/b/ros help a beta become an alpha. >Be me >18, Kissless

Op here: Also i dont have a license, but money isnt an issue because i will just leach it off my parents like i do with anything else

>>727975605
Just do movies you chuckle fuck.

>>727975739
>movies on first date

That's a virgin play right here.

>>727975739
You think?

Ive been told that its a bad date because its not super interactive. So lets say we go and see a movie at night, get pizza or something after and then i walk her home while we talk about the movie (we both love the night)

Does that sound good, bad or mediocre.

tldr; if some fat cuck took you to the movies, bought you your favorite food, discussed the movie while he walked you home would you like that.

>>727975869
thats what i thought, what if i added something tho, like this >>727975907

Im open to ideas if you have any though

Shameless self bumping at this point.

Go hunt some dubs. Like this, check'em

>>727975605
If you both enjoy movies it should be fine, honestly something like an arcade would be better though, or movie then go to an arcade ?

Both your interests arent really date ideas. But you gotta do something interactive or she might as well of just gone to the movie by herself

>>727976688
FUCK, all knowing anon, you predicted the dubs. something like a date idea for a beta cant be think hard. spare it some thought ?

Maybe I'm wrong here but in my exp you don't need to overthink a date with this chick... If a chick likes you the date goes well regardless and at the end you make out w her and things go from there... So all I can say is good luck and just be direct with her about your intentions off the bat so you don't get friendzoned. Cute post bro

>>727976750
Go to movies and dinner, dude. May the dubs be with you. Check?

You need to do something interactive, something where you can talk and get to know each other better thats why a movie isnt that great.

Other anon said arcade, that would work if you're both into that kind of stuff.

Id say something like arcade, food, walk around somewhere pretty then back to one of you guys houses for a movie or something ?

Im also a kiss less virgin, but thats what i think anyway

Spend some time alone with her, act like she doesn't like you but be gentle. She'll make the move and then you'll get that pussy

Umm. Art exhibition? Sounds fun

>>727977046
Don't do this.

It's this easy....
Step 1: call her up
Step 2: ask her if she wants to come over for some drinks
Step 3: drink
Step 4: show her your porn collection (be suggestive)
Step 5: fuck her
Step 6: have useless fatfuck offspring

>>727975605
send a message like >hey whats up, are u free the next days? let#s meet up and do sthg. Though about mby.....(insert ideas here)
wait for answer (most prob sthg like yea, u choose)
start dring the day/afternoon, go eat somewhere (u should have some paces in ur mind already), let her choose between going to the movies or your place watching sthg on the pc or game sthg (mby sthg with 2 controllers / emuator or old schoo card games)
don't be a faggot if she doesn't want to fuck on the first day, go with the flow of the evening, mby it's just cuddeling - but u shoud make her horny enough that she wants to fuck u.

dunno, cuddeling aways went to fucking the same night for me, just touch them ears sighty from time to time kek women are easy to get horny

>>727977217
Don't forget to be awkward as fuck. At least if you try to be awkward you might jut end up avoiding being awkward.....

>>727975605

Eat out somewhere or take her home to watch a movie, maybe both, then you know what you must do, anon.

>>727975605
Park/Beach, then game together faggot.

Pull a goodbye kiss or more if you can get away with it. If she's not comfy, don't force it.

Definitely try to kiss second date. Third at the latest.

Don't be a little cuck.

>>727977418
After things get hot and heavy be sure to invite your only black friend over to plow her out propper while you wank your pathetic little fatbody gamer dick.

>>727977418
kiss my dubs

OK, LISTEN UP FUCKERS

stop being faggots, I was a kissless virgin until two months ago.
My bro just literally peer pressured me into calling her and saying the exact words
"Hey, so... I actually have feelings for you, and I wanted to ask you if we could go on a date?"

DO NOT CHANGE ANY WORD IN THIS SENTENCE, just do it

It worked for my bro with a success rate over 80%, and for me trice already.

>>727977513
Fuck that shit. Call them up, don't ask them for shit, TELL THEM YOU ARE GOING ON A DATE. Asking permission opens you up to be rejected.

>>727977323
like it's fucking spring, go somewhere outside during the day and take some food with u & a pack of cards or any fucking game.

Fucking newbs. Women want a pack leader. Tell them what fuck is going to happen, then make it fucking happen! This is not rocket science you faggots!

