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my girlfriend of 3 years has just booked a girls holiday to Ibiza

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my girlfriend of 3 years has just booked a girls holiday to Ibiza for a week in the summer, she's 21 and her friends are mostly single - should I be concerned?
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>>727895053
It wouldn't be right to go to ibiza a party city and not get laid every night. So yes be concerned.
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Do you have a girl that you can fuck while she's away? How attractive are you op?
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>>727895341
she claims she enjoys drinking and dancing and that not everyone that goes over there fucks around. She's been loyal for 3 years so I dunno.
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>>727895433
I'm pretty average, she's stunning and does draw quite a bit of attention, as do her single mates.
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you shoueld skill yourself :D
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>>727895053
>She's been loyal for 3 years
>booked a girls holiday to ibiza

hah
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I'm sorry OP, but it's over. She may be loyal, but she will have a lot of guys crawling over her.

Most likely her friends will be the problem. To encourage her to get drunk and try to get her to hook up. Even if she may not fuck anyone (she will), she's making out with like 10 guys easy.
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>>727895483
>she's stunning

Sorry to tell you this but women need to be kept in check, that's why you have to go everywhere with them. I'm just telling you right now shes going to do SOMETHING. I mean think about it anon, you've been with her for 3 years, why wouldn't she want a vacation with you? Girls vacation my ass, she wants to be apart so she can do shit she will get away with.

She enjoys drinking and dancing? If you're not there to babysit her when she's wasted do you honestly expect her not to do anything? My advice is don't even try to talk her out of it or she will resent you.

Did she decide to plan all this?
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>>727895053
3 years and youre unsure? Dude...
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>>727895683
She's handled guys trying it on with her and giving her attention before though, hoping that doesn't change.

Her friends can be annoying so they are a concern.

Making out with 10 guys easy? Surely women don't just suddenly become easy because they're in Ibiza?
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>>727895053
You gon get cucked by Juandissimo.
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>>727895441
>>727895053
Man these hoes ain't loyal
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>>727895053
Nah, if you trust her you should not have to worry about her cheating. My girlfriend went to the Bahamas for a month on vacation after working non-stop. I thought she deserved it while I went to finish paying off our debt.
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>>727895784
We're also going on vacation together a month before Ibiza, it's her friends and her that planned it as they haven't properly gone on a girls holiday before and it's likely to be their last chance to go together as a group.
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>>727895441
she wouldn't be able to resist all of her friends getting plowed getting every night so she will no doubt join in
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>>727895826
>Making out with 10 guys easy? Surely women don't just suddenly become easy because they're in Ibiza?
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>>727895912
C U C K
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>>727895053
Befriend her ugliest friend, unless that's the best friend

She will rat for you
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>>727896010
that's my only worry - if they've all found someone to fuck for a night is she just going to walk back to the hotel on her own? Not sure.
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>>727895826
I've lived in 6 countries and traveled to 40+. They do. Bless their hearts when you're on the good side. But they do. And they claim "it's a one time thing".

I went to uni abroad. 80% of girls with bf's cheated in first semester, went back on break, then were single next semester. Even long relationships.

It will happen OP, and you have no idea how bad. I'm sorry. Truly.
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>>727895912
and how do you know she didn't cheat on you with bahamian bbc you dummy?
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>>727895826
>guys giving her attention before
Yeah but that's not when she's thousands of miles away.

Honestly op, stay with her until the day of the trip and break up with her. I'm dead fucking serious, that way it gives her time to reconsider (doubt it) and you still get that pussy. Try to do things in bed and shit you've always wanted to do, make this time last. Then the day of the trip, preferably as she's about to leave at the airport, dump her. Honestly though she will probably dump you before so she can have random sex.

>>727895980
Go on that trip and do what I said after, have some fun before she cheats on you. You're being seriously naive, dude. Like come on man, she's gonna be liquored up, you're not gonna be around, with all her single friends, unless she's a fucking saint and has done more for you than 99% of women, she's going to cheat.
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>>727896056
underrated
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>>727896258
I'm not going to throw 3 years away on a chance she might be tempted, surely it's better to trust and have faith in her?
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>>727896258
This is the best advice. And honestly, it's often the saints who can be the worst because it's the first time.

Also, you sound the type to likely "talk" to your girl about it. If you do that and/or order her not to, she's going to do far worse.

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Before the trip, decide if you're willing to be with her. No matter what happens. Because she won't tell you, but most likely worst case will happen.
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>>727896371
so what hotel
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>>727895483
>>727895053
i agree OP, what u could do is hide a recorder in her shit that has enough battery power for a week or at least a few days and blamo your good.
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>>727896475
I wouldn't be the type to tell her what to do no, but I do feel like I can trust her. It's just the temptation and situation of being with all her single mates that frustrates me. She's been with me 3 years and only had 2 boyfriends prior to me - she's only been with 3 guys.
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>>727896371
DUDE

WAKE UP

SHE'S GOING ON A TRIP TO THE BAHAMAS WITH HER FRIENDS WITHOUT YOU

SHE WILL BE DRINKING CONSTANTLY

SHE IS VERY ATTRACTIVE AND OFTEN GET GUYS ATTENTION

Just use her until the day of the trip, milk this, and then break up. That way she can have her random sex and might feel a TINY bit of remorse.

