What does a real man do after he finds out that his wife of 8

>>724311700
inb4 post nudes

real men move on calmly - whatever you do dont let the whore see you upset... if she knows she's hurt you then she's won...
never let the bitch control you or let her believe she controls you

>>724312214
the first night I really let her have it.

But i've calmed down since then.

>>724311700
dunno. understand that a lot of people aren't meant to be monogamous. It gets boring after a while. you can work it out and figure out a system that's fair perhaps. Maybe you get passes of your own to cheat if you ever want to. Or you can move on and try to find someone that fits better. The thing I think is the weakness of our generation though is expecting things to be perfect and not taking time to try and fix shit. Ultimately though, the main thing is to take yourself out of the equation and look at the thing objectively-no anger, just be very calm about how you approach this whole thing. What's logical. The world is a pretty dynamic thing and shit just happens and you have to accept that it's not completely in your control. Also right now you're in a very advantageous position and if you don't act you could be vulnerable. Something to consider. But at 8 years, I'd think twice before tossing everything if she's got any redeeming qualities and you still love eachother.

>>724311700
Be calm, steady and ensure you're getting from the divorce on top. Meanwhile figure out the context and background of cheating, as to understand what was behind it.

Take some time for self reflection, focus on your hobbies and pleasures and after 6-9 months, consider the options n of another woman. Don't get into anything serious before that.

Do you have kids?

>>724313550
>Do you have kids?
no

>>724311700
>Divorce already in progress.
>Already kicked her out.

Well, that's about it. Now you try to move on

>>724313615
leave the bitch m8

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>>724311700
Worse things have happened. It'll pass like all the other shit in life

How'd you find out, OP?

I just found out my dad died

>>724313973
i would also like to know

>>724313973
>>724314253
I found out through a female friend. then my wife admitted it after I confronted her.

>>724314017
Im sorry anon. I hope you had plenty of time with him.

fuck the men she cheated with

>>724314537
damn. sorry you had to find out like that

>>724311700
Did you knock her up?

>>724315549
no
We actually just started trying to make a child

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>>724315723
Good thing you got out. She was planning on trapping you because you were the safe option.

>>724314537
Make sure you do all of the divorce shit over email, so you have proof if she lies to you. Also be calm and reasonable, judges like that

Chris Benoit

>>724316034
OP here

keked heartilly

>>724311700
Do you have a small dick? that could explain why she cheated

>>724315723
Than you can (more)easily cut your losses...assuming she didn't get pregnant by one of her 'friends.'

>>724311700
Get better at fucking because you obviously suck at it.
>see
>the post you just wrote

>>724311700
A real man doesn't suicide over it

>>724311700
Warn the dude

Some know, some don't

I know if I was bangin some chick that turned out to be married I'd kick that bitch to the curb.

If she does it once she'll probs do it again

You should have pimped her out and profited from it.

>>724316289
Im 5 inches

>>724316644
she told me I was a better lover than both of them and she regrets doing it.
But she knows she's never getting back together with me, that's why I believe she's telling the truth. Sounds like she really regrets it.

>>724311700

What country are you in? If US get a good lawyer as I gaurantee she will claim domestic violence

>>724316990
>Warn the dude
he knew she was married

>>724317125
US

>>724317560
Dont go after him in that case

Probable cause etc

Would be a damn shame if he got jumped though

>>724318495
I know what you mean, but it's not those men's fault.

It's only her fault.

While I still think those men are piles of shit, they were just trying to get pussy
It was my wife's job to prevent that.

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>>724311700
I was engaged once.
Started dating right after I turned 16.
Was engaged for 2 years so 9 years total.
December she left.
Without getting into details I feel like death.
She was the only woman I have ever had sex with and I have rejected countless advances from women in college. I'm no neckbeard mind you.
One bitch tried to rape me as a freshman in my dorm.
Also my hairdresser.
And my suite mate. (He was gay, I didn't know it, and thought he loved me so he wanted me to put it in his but, if you know what I mean)
I don't know what gets me out of bed in the morning, be habit or faith, but you have to put a smile on every day and pretend you are ok.

>>724311700
At 40 years old, divorced twice, and been in numerous sexual relationships...I've found that all females cheat almost as often as men. Human nature. It's really not the end of the world.

>>724314537
killing ur self over her is letting a piece of shit control your decisions which isnt any different then when you were married. bitches dont mean shit

Just accept that she is every woman, and never let another one get to you.

>>724319111
OP here
I'm sorry anon.
Why did she leave?
In some ways I feel like im dead too. picturing her fucking other men kills me. I had sex with 2 women before her, but she was a virgin when I met her, and I took that seriously. So to find out she's been with at least 2 other men now is heartbreaking. I had many... my god... many opportunities both while I was in the Army and in college.

The only thing that keeps me going right now is knowing that I can improve myself in these next few months, and find a better woman after I've had some time.

