>Be Me >Have Gf >GF has lowest sex drive ever. Literally

Typical guilt trap set up for you.
You'll break up over sex which for some people will be really shallow. Yet she most likely knows what power she holds in the relationship. It's time to move on. Else your mind will be filled with what ifs and if only's about her and other girls doing crazy stuff with your junk.

>>725526431
Yeah I don't think shes doing it on purpose, she just has zero sex drive. And you're 100 percent right, I have this feeling of how awful a person I have to be to break up over sex already.

I was in this same situation. Move on, she isn't worth it and doesn't give a fuck about your needs. Especially if you already communicated it to her and she doesn't care.

ask her why she doesn't want to have sex. if she's worth it, stay, otherwise just gtfo rlly.

definitely break up. If she's not fucking you she's probably fucking someone else. Or she's just frigid. Either way get rid

Go and break up.
don't be stupid like me and wait too long!

>>725526748
I've had that conversation, and its partially to do with being busy/stressed, so its not like its a choice to be a bitch intentionally. I try to tell myself that its not because she doesn't care, but still....

>>725526127
you're being cucked, she has no sex drive for you; rest assured, she's fucking tyrone

>>725526974
Nah, shes not. I would almost prefer that. But she is just not a sexual being. She doesnt have that drive. I've tried to encourage going outside the relationship to encourage a spark, but she refuses.

>>725526127
I had the same problem and broke it off....good person but the sex was non existent and I said fuck it and now loving life

>>725526633
Don't, sex is part of a healthy relationship and if your sex drives aren't compatible it's a legit problem. It doesn't make you a shallow person if you want to have sex with your partner and I think it's reasonable if you want to move on.

>>725526633
You're not awful for breaking up over sex. It's not unhealthy for sex to play an important role to someone in a relationship. If you don't get the level of intimacy you want you discuss it with her and go from there. Get to know what turns her on. Get a fwb. Get a new girl. Get the fuck out of here.

These dipshits can't help you.

>>725527135
oh, another cuck, great. what the fuck happened to humanity

>>725526127
feel you anon, my bitch says she asexual but she fun otherwise so im going with it, no sex in 5 months. is it worth it? it sucks

Ask if ok for you to fuck around. A man has needs and all that. If not ok break up.

>>725527135
Have you had a lot of sex or nly seldomly since the beginning? Have you considered dropping the pill (if she takes it?) Sometimes the pill kills the sex drive of the women. Just drop the pill and start using condoms.

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>>725526127
did this shit for over a year, good person but incompatible in bed, being friends in this situation is wayyyy better.

>>725526127

She should take hormones to increase her sex drive OR she should allow you to have sexual encounters with others if she cannot sexually satisfy you in the relationship. If she refuses both, she can't give you your needs and thus you should start looking for someone who can.

Dump her without a second thought, if you don't you will be a frustrated angry old man. There is an insane amount of pussy out there NO NEED to waste your one and only life. Tell her to GTFO, move on.

>>725530311
what made you finally decide to break up senpai ?

>>725528075
This.

>>725530663
nothing in particular, we both love/loved each other, but it was more like living with a really good platonic friend, so we decided to see other people and remain friends. we still have tons of fun together and hang out occasionally, the one relationship that hasnt gone to shit in my life desu

>>725526127
sounds like she is cheating on you bro...a girl that feels no need for sex? really?!?! i find that shit hard to believe..my guess is she is riding dick behind your back and only wants you around for money or status...find out about it and dump her ass in the best way possible!