>>727977665
Also check my dubs

>>727975605
>Are common interests are shit like video
First of all learn the difference between are and our you massive retard

>>727977587
trust me, its the perfect mix between gay words, akwardness and offense, it never failed for me so far...

>>727977323
Thanks anon, i dont expect her to fuck me, i dont even expect or want her to kiss me. Not that i wouldnt want it from her but because i dont want to fuck it up.

If you have any tips for kissing id be open

omg the quints

>>727977731
I'll trust my 40+ notches on my belt thanks

>>727977724
sorry anon, kissless virgin that doesn't know basic English coming through.

I dont even know how i fucked that up, but im embarrassed now

>>727976688
Checked

>>727977842
You're so fast, anon

>>727977066
Would be, we dont have anything like that in our town tho, the next down over does but its like 30 mins away and i dont have a license.

Nice idea tho, i didnt even think of it

>>727975605
Movies is a bad first date cause you get to know nothing about each other. Take her to a shitty save and busters or something and play a couple games

You guys are fucking queer. I'm out

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ask for an online date

>>727977513
fuck that shit, dont call them up

send her an email, its the most romantic thing she could receive. Maybe pit the subject title as a late payment or a bill. She will feel click into expecting to have to pay, but then she will see you asking her on a date and you;re set up

>>727977513
How the fuck do you get feelings for a girl aftet just meeting her? Beta needy faggot here, i bet you're always the first to text

>>727977587
This guy knows what he's talking about

>>727977217
Is social media / facebook fine?

I dont have her number.

or would it be better to wait till i see her in person and then ask it them, or ask for her number then and ring her ?

>>727978132
>I dont have her number
She hates you

>>727977740
whoa lol, tips about kissing.. I kissed men and women already and from my experience most women know how to kiss (kinda.. ike being soft about it and not like a plunger) while mlot's of men try to take your whole mouth in their mouth which is fucking awkward. (I'm a dude btw)
Don't be creepy and keep your eyes open al the time.
kiss them lips, upper ip, ower lip, both lips. when u feel her tongue u tickle it with yours.. dunno, kiss her earlobes, neck... just don't press but give nice soft kisses. If ur desperate try kissing an apricot kek

>>727978089
OP here, naaah that's a shitti advice

>>727975605
Movies, when there say have you ever played the shoulder game she will say no then tap your furthest shoulder from her and say one then continue to your next shoulder then hers and once you tap her last shoulder rest your arm around her, alpha strats got me my first bj do it son

>>727977587
Is that how you get women to fuck you too?

>>727978175
like don't keep your eyes open all the time is what I wanted to say

>>727975907
Skip the movie
Eat pizza then walk around eating ice cream

Post pics of her OP

>>727978444
Do it fer the trips

>>727978060
I dont actually have feelings, but it works...

With my current GF yes bcoz she is edgy AF and has legit social anxiety...
Usualy its her who texts me.

>>727978500
Checked

>>727978444
Obey the trips or watch the thread die OP

>>727975605
Ignore these other shit tier ideas.

Take her to something youre passionate about. Its your date, youre responsible for the fun. She may not enjoy the date as much as you, but shes not there for the date, shes there to see the best version of you.

So make that shit happen, get laid, profit like a motherfucker

>>727977915
Don't travel 30 mins just to see art, unless there's other stuff to do in that town.

>>727978444
>>727978492
>>727978631
I dont have any of her, i could jew one of her social media but i feel like you guys would just find her.

sorry guys

>>727978132
Tell her you want to go out and ask for it irl
You have to do it at the same time

If you ask for her number on Facebook you gotta text/call her same time

- Start working out every day
- Start getting more hydrated every day
- Be casual about it so you don't scare her
- If she says know, be casual about that too

Don't let her see you're nervous; girls like confidence so just try to think of a date as not-a-big-deal and then ask her out while in that state of mind.

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the worst she can say is no. post results when youve asked

Definitely ask her out in person, not over text or whatever.

>>727978998
You fucking piece of shit I curse you to die a virgin. She will not go on your date OP may you get aids

>>727979176
>if she says know
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Show her this sexy dubs

>>727979216
Yea sure, it will probs be next time said friend hosts a party, normally around once every 2-3 weeks. Ill get her alone and ask.

>>727979244
^

Also if i asked at the party could it make it awkward, would it be better to wait until one of us decides to leave and tell her just before that ?

