Feels thread? Here's my story >Be me >Living with

Hey man, It's gonna be okay.

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I dumped all of my ex girlfriends stuff off on her car yesterday

>>725254253
>really deadass

Sounds like you dodged a bullet there lol

It gets much worse dude. Buckle up.

>>725253986
Yo dude just chill out. It'll all be good

>>725254343
You're not even gonna comment on the wrong usage of you're? "you are ex is a" shes a degenerate cunt.

dw about it op, its normal to feel stressed during situations like this.
just watch an asmr vid or something, and try to get your mind off of it until the morning.

got a girl's number on friday night, I'm not really sure what I should invite her to. I'm 24 almost 25, but when I think about it I've never actually gone on a date, relationships always just happened on their own. I would ask her to just come for a walk or something, but it's a bit cold out. ideas?

>Be me, 28 year old forever alone
>Flashback to when I was a freshman.
>Teacher makes us do class assignment. We have to write poems.
>Teacher reads outloud top 3 but keeps names anonymous.
>Reads mine. All the grills baww and lose their shit.
>Teacher asks if she can reveal author. I mod.
>Their faces turn to disgust when they find out it's me.

>Flashforward to about a year ago.
>I'm reading Craigslist personals.
>Grill says she wants a guy who can sing. Says to send audio clip
>I send one
>I get reply. She loses her shit. Says it's amazing and she MUST see the face of the man who sent it.
>I send pic. She never replies

I never learn...

>>725255073
>I never learn

good
don't
one day you'll find women that aren't so shallow, and will appreciate you for who you are

I just got a bj from my girlfriend a few minutes ago. Feeling pretty good right now.

>>725254395
Lol honestly didn't even pay enough attention after seeing the emoticon spam

>>725255073
post pic for lols

>>725253986
dude. give it your best and you're gonna be alright.

to quote bob marley real quick: "in every life you got some trouble, but when you worry you make it double. don't worry, be happy!"

seriously though, it's not a big deal you fucking pussy

>>725255463
I hope that's true anon. I'm not the type who ever gives up but lately I've lost hope. I've always thought if I made a good life for myself someone worthwhile would want to come along for the ride. I recently finished job training. I'll make 60k this year. But I still can't shake the feeling that it's just not in the cards for me.

Eh its not a horrible day at least im not black

>>725253986
chin up mate, i hope you have a good day tomorrow. You are stronger then you know.

>>725253986
Men don't get paid more for the same job. Stop posting this meme bullshit.

>>725254676
Keep it relaxed, free flowing. Something where you can talk, but also provides easy reasons to focus on the situation if there's a quiet pause. Like bowling, etc. Make an after plan, like dinner/drinks/coffee but don't tell her uofront. That way if she sucks you can bail, and if she's rad you can seem spontaneous when you want to go out.
You'll do great.
Faggot.

>>725255073
post the best pic you have anon
we have got to know who this smegal of a man is....

no way youre THAT hideous

i dont believe it

>>725253986
>chatting with my ex

lol

>>725257315
yes, do dis. You can't be that bad anon. Those girls were probably just shallow.

>>725253986
ima be honest here you sound like a pussy; like one of the guys who kills himself because he can't handle his sissy feels.

>>725257611

>>725257494
>implying not everyone is shallow

>>725257611
13 year old detected.

>>725253986
source of the pic?

I'm 30 and up until 2 years ago I lived with my best friend / girlfriend for 5 years, saw her every day and the only problems we had were my increasing mental ones. I had this breakdown 2 years ago and almost killed myself, I was forcing myself to work to pay my end of things even though it was destroying me mentally, my insomnia was horrible, so I left I thought if I went to my dad's I could live rent free, go to doctors and finally try meds to fix myself finally and be better for her. the problem with her is she has weird ptsd memory stuff so after 2 years of me being isolated and alone away from her she's all but forgotten everything she felt for me, she basically doesn't want me to come back because I'm like a stranger almost in terms of her feelings and it's because I wanted to fix things to make her more happy so I wouldn't kill myself. I think I'm just going to wait another year and kill myself because I honestly don't think she'll even care much at that point if she even would now, and she's the best most loyal person I've ever met. So I honestly don't know what's keeping me from starving to death it feels like the most sick betrayal that I can't even blame her for because who can miss sickness and bad feelings, who's going to ultimately mind when it finally stops and your life gets better for it.

