What's your excuse for not going /nofap/? Daily remind

actually, I've been struggling to do this for a few weeks now. I masturbate a few times a day. And I noticed it's getting really hard to come. I mean like, I often don't finish, because I just can't reach orgasm. And if I want to finish, I have to be really rough and fast with my hands.

Now, I have a new gf (10/10) for a few weeks, and I'm not able to cum while having sex, nor bj , nor anal etc. And that is really frustrating. There is just not enough friction, speed, etc.

This makes me think that I must have masturbated every sensitivity out of my dick.

I think the only solution is to go cold turkey, cut the porn, don't touch my dick except for washing, to regain my normal sensitivity and being able to cum while having normal sex.

>>724047235
Do it then, you know it must be done.

It often helps to tell your partner about it as well, even if it's hard, just so she knows what's going on. Remember: it's not your fault, it's societies fault.

ive actually never fapped in my bedroom. im always jacking off in front of my computer in the living room.

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>>724047821
>living room

>>724046639
I tried this shit thinking a lot of things would change, that i would be so horny I would start talking to girls because I just HAD to have sexual relief. Nope, nothing really changed, still beta. Of course you are horny all the time but it wasn't that big of a difference. Longest I went was 1 month without coming (not even in my dreams if I recall correctly)

>>724047967
whats wrong with that?

>>but because you're wired to get addicted to it. There's no beating it, there's no self control.

And if you aren't addicted to it? Not everyone is completely spineless without control over their own actions. If someone wants to watch porn a few times a week who the fuck cares.

>>724047510
I did. Actually, I have always had this "problem" that it takes much longer than the average joe for me to come when having sex. The women never complained ofc.

So I always told my gfs from the beginning that it takes longer for me - but in the last 2-3 years this became a "sometimes I don't finish, this is not your fault then, I just wanted to tell you up front".

And I don't want this. This is not how I imagine my sex life at all. It's just hard to resist this urge to fap. Even though I know it's worth it. And I want it do it for her, to be honest.

>>724047986
It's a common misconception that /nofap/ gives you some sort of superpowers, but what it really gives you is time, time to fix those other things, time that must be spent wisely.

It's not a be all end all for life, but the start of it.

>>724048103
Read the article my boy. "A few times a week" sounds like addiction to me, and if you say you aren't addicted then why are you on this thread?

>>724048142
Good luck. Just remember that porn is worst than fapping by a large margin, but to ensure a quicker reset I'd recommend noporn nosex (if your loved one is up for it), and nofapping mode for 90 days or so.

>>724048151
takes me 5 min to fap man, still plenty of time to fix things

>>724048368
Thanks man, I really want to overcome this.
Maybe I start by deleting my 250gigs of porn. I deleted already 250gigs last week, dunno, as a 'start' I guess.

>>724048061
Living rooms are generally out in the open area of the house. We are assuming you live with your parents.

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>>724046639
>There's no beating it

>>724049372

nope. single bedroom apartment.

by myself.


forever alone.

>>724046639
why not fap to no porn then
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>>724047235
I almost envy you. I'm the other extreme, I cum so quickly it's insane. No fap would just make ti even worse (I only jack off a couple times a week max anyway) I'd rather have it your way

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>>724046639
I don't even jerk off in my bedroom anyway

oh and why I don't do nofap? because I'm hedonistic, so I do what I want.

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I will not fap unless its finishing on a black girls back from now on. good luck /b/ros

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>>724047986
About the same here. I was jittery and a bit anxious after like two weeks. Actually I was less confident than before.

>>724049886
I know that I have a very rare condition with this, and that the opposite is much more often the case (like you experience it), but I have to say the same - I really envy guys that cum in like a few minutes / seconds, I really wish I could just switch. I think that it must be much easier to hold back the orgasm, than to work for it that much. Even the tiniest distraction on my way to climax can bring me off, and have to work back again.

It's just sad when you can not come, AGAIN. And on long terms, this becomes frustrating for the woman, too. Also, quickies are really out of the picture (at least when the goal is, that the man finishes).

>>724047986
I have nocturnal emissions if I don't jerk off every few days.

I don't know how you guys could keep from having them...

>>724046639
One question... how do you avoid all the porn threads on /b/?

>>724050457
>I think that it must be much easier to hold back the orgasm
because you're on the other side of the fence.

lol for premature ejaculators, it's the absolute lack of control. one tiny distraction may prevent you from coming, whereas one tiny movement (when you're nearing climax) could easily set them off.

funny enough, premature ejaculation is much more common because it has been reinforced by it's most obvious evolutionary advantage. quick mating. lasting longer has only been a recent development in human history, due to a number of variables, one of which probably being the weight of the woman's desires against the man's becoming more substantial over the years.

but either way, don't feel bad. blame your ancestors.

