I stopped being a chicken tendie eating fat fuck with good boy points.
I lost 100 pounds. Went from 297 to 197.
Now I have no idea what to do with my life next. I'm in shape.
Now what.
>>723831301
you can finally bend down and stab yourself. Congratulations!
>>723831301
Get to fucking
>>723831301
Get a job fool
>>723831301
Lol I was on the road there lost 30 pounds and then said fuck it when winter hit I gained 15-20
>>723831301
kys.
Losing 100 pounds didn't make you happy so now you think getting a gf/wife/kids will make you happy but it won't.
Maybe instead you decide to focus on your career, you buckle down and study, get that degree and the nice job and start kissing ass to make decent money, but that won't make you happy.
Maybe your shitty apartment is what's making you sad so you work hard to buy a nice house in the burbs, but that won't make you happy.
Nothing will make you happy so why try.
>>723831394
how
>>723831301
>Now what?
Check these dubs, faggot.
>>723831640
nihilist detected
>>723831703
Just a fucking realist. I was fat, poor, single and miserable.
Now I'm skinny, rich, married and miserable.
Changing those things won't make you happy. It comes from within so either be happy with yourself or kill yourself if you cant.
>>723831640
So what will make me happy? Your don't know me.
>>723831866
im happy with myself. I just completely changed my life around.
I got off psych meds, I stopped drinking, I lost 100 pounds, I live on my own and am self sufficient.
At the same time, I lack a lot of social and common sense things, so if exposure therapy is what I need, then I'll look for it.
I'm happy, but I just never really had a real job or a relationship.
I'm perfectly happy having a 1BR apartment downtown, making $15 an hour, but I'm wondering WHAT IF there is more to life then this.
If I can do it why not?
>>723831866
Or you could stop being a little bitch?
>>723832137
>>723831657
Go to the park and ask the first guy you see "is that package for me?" and bring him home and put you dick inside of him.
Wait, you're gay right?
>>723832270
>>723831998
If you don't know what will make you happy, you are fucked.
You can change everything that the rest of the world tells you is wrong with you, your weight, your education, your employment or your relationship status, but if you aren't happy now, none of those things changing will make you happy.
I got myself skinny but it doesn't make me happy but I have to keep working at it now.
I got a good paying job but it doesn't make me happy and now I can't quit because I have a family to support.
I was lonely so I found a wife and got married thinking that would make me happy, but it doesn't and now I'm stuck supporting someone else.
Work towards making yourself happy and not "improving yourself" that shit is for show and won't make you happy.
>>723832444
Losing weight made me happy
Now that I've lost the weight, I feel like a relationship would make me happy.
I've fucked 16 girls. The casual sex was fun, but I've never had a relationship.
Maybe I'll love it, maybe I'll hate it, but you never know unless you try right?
>>723831301
>I lost 100 pounds. Went from 297 to 197.
>Now I have no idea what to do with my life next. I'm in shape.
Nigger what?
I'm 193lbs after a few years of semi regularly going to the gym and I look mediocre, what qualifies as "in shape" to you?
>>723832587
Well, my BMI went from morbidly obese pre-hypertension pre-diabetic to normal.
So I guess going from a size 46 to a size 32?
>>723832444
Trips of truth
>>723832586
Have fun with that. Make sure to get a mortgage, a 9 - 5 job, a white picket fence, 2.3 kids, a dog and a drinking problem. One of those are bound to be the thing that will make you happy won't it?
>>723832765
There's no need to be bitter because you don't find the same enjoyment from common things that most people do.
The things that make you happy are no more valid than the things that make other people happy, regardless of how common they are.
OP's in the right, he's doing what makes him happy. It'd be a shame if he was deluded because society told him it'd make him happy, but I don't think that's the case here.
Self-improvement is a very personal thing, in my opinion, and doesn't hinge on society's views as much as you think it does.
>>723833037
OP here
Thank you.
>>723833037
Op got fit and the first thing he does is come to /b/ to ask "Now what" If you have to ask the next step in getting happy, you aren't doing it for yourself, you are doing it because you think it will make you happy.
If you have to ask others what will make you happy or follow a societal temple of success to find happiness, it won't happen so might as well get off the fucking train and try something else.