How hard is to live without sex /b/? I'm 21 yo, i know

>>729303065

Hi friendo.

I'm 28, and I plan to kill myself when I'm 30.

I'm gonna let people know on my 29th birthday though so that they can mentally prepare for it. I mean, I'm not a monster.

>>729303331
That whiny shitty poor me attitude is exactly why u don't get laid

its pretty god damn hard to live without someone to fug
but its not as hard as living without a qt to hug

it doesn't get easier either

>>729303331
>I plan to kill myself when I'm 30.
but thats when you get your powers and your hat...

>>729303065
meh, after a while you start to prefer jerkin'

I've had had sex with 5 girls, had a 3 year relationship, etc. etc. Haven't even tried to get laid in like 2 years now with no regrets.

It's not bad if you haven't had sex.

But if you had consistent sex and then you go on a dry season immediately, it's the worst psychological torture

>25 virgin
>have a gf virgin

Hardly a big deal. Could've gotten laid before, prefer not to risk babies and std's.

>>729303540
This.

Pussy and tits feel great but the thing attached to it makes it hardly worth it.

The point is to cum. You can do that alone. While looking at much harder girls.

Sex is overrated my dude.

if its any consolation, when you get to 40 you see women for the whores they are and begin to wonder you put yourself through so much hell trying to please them and get laid. Use prostitutes, its easier and cheaper int he long run trust me.

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Im 30, by gf is 33. We slept once, drunk. It was her first, mine - second. Some time after we had some moderate pettig. That was 4 years ago. Nothing since then. Oh and we live together.

To answer your question: no, it's not hard. You just have to be kinda fucked in the head.

>>729303676
just use a condom

>>729303676
>Hardly a big deal. Could've gotten laid before, prefer not to risk babies and std's.

this is the most pathetic rationalization for being a huge loser.

>>729303540
I think this is how id feel. 28 still virgin. paid strippers to feel them up, no pennitration(with hands) so I know the gooie softness of beef curtains and how wonderfull boobs are, but I think I just need that one time I get to pound a pussy then Ill be ok with jerking to that memory for life

>>729303065
Same. 19 year old here, was thinking the same thing earlier. It's terrible. I think I'll just have to go on Tinder where almost every girl is down to fuck. An act of desperation, but it's looking like Tinder is the only choice. Fuuuuck

>>729303065

once you stop being a pussy and understand women are submissive creatures and confidence and persistence will subdue most women that have even a hint of attraction to you. you'll be swimming in pussy.

>>729303924
that dont really work now. girls still using as a date site

>>729303065
make money, pay for sex

>>729303065
not that hard especially when you have all kinds of things going on in your life.

I could've fucked this indian chick on POF but she seemed too clingy so I didn't bother. I didn't think that the sex was worth the hassle

> I'm 24
> 12 years on /b/
> I fucked a girl 4 years ago (still love/like her)
> I want to fuck someone (or have a gf) stronger, with every passing day
> I work almost 14 hours a day, because it's the only thing in my life that I find sensible
> I earn a LOT of money
> win? or lose? I have no idea have I won or lost a life.
> older /b/tards: help

Just fuck some quality prostitutes, after that you wont even want a gf anymore. You can enjoy your alone time and just fuck whenever you feel like it.

>>729303886
eccie dot net

>>729303540
Unbelievably false account of what sex feels like with a satisfying partner. At least, that's what I've seen with all those lucky dudes getting hot grills. And of course, I get really angry every time I encounter a video of a grill that I would bang and a nigger. Jerking to shitty porn is becoming extremely outdated, since porn is becoming shittier and shittier every time.

>>729304063

money before bitches. I actually would rather work than fuck lol.

Its not that hard. Just get out there and chat. Its dirty to say not dirty to do. I cant count 15 girls ive fucked atm of the top of my head. Just be yourself and act confident. Thats about it. Dont be such a pussy.

>>729303684
People who go through enough relationships (and especially divorces) realize this. It often isn't worth it, and the one who believe it IS worth it, get doomed to a sex-less relationship once they get married or have their first kid.

>>729303065
I remain virgin until my late 24 years.
After a while you do not pay attention.

>>729304131
any idea how to find them without getting police on u?

