feels thread >invite girl i like on a "date" by

>>729033216
Well that's gotta hurt.

>>729033216
Eh dude take it in stride. I hear guys talk about how they dont even have the balls to try. You swung and you missed, just get back out there and don't be such a pussy in your feelings all the time

>>729033444
trips dont lie

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Ok ill dump some stuff

>>729033216
I did that once, feels pretty crap
but you can move on pretty easily from that trust me

>>729033216
Tell her you can skip the drinking and get right to fucking if she wants.

You'll either be successful or be in the same position you are now.

Can't lose, plus women love it when you're bold.

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>>729034699

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>>729034810

didnt realise this was a rekt thread

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>>729034870

I'm a stupid pretentious faggot. every lies too me, because they know the truth. I have nothing, now or in the future

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>>729034931

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>>729035100

>>729033216
give up on her and find someone less bitchy , you will find the perfect girl i promise you

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>>729035214

>>729034931

Is this 10/10 doggy dog world bait or just plain ignorance?

>>729035100
Always and will forever get me

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>>729033216
alright here comes some backstory

>the girl is actually pretty antisocial, doesn't like being around people and is alone most of the time
>she is quite ok looking, body looks great but her clothing style is weird
>she hates most people, there is basically nobody she doesn't like... with the exception of me though, at least that is what i'm thinking
>she tells me that i should talk to her more often, im thinking to myself that i finally hit a jackpot
>she likes to talk to me, likes my jokes and just likes me in general, it was really obvious to me and my friends noticed that too
>.. now that's what i thought..
so that is when i decide to invite her out..

either im fucking hideous or she just doesn't like guys

>>729037096
Send a pic of your face

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When i asked my crush if she wanted to be my valentine (on valentines day ofc). She laughed, and didn't even answer me.

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>>729033216

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I think I'm slowly going crazy...hell I haven't felt alive in years. And I've already tried offing myself, but the fucking rope snapped...I'm a big guy, 198cm, 125 kg, I go to a gym daily. Atleast after a proper work out I don't feel like shit because I'm too tired to feel anything... If I ever meet that whore again tho...I'm not sure what I'll do...

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I keep thinking about hiring a hooker, but when I start looking for one online it just makes me lonely and sad. And then i give up.

Feels /bro. I'm pretty sure I'm getting strung along by this chick as well. She likes the weed I've got and she likes the jokes and stuff. I took her out on a date and it was a great time but there's this inseparable feeling it's all about the herb. It probably is. Probably not getting any from this cunt. Time to move on

>>729039116
Get your depression sorted. Exercise will help but sounds like you need more than that.

>>729033216
Just a tip, the game is you don't talk about the game first.

You're not alpha if you like anyone, they just flock to your cock. Act like it.

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>>729033216
>be me
>valentines day
>promised gf that i would go date with her for special
>boss calls me in for work
>4-10 shift pretty short
>tells her ill be over soon after work
>says ok
>goes to work
>works for 5 of the 6 hours because boss lets me go home early
>gets nice thing for gf flower chocolates,etc...
>find other car at her house
>not her roommates their all out with bfs
>look in car seem them fucking
>leaves doesn't say a thing to her for months
>fast forward to today
>finds out through roommate that she been seeing him for weeks before that first time
>angry now storms up to her and demand for explanation
>says she wasn't to expeinces what i was like to be with another man
>dated her for 4+ years
>i leave and never look back
>gets call 3 hours later
>"babe im so sorry please don't leave me i promise we can work this out..."
>mfw not sure if i can trust her of not

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>>729039116
if I was suddenly cured of all anxiety, paranoia, over sensitivity, emotional instability and wasnt haunted by all the things I've done wrong I dont think I would have personality.

>>729037096
Have you considered that she doesn't want to go "out" that she might want to stay in...

>>729033216
I'm here drinking. My forever and always girl left me. Im in a new state, alone and numb. Bpd is all my life is. I want to die. I thought a girl liked me, and maybe she was the one. but no. I don't deserve happiness. I deserve death. This is my life story.

>>729039668
Same here bro, same here.

>>729039616
ffs anon, i get it you dated for 4 years and hurts af, but of course you cant trust that cunt

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>>729033216

ONLY 2 POSSIBILITIES HERE:

Either she changed her mind and pretended like she was never into you to begin with
OR
You indulged in wishful thinking about her and she was never into you to begin with

I'd guess the latter

>>729037454
thanks now I'm crying (Y)

>>729039616
Leave her.