>>727979314
:(( if i had some that were not online i would

>>727979467
You're overthinking it big time kiddo. Just do it next time it feels natural while you guys are talking. When you deliver a big laugh to her or she's smiling at you just be like hey do you wanna go out sometime and get it out there. Literally not that hard. Now post her picture you virgin fuck

>>727975605
You obviously have anxiety and hard to read human interaction. Get that autism checked out profesionally.

>>727976962
Is a good tip.

Don't go on too long being friends. Make your intentions clear that you are interested in more than that.

Start exercising a little - at least so you can walk around a block and talk at the same time.

Finally, look around for better forums than /b/ for advice like this.

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>>727979367
nice try

>>727979176
Takes too long, will be in friendzone territory by then.

>>727979646
Sweet, yea ill do that. I guess because ive never asked anyone out on a date before im just super nervous.

and for the last time anon, i dont have anything of her, all the pictures are on her social medias so one of you fags could find her profiles.

Just think, cute, normal weight, red hair (dyed) with glasses. I dont really know what else to tell you anon

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>>727980169
we must make sure shes not a tranny

>>727980262
She's a trap for sure and OP is a fag

>>727980318
Yup. And OP will love it.

>>727980017
I am on austismo spectrum, and have anxiety. Good picking it up. im only just on it though, like very low end. and my anxiety is quite bad, but i can fake it well

>>727980169
3 weeks is a long time. if next meet is approaching 4 weeks, its a very long time, try to get her info and at least talk before then.
2 weeks is ok.

Just go for it?

>>727980406
I wouldnt even mind. she knows im a bisexual fag anyway

>>727980568
we talk on social media a bit, not often but every few days she will msg me.

>>727980545
Just don't fake your anxiety till you break. Shut in girl gamer will likely know anxiety as well, so empathy should be possible.

>>727976839
This

>>727980724
Ive been faking it for like 5 years man, most my friends know me as an out going guy.

Little do they know i go to counselling every Tuesday.

Like i can fake it really fucking well, if im good at one thing it would be lying / manipulating.

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>>727975605

Stop letting people make decisions for you, your strength comes from your control and the less decisions you make for yourself the less strength you have.

Learn to fight.

Learn to yell.

That's all you need to succeed.

>>727981250
I want suggestions. from that i can then decide how i would like it to go, maybe i could do something after etc.

plus its just what to do, i will be myself on the date and show her me.

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>>727975907
>we both love the night

how autistic are you? literally everyone feels pretty ok with nighttime, it's half of every fucking day. you better not trying to pull some faggy twilight-level shit with this chick. Stop trying to sound like some super-deep poetic knucklehead and take her to some fucking mini-golf or walk around downtown to find some cool shit, art gallery (you said you like art), pool hall, something competitive even that you'll have fun with.

>>727981772

>I want suggestions

That's your problem man, stop looking for answers from other people, you need to be the one giving those answers, you know what I mean?

Like what the hell do you want to do?

>>727975605

dumbass, you should have asked the night you stayed up talking, kys beta

>>727975605
Coffee, lunch will do. U dont know the bitch very well yet. Bitches only give up pussy if they know something about the guy. Unless theyre just complete sluts

>>727981955
Are you okay? we both have a preference for night time. Where we live is sub antarctic and a small city, so night times are always chilly and foggy, with little light pollution.

We both love shit like night drives or night walks.

Its not me trying to be some poetic fag, its saying we both have a clear preference for the night so we might as well do something together then.

>>727982385
she knows a fair bit, we were talking for like 8 hours after everyone passed out. We just stayed up until the sun came up and then decided we should clean up some shit and leave.

gl mate u will do this!

>>727981250
>hurr durr chimp out everything will be fine
Classic beta bullshit; he fell for the jerk meme. Women don't want to a man that gets into fights, they want a man confident enough to get his way.

>>727981772
Suggest something that you think you'll both enjoy. Do a little research and put in some work so you can be confident in your choice. If she doesn't like it then you weren't compatible and it's not a big deal.

>>727982224
I know what you mean dude.

I want to do something she will enjoy, i want to do something that will let her see all sides of me.

the activity is just a medium, and is irreverent as long as she enjoys it

Take her for an ice cream, eat it like shit on a park then just ask for a freaking kiss

>>727982719

Okay, i know what we would both enjoy. But what we both enjoy is anti social shit, so i had to put a twist on it to make it somewhat social.

Meet at cinema at night
Watch crime/horror/romance we both enjoy those.
Walk her over to get pizza, sit in a park and eat, while talking about the movie
Walk her home
Maybe go for a kiss if i think she enjoyed it?

