In relationship with 9/10 GF for 8 years. Was going to buy ring

>>729753024
take that cash you just saved and blow it all in vegas on gambling
whores
coke.

thank your lucky stars

At least she saved you money.

>>729753024
8 years of failure out of marriage is still eons and lightyears better than a broken marriage.

stop complaining faggot; it couldve been worse and you wouldve lost half;

and paying for baby chad's child support

>>729753024
She found out about ring some how?

negative on finding out about the ring

>>729753024
she probably found a bigger dick to suck. probably wants a BBC

She's fucking someone else. Probably has been for a while.

>>729753206
this thread is not about your day dreams

>>729753122
Dubs is correct
Go do this>>729753075

then get yourself a younger model

>>729753193
>>negative on the ring finding;
do you even quote
sage

>>729753282
sage your sage

>>729753315
sage your saging sage my sage

>>729753024
My fiance broke up with me after we had been dating for 8 years and just about 4 months before our wedding. I won't lie, there were some tears shed, but it turned out to be a really good thing. Been married for over a decade now to a great girl who is also a freak in bed and a much better match for me than my ex.

Sorry that your relationship ended, but at least you didn't spend the money on a ring.

>>729753368
find the positive, gotcha

>>729753277
>>729753122
Sehctib

>>729753024
Women in a nutshell.

>>729753024
Maybe your motivation to buy her the ring was
dependent on your feeling that shes been distancing from you. wish you the best anon (sorry for my bad english)

>>729753576
ive legit been working non-stop to save money for our future, like 4-5 months worth of extra shift on top of my normal shifts last year. just to put money in the bank, just to pay for our wedding, house and her fucking ring

>>729753024
Where some doors close, other doors open.. It hurts now, but better than being stuck in a failed marriage..

>>729753706
So, seriously /b/ro, when she didnt appreciate your motivation and attittude i think its better for you. Now go and find a good wife!

>>729753706
Sounds like it's time for a new corvette.

Damn dude keep your chin up anon. The fact you can hold a relationship for 8 years bodes well for you though a lot of people can't do that. In the near future you might start to really see things about your relationship that were wrong that you couldn't see while you were in the situation. Hopefully that will help you somewhat. There are ALWAYS better gals out there. The chances of you finding the perfect girl on a whim are so astronomically low.

Women have actual biological clocks that wear out slowly.. it's maybe after 5 years and a lack of progress and they feel to move onto something more "real", meaning a relationship that progresses. If you're not married and haven't put a baby in them by 5-7 years of being exclusive (especially in your late 20's-early 30's) they will start weighing their options. This applies to most women. Some women don't want to get married or have children. It also doesn't apply to young adults (been with a girl from 18 to 23, she's still a young party girl aka you'll get married too young and be fucked or she will get bored and you're fucked). That's why you don't get serious relationship prior to 25.

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>>729753024
>In relationship with 9/10 GF for 8 years.
Please do not misread that and think OP was dating a swimsuit model.

OP actually means nine tenths. He was dating a fat chick who lost a foot to the 'betus.

>>729753024

> tfw my GF is entirely dependent on me and incapable of taking care of herself so she can never really leave

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>>729754088
Fucking sagely advice, all /b/ros better listen to this.

>>729754456
Haha haha, except for the next guy that can buy her everything you can and more. You must be young still, good luck.

>>729754629

nah, I mean she is severely mentally ill and I'm the only person that puts up with her shit in the long-run and visits her when she's in inpatient care @ the mental hospital

i broke up with my bf after 5years of being together. everything was kinda ok, we got along well, sex was good and frequent, he is very successful at his job and all that jazz, but he never proposed. we had talked about marriage but i think it just was a bit too streched. maybe that's the case here?

>>729754088
all of this applies to guys as well

I broke up with a girlfriend of 5 years because all she wanted to do was drink, fuck and watch cartoons when I wanted to start settling down and having kids. She would ahev been a terrible homemaker and I'm glad I dumped her

(I do miss the sex though. She was a horny fucking freak pretty much every hour of every day)

>>729754720
>I mean she is severely mentally ill

And I don't mean that "wahh I'm depressed", "tumblr gave me PTSD" stuff, I mean like legit throwback schizo "Everyone in the restaraunt's faces just turned into my rapist and I hear them talking about me", "Stuck in a catatonic state unable to speak for hours", "I see dead people", "Do you hear the voices?", "Someone was controlling my body" type shit

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>>729753024
Take the money you saved and use it as a down-payment on a Ducati 899 Panigale. Look at it daily and be so happy that she will look at you and say no.

