Wat do b? I'm doing long distance with my girlfriend and

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just gonna post whatever until I get replys

>>729460435
I'll give you a serious answer anon: If it's long distance, it's not like you're going to be fucking her often. Feeling forced to fuck only her is gonna make you feel like shit.

You'll have to wait 3 weeks until blood tests reveal whether you have herpes or not so try not to have sex until then. If confirmed, you'll have to give up casual sex anon, I'm sorry. There are dating sites for people with herpes. Other route is to date people normally and disclose before things get hot and heavy. If she's good people, she'll accept the risk (which is low. especially if you get medication)

Source: Me. Got herpes from protected sex. :(

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>>729460940
What are the girls like on these sites? I have kinda high standards for dating. Also I was already into the idea of pretty much just fucking her for the rest of my life. We've been together 3 years, been through more than I could tell you, and are very accepting of the idea that we might get married.

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Also does anyone have any recommendations for treatment? I read about some form of medication that the earlier you take it the less outbreaks you'll have yearly.

>>729461389

If shes given you the chylamidia and the herps out of nowhere, then shes probably not thinking about you in the same way.

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>>729462187
ya know that's a really good point.

>>729462046
There are no treatments, live healthy and do not stress and it has less outbreaks. Just so you know. It can only be transmitted while it's outbreaking. So you could lie about it and avoid sex then.

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bumpin for anymore advice

Cheating fucking happens ALOT. If u like her keep her. If not show her the door.

>>729460435
Good news anon, you probably already have herpes! Just like 95% of the population. Your little red bumps will go away in time. However the whole chlamydia thing is something to be discussed if the test comes back positive for it. Just sac up and talk about it with your long distance girlfriend if you do have it>>729460435

Don't sweat it. I was in a LDR for two years. She is fucking other dudes guaranteed

>>729461389
I hate to tell you this but the girls on those sites aren't all that impressive. If you think the Guy/Girl ratio is bad on normal sites, it's even worse on those. I too have a long distance GF who accepts the risk (and doesn't cheat on me). If our relationship were to end, I'd probably transition to hookers, thailand trips, or some immoral kink that doesn't put anyone I care about at risk

>>729462521
No there are no cures, Valtrex is a treatment. I've taken college courses about stuff like this. Also i think its called asymptomatic shedding which is where you can transmit it without any real symptoms.

>>729462748
Its totally a given. Girls got way less self control then the small amount men have. If they get horny they're gonna scratch the itch

>>729462845
My bad. You are correct.

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>>729462649
I'm open to the idea of already having herpes but I think it would be a bit of a coincidence to have chlamydia 2 weeks after seeing her and herpes 1 week after that. If my girlfriend did hook up with someone else then she's a damn good liar.

>>729462794
How would you recommend finding partners then? I'm not really someone who struggled with getting pussy so is dating and disclosure the best route?

>>729462521
This person is lying.

>>729462845
This person is telling the truth. There's a Acyclovir and Valacyclovir (valtrex) that reduces odds of transmission.

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>>729463061
I moved across the country for her only to find out there was an entire group of guys that routinely fucked her. LDR+college=her getting fucked weekly

>>729463398
Dating and disclosure is the best route. Pray that whoever you're seeing doesn't tell your friends (which is my biggest fear). Prepare yourself with official documentation that confirms how low the transmission rate is with condoms & medication. (It's so widely spread because it often has no symptoms and because standard STD tests don't check for it)

>>729463549
As OP I was the second person. I'm no stranger to STD's and always thought the stigma behind them was bullshit.

>>729463748
Is that the ex?

>>729463777
How long do you usually wait to disclose? when I was single I usually waited 2-3 dates to have sex and am bad at waiting beyond that.

>>729460940
A little question here, how did you get herpes from protected sex? via oral?

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>>729464345
Not that guy but I'm gonna guess either oral or he got it around the area of his pubes that wouldn't be covered by a condom.

>>729462452
It's sad that someone had to point that out to you...