What's there to sort out? My whore of a ex-wife took my kids (3&7 y/o) and disapeared from the face of the earth. I don't have any family left and there's exactly 0 things left in my life to live for...

>>729040093
Does her name begin with E?

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All I wanted to do was get away, go some where noone knows me. Maybe then I could have pretended I was a normal person. But I would still be me and thats the problem.

>>729040093
Well try to live for your kids even if you don't know where they are. A good dad is hard to find

>>729040330
Same here brother

>>729040234
Yeah, Evelyn, the whore took both my kids after cheating on me. And she tried getting child support out of me, but I atleast still have a good lawyer who made sure I don't have to pay a cent if I can't see my kids...

>>729040330
I tried this. Everyone worked out what the real me was. Nothing can change who I am. I cant hide. Good luck mate.

>>729040484
Hang on... are you from Aus?

>>729040403
Knowing what a power slut she was, they both probably have a step father who's treating them either better than I could or like complete shit....but yeah, they both are the reason I'm still getting up to go to work, otherwise I wouldn't have anything to leave in my will

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>>729033216

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>>729040508
I think that would happen to me too. Theres just something off about me, besides all of emotional problems.

>>729040532
Nope, Germany or how most cunts that are posing as refugees call it: Germoney

>>729040855
Luckily for me I have a very obvious personality disorder. I got from being a likable guy to a total fucking weirdo. Some days I'm normal, some days I'm emo as fuck. It messes with people. Fuck, I dont even know who I am, but others pick up on it straight away. I have hope for you though. You can do this man! do what feels right (as long as it doesnt hurt yourself or others) Sending love <3

>>729040913
haha. theres this girl Im sort of seeing, with the same name, same age kids and similar story. I was just wondering if you were her "imfamous ex" ehh fuck her. You can always have more kids haha.

It seems that I've been getting worse with talking to women as I get older, I'm 20 now and it's been about two years since I last had a relationship

I'm starting to believe I'm past my prime and starting to consider just giving up and accepting that I could be alone for the rest of my life.

And that's okay.

>>729041199
nah bro. 20 is literally 1 quarter of your life span (depending where you're from) you've got another good 60 years to find the right person! call hotlines, talk to friends, even join support groups. You'll get there.

>>729041113
Well, I don't know where she might have moved. She's going to turn 32 next month, on the fifth. And I don't want more kids, I just want to see my already existing kids and see them.

>>729041199
>I'm 20 now
>I'm past my prime

I hope you're fucking trolling

I have to accept the fact that I am not meant to breed. it's difficult, but true. idk how long it will take to accept this and stop entertaining such delusions

>>729041430
Do you have any form of contact with her or her friends. Just tell her you want to see your kids. You're not trying to hurt her or steal them or any sort of shit like that. You deserve to see them and much as she does. Fuck her.

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>>729041433
I may have been a bit hyperbolic there, but I look creepy and shit

Pic related

>>729039616
yeah, she's looking for something new. You should too. You can't trust her. After they do it once, they do it again.

>>729041571
I feel that. my long term gf got an abortion after wanting kids for so long because she feared they'd turn out like me. She then broke up nwith me a couple of months later. I never recovered. Death feels like the only option. She sstole the one thing I wanted, and idk if anyone will want that with me again.

>>729041665
you need a goatee

>>729041665
nah man, I think you look alright. Better than me anyway haha

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>>729041021
People always say that kind of stuff to me until they realize how much of a fuck up I am...

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>>729034931
mfw im no knight
mfw no armor

>>729041741
are you really that bad? was she just being a bitch?

>>729041665
Ha you look great

>>729035530
how is it bait? It's saying perfectly shiny armor has never been in combat

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Just saw this on YouTube.

>>729041817
One fuck up to another, we can do this. Get better. Become who we want to be. it just takes time. theres 4 billion girls/boys out there, we just need to find the right one. It's not impossible. I was an abusive bpd fucking mess who was an awful person to even know. But im getting better, slowly. Just keep your eyes open, do what you do. Be yourself. Someone will love that. pretending to be someone else just makes things complicated in the future.