>>724319292
Not the end of the world, ok. But not the woman I want to bear my children.

>>724319361
Not planning on suicide, just wanted to inb4 anyone suggesting it. This is /b/ you know.

>>724319387
MGTOW?

>>724311700
You might feel better single, but you should have had kids, atleast one, then she would have thinked twice about cheating

>>724313615
No kids easy leave. Get a young dumb girl or mature woman

>>724315723
i was in your same EXACT shoes 2 years ago

except my wife of 5 years, we were together for 15!

the only regret i have is, i want my 15 years back.

so many times i could have cheated on her, left her for a girl better.

but didn't.

>>724319592
I know how you feel, anon.

The time is what I want back most. That and missed opportunities.

Hows life 2 years later?

>>724314537
she was celebrating it. this culture we're living in is applauding cheating and if you ask me, it's fucking disgusting

>>724319592
just don't get bored, and talk about things that make everyone feel the same things, people can change if you think about right, then yall be in a retirement home Florida getting tans together

>>724311700
I think it's time for you to do something you've been wanting to do for awhile. Travel the world, etc. I would do that

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>>724319426
>we get through college
>both move back to home city
>buy house
>planning wedding
>she gets fired from job
>I get her job campaigning for a judge (family upper class and locally politically connected)
>judge wins
>run off for senators
>get her a job there
>hopes of getting her a job permanently at the local office. (Senators have people in the state and on the hill)
>she meets a lawyer 7 years older than us
>he blows smoke up her ass
>things get rocky for two weeks between us
>she comes over one night
>it's over anon
>she spends the night at his house for 2 weeks
>gets on a plane for D.C. with lawyer
>haven't heard from her since
>talked to her dad
>he is pretty upset with the whole deal
>still haven't gotten my ring back

>>724319680
well 47 in the dating scene. I can't say it sucks for it sucking. I get laid. Last gf was 24.
but the whole "going to the bar scene" bullshit. I did that in my 20's. I don't want to repeat it

but now i am forced to. And before someone says "it's not the only place to meet girls" i am not hanging out at a fucking library or a grocery store or what have you.

I work, go home, go to work, go home. I like home. At 47 im comfy. I have a rocking liquor cabinet. Everything i could want at home, by way of cooking equipment.
But after 2 years, actually started last month. i am just sick of going out to find pussy.
I decided to just travel to 3rd world countries and fuck 3rd worlders for chump change. go on a vacay for a week or two and slay like 20 girls.
Go back home, chill, don't even bother looking for girls
then rinse repeat in 4 to 5 months. ect

i am also leary to live with someone else, and let them get close again> fuck that. So another 7,8, 9 or more years i waste when i find out the new one cheats

it's nice to be able to do whatever i want. But now its not "us" against the world. its' back to me being against the world. And it seems less friendly.

before i would take no shit at any job. I could simply walk and the income my wife was making, we could easily get by

Same with her

So we really had just the normal stresses of daily life
her problem was, she never partied in college, and i was her second BF. her first to fuck her.

She turned 32 was hanging with single girls at work. Their life seemed more "fun" and she decided to cheat.

For 5 months i held on, hoping she would clear the shit from between her ears.

but alas. didn't happen.

oh well. im not happy not sad, just indifferent. I think it sucks in some ways. And it was a relief in others. cause the sex with us sucked bad. I kinda ignored it telling myself i gotta grow up, it's not all about sex

but ya...tha'ts it in a nut shell

>>724320074
Jesus anon.

Im sorry.

Thing about those types of relationships is, even if it takes along time, they will eventually fail.

They're both people without morals. The man sleeping with a woman who he knows is married, and the woman who is cheating.
One day, one of them will be unfaithful.

>>724319426
I don't know what MGTOW is, I just know that even the greatest woman with the best of intentions, will eventually cave to the programming built into female DNA that says "This is good. Fuck it up."

>>724320190
It seems like men's only option nowadays is to wait for women to get off the cock carousel around 25. That is, if they want a loyal wife and to have a good family.

>>724320190
lmao, I fucking hate bar culture, the most dumb ass people get together there, same with clubs, all immature bullshit, but if you don't bang it out she might leave, and obviously there isn't anything wrong with getting bored, I was never married and didn't even fuck girls because I knew it wouldn't go anywhere, and for me that was like thinking I was destroying a part of them, but yeah ive been in those shoes

>>724311700
Push through the pain and anger and sadness
Concentrate on getting as Mutch money and possessions back
She will be counting on you to fuck up so she can take everything
Don't fucking drink at all
Pull yourself together focus on close freinds and family go out to bars and clubs and fuck a few sluts over time you will heal and be overall a stronger and better man
>personal experience but my ex only fuckrd one guy her boss te cunt

>>724320363
women are only as faithful as their options.

they need to be rejected more than needed and then all of a sudden they have this "ephiphany, a life change" when really it's nothing more than getting tired of being the tire of a bicycle pump.

so now the ex is riding that cock carousel, and the fucked up thing is. I know she think she's being liberated, and free. Like a modern woman. In other words, believing the bullshit she's programmed by the MSM.

she's asian, and if you know anything about asians. They are MORE suseptible to that MSM programming than most women.