>>729303065
Realistically, it depends on how much you think of it. If you think about it more than once a week, not getting it will either drive you mad or make you depressed after 10-20 years. If you can just not think about it, stop watching porn, etc., you can go your whole life easily without sex.

>>729304063
>claims 12 years on /b/
>around before boxxy videos
>wants old fag advice

>>729303540
Yuuuuuup. Pretty much this. I mean a fucking fleshlight is the same thing and certainly better than starfish sex.

>>729303065
I had a relationship once a few years ago.
at first you miss pussy, after a long while you forget what pussy feels like, after a longer while you forget what fucking feels like.

I just miss intimacy at this point. I don't even want to fuck I just don't want to go to sleep and wake up in an empty bed anymore.

>>729303065
more

Sex is overrated. You're fine anon

25yr fat.
Was a NEET virgin until a year ago but then the fire nation attacked.

>>729304063
The worst thing is, I'm crazy scientifist type. My old gf was the only person I know of that was attrasted to my fucked up personality (she was really intelligent).

I'll probably live the rest of my life alone, with my smug feeling of superipority. Alone in my basement. Fapping to stupid porn. Dreaming of someone like her. Meh.

>>729303503
Im 31. No powers. No hat. Just more and more hatred each day.

>>729304336
I Agree this anon

Oh I'd probably kill myself if I couldn't have sex anymore. But I actually enjoy female companionship because I'm not a faggot, so you'll probably be fine

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>>729303065
I know how you feel OP, wizards can live accepting the fact they will never have a gf, but people like you and I have to live with the worry of achieving that status, always being nervous that anything you do can ruin your chances of living a normal life.
Every morning I wake up from a dream involving someone whose face I dont recognize, exercise, go to uni, and then head to my clubs hoping that I'll meet someone new there, but it never happens. On the weekends I host events with my friends and hope they invite qts from their clubs, but they rarely do and if they do the new people almost never have the opportunity to show up a second time.
Maybe one day

>>729304186
B... b... but I've a lot of money. More than I spent anyway (I'm still cheap fuck in my heart).

>>729304254
You can't realistically spend 10 years of your adult life with no sex without being sexually frustrated. It's in Maslow's hierarchy of needs for fuck's sake.

>>729304517
dude that must mean you have repressed sex memories from childhood or someshit every virgin gets powers and a dank ass wizard hat when they turn 30

my dick is 3.5" but i weigh 310lbs so i might have an inch hiding under my fat pad but then what good is a 4.5 incher? honestly i don't even want sex i just want someone to hold and to share a mutual feeling of security when we're together. i'm 21

I haven't been laid since 2012. You learn to live with it. Just jerk off and find other shit to keep you busy. Pussy will eventually come around to you at some point if you're not some hideous, unlikable autist.

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>>729304275
B... but it's true. The truth is, 12 years ago I was on /b/ for pure curiosity, without understanding. I only grew up to /b/ few years later

>>729303065
depends on if you have had sex before or not. I feel like i'm infinitely more frustrated knowing what I'm missing. Haven't had sex in two years because i stupidly went to an engineering school for college. Highschool gf and I fucked like rabbits for two years first.

>>729303065
Find a local bar and start going.

>>729304881
And yet you've still have't been laid since 2012.Fuck this.

>>729303065
depends on your sex drive.

when i was a teenager it was unbearable. then i started actually having sex when i was 22 and had a few girlfriends over the next few years, and in my late 20s my libido cooled off and i just stopped caring about women, so life without sex and women is actually extremely comfy.

I moved to a new university and there are plenty of hot girls here. I used to be fat but i worked it out but i still have a tiny dick, i consider it ugly and think i will never pleasure a girl. Just imagining myself naked is such a shame.
It feels like shit.

>>729303065
i am 22 and still a virgin, going for 23 soon
i's pretty okay, as i figured that people make it more of a deal than it really is
I do have a virgin gf though and know that I will get some soon, so that might help.
just don't expect it to be anything special if you do it just to have it done.
that's what I've been told by several friends anyway, not that I am very knowledgable on that field

Sex is this important to people? Am I the only one that thinks this is sad? I am aren't I?

>>729303497

Faggot, I'm amazing. The world doesn't deserve me.

Go be a shill somewhere else.

>>729305303
>Sex is this important to people? Am I the only one that thinks this is sad? I am aren't I?