>>727896606
>only been with 3 guys
That's about to change. Don't tell her what to do, break up with her the day she leaves. That's assuming she doesn't do it first. Milk this shit, dude.
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>>727896606
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>>727896606
Her friends are the problem. If they like you, maybe you're okay.

If they don't like you OP, you're fucked.
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HERES A FUCKING IDEA
GO WITH HER YOU FUCKING DINGO
FUCK HER FRIENDS, BE THAT ASSHOLE WHO INVITES HIMSELF BAM EVERYONE WINS!
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>>727896742
I get along reasonably well with them. 2 of them are newly single and very slutty, the other is a bit more shy and hasn't been with many guys, I'm hoping my girlfriend sticks with her mostly once they're out there.
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>>727896056
This. Get a snitch on the inside.

I cemented my relationship a few years ago, I more or less said if you're gonna cheat on me break up first, cus if you don't I'll slit your throat. She cried for like 2 days, but now all is good.

I'd just voice your concern, and if she get defensive and emotional then you know something's up. Lay out a subtle ultimatum if shit goes down.

If she does cheat, don't be a bitch, break her face. A little time would be worth the satisfaction.
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>>727896852

if she has slutty friends she's slutty too lol
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>>727896791
I have to say this isn't that bad of an idea
if OP isn't willing to break up, but also not willing to let her go alone, he should just do that, yeah it might seem rude but in the long run it could be worth it
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>>727895053
She's going on a DP bender. Every hole will be brutally double fucked.
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Christ this has to be bait because OP is a fucking retard.
>girlfriend going out with slut friends
>to a city known for partying and sex
>going to be drunk the whole time
like seriously dude all these red flags and you still think she will be faithful? Hope you don't catch an Std after she's done down there. Because she will cheat.
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>>727897043
tbh bro, thanks
it's because if guys like you that guys like me get to slay vag

what hotel
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are you all saying 100% there is zero chance a girl wants to go to Ibiza with her friends just to have fun, drink, dance, sunbath and chill out?
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>>727897403
anon don't be naive.
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>>727895053
not necessarily, get cutting for the summer OP so she knows what she's missing whilst you're back home. Ibiza is full of english drunks, scots with no teeth, the worst of the worst from Italy and lecherous spanish so chances are she'll be thoroughly fed up on day one of all the idiots coming on to her at Ushuaia
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>>727897403
yes that's what we're saying
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>>727897403
Without her 3 YEAR BOYFRIEND?

Yes there's no chance that's possible.
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>>727897635
haha like it
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>>727897709
why would I go on a girls holiday to Ibiza? Haha
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>>727895826
man you have not to a crazy party city
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>>727897760
You know what?

Let her go, she's not going to do anything. You clearly won't listen to reason, and because of that you deserve to get cucked. The best advice is >>727896258
Either go with that or just don't bother, because you're gonna get cucked if she goes and you're not there.
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>>727895053
Have you been to Ibiza man? Its full of men built like gods I am 6'2 and quite built myself and I felt puny there. I feel like a god where I'm from by the way girls are ez as fuck there so if she just pushes someone away they will move on quickly thats what I did but I only got with 1 chick there and fell in love with her like a cuck.
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>>727897978
Solid advice, appreciated.
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>>727897760
Beyond help. Just let her go on this little vaca and keep your mouth shut. Fucking millennial cuck.
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>>727895053
She's going for fresh cock. She's making a fool out of you. Dump her.
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>>727895053
OP this will go down one of two ways:
You will freak the fuck out, get nervous and paranoid and she'll notice it, get pissed off and you'll fulfill you own prophecy of her banging dudes.

The other is you keep your shit, check in on her regularly, trust that she hasn't been dicked by Spaniards, and move on. If you say she's loyal then trust that, other than that there's nothing you can do

Me and my gf always take vacations without each other, especially to Vegas. I'm not some insecure faggot who thinks my gf is gonna fuck the first dude off the plane. She knows I give her the best fuck, I'm apart of her family, I have my own finances, and again, I'm not some insecure faggot
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>>727895053
I really hope this 3 year bitch gets fucked by a bunch of AIDS-infected niggers and ends up pregnant. It's exactly what you deserve.
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>>727898346
Deep.
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>>727898335
Again, some solid advice. Appreciated.
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>>727898335
>has to say he's not an insecure faggot twice to try and get his point across
how many guys has your slut gf banged with you around?
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>>727898335
best, go with option 2 op
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you cant trust women
thats what life teached me
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>>727895053
OP, just a get a spy app for her phone.
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>>727895053
Yes.

