I fucked it up /b/. >Be me 32yo M >This december and after

Bumping for help or advice

Find your balls.

Stop talking to her.

Go to the gym.

Want to help ya but dont know how to.
best of luck bro

well at least you learned this now instead of having wasted more time with her. or worse bought a house or had a kid together.

sounds to me like you dodged a bullet, op. but when you're young (see..i'm 35) you think your shit is torn but really time heals. you won't think about it all the time and eventually will have some days where you'll wonder how you almost forgot to think about it and eventually wonder why you ever bothered thinking about a cheating bitch like her.

you'll be lonely. but hold your shit together. go hiking or find a hobby that's constructive.

a few years from now you'll be giving some other anon the same advice from my position.

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stop being a faggot and move on pussy

>>724048322
I had a somewhat similar situation, bud. It fucked me up for 3 years. I had a chance with someone a few months later and fucked it up. But, I met someone a few months ago and we've been together every since and she's fucking great. I wont lie, it'll be tough for a bit. I dont know how long. But things will definitely get better. I did all of that FB checking bullshit too, and it does nothing but hurt. Try to stop yourself and you'll feel much better (the few times I stopped myself, was definitely a good decision). Dont ever look at pictures of her. Try some OkCupid stuff, go to bars. Have fun being single again. And by "have fun being single" I dont mean go out and fuck a bunch of chicks, I just mean have fun doing things that YOU want to do. Immerse yourself in a hobby, play video games, drink some beer with friends (I dont believe you have zero friends). Things will get better, bud.

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>>724048322

one pair of legs closing... is other ones opening.
stop the feelings and start doing, "love" is just an illusion, once you realize that, you just don't be an asshole and you can live to the fullest.

Forget about her.
Move on, faggot

She's either been fucking this other guy for a while or she's at least been looking for an excuse to leave. She's a coward and took the easy way out that would eliminate any confrontation with you directly. She stopped taking the relationship seriously long ago. Don't be depressed. Be angry. Be angry at this bitch that didn't respect you enough to talk to you about any problems she was having in this long of a relationship. This kind of shit is what should be expected of teenagers. Not someone your age. Get angry, go to the gym, and don't give her another second of your time. She has proven that she isn't worth it.

>>724049297
this

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>>724048322
You can pick your friends, you can pick your nose, but you can't pick your friends' noses. You decide how other people make you feel, you can't control the will of others. Best to never contact her again and when she does try to come back (she will) you have to be strong enough to ignore her. Loving someone and hating someone are pretty much the same thing when it comes to attachment... best strive for not feeling anything at all toward her. Yep it sucks. But dude you're 32, as am i, if you haven't figured out that life pretty much sucks yet then you've been super lucky thus far

Forget about her. In six months you will have gained tougher skin. Don't get all pic related about it

>>724048322
respect yourself more nigger

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It gets better /b/ro.

My gf dumped me a week after I was made redundant, 5 days after my birthday and a day after my grandad got terminal cancer. I gave her everything. I moved cities to be with her and did everything to make her happy and feel special. And then she dumps me over the phone.
I was fucking broken. I went through all the motions. I was devastated, angry, and missed her like crazy. Sometimes I still do. But gradually, it's getting better. Try and see the silver lining in the situation. Even if its small. Then build on it. Don't hold on to the past and try to move on.
It will get better. I promise.

>>724049297
T H I S

>>724048322
if u want revenge, the best revenge is ultimate success. become rich and fuck her friends so she has to remember you. remember the pos that stole her from you? fuck his ex, fuck his mom and fuck his sister. its the only way to win.

>>724048322
Women are for sticking your penis inside, nothing more. I realized this when I was 18.

>>724049025
This.
34 fag here, follow his advice.
I also agree, you dodged a bullet there.

1 :take time to heal
2 :man the fuck up
3 ?????
4 PROFIT

>>724048985
Only niggerfaggot's work out at the gym

Fuck her mom or sister. See how she feels after that.

OP here
Thank you guys, I have to admit when she texted me I was there and I even thought of not caring about she was with this other guy. At the end with her disappearing like this, I was thinking it was all my fault, that I didnt care about her, or worked too much, but she didnt give me a chance of explaining or regreting my behaviour.