How exactly is this sad? You wouldn't be born weren't this important to your parents. Oh, right, sex is pathetic.

>>729303065
51 yo grand wizard here. As you get older your sexual desperation fades, and women's allure goes over a cliff. When this happens you see women for what they are, and realize why women don't like each other. Even casual contact is unpleasant and you don't miss them when they are gone. Women age like fucking milk.

>>729305542
I mean, don't people have things to do? Not just constantly worry about it or try to get laid? Is their only hobby having sex?

>>729304958
Easier said then done. What if you're an introvert? What if you can't hold a casual conversation about anything that girls like to talk about in bars, well, because you're not a fucking idiot?

>>729305303

yes

you are closeted faggot. let your freak fag fly

>>729305641
when do you stop longing for intimacy and companionship? thats the part that hurts

>>729305679
then you're not destined to pass your genes on.
>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Darwinism

>>729305661
Well, when you can accomplish everything else but sex doesn't that make you curious? It's in our genes. Why do you think people do drugs? Because it's something that they absolutely must once they hear about it? Of course not! It's because they genuinely want to know what it feels like.

>>729303065
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RPfx_jFZQuI

>be me
>obsessed with 4chan in 2005, give or take few years
>virgin
>socially awkward
>massive porn/hentai collection
>jerkin into socks and loving it
>acne makes me self conscious
>graduate highschool a virgin
>decide i've had enough
>youtube how to talk to girls
>it fucking works if you take it seriously
>immediately bang 5 different girls, back to back
>dated a few of them
>fuck buddy the rest
>now never gone without pussy for longer than 2 months
>dating super thicc girl
>lets me pound it whenever
>i'm fucking 25
Stop complaining about not getting pussy; go get a haircut, shower, feel good about yourself for one night, and start talking to random girls in bars or at your school. Most are cordial enough to talk back, even for a little while. Tell them your new to nightlife socializing, they'll start talking about their history and experience with it and before you know it, you're a great listener. Don't hover hand, make minor physical motions like high fives and gently grabbing her arm when she says something silly. Escalate the entire conversation to be flirty, she'll probably flirt back even if she doesn't want to fuck you. Eventually, one of them will.

>>729303065
I'm a 25 yo virgin and right now it's not really sex that concerns me, it's being alone. Not having sex is a minor nuisance, being unloved makes me want to kill myself.

>>729305364
>I'm amazing
>can't even get a girl to like you
Ok.

>>729305794
I'm not OP but I'd say low 30's

>>729305063

I don't have much money or a car and i'm in my late 20s living with my mom, that pretty much explains that. There's a cutoff point in age regarding how much you can get away with living a borderline NEET lifestyle before females don't start paying attention to you. That age being 25.

>>729306015
thats still too long

>>729305641
When you realize through bitter personal experience that women do not hold the answers to the problems that you have.

>>729303331
Do it sooner rather than later. I waited too long because I was a pussy. Now I have a family, house and job, and it's just not possible anymore. Everyone relies on me working every day, all day. I would have been better off if I died before I got all this baggage.

>>729305954

You'll always be alone if you don't find the right person and just settle for someone for sex or fleeting fun. I guess that's better than nothing for most of us though.

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>>729303065
i legitimately don't understand how people can go that long without sex. not because its so great that people should move mountains for it, but rather that its such a natural progression from just interacting with other human beings.

like, i'm 20 years old. i've had sex with a few different people, but i'd consider myself a fucking socially retarded autist. like, its a struggle for me to interact with other people, but i've still managed to convince several other people to have sex with me on many occasions.

it's mindboggling to me. i had these two guys at the end of my dorm in college that were both like 19 and virgins. i legitimately didn't believe them for the longest time because i just couldn't understand how you could get that far into life without having sex with someone. its like you'd have to be actively sabotaging relationships to prevent intercourse from happening.

>>729303065
Fuck dude, pretty goddamn hard. 22 year old here, lost my virginity last year around August or September to a girl I met on /soc/.

Let me tell ya, its fucking hard. It's not just the sex but the intimacy you miss. It's been four months since we had sex and three since last real contact with her. Fuck I miss her man, I wish I hadn't said that stupid-ass shit because of my seasonal depression.

>>729303497
>That whiny shitty poor me attitude is exactly why u don't get laid

That comment should be a sticky on the the front page of /b/

Meh, not hard. I haven't been laid in 6 years, primarily because I'm a workaholic and don't have much interest.