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>>729041778
I shave clean because facial hair is not my forte

>>729041814
>>729041862
I must be socially inept to the max then aha

>>729041855
no man. I was a fucking awful person. I was mean, abusive, controlling and did everything I could to make sure she never left my side. I hate myself every day for that.

>>729033216
maybe she's just socially retarded and doesn't understand you're trying to ask her on a date

>>729041627
She cut all contact with me, so did her friends, I've tried finding her on everything but I think she changed her name. Hell I've even tried going to her parents but they refused to talk to me aswell...my life is pretty much a walk through hell, but not as rough as the hell soldiers go through..
Hell, I'm still kinda suprised I even married her since:
>I have epilepsy, which is caused by a scar from when I was 1 when a tumor was removed from my brain.
>Rheumatic arthritis from 3
>Always was and am a social outcast
>I can't even join the military and do something good for my homeland

>>729042038
join the socially inept club! chronic social anxiety plus a whole other host of issues.

>>729042164
with the scars on my arm and the multiple hospital visits, neither can I. But we can do other shit for our country. Become a nurse, volunteer, help the poor. Just be a shoulder to cry on. It might not seem like much, but every little thing helps. I'm a social outcast too, but fuck it, thats who I am. At least you had a wife, that's something. Dont let what she did to you define you. you're better than that.

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These threads make me want to be in love with someone again lol

Nah jk life gets easier once you've emotionally detached yourself from everyone :-)

>>729042112
so you did it because of feels of inadequacy? I'll be honest I can see her POV.

>>729042413
>666x666
was this intentional?

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>>729042486

>>729042486
inadequacy and personality disorder. not that that's an excuse. Im one fucked up person. I dont blame her. Im just trying to get better.

>>729034699
Nah not keen
>>729033607
This guy has the right vibe.

Spent so much time trying to fuck this girl but she didn't want to go all the way with me We spent most of the summer together just her and I, traveling and seeing cool shit. I got to suck on some tittes and eat some pussy though. Dropped her a few months ago and shes now been trying to contact me lately. She called me last night for something "important" but it turned out to be some bullshit.

>>729042690
well that's good your trying something. I was Not trying to excuse you, but just to find a root cause

>>729042397
With the whole refugee bullshit that's going on beeing a nurse or doctor wouldn't help Germany...And thanks for reminding me that I shouldn't let what that whore did define me. How'd you get your scars by the way? As my old man used to say: Every scar has a story

>>729042795
I know. people just sometimes assume when people say "but I have X mental illness" theyre trying to excuse their behaviour. I accept what I was and I will become a better man.

>>729042690
At least you're trying. Lot of folks in this world still want to hurt others and don't see anything wrong with it. Just gotta tell yourself each morning "I'll do better".

>>729042838
Self harm. as attention seeky as it sounds, I didnt do it for that. It was an addiction. It made me feel better. I didnt do it for others to notice me. I hide it. I dont want anyone to know. I support refugees btw haha, not all are bad. Just need a good psych to interview them before letting them in.

>>729042988
god! the juxtaposition makes the sadness worse

>>729042993
Eh, everyone has their kinks. And who will psych test the one's that become 'refugees' and get smuggled into here and other countries i.e Sweden? And most of the refugees can just lie in psych tests...

>>729042891
I think I'm borderline and I have anxiety issues, I've tried ssris i bought off the internet without a prescription. Can't really do doctors or shrinks.

>>729042197
Start micro-dosing LSD, will help with the social anxiety

>>729043276
Best bet is to get an official diagnosis. As fucking scary as it is, you know they'll look out for you. Im on Fluoxetine and Olanzapine. It really helped me get to where I am now. Maybe call a hotline anonymously?

>>729043351
yeah cause drugs dont react badly with mental health issues! (other than weed, whic is amazign but I cant find any dealers here in rural Australia)

>>729043526
They can also react well if taken properly. Just don't be a fucking moron and have the genuine urge to want to help yourself.

>>729043754
I've tried a couple of different drugs in my time. I always wanted to try it but have no idea how to get it haha. I guess testing it is the only way to know if itll work or not.

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>>729043421
lexapro is what I tried, it helped made it easier for me to talk to people without loosing my spaghetti but it stripped me of all motivation.

>>729043847
Research first. We are lucky to live in a time with the internet so use it.