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>>725253986
Faggot

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>>725257898
heres the worlds smallest violin cupcake

>>725255073
why not just use a motorcycle helmet like daft punk?

>>725257898
I'm in a similar situation, but I have kids with mine. We were together for 3 years before she broke things off with me. I went through a mental breakdown and tried to take lead aspirin for it. But y'know, that's not the way to do thing broheim. I've spent the last 5 months changing for her, and honestly it's paying off. She used to be head over heels in love, but she killed that way before we actually split. Now she's trying hard to find it again, just because of the progress I made.
Truly the only thing you need to do is just work on it, lil nigga. It'll work out if it does, and if it doesn't, just man up. Errythang be okay.

>>725253986
don;t want to be harsh but stop being a pussy she's your ex she's probably taking some other guys dick

get over it and find some one else

>>725258427
She's probably licking his asshole as well.

going to your ex gf for comfort???

fucking weak shit man

>>725257898
>>725258321
you two faggots let a woman push you to the brink of suicide and are so cucked that youre actually blaming yourselves and are changing everything about yourself for some walking cum rags?

fucking wow this is what men have been reduced to

>>725253986
Grow up fag

>>725258321
I mean I'm already trying and manning up but Jesus what's the point it just illustrates how all we ever are to each other is a service of happy activities and feelings, the second you stop producing your product that makes them love you you're fucking done maybe they'll wait around and give you time to start producing again but that's still all it ever is, our society of thinking love is a real thing is totally bullshit nonsense, people use each other until it's not worth it and then move on 10/10, when parents lose a child they break up because it wrecks all the good feelings and proves the love they had was only to produce happiness. It's disgusting I can't abide the reality of it and it's not really even worth it to kill myself I'm just wasting away

>>725253986
My mum tought me to not cry but do something about problems when i was about 7 or something looks like she is a white cis male

>>725258321
>she breaks up with you because she thinks you're a loser and wouldnt accept you as you were
>work hard on yourself
>she is "thinking" about wants to be with you now that you're successful

no way is someone this much of a mangina

>>725258552
no man, I don't value anything and always thought sex and relationships were bullshit, the point is I finally thought I had something different that couldn't be destroyed that easily and I was wrong. Impermanence is all we are suicide makes no sense really even but what do you call it when you absolutely abstain from living your entire life and valuing anything? might as well be suicide I can't trick myself into enjoying things

>>725255463
no he wont they're actually all like this, unless they want $$.

>>725258652

if you're just wasting away atleast make it fun.

go travel to a third world country or something. you'll realize how fucking awesome you have it.

>>725258914
how is comparing myself to less fortunate people who are happier and value their lives more than I do going to make me feel better? Good for them they should kill me and take my stuff

>>725258845
lol what?

Learn to be happy with yourself you fucking moron. You aren't ready to be in a relationship by the looks of it based on your other posts.

Why do you need to be with somebody? Can't stand being alone by yourself?

Get a part time job and go back to college for a degree. Apply for aide and take the 10k a year you get and save some for a trip or cross country vacation.

Fuck me m8, you're destined to be a little bitch if this is how u think.

>>725255073
Are you me?

>>725259033

it should. but i guess it wont work on you.

atleast have fun travelling while you're wasting away. you never know. you might meet someone on your travels.

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>>725257257
That's fucking gay

>>725257306
kek

ITT: weak faggots who probably didn't have a dad and have no place in this world

>>725257752
This.
I'm ugly as fuck, but am really judgemental

>>725259078
I'm 30 I've actually been alone most of my life because I have the same mentality towards it that you do. I've had a few relationships I didn't really seek out and they all usually end the same way because of how closed off and empty I am. Happiness will just never be something inside me I can't explain it I've tried basically everything at this point I dunno

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>>725257611

>>725259543
/thread

>>725253986
That is fucking faggot, man the fuck up and take life at its neck. Its not like you're living in Africa or war-torn Middle-East.

>>725259605
no you haven't.

>>725259779
This. And of course it's a white male saying it. They are weak as fuck.

