Hi /B/. 28 yr old guy. My ex gf 21 yr old female. Relationship

>>727992969
>69

if you care about her, leave her alone

You're scum. Leave her be and kill yourself already.

Plenty of fish in the sea buddy

Move on

>>727992969
Let her cool off and win her again. Let her friend know how you feel. Chillax nigga

Write a sincere and genuine letter of remorse and apology but in no manner directly request, indirectly imply, suggest, or insinuate getting back together. It will demonstrate truly apologetic nature without underlying motives. If she desires to reconcile with you she will contact you afterward. If she doesn't, you have closure knowing you made things "right" with a sincere apology.

>>727992969
>Tried to fix the trust issues by posting her face on /b.

Fuck it didn't work out,go to the next one and fuck that one, and if that doesn't work out go to the next one

>>727992969
One of my friend was in this situation, had a nice gf for around 4-5 years and they were going to get married this summer afaik. But then he went to a club and got stupidly drunk and had sex with a girl. He told his gf about it and she broke up with him. months past but the love was present and he played well his cards i guess because they are back. Just take a break and see where you guys are in a couple of months..

>>727993372
It's a wise tactic.

People need space and time to heal. Once they're better, you can make amends and maybe have a shot.

Basically ya fucked up. Only thing left to do is find someone else and not shit all over that too.

>>727992969
Dude you gotta get those tits back

you should probably just have two girlfriend simultaneously, sounds like a headache I know but think about in just in terms of sheer numbers of dong sucks. Now you see what I mean?
Alright new plan, you write up a huge fucking paragraph no one wants to read about how you'll take her back if and ONLY she agrees to be poly with you and this broad. Who knows if she meets her she might like her, might even get to the point where you're sitting alone on the inflatable bed wondering if they're cheating on YOU!
good luck with all this, remember shoot for the moon and you might just end up in the stars if you don't actually make it to destination moon.

>>727993411
That's not her bro. I got this image from somewhere else. XD It's /b/, you gotta post TITS. I know DA RULEZ!

>>727992969
Keep talking to the other girl. Your ex gf is gone and you trying to make it "right" by cutting contact won't win her over.

Go be with the other chick and see how jealous she gets. Worst case scenario at least you still have a girl.

>>727992969
First of, you fucked up and what you did was really fucking shitty. Think about how you would feel if she did that to you? Yes, it's likely possible that you can win her back; but, if you get that opportunity, you'd better fucking earn it! Lots of apologizing and ass-kissing and make sure that you actually try to earn her forgiveness. Explain that you have guilt and remorse and that you truly regret what you did. That it was impulsive and in the moment, that you reacted stupidly while intoxicated and that you are a guy and, therefore, often a fucking idiot and, sometimes, a piece of shit.

Basically, apologize and be sincere and express remorse and guilt. And lots of ass-kissing. Also, make sure that you accept the blame and don't try to justify it. Just say that you fucked up and that you hate yourself for it.

With that said, who the fuck id the girl in the picture you posted? Source? And more? She's fucking gorgeous and the tits look spectacular!

>>727992969
The problem is that she had access to your phone, genious. My girlfriend found my stash of all ofyour exes sucking my dick and fucking and a folder with her name on it filled with every lewd thing imaginable.

Know how it happened? I left my computer unlocked when I went to work and didn't lock the folder. She flipped. I ended up breaking up with her for being so full of bullshit.

Then she hung out for another two months still fucking. Then it ended because she is just a child and needs to learn how to deal with her depression and bipolarism.

Yeah, you fucked up OP. Don't leave your phone unlocked.

>>727993513
Fair enough. I do care. It's a dumb mistake. I don't ever wana hurt anyone like this again.
>>727993388
cheers bro

Is this thread full of fucking Mexicans or something
Why is everyone writing english so weirdly.

>"help!"
>"lol"

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DISCLAIMER, OP HERE, the picture is NOT MY EX GF. It's a random picture. Why would I post my ex on here?!

