Hello /b/
I have had several sexual partners since now but i always come prematurely. i don't masturbate nearly often maybe once or twice a week. (living with gf)
what can i do to avoid coming early?
i heard antidepressants were good at this?
tldr; how to last longer in bed?
>>728762730
anyone?
>>728762730
have a couple beers
jerk off before
do it twice
relax
>>728762730
relax your dick, that is key, relax, you are getting to excited and just cum, it is a response from the brain, l don't fully understand it but if you relax and let yourself get hard then just keep calm and keep fucking you will be ok. Just allow yourself to get hard 1st, don't get too excited about everything and just spoof all over the place.
jack off more but man you are lucky man i would do anything to nut. enjoy it while it last
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>>728763294
2nd time i am a stud but the first one sucks. i cant talk my gf into letting me come once and go for 2nd. i am most of the time relaxed but it seems that doesnt do the trick.
>>728763336
why dont u nut
>>728762730
Sauce. Please.
>>728763457
jerk off daily, should help. Take a Viagra and train your brain, you will create patterns of not cumming instantly
>>728762730
learn to edge when jacking off. change positions in the bedroom for edging. also, there's always one position that just doesn't feel as good (for me it's girl on top) and lets you last much longer
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>>728763662
will keep these in mind thanks!
any experiences with antidepressants?
>>728762730
>Masturbate
>stop when about to cum buckets
>continue masterbate
>stop when about to hit the baby gravy
>keep going until can't hold back
>repeat daily
Godspeed OP
i went from being able to go a good few minutes (more than enough for my gf to cum) but now im down to like, 20 seconds and shit? any idea why or some tips?
>>728763781
>jennifer connely's tits
always a winner, anon. thanks
>>728763457
word, maybe you come too fast because your girlfriend puts too much pressure on you
i had a girlfriend who did that, she was a fucking bitch
you have to do it at least twice to get it right
Slow down and take time, don't rush. Sometimes If I cum early and my GF is not done yet I keep going and end up cumming a 2nd time, but you must train yourself to do that.
>>728764437
might be but i try to relax, all the breathing and shit, will try edging while masturbation if it improves my duration thanks to anon.
i have delay spray but those shits are useless. i feel no change on my dick..
>>728762730
Spank before sex. Also, if you pre-climax so early, you might be hypersexual. Don't stop fucking because you climaxed. Hypersexuals can fuck easily into 2nd or 3rd climax.
>>728764805
>numbing agents
that shit doesn't work. just stick with the edging and position type stuff. make sure you give her plenty of foreplay. also, make a night of it. first time you might cum in 2 minutes, but when you get your 2nd wind, you might last for half an hour.
>>728764902
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>>728765095
i bang my ex regularly, since we broke up i just dont care, and nut as soon as i can. its become a problem though, because now when i try to last longer i just cant.
>>728764799
Any more pics/.gifs of her breasts?
>>728766126
other thread /s/
bumping anyways
>>728764902
What's this from?
Pretty much what every anon here has said. Just relax. When you're having sex, don't think about not prematurely cumming. Don't think about lasting longer. Don't think about giving her the best sex she's ever had.
Just chill out, and don't get too excited. Don't think about any of that. I used to have this problem too. Sometimes still, if I'm about to cum before the girl is finished, just start going through something else in your head. Like list every player you can from your favorite sports team in your head. Or go through every movie you've watched in the past month. Something to get your mind off cumming, because if in your head, you are thinking to yourself 'oh god, i hope i don't cum because i know she is not done' chance are that you will cum
>>728762730
I suffer from the same shit. One thing I realized is that I involuntarily clench my pelvic muscles as soon as something touches my dick. As a result, the arousal phase before orgasm is pretty much non-existent. It's either 'not aroused' or 'close to cumming'.
I'm working on that problem by doing reverse kegels. If your pelvic floor isn't in balance (kegels & reverse kegels, that is), working on them might be worth a shot.
>>728762730
When you are about to cum, your balls clench tighter to your body. Pull them away from you. It will help.
You can also press your finger against your taint to hold off cumming.
Other than those tricks, switch positions when it's getting too hot.
>>728762730
>take breaks during sex aka switch positions
>use a fleshlight and try to simulate the real thing and train to control yourself
>try to distract yourself while doing it, if you take her doggy just stare at the wall, your pleasure comes in second when you're a premature ejaculator
>DON'T GET TOO EXCITED. If there is one thing I learned it's that it's about your mindset. If you can calm down and relax, not focus about weather your performance is good or not, you will last way longer
>>728767386
cheers
>>728763781
Never saw the shot of them getting down, holy shit is that actually her? Can't seem to find any info online
Whatever you do, don't stick your finger in your arse. It hurts and you will cum buckets.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uvklKLmrsPU
GANJA
Eat the pussy first Anon.
Then fuck.
Noob
>>728762730
Blowing farm animals doesn't count
If you train yourself to think of this song when you're about to cum, you're guaranteed to never cum before the 5th or 6th attempt
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ouYyPTOb-s
Don't listen to these fags OP cum as fast as you can it's a race
>>728762730
Don't worry about cumming early. Just MAKE SURE you eat her pussy before you fuck her. Make sure you get her off... get her to the point of BEGGING for your cock, then just pound that pussy with the force of a thousand suns and don't worry about cumming too quickly because she won't care at that point.
>>728762730
You'll get over it with time