>>729305641
I can automatically confirm that as untrue for every 50 year old out there. My grandfather died of cancer around your age, and he had a sexual frustration and would sometimes watch porn in the living room despite having a wife who was just a bit older than him. I do not believe that sexual frustration goes away, it just gets worse because as you get older it gets harder and harder to please young, beautiful women.

>>729306228
to be fair, if you are looking for a woman to fix your problems, you are doing it wrong anyway
not trying to teach you anything, just saying that you have to be content with being alone at least enough that you being happy does not depend on the other person
maybe you just didn't meet the right person, maybe you can live alone, but most people need someone in their lives to feel loved, and when that someone comes, you should not expect them to fix your problems but rather just enjoy their company etc.
idk, it's hard to explain, but i hope someone understands what i mean

>>729303065
OP you need to just pay a hooker. Get on TER and find some nice incall, you'll pay quite a bit for it, but as long as you shower beforehand and you bring cash, a hooker is unlikely to say no. After that, you can fuck different hookers every week, or see the same one or two regularly. Don't let the idea of paying fuck with you. Every guy pays. Pays for drinks. Pays to get in clubs, events, movies, etc. Buys gifts. Buys dinner. And most of them are doing it to fuck some 7/10 skank after 2-3 dates, and she won't even let them fuck her in the ass. Hookers are hot, and they seriously know how to fuck. They aren't going to bother you the next day or try to control your life. The math works out for the most part, gf or hooker, its a wash if you see the hooker 4 times a month.

i suggest you go out get a girl. i ruined my life at 25.

I can say with confidence that sex isn't everything, although I highly reccommend you experience it a couple times. I've had sex with 56 females and std's are a little easier to catch than you'd think

>>729305215
It's going to be quite special but not because of the physical part. In fact that's probably going to be downright awkward your first time. The intimacy is what makes sex so amazingly good.

>>729306667
TER?

>>729306696
Please, elaborate.

>>729306586
>harder and harder to please young, beautiful women.
the fuck, nigga? the older you get the less you give a shit about pleasing women. throw money at them to suck your dick and call it a day like the rest of 40+ year old men.

>>729306667

that's really not acceptable once you realize that sex isn't even worth having if you have to wear a condom
hookers are a LOT more expensive when you have to pay them like 2x as much because you won't wear one (at least half of hookers will accept more money to fuck raw, and deny deny deny)

>>729303331
Why dont you just get a hooker?

>>729303065
I'm 24 and i live without sex for almost year. I think i'm really charming for opposite sex but still i don't need it. Trust me, you get used to it.

>>729306833
yeah, that's what i meant/thought
both the special and the awkward part
we are pretty comfy around each other, but never even seen each other naked yet (which i think is good) but yeah, i think it will be a little weird at first, but i am looking forward to it
maybe the wrong thread to ask, but anything i should look out for?

>>729306872
I meant harder to get them to do that stuff. And you do have to please them in order to get them to do it, you know. Not every woman is down to fuck an old looking creep, unless there's a shit ton of money involved.

>>729303065
25 yo virgin. Doesn't bother me. I want to have sex, sure, but apparently not enough to seek it out. And despite my perma-virgin status, I still have unreasonably high standards. I've actually turned a few chicks down over the course of the years (a fatty, an obnoxious cunt, an ugly chick who had a kid, etc).

I live a glorious selfish lifestyle. The hardest part of my life is dealing with coworkers commenting on my lack of girlfriends over the years. Whatever. Thanks to the internet I've seen more pussy than most people throughout human history. I may never fuck a real one but honestly my life is cake compared to the struggles humanity has survived throughout time.

I figure someday I'll be desperate enough to go to a bar but that day still hasn't arrived... In the meantime, weed and videogames are all I seem to care about. Perhaps I'm a manchild but I'm not harming anyone and to each their own, right? Who cares. If your virginity is bothering you so much, ask a chick out lul. keep doing it til you get lucky, or go to the bar, or pick up a hooker.

>>729305641
You can see women for what they are, treat them for what they are, and still get plenty of pussy. In fact it's EASIER to get laid if you realize women aren't as amazing as they pretend they are. Goddamn dude go read a pickup book or some shit. At least for the hell of it.