>>724311700
KICK THE BITCH OUT , SLUT, HOE OUT!!..OR FOREVER BE A FAGGOT, FAGGOT!

>>724320554
You seem very susceptible to /pol/ programming

>>724320554
>Asian
>More likely to cheat

No anon, its asian americans who do that. Asian women from asia are loyal as all fuck

>>724311700
This is the time to kill yourself OP

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>>724320190
Plz.
No.
I don't want to gaze into your crystal ball gypsy.
I don't want to know my future.

>>724320763
she was asian from asia not american asian.
>>724320714
and whats wrong with pol

i think pol is great. how can you not learn a thing or two from so many minds, all sharing 24/7 ideas and thoughts.

Acid splash men

>>724311700
kill them....kill the fuck outta them

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>>724319426
Damn OP my girlfriend fucked a guy and i kicked her out. But like its not just as easy as kicking them out yanno? like when you love someone that shits really fucking hard to deal with. Especially when fucking is brought into the equation. idk why but fucking makes it worse than anything else yanno. like just thinking about it will bring a guy to his fucking knees in that situation. I feel you OP, ive never married but i understand that kind of bummer. Whenever i find my self in my lowest places i like to listen to the TED radio hour by NPR by a campfire in the woods, the episode "simply happy" is something i think every human being should take time to listen to.

But hey. Theres nothing any of us can really say that will make you feel better though yanno? itll be bad for a little bit but then youll be alright.

>>724311700
Fuck her sister

>>724320846
Guessing she was chinese, possible korean then. Japs, flips, thai, all loyal to the death

Ive been with mine (japanese) and she would die before she fucks someone else. Shes a terrible liar too, so id know

>>724321038
Asian girls cheat too champ

>>724311700
He goes on a slut fucking rampage

>>724311700
THIS ONES FOR YOU OP.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3hlSgENWCcU

>>724320925
Yea I know
Even after everything, I still feel love for her. I hate her, but love her at the same time. All those mixed emotions on top of visions of her coming on some other guys cock.

Not the best feeling in the world.

>>724311700
Close your heart, it's a good time to do that now, I know you must feel horrible use that to achieve something great and show off with it.

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>>724312214
Sound advice. Best way to get back at her is to be ok, the find happiness with someone else. That'll chew the bitch right up

>>724321038
my ex indonesian. and she was also a terrible liar.

she came from a good family too.

But she never really liked her culture, like i would talk about retiring in her country. Cause we would live like kings
she always gave me the impression that her country was nice to visit but never wanted to go back to live.

oh well. She can go where ever the fuck she wants now.

The thing is, i really built my life around her. And to have that ripped away so late in life. Sorta sucks. The only blessing was, we had no kids.

i have a new game plan now, so that's good.

>>724320714
Basic truth isn't programming.
You can destroy it and it will come back from nothing.
/pol/ is truth.
Cut away everything that you have been taught and look at things for what they are.

Destroy the programming.

>>724321139
visions... lol... oh I know bro, trus me.... you cant fucking tell anyone what you saw, no way to do it, and its like its happening, what you saw, and sometimes you half know, but then realize your an idiot, but then theres evidence, and then think your going crazy, and start seeing those faces but your not sure whos face you see, fuck em

>>724321112
great song

>>724321139
that's normal. i don't think of her fucking anyone.

but what i did do is this

I found out the guy she was cheating on me with, it was somone i knew
i found out he loved to eat pussy
meanwhile, for 5 months im fucking her too, cumming in her.
So i email him and go "heard you like to eat pussy" "well the last 5 months i been fucking EX too, and cumming in her...how do i taste?"

he never wrong back, and they broke up.

HA. guess i got the last laugh.

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>>724315723
>no
>We actually just started trying to make a child

You lucky fucker

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I look right through you
I see your booboo

>>724311700
Fuck her sister and as many of her friends as you can. Like a boss.

>>724321363
bro, all that matters is finding where its @ then seeing it too late, but that's all that matters anyway, playing around :) I love eating pussy. Perky tits are great.

>>724321457
lmao

>>724311700
u play video games

HGI3T-CHI2D-7GDWM

there you go man

>>724320554
>This

If she thinks she can get a better deal elsewhere or you're not doing it for her, she'll dump you in a heartbeat no matter what sacrifices you've made for her.

Never enter into a relationship unless you have the upper hand and can keep it. And even then make damn sure she doesn't think she can get out of it and get better, because once that notion takes hold, you're done.

