Any dads out there wanna tell me what having a young daughter

>>726147716
I'm not a father, but I have a younger sister.

My dad never slept with/bathed with my sister.

>>726147846
And she was his 'angel' while I was just the piece of shit that had to be fed every now and then. So she got a lot of love.

>>726147846
When I say bathing her, I mean sat outside of the bath, not literally bathing with her, I'm not that weird as much as I'd want to, I don't think she'd appreciate it

>>726147716
after around 5 or 6 she starts to feel weird OP

>>726148125
He never did that either. Maybe when she was an infant or some shit, but definitely not past 5 or 6.

as long as you dont do weird pedo shit i think sleeping in the same bed and bathing her outside the bath till 5-7 is fine. Maybe my perception is weird cause my stepdad molested me from 10-12 but eh, just spend time and make food with her, be excited about her interests, don't let creepy old men near her

>>726148261
You know from experience? I mean like you can't half arse it.. I feel like if you constantly love her rather than just every now and again, it would be kind of second nature to be oddly close. Or am I just projecting my wishes into genuine beliefs that it's possible?

>>726148600
Yeah, that's what I mean.. While I genuinely feel like I'd be attracted to her, I would never want to ever ever do that since I know it wouldn't be good for her, even in the extremely unlikely scenario where she responds positively at first

>>726148623
no, thats pretty true. If you're kind and loving she'll be fine with it. I still sleep with my mom sometimes and I'm a 16 year old girl. It's abut love and natural closeness

>>726148791
don't act on it, don't talk to her about it. attraction can happen, but don't let her know about it please, even IF she consented, it'd mess her up really badly in the long run, and yuseem like you wanna be a good dad, so just, be affectionate, but don't border into relationship territory (faking being her prince in make believe is fine though)

>>726148882
Firstly, pics or it's a lie.
Second, enjoy being b8
>>726149077
Exactly, I wouldn't do that, not would I ever express the desire to anyone let alone her

>>726147716
Never slept with her, but always bathed her, until she was 7 or so, haven't recently. She's very relaxed about her body and nudity though. I guess it might change when she finds out about sex, I was 8, it is still the same these days?

>>726147716
OP, are you asking because you have one on the way, or just arrived?

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>>726149362
I imagine it's about that age, yeah.. Also, I don't just want that to see her body, I more want it because I want her to be super close to me, really lovey father-daughter relationship
>>726149588
Girlfriend and I are mostly just talking about it, nothing is on the way yet (obviously a chance it would be a boy)

>>726149362
Found my first porn mags at 4 or 5 and made heavy use of them from then on.

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>>726149298
there you go fool, pic is from a few years ago before i cut my hair short and became the true Queer, my mom's 52 and im not spreading her picture around

>>726149824
No no no, you don't get it faggot. Current picture with timestamp.

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>>726150116
Anon is right, need a current timestamp

>>726149789
>I more want it because I want her to be super close to me,
Yes, physical closeness is the best thing. Particularly now she's a bit older, she still loves big warm hugs and cuddling on the sofa watching a movie. There's nothing sexual in it at all. Don't worry OP if you do have a girl, obviously there are some people who are pedos, but wanting a good close relationship on all levels is the goal, and doesn't mean you'll turn into a pedo.

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>>726150206
backwards text and date written cause i use online cameras w/o timestamp shit

>>726150776
Now we need a passport photo to confirm age.

>>726151005
i dont have a passport or birth certificate, lazy mom ftw, i have student id

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>>726150769
If I'm being perfectly honest, I am. But like I've said, I wouldn't act upon any urges. And it's nice to know that I could have a positive reaction to the whole overly close thing..

>>726150776
I require a higher quality time stamp than that, unable to be confirmed with absolute certainty.

>>726151005
show us yer bewbz

>>726151594
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>>726151331
Y'all,,,, taken with phone because yeah, pic was pretty bad quality

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>>726151625
She's claiming she's 16. I know it literally did out myself about 5 minutes ago about being a pedo, but like you can't just straight up ask for that shit man, have some class

>>726151312
I wondered if that might be where you were coming from. No judgement, but a couple of things. Your kid can be the most precious thing you have ever known and you would give up your life before you hurt them. And sometimes you have to work to remember that. When you're tired, stressed, skint, the gf has turned into a monster, and the kid is having a tantrun or whatever. But that passes, you just have to keep making the right choice.

tbc.

>>726151727
you're right. ill change from now on... show us your ass instead

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>>726152201
That's more like it

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>>726152201
unless you want a thread downed for CP, nah, anyways here's age proof (grade 10= 15 turning 16 or fresh 16)

>>726147716
Don't spoil the little shit.
Make sure to not let her pickup the terrible habit of crying her way out of every situation.
Try to recognize when she starts manipulating you, when she is suddenly acting nice to you, chances are she's after something.

>>726152407
yeah i dont care about that but maybe you wanna add me and we can be online boyfriend and girlfriend?

3 year old here.

She's the greatest. I'm not a sick fuck though, but just will answer questions.

>>726152336
holy shit is that gandalf?