She'll get banged like British beef, for a tenner each.
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>>727899394
a tenner each? so she's suddenly a prostitute too?
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>>727895053

get a new gf, she's trash
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>>727899480
After an evening in Pacha with those randy English men with six packs, she'll be begging to be railed hard up against the bins m8, no condome - just jizzed up and spat on.
you know what? She'll love it too, and you'll never find out.
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Her ass will be stretched out for sure.
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>>727895053
Definitely because that bitch will have liquor in her.
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>>727899480
Well, she certainly won't be buying her own drinks...
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>>727899656
you don't hold back do you? Fuck.
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>>727899761
graphic.
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>>727895053
Your gf either had a dick or a huge bush.
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>>727899895
neither.
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>>727899828
Probably right there.
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>>727895912
and take care of my wifes son
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>>727895053
You need to fuck her really well before she goes to that place... I have a stunning wife, that do pole dance and she is royal as fuck... I am a chubby nerdo with a fat cock I think that help me a lot.
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OP

This is for you
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qocjLL9szgA
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>>727896371
Surely it would be better. But you dont. Otherwise you wouldnt be here.
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>>727895053
My girlfriend of 2 years (when i was 19) went to a music festival without me, my friend who was sleeping in the same camp as her told me about her bringing the same boy over every night to sleep in her tent - I've later been told it might have actually been him. My point is that girls, especially girls born after 1990, are used to instant gratification and they don't handle their drugs/booze very well.
Not saying the two cases are related, but yeah.
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tell her to send pics
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I'm over in Ibiza for the summer. OP Tell me where she's staying and I'll pile one up her for you.
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>>727895053
OP, genuine advice here:
Wish her a good time, tell her to enjoy it.
If you dont show confidence, the risk of her cheating on you will actually be higher. And either way you won't go down as a cuck.

Im in the semi-same situation at the moment with my girl friend (have had her for 4 years now)
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>>727895053
she'll be fucked upside down, deal with it
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>>727900741
appreciate that, is she going away too?
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>>727897403
Yes. And if you had ever been Ibiza, you wouldn't ask such a stupid question.

There are hundreds of places where you can go to have fun, drink, dance, sunbath, and chill out.

People go to Ibiza to get sloppy drunk and fuck strangers they'll never see again.

It's kinda like 4 guy friends with a suitcase full of cash saying, "Oh yeah, we're just heading down to the Bunny Ranch in Nevada for a weekend. The weather's great, we're going to drink, and the buffet is good too."
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>>727895053
Serious girlfriend? Never let her go on a trip without you. If she does, then shes' not a serious girlfriend anyways.
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you do sound really insecure.
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>>727900741
He can say what he wants but facts are facts.
As soon as she gets off that plane, she's gonna be on the lookout for cock and that is a fact.
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>>727895053
Don't be a stupid fucking child and certainly don't listen to 99% of the kissless virgins here. You've been with her for 3 years and you trusted her this long but you worry that because she's out of your sight shes gonna cheat? Then you don't trust her and you're a boy. If she fucks around handle it then. If she doesn't and you act like a little insecure bitch guess who's getting left?
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>>727897403
Uh huh.

OP, why did you ask for advice when you're clearly not going to listen to everything?
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>>727898761
Because a point has to be made dildo
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Mate, have you tried to search on youtube something like "Ibiza spring break", "Ibiza Drugs", "Fun in ibiza", literally anything containing "ibiza" and something young people relate to?
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Literally all she has to do is drink that one extra drink and flash her eyes at any man. You'll be stirring someone else's cock porridge when she comes back OP.
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>>727895053
yes your gf is planning going to a breeding party
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>>727895826
>Surely women don't just suddenly become easy because they're in Ibiza?
lol
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>>727895053
Wow your girl is a bitch
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>be OP
>My gf is going to Ibiza, should I be worried?

Let's think about that...

>she could've gone to any destination in Europe, taking a really reall cool break with her friends
>She chose Ibiza
>OK what is there to do in Ibiza
>Drink and Fuck.
Unlucky OP
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Should you be afraid?
Yes, chances are something might happen
Should you do something?
Depends on her. If she is very loyal, yeah, have a conversation
If she is of questionable loyalty (likes to drink, party, etc.), even in the slightest?
Keep your mouth shut and hope for the best, otherwise you would only encourage her
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>>727902265
sorry, my mistake.
I meant to say something will happen
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Look here, chances are she will not intentionally mess around with other guys, if she wanted to do that she would have done it in the first 6 months then dumped you if she had no interest in you and not waited 3 years to do it. That said, 1 roofy on the sly or 1 too many Vodka and Cokes then theres a chance that some scruffy Scoucer will try slip his dick in and she will be too out of it to say or do otherwise and if her mates are skanks and she is sat there like a spare end, chances are she'll have some involvement with a guy whilst there if not more.
People dont go to Ibiza for a nice walk along the beach with Besties and sip Sangria on a veranda, they go for dick, drugs and dubstep
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>>727902265
appreciate this response, thanks.
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>>727902391
You're not me
And I didn't correct myself
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>>727902483
Wtf are you talking about??
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>>727902410
So my biggest worry should be rape?
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>>727902541
I have just about no clue what's happening here
But I know for a fucking fact that I wrote that exact post
Haven't got a (you) on it, strange enough
So either something real fucking weird is going on or I'm losing my or you and I have the exact same way of typing
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>>727902609
your biggest worry is knowing that you'll be covering your cock in someone elses cummies after she returns
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>>727902761
Maybe you have a tulpa
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>>727902609
Shit happens everyday, I wouldnt say its your biggest worry thats not to say it shouldnt cross your mind, however, if you know that she is loyal to the core and utterly devoted to you then her being raped is more likely than her going out to deliberately shag another guy just to spite you.