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>>724311700
Have you tried black cock yet?

>>724321702
its really just about being the only man and women on the planet, or in our case stranded on an island, I bet if you and a women were stranded for years you would see who you really both were, but some people you forget.... and some you don't

>>724317082
What fine bait you left here.
I'm nine inches and hear similar things
>protip bitches ain't nothing but hoes and tricks
>protip2 fucks other men because you're not enough sir. Quite simple. SorryNotSorry

>>724319292
This man speaks only words of much sage.
>such wise
>>must disciple

>>724320190
Instead of the bar, try online dating sites.

>>724321595
Havnt stolen.
>just checking if OPs computer exploded after using.

>>724320763
Yes Asian women are loyal as fuck, if they are Korean or Japanese, the rest are like the rest

Leave the bitch and let her rot. Also what kinda real man is married 8 years without at least 3 children.

>>724321466
This is good advice.
Do it 4 /b/
do it 4 chins
do it 4 you anon
>do it for the 2x XP Boost applied to all further sexual conquests (when rolled against 7+/10s).

>>724322701
guh......no lol

thanks for suggestion though

>>724312214

Either this or kill her

>>724322853
for real, you need to cum inside that hoe, only natural, but tell her you will slit her fucking throat and urn her alive in acid if she tells your children she ever cheated, soon yall realize yall have more fun teaching your children values then sex, as amazing as sex is

>>724323001
Find and take advantage of social groups?
Start a creatives industry short/night course. Could be better than bar or dating site

>>724323054
Allahuakbar.
A fine jihad on your goat too my good sir.

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Assuming you're not just baiting/lying for some weird reason; that sucks, OP. I feel for you; I really do.
Honestly the only things I would have really wanted to do are the things that it seems like you've already done: I'd want her to be away from me or me away from her and I'd be engaging the services of a good lawyer. Even though she's in the wrong, I guaran-fucking-tee that she'll try to bleed you for whatever she can anyway. If she wins, you are undeniably fucked; so you might as well fight tooth and nail at this stage.

you fap to the thought of it.
be cuck, be free, be at peace forever my son
it is the greatest path a man could take
truly ubermench

>>724323280
Too late. OP needs to hire someone I think.
>methinks find a guy to arrange for to her to avoid an accident

>and eat a fucking knife instead

>>724323242
" General Hasegawa asked me to help him end his life. A samurai cannot stand the shame of defeat. I was honored to cut off his head. "

>>724323403
>my son
you failed at being a cuck yourself, cuck

>>724323403
I would have thought being a cuck is entirely and inherently egocentric.

>wants to be thought of in (x) way

Sort of the antithesis to the idea in many ways, no?

>>724323425
Fucking nip.
I thought we provided enough radiation deliveries to rid the planet of this scum.
>discuss?

>>724323629
HES CHINESE, HEY EVERYONE, THIS GUY IS FUCKING CHINESE. BUT NO. IT WAS Einstein that delivered that information and regretted it for the rest of his life. though there are stronger weapons. What do you mean scum ? Your probably pissed off because some soldiers did some gay shit to your people you don't really give a fuck about

>>724323818
Michio Kaku would kill Bruce Lee in a fight

>>724323818
Busted mah chink heritidge. I'm sorry for being Chinese.
>was actually implying I personally destroyed Fukushima on purpose.
>>Tidal mass was directionally proportional to the water displacement surrounding my massive testicles.

>>724324048
Don't be sorry for being Chinese, their cool too bro, I had some great friends from all over asia, including china and Vietnam, I also love th eJapanese and Koreans, I just don't see why the fuck your all fighting all the time, Tibet is also cool, also interested in the Mongols and Kung Fu, just sucks I have to be buddhist to be a monk, but then again you have to be Muslim to enter Mecca =/

>>724320074
Why would you put your girl in a situation working and socializing with upper class powerfull men? your a fucking tard! If she is good looking KYS

>>724313258
This

If she's truly sorry maybe you can swallow your pride and go on, but make demands of her because what she did is truly the most despicable act of betreyal you can do to your partner in my opinion.

>>724324048
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sAccm7xUH38

>stupid

>>724313258
I found the kike

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>>724311700
My girlfriend did this but with 3 men, glad I never married her.
It gets better with time, it really does anon, but you'll always have those moments thinking about it. It's always worse at night.
Best thing to do is keep yourself busy and talk to some good friends.
Even though she was a whore I still kinda miss her and think about her often.

>>724320520
scrub

>>724327245
lmao ok, its the truth bitch, I do love pussy though, I mean really love. love pussy.

>>724312214
This, so much this.
Dont shed a tear, dont change you behavior, dont let the bitch feel that you are broken, hurt or in anyway still carry feelings for her.

Be happy, and cold as a motherfucker. Show no interest in her ever again and her confidence will rocket down.