But i dont know, i doubt my ideas completely, i need reassurance or guidance. its part of me being on the autismo spectrum and having anxiety

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>>727982482
am i okay? i'm not the faggot asking for dating advice on /b/ and saying dumbshit like "we both love the night so wut do?" You know 95% of people go on dates at night since most people are at work or class during the day right? It's not a fucking epiphany you had, it's common fucking sense. Take the rest of my advice or leave it, idgaf, but if you can't even figure out how to go on a goddamn date yourself idk how the fuck you figure you're going to land some chick in the first place. You wanna stop being a beta and be a chad? Stop and ask yourself what practical, realistic shit do you have to offer this chick? Not talking about "night walks or anime talks" or dumb shit like that, like realistic shit. Money? Good dick? Good dinner? Shit she can't already do on her own? If your answer is nothing you need to change that. It's that simple, there's no magic formula like a video game and the rest of it is just knowing how to read body language and cues correctly and at the proper times and tiny, non-creepy, things you can do to push her in the right direction you want her to go that don't involve looking at the stars or buying her a fucking box of chocolates.

nigga get access to alcohol
and get a job. the longer you wait the harder it is.
or take out a college loan and do full time college
this is way more important than some girl.

but yes, get alcohol, play vidya, introduce her to the chans.
if she browses buzzfeed kick her ass out asap

>>727975605
Take her to an underground bare-knuckle boxing match, and surprise her by taking on the biggest guy there.

>>727983437
"No plan survives contact with the enemy"

That been said, you may have a previous idea, but nights go like they go.

>>727984058
I know it wont go exactly like that, shit happens we might end up finding out that we dont enjoy each other in a romantic setting, or we might find that we love it and want to hang out longer or me spend the night there. you never know. it was just a base of what i planned to do

>>727975605
You fuck yourself over the second you start thinking this hard, op. Just do something you know you would both enjoy. If you guys can talk that much and enjoy each other I assume you have some idea of what she'd like so go with that. If you come to /b/ for advice on shit like this rather than following your gut you're gonna turn into a gross amalgamation of all the things /b/ thinks a girl likes and you don't need that because she already likes you. So be you.

>>727984374
Fuck, i love you. i feel like an idiot. if she didnt enjoy my company she wouldn't of stayed up talking to me or added me on facebook the morning after.

imma just go with something like i said before that i think we would both enjoy. thanks anon

>>727982869

Dude that's the thing you gotta show her that you can MAKE the night happen, you know what I mean?

How do you want the night to going? We can't tell you your ideal night man, you have to tell us what that is and then we go on from there.

>>727975605
Get a job you fucking cuck. You wander why you're a virgin.

>>727983557
I have access to alcohol and money.

Im learning to code from home, im still new and only doing it for a month but i got the markup language down. (xhtml, css)

Yea college was never something i really wanted to do, i thought i wanted to be a cook, but then when i did it i was bored, and now that im doing coding im getting bored. I guess thats why im having a year off from work, to find something i enjoy doing that i could make a career out of

>>727985023
>>727985048

Also my dad owns like 5 different shops in town, i can get one if i want easy,

i know how lucky i am to be in this situation, so im taking advantage of it to figure myself out

>>727975605

>shut in
>qt

Post pic of alleged "qt" plz

>>727975605
Have her over for video games and cook a meal. That simple.

>>727983674
Fuck anon, you got a chuckle out of me.

Im not a small guy though, in terms of being fat and tall. im 6'4 and 103 kg but im weak as shit

>>727983449
wew lad

>>727985285
Ive been over this, i wont because i dont have any unless off social media. and you fags could easy just reverse img search it

also shes cute by my standards, red hair, glasses, nice body, okay face.

>>727984849
That;s the spirit! If you ask me the second you have to put planning or materialism into a date night the relationship isn't gonna prevail. Wait until you know you can spend a night with her just doing the things you love to do together. Then you can take her out to movies and dinner without worrying that you are just a meal ticket with one punch hole left.

>>727975605
Just take her to dinner faggot. Ask her to dinner, don't ask her where she wants to go. Probe a little bit before all of this to find out what she likes and just take her there. They like when you just choose for them (sounds condescending, I know, but it's true for most girls).