Young attractive female with loads of single friends, guys see her friends are single and easy they will automatically assume that she is too.
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>>727902761
Perhaps I'm you in an alternate dimension and we (you) are only able to communicate with (you) through this one thread....
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>>727902907
Well, I wasn't ready for losing my mind on a night like this
Weird fucking stuff
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this video kills me right in the feels

https://vimeo.com/210862415
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>>727902907
Kalle OwO?
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Hey OP, 99% of the people in this thread are likely 16 year old virgins who base their opinions on what relationships should be like based on anime.

1. If she's loyal, she's loyal. Going to Ibiza doesn't turn people into sluts. I've gone back when I was single with a large group of friends including really hot girls. Some were sluts, others weren't. Some had boyfriends. Some didn't. One girl cheated on her boyfriend because he had cheated on her the week before they left, and she was breaking up with him anyways.

Does that describe you? Nah. If you guys are good, don't assume the worst. Why is she going? She's not going to Ibiza to fuck despite what the neckbeards here are screeching. She can go down to the local club and do that every day. She's going for some sun, some relaxation and to be with her friends.

Now, is there a risk? Yeah, there's always a risk that your girlfriend will get drunk and fuck someone, that she'll fall in love with a co-worker, that she'll get into a taxi with Ryan Gosling and he'll seduce her, whatever. That exists for all relationships. It's really only you that knows if deep down, she would do that.

Keep an eye on her texts, messages, etc. Install a personal keylogger and snoop around if you're paranoid (this will likely only produce results AFTER she gets back). I don't recommend doing this - if you're at this level of paranoia just break up already cause shit's unhealthy yo.

And finally either be confident enough in what you bring to the table or get to a point in your life that you are. That way it doesn't matter if she does or doesn't. You'll be set for life.
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>>727896852
If she has slutty friends she's a slut as well. End it
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>>727902410
Eh, not necessarily. I dated someone from 21 to 24 and they did something similar...then told me about it months later. I chalked it up to her having never really experienced life and moved on. Realized you really shouldn't date anyone until you've both gotten that party shit out of your system. Worked out well for me, partied hard til 30 then settled down, bought a house, got into a relationship, later married.

Point of it is, OP, I hope for the best for you, but there isn't much you can do. Being that young, life is seemingly endless for you and any "consequences" aren't real unless you go to jail. As such, she may do something, but she may not, but stressing yourself hard over will only make it all worse for you.
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>>727903080
based on anime hahaha... thanks
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>>727903088
not sure on that one
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>>727903080

>inb4 sun relaxation and being with friends, it's ibiza111!!!!

Yeah duh, she'll get fucking wasted as shit and probably take drugs. But dick is a commodity everywhere. Nobody books a flight for dick.
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>>727896147
Where are you from?
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>>727903444
trips witnessed

>no girl ever went to Ibiza with the sole intention of getting laid.
What planet are you on.
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>>727903080
Also truths. That stuff can eat you alive. But I still stand by my belief that at that age, nothing is off the table. Just be free man. I wish I knew that then.

However, if it weren't for the shit I put myself through then trying to find that one true love at 21 like some moron, I wouldn't be where I am now and I'm happy where I am now.
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>>727895053
Im going to Ayia Napa in June with a friend of mine. We both have gfs but haven't ruled anything out when we reach that sunshine. Your gf will probably fuck some guy too btw.
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OP, you already know the answer. That's why you started this thread. You were hoping people would tell you she wouldn't cheat, but you know and we all know she will.

You honestly just need to accept it and get over the fact she is just having fun and it's nothing personal. Her friends will be pressuring her to fuck some guys, she will be hit on by guys constantly. When she's drunk it will happen. She will do stuff with that guy she never does with you. Because it's an experience and it's just fun.

Just try not to think about it, maybe hook up with some girls while she is gone, then you're both even.
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>>727903839

I'm saying that girls don't need to do that to get laid. Sure some want to, but it's redundant. The question is about cheating. It's unnecessary to go to Ibiza to cheat. It's not like chicks wake up and go "hey let's cheat today, how much is a flight to Ibiza?".

If they just wanted dick they'd go to a bar. A club. A library. Wherever, they have a vagina - that's all it takes. We're thirsty motherfuckers.

>>727903952

I agree too. 21 is too young nowadays. If it weren't for the whole women needing to give birth before 30 thing, I'd say go crazy till you're 30.
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>>727898335
>Me and my gf always take vacations without each other, especially to Vegas. I'm not some insecure faggot who thinks my gf is gonna fuck the first dude off the plane. She knows I give her the best fuck, I'm apart of her family, I have my own finances, and again, I'm not some insecure faggot.

t.cuck
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Ibiza is a rite of passage for all Brits. It's like our pilgrimage or something. If you don't go at least once before you are 25 you are a turbodouchefag or the female equivalent.

Saying that, she will definitely fuck about while there OP, sorry bro. She MIGHT not duck someone, but that chick is getting fingered and sucking at least one cock.
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>>727904446

Kek duck=fuck, just in case you couldn't crack my enigma code.
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>>727896048
you don't seem to know what that word even means, you double nigger
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>>727895053
i would fuck this feet till my dick starts dripping blood
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>>727904575
brilliant.
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>>727903080
>One girl cheated on her boyfriend because he had cheated on her the week before they left, and she was breaking up with him anyways.
>Lemme rationalise that quick.
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>>727904344
No offense but you're missing the point of actively looking for sex in Ibiza as a woman.