>>729464345
Genital herpes from vaginal sex. Didn't fuck without a condom for even a second. So, yeah, I was pissed to have done everything to stay clean yet still catch something.

>>729464558
Yep. Got it around the pubes.

>>729464151
Yes that's her. So beautiful

>>729463748
Were circling the drain here fuck u op I'm out this shit is all known reeeeeeeee

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>>729464565
Not gonna lie though if its the herps I might still stay with her. She comes from a crazy wealthy family and will probably have a better job than me and long term it's a decent financial decision.

>>729464151
When I found out that I got it. I manned up and disclosed to all my past partners. Partially because I wanted to be honest with them and partially because I wanted them to stop flirting with me 'cause I knew it'd be a dealbreaker for them.

I'm still in a LDR with one woman whose okay with it. If not for the herpes, I could without-a-doubt do better but I have too much going on in my life to live alone right now.

>>729463748
She has a jaw that could stop a car made of diamonds my dude.

>>729465121
You might want to ask her where she got those STDs though. I'd have serious trust issues if I were in your shoes.

>>729463748
Sorry for your loss man. I have an equally hot ex who shared all of my kinks. She even offered for me to live with her rent-free. We had drifted apart due to her constantly ghosting me on messenger but when I disclosed to her, we had a heart-to-heart and then.... silence :(

>>729465257
True. Lol.

>>729465432
Wow. Sounds sad.

>>729465190
>I manned up and disclosed to all my past partners.

Well, that shouldn't have taken you long. Was Mommy OK with the disease you gave her?

>>729465593
>disregards troll

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>>729465190
If I haven't been with anyone else in the last 3 years I probably don't have to disclose to past partners right? My current girlfriend is a solid 8.5/10 so I'm cool with staying with that for the rest of my life. So I know staying healthy is a good way to have fewer outbreaks but does that mean I would have to stop drinking or doing the occasional other drug like coke/molly?

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>>729465432
Yeah I'd definitely want to know the truth about how she got it. She's in the top sorority in a college in so cal it's not like she has limited options of partners.

>>729465593
zero effort went into that troll
0/middle school

>>729465726
You don't have to disclose if you aren't fucking them. I just did it 'cause I used to flirt with my exes. You don't have to quit drinking or drugs either. I don't get (visible) outbreaks and I haven't changed my lifestyle at all.

Protip, the odds of transmitting genital herpes from getting your cock sucked is incredibly low. So enjoy bare blowjobs however you can get them. Also, if you have HSV2, you can't get HSV1. So, there some good news for you.

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>>729466129
>She's in the top sorority in a college in so cal

>>729466129
>She's in the top sorority in a college in so cal

>Cringes

>>729466285
Right on que, the "herpes isn't that bad" guy.

The same kind of guy who gave it to your girlfriend OP.

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>>729466285
Forgive me for not remembering but one of those is oral and the other is genital yeah? But if I have one on my dick I could still get it on my mouth as well.

>>729466605
>>729466722

Not sure what you're getting at exactly.

>join top frat
>give top sorority girls herpes
>cycle continues

sounds fun OP

>>729466780
probably right about the type of guy who may have given it to my girlfriend. But even before I thought I had it I heard from so many people that it isn't a big deal and the stigma is the worst part. Mike from Love Line seems pretty nonchalant about it.

>>729466780
Herpes is literally an (often asymtomatic) skin condition. I'm not exaggerating a thing.

I wear condoms and take medication to reduce transmission so I'm better than "that kind of guy" but thanks for playing.

>>729467141
There's oral (most times) herpes (HSV1) and genital herpes (HSV2). If you have HSV1, you can still get HSV2. If you have HSV2, you're immune to HSV1. You can get HSV1 on your genitals. But HSV2 on the mouth is possible but there are no records of it happening before.

>>729467141
South Cal is full of Chads. Sororities are full of Chads. Being in a South Cal Sorority means, there's a revolving door of dude bros going in and out of her sorority house.

