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Hi fem anon here, i need advice on how to help my partner with

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Hi fem anon here, i need advice on how to help my partner with his porn addiction (no im not being a prude or a bitch its a real problem) for the past 3 years we have been struggling with it, he has been addicted for even longer since he was a kid (12-13) he is 22 now, i love him with all my heart & i know i can at least get some advice from you guys since ive seen other posts about porn addiction. He also was molested & possibly raped (hes very private & wont tell me) help please & no i wont post my tits or ass. Thanks in advance
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>>723770119
0/8 try harder m8
>sage
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Seriously.

This is the best bait you Got?
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>>723770281
What are u rating? I dont use this website much to be honest
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>>723770986
Bait? How is asking for advice on how to help my husband with his addiction bait?
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>>723770986
How is this bait? Im not asking for dick pics or anything im asking for advice on how to help someone i love, i didnt even know porn addiction was a thing before him & hes been so careful in hiding it until i caught him a 1 1/2 weeks ago
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>>723771108
>>723771259
Bump,so I can give you a lil advice sweet pea
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>>723771890
Bump?
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>>723771002
>>723771108
seriously the worst fucking bait I've ever seen, it's like I'm watching a 6 year old trying shakespeare
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Make him start watching Varg.
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>>723771108
>>723771259
Alright, here we go. I'm waiting anyways so I'll take your bait, ho boy.

First off, you don't talk like us. When you sit in a community long enough, you tend to pick up their speech, understand the terms used and get what how people get across their points. You don't sound like on of us at all. Which begs the question, why ask us here when you could have asked reddit?
>bait point 1

Then you come in here, toting that your a femanon. Breaking the first rule of /b/. Then you further tote, "no I won't post my tits nor ass". That screams bait. And before you try and give me a half assed tit pic, we need a Timestamp with it. Otherwise it's clearly bait beyond all measure.
>that's bait point 2, the bait of a thousand baits

Then you claim you've seen posts here about porn addiction. I Have never seen such things. Which means you lie, ergo
>bait point 3

Anyways ill desperately await your response with, BAITED, breath!
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>>723772388
>metabait
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>>723772388
>my anecdote differs from your anecdote so you must be lying
Wew lad
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>>723772913
Everything else still stands. And again, it's a biat post, why should I care?
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>>723772388
I dont sound like you guys because i dont spend every day and every hour on here, ive been on this site a hand full of times and there has been threads about porn addiction im not sure if this is the same board though, i have never been on reddit.. & id have to mention im a female sooner or later lol so why couldnt i state it in the original post?
I didnt think you guys were so paranoid with all this bait stuff
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>>723773004
>F A K E A N D G A Y
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>>723773004
>I dont sound like you guys because i dont spend every day and every hour on here
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>>723770119
Rules are rules, no tits with timestamp means no help snowflake.
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>>723773004
I got me a wiggly worm.

It being on a different board is a fair point. I'll give you that.

>I would have to mention it sooner or later?
Not really. In fact not at all, just say your partner has a jerk off addiction and then boom, Everyone can talk about having a crippling addiction to porn, instead you try and garner attention using ye old classic "I'm a grill, and no I won't show tits", which gathers autists from all over the board.

But again, it can be solved with tits and a Timestamp.

>didn't know you guys wre paranoid

Describe your problem further, because we all know it's bait. How do you even fucking know he has a jerk off addiction.

>you thought I would forget
>>723772100

This is beyond bait, it's a simple mechanic of 4chan, and even if you were in here a few times you would understand it. Come on babe, even as a kid I understood it.
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>>723773678
>>723773004

Whoops I forgot a picture
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>>723773004
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>>723773428
>>723773660
Fine, now will you help me?
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>>723773004
Don't try to make him have sex instead of porn, just tell him that some guy on the Internet said that when you get the urge to look at porn, just close the Internet and do something else. I'm a long time porn addict. Nothing helps except putting the Internet down when you get horny.
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>>723770119
Tits and timestamp or gtfo
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>>723774181

lol we goin fishin boys with all this bait.
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>>723774181
I told Ya twice, we need a Timestamp!