>>724050685
don't go on /b/. how is that hard to understand?

or just start looking at trap threads to quell your boner, until it starts having the opposite effect.

>>724051046
Oh, like that is possible. /b/ is the only place where I am accepted for the social reject I am.

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>>724050685
A V O I D / B /
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Seriously, it's mostly horny high school guys here. There are other boards for wacky hijinks.

>>724051217
it sounds more like /b/ is the only place you accept.

lol the internet is so vast you couldn't possibly visit every site within a lifetime. /b/ is not the only thing on the internet.

>>724050916
It's interesting to hear from the 'other side', for me it's really hard to imagine that.

it's just, I can't really find anything that helps me with this situation. I have google a few times, how to overcome this. But I can't really find any threads where guys don't come, or take really long. The only things I can find are for guys who are circumsized on how to get more sensitivity to the tip with creams and stuff, but I'm not circumsized and my tip actually is really sensitive. So I think, I really have to cut masturbating (at least on this frequency) to have any chance to change something.

>>724051231
newfag can't triforce

>>724046639
I fap a lot, i don't need porn to do it... can't stop..

>>724046639
Ok help me out then
I am self diagnosed with hypersexuality
Anything and everything gets me horny easily
I usually masturbate 3-7 times a day

It's effecting my life lot
I am lazy, and always tired
I think of things sexually plenty of times
I can't study and it makes me procrastinate
I have tried so many things but it seems to be a habit I can't shake off (no pun intended )

>>724050685
Stop being gay and you should be ok

>>724046639
I have a girlfriend.

>>724051315
Easy for you to say. You probably like Windows 10 and whatever games you guys play in 2017. Meanwhile I am pretty much alone with my obsession with getting a high end rig to play Elder Scrolls Arena.

>>724051584
But I like being a gaymer! I can't help it, it is what I am!

>>724046639
Implying we have gaming rooms, dining rooms, sex rooms and personal storage rooms separately from the bedroom.

>>724051833
We... we don't?

>>724046639
How come I fap like twice a month and I'm still broken inside?

>>724051680
>high end rig to play Elder Scrolls Arena.

you can play that on a 98. what the fuck are you talking about.

>>724047235
Have doctors rebuild the foreskin that priest bit off. That'll fix you right up.

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>>724046639
first rule of good movies = fight club wasnt one of them

>>724051954
i fap twice as much per day, I'm educated, been in hetero relationships with thin above average attractivness women since adulthood life, i work out and practice a martial art...

Something else boke you /b/ro

>>724052075
I know, but I can experience it better on a GTX Titan 7700k.

>>724052100
Says the guy who probably love harry potter and Twilight

>>724051420
newforce can't trifag

>>724048151
u deserve a cookie for this reply, 10/10

>>724052251
actually i'm an old fag and the edge factor meant nothing to me since i was an adult. and dont have kids and not a pedo so dont know shit about potter.

>>724052186
I have a feeling you haven't really tried playing any old-school games on your newer machines... because they don't make them look any better. typically it comes with more bugs and you gotta revert your computer with compatibility mode most times anyways, reducing color schemes and resolutions to the point that your high end cards are more hindrance than help

>>724052089
I'm not circumsized at all, that's (sadly) not where this is coming from.

>>724052414
He might be in Elder Scrolls Arena. I will ask the locals for you.

I fap maybe once or twice a week and going a couple weeks without isn't uncommon. I havent had sex since Dec 2014 because I can't get it up and if I do I rarely cum so sexual conquest is all but absent in my daily thoughts.

Fat aspie so my prospects are slim to begin with. If you're trying to do the same stick with it, makes edging a lot more pleasurable and rewarding.

>>724052499
Yes, but you get to livestream them. You can't do that in a weak rig or one from 98.

>>724052648
I'm sure you get tons of hits livestreaming Arena...

>>724052769
I generally don't get anyone in my chat. Still, I like the potential that at any moment I can get famous for trying to defeat Jagar Tharn.

>>724050457
Sounds to me like you're gay. Try fapping to gay porn or fucking bussy instead and see how long you last.

>>724052985
I can promise you I'm 100% into women, there is no way I could even get hard watching gay porn

>>724047235
10/10?
pics or didn't happen

>>724053096
I'm getting hard to you talking about gay porn... does that make me gay?