I'm in a similar situation, long distance relationship and a couple weeks after she visited I had some nasty bumps on my dick and freaked out. I immediately went to my doc and got a test done, only took a weekend to finish the blood work for me. It turned out that I had a yeast infection, it's not common for men but it happens. Anyways, there's some hope, if it's the clap, whatever take some meds and you'll be fine. If it's the herpes, well... best of luck to ya.

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>>729467673
OP take advantage of this and smash so cal sorority puss

>>729463398
sauce on pic?

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>>729467673
Obviously so cal is full of Chads but in California sororities can't have parties with alcohol because it'll be considered a "brothel" but i get what you're saying. So hsv2 is better to get than hsv1 technically.

>>729460435
Break up with her, i have herpes, and I haven't had an outbreak in 11 months, still fuck raw on it fine. Fuck my GF raw for the past 2 years and she doens't have it..


Don't worry about it

>>729468100
Yeast infections don't make bumps. They make rashes and make you itch. You got misdiagnosed. Also:
"A blood test can detect herpes antibodies 4 – 6 weeks after the first infection; testing before that time will not give an accurate result."

>>729468100
DUDE I was in a similar situation my freshman year. Dick looked all weird but it was just a yeast infection. frankly I don't give a shit if I just have chlamydia but herpes is for life.

>>729468569
Does she know you have herpes?? How often does she test for it?

>>729468294
Yes. This. SoCal girls are huge sluts. We need an epidemic of herpes. I'm sick of the girls here cheating all the time.

>>729468462
>California sororities can't have parties with alcohol
That is so not true. Why be in a sorority/fraternity if you can't drink?

>>729468667
She knows, I told her when I was high as fuck on mdma one night, and she said she didn't care. it's only contagious if you have an outbreak

I haven't used anti virals in 4 years. I've had 3 small outbreaks since then. Mind you, I take care of my body - work out, eat healthy etc. nothing out of the normal for myself though and I have a fairly good immune system

but she didn't get it, she tested last month. I told her a year into our relationship. just had our two year

>>729468436
Reverse image search it I don't remember where I got it.
>>729468569

Boy thats the dumbest shit I've heard in a while. And if you knowingly have herpes and have unprotected sex with someone without disclosing it it you can get sued

>>729468954
she's my girlfriend, and I only fuck when I don't have an outbreak. if there is no outbreak it's not contagious. Dohhhh

>>729468928
Glad you guys are doing well.

> it's only contagious if you have an outbreak
I hate to break this to you but that's not true.

>>729468954
BTW, I live in CANADA, not fucking US where you can get sued for telling someone off

In which case, fuck off - sue me

>>729469151
Thanks dudes, it's no big deal IMO. It's just the stigma around it really.

>>729469151
Well, considering I've slept with approx people since I found out I had it, and no reports back about it (I obviously didn't tell the girl I just took home from the bar I had herpes) as I said, I only fucked when I had no outbreak

>>729469303
approx 80 people*

>>729469393
Feel free to google "When is Herpes contagious", my friend. Pick any number of sites that'll inform you that you apparently put 80 people at risk.

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>>729468726
Dude I've lived in socal my whole life and thats not necessarily true.

>>729468872
Sororities can't have parties with alcohol in their chapter house because it's considered a brothel at that point. Frats can do whatever they want though.

If you go to planned parenthood you support abortion and should die from aids. Go fuck yourself

>>729469967
Planned parenthood does Women's health treatments, tests for STDs, provides inexpensive birth control, and a whole bunch more. Sorry you're so stuck up on a single thing that doesn't affect you.

>>729469140
Dude That's not true at all. Google asymptomatic shedding.

>>729469165

Welp if you cant sue because someone knowingly gave you herpes thats pretty fucked up. Obviously America isn't perfect either but damn.

>>729460940
Wait, herpes is permanent? I thought it went away with treatment, and then you could have a normal sex life.