It's in a place that you don't get judged for that kind of behaviour as EVERYONE is doing the same.
You can't wake up as a woman and decide to "get some dick" at the bar back home... it's too risky.

That's why you book holidays to foriegn islands, to do things you can't do at home.
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>>727904276
>Just accept your gf cheating, betraying your trust and generally loosing your self respect.

Kill yourself degenerate.
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She probably wants to fuck around before settling down cause you have been together so long
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2 hours and 60 posters later and this thread is still going... I can't believe the possibility of my girlfriend cheating on me in Ibiza has gathered this much interest... classic /b/
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Not OP

But I just have to say that if females are really going to cheat on their 2 year bfs, because they could not control their hedonistic desires. Well, we are doomed as males.
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OP I'm a chick that's had some expirence in this.
I turned 21 a year ago and I went out on holiday with my girl-friends, although I had a longterm bf at the time and my friends didn't. Except for one.
Anyway My bf was worried as you are and I tried my hardest to make him believe that our relationship was sacred.
I arrived in Ibiza at peak season and on the first night I had sex with two random men, no protection.
The good thing about the island is that getting a gp appointment is quick so I got the morning after pill.
The second night it happened again and teo more nights after that.
I regret nothing because my ex still deosn't know anything happened.
All of my friends did the same but they had no bf's.
It's going to happen, so just allow it and don't speak about it with her when she gets back bc you don't want her to lie to you OP. x
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>>727905256
Fair comment.
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>>727905302
Tragic if true.
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>>727895053

This will be one of life's many tests
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>>727905302
not OP, but I have to ask...why did you do it?
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>>727905302

pretty sure you're an insecure faggot trying hard to convince OP that he's doomed anyways
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>>727905302
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>>727905674
highly likely
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>>727905302
Tits + timestamp or GTFO

You know the rules.

Otherwise, weak bait.
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>>727905802
Seconded.
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>>727905632
I guess it was the combination of the drink and the atmosphere - it's very heady over there. The whole "scene" is geared to kind of force you into that situation... Walking around all day in a bikini watching guys mess around in just shorts puts ideas into your head....
My night you're totally up for partying and all you see is guys and girl having fun and being close to each other.
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>>727905706
+1
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>>727895053
nope not really tbh
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OH SHIT OP!!!!!

>>727905181
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>>727905882
see: >>727905802
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>>727905802
No tits and no timestamp for you, friend. Believe what you want.
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>>727905960
Haaahahaha superb
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>>727905632
Because she's a whore with no impulse control.
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Plan something with your mates, go on the piss or do whatever it is you do, take your mind of the possibility, the high possibility, that your partner is getting drunk with friends and fingered by strangers in a Foam Party club at 3 in the morning.
Hope it doesnt come to that but be prepared, she is going regardless and she will probably forget that she has done something if she does.
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You shold RUN
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>>727906058
hahaha, weakest of baits, Untermensch Neckbeard.

Step up your game /b/
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>>727905882
>I guess it was the combination of the drink and the atmosphere

so you realize what youve done the first night, and do it again 2 more nights in a row? either fat nerd tryna act a girl, or youre a legit whore
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>>727906115
No, I'm just young. I'll never be young again and I sure as hell am going to have fun while I can.
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>>727906182

It is bait, look: >>727906058
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>>727906182
Not a whore. All the girls were doing it. Are you calling everyone a whore that goes to Ibiza?
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>>727895053
>>727905181
Sorry op.
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>>727906182
Beta neckbeard for sure
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Nice bait, 5/7
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>>727906295
If you go to Ibiza to have random sex and not doing it to reproduce, then yes and a very bad one at it too. only earning drinks
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>>727906342
As much as I don't want my girlfriend to fuck anyone in Ibiza and as serious a problem it is... this level of banter is appreciated, hilarious whoever made that thread.
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>>727906295

jesus dude why are you tryharding so much?

weak ass game, get over it man
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>>727906342

F
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>>727906295
calling you a whore since you were in committed long term relationship, but since youre a neckbeard, ill just call you a faggot
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>>727895053
Having gone i can tell you there's a fucktonne of mdma going around at ibiza. bitches rack it all because "Wooo ibiza" then they're perpetually horny.
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>>727906446
kek.
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>>727906446
keked
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>>727906500
slightly concerning, that.
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>>727906446
Call me what you want. If she has any sense she'll go and have fun too, Like I did.
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>>727901539
What's this, someone with common sense on 4chan? I didn't know that was possible
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I have seen every woman I know, wives included be unfaithful in these situations.

Even if they do not mean to they will and they are either going to regret it and say nothing or break down over it.

Have been married for 24 years and I still know better then to let my wife go with her friends on a vacation without me and if she insisted I would hire a PI and have her followed and documented.

If she was just going for fun she would invite you to tag along and at least hold her hair as she pukes.
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>>727895053
Is this loli or just a young girl?
http://www.swingeer.com
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>>727906588
this.
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>>727895053
Any girl under 25 at the least will more than definitely take other dick when given the opportunity. Especially when they're away.
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>>727906644
Sorry?
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>>727906701
faith in women I see..
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>>727906727

bot
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>>727906632
>OP hires PI
>PI spies on his gf
>Gf and PI end up fucking
>Nope. Nothing OP. She was just relaxing by the pool the whole time.
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>>727906632
Every woman you know? Jesus..
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>>727895053
recently broke up with a gf who went to mexico with her married female friend from college.
She wasn't even there for 48 hours before she sexted some guy. I found out a few days later and dumped her. fucking cunt.

