My girlfriend just dumped me. She was the only girlfriend I had

Let time heal your wounds, then move on.

Let's go get fucked up, bro.

>>728124603
just admit that you didn't truly love her and were more in love with the idea of being in love

>>728124603
Reason she dumped you ?

>>728124603
Watch porn, jerk it, realize that women are nothing more than vessels for your cum, feel better.

>>728124603
Spend all your money on lottery tickets and if you win you'll make her want you back, but if you lose you kill yourself because you're a poor lonely bastard

Butterfly; away~<3

You'll get over it; same thing happened to me. I was depressed for a while but you have to focus on other things... Things that make you happy. Life goes on.

An hero, beta fag.

Go pay a hooker to suck your dick and cum in her ass.

Next, do whatever.

Don't get strung up on her. It sucks but move on.

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You can't speed the process up. Maybe watch some cheerful good quality movies, do the stuff that you usually have to do (work, study), take care of your personal hygiene.
After some time the pain will numb a bit and you'll be able to think a bit again.
Don't throw yourself into bed for all day. Cures for heartbreak are the same ones as cures for depression - concentrate on getting by one step at a time.

Also here's a photo of a very fine member of the felis species.

Moonwalk it off~<3

Nothing, theres nothing else, kill yourself, do it on cam then at least you'll be famous for 5 minutes, sounds like that'd be the highest achievement you'll ever achieve.

>>728125266
Edgy dubs

>>728124603
just kill yourself

>>728125349
not edgy, just a healthy dose of reality

I'll be around.

>>728125410
Sure anon

I don't understand depressed people because I just don't know how it feels
I just don't care

>>728124603
I fucking hate losers like you

>>728124603

bro you should really consider killing yourself, it's the best option believe me, it works

>>728124603
That's a lot of bait

>>728124603
Might be bait but I wanna help.

Take a walk and try to focus on yourself. What life lessons can be gained? Take your time but try not to retreat too much from the rest of us.

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How long were you in the said relationship?
Also, how old are you? From the detail that you spent the whole day in bed it can be presumed that you are still in HS, uni at best.
If you're around 18, accept the fact that you are extremely young and that almost nobody stays with their partner long at that age.

>>728125549
If you have to say 'believe me', your argument is shit. You can't even troll properly.

>>728125622
genuinely kekked.

>>728124603
An hero is your best option.. it takes the pain away instantly.. and you won't remember existing.. so there's no regret..

>>728124603
>didn't get out of bed all day
>didn't even eat
big whoop, I do that all the time

>>728124603
Get over it fag, everyone goes through breakups. You aren't a special snowflake that the whole world is going to stop for. Move on with your life and you'll find someone to "love" again

>>728124603
few things.
>Clean house/room/domicile.
>Get gym membership/use gym membership idk if you're a fat fuck, fit or not.
>Find some constructive hobby and throw yourself into it. If no interests in that then do something you usually don't. Volunteering at No-kill animal shelters is super fun since I like dogs and theirs a fuck load of women who do it and see a "caring nurturing man" when really I just like playing with the dogs.

>>728124603
Post her nudes.

>>728124781
Didn't call her for a while. I just fuckin hate talking on the phone.

>>728125886
you are a huge faggot and should also an hero

>>728124603
Exercise and hobbies friend. The former may actually help your social anxiety too. I suffer from generalized anxiety myself, which branches into pretty extreme social anxiety.

Therapy and staying active physically helped more than pills.

>>728124603
you should hate her for being such a shitty person

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>>728125761
Anheroing in this state sounds like a shit idea. Wait a couple weeks until the pain passes, have a day as happy as possible and then anhero - makes more sense. Why wouldn't you celebrate the glorious event of ending of your existence?
Don't you ever get the feeling after a good day that you could die right there right now and it would be perfect?

Also, why are you silent, op?

>>728124603
find a hobby where you turn off your brain, like running, or biking, and do that a lot, cause when you run your brain is not working in focusing mode

>>728124603
You'll be over it soon. Sooner if you find some slut to swing off your dick.

>>728124603
got her nudes?

>>728125716
I'm 24. Been with her 4 years.

>>728126096
I'm just not some sperglord faggot 16 year old autist who posts in man-ass and trap threads like you and know how to better myself.

>>728124603
Get out and go for a walk.
Find a good place to sit to see something mildly interesting, something you know alot about. For me that would be something natural, for you it might be cars or a mural.
Sit, enjoy. Quietly.
It's as close to meditation as you'll come without training.

>>728125761
I've been here too long to fall for this shit. Sorry cunt, not gonna kill myself. Atleast not yet.

>>728125512
underrated post.
Much like OP's pic.

Lift

Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.

>>728124603
Get revenge by hunting and killing everyone on the Animal Rekt thread a couple threads down

>>728126014
Yeah. Maybe I'll do that.

Pay another woman and show up with her. Nothing triggers a female more than a competitor. They'll go crazy.

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>>728126326
OP, you're either keeping some crucial details undisclosed or your 'love' did not care about you. In the latter case, you're really better off without a dumb bitch who breaks up instead of initiating contact herself.
Next time you think about getting in a relationship, think of the essential qualities your partner should have, think about what your vital needs in a relationship and don't compromise about these essentials.
Love is something that is hard to come by, but it's better to be alone for a longer time than settle for someone who is barely tolerable or sees you as only 'tolerable'.
The phrase 'look for a best friend when looking for a partner' sounds cliche, but it's true. Your ex obviously did not see a friend in you - that means she was not the one.

