Problem: For porn and girlfriends i can get a boner no problem.

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you're self conscious. need to bet comfortable being naked around strangers

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>>723830946

how do i do this? I have no problem getting naked around girls or my friends. I am fine with my body but when things get sexual i get nervous...though i am confident enough. probably private school to blame for this

>>723830402
I've fucked girls before, n after I got to talkin to em I realized I didn't really like em. then threyd come back later die more cock and even tho they look good my dick didn't care.

>>723831179
alcohol helps, being secure enough with yourself is one thing, you are comfortable with your body what makes you self conscious is somewhere deep in the back of your head you're worried about what she's thinking, its not uncommon we all look to impress at some time or another

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>>723831454

true. when i get boozed up or like hangout with them for a while it is better. I am a little worried about whiskey dick though. I think i was always taught pre mature sex was bad and that was the cause of me being nervous for one night stands. I think it is less about body or dick size and more about mentally being comfortable with the girl

>>723830402
Thats your fail safe valve. Your body knows nothing good will come of it, so it shuts down.

>>723831791

funny story

i lost my virginity to some skanky girl. it took me like 4 hours to get a boner. after i fucked her i ended up getting mrsa from her nasty UTI cooter

>>723831765
it makes a huge difference, matter of fact I considered banging a heffer once just cause she was so cool, like her awesomeness made her attractive, also she wasn't like a sloppy kinda fat so that contributed

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>>723832127

i think if i was able to just spend like a day hanging out with them and just laying down with them to " go to bed" then i could easily sport a bone and get it on. It is just so weird when i show up at their house and like ten minutes later their clothes are off.

>>723831967
most girls would have walked away after like 40 minutes. That should have been the second indication it was a mistake.

>>723832312
exactly, I had a booty call that would only come around after midnight, she would get ahold of me like an hour or two before she planned on coming in, (escaping her bf for half hour or so) so its like the pressure was on to preform n that never helped the situation. like always being rushed and then the pressure to preform made it tough sometimes, so I would get a Lil tipsy before she came over n that helped tremendously

>>723832561

since then i have fucked 5 girls and went pretty far with many others. Same thing with the winky happened for a lot of them I have confidence, looks, and humor which i think helps. Also, i shoot below my standards

>>723832642

ill have to try that out. Now that i think of it i have had better luck when i can find that sweet spot with booze

>>723830402
ALways had this issue, it's all mental but really hard to anticipate

Cheated on my wife with a few gals and he first time was always shrivel and nervs

I'll go to the Thai massage parlour once a month to practice overcoming nerves as I like to be hard when they come in the room.. most times I'm soft as hell until they start massaging and then he awakes much to their delight

A good tactic is to have the girl tell you why she likes your cock, girls that have said that I'm bigger or better in bed than their husband, bf or ex will ensure diamonds each time

>>723833600

i'll try that out. Would going to those "massage parlors" where they give happy ends help with that? Just get me used to doing something " bad" or comfortable with strangers?

>>723833229
before I started boozing, always felt like the sec would be better if she had time to kick it for a bit smoke one n let the sex just happen, being rushed or being expected to preform at the drop off a hat never really had the greatest results

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>>723833978

I feel you. it is like a pop quiz

>>723830402
when your girlfriend is so ugly i get why you dont get a boner

>>723830402
Ever try trazadone? Doc prescribed it for insomnia, but it just gives me a raging hard on instead.

>>723835255

my gf isnt ugly. nor is your mother. nor any of the girls i have been with :)

>>723835500

no never heard of it. Is it prescribed only?

>>723835770
Yes. It used to be prescribed for depression, but now it's used as a sleep aid apparently

Stop Fucking ugly bitches.