You can't ignore it mate
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No im not going to whore myself for advice at all, theres tons of girls who are willing to so why do i have to show my tits? The fact that i dont speak or understand a lot of what you guys say only means i dont spend much time on here, i dont need this boards help youre all immature little kids who just want to get off to a tit or a vagina pic. Thanks for nothing dudes.
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>>723774181

jesus, ignoring the no timestamp, that picture is incrediably low res. they dont make phones that take pictures like that anymor. try harder faggot

>sage
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>>723774181
The tit pics isnt my post btw but nice try anon
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>>723774408
And thus, OP, ego bruised and broken, leaves the thread in shame.
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>>723774408

dont come back faggot then ya normie
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>>723774408
So you're better than "tons of girls"? Kek fuck off bitch.
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>>723774499
Are you stupid? Only a girl could post a picture like that thinking it would fool you.
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>>723774585
Shame? I was asking for advice on something i thought some of you had an insight on only one person actually gave advice & the rest want tit pics? Yeah i totally want to stick around here
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>>723774585
This is the most reddit fucking post I've ever seen.
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>>723774408
Also if I may.

>why my tits, when there is tons elsewhere.
Pic related.

>I'm not working myself out for advice
Like I give a fuck. You came here, like the idiot you are, instead of going to a therapist or a counsellor.

But bait harder, I'm sure you can change our minds that this is all real.
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>>723774186
Thank you for giving me an actual response anon!
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>>723774408
>tons of girls

So what you're saying is you're fat
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>>723774821
Post a picture of your feminine foot and a middle finger and everyone will believe you and feel stupid
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>>723775117
Nah I ain't doing shit for this faggot now unless it's full body nude with timestamp.
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>>723775117
>feminine foot.

Traps exist
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>>723774914
Because everyone can afford to go to a therapist/counselor
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>>723775286
Shut up nigger it's called greasing the wheels
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>>723775293
Even better ;)
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>>723774186
>Falling for the bait
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>>723775117
Even if i did that these kids would still think im "baiting" them lol im just going to let this thread die
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>>723775393
Then you can afford to show tits with a Timestamp.

I mean it's free it it? The only thing you lose is your ego, then you'll get tons of advice!


Or are you gonna keep wriggling and try to get out of this?
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>>723770119
Ninja deliver soft porn on his youtube account, try ifrits.
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>>723775502
How does one use advice for porn addiction as bait? Like what am i going to do? Masturbate to it or some shit? I dont get the logic at all, now if i was asking for personal info or photos or some other shit id get it but advice??
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>>723775502
>Not pretending everything is real

You're gonna have a hard time here buster
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>>723770119
show us yer tiddies
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>>723775694
So i can have photos of myself on the internet? No thanks.
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>>723775598
Then grab a sharpie and write Feb 27 on your foot
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>>723775969
It is, a pair of tits. One pair of tits, not connected to your face. No identifying marks.

Just tits and Timestamp.

Like you said OP, there's ton of girls on the Internet, your tits will be lost in a sea of them.

And it's free OP. But you won't do it because your a baiting lil worm, who will keep wriggling around
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There's a whole board dedicated to advice, you know. Don't come to the faggots on /b. Go to the faggots on /adv
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>>723775969
Your face won't be shown in the photo, and there's no way it'll be tracked back to you
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>>723770119
Bitch
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>>723775762
>asking /b/ for advice
>not recognizing bait
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Op is kill
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>>723776928
Did you really need to bump the thread?
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>>723775396
Nah rather not give faggot Op the time of day.
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>>723776041
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>>723777080
That's a guys foot, kek.

Tits OP, quit trying to deceive us.
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>>723777207
This.
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>>723777207
With long hair you retard?
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Eh okay well im done, let this thread die.
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>>723777080
Looks real

Hmmm
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>>723777303
>barely any hair
>not considering that guys can have long hair too
>not considering a wig