I tried to avoid FB, but at the end and specially on days like today, I always go there and see all the happy faces and how quick she rebuild her life like if nothing happened.

>>724049899

pussy ass virgin detected

>>724048322

Nederfag detected. Wat ben jij een dikke kankersukkel. Groei even een ruggengraat, dump die bitch.

>>724048322
Im in the same situation. No friends and no girl after i did everything right. Youre not alone dude

Uh oh you frickin moron. You just got cuck'd

>>724050000
She didn't rebuild a new life quickier, she already planned to leave long ago.
Trash all her shit or things related to her, block her from everywhere, and if she tries to come back spit on her fucking face.
Man the fuck up.

OP once again,
and yes, I honestly think I dodged a bullet. It could be worse if we were married or so. But at the same time it sadness me a lot. I gave everything for her, but its almost impossible to not relax when you are into a relationship that long.

Even if its hard Im trying to workout and meet other girls through Tinder and other apps. Its not the same as I always end up comparing every single of them with my ex.

I still dont know why she texted me, or why she messaged me 15 days ago with just a "Hello OP".

This last friday she deleted me from her contact list (saw that on whatsapp) just for SMS me. I guess that way in the case the new guy found out, he wouldnt know who was she talking to as it only appeared an unknown number.

I guess I shouldnt be thinking about hopes

>>724048322
Look on the bright side OP. Now you get to relax, smoke weed and jerk off whenever you want.

Shit could always be worse.

>>724048322
You have this oneitis because you think you'll never get anything better. Truth is once you fix yourself by actually accuiring a life, doing sports, and fixing those social skills and dip into new social circles, you'll find that there's a lot more out there than this flakey bitch you're crying about at the sidelines

tl;dr: fix life for yourself, chicks will come and go, but don't assume because you're single you can't be "whole". Stop looking for motherly love fagget. Love is conditional

https://therationalmale.com/
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/
https://blowmeuptom.com/

Don't be a maricon

Grief is kinda like a screwed up ball on the trophy cabinet we call our life. Every once in a while something will bump into you (seeing those pictures, and reading those comments) and it will knock the ball back down. You just need to learn to pick up the ball, feel what you need to feel, and put it back up. I've had my fair share of break ups, and Id be lying if I said I didn't occasionally think of them. You just need a positive outlet for your negative feelings. I like to game and use it as an outlet for escapism. Get yourself a copy of Doom and go wild. Find a hobby and start working on it whenever you feel stressed or guilty so you can feel a sense of achievement instead of sadness. It can be a hard long road, but I know everyone has the ability to walk it if they're willing. Hang in there OP. Where can you find a rainbow, but only after rain.

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>>724048322
She was too shitty to even give you a proper breakup good bye, and now she's fucking some chav. You deserve better, man.

>>724050447
Always remember one thing : you're alone, always.
Even with the girl of your dreams, with beautiful children or with a great job and a shitload of friends. You are ALONE and life will always make you remember that in a way or another.
In the end we all die and no one will give a fuck anymore. Stop getting sad over a breakup life could be waaaaaaay worse, believe me.
Stand alone and grab the life by the throat.

>>724050000
>or worked too much
I love when bitches complain about this while they sit on their asses and get fat.

>>724048322
OP, that pic makes your story 900% better.

>>724050000
Op head up and man up. Time to find and fuck other sluts it helps. There's many out there. Some enjoy anal, giving BJ, HJ and getting pissed on. Time to go have fun.

Stab the vulture over and over until he's unrecognizable, kidnap your ex, tie her to the passenger seat of your car, and drive off a cliff Thelma and Louise style.

>Murder suicide is ALWAYS the answer.

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1: It hurts because she hurt you.
2: You don't want to move on because it was unexpected.
3: You feel betrayed because you trusted her.

Now you feel like shit because you can't understand those three things, and instead look at her having moved on.

OP, this is hard to do and understand, but until you take a look at yourself and how those three problems are affecting you, you will feel like shit and stay like shit.

Look at it this way:
Women talk about their problems. Men fix theirs. Time to man up and get control of your life again.

Some ideas, pick and choose:
Get drunk, eat junkfood, talk to friends/family, meet/talk to new girls, stay away from FB for a a few days.

>>724050283
Me too. wat do?