>>727994134

Because you work here...

>>727992969
Sincere post op, I admire that. So you fucked up, shit happens.
Prove you still love her by asking her to give you time to show her that you can be better than who you were before. Her friend asking just means shit ain't squashed yet.
I did the same thing to my wife before we married and I can tell you your actions will not go away, but the memories will be less painful for her when she relives them. It's gonna take a LOT of work so stop getting stupid drink op, it ain't your best suit! Good luck.

>>727993183
This. Also - consider killing yourself.

>>727992969
You really didn't do anything too wrong. She's overreacting. It's not like you were fucking her for months behind her back. I've done much worse.

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>>727993710
thanks for the advice bro, spoken like a true gent. I do acknowledge I'm a shithead. Alot of crying and sleepless nights on my part. Also, the tits? I found it on a random tits thread on b! I don't know who the model is! >>727993898
Yea, I'm a dumbass Also, more tits!

>time
>lol "what?"
>...
>"he- "

>>727993285
This, she's 21, young dumb and full a cum. Move on. Find a 16 year old!

>>727994274
Ctfu! Is that all they think about? So original.

>>727992969
/b/ro, it was doomed. She's 21, and was going to dump you within a few months anyway.

At any rate, remember how shitty you feel, and don't do it again to the next one you feel strongly about.

And if you can't keep your cock under control when you drink, you might want to consider giving it up.

>>727994290
Like what, eat poisoned food? XD

tl;dr post more of these tits

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>>727994240
Thanks man. I appreciate it. It's not the drink's fault, I fucked up. But booze deffo doesn't help lol.

>>727994290
Oh? I'm intrigued. Do tell.
Also, TITS

I bet you wish she'd just kicked your nuts instead.

Why is everyone taking the girl's side in this?

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>>727994782
Not gonna lie bro. I'd prefer getting kicked in the nuts and get physical pain than breaking up. This emotional shit of guilt and missing her sucks man. I was water logged for 2 days.

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>>727994991
Because I fucked up bro lol

>>727995116
Yeah, but you're a man.

>>727995116
Someone~ did. Could we fix it already?

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>>727995275
come again?
>>727995194
lol bro

>>727992969
Bottle up all your feels and words. Contact her and say it to her. If she refuses to see you, add to what you wrote here by explaining how much she means to you and begging for another chance in a note given to her friend or email the ex. You either live and learn or get down in the begging position and speak from the heart in hopes for a second chance.

>>727992969
I'm assuming you are a flirt or have done borderline cheating actions before. For her to be checking your phone. You just need to grow up.

>>727993898
>Yeah, you fucked up OP. Don't leave your phone unlocked.
Classic douchenozzle response. The problem has nothing to do with leaving your phone unlocked. If you have to hide your phone from your long-term partner, you're doing it wrong. I'm not saying you can't have any secrets, like a secret fetish or private fap folder (hopefully she'd at least know you fap), but secret communications/meetings with other people, that's only for douchenozzles. Either fix your shit so you're no longer a douchenozzle, or accept that you are and go seek a string of new women to cheat on.

A tip on fixing your shit: get over your "I was drunk" excuse, and "no actual serious intention" bullshit if you were arranging to meet up with her. The drunk excuse would work if it ended things once you woke up sober. But you kept her number while sober and of sound mind. Sounds like you might have gotten drunk just to have an excuse to justify more inappropriate behavior to yourself. Or maybe you're an alcoholic, which is another problem to work on. Whatever the case, you're never going to change if you're lying to yourself, and your initial post sounds like you're still in deep denial about what you did. Maybe check out some self-help books or see a therapist about this issue.

As for now, I agree with other advice in this thread, of looking inside yourself as best you can for now and explaining/apologizing honestly as best you can for now via letter. Don't express your future hopes, don't request a reply, leave it up to her if she wants to talk to you again.

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>>727995817
I've learned my lesson bro. Trust me.