>>725259878
oh my bad gimme a list of things I need to do

>>725255561
gay

>>725260115
no

figure it out yourself

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think this thread is dead

>>725254395
*ur

>>725254253
All of her stuff is two things?

my only suggestion for you guys is ketosis, the only time I felt mildly alright was when I was literally starving myself, changes your brain chemistry, might help especially if you're fat

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>>725256908
>>725257315

Yeah I'm not hideous im just antisocial and have bad people skills

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>>725257315

>>725257858
Q&A, Australian panel TV show that usually covers political shit and gets some bantz going between the lefties and the righties.
That guy is Josh somebody, some millenial faggot comedian who thinks the patriarchy is real and that men get paid more than women doing the same job (this has been proven time and time again to be false and the difference is only when not accounting for hours worked).

>>725261009
wut? you look good man.
how fat is your belly tho?

as long as you feel good about yourself, the girls will come on their own, and maybe this job you're going to get will get you that confidence you were missing

>>725261009
You have good skin, bro.
But you look sinister - try smiling in your pics and consider getting rid of the beard and/or glasses.
>you're using them to hide yourself

>>725255073
Pic or it didn't happen.

>>725254253
>calling your ex a pathetic loser
Do retards not realise that reflects poorly on them? They are the one that dated said ex.

>>725260528
>hate winter
>always depressed
>hope I feel better and happier when spring arrives
>don't

Every fucking year

>>725261009

you kinda look fat and rapey.

start working out maybe?

>>725261097
Then use that to your advantage, i sometimes behave a little like an autist during social interaction, but I do it just because my looks don't help me, also if you don't feel like talking with someone you shouldn't force it to happen. You are there to do your job and nothing more.

>>725257281
iktf
>be me
>go through my life feeling neither particularly bad nor particularly good
>get a gf
>start feeling things
>now feel rotten 80% of the time
>feel apathetic 15% of the time
>feel good <5% of the time
Honestly not sure it is worth it fam. I just want to go back to moving towards death without being distracted by feelings.

>>725261419

problem is you keep doing the same shit year after year.

do something different maybe?

>>725261548
That's not the problem. I change every year. I'm pretty sure it's the seasons, I have always been that way.

>>725261261
I has a belly. I'm about 230. Beard hides the double chin.
>>725261423
Working would help fat. Not sure if it would cure rapey look.
>>725261514
Yeah I'm largley shitty at talking to people.

>>725261533
Are you me?

>>725261419
>>725261773
Start taking some Vitamin D and magnesium. Those are the two most common deficiencies in first world humans.

Especially Vitamin D during winter if you are far north/south. Google seasonal affective disorder (SAD).

>>725261840
>Working would help fat. Not sure if it would cure rapey look

it would actually. look at all the pics of the male supermodels. they all have the same stare as you. difference is that they're fit so they look dreamy.
when youre fat, you just look rapey.

>>725261514
>You are there to do your job and nothing more
fuck off
imo, this is how people get depressed
life is full of surprises, but you have to let yourself be surprised
doesnt matter if its a shit interaction, just think of it as getting xp in a game. it'll get better, but only if you get enough xp to level up.

The problem with y'all is that
1. You've never had your freedom stripped from you
2. you've never been in a life threatening situation.
First would make you realize all the interesting shit you can do almost anytime you want.
Second would make you realize how much you really want to live.

Being comfy is the only thing holding you back from a world of fun and games.

>>725253986
Stop talking to ex's; It's antithetical to happiness.

>>725262113
>Being comfy is the only thing holding you back from a world of fun and games
this

>>725261998
This... makes insanely good sense.

>not using Vulcan philosophy to control emotions
Fascinating.

>>725262113

I want to make a pic of NDT wrapped in a blanket with the caption, "We're reaching levels of comfy that shouldn't be possible!"

>>725262800
>epitaph on the tombstone of western society

>>725262113
Kinda true. I had to run from men with Ak-47s when I was four years old.(not muslim btw) Even though I've faced damn near every problems and tragedies most people do, I've never felt suicidal and always valued my life dearly.

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Depression's come back after a year, and it's come back strong guys. That ontop of school problems.
I really want to kill myself but it would be cruel and selfish.
How do you guys do it?
>>725257898
>30
>lived with his girlfirend for 5 years
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=236hSZmD_GQ

Cover pic about boys crying is absolutely fag

>>725261009
You look pretty handsome tbh. Just something about your expression's a bit off.

Is that the picture you sent her? She probably would have responded if you sent a different one. Something that shows a bit more of your personality. Maybe you and a family member or out and about with your dog. Something like that.