>>724048322
Just forget about her. She's moved on and it's now the beginning of the next chapter of your life. Looking into her is going to be toxic for you. Just find a hobby you can be passionate about. Find something that challenges you. Go to the gym and focus on something.
I went through something similar as you. My girlfriend kept saying I shouldn't worry about a guy. They were just friends in the same circle. She started spending less time with me. We missed thanksgiving together and then it was obvious that it was over. Don't think that there's something wrong with you. It's probably her problem; woman are legitimately nuts like that.
Become who makes you happy and someone else will find you.
I met my wife after my break up. I spent months depressed and wasting away. I woke up one day, got my bike out of storage and met my wife on a biking trail. We met up for some rides and picnics and we've been happy ever since. Let yourself move on.

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>>724050040
seconded

>>724048322
Bro, you ignore her. She will start asking herself why, She will fly to you like insects fly to lightbulbs at night.

Only way to ruin her. also, this guy >>724048985

this guy
>>724049297

And remember this guy

>>724050844

You will be fine bro. Think about yourself now, no one else. You are the most importrant guy in the world. Never forget that.

>>724048322
www,survivinginfidelity.com

>>724050940
And I thought /b/ was dead, /b/rethren are still around.

You're just bad at sex. You aren't reading enough Jezebel.com Its a great place on how to conform to a woman's needs.

>>724050940
>>724050940
>>724050940
>>724050940
>>724050940
MURDER!!! 10/10
IT PUT THE LOTION ON ITS SKIN OR ELSE IT GETS THE /b/ rekt threads AGAIN

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>>724051024
I want you to know that I screen capped this.
From one very wise person to another, you nailed it.

>>724051024
This. Every bit of this.

>>724048322
OP, I'm going to give you some amazing advice, it worked for me.
Either buy a whole weight set, benching bar, dumbells, curling bar, and all, or get a good gym membership. Make a hobby of weightlifting, convince yourself that it is your favorite hobby in the world and do it everyday.
But the next important part is to not care about woman at all, don't seek them, don't care if you get one and they break up with you. Once you start doing this, they'll come to you like flies to a pile of shit.

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>>724049899
Theres no reason to hit the gym. Its full of ball sweat. Running/biking works out legs and core muscles. Buy a $10 tension cord for upper body.

>>724048322
OP vai pra academia.

Fica forte, foca no emprego e usa seu ódio pra achar outra mulher.

Foi assim que fiz com minha ex. Deletei ela de tudo, não dei nenhuma bola pra ela. Usei meu ódio com a situação pra arranjar outra menina. E deu certo.

Não manda mensagem pra ela. Se ela te mandar ignora.

Não dê importância pra vagabunda.

Se precisar de qualquer coisa, ou desabafar to aqui.

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OP again
Thank you guys for your replies, its nice to see you are not alone and sadly it doesnt matter where are you from.
Im saving most of your replies for reading them when Im feeling like this again.

Im actually in the proccess of meeting a nice girl who was into a 8yr relationship. Weve met twice and she looks ok. She doesnt have to be the one but at least she helps me to disconnect from this sadness.

One more question, I obvious dont want to be friends with my ex, even she proposed that. But, should I answer her back? Should I text her? What if she decides to meet and talk after more time? Or wanting to come back?

I know the answer, it never goes right but... you know, as I said in my first message, my mind is weak.

>>724048322
have to stop checking facebook and stop replying to her texts i know its hard but you can do it

>>724051507
Even when Br wants to be comforting, I can't help but laugh.

>>724048322
wtf, cut all contact.

>>724051463
>>724051486
Im actually lifting weights at home. Nothing fancy, but enough for looking me in the mirror and thinking Im like in my 20s again.
The girl Im talking >>724051568 there said me yesterday Im handsome and have a nice body. So at least, thats something for smiling.

> I just cant sleep or rest anymore.
this is the worst part cus u shood disconnect from her and simply let time pass

>>724051486
This. The gym is a waste of money.

>>724051156
The amount of out of season summers falling for bait threads is unbearable. But I still /b/rowse regardless.

>>724051507
Academia é lugar pra viado.

Quando a minha puta me deixou, comi ela 3 meses depois.

Ela estava com outro.

Já passaram 4 anos e algumas vezes cada ano ela me manda um e-mail para foder. Estou esperando ela ter filhos pra comer ela.