>>727995859
wow, why you hating on OP...?

it couldn't possibly just be that your jealous because he got to fuck two women, is it?
Passive aggressive her back into his arms, mmm yeah that'll work so well sweetie. He's fucked and should either move on or move up.

What time is it?

>>727996231
Summer time

I'm still here just in case OP posts more of his exgf

Any woman worth dating wouldn't take you back.

>>727996303
Ok~.

> 0 + 0 = 0."1"
lol, what? No.

>>727996150
Not hating on him, so much as the dick who said the solution was locking his phone more carefully. As for OP, just telling him to it straight, as I see it, cuz I haven't seen any other pushback on the BS explanation he gave after a week of self examination.

>>727992969
How about actually post her tits over ones you've found online...?

>>727996354
that's not my gf dude. it's a random pic. my gf is nowhere on this thread.

>>727996150
I didn't fuck two women. I kissed her.

>>727996354
None of these are his ex. All porn photos from online.

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>>727996566
I appreciate the honesty man.

sourse please

>>727996520
I suppose maybe you weren't serious. It doesn't make sense to me, but the whole thing doesn't, so whatever.

I've hated seeing a therapist personally, and I think it's not for everyone. You have a limited issue you want help with though, and it might be good to talk with someone who's heard several similar situations, and seen approaches and outcomes over time.

>>727996895
If I don't take anything else away from this, at least I want to be a better person. I never want to hurt anyone like this again. Nobody deserves it.

If anyone needed help, it would've been too late by now.

Can the person responsible for me contact me? I'm exhausted. Idc; I'm pooped.

>>727992969
Holy fucking shit I can't be reading this right. Grow the fuck up and be a man. You're supposed to be top of the food chain, and here you are wallowing like a little bitch about some bink.

You can obviously find another one, so go do it and stop blubbering on about some gash you had on the regular.

Otherwise go back to /r/eddit and cry to the fucking sjw's there. Same goes to any of the rest who were giving you nappies and sympathy. What the actual fuck people?

your gf obviously didnt trust you to begin with if shes checking your phone. better off without her tbh

Tangent topic: Vice prez Pence was criticized in the media last week due to his practice of not having one-on-one dinner meetings with women other than his wife, or attending parties/events where alcohol is served without his wife. I'm no fan of his politics, and as a politician he has to worry about appearances regardless of conduct, but I think his approach is a decent rule of thumb for relationships. Monogamy is tough for tons of people, and a lot of people slip, but it's easier if you consciously avoid putting yourself in situations (like parties with alcohol) where one thing might lead to another.

>>727997186
>whines about bitching without a hint of irony

must be an interesting and dangerous place, your mind

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>>727997167
wait what? lol

>>727997186
lolocaust

Dude never leave your phone around your girl if your shit is not hidden properly, i for example have all phones jailbroken/rooted and can hide free txt/phone apps from plain site and also use dircetories to stash my shit, you didnt fuck up because you cheated and were being a pussy getter no , you failed because you suck at being careful and inconsiderate towards a situation that needed the most attention

>>727997344

I agree...

Hate to do this but I'm white knighting you sir. Your making an idiot move posting her and an idiot for cheating on her. No ifs ands or buts about cheating. I don't care if it's 4chan. You screwed your own self up and making yourself look stupider coming to this place asking for help. What a fuckin idiot

>>727997443

Vegetables.

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>>727997526
lol, that's not my girlfriend. It's a random image. There are no pictures of her here. You sir, are a gentleman and a scholar.

>>727997479
Yes.

>>727992969
Two things are likely to happen. Scenario A). She asked her bff to ask you why you did it to make you think she just needs answers and to make you think there's a possibility for reconciliation. She already knows a big dick nigger she's going to fuck to get over you initially, and she's probably already let him dig her out in every way you are incapable. She will eventually talk to you again, saying how hurt she is blah, blah, blah. Since she has the upper hand, she'll probably string your hungry ass along for a time while Jerome is knocking that uterus around in her pelvis until she's over you, quits fucking Jerome and finds another good dude to go out with, at which time she quits all contact. She lives happily ever after.