Anyway, when you travel you feel very distant from your normal life and it leads you to not care about your responsibilities etc.

It's great to get away but that also means she'll be swept up in the craziness. Not sure what you should do honestly. I'd be cool with her friends and try to get one to be trusted to tell you if she fucks around.

The other thing would be to tell her you are worried and be honest. Just tell her how important she is to you and hopefully in her drunken idiot woman brain she'll remember you saying that when Chad is trying to grab her pussy and she'll say no.
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>>727906857
Hahaha
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>>727906893
I hate Chad.
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>>727906632
>If she was just going for fun she would invite you to tag along and at least hold her hair as she pukes.
this 20 million times
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>>727906864
AWALT
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>>727907079

life must be hard being this insecure
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Quick question in between: What if your gf who does not drink goes to a small club with her language course friends (who are of mixed age, gender and have long term relationships) for one night?

Should I be worried?
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>>727907177
life must be a dream being so naive
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Darren?
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I live in Ibiza
I meet a fuck ton of hot girls in committed relationships
I fuck every single one I can after only a few drinks and sweet talking
2 seconds before I jelly my dick into them I tell them I have herpes.
They don't give a shit
they want my huge herpes riddled dick inside them
chicks will do anything for a big cock thats not their boyfriend/husbands

she will cheat. 100% done deal
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>>727907275
yes, your gf is fucking the black male "friend"
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>>727895053
hahhaa
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>>727907347

well i'm not a cuck, y'all seem to be judging by what you're saying, so yeah, life's good
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>>727907443
There is no black friend. She is Korean, she hates blacks.
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OP you could just do the simplest thing:
Sit her down and ask her ifshe'd be willing to make a sex tape with some guy(s) down there. Pay attention to how she reacts (body language and her tone). See if she hesitates to answer. This is like her chance to cheat, except it's not cheating because she has your consent. If she seems excited about it then she was going to cheat anyway. This is just you bating for an answer. If she's against fucking a guy, then just say it was a joke to save yourself from her thinking you wanted to be a cuck.
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>>727906342
F
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>>727907430
Neckbeard is trying it again, but this time with different bait.
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>>727901024
Insecure faggot detected. The irony is that you don't even realize that your attitude is what attracts girls that can't be trusted.
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>>727907561
>she does not drink

either she drinks cause everyone is drinking and shit might go bad
or she stays sober and she'll get bored
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>>727895053
This is literally the worst fucking board to ask. They have no idea who or how your girlfriend is prsonality wise. The only opinion that is right is yours. You've known her for 3 years. You decide if its something to worry about.
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reality is shes going to drink and shes going to fuck another guy you will probably never find out for sure but just assume it happened move on. the important part is she comes back to you.
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>>727907896
*with crabs
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>>727907727
>she stays sober and she'll get bored
Fine by me, she never drank alcohol in her life. Parents and friends confirm it. Anyway, she always only goes to these things for max 3 hours anyway.
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>>727907896
With Herpes
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>>727907727
>they drink - she drinks
>they fuck -.....
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>>727907896
terrible.
why bother being in a relationship at all then.
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ive been in almost exact same situation. and yeh my gf shagged someone. blamed me cos we had an argument over phone while she was there. you have to let her go, just try not to get jealous over it. acting like u dont care might have more of an affect. sorta like be dissapointed
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>>727908033
>>727908099
dubs don't lie anon
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>>727905302
Wow I totally believe this convenient story
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put a ring on it
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>>727908125

you went with retarded girls, if they get convinced to drink just because their friends are.
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>>727908277
:^)
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>>727908239
>Actively letting go of your self-respect and trust in others

Kys, Mister Shekelstein.
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>>727907430
That's some high quality bait mister.
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>>727906570
You're not a girl though. You have homework due tomorrow btw
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>>727908344
Peer pressure nearly always isn't the factor, ever.....
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>>727907840
this tbh
honestly i'd be fucking losing my shit too if my long term gf was going to a place like that but only u know my dude

my very recently ex girlfriend informed me that she's going to a similar place this summer so i've decided to get over it by fucking a bunch of people before she does
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Op is single
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>>727895053
She's gonna fuck someone else then come back and dump you using the vacation as some kind of excuse like she "found herself" there.
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>>727905706
Kek'd hard
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>>727895053
>>727895053
>>727895053

cuck thread???
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>>727908544
If she doesn't ditch him just before she leaves...
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>>727908239
What a fucking autistic little cuck Jesus Christ how can you sit there and just accept your girlfriend has had foreign black throbbing cock filling up space in your girls pussy that you never could, kill yourself
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why do you bother so much?

if she cheats, you dump her
if she doesn't, good

if you're scared you'll never find out, you'll find out eventually, trust me
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I will be happy to keep an eye out for her. Just need more details.
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>>727907840
Finally someone with common sense
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>>727908504
And how's that working out so far?
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>>727908801
and what would you have done? i clearly broke up with her after tard
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>>727908810
don't say shit and act chill before and after she's doing her trip, whenshe comes back from her vacation juste add some pressure to the table like:

>i'm happy you came back
>i didn't want to bother you by being insecure
>i know i can trust you

act like that for a while and analyse her face, if she cheated she'll break down.
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>>727908983
A 17yo offered to blow me but she couldn't keep up with my drinking and passed out and one real pretty girl rubbed my weenie for a few minutes through my jeans so I'm still working on it but i'll get there before summer
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>>727895441
>>727895441
loyal as far as you know
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>>727908128
Some times you get your dick sucked
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>>727895441
>not everyone that goes over there fucks around.
Says every excitied women counting the days until she gets ream out by Pedro and Steve at the same time.
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>>727895053
She's not your GF anymore. That means you have some time until summer to find some new grills. Keep it on the downlow so you can officially break up on the day she returns. tell her she's already replaced. She wants to go have fun and afterwards return to her beta who is none the wiser (you). Don't give her that satisfaction.
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>>727895053
So here's the thing

if she is going to cheat then what are you going to do about it?

Like seriously the only way you will really know is if she tells you herself.

until then you will be filled with worried and anger based on somthing that may have not happened.

sure have suspicion, but just realize it's yourself making up shit right now.
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>>727909271
Kek. Godspeed brother
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>>727895053
she's prolly gonna fuck, but i wouldn't worry. if she's been with you 3 years let her fuck for a week and don't be a pussy and I'm sure she'll love you that much more
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>>727908504
don't, it doesn't do anything
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>>727910044
You never listen to a woman's words, you look at her actions. if she wants to go party at a place that's pretty much Babylon, she'll do things OP won't want her to do. because you can't go places and not join in the fun. When in Rome, act as the Romans do. Also pressure from her friends to not be a downer and all that bs prolly. Either way stop spreading doubt, the fact OP's gut feeling is telling him Red Flag so bad that he feels compelled enough to make a thread is proof enough for me that this whole situation is toxic.
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God speed anon. It sounds like it was a good run.
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>>727896056
Fuckin right
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>>727907638
then upload it here
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>>727901539
This guy speaks truth like a grown ass man ... be like this man.
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>>727896371
Take some of the milder advice on this thread at least dude, people lie, its in their fucking nature, everybody does it, my ex-girlfriend went from having an unhealthy obsession with me to cheating. You have to realize that we as people aren't stronger than our instincts, these basic cues may seem primal to you, but the obvious signs are the most important, don't be like me, have some sort of a contingency plan.
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Ibiza is the place to go to get rekt and fuck, its a singles paradise.
But it's a double edged sword, you can't tell her you don't trust her, but on the other hand you need to keep her in check...She knows damn well it'll be the perfect excuse to fuck with strangers and you'll be none the wiser.
Tell her your concerns in a calm manner.
If she plays the "i cant believe you don't trust me, after all this time!" card gtfo of there. That's code for, "i want my bread buttered both sides! If I'm going to fuck i want you here when i get back so I'll play the victim". Don't fall for that shit OP.
Better yet, call her out on that bullshit and ask how she'd feel if you and a group of single friends went to Ibiza?
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>>727911263
Enjoy the constant jealousy and double standards. Not my problem anymore tho. I don't give women my commitment anymore so when they do turn their back it's not a crippling depression for me.
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>>727910044
This!!!!!

I feel the same way.
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>>727901539
>If she fucks around handle it then
how will oh pee know if she fucked around?
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>>727910591
I'm not saying to doubt it, but to not invest emotiom because in the what can he do about it?

break up with her or deal with it. It's up to him.
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Yes.

Some rich dude is going to do all those things you have wanted to do to her. Does she have a hot friend you have eyed up for a threesome?

He(they) will get it
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>>727895053
Good Luck OP
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>>727911714

Because her asshole will be the size of a bin lid and she'll be 2 months pregnant with Jose's baby
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>>727911820
So you suggest just waiting until she gives the mercy blow herself? What a shitty deal. Women break up months beforehand in their mind while they're still in a relationship. They "go fishing" until they find someone who gives them the feels they first had with their current bf, then convince themselves they "deserve this again" and the cycle continues. if you find out your EX has a new Bf after a mere two weeks, I can guarantee you she's been talking to this guy for weeks if not months beforehand.

Women will never swing branches until they have a firm grip on the next branch.
>>
Trust your gut and end it op. Your gonna be second guessing and suspecting her long after the holidays finished and that'll manifest itself into some pretty horrible arguments pushing you both away. If she can't understand that then let her have her holiday but mentally prep yourself for a breakup. If she has done anything you'll know it. Your gut will give the same red flags you're getting now. You'll pick up on the changes in emotion and intimacy on a cheating woman with a guilty conscience. The moment you get a red flag, end it.
If she comes back completely fine and happy to see you, sharing pics and telling you about her holiday then your golden and carry on.
A guilty women will want to avoid the topic.
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>>727912179
Listen to this guy. Well said anon, well said.
>>
2 options

Dump her or tell her to bring lots of condoms. She will need them.
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>>727895053
She gun fuck!!
Probably with a very large nigger with a cock three times the size of yours.
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>>727903073
what in the fuck is this faggot shit
>>
If you're asking here that means you already know (instinctually) that she's going to get fucked right...prolly cause she's more like her slutty friends than like the non slutty friend (every group of woo girls has only one non slut)