>>724051568
She is dead to you, period.
Never look back, ever.

>>724051568
She doesn't wanna get back together OP, cuff this new girl and don't talk to your ex for a good year or two.

>>724051248
Calm down there, Adderall. Glad you liked the joke.

>>724051568
No friends man. People learn to decide. Never do that. You are no dog, she cannot put you on a lease.

>>724048322
Dont know man thats tough, going to have to do anything and everything possible to keep your mind occupied. Hobbies, fam? Etc. Workout, running. Find some new women...have some fun.

>>724051890
Jimmies

>>724051568

I wouldn't respond. Just close that door of your life. It just isn't worth thinking about. Go out with that new girl and have fun with your life.

>>724051806
LOL M8 FUK U

>>724051737
What? Why, are you a retard or something?

>>724049025

This. I've had similar happen to me.
You're lucky she isn't attached to you through a kid, etc.
It'll take time.. But you'll survive it.

>>724050447
Op, I went through a very similar SHITuation with my ex of 5 years. Yes it's hard as fuck being with someone that long then they just are gone, but there when its covienient for them (her).
I turned to alcohol, drugs and partying and I smashed a bunch of girls (since 2012 I've been with around 15 different girls, most were hook ups from tinder and parties)
But it never really helped, and I did the same I still fap to girls that resemble her.
It sucks, but shit happens man.
Don't let her destroy your dignity. She has already brought you down to this point by being a selfish and immature whore by up and leaving then fucking a new guy a week later. Fuck her op.
You are better than this.
Don't let this defy you.
Be strong.
Every time you think of her, slap your balls or your face(it actually helps lol, my friend dared me when I was drunk)
It's hard to move on to someone else but take your time getting into a new relationship, date your self OP, but new clothes, new gadgets, or whatever makes you happy. Do YOU anon.

>>724051809
Então cara, eu levanto peso em casa.

Tá fazendo a diferença e pelo menos você usa esse tempo pra ser produtivo.

Normalmente essas vagabundas acham que conseguem algo melhor. Usei essa raiva pra levantar peso, vejo várias vadias correndo atrás agora.

>>724051709
He look, it's Azamat Bagatov. How is Borat doing?

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here's what you do:

stop talking to her.
just stop. don't block her, but delete her number.

just bait for awhile and slowly but surely she will destroy herself with thoughts. you will then have a choice to give her a 2nd chance when, not if, she comes knocking on your door, calling your phone, calling your parents, etc.

GL anon

>>724052081
Hahaha pussyass faggot. MGTOW or get #rekt

>>724051568

Dude, i am a bit confused. Did she even dump you or just disappeared and avoided conversation?

That is important to know so I can answer your question.

>>724048322
quit being such a little bitch.

>>724052105
Shut up you beener

>>724050471
>oneitis
yes, you should definitely take the advice from someone who uses teenage date rape vocabulary.

>>724051806
>>724052066
Exactly, sadly.

I'd probably kick the guys ass and then move on.

But yeah, you probably dodged a bullet.

>>724052229
Op here.

I just dissappear and hoped she will talk to me again. My waifu is now with me, she has a heating element.

>>724048322
Shit ik how that feels man but idk how to help may kek be with you

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>>724052037
NO U

>>724048322
Come on OP, you're fucking 32. There are 3.5 billion or so other pussys out there. Seriously. I was in a fruitless relationship for 10 years and i ditched it finally and she left and suddenly it was the best thing that ever happened to me. You must have some value. If she smashed your confidence this far into the ground by saying how much you have to change and yet she never changes herself then you are way better off without her. Find someone else and don't go back near her. Those types can sap all your self confidence.

>>724051568
Ignore her.

Whatever you thought you had is dead.
Let becoming her "one that got away" consume you.
That's what I did.
When she calls years later in a moment of weekness and you're doing great.. Allow it to sink in that she's beneath you now.
Take better care of yourself.
Women age poorly compared to men.
Give it a few years an a little effort and relish in her backpeddling.
Also.. Go slay some pussy.
You'll feel better.

>>724052313
Oh wow

Alarm alarm we have an original fag here. So jelly, did you get to suk moots peen?