Scenario B). She's a dumbass and let's you talk her into taking you back.

Explain why the former isn't exactly what your dumbass deserves.

>>727997740
Nah, i know who you are. I'm not a dumbass, keep talking and saying what you'd like, just know every day that goes by I've been in it. Oops, did I hurt your feelings?

>>727997740
"Rapture."

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>>727997880
**shrugs**

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>>727993076
im disappointed in myself that i know all of their names

>>727997740
Nobody specified any image, did we? Maybe we just know who you are from hearing the whole situation. Could even be a femanon... Then again, I could also be the one from the threesome I had with her and Thomas. If you don't know about that 3 months ago already...

>>727992969
Did a similar thing, except got head at a party she was at. Didn't get caught, but told her...ended up staying together. Lessons I learned from that is never tell someone you cheated on them unless you know you're going to get caught, the trust issues it causes are immense and it's never really restored. Since she broke up with you, the mountain you would have to climb is much steeper than mine, and chances are you won't get the opportunity to.

Also, there's still the part about wanting to fuck other girls. That doesn't change just because you fucked up.

tl;dr: Let her go and work on yourself

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>>727992969
What is /B/

>sigh.

dante

>>727992969
dude, you shouldnt be going for long term relationships in your 20s, youre too young, and shes especially too young.

just walk and enjoy your youth while you have it.

>>727998356

It's over. leave

>>727992969
Shes already fucked three of your friends

>>727998356
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>>727998250
Lust doesn't change no. People can and do though. I will practice self-control in the future and have greater consideration for peoples' feelings.

>>727998438

92

>>727992969
No. Live with it and move on. learn from your mistakes so you don't make another one.
Either stay single when you party, or moderate your drinking when you're out.

>>727992969
Don't be a fucking asshole, leave her be. She probably deserves better than you, and tbh you have some issues you need to deal with before getting into another relationship because normal people don't do this kind of stupid shit. Alcohol only removes inhibitions. It doesn't make you do anything you didn't already want to do.

>>727998561
If you can genuinely do that for yourself, brilliant. If you're using it as a tool to improve your (now potential) relationship, not brilliant. Hinging your development on the validation of another is a sure fire way to end up back where you started. All the best though, take your time and be kind.

>>727997386
What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little bitch. I’ll have you know my name is John, and I woke up this morning 5:30 sharp to the smell of wet pussy. I was getting a blowjob from two bitches (Shit was SO Cash), one was trying to fit my humongous 3 pound balls in her mouth while the other was choking halfway on my 18 and 3\8 inch dick. She started to squirt hard, she was convulsing and having 6 orgasms at the same time. I gave it to them and they were on the floor squirting like motherfucking fountains. Must have come about a quart of sperm and compressed air. Imagine your best orgasm, then multiply it by 35. I had to go to base camp so I front-flipped from my 14th floor barracks into my valet parked 2017 Ferrari (I got connexions). Pushed my shit to about 4 hundo (mph, mind you) and I was at base camp in no time. When I entered, I became a top sniper and was granted access to the entire arsenal of the USMC. I learned how to kill someone in over 700 different ways and was assigned to be the leader of a squad that will kill 300 terrorists using gorilla warfare tactics. Also did 6000 push-ups, 8000 sit-ups and bench-pressed 30 plates in 16 minutes. After basic training, I met a network of secret spies who will help me trace your IP address, while eating gold plated sushi and 15,000 $ champagne. My unit got the rest of the day off and I became captain of our base’s football team and starter of the basketball team. I got straight A’s on the military entrance exams and received more awards. Meanwhile, you were jacking off to pictures on Facebook and naked drawn Japanese people. Went back in the Lambo to my barracks and now I am getting ready to go to sleep. I am going to graduate at the top of my class in the Navy Seals tomorrow and I want to look pretty much perfect for it. Don’t be a stranger and remember, I did more in one day than you will your entire life.

