Anybody else think sex is overrated? Don't wanna ask my

>>724122173
Hell yeah it's overrated.
People used to hype it up saying it's the best thing ever but when I got my chance to have sex it was mediocre and boring

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>>724122173
If you suck at it yes

If you're looking for an opinion then sex is not overrated. If you're looking for a fact, sex is not overrated.

Of course it's overrated "sex sells" etc
It's part of physiology though and without it you won't be as healthy

It's as overrated as eating food.

>>724122173
Overrated, but you need it... So, you kinda have to deal with it.

>>724123135
You don't need it. It's not oxygen. Sterility might actually happen.

>>724122173
Why do you think it's overrated?
>>724122387
Details?

>>724122173
One night stands are overrated unless you're both experienced, I've been with my gf for 2 and a half years and the sex has only gotten better over time, if you're both horny as fuck all the time it doesn't take long to get to porn star level of sex, i think some relationships are too uptight about it and stick to the same vanilla shit, sex is boring if you're boring

>>724122173
It's fun, op. It's not as fun as getting drunk, but it's more fun than winning video games.

It's better than jerking off most of the time, though sometimes it is nice to rub one out even when you have sex available.

>>724122173
Pretty overrated, violent and shitty. Diseases etc...

Nah, for men sex is probably the only thing in life that isn't overrated. I've been with my now wife for over 6 years, and though we fuck once a week max, it's still essential.

I'll put it to you this way, I'd rather live with a missing leg than a missing dick.

there's good sex and bad sex, i've had better wanks then some of the sex I've had. overall though sex is not overrated, the more you do it the better you get at it and you learn to turn most encounters into good sex

Nonono sex is overrated and brown shit

the pleasure of rubbing my dick inside a vagina and cumming is a little overrated, but the intimacy afterwards it what makes it worthwhile

>>724124662
I agree

>>724122173
Yes. I just jerk it off and it's off my mind. Then I can continue to do the fun stuff like coding or going to the gym

>>724123429
I just need my orgasm then I'm good

>>724122173
Sex is weird in that the more you have it the more you need it.

It's boring. It's fucking boring. Unless you're doing something excessive and exhausting that only lasts 5 minutes, I can't enjoy it properly.

It's more fun just getting each other's hands and mouth involved. The only hot thing about sex is the moaning, the actual pleasure is so standard, I don't understand how people prematurely ejaculate.

Fun to do and fool around with, but I just can't blast my load by pumping into a cunt, I just don't get it.

Also condoms. Holy fuck, condoms. I cannot feel a fucking thing. """Less""" pleasure my ass, I can't even fucking feel if I'm putting my dick in properly if it's under sheets.

>>724122173
What were your expectations of sex?

>couldn't even have sex with the first girl I ever encountered because she was a virgin and my dick has too much girth
>ended up turning semi trying to fit it in after trying so much
>actually hurt feeling my dick push back into me
>gave up and just groped eachother
>that lackluster first experience deterred me from caring about sex
>don't offer sex unless they explicitly say they want to now

End me /b/

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>>724123429

>my gf is a very traditional white christian countryside girl
>only goes for vanilla missionary
>doesn't enjoy anything different or wants anything different
>"blowjobs" are just a few kisses and she does it out of contract rather than hornyness
>4 years old relationship

Shit sucks. I'm absolutely certain I will cheat on her starting this year.

Sex is only overrated if you don't do it right.

>>724122173
They're correct

>>724125447
Fix your dick man, the problem lies in your backyard.

>>724122173
It's better if it's someone you have a romantic connection with and not some random stranger. Honestly the act itself is rather awkward.

>>724125909
I think after you've had a good decade of wanking at least 10 times a week before ever having had sex it gets your entire dick in a different state of mind.

That and probably some deeply troubling issues tying back to lack of sleep and self-loathing.

But mainly wanking.

>>724125859
Have you discussed how important experimenting more would be with her? Outright cheating on her is a dick move. Just ditch her. Don't be a little sneaky bitch about it.

>>724125859
I dated a white christian girl with a similar problem. Unless you see her every day at school/work or something (and even then, still consider this), just fucking break up with her, man. Sex is part of the relationship you want and she isn't providing. I'd argue cheating on her and hiding from her will only cause a shitstorm to brew when she finds out.

>>724125909
circumcised?

>>724126292
Would be my guess but deathgripping is deathgripping and anyone can ruin their cock/mental sexual function

>>724122173
Belive it or not, the old folks aren't wrong with this one, we live in an hypersexualised era. Blame it on whoever you want but it's a pretty modern thing. You are supposed to have sex for reproduction purposes, not pleasure. Of course it's really pleasant, with orgasms and such but that's just the way to keep you interrested in the reproduction of your own specie.

>>724126221

I've literally told her this a few months ago: "Sex is a very important part of a relotionship and a very important part of a man's life, and I will not give up on my masculinity and sex life to be with you."

She said she was going to improve. She didn't.

>>724126269

We see each other every day. This is the problem.

I'm thinking of cheating on her until I am able to not see her every day.

>>724126292
>>724126193
I am not.

I think my disapproving nature of sex also comes from the fact every girl I've done it with has never made the first movie, hell not even the first five moves. Even if they're keen, it's always an act of me having to do just about everything for the first 5-10 minutes before I even receive pleasure back, which makes it really fucking difficult to keep interested.

Maybe I should either be more assertive or stop having sex with semi-selfish assholes.

>>724126518
>You are supposed to have sex for reproduction purposes, not pleasure.
Bullshit, sexuality is part of our social structure, just like it is in dolphins

>>724126656
*the first move

>>724122173
i also think you are a faggot

>>724122173
I am nowhere near as in to it as most of my friends are. Most of them hate being single etc but I can pretty happily go months without sex without it bothering me

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>>724126683
This. Humans are one of the few species that uses sex as a langage.

>>724123358
Wdym details?

Only kinda. I like to get my dick wet but I'm at this point where I don't even wanna bother unless I'm shitfaced, women are assholes and im way better at being an asshole than they are when I've been drinking for a couple hours.

>>724126556
learn agile
tell her if she doesn't meet the Definition of Done she is out

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>>724122173
>be me
>have gf somehow
>sex is amazing
>very sub
>choking
>slapping
>bondage
>gets off on being face fucked
>calls me master
>worships and obeys me
Sex is not overrated if you find what you're looking for. I'm pretty sure this is a dream and I'll wake up soon.

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>>724122173
>Anybody else think sex is overrated?

You'd have to have sex first in order to come to that conclusion and be able to discern "good" sex from "bad" sex.
Having sex with yourself doesn't count, faggot.

>>724122173
there are more important things yes but its needed to feel good

>>724122173
Frankly sex is one of my primary motivations to live. But I've had the fortune of fucking ridiculously hot girls, because I actually have sex appeal.

I understand in most cases it's better to tell yourself there's more to life than sex, but for me there isn't.

>>724122173
Finally a good thread on b. Yes, I think it's overrated. Even after I fuck the hottest girl available to me, after I cum, a little depression comes and I realize that sex is irrational and is not that fun.