>>724052229
OP here not >>724052318

We were together a saturday, cooking together, hugging, watching a film at the sofa, having sex and sleeping together. She then went to her parents house, I stayed working at home.
Then she suddenly starts skipping my messages, didnt come back, "Im the same, I didnt change". She is online but doesnt answer, I write tons of messages, still no answer.
2 weeks later, new profile picture. No explanation, no way of meeting her in person, nothing.
We were about to celebrate our 6th anniversary, (10 days from there).

That was it.

>>724052193
obviously you've never been in a long-term relationship.

it's all cool to be edgy and shit but when you seriously consider becoming MGTOW, you wouldn't be saying this.

>>724052377
U SAY WoT M8? I'LL NIP YA.

>>724052459
Do you think it is possible that she was bored in the relationship?

>>724048322
OP where do you live? I'll buy you a drink on me.

>>724048322

best advice someone gave me after a breakup,

"you miss her, but that's not the girl who fell in love with you anymore. she's long gone. that women you're thinking about is the one who feel out of love with you. she's the girl who decided you were expendable and you can't go back to that first girl. the other one will always be in the way"

>>724048322
Beat her thefuck up

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>>724048322
Is this you?
https://youtube.com/watch?v=1cijr8gSxTQ

>>724051568
Just remember she betrayed your trust.
Sure you can talk to her or meet her, you are adults after all. Just remember that if you do, stay in control and make sure it's for a purpose (retrieving lost possessions, ending old contracts/arrangements etc).

Extremely important: Avoid being the "broken ex", and avoid doing the "I miss you, I want you mushy ex".

If you get a chance to fuck her again: Don't.

>>724052459
Op here.
Threads ded, threads ded. It got hijacked

>>724050187
Mede nederlanders op 4chan? Dat zie je niet vaak

>>724052459
Op here.
Threads ded, threads ded. It got hijacked3zgt60

>>724052193
Wut.
That relationship was almost 5 years ago, 18 when it started. Giving an anon advice that can help when your depressed over a bitch. Sorry I'm sure you hands would want to break up with you're pathetic self but their stuck with your chump ass.
Mind you, my ex was a solid 9.5. I used to post her on here circa 08-09 but all the gb's of shit is on my old windows desktop and I'm not digging that pos out to get her nudes, although...

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>>724048322
Post what she wrote to you underneath his pictures - countervulture full force!

But in all seriousness, you fell prey to a succubus, draining your life force. A very wise Austrian friend of mine once commented on such women: "di gspian si ned" - translates to they don't feel themselves, meaning they need the anger and frustration of others to live. Think like that final android from Blade Runner, piercing a nail through his hand... you're the hand and she's the nail.

Short: think about how shit she is, and then think about it again and again until you finally realize there are women and then there are whore-succubus-penis demons. There's no other way, and some of us have been there, too.

>I feel you, bro

>>724052459
it's hard, but the easiest way to get over her is to meet other women.
i know it sounds stupid. and yes, it will still be hard, when you think about the effort you have to make to start something new.
but you really have to leave your ex behind. obviously she wouldn't trust you enough to talk about the issues she had in your relationship, and if after 6 years you didn't have that kind of foundation, you never will.

move on. get fit. fuck this redhead girl and get over your ex.

>>724052645
Huh
Hoe weet je dat hij een kankerpatiënt is

>>724048322
the fuck is wrong with you OP. the best thing you did was not marry her. now go and spread your seed with as many whores as you can find. feels good son

>>724052706
Nigga I didn't even read that. I just randomly said something. You cool Bro?

>>724048322
My wife of 2 years and partner of 12 years and mother of my 4 kids filed for a temporary order of protection (restraining order) two weeks ago. My Birthday was on Monday. Cant talk to her or see my kids. Go to court for a hearing tomorrow and hopefully she lifts it.

Advice: don't be a bitch. Suck it up. Move on. Stop stalking her online. Get off 4chan. Go do some hobbies. What ever you need to do to get yourself where you need to be.

Maybe ill work it out with my wife maybe not.
But us anons dwelling on this type of shit all day doesn't do anyone any good.

Cheer up there is some out there that will make you happy.

Plus this is a good time to find some strange. I hear it can do wonders for depression. I've been tied down for the last 12 years so if i find out ill let y'all know.

Wish me luck in court tomorrow. I'll prob start an AMA thread tomorrow afternoon or evening. (PST)

>>724051568
is that redhead her?

sauce?