>>729044156
Yeah Ive heard mixed things about using it with my condition. I could get to clubs and find a dealer I guess.

>>729038002
damn anon... right in the feels

>>729044214
TO THE GATES OF HELL
AS WE MAKE OUR WAY TO HEAVEN

>>729044402
It's the boltpistol talking and not the templar in the comic

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>>729044402
>>729044477
Masterfully done 10/10

>>729039616
What do you think anon? Hoes never change, wake up and move on. The sooner the better.

>>729033607
Yeah he's right. It's better to have atleast tried then to have never known at all. I mean atleast you know to move on now

>>729044272
There are other ways now.

>>729036605

that was a fucking waste of time.

tl;dr some anon has a puppy love relationshit with anonette and then she gets hit by a car on her bike and dies

it's not even well written. don't bother

I feel like I'm legit too autistic to catch up on any hints, my chances of getting someone are significantly lowered

>>729044730
thanks, was about to read

>>729044687
such as, For a rural Aussie?

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>>729038002
I'm so sorry man

>>729033216
You know what you learned? You don't really like her, you just thought you did.

You can only like people who like you back, liking people who don't like you back is a form of self torture and is caused by low self-esteem.

You sub-consciously ignore all the negative parts of the person and twist everything else into a sign that she is into you. Boost your self-esteem and this will stop happening.

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can you guys remember what its like to be in love? to be happy?

>>729044402
well that ending was retarded

>>729043439
Sounds about right. I've given up on the facade though.

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>>729039616
This may help. Don't leave her just yet but open yourself up to other women, distance yourself from her emotionally while she's still there. Then break up with her only when you've found someone else to fill the hole in your heart.

>>729045127
Direct hit in the feels

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>>729044760
same dude
no one wants to be honest with me

I read some pretty awful stuff of what I should do to myself with the personality disorder I have. My arm is already scarred to fuck, so what does it matter if I do more?

>>729041665
Your not ugly but good facial hair would make you look less baby faced.

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>>729039616
I'm sorry anon

>>729033216
stop putting poon on a pedestrial

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>>729033216
just ask out another one! It's scientificly proven that, for the average man, 1 in 4 woman will say yes on being asked out for a date.
So, what I do is I ask out 3 girls unsuccesfull and then be picky.

>>729045326
yeah, that one's pretty brutal. most anything with animals reacting innocently to human despair, really.

I feel like you guys should know, so I'll tell you.
The key to happiness is making your own.
No amount of attention or fake friends/lovers will make you happy.
You don't need anything special, you don't need to be a successful person with everything going right.
You just need to stay alive and do what you enjoy in your spare time.
Only you can do what makes you happy. No one else can make you happy.
All you need to do, is put yourself first.
Become the person you want to be.

>>729039616
>>mfw not sure if i can trust her of not
Are you fucking serious?

Once unfaithful, always unfaithful. You will always be ''the sidechick''.

If it would be me I would rather kill the bitch than get back together.

>>729045644
dubs confirm

>>729045713
The only time I've ever been happy is when I'm drunk/ my ex loved me. All the days are grey and bleak. How can I make myself happy if I hate myself?

>>729034699
Delete this gay faggot shit. God I hate people like you

>>729045334
22 and counting
Massive case of babyface too

>>729045850
You are God experiencing what it is like not being God.

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the death of many is a statistic,

the death of one is a tragedy...

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>>729041665
dude I'd fuck you, no homo cos I'm a girl
You have nice eyes
don't give up hope

This might cheer you up then my life sounds worse
>be at uni
>have girfriend in my hometown
>2 weeks into have friends enjoy the work enjoying my relationship even if it's long distance
>week 3 rolls by and my friends that I made slowly stop returning my calls
>seems odd go over to their flat
>hear them calling me a loser and a weirdo
>walk back to my flat proceed to drink
>old friends start to hate me
>tell gf she starts saying I should just quit and come back home
>7months of trying to make friends I decided uni isn't for me I'm not the loner type I need someone to chat to occasionally but I'm not social enough to do right I leave long pauses and stare into space.
>quit uni move back in with girlfriend
>Christmas comes around I spend it with my girlfriend and my family
>things are looking up
>gf dumps me after Christmas which is also my birthday
>also lost my job because I decided to stay in bed
>haven't been sober since then

