Is there an objectively good reason to get a girlfriend if you

If you don't feel the need to get a girlfriend why do you want a reason for there to be?

>>727161850
You're an (assumed) taxpaying adult; do whatever the fuck you wanna do.

>>727161905
>>727162067
Peer pressure. Everyone says I'll regret it after I leave college and am "all alone".

>>727161850
You can have children instead of ending as evolutionary one-way street,

>>727162251
and why in the world does this matter

>>727161850
no

>>727162251
The only way any human contributes to evolution in modern urbanised history is by making a family far from home.

>>727162138
So fit the status quo just because other people say you should?

>>727162380
Tried and tested vs crooked

>>727162138
You'll regret it?
Have there been offers?
If there have been then if you ever feel like getting a girlfriend it won't be a problem for you.

Just don't think that when you do find a girlfriend, they're immediately the one you're going to marry.

>>727162138
They're kinda right anon. After college, you aren't going to have daily contact with anyone you aren't working with.
So unless you want to hook up at work (which most people don't), then the only other option is online dating and being a creep at bars.

College isn't the last chance for pussy, its the last chance for EASY pussy.

>>727162478
Sure, I've dated several girls of different types and I just don't find female company interesting.
There's nothing the female body can do that my hands can't, and my friends are much more pleasant to play/converse with.

>>727162138
Dating doesn't end in college. Hell, assuming you're a man, your actually going to experience a whole new sexual renaissance as you age. Women tend to have much more sex than men when they're young (because they all have sex with the same handful of guys), but once those years are up that statistically flips and it becomes the exact opposite. You can have your pick. Don't buy into the bullshit.

>>727162296
Nothing really matters. But most men need goals in life to be happy. A family is the most obvious goal.
Also most childless people regret thei life with 50+

>>727162465
How old are you?

I have peers in the prime of their lives tying themselves down because they feel some innate need to be with somebody. They have the rest of their lives to find significant others but insist on rushing things with every mate they get despite only being in their early-mid 20's.

Just take your time, bud. If shit happens, shit happens. If it doesn't, it's not like you wanted it to anyway. No harm no foul.

>>727161850

had no girlfriend, had girlfriend
depends if you want to be in control of your life or want someone else to nag you and control you constantly.

>>727162356
pls explain

>>727162717
21

>>727162618
>There's nothing the female body can do that my hands can't
What about bearing children?

>>727162920
Spending valuable resources on something I only instinctively would want isn't a good investment, in my head.

>>727162920
oh fuck no
i need to dump my gf but keep forgetting that I do NOT want to go down that path

>>727162618
Start sucking dicks?
Sounds like you will really enjoy that kind of company.

>>727161850
well pros are sex? Like sex all the time, but it'll depend on your gf, also you have someone to talk to or be with other than your friends cons be the relationship problems, the obligation to txt and chat, shit like that mostly, but yeah the sex is fun, you can get your girl to do anything you want depending on how you treat her anon

>>727162832
Pump your fuckin' brakes then, guy. 21 is way too early to seriously be concerned about being with somebody. Focus on your education, your career, and the rest of your OWN life before you worry about trying to incorporate somebody else's life into yours.

Put your nose to the grind, fuck on the weekends, and get your own shit handled. Then worry about who's gonna be on the other side of the bed tomorrow.

>>727162618
how bout blowjobs?

>>727162977
>valuable resources
>good investment
I'm sorry but your life doesn't seem to have any value at all..

>>727163067
>fuck on the weekends
As in one night stands?

>>727163129
Nice opinion

>>727163133
As close as you can get to them, yeah.

Fuck for fun now, you've got plenty of time later in life to worry about a long term relationship.

>>727161850
need to blend in with the normies
keep yourself out of asylums and electric chairs

>>727163230
I didn't get the 'hookup' memo in catholic school, how do modern people do it?
Tinder?

>>727162138
You should check the definition of the word regret

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>>727161850
That depends OP. You may not want one, but are you immune to the social pressure? As long as you can honestly answer that question with a 'yes', by all means, don't get one. I was in a similar position with virginity, I didn't really feel the need but I did feel the social pressure. Frankly it was like a weight off my shoulders, and that was the entire reason I did it. I don't regret it. That being said, a relationship is a more long term thing so it's a bit different.

>>727163133
Seems to be the best thing. That or a fuckbuddy that you can only chat on some sort of alternate account. Just set the rules out. You get sex, no strings attached.

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i have two

>>727163230
man, what a slut

>>727163311
It's not just that really. Not OP here but the toll it can take on you. Especially if you're the type of person who enjoys time alone. What exactly are the rules? Is it a good idea to date someone like you in that regard (enjoys alone time and won't be too much of a bother), cause it seems very inherent that communication ramps up once you're in a relationship or heading towards one.

i wish i had a gf

but i work at a foundry 12 hours a day, and have no friends, how the hell am i supposed to find one

>>727163522
internet

>>727163336
that could work

>>727163038
This basically

No.