So if you get herpes, you're fucked?

>>729461389
>I have kinda high standards for dating

No you don't look at the slut you call your gf, btw you probably already have HIV.

>>729470326
You're not fucked but it is permanent. Sorry

>>729460435
>but if its also the herps should I stay with her?

LOL! no. Herpes is pretty common you can still find a decent woman that has herpes, instead of stay with some cheating whore.

>>729470326

It's forever nigga.

>>729470517
Don't be sorry; I don't have OP and I'm not herpes. I was just curious.

>>729469967
>d should die from aids. Go fuck yourself

Christianity is love xD god you retards are just like ISIS

>>729470117
If you support people who kill babies, it means you kill them to. Go stick your cock in a beehive you democrap

>>729470857
Shoo troll

>>729468954
Not true, it's only certain STDs and it varies by state, though HIV is consistent.

>>729470811
We're different than those muslim jews. We got nukes. If you hate America you might as well kill yourself before we do, faggot

>>729470117
>>729470811
Don't feed the troll.

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>>729469967
If by supporting abortion you mean the woman's right to make decisions about her own body then yeah I guess. Plus do you realize how many young terrified kids they help out? Imagine being 16 and having puss leaking from dick and not having anywhere to go or knowing who can help you out.

>>729470432
Doesn't mean she ins't hot and very put together dude. Also the transmission rates of a positive female to a male is like .05% for HIV

>>729469690
There are two types of guys in Cali: the ones in denial, and the realist.

I know they're sluts because I've been with the women here. I've screwed other people's gfs, a wife, and been cheated.
I always hack into my gfs shit. They always got a side boy to hide eventually.

SoCal? SoSlut Cal.

>>729471181
We gotta protect an unborn child's rights to autonomy too, not just the woman's. A child is innocent and their life should be a priority. If you disagree, you're a liberal cuck

>>729471526
You aren't talking about a child though, you are talking about a cluster of cells with no consciousness. Might as well be an egg yolk.

>>729460940
this is bullshit. you just be careful and dont go bareback when you have an outbreak and you wont spread it. herps is overhyped just be responsible

>>729472329
Read the thread before posting please.

>>729471436
You could say something similar about the south with red necks and non rednecks. Generalizing 30 million people is pretty dumb dude. I'm not saying my girlfriend didn't cheat but to say every girl in California is a slut is just stupiid.

>>729471526
1 out of 3 pregnancies don't make it to childbirth. When it's a bundle of cells it's not a child dude.

>>729472329
Over stigmatized yeah but knowingly spreading it is fucked up. It's not just as simple as not fucking when you have an outbreak.

Herpes fucking hurts. You'll know if you have it.

Bodily Autonomy is half of what makes of what is legally recognized in the western world as the "Right of Self Determination." (Free will is the other part, to deny either or both to an individual is to enslave them.)

A pregnant woman has Bodily Autonomy however a feotus does not - it is wholey dependant upon it's host, as a parasite. To deny a woman's right to Bodily Autonomy to protect the potential (not guaranteed) Bodily Autonomy of the evolving cluster of cells in the future is to enslave the host.

TLDR: Anti-right to choose = slavers

>>729473139
I don't have any symptoms and I've had HSV2 for 2 years.

>>729473139
It started hurting but now I'm drinking so I guess we'll find out in a few days.

>>729473957
How did you find out you had it?

>>729470117

No, they don't. They *refer* to places that do those things, except for the birth control thing.
They are a for profit abortion mill. Calling them anything else is a lie.

>>729474785
So when they refer you to those abortion places they're making money somehow right? My 20 year old roommate who got into SDSU thanks to not having a fucking kid with her boyfriend might disagree.

>>729475137

No, they do the abortions themselves, that's their only income stream. They also provide contraception. Anything else, they refer elsewhere.

>>729474785
I'm a dude and my Planned Parenthood did my first herpes test. My regular doctor wanted me to make an appointment for the following week.