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>>729033216
Maybe my story will cheer you up.
>Get to know cool girl
>Really like her
>Known her for a while, we study the same subject and share some hobbies
>Become friends
>One day there's this cool event in town
>Know through her sister that she wants to go
>I want to go too
>perfect opportunity
>"Hey do you wanna go to xyz next week?"
>"Yes of course.....
>but not with you."
>unable to process what she said
>ignoring everything else I thought we were at least friends
>mfw she goes alone, while i stay at home contemplating where everything went so wrong

>>729033216
You should've literally told her you wanted to take her on a date. Flag her very clearly you're interested in her that way, cause if you don't you're by default flagging that you're not interested.
She's wedging her friend in because she isn't interested though.

Theme song for this thread

>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7G8QItjTSDA

>>729046106
haha I wish. I'm the opposite of a God. Just a lonely mortal, trying to get by.

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>>729045152
>to be happy?
Yes.
>to be in love?
Does it count if I'm the only one who feels that way? If so then I'm in love right now. If not, then no.

>>729046297
Love counts if you love someone
You only feel the joy when love is received back in exchange for yours

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prepare for maximum over-dark

>>729039616
Move on

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is this what we do? coward into a ball on a fucking internet message board?
we truly are pathetic people...
we are anons...

>>729046434
Jesus Fucking Christ.

>>729039789
>This is my life story.
what a shitty story layout

>>729044894
My life in one picture.

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>>729045281
I'm not crying

Long time feels thread guy /b/. Had my heart broken by a girl that meant the world to me because I was rebounding and fucked up. Went through a string of shitty falloff relationships and loneliness for the last 3 years. All the while been friends with the girl I fucked up with.

Got really depressed over the last year. Drinking too much and considering suicide for the first time in my life.

Truth comes out this girl, who I have wanted more than anyone else in the world, still has feelings for me. Came to me at work the other day and basically askedn if we could try again.

It does get better /b/. I don't know if any of you will read this but just know that it'll happen. You'll find her. It's been a couple months now and I'm never going to let her go.

Don't give up.

>>729035865
lol

>>729046106
Exactly my point.

>>729046619
Things like this never happen.

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Tell me my odds of getting someone
186 cm tall
78 kg
Diabetes and a little autism included

>>729046576
fight me. I'm too drunk to write a decent accurate story haha.

I know this is a stupid question but how do I meet girls without spending money or having a car or getting raped?

>>729046115
>I'm a girl
Timestamp for proof. No tits required due to the thread's nature.

>>729046811
how the fuck did you get diabetes at that weight? meds or genetics?

>>729046747
Two months ago I would have agreed with you. I really would have. I still have a hard time believing that she came back.

ill dump some music for you anons
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLnYN_xap3tF4pTHmWuYO9JHeRyzFsEl48

>>729046434
Man that's fucked up

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1_CbClV_eTU

>>729046244
That's exactly my point

>>729046912
genetics obviously
type 1

>>729041665
Honestly man I'd rate your face 9/10. Though I'd rate my own face 5/10 (8/10 without the acne) and I've never had a relationship before so fair dos.

>>729046811
Not ugly by a long shot
Maybe get some sleep you look young but you got some slight eye baggage going on
I think that alone makes you look slightly worried

>>729046912
Genes

>>729046921
My ex, the love of my life, the light to my eternal darkness, will never come back. She's happier now. I ruined everything. I want her back so much. It was the only time in my 21 years of life I was happy.

>why not go together haha
>haha

>>729033607
You are the 1% who makes good posts.

>>729047032
College projects dont include sleep

Bar != date. It's usually implied if you invite a girl out for drinks to bring a friend along. At least you had the balls to ask, just need to learn social nerds and tone down the assburgera

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>>729046396
Is that from personal experience? If so, would you mind trying to describe what that feels like?

>>729046811
I'm surprised you have problems in this department

>>729046064
If there ever was a class that deserved a school shooting it's this.

>>729047186
Thanks I guess?

>>729046921
Well good for you. I've been in this rut for 4 months and I'm convinced that if I happen to be in another relationship it will just be another shit show just like the rest. At least someone came back for you, motherfucker.

>>729047157
Not him. But you can love someone and not have them.
I've had a thing for broken girls so there are plenty of them in my rearview mirror. At least, it didn't work out like that. But I don't hate them. I know them, I loved them and I still do. I just know a relationship isn't in the cards. But I just want what's best for them because I want them to find happiness, and we have that kind of intimate connection.

