's something we both arranged then no, why should it be? It's just sex. Everybody likes seeing people fucking, it's why porn exists, watching my gf get banged while she sucks my dick is like the ultimate porno.

>>730269428
She likes it better when you're not there however.

>>730268959
Not all girls are bi and like the idea of an mff. It's also a lot more difficult to find a girl to participate than a guy. They're different situations that you can't directly compare as you're trying too. Also if your girl is on the pill and they wear a condom that like a 1 in a million change of pregnancy and my girl would just get an abortion anyway so don't really get your point tbh

>>730269374
He didn't say just watching, he's participating. I think it's different. Also i guess technically cuckolding is a type of swinging - it's finding other partners outside of your relationship. They're all over the swinger sites too

>>730269590
I seriously doubt that

>>730269428
So, what if the guy is way better than you?

Is that a concern?

I mean, if he is better, and she craves that kind of thing again, will you have the option to say no, or would that cause her to seek it out or cause you to wonder if you are enough?

The only difference between cheating and swinging is that you agree everytime, what happens if she thinks it's alright and say "what does it matter since i already did another guy, i thought it was the same"?

>>730270073
Yeah the guy we found was on a Swingers site, Fabswingers.com

>>730270076
Everybody knows it but you. Keep living the lie. :)

Had some experience in this kind of thing, and honestly it's just a state of mind. To put it bluntly, I see other people as objects. A dick up my girls ass is the same as a dildo up her ass, and a pussy in her mouth is the same as... whatever. The point is that people like me view others basically as no better than living sex toys in this respect, and you can always get rid of your toys.

>>730270073
Getting a shitty bj while your partner is getting fucked is barely participating anon.
He said he's not going to do anything else until after the guy has left.

Anyway, I wouldn't call it swinging if it consists of just finding guys to fuck your wife every time. That's all I meant.

>>730270081
Well his dick is about the same size, and unless he has some magical vibrating cock that ejaculates MDMA I can't see how he's be better. I'm not out of shape, I have stamina, we've tried every position imaginable. So I'm not worried about him being batter.

>>730269738
So have she ever had an abortion?

I know alot of guys who where with women who said "sure i'll get an abortion if it happens, of course" and they didn't.

I'm in that group of people myself actually.

>so don't really get your point tbh
Ofc. you get my point, you're not daft i take it.
It's his relationship and he is asking for advice, so going through the negative thoughts could help him, it's not like i give a damn, i'm just asking critical questions.

>>730270081
That's where relationship security comes in. We swing and my partner doesn't care if they're better - which for the record I doubt anyway, not because I'm awesome but because it's more emotional for women and entirely different when they do it with someone they care about. My Mrs has been around a bit in her younger years and has had pretty much every scenario from fit to fat, one night stand to 5 year long relationship, micro penises to massive 10 inches. She genuinely says somewhere in the middle is best and it's about more than the penis. It's the whole thing, scenario situation etc. That's why neither of us worry because we have a great sex life and this is just extra for fun. It's not nor will it ever be needed. I think you can only do this if you're both sure about it in that way. Also no jealously either, that's the main deal breaker. You've got to want the best for the other person

>>730270171
Same site we're on

>>730270486
Well, sometimes it's just biology and chemicals mate, i'm just here to ask.

>>730270291
do you mind if people spit in your drink?

>>730270427
I'm gonna be eating her out while she's fucking too, also there's a no kissing, no hugging rule, so it's purely sex, it's not going to be some passionate erotic shit.

>>730270427
Certainly wouldn't be a shitty bj from my Mrs. I get your point and it's not something we'd, we'd do full participation, but i still think it's a step up from full humiliation

>>730270516
I just meant the risk is so small I don't think it's something to consider. Also no she hasn't but i know her very well and she doesn't want kids yet - still having too much fun being a degenerate. Her words exactly. She also wouldn't keep it if we both didn't agree and certainly not if there was any chance it was someone elses haha. OP and his Mrs however, no idea

>>730270614
Sure, but i don't think this guy is secure at all, why else would he come here to ask, he should not be adviced to do it before he is confident enough.

We all know how ridiculous women can be when it comes to falling in love, falling for stuff we don't understand at all and making bad decisions when it comes to guys.

I'm 10 years into my relationship, we are rock solid, we don't do stuff with strangers, but other people enjoy it or even need it to help their relationship, just not our thing.

I just think it's best if he understand that even though agressive porn is everywhere, he is normal even though he does not truely want to share his woman.

>>730270745
wait, are you gonna lick her pussy while she is getting fucked in the pussy?

>>730271174
We already have a kid, 4 year old, she's on the pill and we'll be using a rubber, but if she did get pregnant I know for a fact she's have an abortion, she got pregnant again 2 years ago and we both agreed that it wasn't time to have another kid, she booked a termination but when she went back to get it she wasn't pregnant any more, so the problem sorted it'self out. So I know for a fact she'd go through with it if it was an accidental pregnancy and it may not be mine.

>>730271496
That's the plan, I'll be lying on my side in front of her, she'll suck my dick while I eat her out in like a sideways 69, while he fucks her from behind

>>730267012
Tits or Gtfo...Cuck!

>>730271174
Aye, but when a woman gets pregnant there is alot of information and tests.
They might find out her chance is slimmer if she gets it, she might be getting older or the pregnancy hormones might kick in and make her confused.