Yes.
>conference calls

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>>727998753
I'll own being an asshole, fair enough. I got some shit to work through, I'll own that. Normal people don't cheat? I beg to differ. It's alot more common than you think.

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>>727998837
You should seriously consider ending your life

>>727999192
Can we talk?

>>727999124
Lets put it this way only selfish people cheat

>>727996463
>>727994065

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OP probably has cheated before. She obviously felt she had good reason to check his phone.

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>>727999347
In other words, we should let everyone "sleep?"

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>>727999347
I'm working on that, trust me. I am selfish. I hurt a poor girl's feelings. I won't be told I'm a villain though. There's much worse things I could do.

>>727992969
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=axe0WIzPCTU

Watch it. Maybe you find an answer after circleing around this for a while.

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>>727999527
I was acting shady those two days. That's why. I didn't cheat before though.

I win?

>>727992969
I'm going to try to give you real advice, so I'm prepared to be flamed, but if it helps you, I sincerely wish you the best.

I'm a 38/M/US. I'm married and have been off and on with my wife since we were in high school. We have son turning 15 next month and our daughter just turned 17 a few days ago. My wife and I have been married for 11 years now even though I supported her and the kids until we started dating again.

That being said, I've never cheated on my wife. I've had plenty of opportunities to. Do I fantasize about banging a few of the girls I work with? Absolutely. I'm only human, but I've never acted on it for one simple reason. I love my wife and she trusts me. I have too much invested with her as a part of my life to throw it all away on selfish desire. Are we a perfect couple? Of course not, but we make one hell of a team.

The problem here is that you've already messed up. You crossed a line with the kiss and if you really dig this chick that's going to be hard to come back from, but not impossible. All you can do is keep trying. I would simply tell her, over and over again that you were in a bad place mentally, but after suffering through this, you realize that it's not the kind of person you want to be for her, and it's not the kind of person she deserves.

Ask her to give you an opportunity to show her you can be the kind of man she can be proud of again and that you will prove to her that one Petty lapse in judgment will not define you, but without her, you'll never be able to show her just how important she is to you.

I know it's sappy, but chicks dig humility in a man, if they truly believe it. Take that advice for what to will. Good luck, anon. You

>>727999124
Oh yeah? I consider myself normal, and I've never cheated on any chick I've dated. I started dating in 1996 when I was 19. When I want to fuck someone else, I end my current relationship. Believe me, it's a lot more convenient than lying to people generally more intuitive than we are, as opposed to being honest and leaving them on better terms with the possibility of picking up where you left off in the future. Say you've got some shit to figure out, like whether you like redheads more than blondes. She doesn't need to know the reason, only that you don't want to hurt her feelings. Lying is a dipshit move. Even if you can't think of a reason to break up with someone. People can respect honesty, even if being honest makes you an asshole. But no one respects liars. No one.

>>727999836
science

>>727993651
Cringe

>>727999663
That's alot to chew on bro.

>>727994048
This

>>728000103

Lol.

>>727992969
>I've been taking a long look in the mirror
I bet you literally stared into a mirror... you ass you

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>>727994991
Because they know that had it been a cheating bitch everyone would be telling him not to ever forgive her

Now we are dealing with a cheating /b/ro and telling him that he should be ashamed of himself is only natural.


So OP: Here is my advice: Beg for her forgiveness. Do not beg for her puss. You do not deserve it.

Really need that dragon dick.

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>>727999836
I appreciate your honesty and advice. I have alot to reflect on.

I wonder how big it is~...

>>727994991
Because OP is the one who fucked up. Women are fuckin dramatic. The truth is, kissing a broad at a party isn't that big of a deal, but where this idiot fucked up was lying about it. The act itself, whether you honestly believe a kiss constitites cheating, is bad enough. Then you add this idiot planning to meet up with the broad again, leaving his phone unattended, then lying about it. She's got every reason to break up with him, all given to her by his dumb ass. He fucked up. Live and learn.