>>729306850
The Erotic Review

I'm 48, got laid a lot in my younger years. Got married 12 years ago, we had 2 kids. After that, sex stopped. My youngest is 8, I've fucked my wife like 3 times since he was born. Just go to hookers you pay for everything else you want in life, no reason not to pay for that. That's what I do.

>>729307213
I've also turned down plenty of girls, and some I even regret. I'm so lonely that I'd turn back time to get to bang those cunts. The reason that I turned each and everyone of them down is for their own good, I'm seeking A or A+ girls for actual relationships, and anything below that just sex. Me being such a dick made me feel some pity for girls who looked like they were after a serious relationship, so I never actually went for it. I'm 19, sexually deprived, and will probably turn to just fucking and dumping until I'm satisfied.

>>729305952
>youtube how to talk to girls
>it fucking works if you take it seriously

Fucking this.

I was a kissless virgin til I was 17. That year I started looking up shit on how to talk to girls and I figured it out. Had my first kiss at the first football game of the school year. Had sex a month later. Fucked a few more girls that year (like 3 or 4 I think).

Not that hard once you've experienced it. Before I lost my virginity it was a big fucking deal and I felt really down about it and just wanted to experience the pleasure of sex. I mean, it feels great and it's exciting, but I will definitely say that I imagined sex a bit differently from how it actually is. I thought I'd feel pretty different after losing my virginity like some sort of barrier I pass, but the truth is I didn't. I felt the same. It's not big deal to me now. Haven't had sex in a month or so and I'm fine. I just fap it out.

I think it's natural to overthink sex when you're a virgin. From an evolutionary point of view, you want to fuck asap to pass on your genes, and so you're having these intense feelings to do it ASAP.

Tbh it's sad that some virgins get super depressed about lack of sex. I wish they just knew exactly what it's like. I'm not saying I don't want sex anymore, hell, I'd love to fuck some hot pussy, but I'm just saying it's much easier to deal with not getting it. When I was a virgin I'd get actually sad about not getting sex, but now I don't get sad, no way. Now I just want to relieve the urge, preferably with a hot girl.

>>729306990
If you fuck anyone that isn't your wife without a condom, your are a fucking idiot. You're going to get a disease or spend the next 18-21 years paying child support. Bitches lie about taking the pill all the time, and there is no shortage of guys who got trapped I a relationship by a bitch that got pregnant.

>>729303065
Not very. Shits worse when you've had sex and haven't had shit for awhile cause you know exactly what you're missing.

>>729306667
I totally agree with this anon

The whores are the top, my first escort fucked me for more than an hour without stopping and after she wiped my sweaty face, you just lie down in bed! The last one that sucked me, I never felt as much pleasure to make me suck.

>>729307033
If you mean what problems should you try to avoid stress is the big one. Over and over and over guys have made threads saying they couldn't perform their first time. The girls probably have similar issues but just suck it up and deal with the pain or not enjoying it so much because it's not quite as obvious when their bodies aren't being cooperative.

Talk lovey with your girl before you do it and try to put both your minds at ease. It doesn't matter that you're not fucking like porn stars or whatever magical scene from some fantasy novel. All that's important is that the two of you have an enjoyable intimate experience. Remember you're both doing this not just to sate some hormonal urges but from a desire to be closer. If it's still not working for whatever reason just cuddle and relax instead. You can try again later after the two of you are more comfortable being naked together.

>>729306990
Fucking hookers is gross enough, but to do it without a condom is like licking a toilet seat in a gas station.

>>729308136

well considering that i'm 33 now and that's never happened, even if it does happen once in the future it's not likely enough to have never enjoyed sex because of fear.
it's not that i take NO precautions.. people don't understand statistics.

also if a bitch does get pregnant now, good. i want kids. but before that was true i just pulled out.

>>729308525
i'd argue its worse than licking a toilet seat. barebacking a hooker can leave you with a permanent life-altering STD, but licking a toilet seat can only make you sick for little bit.

>>729305641
Not worded in a way most of you pathetic virgins will understand, but he is spot on in his assessment. This coming from a 50 yr old married fool who has no interest in sex with the wicked witch of this house, as far as I`m concerned I hope the bitch crash lands on her broom stick and dies from the trauma.

depends on the person. it my only reason for living