Real talk, how important is being alpha/socially-dominant when it comes to picking up women? I catch some of my buddies trying to out-alpha me by breaking my balls out front of other women to make themselves look better. Don't wanna constantly play power struggle with people just to seem important, but when you hang out with obnoxious chads, you get put on the defense a lot
>>724162504
Smoke and mirrors works great for a certain bloc of women. Once you grow out of it, you'll realize the world opens up to you as long as you're rich. Good luck.
>>724162504
Improve yourself. Always. But don't act like you're better. Just act like you.
The people who act all alpha are like >>724162806 said, the girls who are into them are probably not the girls you want.
You don't have to be rich, you don't have to have nice clothes, you don't need to have talent or interesting opinions. You don't HAVE to, but these all definitely help.
If I tell a girl I'm making over 100k as Project Manager at a company, fully own my house, check out dese 8-pack lats, blah blah blah, definitely helps with longevity in a relationship, because you have "the whole package". But don't let those be the first things you tell a girl. Attract with personality, let her discover that you have these other perks as you move on.
If you're having a problem with your "buddies" trying to outdo you, maybe find a different group to hang out with or search for girls alone.
Solid advice. Thanks anons
the trick to picking up girls is you always have to act like you're better than them.. not overtly or rudely, but it should always be in the back of their minds that you're a step above (even if you're a retard that posts on /b/, they don't need to know that until they sleep with you). don't be a dick, but selling yourself short is suicide around girls.
>>724162504
idk man
i've only had one girl and i picked her up by being the most alpha beta of the group, i was the one talking to her, i was the one making shitty jokes all night, a week later just asked her out she said yes.
half a month later i broke up with her cus she was shit lol
>>724162504
This doesn't exist, alpha male is a wolf thing, primates like us gather around the fertile female and wait until their turn to fuck her.