>>729474067
I had the initial outbreak after I got it. Haven't had symptoms since then

>>729475232
Not necessarily true. When my roommate needed an abortion her initial appointment was in Santa Barbara but they referred her to someone in LA who wasn't part of Planned Parenthood. Also if they're an "abortion mill" why did I pee in a cup and get tested for free when I didn't have any insurance?

>>729460435
Publicly shame her for being a whore.

>>729472837

Generalization comes from truth there's nothing wrong about it. As someone who traveled to California a lot I've generalized the average Californian as a waste of space and 7/10 times I'm right.

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>>729476005
Then I publicly announce that I have chlamydia ad possibly herpes as well though.

>>729476093
Traveling to California isn't the same as living here dude. Meeting 15 or so people doesn't mean thats what the whole state is like.

>>729472837
OP, it seems that you are one of those cases that is only able to learn trough pain. Many anons already told you the truth but you refuse to accept it. Good luck OP, may you wake up before you are HIV positive because of your 'dear girlfriend'.Godspeed.

>>729477155
Please enlighten me on this "truth" Im missing out on. I know I might have herprs, I know I probably have chlamydia and I know it's from my girlfriend. My original point was if I should stay with her or not if I have herpes because it would be a good financial decision to do so.

>>729476723

I live in a state that's a major exodus zone for Californians fleeing the sinking ship. I interact with these refugees everyday, nice folks but not too bright and generally useless at even basic tasks. Based on my experiences I'm not wrong but you're free to think otherwise.

>>729477754

Does she have a trust fund or money set aside for her by her folks? If so marry her then pull a Kevin Federline.

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>>729460435
Huge List of Darknet (TOR/Deep Web)
>>Hidden Websites 2017

>>729472837
I see the problem here: he's a typical left wing guy. He likes to discuss problems but isn't willing to accept the truth. I'm betting he's also a feminist, which is why he's okay with being cuck'd.

>>729477754
>Have 'girlfriend'
>she is far away from you
>she is at uni,she might make more money than you will in the future
>meet,fuck,get std
>this woman is willing to risk your health for her own personal satisfaction
>asking if you should stay together wih her

If you wanna be a disease ridden,emotionally dependant side cuck that will be discarded soon,then stay together with her.
Never mind, keep doing what you think is right for you. We might have different definitions of a 'red flag'. Godspeed.

>>729477883
Sounds like you get the bad Californians or Californians looking for cheaper housing/ other job opportunities. Considering California has the 6th largest economy in the word could you tell me more about the sinking ship?

>>729477989
Well when her dad dies she gets close to 2 million from insurance as well as her sisters. I also genuinely love her if that counts for anything. I'm cool with a relatively loveless marriage as log as Iong as there's money and the kids have a good life.

>>729460435
>>729477754
OP. Ok. I don't understand. Am I missing something?

You know you got STD from girlfriend. Either she is cheating on OP or she has had these STDs for a while and not known or know and hidden.

How is, after confirming with tests and starting any relevant medical treatment, resolving the details for how she contracted these diseases NOT YOUR NUMBER ONE CONCERN?

I went to UCLA. I fucked a fair amount of those sorority sluts. At UCLA one of the major bus stops is right across from the sorority houses. I used to just stand on the corner while waiting and pick them up while they were on their way to and from campus. Your GF is almost undoubtedly fucking others.It's not 100% but it's 80-90%: it's jsut part of the mindset in socal.

So even if it's a good finical situation or even if you are worried about getting other girls - IF YOU STAY you are literally a pathetic cuck that is OK with a slut cheating and infecting you.

>>729478745

2 million is fucking nothing and you're a damn fool to stay with a chick you gave you the clap.

>>729478745
Dude you are an idiot.

2 million dollars is not enough in America anymore to have some sort of easy street life that will be imune from serious day-to-day hassles. It is surly not enough to justify walking into a bad marriage or deciding major life decisions over.

>>729478618
I'm definitely left wing as far as believing abortion should be legal but right wing with believing owning guns is a right for most people.