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Where the fuck do you even go to meet women post school? I'm in my mid 20's and the general consensus among my peers seems to be meeting girls at bars or using tinder. Problem with that is I'm pretty sick of hooking up with randoms. Really missing the companionship of a serious relationship.

>>727163575
i hate how this is seemingly my only option

>>727163575
Is there anything other than gold diggers and softcore prostitutes on dating sites?

>>727163291
Well you're still in school, yeah? Fraternize.

After that, just do your own thing and chill with people who you meet doing those things. Pick a team and go to a sports bar, you'll definitely meet people. Go to work and get to know your coworkers. Get a hobby and make it a point to socialize while you do it; you'll meet people.

>>727164416
What do you mean by 'fraternize'?

>>727163842
>>727164148
My brother and a friend both found their wifes on dating sides.
The wife of my friend is a 9/10 and also is rich as fuck because her parents are lawyers. Their wedding gift was one of their houses.

>>727164622
No offence, pal, but is your friend's wife a dominatrix?

>>727164509
Conversate, socialize, make friends. Just put yourself out there in a non-obtrusive or weird way. Don't take things so serious and just relax. Say/do whatever and ease into a sense of camaraderie among your peers.

>>727164693
How do I stop acting like a 60s middle class white boy?

>>727164778
Ease up, amigo. Relax. Don't take things seriously.
Treat life like an episode of M*A*S*H. Make witty quips and goof around, be fun.

>>727164926
How do I stop believing all women are 'out to get me' in a Machiavellian way?

>>727165095
I went to public school in Florida, you're gonna have to explain what you mean by "in a Machiavellian way".

>>727165095
all your posts make you sound like an autist

with that aside, women are people too. treat them like guys

>>727165159
To break the stereotype that women are cute and emotional and have a goal at the back of their mind to use you.

If you can handle the loneliness then don't get one.
You can get fuck friends or go see escorts for sex.

My brother never settled down despite having kids with one of his fuck friends (accidentally, she kept it)

Personally id find it unfulfilling going thru life without starting a family.

Once you reach a certain age you start getting ugly, old, used up, unattractive and you end up on your own basically

>>727165196
>>727165226

Sage advice.

Treat women like dudes. You already said you don't want a girlfriend, so you get no benefit from treating them different.

Stop seeing "women" and just see "people". Treat them all the same.

>>727161850
Nope,

I really don't give a fuck about having a girlfriend.

Just want some pussy i can fuck that's all i need.

>>727165095
It's naive to think that there aren't women out there like that. But there's real piece of shit guys out there than women have to look out for too. People are people, man.

>>727165196
>>727165369
Well, that's certainly not going to get you laid, but if you're genuinely not that interested in a romantic/sexual relationship, then by all means.

Fact is, women are different from men in some rather fundamental ways, in my experience at least. But it's not necessarily different in a bad way. Women are bitches, men are assholes. Women are angels, men are heroes. There's good and bad. Just different good and bad. That makes it hard to figure it out, but you will eventually.

>>727164675
Don't know if there's a catch or if he's just a lucky bastard. He seems to be happy and soon they will get their first child.

>>727162682
>most childless people regret thei life with 50+

Sure kiddo we're all the same, what so bad about not having children? other than muh feelings. never liked to have kids either way.

>>727162356
kys, never gives a shit about humanity they all will end their meaningless life on this pathetic small planet someday like the rest of different species that have gone.

>>727161850

I've done it. Gone on Tinder, went to bars, asked girls out who go to the same climbing gym.

Honestly, I am vastly too selfish for a relationship. I want to do exactly what I want exactly when I want to. If I am not then I don't enjoy myself as much. Probably a terrible way to live but I have friends who I can hang out with for short periods of time. Then I can leave and not hang out for a week and no one is all teary eyed and saying I don't care.

If you don't want a relationship, don't get one. It's much cheaper. Those who say money can't buy happiness were fucking wrong, honestly.

>>727165696
I'll be long gone by then and none of my kin will suffer, as they won't exist.
Checkmate, sexualists.

>>727161850
yes. They can do cool stuff like get milk and booze for you while they're out. They also make drinks and bring them to you.
It's nice.

>>727165746
>Those who say money can't buy happiness were fucking wrong, honestly.

I don't give a shit about money or having girlfriend.

Money can only make you happy in the meaningless short materialistic way. Means nothing, buy something get bored and so on.

Girls are so stupid not even worth my time and the shit i need from a women is their pussy everything else is pointless.

>>727161850

Not really... pretty much waste of time

>>727161850
yeah you can support your local economy blowing all your cash on frivolous things for her

I can not stress enough the importance of using scented baby wipes after taking a shit. A clean asshole dramatically increases your chances of a rim job.

>>727166025
>I denounce objectively valid currency because some chemicals in my brain say I should

>>727166285
Do westerners actually just wipe and go? Don't you run some water down with the shower head?

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>>727165630
Of course every man is different. But people like you always reminds my of my aunt and my uncle. Both never wanted kids in their young age. They made karrer, buied a fancy appartment in a big city, traveled the world and ate in ritzy restaurants. But the older they get the more they feel lonely and useless.

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No, because there's no such thing as "objectively good".