You guys think I could fit it?

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>>727999887
I don't condone cheating. It's wrong. I am merely acknowledging the fact that infidelity is common. You have never cheated? That is fantastic. I respect you for that. You are a better man than I. But I didn't kiss this woman because I wanted to break up. I was just in the moment. I lied because I was scared. I'm a prick, no doubt.

I mean, I could use my hands~.

>>728000970
word lol

>Plural

>gasp
Is it here~?
My piggy weeny~?!
<3

>>728000617
Also OP give some thoughts to why it happened in the first place?
Did your GF not really spread her legs that often for you? Because this will not help with that issue and if you insist that this shouldn't define you then consider how hard it will be to get rid of that definition of you if you cheat again.

If you want sex more often that you get then you should take that seriously.


Before actually getting back together then you should figure this out. Because if you cheat again then you will be known as a cronic cheater and thats gonna suck in the long run.

I'm not saying its impossible for me.

But I'm saying my problems with looking myself in the mirror probably would be greater than my need for puss.

>>728001025
But you also made plans to meet up with the girl you kissed. That wasn't being stupid, it was being slick because you thought you could get away with it. That is the single most damaging mechanic to this whole thing because no shit, kissing her wasn't a declaration that you wanted to end things with your gf. In fact, had you just been honest about it she may have bought that the alcohol made you do it. But dude, how the fuck old are you? That excuse is lame af, and she knew it. You fucked yourself. The honorable thing to do is write her a letter admitting your mistake, a desire for forgiveness (because she doesn't have to), the sadness you feel for having hurt her, and wish her well in life. Send that shit through snail mail because she can delete an email or text before ever having read it. But a woman will read a hand written letter. If she wants to give you another chance, that's on her to decide. And she might. Probably not, but I guess you have that chance. You're not going to convince her to do shit bro. Might as well accept that right now.

>sniff~

Ah~, the fresh sent in reflecting skies~.
A beaut it must be to fly.

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>>728001478
I'M NOT CHEATING ON ANYONE AGAIN. However, the issue wasn't lack of sex. If I'm honest, I just liked the attention. Like messaging the woman, it wasn't about actually wanting to meet her (I most definitely was not). I was a... "I still got it" kind of a feeling? If that makes sense. It was selfish and dumb. But it wasn't because of the relationship or the sex. I know I'm a cad. Flame me if you want.

>>727992969
Yo, broke up with my gf at the same ages, lol. I was 28, she was 21. I definitely broke her heart when I did it, and I felt bad for a long time. Here's my perspective.


Just let it go, man. I'm guessing that a major reason you want to get back together with her is so you can "make it right". But really, you're just apologizing by being in a relationship. This makes it all about her, and not about you guys anymore.

My advice:
Do not get back together with her for at least a year. See how things feel after that, but right now, you're just upset and you want to fix the situation, and you can't. Do your own thing for a while.

>>728001746
I've accepted it. Chalking it up to experience mostly.

>>728001956
You should probably tell her that. Tell her how dumb you are and maybe she'll come around, since you didn't actually do anything. There's no harm in having a dialogue with her, but if she doesn't want to have that with you right now, or ever, you need to accept that.

>>728000617
No worries and good luck.

>>728002214
This is honestly some really good advice. Sometimes you faggots really surprise me.

>>727996841
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>>728001956
I work in a company where its mostly women. At parties its like 50 women to 7-10 guys.
There are butterfaces. There are milfs. There are genuine 10/10's as well as the plain ugly ones ofcourse.

I totally get what you are saying about "fuck yeah! I can still score! *selfhighfive*"

However.

Once I get to the point where a chick is leaning in on me for the kiss i get up and leave the party without batting an eye.
You went that 1 milimeter further and that does in fact make alot of diffence.