First off, post more pictures of her; help the community out man.

Second, don't get so hurt off it. Probably was a good thing that you got ditched. Could have invested way more time and money and ended up gfless, broke and suicidal. You're just suicidal.

>>724052459

Then just ignore. At least for a few months.

Been through something similar. As mentioned several times in this thread, went on partying a bit too hard. All I did was work and seize enterteinment.

Drugs, booze and pussy of all colours and sizes later, I felt fine. A part of it was not worthy, though. Feel like after trying too hard to get well I came out as a worse person than I was before.

I would let it go. Walking away like that, as if nothing happened, not worthy.

>>724048322
Have you tried living in a real world? Maybe delete all your social media and youll find some time/motivation to meet actual ppl

>>724052459
Oh damn lol I posted earlier of mine of 5 years and this is very very similar to how shit unfolded with my ex. We were high school sweethearts or whatever so we did a lot of growing up together but just fell out of sync during that time.
We broke up 7 days before our 5 year, but we were still hanging out a few times a week and fucking (she was with the other dude too but I didn't care, last time we fucked though, she started crying and I was like wtf "I can't do this to you or him anymore" I choked her until I came, told her to gtfo, we talked here and there after but it's been almost 2.5 years (in may) since we talked last

>>724051507
>>724051809
>>724052105
I don't think OP speaks portuguese, faggots

Fuck this. I'm watching Friends.

>>724052933
Op needs to realize that his problems are nothing compared to this guy.

Man good luck tomorrow. I'll be in your thread.

>>724053077
Thanks see you then!

>>724053053
Gonna be this way babababababba

>>724048322
you dodged a bullet bro, ive had the same shit happen to me and well I fucking hated my life for well over a year. still kinda do, but I've gotten over it. if she was your first love you'll always miss her and everything its normal but for the love of god dont get back together with that stupid cunt. I made that same mistake and she twisted the knife in my heart.

>>724048322
fag

>>724052870
I bought a fifth of wild turkey 101 on sale today and have a pot roast in the slow cooker I'm dandy lol.
But I know the feels of heart break and if you haven't been with a woman for more then 4-5+ years and had a heart break, then you haven't had a pretty tough heart break before.
Your mind fucks your the most though.

>>724052277
lmao hello tumblr

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love is just a chemical dependence happening in your brain pussy

i bet you have emotions you empathetic fag , this is why you wont make it in business

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>>724048322
>32 and crying about a breakup
time to grow up.

>>724048322
She left because you are not a man, you are a wimp.

Get over it, find a new life, think about actually progressing in life somewhere.

You are those people who think having a relationship is be all end all of all things in this life. You like to suck titties and be in fetal position under the blanket because world is scary place.

Fuck off.

>>724050000
Delete Facebook. It's time to move on and think about your great future without those two dicktards.

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>>724048322

If your fuckin was anything like your green texting, you couldn't hit the G Spot in a 10 lb pussy.

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>>724048322
Soooooon many gets....
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OP once more

I like to think I'd give her a chance and we'll come back as if nothing happened. But I wouldnt be able to do so, I couldnt help thinking about how she would cheat on me again or going to another guy when I wasnt looking.

I think its time to move on and look for other girls. I know its just a fantasy, but earlier today I saw 2 job offers of my speciality. One in central Tokyo, the other in Melbourne. And now I think "I dont have any attachments, I can do whatever I want now".

And yes, I should stop looking FB and forget about the dudes name. At the end I know she will try to come back as I give her everything. I just hope I will be tough enough for refuse her.

>>724053766
Delete fb man. I only allow you to use linkedin

>>724048322

i'm so sorry for you OP,
it sucks. i feel for you.

dukkha

good luck, i hope you'll feel better asap.

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>>724052459
I left for work.
Got the hug-n-kiss.
The "I love you"
Had sex the previous night.
Everything seemed fine.
Had a 5 year plan.
Families were involved.
Whole nine yards.
Came home and she was gone.

All it took was some kiss ass willing to serve her hand and foot to abandon anything of value.

Womem are trash OP.
The only thing Islam gets right is that they aren't on the same level of existence as men.
The sooner you learn how useless and self serving they are as a gender, the better you'll do relating to them.
History is rife with their betrayals.
Always scheming for the better deal.
They don't understand the concept of loyalty at a base level.
Women don't even trust eachother.