>>729034810
It should say "I didn't try"

>>729047342
you're welcome I guess

>>729047087
I'm sorry man. I wish I could offer any advice of value. People fuck up. I fucked up. Someone, whether it be her or not, will value you for you.

>>729047087
Don't put happiness on external objects/people. It was you making you happy, not them. No you are making yourself sad, not them. Be grateful of the experiences you had with her and move on to someone else.

>>729034699
That is some gay stuff. Will you leave, please?

>>729047361
I'm not downplaying your pain, because I've been there, but 4 months is not a terribly long rut man. Hang in there. I've gone multiple years alone after starting dating.

>>729047651
I really fucking hope so. Im probably going to neck myself in an hour. Thankyou for everything guys. You really make me happy. I love you all <3

>>729035100
Why this happens tho.
Depression?

>>729047157
Im guessing you're trying figure out if you've felt love or not
Love with a girl can implement several other feelings into your mind one of them is the feeling of being secure the other is attraction and on some level you also feel attractive to have pulled and kept said person so it terms of being in love with a female and she's in love with you isn't maybe something you've felt now but for it's not a linear event once you feel that love everything before you and everything in the future becomes irrelevant, I dunno why I put myself through it every break up feelings trying to quit drugs again

>>729033216
great attempt OP. dumb bitch

>>729047492
>You only feel the joy when love is received back in exchange for yours
Sorry, didn't make myself clear enough. I just wanted to know how this felt, as in what it would be like to have someone show the same feelings that I had for them, or even just show that they had feelings for me at all. Just once.

>>729047843
I hope you don't do that. Buy a drink instead. Then you'll feel some pain in the morning but at least you'll have another morning. Don't end things while there's still time to make things work. You're still young.

>>729040508
then I don't believe you're actually trying. I'm still trying to change myself, not because I hate myself, but because (although I do) but because I need to improve. do things you don't do.

>>729046139
Jesus fuck anon that's a hollow tip right to the feels.

My problem is girls call me attractive now, but for years I was bullied for my appearance especially as a kid and now I'm permanently ugly in my own eyes no matter what anyone ever says to me

>>729045312
this is disgusting.

Don't act like a women, that is whats wrong with our whole generation.

If it comes so far, man up and take it.

>>729048091
Bro I've drank enough to realise this is what I need. thankyou though.

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>>729046896
>>729046115
This is for all you anons who feel worthless
Life is a piece of shit but here's hoping it gets better for me and for you all

>>729046139
Fuck man is she really introverted or something? This sounds like something a girl I knew would do. She didn't mean it to hurt you just that she would honestly rather go alone. Maybe that's the case here

>>729048219
Fucking hell I can't even get a picture upload right

>>729048326
mfw

>>729048326
Kek thanks anyway

>>729035100
Wtf is happening here, is he melting?

>>729048326
Whats wrong with it? It being flipped is fine happens all the time

>>729048280
this af famalam fellow nignogs

>>729048009
>I'm guessing you're trying to figure out if you've felt love or not
More like I wanted some idea of what it would be like to have it returned.

I do know that it's always better to have loved and lost than never loved at all (that applies in general, not just in this context). The good memories I have are what get me through each day, even though they're the cause of all my heartache. Try not to let your memories get you down, use them as evidence to give you hope that someday you'll be in that good place again.

>>729048219
Kek a chink

>>729048126
Not your judgement to make. In the same way Louis CK says it is not up to you whether you're an asshole or not, that's up to every one else.

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>>729048219
Thanks /b/ro, I needed that

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>>729048215
I can't tell you not to, just that I hope you don't.

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>>729047810
There's no hope for me, Anon. Everyone always fucks me over no matter who. But it doesn't really matter anyways.
I've accepted I'll be alone for the rest of my life.