>>729753024
Looks to me like you dodged a bullet.

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>>729754316

>>729753706
This is probably what killed your relationship. Remember that for your next one.

>>729753706
> spending lots of money on a wedding and ring

My fiance and I are thinking of getting a drive-thru wedding and cast iron rings

>>729753024

She broke up with you at the best possible time. You'll recover.

>>729755037
She sounds like a keeper. You might be on to something anon.

shoot up her family. its the only way

>>729753024
At least it's before you got in too deep bro...it sucks todl say but move on is the only reasonable thing to do...well or KYS like every pussy does

>>729755631
>cast iron rings
What? I don't know about you but my sweat eats the fuck out of most metals. I had a copper ring once that left a green stain on my ringer. Titanium is a decent choice if you're looking for something inexpensive (and it's pretty much non-reactive).

>>729755008
Horny with zero aspirations is cool to a certain age. As some point she gotta get her shit together though. Fending for someone isn't fun for either person in the relationship.

>>729756032

I'm a narcissist that harbors violent fantasies and tortured animals as a child, am otherwise completely asocial, lie/spy on/manipulate/socially engineer the people around me to gain professional/financial success, and sometimes get stuck with persistent delusions about being dead/being a ghost or telepathically communicating with aliens, so really we're a pretty good match.

>>729755486 /b/ro's not wrong. Quality time is important

>>729756929

case in point: the first time she was institutionalized (for hallucinating in the middle of her shift at the hospital), I began gathering materials and drawing up plans to blow up the mental hospital/kill the guards and escape with her to South America.

Luckily, I suppose, I calmed down after visiting her a few times and bringing her dinner / doing loads of drugs

>>729756929
Agreed. You might have found the only person who could care about you. Someone who had the patience of 24 different people

>>729753024
Wow, i feel for you. Last time this happened to me i played U2 Joshua Tree album for a week and cried.

>>729757504

Go and find yourself as good of a match, someone you can be with when you both want to get taken away on a space ship to escape from government surveillance

>>729757243
Being a narcissist, I bet you gaslight the shit out of her.. it's amazing that you managed to lose control of someone so weakminded. A narcissist that sucks at manipulation and control. What'll they think of next.

>>729753024
>Wow, i feel for you. Last time this happened to me i played OCean Man for a week and drowned myself.

>>729758237

She has comobid BPD and schizophrenia and is pretty good at manipulation herself.

>>729758237
a faggot that thinks he knows what gaslighting is.

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>>729757243
you sound really retarded

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>>729754316

>>729758490

I don't deny it. Probably the most scary thing is that in terms of outward appearance and behavior, if you ran into me at work, or at the bank, I would seem normal. Professional, even. But it is only skin deep.

Take some LSD and go on a hike. Go figure some shit out

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>>729758798
yeah being retarded is usually only skin deep

you're cuntstruck get over it

shes prob takin some other dudes dick, 9/10 chances that the reason she isnt ready to date is cus shes not ready to choose which dudes dick she likes more

>>729759058

I have a tracker on her cellphone and watch her from work using the webcam on my home pc, and she doesnt have a car, so there really isn't any way for her to be cheating on me.

>>729758388
You got me. I learn terms for the sake of using them on /b/. Nowhere else.

>>729759234
thats kinda creepy.

if you get this attached to someone that you feel the need to take away their privacy then you are a fuckhead

you're afraid you dont deserve her and you are insecure

ur prob right too faggot

>>729759387

She snoops on me too, though. I know she gets on my conputer and reads every email or other message I send or receive, and goes through my text messages and call logs, etc, though she doesnt know that I know.

>>729759664
>conputer

lol if she reads all ur emails pretend to be something a little more interesting so when she reads them she isnt sick if your boring ass

>>729759777
real talk tho im trolling.

give her space and stop fuckin snooping on her, it isnt right.

how old are you OP?

Probably looking for someone with a better career. Girls love sucking a rich guy's dick.

>>729753706
Fuck her. You're clearly a good and decent man and that whore showed her true colors thankfully early enough to save you from hell.
Don't give up. Keep being you and doing what you love. Yeah shit might suck for a bit but it's much better this was than the alternative.
Whatever you do don't go full cuck and turn MGTOW and all that homoerotic cult crap. They're male feminists who can't move on like a soggy unflushable turd and waste their lives preaching wannabe chadisms. You're better than that.
Good luck and Godspeed brother.

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>>729760476
words of wisdom