My example.. A couple of years later the guy ditched her for a younger woman.
She had to go back to school as her looks faded. I on the other hand am a manager in a multinational company with a 22yo girlfriend of my own.
If I had wasted time pining over lost love.. I wouldn't have buckled down, got fit and focused in my spell of hatred.

She sent me 1 message on fb when I briefly reopened my account.
"You're doing so well.. Want to catch up?"
That's victory Anon. Go get yours.

>>724050283
Im at the same too. Try to enjoy the moment! Do new things, new hobbies... You are free to do what you want ;)

>>724048322

You're the only reason you are where you are now.

The next experience awaits, make it a good one

>>724053766
Restraining order anon here >>724052933

I had the same epiphany when I was buying potatoes for my bachelor meal last week. I thought to my self " I don't have to ever buy fucking organic produce again" after that I walked around with the biggest smile.

>>724054030
At first, I wanted to bash you. And say something like hahaha haha Mgtow ultra manager multinational wow.

But the way you ended it. Been there done that, and enjoyed every moment of it.

REMAIN HUMBLE

>>724053766
serisouly man, you deserve better than this, forget about her, move somewhere you want, meet nw people and meet a woman who will truly appreciate you. don't let that skank get back with you, if she would really love you, why would she cheat in the first place? keep your head up high OP.

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>>724048322

Op he is correct. Just don't feel bad anymore. Move on and find someone better. Travel to a different country. You're still young op, don't live your life sobbing about a girl that just vanishes. Make something of yourself and become a somebody : ^ )

>>724048322
You're fucking stupid. Get off social media altogether or at least delete/block her and her bf. She is dead to you. Block her number from your phone. Eat right. Lift. Dont hang out with mutual friends or places you might run into her. Once you start making progress, get involved in other social acivities/hobbies on your own. Bowling/darts/billiards leagues are a good place to start and meet new people including single women.

>>724048322
Heartache sucks bro. It's s part of life you learn from. Makes you a different person for the better. Go get some new pussy cause new pussy is best pussy. She'll do the same to "him" eventually and maybe want to come back one day. DONT! Never do this. Never go back to old relationships. Always better yourself everytime with a new woman. You'll thank me one day and realize I'm right but till then it's a bitter pill to swallow right now but it needs to be done. Good luck and don't be the begging, stalking ex-boyfriend faggot like other cucks. Get that shit out of your sight and out of your mind and concentrate on YOU. women are never happy and always want men to "change" cause they are never 100% happy to begin with. It's not you, it's them. Now, dust off and find a better relationship and a better life for you.

OP once again

While writing this, she just sent me another message. In response to my last one from this friday
>>724048322
>She texted me 5 days ago. She answered some of my questions "Yes, I still think of you, OP" "Im kinda miss you" and a few more. She didnt answer my last question and Ive been waiting since then.

And she is answering :

>Hello, we can talk in here if you want

After reading all your replies, and being 0:30am here, I dont think I should answer her.

>>724055218
post em?

>>724050447
You need some time by yourself before getting in another relationship. Give yourself a break man. You need to recover after long relationships. Focus on your happiness first and get yourself some better positive energy and focus before you get into another relationship. You need time to heal and get over the ptsd man, can't drag someone else into that funk right now. It's not fair to them or you.

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>>724048322
Nice image.

This greentexts sounds like it should be coming out of the mouth of a 16 year old in high school, not a 32 year old grown fucking man. Take control of your life, beta cuck.

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>>724049899
PLEASE, for the love of God let this be bait.

>>724050587
Yup. Lack of respect for you. She'll continue having shitty relationships cause she'll turn them into one over and over again.

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>>724054237
I was down on myself for a couple of years. Internalizing rage at the betrayal was bad. So I channeled it into success.
Pic is the betrayers body

>>724055218
Europe? Germany?

>>724055591
never a truer word written.

OP take note (and get the fuck off fb)

>>724050872
Yup always an excuse one way or another. It's really their own selves that make them unhappy and blame it on everything but

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>>724055755
And for op.. You can always find others.
Pic is my new gf's body. Keep in mind I'm in the later half of my 30's.