Finger fuck her minga in her sleep

>>725526127
Depend man talk to her about it never know what you'll get. Been married 12 years. Bout 4 years into marriage wife tells me her sex drive is pretty much zero. She still loves me and is attracted to me but just doesn't really have a drive and probably won't initiate to often. But then says she understands that I'm a man and have needs and said a phrase that still gets me hard when I remember it. She said " you can borrow my hole pretty much whenever you want". I figured this would fizzle out after a few months but 8 years later and she's kept true to her word. I don't even ask her permission most nights. I intentionally wait till 1 or 2 am or later and pull her bottoms off, lube my dick and jam my cock in her. She lets me without a fight or usually even a word. I basically get to pump her as hard and fast as I want wether she's fully awake or not and be ridiculously selfish in bed. I sometimes also get real drunk before hand so it takes me for ever to nut and I know she has to get up early for work.i can fuck her multiple times a night and nut in her she only asks I try to remember to put her panties back on and stuff her puss with tp to soak up my cum. There have been more than a few nights I was drunk/high and pretty much raped her. The intent in my mind was to rape her and she just lets me and goes back to bed or whatever she was doing before. Wife is 100% Chinese from a strict family. Im white so they love me. Can honestly say I'm very happy and she still likes to have date nights and isn't distant or cold. I'm in heaven

>>725530911
i get it ;_; also was there close to no sex since the very begging or did it just diminish into nonexistence with time ?

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>>725526127
rape that whore

>>725528075

Most of the foods ate by humans in America are packed with estrogen. Through out X years (their life) a lot of people feel the want to be cuck/sissy/etc. and enjoy it.

>>725527274
This.

Just incompatible. Not your fault but neither hers

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>>725526127
> have gf in another city
> sex a few times a week
> about 9mo in she moves in with me
> all seems well
> then she meets some of my friends
> meets some of my ex's
> gf is 6/10 for looks
> idgaf because her personality fits me 9/10
> she starts getting self concious
> I cannot reassure her enough
> sex tapers off because of this
> try to initiate nada
> be romantic, do chores, etc. Nothin.
> she's trying to do weight loss and fitness stuff
> trying to compete with naturally attractive girls
> trying to compete with shallow women
> I talk to her about it and she says she understands, but actions speak louder
> I'm falling out of love with her
> her attitude is turning sour
> she's jealous of my friends and ex's
> the lack of sex isn't even the worse part
> watching her lose what I fell in love with is

>>725526127
be me..3+ months

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>low sex drive

Why do girls do this? If I had a girl orgasm, I'd want to fuck literally all the time. wtf.

break up with her

Poor boy

>>725531394
Eh, it was fairly regular for a new couple at our ages, over time there were a lot of life changes that happened for both of us (just out of highschool, changed cities, uni and such) and the stress from that caused both of our drives to diminish, after things normalized her drive didn't really come back and i didnt care because i loved her. Of course it caused some hurt feelings at the time, I got nettled for a while but learned to live with it until we decided it wasnt working. Tbh if we were compatible in bed i would have married her, 10/10 great relationship otherwise.

But don't worry anon, if you guys can stay friends it'll still be a fulfilling friendship. With everyone saying shes cheating, she might be, but if you know her (like i knew my ex) and you know she would never do that, i'd say the possibility of being friends would probably appeal to her and you'll get to move on to some qt 3.14 nympho. good times

>>725533986
thanks anon desu senpai, i want to believe ;_;

I'd say breakup op.

It's not about the "sex" per se'. But if you two have talked about it and you've made it clear that you'd like to be having more sex or more sex is important to you in a relationship and nothing has changed, leave. Today it's lack of sex but imagine if it was something ACTUALLY important or that you would depend on her for. Relationships work when each person is willing to work for, compromise with, and support each other and the relationship.

I've been with my high school sweetheart for over 9 years now. We've worked so well because we work at it! I know without a doubt if I asked for something to change, she'd AT LEAST give it her best effort.

Good luck op. I hope it works out for the best regardless of what that means specifically.

>>725531291

I envy you

>>725532463
Well you're the fucking idiot for still being friends with your exes. Dipshit.

>>725526127
Fucking leave her now! I talk from experience! save yourself from this bitch!