>>727166346
some just wipe and go

im hairy and learned that water cleans most of my shit off
so yes I use toilet paper with water. folded twice.
it makes no dingle berries and it cleans well
I always use a dry tissue in the end to wipe the excess wetness and to leave it brown free

>>727166756
Hm?
Haha, I wonder what negros with saggy pants smell like.
Asking for a friend, haha.

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>>727161850
OP don't give in to the peer pressure
>be me
>moved in with girlfriend
>she was the love of my life
>we fought too much and had to end it
>after a few weeks my friends peer pressured me to get back out there when I didn't want to
>now I'm with this girl who's family to some of my close friends
>been "together" for 3 months now
>still don't feel any connection
>she says "I love you anon" all the time
>I say "I like you too" in hopes that she'll break up with me and I can keep those close friends
Moral of the story, don't give into peer pressure, do it at your own pace OP

>>727166874
>Asking for a friend, haha
>Anyone ever sniffed a negros saggy pants just for laughs haha?
>I bet it would be pretty gross haha.
>Imagine how hilarious it would be to really sniff into those pants though haha what a laugh

>>727166874
they smell like the worst
either they reek of sweat and nasty body odor
or they wear tons of perfume to hide their stink

>>727161850
God no

>>727166346
What kind of faggot takes a shower every time they shit? You see any showers in public toilets?

>>727162722
This

>>727167100
I meant spray water at your ass while you swipe your hand.
Also, I don't use public bathrooms as they only have toilet paper.

Depends on whether you consider following the norms of society so that you're not ridiculed or turned into a pariah as an objectively good thing or not.

>>727166523
>cute story however their life was pretty boring and i was bored i would still not think about having some kids because i don't see the point. Maybe some humans don't have these feelings like you weak people that overpopulate this earth with more meaningless humans.


When i hit 50.. I will still workout and be good healthy fit and fuck as many women as i can. I don't really give a shit about having some meaningless humans to feel like you snowflakes. We're all the same don't fucking matter if you have or not have kids.

Life is about experience and in this age we have all these entertainment and INTERNET to be entertained to not be totally bored when you home.

I will live my life pretty good and not be dependable on some weak minded bullshit called emotions.

>>727166523
Men are supposed o go to war, discover important shit, get powerful, not gay-ass-shit like raising kids or getting married. It is boring as fuck, women are the ones that enjoy marriage and the status that come with it, for men it is a pointless endeavour. Men want to fuck a chick in every city, travel the world and dominate nature and their inner self. Marriage is the death of a man's soul, it is the day he submits to societal roles and becomes a prisoner.

all they're good for is pussy

>>727161850
Annoying, expensive and fucking time consuming black holes.. unless you stick it in crazy sex doesnt come as often as you like.. more chance to get fucked over by her getting preggers and thou art fuckethed royal.

Just pay for the hooker. Once every 3 months get a tier 10 princess with daddy issues.. my guess is that a qt gf is fucking far from what she can do with your junk.

>>727167204
You;re forgetting about family
who will be there for you when shit goes wrong?

who would wipe your ass if you ever got into an accident?

Would someone help you cover your bills while you recover?

I used to take my family for granted. but the older I get the more precious they become to me. specially my parents.

I want to help out my future kids and see them grow and become something
they will help me when Im in need and one day will bury me

seriously dude don't stay with her much longer

she is going to want a kid, and then she is going to prematurely end your life so you can spend your life slaving away to support your woman and child

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>>727162618
This. So much this.

>>727167171
>I meant spray water at your ass while you swipe your hand.
You're still getting wet and have to towel off and everything. I didn't think it was a full-blown shower, but it's still more time-consuming and not really any more hygienic unless you're using soap and everything too. In which case you're just literally taking a shower.

>Also, I don't use public bathrooms as they only have toilet paper.
So you never, ever have to take a shit when you're too far from your, or somebody else's, place?

Been married twice, had a few girlfriends.
>Is there a good reason?
No. Besides the first few weeks of easy access pussy there is just drama and bullshit.

>>727161850
nope

but cultivate some relationships with women, just in case you feel the need in the future.

>>727167371
If you take it as granted that ur children will help you, then you are simply wrong.
It is their free will and you should not have children for thid reason.

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>>727167371
>who will be there for you when shit goes wrong?

>who would wipe your ass if you ever got into an accident?

>Would someone help you cover your bills while you recover?

at that point i would already killed myself what the fuck is the point of living when you can't even wipe your ass.

>one day will bury me

what's the point? you're already dead

lool

Kiddo if you are scared of being old get kids so you get secured maybe depends on the kids.

>>727167711
>If you take it as granted
who said that?
I know they'll appreciate me
I'll pass on all my knowledge to them

>>727167371
People I'd pay

>>727167801
>I know they'll appreciate me
kek
the very definition of taking them for granted

>>727167801
Nobody listens to their parents ever since the mid 20th century.
Good luck raising cookie cutter white kids in this day and age.

>>727167371
>who will be there for you when shit goes wrong?

Don't need anybody have enough money to support myself.