I'm not saying it would never happen for me that I too went that milimeter further. But I get my kick without having to.
Also my wife is prego with my second kid atm.

>>727999836
this.

and remember the old adage: 'Woman marry men thinking they can change them. Men marry women thinking they won't change.'

It's not true, of course, but there is some truth behind the saying. Women like helping/fixing/improving their men. Why do you think 'bad boys' are soo attractive to women? At the end of the list is 'because when he's with me I'll make him a little less bad' ... he'll be faithful and all mine.

Now you fucked up ... on her ... you're not just a challenge for her to fix since you hurt her feelings. It's more complicated. But if make a point of telling her that she's an important part of helping you become the best person you can be ... that you want to be that ... for her ... you have a decent shot.

Ask me how I know this ...

But ... danger Will Robinson ... you have to want this long term. If you aren't ready to give up the alcohol fueled horny flirting/partying/sexting/texting ... then admit that to yourself, apologize to the ex (take the high road), and go have fun. You can have A or B but not A and B.

Trust me ... I know ... been exactly where you are thanks to too much booze. I had to dial that shit all the way back for a long time to stop from flirting/etc/etc with every 6 in a short skirt with nice legs. You can do it if you want to ... and are ready to.

There isn't a right or wrong thing to do here. There's only a right for you right now. My choice was deciding I did want long-term with what I had. It was her or partying ... she was the choice. A decade plus later I only get drunk around her ... and I still get to do very dirty things in inappropriate places.

>>727998153
Care to share?

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>>727997186
I know you didn't say anything political, but the autism is just too much to ignore.

/pol/ pls go

>>727993388
THIS and 1,000x THIS, op.

Do what this guy said.

>>727992969
Is this Gabi from Rohrem?

>>727995859
>implying that just because your phone is locked means you are hiding something
>implying if you aren't married or engaged then you have to give her access to your shit like she is the NBA
>implying OP was going to act out on anything or meet up, but because he bowed to having an open phone he is now single.

It's apparent that OP regretted it immediately. If he was a "douchenozzle" then he wouldn't show remorse.

You're suggesting that shit isn't your partners business and you've only been dating a year and a half is fine. Just like she goes out and does whatever, talks to whomever. Should just trust the other person. If OP didn't give a fuck he wouldn't have posted.

The difference between us is that I'm not a Virginia and have already been through a wide variety of women who have different extremes. The best thing to do is put your future down in regards to your shit and if she wants to leave then she can micro manage someone else.

Don't put pussy on a pedestal. Ever

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>>728002267
It probably doesn't make a damn difference to her tbh. It just looked like I was making plans with someone. That looks bad, no matter how you slice it.
>>728002214
You know what, I will. I've been beating myself up about it (so has the internet lol) I fucked up. I accept that. I'm gonna do my thing. Just never do that shit again.

>>727999347
that super reductive. selfishness is not the only reason people cheat. or rather it's often more than just that.

people sometimes cheat because they need to feel wanted and their partner isn't giving them the attention or affection they crave

people cheat because they have stopped caring about their partner, and this could be for a number of different reasons, sometimes legitimate ones.

people do cheat because they are assholes sometimes. most often, but there are other reasons is all i'm saying.

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>>728002499
Commendable bro :)

>>728002513
A reformed cad. Nice. I'm going to leave her alone for a good long while. If she wants to speak to me again, the lines are open. She still has my number and email. I've learned my lesson, and if I'm honest, I would prefer A. But, for now, I just gotta take some time for myself, and grow the fuck up.

>>728003032
lol, i was an ass but I'd like to think I've learned the error of my ways.

>derpatron infinity
love this game

>>728003032
Cheating is inherently selfish so in order to cheat you have to be a selfish person

If the relationship is bad unselfish people end the relationship first

Try to get with her friend. Maybe she will be impressed/jealous and take you back

>>728004287
Nope. Not gonna happen bro. I'm trying to reform.