>>725537904
+1

>>725530453
bumping, good idea

>>725532463
I would try some grand public gesture, but you need to remember that her insecurities are not just going to vanish over night

>>725526633
no anon, sex is part o a relation if she doesnt want to have a active relation that break up

Three important parts to any relationship. Honestly, good communication, and good sex. If one is lacking or missing, the relationship will struggle and eventually fail.

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>>725532463
>Emily Bloom smokes
>instant turn off

thanks for ruining her for me

>>725539637
oh fuck off you moral cunt

>>725539637
lol at crit role face

>>725527135
>prefer

kill yourself

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>>725539968
>disgusting tar lungs and cancer mouth
>moral

He OP, you know what?
I don't like fish. I mean, I'm not allergic to it, but it just doesn't do anything for me. Smells a little fishy, would much rather have something else for dinner.

But you know what? My wife likes fish. So, because she's important to me, I eat fish every once in a while. Not only that, but I've learned how to cook it pretty well. And even though its not my favorite, I've found ways I can enjoy it. Sushi's pretty good.

And when I'm eating sushi with my wife, I don't do it grudgingly. I make sure she knows that I really enjoy a little fish, and that I'm happy to go out to dinner and share that with her.

So, if your gf won't eat a little fish even though she knows how much it means to her, its time to move on.

>>725539637
you're turned off by smoking but you're totally fine with her touching a niggers dick?
Your priorities are fucked up /b/ro.

>>725526127
Pretty much same here.
GF is awesome, she has double D Boobs and everything. Having sex always hurt her so we pretty much...just stopped. Many Months now.
It sucks especially now because I'mnot even sure if I want to fuck her anymore. It kinda lost the appeal. I'm still horny all the time...sucks.

>>725530911
OP is perma friendzone free rent.

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>>725540445
>fell for the everyone who smokes gets cancer meme

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>>725540706
why are you so obsessed about race? At least she's not fucking a dog or something.
>>725541175
>enjoys coughing up lungs

>>725541310
you're a jew

>>725526127

yeah, move on. she's actually not into sex, or she's fuckin' a nigger. either way, she's worthless.

>>725526633
Without sex you're just friends.

>>725540706
This!

>>725526633
Honestly I believe that sex is an extremely important part of a healthy relationship because it bonds you. The fact that you haven't even had sex in a month can put stress on the relationship, as you clearly mentioned. If you want to break up but feel bad just think about how the relationship isn't going to get any stronger because that bonding isn't there.

That's the same reason I hate it when girls say they have a "1 month" or more rule. It ruins the bond for me and I'm really into "in the moment" stuff. I've broken up with quite a few girls who refused to put out just because of my own personal beliefs

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>>725526939
Don't buy into her words alone. You need to try and check up on her every now and then while she's at school/work/etc., and see if she's seeing someone else. Ask her if you can use her cell phone one day, and immediately check her eyes to see if they widen. If her mouth opens after she hears your request, then she's surprised. If she gets angry while saying no, then ask her why she's so adamantly denying you. If she hesitates in answering you, then it's highly likely she's seeing someone else.

If she miraculously says yes, then take her phone without telegraphing your intentions, and nonchalantly go to the bathroom [or somewhere away from her sight and hearing] and check her call history, both incoming and outgoing. If you find any guy's names on there, and if there're enough frequency in her call history [esp. on her part... aka her calling him], then it's time for you to move on.

>>725530130

This. I had a gf who went from a fucking every day freak to a never fucking bitch from taking the pill.

I never tell my girls to take that shit any more.

>>725526127
>>gf
>>no sex in a month

Hahaha! Get on my level, pleb! I'm married, we have a child, and the wife and myself sex MAYBE three times a year, and that's the way it's been for four years now.

I'm "stuck" with a kid. What the fuck is your excuse for not leaving already?

>>725526743
This

>>725544015

I'm engaged.

No sex in 2 years...