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Is this sufficient for a /thread please? Call it a day?

>>724049441
She was a ho and/or just not compatible with you.

Look for someone who puts just as much effort into your relationship as you do.

I've been with my wife for 14 years, and I've supported her through some really trying times, and she's now supporting me through some horrible health problems that mean I'll never be able to work a full time job again.

That's real love and commitment, and it's not easy to find. You can't expect it from just anyone.

>>724055672
/thread

>>724051486
Smallfag detected

goddamnit op you fucking faggot you're so weak. this is a woman you're beating yourself up about you dumb piece of shit

any moment she gets a bit bored with her current boy toy she'll bother with you again, and that's all you will be. you're so pathetic open your fucking eyes and realize there's more than just this one girl in this tiny area of space that you live life

i'm in texas, beautiful fat assed latina women everywhere, young beautiful girls. i go up north and there's down to earth country women ready to be wifed. girls of every type everywhere, kys

If you lose all your friends when you're in a relationship, you need to work on having more healthy boundaries, OP. Don't expect a relationship to fulfill everything for you.

work on meaningful activities and building connections and friendships. The happier you are with yourself and the less you care about being in a relationship, the more girls end up being into you.

The key is just being in situations where girls can find you.

>>724055672
how could anything possibly come out of that butthole

i loathe you faggots who obsess over these japanese cartoons that are drawn by horny men

>>724055218
im really proud of you OP, after time pass by, it will be harder to not reply to her. it was a good idea to screenshot the answers, read them when you feel weak. buy a notebook and a pen and bring it with you always, maybe you should write down your favourite comments and read them randomly when you're walk. you'll be fine OP, you're smart and a nice guy, this is what you deserve and you won a lot with this cause she was a bitch

>>724056474
lol

That terrible to hear, OP. The pain must be unbearable. You probably feel like you could just die from the despair.

As hard as it is, try to do some physical activity, even just going for a walk.

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>>724049899
Yes and no
On one hand nice equipment and some People can help you get started so you dont develop bad habits
On the other hand you can do calisthenics(if you know what you're doing)
Either way>>724048322 should start working out (you look good and its a confidence boost)

>>724050447
>be me
>20
>got a gf for 5 years
>she said : op your too faggot for me now
>he drives a BMW
>me mumscar.jpg
>me kdenbye.jpg
>5 month latter they crashed and both died
>evilsmiletopkeked.jpg
>now i use my right hand to fall a sleep

>>724057000
trips of truth, checked

>>724057000
lucky

my ex is still alive and kicking, living life a whore

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>>724057000
noice. i fall asleep thinking about my exwife dying, keeps me warm on the coldest nights :)

>>724048985
Seriously though... Gym, do things outside of the House. You know other people in this world, even if they aren't friends per day, hang out with them. Do stuff for you. Exercise will literally help so much. If you don't like that just go running. Its not fun at first but when you make a habit of it, its a sense of accomplishment you get for and from yourself. Its corny but now she isn't worth your time. Focus on yourself.

women are shit, learn to live without them

>>724052105
É então em casa é outra história.

Essas putas dos EUA são muito vagabundas pq ficam pulando de pica pra pica.

>>724052241
Suck my dick neet. Here are some tendies. Shooo.

OP its going to be okay,
I was a supreme gentle man but no lady wanted me,
I went to uni to find luck there, little did I know I shot it up due to my frustration of rejection.
It was alright.

OP, don't waste your time thinking about her, /b/ spoke, go to the gym, get strong and be a fucking alpha, then, she'll want to come back for sure buuuut you are already fucking you gym instructor. Be clever, be alpha

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> get married
> cheating whore
> get divorced
> ex becomes cam whore
> doubles in size
> many lulz had
> dodged that bullet

Every women is a flawed animal.
Learn that OP.

>>724055707
Lost

>>724048322
>Leave a facebook message saying you have to talk to her about "something important".
>Forward a copy to new bf 'by mistake'.
>When he replies, tell him you tested HIV positive.

>>724048322
Whats sad is how someone at 32 years of age is still this beta. Thats what you get for caring about a woman. You learned your lesson. Spend the next few months improving yourself, and find a new hole.

>>724057372
Topkek

This is why ive been aromantic for 17 years and getting hookers and sluts from clubs and shit