>>725263794
Neat vid. I am only 26 but been with my GF for 5 years too. Figured we were too young for marriage but that guy makes some good points

>>725253986
smoke weed (moderately)
and fuck what the plebs think

here's a bunch of stuff that would cheer you up: 5ch.hk/int/res/6902.html (put 2 instead of 5. spamfilter doesn't allow a better chan)

>>725261009
Were a beenie and your good man lol.

>>725264136
That seems really weird to me but most people I know get married around the age of 23.

And yea, I'd recommend looking more into Peterson if you are interested in Psychology or Mythology. He has a lot of wisdom to share.

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>>725262113
>1. Free will is an illusion and pure capitalism is a cage
>2. Life threatening situations more often than not happen randomly unless you live in a shithole, your life preserving instinct kicks in but in the end you'll regret running away

>>725253986
You got a new job. Well done. Fuck you letting an ex get you down for? Man. C'mon

>>725264485
Nobody in my generation that I know has gotten married yet. I think it is partially a class thing too, I grew up in a upper middle class area and nobody has gotten married. But my gf did some classes at a uni where she met people from working class areas and they are all married and some even have children.

My cousin who is turning 30 is engaged and will be getting married in a year or two but he would be the first and is the only one with any inclining of marriage (or longterm relationship) besides myself and gf.

>>725253986
>be me
>no dad to live with

>>725264842
Guess so. I mean, where I live is probably about the same. Just today my mom told me that having children before the age of 30 is crazy.

Just that most of my friends are very traditional conservative. The kind of people that still believe in waiting until marriage.

And my close friend lives in utah. He's 23 but most of his classmates are married, some even have kids.

>>725253986
Be careful with that shit anon.

You expose how you feel to your woman; that you are scared or nervous. Do that too much and they will think you are a pussy and loose faith in you and eventually loose interest in you because a pussy never gets anywhere in life because they don't take chances.

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>>725263794
this video really helped thank man, here's something in return

https://youtu.be/Nrx3FXuYzLo

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>>725253986
>be me
>gets cheated on by ex
>ex leaves me for other guy
>ex wants nothing to do with me
>colleagues hate me, think I am autistic
>lose job
>in bed, crying, lonely
>stalk ex girlfriend
>ex girlfriend says I need professional help

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>>725255073
dont worry man, you can sing and you are sensitive, some girl WILL apreciate this. keep looking dude i belive in you.

>>725253986
think before you feel, op. i can second this >>725254346

>>725266004
nah man your problem is that they're wrong and it's driving you insane, the solution is to be stronger and love yourself and stop letting your loneliness cloud your judgment, loneliness is only fixed by being your own company, not by adding people to your life that just medicates, be alone until you feel like you wouldn't mind being alone forever, then when real love comes you'll understand it's about making it better not making you functional

>>725255073
if you can sing just do YouTube covers, musicians get Bitches and it doesn't matter how ugly you are, look at the Ramones

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>>725265889
Thanks mate. I really need some more calming music in my life.

I don't know what to share so have a Beksinski.

>>725254253
>stuff gets dumped out
>hurr the other person is a pathetic loser, amirite, guyz...guyz?....

>>725253986
>chatting with your ex
There's your mistake right there, friend.
Never do that.

>>725263794
Never understood why people find divorce is such a bad thing. This guy opened my eyes

>>725255561
Oh yeah what's his name

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>>725253986
As bad as yours, anon. On Friday I told girl I love about my feelings to her. She walked away confused without any word.
I'm suffering from MDD and social anxiety.
And I'm in love with her around 3 years now.
I haven't texted her yet, as other anon told me to do, I'm too stressed out.
I haven't slept for two days right now, cried in night, listened to sad music, and yeah, here's my criest cry song
https://youtu.be/h4kW8U6_3fU

>>725261283
okay this actually kind of makes me want to kill myself

>>725262113
Jigsaw is that you

>>725265242
Mormons don't count

>>725257238
motherfucker

>>725269575
crank the suffering up to 11 and focus on improving yourself and ignore Bitches until one seeks your attention

https://youtu.be/L85cillM6ME

Some months ago in another feels thread an anon was sad cuz it was his birthday and no one remembered, so a femanon sang happy birthday to him. Anyone got a link or save the audio clip?