Tits with Timestamp is proof. Everything else is horseshit.
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>>723770119
First off, you could've just told us about your boyfriend, you gender isn't really pertinent.
Secondly, was he diagnosed by a professional or did you decide he was addicted on your own?
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>>723777080
I CAN'T FUCKING TELL
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>>723777536
And thin hairless legs? What fucking guy has a wig? Is it a guy with long hair and hairless legs? Do those even exist? The only guys with long hair are metal heads
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>>723777801
Just post a timestamped set of tits jfc. You dont have to put your face on it
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>>723777572
He confessed to me a couple months after we started dating (we tried to have sex but he couldnt get it up blamed it on how he masturbated a lot & had a hard grip when he did) found loads of porn saved on his computer (i mean a lot) noticed he was more moody & id catch him jerking off after hed say he was too tired to have sex, crashed his car 2 years ago & about 1 month ago he told me it was because he was watching porn theres so much more that has happened but thats all i can say for now
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>>723777980
I'm not OP you smelly nigger
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>>723777080
It's so hard to tell, we need a female foot specialist
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I have a scar on my chest from when he ripped his phone away from me after i caught him (didnt care about the porn the fact that he could lie right at my face hurt the most) i wanted to talk about it but he freaked and clawed my chest i wont post something like that when he uses this website daily.
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>>723778142
>Crashed his car watching porn

What an asshole
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>>723777801
>>723777801
I can't see leg. Beyond that, bait mister, you could have easier shaved it last second, or be relatively hairless.

>guys who own wigs

Guys with wig fethishes and or theatre/drama guys.

Again, quit skirting round the issue. It's tits and a Timestamp or nothing at all.
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>>723778142
Huh, well if he is an actual addict, you should get him some actual help.
Asking people here will only get you so far.
Personally I've never felt compelled to watch porn on a regular basis, it's just something I do from time to time.
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>>723778595
I'm not OP you damn fool. What a fucking dogshit radar you have. Please spend some more time here.
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>>723778597
He doesnt want help, he says hes embarrassed and its money thrown away, i dont know how to help him at all, i had no idea that porn could even be addictive, i have no way of helping him if i have no knowledge of this type of addiction
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>>723778597
>>723777572

>Falling for that bait.
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>>723779001
Then your a white knight faggot aren't you? Who's a widdle protector of da innocent.... You are! Yes you are!
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>>723778539
Do a closeup of your shirt and bra strap, I'm almost positive you're a girl
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>>723779023
Meh, waking up 2 hours before I actually needed to get up and finding something to talk about is really all I was up to.
Yeah this thread screams bait, but at least it seems new.
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>>723779158
Please control yourself. I'm disgustingly misogynistic. I just happen to think that isn't a picture of a man, you cancer ridden retard. What an embarrassment, your mother should have aborted you.
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>>723777801
Traps
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>>723779239
Yeah, suppose it's a nice change of pace.
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>>723779351
I did not think of that. Good point
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>>723770119
tits or gtfo.
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>>723779351
You think there's a fucking sexy trap making this thread but not a girl? Are you mentally ill?
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>>723779158
Kek
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>>723779342
A www does poor whittle Anon not like being talwked down too?...

Is poor whittle Anon gonna cry? You gonna cry Anon? Or are you a big boy!
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>>723779476
No, but traps are. Who knows what kind of weird shit they're gonna do.
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>>723779509
You're absolute shit at this.
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Yeah just let this thread die. Ill figure it out thanks to the ones with actual responses
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>>723779476
Also who said it was a sexy trap? You haven't seen him yet.
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>>723779662
Awww it's okay baby. I won't pick on you if you just get off of the interwebs and go to bed.
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>>723779002
Go look it up in psychology and medical journals.
You're bound to find better information there than here, here for some reason, people believe you lose some sort of magical male powers if you masturbate.
>>723779361
Well I would say the pace hasn't really changed, but the track is new.
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>>723779705
Finally done baiting eh? What you get bored?
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There's only one answer
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>>723779777
You're absolutely furious.
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>>723779911
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>>723779976
Furious about my trips maybe.
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>>723779977
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>>723779813
Ive tried to but none speak of childhood trama that leads to this & how to help cope and how to help get rid of this or at least make him do it moderately, tbh i would not care if he jerked off 2 or 3x a week but he does this multiple times a day at work at home & the lies, deceptions, the fights etc i dont want to leave him, i just dont know how to help.
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>>723780162
>>723780056
>>723779977
>>723779911
fug em
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>>723780029
You were about to smash your computer in rage, weren't you?
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>>723770119
Sounds like ur the problem bitch.
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>>723779890
God fuck off already, youre so worried about getting "baited" yet you keep replying waiting for tit pics how desperate are you?
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>>723780162
this is legitimately my area of expertise

until I see a timestamp with those tits, though, I'm not working for free
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>>723780162
You could start helping him by tits and timestamp.
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>>723780301
I was mostly bored. Long story short I was in a game with long as turns, so I had some free time on my hands.