>>729037454
huh

>>729038865
lies

>>729048465
Oh sure I got you
When your love is returned truly you'll probably act like me, my ex girlfriend stalked me at first and when she told me months after we already got together that she knew I was the one for her the moment she saw me and all the movie and song cliches but real and happening to you, I laughed thought its gotta be bullshit, I can tell you in hindsight brother that girl loved me and loved me hard she was best friend and great in bed she's suck my dick and and get me beer because she felt it was nice to please me...yeah that kind of angel, anyway it feels great made me cocky when I'm normally introverted and placed my ego pretty high up, had girls throwing themselves at me and my father talking to me about women for once, I'm not gonna lie to you it was awesome, but it'll be different for you you're own kind of awesomeness just don't let it slip out from under you

>all this bitching
I just wanna know how to get laid

>>729048655
This somehow helped. I dont know how or why but I feel like it did.

>>729048655
Fuck Bro. I've never had anyone care about what happens to me. My family left me, my ex left me, my friends left me after the break up. but you. You saved this anons life. Never forget that. Be proud of who you are. I teared up and decided if some fucking stranger cares about me, maybe eventually someone will. Thank you so fucking much man, you have no idea what this means to me.

>>729039616
Tec9 night.

>>729046811
Can someone please tell me how fucked I am

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>>729048480
I'm not even asian, my eyes just look like that
>>729048404
thanks anon

>mfw the depression hits hard

>>729048023
Bliss. Whatever lay outside, inside was our little piece of heaven. I had a rough time sleeping alone after she was gone, I crashed on the couch for about a month I think. I'd started to live for her and for us, I did so gladly. Seeing her happy, admiring her beauty, making love to her, it all felt like coming home.

Maybe more literally than you'd think. When I were single I'd come home from work and get wasted to sedate myself, and then spend the rest of my time on my career as well. With her, I actually had a reason to go home. I quickly found myself becoming a whitebred guy because i just enjoyed it so much. Kinks aside of course.

>>729039225
change your attatude towards it some ppl pay it really doesent matter just do what makes you happy

>>729048790
You can't do that to yourself man. It blows but time heals. You'll get the energy to try again. And you might fuck up again. Or maybe they just weren't the right one either. There's a shitload of people out there. I'm sure there's one you can be happy with.

>>729033216
Hurts but time to move on.

>>729049183
just whip out your dick in public and 2/5 females would be about it

>>729049183
Pretty fucked if you keep thinking you are. Just pretend you aren't fucked for a while, see how it goes.

>>729048997
Don't give up anon. I'm glad I could help somehow

>>729039616
She clearly wasn't as invested in it as you. Sorry bro it's a dead end.

>>729041665
Nigga fuck off with this shit you're attractive stop going on 4chin and jacking off

>>729049194
You look fine, anon. :)

>>729048790
Stop attracting people like that. Low self-esteem is a magnet for those kinds of people (they have low self-esteem too)

>>729049125
I care anon. I want you to be happy. I really do. And I know you will. Don't give up.

>>729049385
I want to get a girlfriend, not a restraint order

>>729049398
Been trying that for a year now, no luck. Even went on two shitty dates. One girl didnt know she had to brush her teeth before a date and the other didnt have any genuine interests.

>>729048955
>>729049229
Thanks bros, after all the cynicism from previous feels threads this is exactly what I needed. I had to know that something like that was possible in the world and not just the stuff of Disney.

>>729048280
She was kinda introverted, but that one was meant to hurt.

>>729039616
dont go back to her it one thing to want to spice things up and add another partner in the mix but this woman dident even ask you she did it behind your back and i find that unforgiveable. sorry this happened anon

>>729049445
actually made me kek, thanks anon

>>729049665
If that's the case then don't let that get caught in your throat. She wasn't good enough for you. If she was she wouldn't have treated you that way. You can do better.

>>729049630
In Disney they live happily ever after.
Irl people die. Rarely will you get the privilege of aging together and just ending up decrepit after some decades.
Life is very short and easily wasted. I'd give anything to have had more time with her.

>>729049907
Is she dead?

>>729050025
Cancer at 30.

>>729049626
You think two dates is enough? Keep doing them. The more you do the better you'll get. It's good to go on dates with people you don't like because when you go on a date with someone you do like, you'll damn well know it.

Does any of this stupid shit actually mean anything to any of you? You actually are looking at pictures on /b/ and having a genuine internal emotional response? It seems like so much of this HAS to be forced. Just for a sense of community and belonging, you feign sadness on an anonymous message board. Grow up, go outside, stop living this worthless way. Christ

>>729049626
I was exaggerating but seriously there are no girls that'll date you? I've seen bare ugly mans get wifed up and you're above average looks.