>>724052155
>and practice a martial art...
HAHA you almost got me, nice one /b/ro

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>>724046639
Don't use fight club to push your retarded cult.

Been there, done that. Nofap is a stupid cult
>It turns out (OMG) masturbation is healthy

why is 4chan so full of faggots? i think they should all be killed/deported

>>724047967
Same here, /b/ro.

I fap everyday and work for a fortune 500 company. So suck my fish smelling dick.

>>724053421
Yeah...I agree
starting with you

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Is true that if a dont masturbate my testosterone will go up?

>>724047235
Dont wear condoms idiots
I have no problem cummin inside my gf raw pussy

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>2017
>falling for the nofap meme

>>724053175
yeah, 10/10, and I'm not showing her off, too recognizable by her tattoos, some of her friends are lurking here, too. not gonna risk this relationship for you guys, sorry

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>>724053549
found the faggot!

>>724053557
Short term - goes up
long term - goes down

>asking on 4chan for truth
>12 yo anon kys

>>724053670
I don't. I get a floppy with condoms within 2-3 minutes. Still, the problem persists.

>>724053770
fuckin' block everything out but her face then if you're worried about tattoo recognition

>>724053096
Have a couple drinks and try that again.

>>724053421
Why do you hang out at a place full of faggots?

>>724053964
go die in a fire, faggot

>>724053394
well on th other hand not masturbating for like a month isnt unhealthy either.

>>724054047
because they disgust me and its fun to spread hatred towards them.

>>724053557
eat zinc supps. 90% of males have too low zinc levels, which lead to ~25% of the testosterone levels. So, just by getting your zinc levels up, you can get much higher testosterone levels.

>>724053884
because you think her friends won't recognize her by her face smarty?

>>724053964
i could get shitfaced beyond believe and I wouldn't be able to do anything gay-related. Plus, I don't drink for about 6 years now.

>>724054048
>TRIGGERED

>>724054169
Grats on the no drinking, but something is wrong, and it's probably your latent homosexuality.

>>724054127
Way to go, turn that self loathing outward to the world.

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>>724054478
nothing is triggered except the mutation in your brain causing you to find men attractive sexually. did you get touched by your dad/brother as a kid?

>>724054478
Thanks, had to quit it for my therapy (anxiety disorder) 6yrs ago, and just kept it that way, and never missed anything to be honest. I do have non-alcoholic beers for the taste on occasions, that's about it.

I'd rather put my money on my way-above-average masturbation frequency and porn consumption than any surpressed gay tendencies. I am a very sexually open person, I've done a lot of things and considered even more, but gay stuff just isn't my thing. I have always been into women, and always will be, men just do not attract me at all, and I could never suck a dick, or kiss a bearded face or something.

>>724049372
I fap in the living room and in my bedroom. And I still live with my parents.

>>724054901
>literally can't stop being triggered

>>724054941
Oh well, I tried.

>>724055219
lel
maybe you'll get the AIDS someday. god-willing

>>724055321
Thanks, I appreciate any sincere help here, even thinking outside of the box.

>>724055356
Is summer early 'round here?

>>724055565
>outside of the box

oh I get it

>>724055815
its nice in summer. i like to go to the pool. haha

>>724055116
i only fap in the kitchen and in my parents bedroom when they sleep.

>>724046639
I tried multiple times but Inguess that I'm just to weak. You know what, I'm gonna start again

>>724054047
I want to believe that /b/ isn't taken over by mentally ill

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>>724056801
You better beliebe it

It can't be done. I can go 2 days at the most. Its like my penis and my hand have like magnets in them. If I am semi-alone they just happen to come together and one thing leads to another next thing you know I am watching videos of girls shitting in diapers.

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>>724056017
pool's closed

>>724046639
I did a /nospank/ last month. I went an entire month without being spanked.

I've been fapping nearly every day since I was about 12-13 and sometimes as hard as you've mentioned. I've been married for 6 months. And very rarely do I have difficulty busting a nut. And if I do, I usually don't have my head in the game. And in terms of porn, I started fapping before I had fap material. So about 97% of the time that I fap, there's no porn used.

Then again we're all different. Different strokes and all (no pun intended).

I've been fapping since I was in the crib

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>>724051371
I'm in the same boat as you anon in that I can't cum from oral, vaginal or anal sex under most circumstances, but can cum from my hand to pornography easily enough. It's almost like I have little sensation in my penis (constantly have to ask of it's in, even during anal etc) but I masturbate pretty gently with most of my foreskin up so I'm not even sure if that's the cause. I have found a few tricks tho to get me cum if I get bored.