>>726152407
It's the beginning and end bar code stripe that makes a barcode readable.

>>726152489
That feels like the most honest answer I've ever received. And yeah, I'm manipulative as fuck, I know all there is to know about it, think I'll be good for that. The real trouble comes from the fact that I'll want to coddle the shit out of her, and give her everything she wants anyway.. Actively NOT spoiling her to help her personality in later life is the hardest part I feel

>>726152766
Congratulations. You did it. You triggered me. Even though I know you're trying to.

>>726152882
read it n weep, it lets me take books from my highschool library and MIGHT have my student info, who knows, anyways my legal name isn't connected to my school shit, name change ftw

>>726152912
It will be hard, good luck man.

>>726152763
How close to her are you? Is she more of a mommy's girl, or is she closer to you? What does it literally make you feel when you look at her and realize you have a daughter?

>>726152717
i don't like online dating, but you can kik me @iquip , not too many people though, and no nudes cause I can get arrested for that

>>726152089

And there's something else I've never heard anyone talk about, probably because it's uncomfortably close to the pedo thing. When my kid was born, in the weeks after it felt like the best sexual satisfaction ever; like I had 'done it', what nature wanted, and it felt good. All well and good. But I was also horny, felt very alpha and got a lot of attention from women, so there was that going on as well. Now the main point of this is that there was also something else happening. When I was near my baby daughter I felt energised, full of life. I felt powered up, but it also powered me up sexually. It wasn't about getting turned on by being around her. It was that the extra energy I felt was going into boosting my sexual energy as well. So I'd be having a wonderful, warm, close time with the little girl and finding I was getting semi hard. Not feeling sexually aroused, just like everything was alive and vibrant. It happened for a while but faded. It never became a sexual thing. But I mention it because if it happens to you it will be confusing; there are these other things going on, as well as what your usual inclinations are. Hope that makes sense.

>>726152912
My sister got spoiled, not just because she was the youngest, but because my father favored the girls over her sons.

I have an older half sister and older half brother, both of us boys were 3rd place to the girls, my youngest sister being the youngest was the most favorite, second older sister.

Anything they wanted they got.
My older sister wanted a rabbit and she got it, then quickly abandoned it leaving my mother to care for it, then one day our lab got into the barn and killed it. Then my sister cried and cried about how the dog killed her favorite rabbit.
Our dad's response was to take the dog out back and shoot it.
I don't think my sister ever really liked that dog and she found a way she could possibly get rid of him.

>>726153172
Just letting you know, it's one of the retarded things I learned in retail.

>>726153284
She's a daddy's girl through and through. We play games, talk, play with toys. Everything.

It's crazy, I never thought I'd have any kids. Was content with just doing drugs and fucking around but now I can't imagine anything else. She makes me smile every time.

>>726153426
Took it out back and shot it? What the fuck man, people usually have a limit to things they will do when a little girl cries a bit.

>>726153345
That's honestly one of the weirdest thing's I've ever read. But thank you for that, I actually will probably remember that comment for the rest of my life...

>>726153503
along with the weirdest stories, i hear ya. Someone came up to me and put a quarter in my pocket for having Good Skills, I only gave him a waterbottle, weird stuff

but anyways, just be a nice guy and act how you'd act to a little kid you're not related to (unless you're a dick to other kids, in wshich case, treat it like a very tiny friend)

>>726153655
That's something I have trouble with actually. You sound like you were almost in my exact situation, drugs fun times, free, but kinda wanting more. I struggle to envision myself as a father, since I genuinely feel I'm a terrible person and don't want to hurt my child, but at the same time, particularly thinking about having a daughter, makes me feel so elated it's hard to say I don't want kids..

>>726147716
I am a 25 year old father of a 3 month old. You get really used to cleaning a tiny vagina. When the outside corner of her eyes crinkle from the biggest toothless smile youve ever seen, just because you smiled and said hello to her, your heart melts into a huge swirl of incomprehensible emotions you've never recognized before.

The hardest part so far is thinking abut her future as a vulnerable young woman. Not a day goes by that my blood doesnt boil at the though of some guy kidnapping her off the street, some disrespectful fuck hits her, or some low-life piece of shit takes advantage of her at some party/gathering.

>>726154152
Another issue I feel I'd have. I don't have any kids yet, and already, to even consider my precious girl belonging to anyone else besides me, let alone hurt or disrespected, physically pains me

>>726154152
What if she does something to deserve being hit...? Nobody ever considers their daughter turning out as a complete fucking bitch that might actually deserve what they get.

>>726155067
You have to decide if you're going to be a parent who smacks or not. Talk to the mother, read up on it. In some countries it's actually illegal, here in the UK there are rules like not hard enough to leave a mark. Some parents think an occasional smack is OK, some will see it as failure and you should only ever try to communicate with the child.

>>726154144
I fucked up a little bit but it feels really shitty to be fucked up around her. Really bad feels. Also I got a good job but it drugtests. If I lose my job because I was trying to get high we would lose everything. It was really hard to stop, but it's worth it.