>>728124603
Realise that there is no such thing as love, "love" is just a bunch of electrical pulses caused by our brain to ensure survival of our species

>>728126854
Thanks bro. That made me feel a bit better.
I'll try to move on.

>>728127112
Finally~!

>>728127256
I'm going through something similar anon. Fell for someone that bailed out of the blue. No real reasons given.

Dont be a bitch, seriously man. What CAN you do? Nothing. Move on.

Go MGTOW

>>728124603
Listen to Euro beat and look at the sun while wearing something pink.
That always seems to help.

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>>728127112
Love is a feeling when you care about a person more than you care about yourself because it supplements you as a person and attracts you physically - eros and files combined can constitute agape, the idealized sort of love. Everything is just electrical pulses in our brains, but a pulse urging you to pee is different from the one making you create an artwork - same applies for short term physical infatuation versus deep love.

>>728127256
If I may, one last thing: you might think that having requirements and needs is selfish. I have experienced this and can say that it is quite the contrary - acknowledging who you are and vocalizing your needs is a vital part of any relationship - it helps your partner understand what is best for you, evaluate your compatibility (for example, if one of them says that spending a lot of time together plays a very important role for them, but the other one likes putting work before anything, the relationship is doomed from the very beginning).
So don't feel ashamed of being a person with likes and dislikes, needs and wants.

>>728124603
If you held a 4 year relationship in your 20's then you're actually doing ok. It's not unusual for young people to date more than 1 woman, so just don't worry about that 1 woman that will inevitably be replaced with somebody much better and much more suited for you.

My girlfriend dated 2 guys before she met me, and I dated 1 before I met her. she's 22 and I'm 28.

>>728124603
I'm so sorry OP.

I think I can help:

Just don't think about her having fun with her friends.
Don't think about the guys who hit on her constantly.
Don't think about that particular chad who takes her home with him occasionally.
Don't think about her kissing him, sticking his tongue inside her mouth.
Don't think about her adjusting her hips, naked in bed while on her back, so she can accommodate his thick cock.
Don't think about him pushing his penis inside of her vagina, to the cervix, then looking her in her eye as she begs him to push a little deeper.
Don't think about your girlfriend running her nails against his back as she reaches orgasm.
Don't think about him pressing his balls against her vulva after his entire shaft is inside your girlfriend's vagina.
Don't think about the abdominal spasms that shake your girlfriend to her core, with each pump of semen that showers her cervix and fills her vagina.
Don't think of your girlfriend exhausted, sweaty, and falling asleep in his arms, as his DNA is gradually absorbed through her vaginal walls, from the semen that lingers inside her, and the sperm that will be alive for the next 4-5 days.
Don't think of her repeating the above scenario two-three times a day since she left you.

You'll be okay.

>>728128638
I don't like you.

Kys

>>728128759

Says the chronic masturbating basement dweller.

>>728128638
Don't think

Just tell you're self every single day I don't give a single fuck
Eventually you won't care don't forget to mean what you say

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>>728124603
There's other girls out there.

>>728124603
Don't blame yourself for it.
Appreciate what you had, and with time, you'll learn to be happy on your own.
Eventually you'll meet someone new.

In the meantime, cry it out, do something productive to take your mind off of it, and take care of yourself.

Practice forgetting of what we will routinely remind you of.

>>728129858
Of? No of? Idk.

>>728125525

>OP's ex just posted

Guess I had the best advise~. Yay~, I win~!

>>728128638
I am in love with this guy.

But srsly, I always fuck my way through relationship grief. But I'm a girl. And guys like never do that.

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>>728130351
Whore detected. Kys you nigger.

>>728130426
You're dash cunning

let me take u to the bar bro

>>728130351

>And guys like never do that.

Every dude that's using your disgusting pussy with ease is doing that, retard.

>>728124603
:\ wish i could help

The best state to be in is one where you don't need people, but want, if you choose. Also, most women don't want a man who is dependent and clingy.

Just workout dude, and get outside, do something with your life, then good things wil come to you. wel... that is if you willing to work for it.

>>728130601
Does sarcasm not register? Autistic cunt

>>728130351
show pussy

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>>728130762

Typical sperg, thinks their sarcasm is detectible.

>>728124603
>She was the only girlfriend I had (I have social anxiety) and the only one I loved

How do you know it? Live your life dude

Stop watching anime and porn that shit isn't real life. Get a real hobby. You know OUTSIDE.

>>728124603
find some new music or something, maybe that would take your mind off of it.
what kind of genres do you like? maybe i could send you some stuff or something.

>>728124603
Relationships come and go, dont sweat it

>>728124603

Your fake/b8 scenario is gonna suck for a while OP. Sorry.

>>728131152
This dude is looking to rape you

>>728124603
its a tough hill to get over dude but trust me not all girls are as picky as you might feel

>>728124603
Grow up.

>>728131415
you know it dude

Third relationship I had, I saw the signs that indicated she was going to move on. To keep my balls, after our last "date". Decided it was best that we do other things for awhile. Her expression of frustration was gold. No I dumped YOU cunt.