1) Do you have a special breathing pattern when masturbating? I tend to hold my breath a lot and minimize noise, - programmed behaviour from when I was a teenager trying to hide my fapping from my parents. Matching this breathing pattern helps me cum.

2) Do you tense your muscles in any specific way when wanking? For me it's the legs. By mimicing this during sex, especially if I'm stood up tensing my quads during oral, I can cum with semi-frequent consistency.

Btw I'm a /fit/ fag with steroid-enhanced libido and optimum nutritional health -- it's definately my porn/masturbation habits that have caused this.

>>724057684
I get what you are saying. I don't know, maybe it's something physical actually.

What I experienced though, 3-4 months ago I had a relapse with my anxiety disorder, and I was so focused on that, it took my whole energy and time, I didn't fap for about 4-5 days, didn't even think about it. Then, when I felt a bit better, and it came to my mind again, I was done in about 30 seconds and had one of the best orgasms in my whole life. It felt like it went through my whole body, not like the usual 4-5 dick-spasms and done. I also jizzed a lot more and farther, the cum usually merely drops out of my dick when I fap. So this situation alone makes me think that npfap should really be my way to go here.

>>724058000
>checked

So nice to hear from someone with the same problems.

1) I'm not really sure regarding breathing, I never observed myself that way really. But yes, I'm not really the 'loud' guy I have to say. May this matches.

2) 100% the same, my legs are always really stiff, I noticed this a while ago. This is also why I could not come standing up, if I can't stiffen up my legs, I can hardly come. This is why reverse / cowgirl are the positions, where my chances to come are the highest.

I also hit the gym every 2 days, pretty muscular and fit and healthy.

>>724050543
I'm in the same boat as you,
I had tried that do a 9 day no fap.
And on the 8th night I had my first wet dream since I was probably 12.
Btw I'm 19 now

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>>724057828

Yah, a common misconception even inside the NoFap community is that porn = masturbation.

Our primary problem is porn. Looking at it when you first wake up on your day off, looking it at as soon as you get home after work...for hours often. It warps the hell out of your mind.

Masturbation is a lesser ill.

>>724046639
What if you don't masturbate to porn but like your math homework? Is it okay then?

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>>724048368

> Just remember that porn is worst than fapping by a large margin

this should be shouted from the rooftops

friends I have that developed the habit of 'just squeezing one out' quick often without any porn and those of us that porn became...well sort of a hobby for (browsing/collecting finding more) have very different levels of sexual health. We are all either 30 or turning 30 soon, and I'm totally convinced porn is the problem.

>>724058718

See, now that's understandable. And it's because of what you said, that I've learned to remove looking at porn from my mind by doing the the things that matter to me, like listening to music, playing some vidya or spending time with my wife. I wouldn't call what I have an addiction, but I feel that there'd be no loss if I stopped looking at it or thinking about looking at it. Hell, I don't think I even spend more than 15 mins looking at it before I get bored these days.

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>>724046639
>dont bother trolling
Hello gentlemen! Say, have any of you bought the fallout 4 season pass? I hear it's got the best dlc pack of the year!

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>>724059760
>>dont bother trolling
Why yes Random Individual, I have in fact bought the season pass and i must say it was a great game!

>>724059930
I ran out of Todd© images

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>>724059369
no porn = no aging past 29?

I'd need one of them chastity belts to do no fap

>>724060372
give it to your girlfriend then break up with her

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>>724046639
>there's no beating it

>>724060423
I don't have a GF
I'm a gay, also no BF

>>724049569
This guy

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>>724046639
You know I never hear success stories from these threads, I never hear, I quit masturbating, and it was the key to me becoming a millionaire.

A relationship only alters my dreams while I sleep and little else, except I cook better when I'm cooking for two, I'll jerk off if I feel like jerking off.

>>724046639
Chill. I think the no fap is what's wrong with you, bud

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>there's no beating it
There, we disagree

>>724060698
To elaborate more, masturbation does not leave me content with my life, I can stay hungry without it.

If you wanna really give up and be content the easy way, do drugs.

>>724053557
I'm highly aggressive and I fap ALL the time. I either need to fap WHILE fapping or start taking estrogen supplements.

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>>724047967
Dude is Living in His Parents Basement and doesnt know that if you have your own place, you are alone in every room of the flat.
i used to jerk off on the toilet when i lived at my parents. But now i can fap freely with all doors in my flat open in front of my PC (which stands in the living room).

>faggot

>>724061127
I'm naked 24/7 I take open door shits AND I fap in the living room!
My parents are PISSED!