If she didn't want to get fucked she never would have booked the trip

The good news is that she may see you as a future husband and booked this trip to get her lust for more dick out of her system; when she gets back she'll be super loyal forever

So just be chill, ask her to be careful, to look out for creeps slipping shit in her drink and enjoy the new sexual moves that she brings home...oh and be sure to get yourself tested for STDS a couple weeks after she returns
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>>727895053
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>>727895053
Dude I had a colleague a while back that (who was really hot and dumb as fuck), who booked a two week trip to Hawaii with her ex bf, while she was dating someone else, and then had a fucking breakdown when her bf broke up with her because he found out about it. Women don't look at vacation sex like regular cheating, she will probably fuck around and never think twice about it.
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Just leave. There are over a thousand of her in the world, OP. Go find another and move on.
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>>727913832
Hehe, reminds me of that story.
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>>727907430
When you're autistic lie reeks worse than you do.
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>>727914072
Ya this chick was easily this dumb, except she was less honest about it. Daddy issues out the ass (no surprises there) as her black dad bailed on her white mom when she was a little kid (no surprises there either)
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>>727914528
It honestly baffles me how some women can rationalize this utter bullshit. Fullfils their idiotic sex-fantasy of fucking in a
>mysterious dream-like setting, e.g. token tourist place #666
>by a Chad she doesn't know.
What in the genuine fuck is so appealing of a possible rape/STD-ridden scenario?
>>
>>727907638

worst advice on this thread - can guarantee this anon would have zero idea on how to read body language & mannerisms. even if he did sack up and actually have the confidence in asking that intensely cuck'd up question with serious vigor in his face. I GUARANTEE YOU this anon would fail and get dumped immediately
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>>727915146
Why do they moan and scream when they are being fucked? Because they need to attract more mates
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>>727896523
Kek
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>>727895053
she is cucking you, tell her to go fuck herself
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4 hours and almost 120 posters... people really have an opinion on my girlfriend getting fucked don't they. Unexpected response level.
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>>727895053
>she's 21 and her friends are mostly single - should I be concerned?
Oh no, you shouldn't. She's just aways from you so she can explore herself ... not in solitude, with friends, without you.
Let that sink in.
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>>727916038
Prolly deserves a pic of gf
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>>727916224
there's one with original post, that'll do no? Haha
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>>727916224
This

Ive been sitting in this thread for 4 hours, I need to see what she looks like so I know who's cucking you, op.
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>>727916038
>people really have an opinion on my girlfriend getting fucked don't they.
They're speaking from own experience or what friends have experienced.
You wanted to know if you should be concerned, what do you expect?
>Unexpected response level.
On 4chan ... are you fucking kidding me?
>>
>>727896371
>might be

SHE IS NOT MIGHT DO IT, SHE WILL.
YOU ARE GETTING CUCKED AND YOU NEED TO ACT FAST.
>>
>>727895053
I'f you're really concerned, find a way so she can't go. Break a bone or something. Just anything that will stop her from being able to go. If you are desperate..
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>>727895053
No
Just put a baby inside her.
You won't have to worry about a thing.
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>>727916617
except having some screaming shit rat to look after
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>>727896930
All of this but a dv charge SUCKS!!!!!
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>>727916728
Given it's his child in the first place.
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>>727916728
and I don't mean the woman
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Quality Keks
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>>727896731
>Ibiza
>Bahamas

>Not even remotely in the same location
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>>727917606
HOLY FUCK I CAN'T BREATHE ANYMORE
>>
>Likes to drink and dance
>you mean dress like a whore
>put on more makeup than she ever wears for you
>rub her drunken ass all over and make out with several men per night
>either suck cock/get railed in the bathroom or go to bed with them
She is subtly planning to cheat. Many men have been through the same shit OP. If you can live with knowing that she'll do all of that then fine. But anyone with dignity will break up with her.
>>
>>727895053
Maybe give her a free pass for the week. Also give yourself a nice treat whilst she's away. It's 2017 just fuck already
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>>727918927
yeah, fuck monogami
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>>727916728
Yes, but he'll also wreck her fun.
She won't be able to drink, guys won't want to touch her, and her morning sickness will be so bad she won't want to go anywhere at all.
And whenever she gives him that scowl like dude wrecked the rest of her life, he can just smile like a shit eating motherfucker. Because he did.
Plus, if he ever wants to leave her and the kid, he can. She can't.
You're welcome, OP
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>>727895441
>>727895053
HAHAHAHA, she's getting fucked 100%. 1000000%
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>>727895053
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>>727895053
why are you coming to /b/ for advice dude? no one here has a relationship thats longer than 3 years lol.
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>>727918927
The main problem with this is that OPs stuck at home just living his everyday existence and she's going somewhere where everyone's dtf and no one she knows will be there except a couple friends, not exactly a fair deal
>>
>>727895053
She's going to ride some spanish dick anon
>>
OP do you have a group pic of her friends you can post?
>>
Dump her before it's too late and you'll have to live in shame and guilt
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>>727920887
nice english, faggot
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Your girl is gone OP
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>>727895980

What do you think a girls holiday entails exactly?

There's no ifs no maybe she's fucking guys over there. it's not even cheating it's holiday mode.

I've been the guy fucking them. Been the guy fucked.

Other anon said it, dump her don't explain to her just move on. She's three years in with you and bored.
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