You seem sure about her though, so it would be more relevant for OP i suppose.

>>730271729
Yous a bitch.

>>730271729
so you're bi?

If not, then you realise you will get his precum in your mouth and his balls in your hair, right?

>>730271955
He'll have a rubber on, so no precum, and how the fuck would his balls be anywhere near my hair in the position I explained? No I'm not bi, but I'm not insecure enough in my sexuality to be afraid of being close to a cock lol

>>730271404
Yea fair, he might be here just to chat given there's a large amount of chucks here on b. Even if all is solid though, i can still understand the nerves though. We got drunk when we fooled about and so it was spontaneous, but planning it I'm advance sober is entirely different. Hopefully we've all given him something to take away.

>>730272122
I hear drinking can lead to very unpleasant situations when it comes to swinging though.

>>730272110
How you feeling OP? Better or worse for chatting it over?

why the fuck would you want anyone to fuck your misses? Honestly if she suggested this is dump her ass, i know a guy who does this shit.... I mean yeah if you can't please your woman get someone else too like he did.... Fucking hell

>>730272334
Neither really, good getting people's opinions though, nobody has said it's destroyed their relationships so that's a good sign.

I dunno, maybe the idea is hot but in reality it would suck

>>730272264
Yea, I've heard that too. Basically people get wasted, to the point they're acting on instinct and forget it all, you know the worst wastes stage, then everyone wakes up awkward in the morning because someone overstepped the mark. Communication and compassion is key and just enough alchol to get you in the sweet spot of social capable but lowered inhibitions is what you want. Curious as to the state of your sex life after 10yrs if you don't mind me asking? You guys got any fetishes to keep things interesting?

>>730272366
Because it's fun? It's just sex, no emotions involved, like a game. There's a difference between fucking and making love, this will just be fucking.

>>730272470
Yea, go for it man, just make sure you've been completely honest and upfront about it and make sure you both shout up if either of you feel uncomfortable. The only people I've heard if who've had it ruin their relationship were either pushed into or didn't like it on the night but kept quiet. From there the jealously or resentment grew.
You got any pics of the gf? Would be good to put a body to a story

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>>730273179

YOU ARE READING A SHILL THREAD DONT FALL FOR THE CUCK TRAP PERPETUATED BY BLACK PEOPLE AND FEMINISTS THEY POST THIS HERE TO DESENSITIZE US DISREGARD THIS FAGGOT

>>730273629
wtf you talking about? I said we're NOT doing it with a black guy, and she's racist as fuck anyway lol, she wouldn't get with a black guy if I paid her

>>730273424
Nice man, she's hot. I'd fuck her - well me and the Mrs

>>730272695
Not gonna lie, there has been rough parts, with low sex drive, but that was in the 3-4 year part.

We just take it slow with the kinky stuff and learn how we function more and more, it's pretty kinky when you know how to do certain stuff to your partner in order to make them happy, i mean, getting a woman to orgasm is not a problem, but intensifying that orgasm is all it's about, especially when you can't keep a diamond hardon after comming 2 times anymore, and it goes both ways, when you only have 2 shots, it's about making them as good as possible.

Also, we don't do quickies, because getting it over fast is not what it's about.

Not that we don't do kinky stuff, we can put on a porn and do it the exact way as in the movie, but there is no need to add another kink every time after 10 years, for me i know it will just make me want to go more and more extreme.

sorry for the long reply.

>>730273749
Haha my Mrs was the same. When we decided to give swinging a go, she was like yea ok, but no blacks or asains

>>730267012
listen to me and listen to me good

you WILL regret it

she will never ever see you as she used to again

never mind you, SHE will change

a fantasy is a fantasy, leave it as just that.

>>730273836
No worries mate, thanks for sharing. I hear you on the multiple loads front. Sucks getting older...

>>730269738
you are the definition of a cuck

>>730274033
You got any experience? Why should he listen to you?

>>730274258
Haha why is that? I've literally fucked another guys girl whilst he watched cos he couldn't it up. Sounds real click to me

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>>730274652
Not the same thing. That's emotional relationships, he let his wife go dating lol. That's not what I'm doing at all, some dude is coming over to our house, fucks, then leaves. She's not going out for dinner with him and shit like that guy let his wife.

My best friend lives in a different city but comes back to town 3-4 times a year to visit family and when he's back I let him take a turn with my wife. It was my idea and took me about a year to convince my wife to try it, we did it for about 4 years until he met his wife and he cheated on her with my wife for the first year until it got serious, haven't done anything for about 2 years though.

>>730274886
Agreed but it's a classic example of not communicating, not setting any boundaries and someone being selfish

>>730274652
>rage fuel

>>730267012
Never and I've never known anyone who would find it anything but completely disgusting and rage inducing.

I'm sure hundreds of thousands of cheating couples have been put to the gun and the 'cuck' rotted in jail.

>>730274652
the guy is obviously a fag who doesn't know how to talks to women. needs to watch some RSD videos lol omg no wonder he sucked shit because for women its always easier.

>>730275417
We've already agreed that there's no kissing, no hugging, and this might be strange, but no talking. My gf will lead the way. We've both agreed that if at any point either of us feel uncomfortable then we'll stop and he'll leave. There's communication, and it's all definitely mutual and I trust her more than anybody.

>>730276174
It's not cheating. If she cheated I'd go fuckin mad, but that's not what is happening.