>>729478712
If I have herpes dating other people is almost out of the question. So getting a solid amount of cash and fucking a hot girl as well for a few years doesn't sound like the worst thing does ir?

>>729478745

Large economy does not translate to reasonable cost of living, job availability and livable wage. Every refugee I've met has bitched about the insane living cost and the lack of jobs. But now they're fucking my state just like they fucked out theirs.

>>729464636
>did everything to stay clean
Obviously not. Woah bro like sex is so important and you're such a fag if you don't ignore self control for the sake of getting your dick wet in some pussy bro

Enjoy your herpes.

>>729478967
>>729479127
>>729479207

You guys have very valid reasons for leaving her which I'm on board with but seem to be missing the point. If I have herpes WHO THE FUCK ELSE WOULD FUCK ME? I realize she most most likely cheated but if it's something permanent like herpes staying with her might be my best option considering the money and life style I would most likely get.

>>729479750
Wearing a condom while fucking some rando sounds pretty reasonable in terms of trying to stay clean. Sorry you've never had an opportunity to have a real sex life.

>>729479210
Do what you think is right for you. I think you are rationalizing a cognitive dissonance. But its your life and your choice. This woman will likely not respect you anytime soon.

Do what you want. It's your life.For many men,the scenario you described would be full of 'red flags', as it has been mentioned many times ITT. It seems you think it is acceptable.There is nothing more we can do for you.
Your life,your responsability,your choice.
I'm out.

>>729480140
Obviously red flags are all over the place but if I have the herps I don't think I would get any other options as good as this. I know what you're saying though and you're right about a lot of stuff. I guess I'm just at a point of either resigning myself to a crappy but somewhat successful marriage or having to date with herpes and seeing how that goes.

>>729479796
Strange. You hear about women 'trapping' men by getting pregnant. Or sometimes, men doing the same to women.

Never considered that giving someone an STD might be the same thing.

But I'll offer this stupid opinion. When faced with these sorts of questions I was once advised to follow the axiom (probably platitude): "you can't cheat an honest man."

Meaning that sideways scheming and gaming about maximizing payout/utility/gain rarely ever work and the best bet is to just take personal stock of how you feel and then honestly express/actualize this.

I think you are asking the wrong questions. You trying to scheme and maximize about future situations/hypotheticals which you know little about. And you are doing this by considering incredibly short-term/silly and greedy considerations about sex and money. This is a recipe for disaster. This is how fucking dumb white trash did things in the trailor park I grew up in.

The truth is, this isn;t your decision. She will almost certainly break up with you. you need to assume that. The money isn;t yours and you will probably never get any.

Be honest. Ask the right questions. So you want to be with her? Are you hurt about her cheating? etc.. stop pathetic,self-doubting,self-destructive scheming about sex/money unitil after you have answered (because theres always pther pussy and you are a young man so you can always makes ends meet)

>>729480003
Lol whatever makes you feel better about yourself. Only losers let themselves get herpes

>>729480733
I mean in some ways I'm not even that hurt about the cheating. I've always thought that two people can't be happy solely fucking each other for 70 years or whatever so opening up the relationship was always a possibility. You're mentioning other pussy though and my sex life would more or less crumble if I had herpes. I couldn't not disclose that to someone.

>>729480736
>letting yourself get herpes
Yeah thats how that works bud.

>>729480623
The marriage is still in the future, at this point it's a thought,nothing more. Most women that start uni in a relationship will end it,because they see 'better options' on a daily basis.

I think the real question is: Do you consider yourself good enough to be loved,yes or no. As long as you have issues with that point,you are gonna struggle in relationships and attract the wrong kind of women. You may believe that after her, no one will love you ever again.But with this mindset, you give her (or women in general) too much power over you.

Are you happy in the situation as it is? It seems you have at least some uncertainity, otherwise you wouldn't start a thread.
Anyway, best wishes to you.Keep your head up.