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>>727985434
Great rebuttal. What did I say that was wrong? Nothing. I'm not discounting personality but if you're the kind of dipshit that has to ask people how to plan a date on 4chan of all places, you've clearly got none. Any human wants to hang with an SO that's going to compliment their lifestyle not drag it down. Applies to women and men (most of them anyway). So we've nailed that you've got shit for personality. Are you a 10/10 in the looks dept? Got a huge dick? Decent body? If all that is no, you better have some fucking money because all the romantic "long drives at night" and "talking about anime" sounds great but it's not fucking reality and, at best, only compliments the other stuff it doesn't make a relationship and it's sure as hell not going to get you into any panties unless it's some loser hamplanet that's basically you're ugly ass equal with a vagina and then, ultimately, it's a waste of time anyway.

But you do you, pal. You clearly have it all figured out since you're asking for advice on /b/. Stop reading your stupid ass mangas and thinking that's how the real world works because it's not.

kek

>>727985588
Dubs never lie.

I dont think she would use me, i mean i dont know her super well but she doesnt seem like that kinda person.

ill probs just wait till i see her next and talk to her again, if things go well ill ask her to hang out some time and then if that goes okay then ill tell her my feelings.

I know about her past boyfriends (only 2) one of them i vaguely know left her after 6 months because they didnt have enough in common and he found another girl. The other one just kinda stopped responding to her after like 3 dates. So shes kinda new as well and shes been single for like 8 months now, and told me shes looking to date again the other night.

>>727985903
op here; that wasnt me.

I didnt respond because i get it, you're being cocky, maybe you've banged a bunch of woman and are all proud.

I dont care about that, my personality is fine, like ive said, if you bothered to read my posts im on the autistic spectrum, its not noticeable if you know me irl but i have to put thought and effort into most social interactions. but that doesnt mean i cant pull them off,

Also, like i said before im 18, this girl isnt looking for a life long partner, and even if she is you're not going to find many 18yos with alot of money.

I understand that dating around my age is mainly for experimenting, sure some relationships progress but most dont, All those things you listed i would understand if i was mid - late twenty but im 18,

>>727986183
Wait she told you she's looking to date again? Done deal you're already in she's just waiting on you to make the move. Girls are all about signals and a good many of them feel averse to being too direct because they feel they might come off as desperate. Her saying to you "I want to date again" is essentially her asking you out in a way that the burden of the first move is on you. They feel the pressure of the initial asking too it's just that they can divert it.

>>727975605
Isn't there a recreative? Like pacman, galaga street fighter II and shit? Take her there and use a false time paradoxe to make it seem you're interested without saying it directly

leave it to /b/ to give some shit tier advice OP will look like a complete mandchild next time hes with grill

>>727987165
She said something along the lines of, i havent had a boyfriend for 8 months, and that it would be nice to have one. then on social media at a later date she just kind of jokingly complained about why she didnt have one, being ugly and shit.

I just assumed it was apart of our conversation, i mean we went pretty deep talking 8 hours on end with nothing like a movie or anything to talk about. Talked about futures, friends, jobs, past relationships, music, art, movies, current friends.

It seemed more friendly/drunk convo than a signal, but tell me if you think im wrong as your social skills are most likely better than mine

>>727987632
Based on what you are telling me, she's into you and waiting for you to properly ask her out.

>>727987165
Also it gets more complicated because house party lady is good friends with qt. and its very public knowledge that house party lady has a thing for me, even tho ive rejected her like 3 times

>>727987931
really, man im a fucking beta. also check >>727987984

>>727987984
So i dont know if them being good friends will affect my chances with her, i hope not and dont think so as house party lady is super friendly and forgiving,

>>727975605
What city do you live in? Bc that would help us a lot more to give you better ideas, like museum or other cool spots

>>727975605
Find something to do that you don't do everyday. Laser tag, mini golf, disc golf. Use a little imagination and for fuck's sake man up a little bit, faggot.

Faggot OP dont wait till you see her again!!! Call her now or tomorrow dont lie again to yourself you just made shit up to convince yourself that you aint to pussy to ask her out! I do not for a second believe you that you think its best to wait weeks before making a move. You are just lying cuz your a pussy and instead of sending her a mail right now you just come here and tell your bullshit i-need-theraphy stories about how not to be pussy. Do it now (no tomorrow isnt a better time right now its as good as ever, stop lying to yourself the day you do that is the day your halfway to not being a cuck)

>>727988734
there is no point doing it if we both wont enjoy it dude. We are both shut ins.

Try TheRedPill

>>727989477
what the fuck is that