I had fun, but the games iver now. I'm out.
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>>723780499
This is fucking cringe inducing. Nobody asked for your life story.
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>>723780162
Are you sure that childhood trauma is the thing that triggered this?
How sure are you that he went through something as bad as that and not just some bullying or something?
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>>723780651
Stay triggered nigger
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>>723780754
Guess we'll never know cuz I don't see no tits with timestamp.
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OP, as a guy who has struggled with porn addiction and has a girlfriend, the best thing you can do is to tell him you love and support him and want to help him get better. If you're up to it offer to take pictures or videos of yourself doing things to get him off porn, and try and set a limit on how often he can jack off then gradually decrease it. It won't happen unless he wants it to, though.
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>>723780754
His cousin was his abuser, found pretty fucked up things in a usb drive after i moved in with him & was cleaning out a few boxes he had in the attic that belonged to his cousin. A lot of child porn & photos of my husband when he was a child. He said the bboxes hadent been touched since the guy died 5 years ago. & when i asked him of he knew whos usb it was he didnt recognize it he doesnt know ive seen these things
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OP, as a guy who has struggled with porn addiction and has a girlfriend, the best thing you can do is stop being a selfish cunt and think you need to change everyone because you're a female. Now fuck off.
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>>723781185
Tried that, nudes, videos sexy lingerie etc he says he want to stop but he doesnt know how since hes been jerking off to porn since he was a 12 year old
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>>723781412
just fyi you are legally required to hand any CP you come across to the authorities immediately. not doing so is a crime and comes with a jail sentence.
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>>723781102
>Gets told he's a faggot
>"You're just triggered"

Haha
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>>723781412
Does he show any indications of remembering it though?
Also have you considered that his porn use is a safe way for him to be sexual without someone potentially taking advantage of him?
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>>723781642
I wont put him through that, his family especially his mom loved his cousin, everyone saw the guy as a wonderful harmless dude, they think so highly of him even now. I would never destroy a family like that unless he wanted to confess to them himself
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>>723781812
no judgement fam, just letting you know that you've posted admission of a serious crime on a public forum.

good thing the government doesn't log any of our traffic eh?
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>>723781652
You asked how desperate I am, I explained myself in short

You got mad.

Stay mad.
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For everyone who fell for the bait. I'm disapointed in you.

Your the reason 4chan is dead.
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>>723781720
He has nightmares some nights, other days hes just very moody and when he gets drunk he cries but just wont talk about it, ive thought of that but its not healthy at all for him to be so deeply addicted to it if it were in moderation i wouldnt care at all but daily multiple times a day, his coworkers complain hes always in the bathroom for long periods of time
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>>723782048
I still dont understand how this post was bait, what am i trying to get according to you?
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>>723782126
Well I wasn't saying just to leave him be as he is. It was more of understanding him sort of thing.
You should get him to a therapist, if not about the porn addiction, then about the childhood trauma.
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>>723781412
Don't build up such a big case about his abuse. I wasn't abused and I masturbate three times a day to horribly fucked up shit, including animal torture. I've had girlfriends whose lives have been massively impacted negatively by my addiction. Porn is technology driven. Everybody has a device in their pocket that can be used to look at anything and everything they've ever dreamed of sexually. This is new. Our fathers didn't have this, even our older friends didn't have this growing up. We simply aren't equipped with the tools to defend ourselves against this barrage of fantastic, and I do mean fantastic, porn. Tell him to bite the bullet and set the phone down. He'll feel a horrible sensation in the pit of his stomach, like a heroin user staring at a needle full of the good stuff. That's the feeling you have to allow happen in order to get off of it. He might fail over and over again, but it only takes one domino to topple the rest.
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>>723781973
I wasn't the person who asked, kek.
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>>723777080
this is also a female foot, looks kinda similar
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