>>725526127
Yup

>>725541310
>At least she's not fucking a dog or something.

nigger is worse than fucking a dog

>>725526127
Enter an open relationship. Instead of being held hostage, ask her if you can get an escort, or a rub and tug. Then evolve things into having another woman around for sex. This will excite her, and soon all three of you will be fucking each other

>>725544202
>I'm engaged.
>No sex in 2 years...

ffs. dump her. and don't get engaged again.

this from someone who's been married 18 years. we haven't had sex in 10 years.

I have had sex, but not with her. But don't do this, just stay single.

>>725544202
Solidarity, brother.

Fyi getting married won't change anything. If you desire sex, bail now while you still can. The mess it may create will be a hiccup compared to a life time of forced abstinence. That or you can always hook up with other chicks if you're even slightly crafty.

>>725526633
Same boat. Built a life with this bitch though. Havent gotten a bit in six months or so

>>725545203
Bj not bit. Usually have sex at most twice a month.

>>725544802
This sounds like solid advice.

>>725544715
Hes already obviously emotionally hurt by this. But fuck it. Let's add jealousy to the mix. Should do the trick.

>>725526127
Break up with the her. Shes probably getting it someplace else. Lets be honest, not much a gf is useful for besides the "free" sex and if isnt giving you any, then throw her away.

>>725526127
OP have you considered that maybe you aren't as good at sex as you think you are (read: you leave her unsatisfied) and that's why she doesn't want to have sex?

>>725544802
As a 29 year old male I have been constantly told throughout my life by older men (when the drinks come out and wives aren't around) to never get married/have kids.

Part of me wants to eventually have kids and try raising a family, but part of me knows I'll likely be miserable. I feel like I will be filled with regret either way.

I'm currently in similar situation however its to a girl who wont have sex(until marriage) for religious reasons rather then her not wanting to.

Shes constantly complaining about how horny she is and wishes we could just fuck already but at the same time wont break her values.
Most we do is dry hump which is enough to satisfy me and i have come to love her over the years iv known her so i'm willing to wait.

But Op it seems like you NEED sex you want it more then you honestly want her which is no good for any relationship, so you either need to leave her or well get her to enjoy sex otherwise you'll be depressed for a very long time.

It's probably you OP. You might just be too fucking nasty.

>>725526939
>stressed
Sex is a great stress-reliever. Just take her some day when she has a little bit of time, you need to take charge and unless she really protests, make her into it and then jam it in her more or less.

Need to give her Shauns dick again

>>725526127
is she a great cook?

>>725544015

I'm in the same boat.

I can still guilt out the pity sex when I want it. But, well, you know how good that feels.

We're both fools.

DO NOT MARRY. LOOK AT US FOOLS AND DO NOT FUCKING MARRY.

>>725526127
I'm married to it anon. Do yourself a favor and run. Nothing sucks worse than having live-in pussy that you can't have. You will fight constantly.

>>725526127
If you're unhappy with the sex it will only get worse. If there is no reason overwhelming the sex thing, either move on or tell her straight up that you are going to fuck other people and if she wants to stay with you she's gonna have to deal with it.

>>725548606
you play'n your cards wrong... give me 5 minutes w/ your wife and all post the greatest .webem's on this site!

YOU ALL VIRGIN FAG SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT CUCK

Here is my story. I have been with a girl for 7 years, we lived together. The 3 first year were good sex and after 4 years it started to slow down to exactly the same as you

She told me she loved me but she didn't want to make as much sex as before because she was tired and depressed

I finally dumped her to a younger girl and sex is great again

Not all girl are cheating, some are just getting older and less "sex" friendly, sad but true

>>725532601
>Why do girls do this? If I had a girl orgasm, I'd want to fuck literally all the time. wtf.

AMEN!!! With my FWB her body is convulsing and she looses control.

I'm jealous of girl orgasms.

>>725549339
a couple is like a jet plane. the fuel is the sex. eventually fuel run's out. what happens to plane?

>>725526743
Anon speaks the truth.